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CHAPTER THREE
ROSEANNE : DOMESTIC GODDESS AS HETEROSOCIAL HEROINE?
Given the extent to which gay men and straight women do bond and affiliate
through a diverse range of cultural discourses despite the resistance any such
relation must encounter, because of the extent to which both gay male identities
and heterosexual women’s identities are circumscribed through homosocial
mechanisms, it would seem that these relationships may illuminate both the
faultlines within the homosocial matrix and important structural negotiations of
homosocial entrapment. I refer to these negotiations as heterosocial relationships.
We have already seen some of the blockages such relationships need to negotiate
in the writing of the ‘theoretical fag-hags’ in Attitude.
There have been some other striking representations of heterosocial affiliation
recently. The Hollywood films My Best Friend’s Wedding and The Object of My Affection
have respectively been significant star vehicles for Julia Roberts and Jennifer
Aniston (the latter still struggling to establish herself as a big screen star beyond
her enormous popularity in the US sitcom Friends). Each film represents
heterosexual romance as inherently problematic for its central, female, character.
For both women intense, but confused relationships with gay men are seen as the
space through which the intolerable paradoxes of heterosexuality can be resolved.
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When marriage eludes (and fails) Julia Roberts’ character in My Best Friend’s Wedding
all she has left is her dashing gay male side kick, played with career-redefining
bravura by Rupert Everett. The Object of My Affection represents Aniston’s character
falling in love with a gay male stranger who gives her unsolicited support in the
face of straight male beastliness. Both films almost seem to take it as axiomatic that
heterosexual men are to a greater or lesser degree unworkable for women, and
that they will inevitably have greater emotional, intellectual, and sexual synergy
with gay men. Both films, however, are relatively incoherent in their attempts to
make sense of the repercussions for wider social and sexual relations that such a
synergy may precipitate. The Opposite of Sex is less reverential about relations
between fags and hags, relishing in the wickedness of the Christina Ricci character,
and asks trickier questions before capitulating into a cosy resolution. Similar
heterosocially intriguing representations have been offered in the US sitcom Will
and Grace and the UK sitcom Gimme Gimme Gimme, both of which depict domestic
‘romances’ of fag and hag co-habitation. Roseanne predates all of these
heterosocially promising texts. However, I have chosen to focus on it here, because
as I shall go on to show, it offers representations not only from the point of view
of a heterosexual woman, but understood to be a product of that woman’s
perspective. More interesting still, unlike My Best Friend’s Wedding or The Object of My
Affection, Roseanne situates heterosocial bonds in wider contexts of heterosexual
marriage, domestic nuclearity and patriarchal networks, and over a relatively long
narrative period.
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Straight women and gay men are positioned in radically different, if symmetrical,
spaces within matrices of power. Women are generally disempowered in relation to
gender identities organised through capitalist patriarchies, being subject to men’s
superior power in relation to the family, economic systems, and institutions of the
state. Gay men are generally understood to be disempowered in relation to sexual
identities organised through patriarchal heterosexuality, and are therefore
acknowledged to be economically and institutionally powerful as men, and socially
and institutionally oppressed as perverts. Theories of homosociality have provided
us with an alternative framework for conceptualising gay men’s oppression and
the proximity of such experiences to those of women within systems of gender
power. As I have suggested, conceptualising gay men as sexual outlaws and
transgressive perverts may re-empower us erotically, but underestimates both the
extent to which our identities express negotiations of gender, and how far our
oppression is the result not just of sexual marginalisation, but of organisational
functionality within homosocial patriarchy. In other words, the homosocial narrative
portrays gay men as perverse in such unpleasant and unspeakable ways that our
very connotation forecloses the possibility of male-male bonds becoming so
infatuated as to displace the erotic subjection and control of women. To put it
another way, gay men’s sexual perversion is functionally reproduced within gender
systems. Furthermore, the adherence to political and cultural agendas which see
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gay men as only erotic or perverse subjects makes it hard to fashion relationships
across the structures in which our identities operate.
Subcultural affiliation and strength may be the precondition of any enlightened or
grounded cultural or political activity by gay men, but queerness figures variously
and in many places within structures of power: to remain located and active in gay
subculture alone not only forecloses the complexity of our identities and
experiences, but leaves us potentially complicit with regimes of power other than
the heterosexual. Metropolitan gay subculture may express our erotic
marginalisation and resultant political and cultural empowerment, but many of us
in that enclave are middle-class, or white, or able-bodied, or men, or antibody
negative, many of us don’t have children, many of us are well paid and
institutionally or corporately powerful. Certainly the conceptualisation of gay
subculture as the shared experience of sexual perversity privileges gay male
experience, and at the very least compromises strategic visions of lesbian and gay
male affiliation.1 So, the complexity of our identities as gay men - internally, and in
terms of how gayness is manifested across a terrain of other contexts, necessitates
our constant mediation between micro and macro subcultural engagement.
Heterosexual women may make ‘positive’ or refreshing representations of gay men,
as gay men may make similarly helpful representations of women. But what kind
of manoeuvres are involved in staking a powerful and empowering claim to your
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own representation, from a position of oppression, and offering helpful
representations of other identities implicated in the systems of that oppression?
This is the question we pose by attempting to assess the opportunity for
heterosocial bonding in work authored by women, or by gay men. How can gay
men make a claim for self-authority without instating themselves within homosocial
regimes which subject women? How can straight women manifest privilege
without invoking their heterosexuality in such a way as to re-demonise and
disempower queers? This chapter considers dissident affiliations made from a
position of heterosexual womanhood; the next one assess similar affiliations made
by a gay man.
An illuminating illustration of this problematic dynamic appears in the form of the
American sitcom Roseanne, which was first aired on ABC in 1988. The series enjoyed
enormous popularity in America: the season which ended in the later part of 1995
generated the fourth highest advertising rates on the ABC network, after the Super
Bowl, the Academy Awards and Home Improvement.2 The popularity of the show,
along with Roseanne’s own transgressive behaviour, has made her a darling of the
tabloid and sensationalist press, such as The National Enquirer. However, latterly
Roseanne and Roseanne became popular and celebrated with self-consciously
credible and intellectually precocious audiences. In Britain Roseanne was scheduled
on Channel Four in the context of late night ‘quality’ situation comedies and upmarket alternative cabaret. In the press, Roseanne was celebrated as a serious and
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troubled artist: the watershed moment being a substantial and gritty piece by John
Lahr in The New Yorker, but earlier profiles in Vanity Fair and then in Spin gave
Roseanne middle-class intellectual credibility.3 This graduation from being
interesting because of the vicissitudes of her personal life, to being considered a
serious artist can be attributed to a perception of Roseanne as a political vehicle for
social commentary:
...in these puritanical, politically correct times, nothing is more
welcome than a voice that pierces dull notions of what should be
with barbs of what is. Roseanne has made history by tackling
everything from marital ennui, to ‘maternal ambivalence,’ to
poverty, menstruation, homophobia, and mental illness in a
medium that once reflected only the most sanitized versions of
American family life.4
If there is one issue for which Roseanne has been vilified by her critics and adored
by her fans it is the representation of homosexuality in her series. In February 1996,
in a special issue on the up-coming Presidential primaries, America’s Out magazine
put Roseanne on the cover with the caption: ‘Primary Special: Dole, Clinton & the
rest: Their positions on our issues. Our choice? ROSEANNE FOR PREZ! For Gay Marriage,
Lesbian Kisses & Real-World Feminism’.5 The same magazine named her an
honorary gay person the year before,6 whilst she was named Person of the year in
January 1995 by The Advocate, for whom Peter Galvin writes:
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Gays and lesbians have been waiting a long time for someone like
Roseanne to come along. Blasting stereotypes, flouting
convention, transcending ignorance, the star’s landmark sitcom,
Roseanne, is that rare network television program that dares to
treat homosexuality as nonchalantly and inconsequentially as
heterosexuality...She is a rare person who, perhaps because of her
own differences with the mainstream, identifies with the struggles
of gays and lesbians completely.7
This sentiment is shared by Tim Allis of Out, when he says:
[Roseanne’s] gay characters were eye-opening - not because they
were played as heroes, but because they were just as cranky and
dysfunctional as everybody else in the manners-free Conner
household.8
It is clear that Roseanne is perceived by these voices of American gay subculture as
enacting a bonding with them through the representation she makes of gay
characters in Roseanne. Roseanne herself confirms the affiliation: in Out magazine,
Sue Carswell notes that Roseanne has promised that before Roseanne is finished for
good, one of the series’ co-stars, ‘a character we never would have presumed to be
queer, will be revealed as gay or lesbian’; Roseanne is quoted as saying, ‘It’s a real
shocker, and I’m doing it for all you kids out there.’9 It is clear that Roseanne is
understood to make a feminist appropriation of the domestic sitcom; it is also clear
that the show is understood within the queer subculture to be making helpful
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lesbian and gay representations. What I want to do here is to assess the extent to
which Roseanne successfully enables the opportunity for heterosocial bonding, and
determine the terms in which such a relationship negotiates larger structures of
homosociality.
Roseanne and Political Credibility
It isn’t difficult to see why gay men might love Roseanne; aside from the explicit
visibility and humour Roseanne has offered in its representation of homosexuality,
there are many features of the star’s public persona that resonate with gay male
subcultural practices around female star icons. The very cradle of Roseanne’s
popularity, her eponymous sitcom, turns many conventional understandings about
representing family life on its head. Even though the Conner family appears
structurally normative and nuclear: mum, dad, three children living together, sister
and mother living in extended familial proximity, they are firmly placed in the
working-class: specifically the Conners are what the series flags self-referentially as
‘white trash’.10 Becky, the eldest child, is married, and for the penultimate season
lived at home with her husband; Darlene is at college by the time of the strong
queer presence in the programme, but her boyfriend David lives with Roseanne
and Dan, rather than with his abusive mother, who Roseanne Conner accused of
‘giving respectable white trash a bad name’. This family is also meaningful in
dramatic terms as conflicted and dysfunctional, not especially or pathologically, but
routinely and necessarily. This dysfunction is normalised in two ways: it is either
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located in the structures in which family life exists, or is attributable to the
rebellious disposition of particular characters. Most often, both strategies co-exist;
for example, the character of Jackie, Roseanne Conner’s sister, is portrayed as
somewhat hysterical and as promiscuous and unable to commit herself to long
term relationships. These character attributes are rendered endearingly as
transgressive but confused and eccentric, and as the behaviours of a woman
damaged by an abusive father and by badly behaved boyfriends: crucially each is
presented as the attempt to heal, to improve herself and make herself more selfsufficient and less dependent on the affirmation of abusive men. The progression
of these narratives necessarily involves the representation of conflict, and it is in
this that Roseanne really achieves its distinctiveness. Its comedy arises out of the
dead-pan ironic engagement of the characters with a series of conflicts not rooted
in trivial domestic misunderstandings and sight-gags, but in economic pressures,
gender disputes, power struggles and other naturalistic oppressive conditions. As
John Lahr puts it:
Roseanne’s neurotic TV family was the first one to put America in
contact with something resembling real life in the working-class
world - a place where children are difficult, parents have real
emotional and financial problems, and there’s a discrepancy
between what American society promises and what it delivers.11
The question of Roseanne’s authorship of Roseanne is complex, but it is an
important one if we are to make a claim for the programme’s heterosocial value on
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the basis of Roseanne Barr/Pentland/Arnold/Thomas’s manipulation of her
feminism, her heterosexuality and her commitment to queer affiliation.
In her autobiography, My Lives, Roseanne details her move from stand-up comic to
being cast in her own show through a multitude of struggles with ABC, the
television network which commissioned it, and Carsey-Werner the production
company which owned Matt Williams’ original concept, and which produced the
original series.12 By the time of the 1995 season Roseanne was produced by
Roseanne’s own company, Full Moon & High Tide, with a contract for four more
seasons with the network, and she has been executive producer of the show for
the last four years, two of them jointly with her ex-husband, Tom Arnold. Lahr’s
substantial and considered portrait of the star pays considerable attention to the
power struggles Roseanne has won to wrest control of Roseanne from CarseyWerner, Matt Williams and the writing teams originally in place. Firing people is one
of the principle constituents of Roseanne mythology, and like the speculations that
Roseanne doesn’t write the series (and her furious refusal of these claims), such
material is principally valuable in the extent to which audiences find that
mythology meaningful. Lahr’s comment, after much prevarication, is:
In any case, the argument about creative ownership of the show is
academic: Roseanne owns the mill and the charisma. And she
treats the writers as extensions of herself.13
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Whatever the complex and mediated reality of Roseanne’s authorship, and of her
circumscription in the context of American network television, she seems to be able
to muster enough performative authority to make her claims for ownership
convincing. A celebratory interview in Entertainment Weekly opens: ‘You’ve got to
understand the ground rules: Roseanne is Roseanne’s show, and Roseanne rules’ the
piece continues, ‘By the way, do you understand that Roseanne calls the shots? Just
in case you don’t, she says something like this: ‘There’s no room for anybody but
me anywhere in the f---in’ world.’’14
Whatever the intricacies and constantly shifting conditions of the corporate
environment, this bombastic, no-nonsense, and brazenly powerful Roseanne is the
one which sells magazines and propels Roseanne to such high ratings success. Given
the popularity of Roseanne, and the attendantly high advertising revenue it
generates, Roseanne herself occupies a relatively powerful position within the
complex of media corporations in which she works. From this position of
complicity, of being embedded in powerful structures, Roseanne is perceived as
being resistant and challenging. Peter Galvin suggests that:
although her vision of a ‘politic of humanity’ as she calls it, has
sometimes been clouded by the ever-present - and occasionally
self-created - media sensationalism surrounding her personal life,
her commitment to exposing hypocrisy and fostering tolerance
has never wavered.15
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Roseanne herself makes characteristically modest claims for her politics:
ENTERTAINMENT WEEKLY: Roseanne has
made greater strides for
including homosexuality as a part of life that any other show on
television.
ROSEANNE: We’re the
only ones, too.
EW: Well, now
we see it on other sitcoms.
ROSEANNE: But
they all do it badly. And I know, because I’m a
homosexual! I just like the message of humanity for everybody. I
know everything on Roseanne’s revolutionary. And I know that
people aren’t gonna get half of it for 50 years.
EW: Can
you get in trouble for anything anymore?
ROSEANNE: Oh, they
let me do everythin’ now and it’s no fun. I’m
pretty bored. I’ve covered all the bases.16
Clearly one of the ‘bases’ covered by Roseanne is homosexuality: that is one of the
major ‘issues’ that the series is associated with.
One of the things that makes Roseanne’s treatment of political issues distinctive is
that at its best the show does not seem to shy away from implicating its principal,
and highly identifiable, characters in unflattering or ideologically damning ways.
Perhaps the most powerful example of this is an episode from the 1994 season
which Roseanne herself has called ‘the best show we’ve ever done.’17 The storyline
concerns Roseanne and Dan Conner’s son DJ not wanting to kiss Geena, a girl in
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the school play, because she is black. From here the plot progresses to Roseanne
Conner accusing her husband of fostering racism in her children, to Dan seeking
exoneration from his black friend, Chuck, who then challenges Dan’s assumptions,
to Roseanne being confronted by DJ’s teacher as a racist parent, to finally being
confronted by the girl’s father, Mr. Williams. This final scene of the narrative is
characteristic and representative of the treatment given to the whole episode. In it
Roseanne Conner and her sister Jackie are cashing up a busy late night shift at the
diner they jointly own. A black man appears at the door asking to be admitted.
Roseanne refuses, turning the sign on the door to indicate that they are closed.
After the man slams his hands against the door and storms off, Roseanne and
Jackie agree that the incident was ‘scary’, and when he appears at the door again,
Jackie reacts by shoving the cash draw back into the till, and the women panic until
the man identifies himself as Geena Williams’ father. Roseanne lets him in, asking
him why he didn’t just tell her who he was. Mr. Williams replies by asking her if she
needs to know who all her customers are before she lets them into her restaurant.
Roseanne defends herself by suggesting that for two women working late at night,
safety is a priority. Jackie intercedes, attempting to placate the situation, but she
inflames it further with anxious liberalism, by suggesting that Roseanne didn’t
refuse him entry because he is ‘African-American’, but because he’s a man.
Roseanne follows through with one of the show’s standard comic lines about how
she hates all men equally: the line receives the only laugh of the scene from the
studio audience, and from the soundtrack it is clear that it’s an anxious, relieved
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sound, rather than the fulsome and ecstatic response usually audibly forthcoming
in response to one of Roseanne’s trademark deadpan statements. Roseanne Conner
then makes the conflict explicit: she says that late at night, with their safety at
stake, women alone must act on their instincts to protect themselves. Williams
replies that he guesses that her son inherited Roseanne’s instincts, before angrily
leaving the restaurant. There is a moment of awkward stillness in the women,
before Jackie attempts to comfort Roseanne: she suggests that Williams
overreacted, and that most people would have behaved exactly as Roseanne had.
As Jackie walks off, the tension behind her, Roseanne contemplates her sister’s
words and says, ‘Well isn’t that great?’, her delivery uncomfortable, and her tone
ironic. The credits then roll over an unrelated and unreservedly comic scene in
which neither Roseanne nor Dan are present.
What stands out about the scene with Mr. Williams is not only its specificity and the
explicit nature of its conflict, but the direction and delivery, which for a comedy
show is unflinchingly dramatic and disquieting, stretching its generic conventions
seemingly beyond breaking until comedy is restored and there is a delivery from
the tension in the over-credit sequence, which is particularly funny, but also
innocuous. Mick Bowes offers an indication of the distinctiveness of this lack of
resolution:
the most characteristic feature of the ‘classic’ situation comedy is
narrative closure. In other words, each story is resolved within the
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30 minutes of the programme. In addition this closure is generally
circular - it returns the characters to the positions they occupied at
the start, thus allowing the next week’s programme to start afresh.
This circular narrative closure allows little room for progression...18
Leaving the principal and eponymous character of Roseanne compromised and
morally unsure about her behaviour at the end of the narrative is a fairly powerful
statement. The fact that this disquiet arises out of a recognition that Roseanne’s
behaviour is typical, that she clearly thinks she reacted in a racist manner, and that
most people - that is, most of us - would have reacted in the same way, leaves the
challenge, the culpability, not only with Roseanne Conner herself, but with a white
audience generally. The impression given by the episode is that racism is a subtle
and pervasive part of attitudinal responses, even concerned and anxious ones, and
that this is a serious issue worthy of sober reflection. At the end of the narrative,
completion is withheld and our principal sources of identification remain
uncomfortable and implicated, their unwitting and self-identified racism refusing a
cosy restabilising of domestic and ideological harmony and furthermore left to
pervade and inform future narratives and our perception of our favourite
characters. The narrative processing of the ‘issue’ of racism, and the presence in the
ensemble of the black characters of Chuck, Geena and Mr. Williams, do not function
to illustrate the further coolness and daring of the Conner household: they are not
reassuringly integrated into the deadpan dissent that we gleefully anticipate from
Roseanne and her family. In this narrative race functions precisely to fracture the
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angrily comic, and often cosily including, experience of oppression we share with
the Conners by identifying them as white, culpable and sufficiently institutionally
interior to actually be in a position to oppress others who might be more excluded
than they are.
Roseanne and Homosociality: The Queer Challenge
It isn’t difficult to see why such an ironic, conflictual and woman-centred
representation of family life as Roseanne usually offers might be popular with a
constituency whose identities are constantly being reproduced in homophobic
culture as antithetical to the concerns of the family, even though we are all
products and members of families in complex symbolic and emotional
relationships. Roseanne herself has very publicly spoken out about her own abuse
by her parents and how this produced self-loathing behaviour in relation to her
body image; again there are resonances here for identities historically associated
with images of sickness and physical deformity.19 Principally, however, it seems that
it is the mythology around her control and power as a woman that has the most
allure for Roseanne’s queer constituency, and an indication of the extent of the
belief in this mythology is the unquestioning way in which lesbian and gay
journalists unmediatedly attribute the apparent gay-friendliness of Roseanne to its
star. Out magazine has called this authority from a woman like Roseanne ‘real world
feminism’.20 Roseanne herself has suggested that she dislikes the label ‘feminist’
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and prefers the title ‘killer bitch’, and she has been called, quite fabulously, a
‘Goddess of Retribution’.21 This ambiguity in relation to questions of feminism is
complex: on the one hand in interviews and public statements Roseanne enacts a
scathing, class-based attack on academic feminism and on so-called feminist
Hollywood actresses like Meryl Streep and Jodie Foster, on the other hand she
employs male writers on Roseanne because women have apparently learned how to
ventriloquise men too effectively and are less able to produce empowering
dialogue for women than men are.22 Yet whatever the vicissitudes of Roseanne’s
strategic performance of her feminism, her vocalised commitment to some kind of
pro-women politics appears unequivocal: ‘Everything I do is from a commitment to
feminism.’23 It would seem then that there are abundant conditions here for the
proliferation of heterosocial bonding: a powerfully situated and politicised
heterosexual woman directly courting queer constituencies both in her affirmative
personal statements, and in the public work that she is understood to author,
where she offers gay representation apparently unfettered by the ‘unreal’ demands
of positive images and politically correct liberalisation. How effective a basis for
heterosocial bonding are the queer representations Roseanne makes?
There are two long running queer characters resident in the repertory company of
Roseanne, these are Nancy, Roseanne Conner’s friend and co-owner of the diner, and
Leon, her old boss and now another co-owner of the diner, with whom she has
shared a long-running and often hilarious enmity. One key element in both
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characterisations that has been celebrated by the American lesbian and gay press is
that they are ‘just as cranky and dysfunctional as everybody else in the mannersfree Conner household.’24 The most famous and controversial ‘queer’ episode of
Roseanne follows our eponymous heroine and her sister Jackie on a night out with
Nancy and her girlfriend Sharon to a gay bar in the nearby town of Elgin. The
principal tension that organises the narrative of the episode lies in the disparity
between how ‘cool’ Roseanne Conner thinks she is and how cool she is perceived
to be by Nancy and Leon.
The episode opens in the diner, and Roseanne and Jackie are moaning to Nancy
that she hasn’t yet introduced them to her new girlfriend, and they suggest that
Nancy is uncomfortable with their heterosexuality; Roseanne Conner says:
...because you’ve never been able to accept our alternate lifestyle. It
isn’t a choice you know!
Before the discussion can continue, the door opens and Nancy’s girlfriend Sharon
comes in. She is played by the actress and model Mariel Hemmingway. Nancy has
not always been a lesbian in Roseanne and was previously married to Arnie Thomas,
a friend of Dan’s, played by Tom Arnold, Roseanne’s real life husband at the time,
and co-executive producer of the programme. As Sharon sits down at the counter,
Roseanne asks Nancy why it is that when she dates men they look like Arnie, and
when she dates women they look like Sharon. The studio audience pick up the joke
and respond uproariously, acknowledging Mariel Hemmingway’s beauty and the
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bitchy reference to Roseanne’s actual husband. The effect is complex: at an
ideological level the joke seems to reference the stereotypical notion that lesbians
are mannish women, and therefore ‘unattractive’ in heterosexual terms, and
subverts this idea with a mutual recognition of Mariel Hemmingway’s credentials
as a typically heterosexualised blond beauty and the fact that she’s playing a
lesbian role. At an intra-textual level Roseanne’s dry witticism inserts the figure of
her own husband, and Nancy’s fictional ex-husband, into the representational
frame in a direct comparison with Nancy’s current lesbian lover. Arnie/Tom loses
the contest on looks, but then we would expect him to: men are not supposed to
justify their occupation of cultural space on the basis of their appearance - Arnie
was not judged in his worthiness as Nancy’s husband on the basis of his beauty.
The humour is sharp and incisive, but its effect is to render the spectacle of Sharon,
and the lesbianism she represents, as little more than an object for visual
consumption. Clearly this has multiple effects, depending on the audience
constituency we are considering. Roseanne’s deft acknowledgement that lesbians
aren’t supposed to be attractive in conventional feminine terms, and then its
transgression of this expectation with the fetishised display of Sharon shows how
lesbians can be just as beautifully feminine as straight women, women like Mariel
Hemmingway.25 Queer constituencies familiar with lesbian diversity and with the
alluring glamour of lipstick lesbian femmes might well appreciate such a stalling of
homophobic stereotyping. Yet the display of a familiar, heterosexual icon of
feminine beauty, along with the narrative label of ‘lesbian’ has the effect of
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neutralising the cultural impact of lesbianism on ideologies of gender, collapsing
the difference between straight and queer women, even in the most banal physical
and visual ways, and confirming that both can be equally understood as displaying
the markers of heterosexual femininity for men. Nancy was introduced as a lesbian
on Roseanne in a similar fashion when she brought her first girlfriend, Marla, to the
diner and literally presented her to Roseanne and Jackie, and of course, to the
audience. Marla was played by Morgan Fairchild, another iconic manifestation of
blond, big-haired, glamorous heterosexual beauty. Part of the effect is to render
Nancy’s lesbianism as meaningful and rational for a straight audience: of course
she would rather choose to sleep with women when they are as attractive as Mariel
Hemmingway - wouldn’t you? Lesbianism thus becomes an issue of desire, and the
difference between heterosexuality and homosexuality a matter of a simple choice
between desiring women or desiring men. Within this framework, manifestations
of homophobia are a function of the toleration of erotic difference, rather than an
integral part of the constitution of heterosexuality and men’s authority within it.
After Roseanne’s acknowledgement of Sharon’s looks, the two women bond, and
Sharon invites Roseanne and her sister to come dancing with her and Nancy. Nancy
appears uncomfortable with this idea, as does Jackie when she realises that they’ll
be going to a gay bar. At this point Leon comes into the restaurant from the
kitchen, and acknowledges Sharon and Nancy by saying, ‘Hiya fellas.’ Again there is
ambiguity here: Roseanne is clearly displaying an awareness of queer subcultural
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codes, and Leon’s line is camply deadpanned in such a way as to suggest an
immediate sisterly solidarity between him and Sharon and Nancy, that excludes
Roseanne and Jackie, instating a recognition of their shared cultural difference.
Referring to the women, whatever the status of their performance of femininity,
ironically as ‘fellas’ recognises their lesbianism from a fellow position of gender
dissent. Yet at the same time, for an audience not conversant with queer
subcultural vernacular, putting these words into the mouth of the gay male
character scapegoats him as enunciating the mannish lesbian stereotype: an
archetypal heterosexual construction in itself, and an insult only meaningful as
such within a heterosexual context. In this reading, queerness homophobically
victimises itself, leaving the tolerant and comfortable straight folks unassailably
‘cool’. To decisively conclude which meaning the text prefers is difficult, and I think
that it would be a little mean-spirited to suggest that it is the latter reading, in
which the gay male character is the bearer of the homophobia, that Roseanne
ultimately favours; its intentions are ideologically honourable. Nevertheless the
script does embody the ambiguity, unwittingly privileging heterosexuality. The
scene ends with Leon approaching Roseanne and telling her that the evening in
prospect should prove to be quite entertaining. When she asks why, he replies that
‘a gay bar is like a size twelve dress: you just won’t fit in.’ The treatment of
homosexuality here suggests a sincere attempt not only to represent, but speak to,
a queer subcultural constituency: it is unclear, however, what kind of
homosexuality is being spoken in the name of Roseanne’s daring and political
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sophistication, let alone how queer constituencies are to interpret such ambiguity
in the context of the mainstream, mass appeal of a top rated network sitcom.
The next scene opens at home with David, Darlene’s boyfriend and the Conner’s
unofficially adopted son, and his brother Mark, who is Becky’s husband, sat
together on the sofa, sparring as to which is the more successfully masculine. There
is a complex history of interactions that informs this sibling rivalry. The character of
Darlene Conner, played by Sara Gilbert, is a tomboy, and has been widely
subculturally interpreted as a lesbian: she’s never been interested in boys that
much, she went through a long period of depression during which her tastes and
demeanour became quite gothic. For years she was only seen to wear black, she’s
always been politically outspoken and independent, she’s a militant vegetarian and
once staged an action outside the family’s loose meat restaurant, she’s interested in
science fiction and writes comic books with her boyfriend. One of the main ways in
which Darlene’s relationship with David has been comically meaningful
throughout its history on Roseanne has been in how it transgresses our traditional
expectations of the representation of power relations in heterosexual teenage
romance. As an expression of Roseanne’s pro-feminism, Darlene has always been
shown to be the more powerful and less dependent one in the relationship, whilst
David has been shown to be passive, emotional and artistic. On the other hand,
Darlene’s sister Becky has always been shown to be much more traditionally
feminine and girlie, always being interested in boys, mortally depressed if she
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didn’t have a boyfriend, and eventually so committed to her relationship with Mark
that she dropped out of school and a successful academic career to elope with him
at the age of seventeen. Mark has been similarly shown to be suspicious of any
emotional expression, and as Roseanne once remarked of him, he has a ‘dangerous,
sexual thing going on.’ For Dan and Roseanne, Mark has always been a threat to
their daughter’s sexuality, whilst David has been so lacking in sexual threat that he
can be moved into the house to live with Darlene when they are both still sixteen.
We could say that the relationship between Darlene and David is a feminist
representation in that it shows that women needn’t remain embedded in
subordinated positions in relation to men in heterosexual relationships. To some
extent, in Darlene and David, Roseanne is taking the patriarchal stereotype of the
shrewish wife and hen-pecked husband so beloved of much television situation
comedy and turning it inside-out by showing that women needn’t be stridently
and unsympathetically represented as scapegoats to be empowered, and men in
relationships with empowered women needn’t be continuously and impotently
chafing against the shackles of shrewishness. In relation to Darlene and Mrs.
Conner David is a sympathetically drawn and viable characterisation: adorably
malleable, expressive and funny, unthreatening and sensitive about women’s
issues without being condescending. It is in relation to the male characters in
Roseanne that David’s characterisation becomes more problematic. In an earlier
episode Mark has referred to David as an ‘art femme’. In the present scene with
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David and Mark sat on the couch, Mark grunts derisively and accuses his brother of
being ‘pathetic’ because Darlene bosses him around and he does her laundry:
rather than exchanging his girlfriend homosocially for masculine credibility, David
is, quite literally, serving her. David makes a lame denial of the accusation of
castration, but within the framework Mark embodies, a framework authorised and
validated by the dominance of homosocial structures and the absent but towering
masculinity of their symbolic father, Dan Conner, he cannot answer the insult
because it is true: David is an inadequate male in homosocial terms. The interaction
reproduces the homosocial matrix so completely and authentically that the
character of David has little option but to attempt to regain ground within it: the
narrative cohesion of Roseanne demands that David’s heterosexuality remain
textually plausible.
Mark’s wife Becky has taken a job at a local restaurant, and her uniform consists of
an extremely brief cropped top and a miniscule pair of hot pants, with the
restaurant’s name, Bunz, stitched across the buttocks. Becky comes home from
work, in her uniform, just after Mark has conjured the inadequacy of David’s
homosocial credentials. After she’s greeted her husband and gone upstairs to
change, David apes Mark’s derisive grunt and says that he wouldn’t let his wife go
out dressed in the Bunz uniform, because ‘it gives other guys ideas’. Mark sneers in
reply and with a knowing leer tells David that he can keep Becky satisfied. The
remark at once conjurs Mark’s sexual potency, and challenges David’s: a man who
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cannot ‘satisfy’ his woman cannot guarantee that she is his to display and
exchange. David shifts uncomfortably and defensively replies that he can keep
Darlene satisfied. At that moment Darlene passes through the room angrily
shouting at David for not having used fabric softener in her washing. Here
Roseanne is itself exchanging Darlene and her washing in a confirmation of the
homosocial network, using her dissatisfaction with David (and he can’t even do her
laundry, let alone keep her happy sexually) in the same way as it uses Becky’s
lasciviously displayed rump: to validate the masculinity of Mark, and feminise
David.
Because of his modestly political refusal to exchange women, or actively display his
masculine credentials, David signifies queerly in relation to both Mark and Dan - it
could be argued that David functions as the third queer regular on Roseanne in
spite, or indeed, because, of his relationship with Darlene, and his relative inability
to function homosocially within it. Other episodes of Roseanne have addressed
Dan’s discomfort at David’s overt displays of emotion: in one memorable example
when Darlene had broken up with him, David bursts into tears at regular intervals,
whilst Dan blunders around, bereft of any homosocial script with which to conduct
his interaction with his adopted son. The effect is to illuminate how far outside Mr.
Conner’s ambit of masculinity David is. Another Roseanne dealt with the problem of
DJ getting bullied at school and his inability to fight off his attackers; Dan is unable
to teach the thirteen year old to fight, who, to his father’s exasperation, chooses to
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cry or curl up on the floor in a ball when confronted. DJ eventually overcomes this
‘problem’ by beating up David, an elder but more ineffectual foe, much to the
amusement of Mark, and the embarrassment of Dan, to say nothing of David’s
humiliation. What seems crucial about this episode is that all the male characters,
even the thirteen year old DJ find common ground which isolates and ‘queers’
David: even a child can function within homosocial bonds more successfully than
David.
We might suggest that if Roseanne was more fully committed to being pro-queer
David’s lack of masculine credentials wouldn’t end up isolating and punishing him
within the narrative framework, but Roseanne Conner’s heterosexuality enforces a
relationship between David and her husband. Ultimately the need to situate David
heterosexually (that is, within the homosocial matrix that Dan emanates)
compromises Roseanne’s heterosocial potential by making him the repository of
homosocial anxiety the show so carefully shields and transfers away from its selfconsciously out and labelled queer characters. We may conclude that here Roseanne
is effectively collusive with a metropolitan liberal circulation of homosexuality; this
issue will be discussed in greater detail in the next chapter, in relation to Pedro
Almodóvar. Homosexuality circulates through the text in such a way as to reassure
the participants and the audience how cool and trendy they are: homosexuality is
continually conjured in enlightened and frank ways, but continually re-framed
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within structures of heterosexuality and homosociality that representationally
reproduce the conditions of our oppression and powerlessness.
This scene of David’s homosocial humiliation within the infamous ‘lesbian kiss’
episode of Roseanne reaches its climax when Dean Bates arrives at the door. David
lets him in, announcing to both the audience and his brother Mark, that Dean, who
is a jock-type football player, once dated Becky. In an aside between the brothers,
David tells Mark that Dean is much better looking: his purpose is to threaten Mark
by conjuring Dean’s apparently superior homosocial credentials, but the strategy
backfires, and Mark replies, ‘Why don’t you go and give him a big kiss?’ Here David
becomes the corporeal embodiment of the double bind inherent within the
homosocial system: ‘For a man to be a man’s man is separated only by an invisible,
carefully blurred, always-already-crossed line from being ‘interested in men.’’26
David’s already disempowered position enables Mark to exert definitional leverage
upon his brother’s remarks, drawing on a commonly understood rhetoric of
homosexual panic to effortlessly repel David’s homosocial challenge and re-write it
as an erotic interest. The scenario may be humorous, but the effects are
unfortunate in the light of Roseanne’s apparent queer friendliness. Even if we were
to reject the notion of David’s nominal queerness, the effect of his homosocial
exclusion is to constitute a powerfully interior and cohesive masculinity within the
textual confines of Roseanne, a masculinity signifying sufficiently aggressively - and
hegemonically - as to be able to exert definitional control upon gender behaviour.
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David’s failure and Mark’s success at deploying their masculinity are brought into
visibility by the text through the connotation of a demonised and inexplicitly
unpleasant homosexual outside that is meaningful only in the extent to which
Roseanne upholds a homophobic consensus. David may remain nominally
understood within the text as a heterosexual characterisation, but his
indeterminate performance of this in relation to other men is used to luridly
constitute a homosocial system of homophobia which goes spectacularly
unchallenged by the show’s non-homosocially powerful female figures, such as
Darlene or Roseanne Conner herself.
Indeed, as the scene with Mark, David and Dean Bates continues, we see that
Darlene’s autonomous feminism can actually function to collude in David’s
homophobic exclusion. It transpires that Dean has arrived at the house to give
Darlene a lift back to school: this prompts an argument because Becky resents
Darlene using her old boyfriends to get rides. Mark challenges Becky, asking her
why she cares if she’s now married to him, and Becky flounces out of the room.
Dean is loading the car, and David gloats to Darlene about Mark’s jealousy. Darlene
is at the door, about to leave, and she agrees with David, but says: ‘Yeah, Becky’s
not the one who’s going to have to think of some way to pay Dean back for the
ride. See ya, David.’ Here Darlene’s refusal to cosset David’s masculinity seems to be
less about her need for autonomy, than it is about her collusion with David’s
homosocial abjection: not only can he not trade on his relationship with Darlene to
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inflate his masculine credibility in public exchanges with men, but in private,
Darlene refuses to indulge his insecurities and indeed exploits them under the
gaze of the audience so that the scene may end with a laugh.
The next scene opens at Lips, the gay bar in Elgin, with the arrival of Roseanne and
her entourage. Several comic exchanges illuminate Roseanne’s progressive intent,
and its ease around a queer subcultural environment. Jackie is still uncomfortable
about being in a gay space, she tells Roseanne that she is uneasy about people
thinking that she’s gay: Roseanne replies that she can think that they are gay right
back at them. Jackie is pregnant, and loudly proclaims, ‘Anybody can see that I’m
conventional.’ A little later, Jackie spots the woman who delivers her mail standing at
the bar. The woman comes over, and Roseanne embraces her sister as if they were
lovers, she says: ‘Now, now, you don’t have to hide our love.’ The woman is pleased
to see Jackie and tells her that she had a feeling about her being a lesbian. As the
woman walks off, Jackie is thrown into confused panic and she asks, ‘Why, what did
I do?’ Later at the bar Roseanne flirts with the woman serving drinks: she
introduces herself, and tells the woman that she is the father of Jackie’s baby. Jackie
angrily shrugs off Roseanne’s show of affection, calling her ‘psychotic’ and reacting
incredulously to her sister’s flirtation with the woman behind the bar. Roseanne
tells her that she is doing what she would do in any bar: scoring free drinks. Here it
seems that the joke is on Jackie and her lack of coolness in the queer environment:
she is comically scapegoated to illustrate Roseanne’s comparative ease and
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familiarity. This is enjoyable stuff for a queer constituency, making the uptight
heterosexual woman alienated and unattractive in the clenched anxiety of her
behaviour, normalising the queer space through her amusing but abnormal
reaction.
The action then moves ahead a little: Roseanne, Nancy and Sharon have been
dancing, Roseanne and Sharon take a break and sit at a table together, and
Roseanne says, ‘Can you believe that Nancy doesn’t think I’m cool enough for this
place?’ Sharon confirms that Roseanne has disproved the slur by teaching forty
people to dance the monkey. Both women agree that they should hang out more
often, and Roseanne suggests that next time they should leave the ‘wives’ at home,
gesturing towards where Jackie is sat at the bar. Sharon’s body language and tone
inflect her reply with a collusive sexual intimacy as she says, ‘you read my mind.’
Roseanne blanks the assumed collusion, registering some confusion that ruptures
her normal dead-pan stubbornness, the only reply she manages is ‘Huh?’ As we are
registering the confusion on Roseanne’s face, the back of Sharon’s head moves into
the shot, and we get a brief glimpse of Roseanne’s widening eyes before Sharon
closes up and we assume that she kisses Roseanne. As Sharon pulls away from the
kiss she hugs Roseanne, whose face we can now see over Sharon’s shoulder.
Roseanne wipes her mouth on Sharon’s sleeve, her face twisted into an expression
of distaste.
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It is interesting to note the account Out magazine offers of this ‘lesbian kiss’:
mainstream America - for a single moment in time - watched a
woman kiss another woman without flinching. The press made it
sensational; Roseanne made it ordinary.27
It would be quite difficult to speculate on the cause of the disparity in accounts
here, but whatever the strategic reason for Carswell’s emphatic applause of the kiss,
her interpretation is extraordinary. Pedantically speaking Carswell is correct,
Roseanne does not flinch away from the kiss we may assume is forthcoming from
Sharon, although it’s more of a connotation of a kiss that the real thing, given that
we only see the back of Sharon’s head moving in front of Roseanne’s, inclining
slightly and resting there for a second or two. Roseanne may not flinch, but wiping
your mouth on somebody’s sleeve with your face screwed up is a fairly substantial
expression of at least ambiguity, if not out and out loathing. What seems clear is
that this display of distaste is only representationally meaningful, and certainly
only comic, in the context of a heterosexual gaze. Roseanne’s disgust at the
homosexual act she has just been involved in is collusively displayed for the
edification of a straight audience: sure, Mariel Hemmingway might be great to look
at, but kissing her makes you into a dyke, and we all know how distasteful that is.
Roseanne refers to this episode as the ‘homophobia show’:
I think homophobia is something everybody has, and on that
night Roseanne Conner dealt with her own homophobia. I don’t
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see it as the big lesbian kiss show, but lesbians do, and I give them
that.28
Implicating the character of Roseanne Conner in homophobic attitudes and
behaviour, as Roseanne implicated her in racism, as we saw earlier, would be a
significant piece of political commentary by the programme, even an instance of
heterosocial affiliation. Clearly we can read the representation Roseanne makes of
Roseanne’s reaction to Sharon’s connotated kiss in this way, in that it displays her
culpability. However, notwithstanding the distinct ways in which race and sexuality
are differently mobilised within structures of power, we could also argue that
Roseanne deals with the two issues quite differently, according the racism
substantially more seriousness.
As we saw earlier in the episode of Roseanne where DJ refused to kiss a girl because
she was black, Roseanne and Dan Conner’s culpability was represented so
unsettlingly as to invite a rupture in the expected generic conventions of the
programme. Roseanne’s racism was not displayed for the comic edification of the
audience, but to challenge us about our own potential complicity with systems of
racism. If Roseanne Conner’s reaction to the ‘lesbian kiss’ is homophobic, then that
homophobia is upheld by the programme itself, as the opportunity for an
audience to identify with her discomfort, and share relieved laughter that the kiss,
and the lesbianism it represents, was not enjoyed. For it seems clear that
Roseanne’s distasteful reaction, displaying homophobia, does not invite a
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challenge to dominant attitudes ventriloquizing liberalism; it does not invite us to
distance ourselves from her politically unacceptable reaction: rather it panders to it,
inviting voyeuristic collusion. You can gaze upon daring and weird queerness, and
share disgust with it at the same time. The studio audience’s reaction to this scene,
embedded in the text on the soundtrack, expresses shocked titillation at the
extraordinariness of the kiss, which is greeted with a loud chorus of ‘oohs’, whilst
Roseanne’s mouth-wiping and grimace, signs of her robust heterosexuality, and of
her homophobia - which the programme is of course supposed to be apparently
condemning, are marked with increasingly raucous and enthusiastic applause and
laughter.
The next day, post-queer trauma, Roseanne offers her sister, and subsequently
Nancy, a number of accounts of her unease. At the diner, we know that something
is amiss because Roseanne is cleaning: Jackie tells her that it’s a shame that Sharon
didn’t ‘slip her the tongue’, because they might have been able to get the place up
to code. Roseanne describes the kiss as the kind that Dan used to give her before
they were married: this makes Dan look unromantic, but in as much as these kinds
of expression are the realm of women, such a remark actually reminds us of the
status of Dan’s masculinity. At first Roseanne denies that she is bothered because
she has been kissed by a woman. She tells Jackie that she is upset for Nancy: she
feels that Nancy will jealously regard the kiss as adulterous. When Nancy arrives at
work, it transpires that she already knows about the kiss and has expressed
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reservations to Sharon about her having done it: she anticipated that Roseanne
would ‘freak out.’ Roseanne denies this, but Nancy speculates that Roseanne
actually enjoyed the kiss and notes that sexuality ‘isn’t all black and white.’
Roseanne replies that she knows all about the grey area, and isn’t bothered by
some tiny percentage of her gayness. Nancy is now angry: she tells Roseanne that
she is a hypocrite and that this is exactly why she was uncomfortable about taking
her to a gay bar in the first place. Roseanne replies:
R: Oh yeah? A hypocrite doesn’t go to a gay bar and teach forty
gay people how to do the monkey!
N: Oh, and we’re supposed to admire you because you went to a
gay bar? I’m supposed to think you’re cool because you have gay
friends?
R: I don’t care if you think I’m cool at all, because I know that I’m
cool, baby. I’m probably the coolest chick you’ve ever met, and for
your information I have friends that are way gayer than you!
Before the argument can continue, the narrative side-steps to a brief scene
between Dan and DJ, which makes an interesting reflection on the ideological
struggle underway at the diner. DJ asks his father whether it is wrong for his
mother to go dancing with other women. Dan’s answer is delivered as a litany, he
says, ‘No, and anybody who tells you otherwise is wrong.’ DJ then asks Dan if he
dances with other men: at first Dan stays within his self-consciously insincere
liberalism and says that he does, immediately retracting: ‘no, never, ever, not once.’
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DJ says that he is glad, because he doesn’t want to dance with men either. As his
son walks away, Dan heaves a sigh of relief, saying ‘hallelujah.’ This scene is played
straightforwardly comically, the laughter arising out of Dan’s well meaning (but
unfelt) attempt at liberal parenting. This humour is a function of an assumed
consensus about maintaining a successful liberal ventriloquism of progressiveness
whilst keeping homosexuality an abject: remaining clear that a son with
homosexual tendencies or curiosity is a bad thing. Such humour seems to be
saying that despite Roseanne’s high queer content, audiences can be assured that
their normative heterosexual world-view will remain intact. Given that this scene
breaks another, larger one, which is debating the limits of heterosexual
progressiveness in challenging ways, the interlude’s effect on potential
heterosocial spectatorship is pretty depressing, using the humour to once again
delineate included and excluded audience constituencies.
Back at the diner Roseanne is still cleaning, so we know her anxieties are
unresolved. Jackie attempts to placate her, ‘It’s not so bad that the kiss freaked you
out, you’re just not as cool as you thought you were.’ But Roseanne isn’t ready to
concede yet: she incinerates her sister, reminding her of how totally uncool she was
at the bar. Roseanne now suggests that she’s upset because Dan will be jealous,
but her delivery of the proposition is becoming less convincing. She reminds Jackie
of how threatened Dan got in high school when another boy kissed her, and how
Dan beat him up. Jackie remembers, and asks Roseanne if she thinks Dan will beat
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up Sharon, because Dan will feel threatened by her. Jackie’s tone here is
incredulous, whilst Roseanne’s confirmation betrays the implausibility of her fear.
Again, the studio audience is having a good time with this: it seems preposterous
that Sharon would have sufficient homosocial credibility to threaten Dan in this
way. As we’ve seen, Sharon is so scopically heterosexual and alluring that she can’t
even elicit the threat conjured by the mannish butch dyke. Jackie finishes her
account of Roseanne’s fear by suggesting that she will end up sleeping with
Sharon. Unseen by the sisters, Nancy has come into the kitchen. Roseanne is the
goddess of retribution: ‘Of course not! I am NOT GAY!’ At this, they turn to Nancy as
she slams out of the kitchen. Roseanne follows her,
R: I just don’t like people calling me things that I’m not, like a
hypocrite, or gay, you know, because I’m not. I wouldn’t like
anybody to call me an astronaut because it’s fine to be an
astronaut, but I’m not an astronaut. I’m not going to admit I was
wrong or anything, but I just don’t wanna fight with you anymore,
so, I was wrong.
N: Thank you.
R: I’m still pretty cool, you know, for a forty year old mother of
three who lives in Lanford, Illinois. I like that Snoopy Dog Dog.
Despite the indeterminacy of Roseanne’s apology (what is she actually apologising
for? is she admitting her homophobia?) Nancy reassures Roseanne that she doesn’t
have to be cool to be her friend. She says that she feels sick every time she pictures
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Roseanne and Dan in bed together, and Roseanne says that she does too. Here,
once again, the idea of Dan and the masculinity he represents, is used to frame the
discussion. The friends are acknowledging Dan’s place within Roseanne’s
heterosexuality, recognising that she is his to homosocially exchange. Indeed,
Roseanne itself is exchanging her in the name of Dan’s masculine credibility at this
point. It doesn’t really matter that he is portrayed unflatteringly: notwithstanding
how secure and invested we know the Conner’s marriage to be, his absence is
structuring, and women don’t necessarily have to like men to be subject to them in
homosocial exchange, nor do men have to please women sexually to acquire them
as homosocial currency.
‘I Now Pronounce You Men’: Queer Marriage and the Domestic Goddess
The other significant episode of Roseanne infamous for its homosexual content
portrays Leon’s gay wedding. As the show opens a man is leaving the diner and
complaining to Roseanne about the food; he’s quite insulting. He leaves a cheque
for the bill and no tip. There in another man sat at the counter. He sympathises
with Roseanne and tells her how he used to work in a restaurant, and that she
shouldn’t have to put up with such bad behaviour. The second man, who we learn
is called Scott, asks for the phone, and uses the details printed on the cheque to
ring the man’s wife. He pretends to be the desk clerk at the Come and Go motel in
Elgin and tells the woman that he has some underwear that she must have left the
last time she stayed.29 The man’s wife obviously doesn’t know what he’s talking
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about, and he says, ‘Oh, you’re not a busty twenty year old blonde? Woops, my
mistake.’ Roseanne is thrilled to have found another queen of retribution, and the
incident bonds them in its delicious maliciousness, as it bonds the audience to this
stranger:
R: Wow! He stiffs me for a tip and you destroy his marriage - that’s
awesome.
S: I thought that you’d enjoy that. You look like you’ve ruined a
few lives in your day.
R: I think I should tell you I’m a married woman. But I’m not a
fanatic about it.
The nature of this bond, its shared currency, is the punishment of an abusive
heterosexual man by invoking a stereotypical homosocial narrative against him.
The errant customer’s identity as a heterosexual man is constituted through a
system that constantly exchanges women, the blonder, bustier and younger they
are the more rigorous the heterosexuality and the more distance he’s able to open
up between himself and the queer abject. The nature of the bond here is all the
more profound for its indexical relationship to the homosocial debility of
Roseanne as a middle-aged brunette who may be busty, but who is also militantly
fat, and of Scott as a gay man. We could describe their relationship as heterosocial.
It transpires that Scott is in town to meet up with the person who he is about to
marry, the person who jilted him at the altar five years ago. Roseanne is defensive
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on behalf of her new heterosocial partner, she asks: ‘What kind of a horrible bitch
would dump you?’ at the exact moment the door opens and Leon walks in.
Roseanne is incredulous that her new buddy could be marrying the subject of her
long-term enmity: ‘even in a small town like this one he is at the very bottom of the
homosexual heap.’ But Leon has the opportunity to return the blow. It transpires
that the couple are having trouble putting their wedding together. Scott suggests
that they ask Roseanne, and Leon replies, ‘No, no, no, no. No. Roseanne is not to be
trusted with anything that involves cake...I’ve always dreamed of a ceremony that
would culminate in a hog-fry.’ But of course, the last line is Roseanne’s: ‘I’ve always
thought of you as the middle-aged, obnoxious gay son that I’ve never had.’ Under
pressure from Scott, Leon finally agrees to let Roseanne plan the ceremony.
The scene is now set at the Conner home, and time has passed. David and Jackie
are helping plan the wedding. Roseanne rings to check the seating plan, and David
tells her (to much studio laughter) that it’s fine: ‘Boy, girl. Boy, boy. Boy, boy. Boy,
boy. And boy.’ Having fetishised this marker of the occasion’s strangeness, we
move on to Jackie, who is checking a brochure of strippers: she doesn’t know
whether to choose Rod, Lance or Shaft. She calls to Dan to help her choose a
stripper and he comes running, only to back off uncomfortably (to much applause)
when he sees the brochure: ‘Those aren’t strippers, they’re guys.’ In Dan’s
experience it is only women who are prepared to consent to offering a display of
their bodies for shared male consumption. He asks Jackie if Roseanne is planning
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Leon’s stag party as well, and she tells him that the strippers are for the wedding.
Dan thinks that Roseanne is going over the top, and Jackie agrees, but neither will
tell her.
Having got some idea of the occasion in prospect, we now move on in time and to
the Lanford Women’s Club, where Leon arrives to meet Roseanne. She takes him
into the hall, which is decorated in a gaudy mix of pink garlands, large inverted
pink triangles bearing the logo ‘Gay Love - Gay Power’, statues of Adonis and of
David adorned with pink ribbon, portraits of Streisand, Bowie, Dietrich and others,
topless beefcake hunks in bow ties, and two drag performers, one impersonating
Judy Garland, the other Liza Minnelli. Leon is somewhat perplexed:
L: What is all this?
R: It’s a gay wedding.
L: This isn’t a wedding, it’s a circus. You have somehow managed
to take every gay stereotype and just roll them up into one
gigantic offensive, Roseanne-iacal bunch of wrong!
R: Relax, nobody gets the wedding they really want...
L: It’s off.
R: What do you mean?
L: I said the wedding is off.
R: Well of course it’s a little off, it’s two guys, for god’s sakes!
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One of the principle virtues of the treatment of the gay wedding in this episode is
that it is complex and raises a number of issues.
Whether or not gay people should be getting married is a vexed question for
lesbians and gay men themselves as much as it is for legislators, right-wing
religious activists, good liberals, and other moral commentators. Fundamentally all
groups see the question in the same way; they are trying to assert some idea about
what queer people in our cultures are for. Are we merely the victims of ignorance,
blighted by an accident of difference which needs greater understanding, equality
and tolerance from those who would seek to oppress us because they do not really
know that we are the same as them, underneath it all? Or, are we already known by
those who would oppress us as fundamental and structuring threats to the fabric
of their identities and power? Are we, or can we, or should we, be good citizens?
We have seen how this question is put by Leo Bersani:
Should a homosexual be a good citizen? It would be difficult to
imagine a less gay-affirmative question at a time when gay men
and lesbians have been strenuously trying to persuade straight
society that they can be good parents, good soldiers, good
priests.30
We are all too familiar with how these issues are debated by heterosexual power
groups: even the apparently super-liberal, gay friendly President Clinton told The
Advocate that he doesn’t believe that gay people should be allowed to marry.31
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More significantly, lesbian and gay writers and activists have themselves expressed
a wide range of investments in this question. The much-feted Andrew Sullivan, exeditor of The New Republic achieves perhaps the most considered and gay (male)
affirmative example of assimilationism in his Virtually Normal; yet however
considered there remains a chronic naiveté at the heart of his position:
[marriage] would also be an unqualified social good for
homosexuals. It provides role models for young gay people, who,
after the exhilaration of coming out, can easily lapse into shortterm relationships...32
Here the enemy scapegoated to bring about gay inclusion seems to be
promiscuity, but however parochial, at least Sullivan is under no illusions about his
position:
Gay marriage is not a radical step; it is a profoundly humanizing,
traditionalizing step. It is the first step in any resolution of the
homosexual question - more important than any other institution,
since it is the most central institution to the nature of the problem,
which is to say, the emotional and sexual bond between one
human being and another... It is ultimately the only reform that
truly matters.33
Such insistent pomposity is precisely a danger inherent within a politics that is
insufficiently heterosocial: with the exception of his antibody status, Sullivan
speaks from the relatively privileged position I spoke of earlier; in particular his
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whiteness and maleness, to say nothing of his corporate authority, education and
money at best make his words hegemonic in their very ignorance, and at worst
traitorous in their solipsism.
In the form of their work as much as in its content, the Homocult collective exhibit
a radical difference from the liberal mewlings of Andrew Sullivan. Homocult’s work
takes the form of graphics, posters, graffiti, flyers and collages in mixed media, that
have been collected in a book, but which are more generally to be found in urban
spaces: the group was founded in Manchester. One montage says: ‘Shame: Rich
Gays play Dead, their language in conserving, stagnating, lingering, death.’ Another
reproduces an image from an advertisement for a national dating agency with the
caption ‘You must marry. Issued by Dept. of Social Order, in conjunction with
Hetrolife Plc.’34 For Homocult being a homosexual is not about becoming a good
citizen; their ‘ultimate plan’ is ‘the destruction of the ‘moral’ state.’ The homosexual
politics of the Stonewall Group in Britain, and the queer politics of Outrage are an
anathema: ‘Now the stonewall group formed from our blood police our language,
needs and lives. Outrage is a cosy sham. You can only be outraged by what
surprises you. It’s no surprise to common queers that there is no justice for us. We
are not outraged, we are defiant.’35
Roseanne’s treatment of Leon and Scott’s gay wedding could potentially tap into
this range of ideas that diverse and complex communities of gays and lesbians
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produce, side-stepping a problematic unification of queer cultures and making a
more radical presentation as a result. Roseanne’s camply overdetermined notion of
what constitutes a gay wedding can be understood in several different ways. As a
heterosexual character her delivery of the wedding and her unrepentant insistence
upon Leon going through with it, can be read as an abusive appropriation of gay
culture for the edification of Roseanne Conner’s much-invested ‘coolness’, and for
the voyeuristic consumption of Roseanne’s audience. Here, her statement that ‘Well
of course it’s a little off, it’s two guys, for god’s sakes!’ becomes the invocation of a
gap between the strangeness of gay matrimony and the normality and dignity of
heterosexual union. Gays can get married, but such ceremonies are a bit of camp
fun, not profound and meaningful occasions. However, Roseanne’s production of
the gay wedding could also be seen as a parodic inversion of exactly such
profundity, using the dissident place queerness inhabits within the mythologies of
marriage to critique its conventions. Why should queers mimic ceremonies of
commitment sanctioned by a hostile state, when we have a distinct culture of our
own from which to draw ritualistic meanings? In this reading, Roseanne’s
suggestion of how ‘off’ the ceremony is becomes a recognition of the futility of
Leon’s aspiration for the public sanction of his partnership, and a reminder to him
of the difference of his queer identity. Yet even within this ‘positive’ reading of
Roseanne’s gay wedding, one which gives her the benefit of queer doubt, Roseanne
Conner is the arbiter of essential dissident queerness, a heterosexual woman who
teaches overly liberal gay men how to regain their lost transgressive perversity.
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The narrative continues after the passing of time. The wedding is now imminent,
and Roseanne has locked Leon in the bathroom so that he cannot escape. Leon’s
mother arrives, presenting an opportunity for more bitching. Roseanne’s opening
line seems to shore up the idea of her queer iconicity, as she references The Wizard
of Oz: ‘How wonderful it is that you were able to get that house off of you before
the wedding!’ Whilst the retort of Leon’s mother introduces another way of
decoding Roseanne’s wedding vision: ‘Look at this place. Have you ever seen such a
horrific display of blue collar tastelessness?’ As Leon’s mother flounces off, leaving
her class critique unpursued, Dan finally plucks up the courage to intervene in the
unfolding queer debacle:
D: Honey I think you should tone down the wedding like he
wanted.
R: No! This is my wedding, and he is lucky I cast him in it.
D: Roseanne, I know you wanted this wedding to be a certain way,
but if you don’t do something, there isn’t going to be a wedding,
it’s going to be all your fault, and you know who’s going to suffer?
Me.
Here the balance seems to be shifting back towards Roseanne’s oppressive
appropriation of queerness and her heterosexually privileged authority: it’s her
wedding, and we know that weddings are all about bridal desires: here it is
Roseanne who is the bride, even though she’s not getting married, she is the
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heterosexual princess at the centre of the occasion. Once again Dan is deferring to
Roseanne’s control in the manner that we expect and love, but his massively
masculine, working-class presence, and our intra-textual familiarity with his utter
lack of deference to anybody else, both infers Roseanne’s relation to his
masculinity and re-locates her within a heterosexual matrix that is often quite
normative.
Roseanne then goes to the bathroom to persuade Leon to take part in her
wedding. She tells him that she has toned down the gay kitsch, but he still wants
to leave, not because she’s turned his wedding into a ‘circus’: but because he is
having second thoughts about marrying Scott. Any potential liberal guilt that may
be amassing due to the impending fiasco now passes back to Leon: she’s not
domineering, he’s just flaky and unreliable. Roseanne bullies Leon, telling him that
he can’t leave Scott at the altar again, that Scott is that best thing that’s ever
happened to him. Leon agrees, but he’s scared of the commitment and the
permanence. Leon suggests a whole range of stupid reasons why he cannot marry,
giving Roseanne the opportunity to occupy a position of rationality and
knowledge with increasing belligerence. Finally Leon says:
L: Okay, then how about this, ready? What if I’m not really gay?
R: You couldn’t be any gayer if your name was Gay Gayerson.
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L: Oh yeah? Well you just think about it, young lady. I hate to shop,
I am absolutely insensitive, I detest Barbra Streisand, and for god’s
sake, I’m a Republican.
R: But do you like having sex with men?
L: Well, I...
R: GAY!!
Here the loud, accusative naming of gayness, within the context of Roseanne’s selfconsciously gay-affirmative liberalism, transgresses our conventional expectations
about screaming ‘Gay!’ at somebody. Queers are used to being named, abused and
taunted by heterosexuals with the words with which we may identify ourselves.
Here Leon’s homosexual self-doubt conveniently vacates the space of queer
articulacy, allowing the ultra ‘cool’ Roseanne to become the bearer, arbiter,
originator, of confident, assertive and positive queer identification. Leon’s
deficiency in expressing the markers of gayness that Roseanne posits (shopping,
Streisand, sensitivity, liberalism), only makes Roseanne herself even more
successfully queer: she can speak it, and she can do it, as we are supposed to
deduce from her decoration of the wedding. Furthermore, it seems as though it is
Roseanne’s insistence on being in control, of knowing and determining Leon’s
doubts about the marriage that goads him into more and more outrageous retorts
in order to gain some self-determination: leads him, eventually, to renounce his
sexuality in the hope that she will leave him alone. His final retort challenges her
expression of his sexual orientation. He says, ‘Oh yeah?’ and then grabs her and
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kisses her passionately on the mouth. He pulls back and shakes his head in a
suggestion of revulsion, and strides for the door: ‘I’m gay. Let’s do it.’ It would seem
that there are dual causes of dismay for queer audiences here.
Any vestiges of identification we are supposed to have left with the self-confessed
right-wing, insensitive, Streisand loathing (this confession is of course the absolute
worst) Leon are scoured away by the script when it has him kiss Roseanne: using
homosocial sexual objectification of women to regain his homosexuality is a pretty
unsympathetic act, not only in its sexism but in its lack of queer pride - it
humiliates him as a gay man, even more than his preceding renunciation. On a
another level, the kiss, like that between Roseanne and Sharon, is supposed to elicit
revulsion out of fascination and progressive ‘cool’; queerness here is once again
the plaything of heterosexual voyeurism, and Roseanne is the unassailably
heterosexual location for audience identification. Once again she gets a brief taste
of the strange fruit (at least from the right gender this time) whilst the narrative
meaning of the kiss depends upon her heterosexuality, and their strangeness. For
Leon’s ‘test’ of his gayness, as much as for Sharon’s desire of Roseanne, the fixed
point from which resolution springs, is Roseanne’s heterosexuality: her normativity
proving Leon’s homosexuality, and displaying Sharon’s kinky lesbianism. Neither of
these interactions, as the epicentre of Roseanne’s queer narratives, troubles
heterosexuality or problematises normative gender roles as the source of
homophobia. The wedding ceremony itself follows, conducted by an inept
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preacher who adds comic relief by twisting up his words. There are a few moments
of apparently genuine celebration of queer partnership:
Scott: I love you in a way that is mystical and eternal and illegal in
twenty states.
Leon: That’s the most beautiful thing I’ve ever heard.
However, the overall tone is patronising. The inept preacher is from Leon’s home
town and was brought to conduct the ceremony especially. The fact that he was
chosen by Leon himself makes him partly responsible for the ceremony’s comic
illegitimacy, especially as the preacher’s shortcomings mean that Scott and Leon
have to make up and say their own vows.
Preacher: Do you, Leon, take this Scott to be your awfully rabid
husband?
Again this indication of the gay couple’s distance outside conventional
heterosexual matrimony has dual meanings: either their impromptu vows are a
transgressive reinscription of patriarchal matrimony, or they are an indication of
the couple’s lack of normality or recognition by state or religion.
Preacher: I now pronounce you man and...er...I now pronounce you
men.
The preacher’s indeterminacy about how to address the couple highlights the
inadequacy and heterosexism of ‘traditional’ notions of marriage and the language
used around sexual partnership; however, it also re-highlights the couple’s
strangeness, especially as the preacher’s function is precisely to recognise and
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authenticate the occasion, not to belittle it. As the newlyweds kiss, the camera
quickly pans away to Dan and Roseanne. Dan is shifting in his seat, looking but not
looking, mesmerised and shocked by the kiss:
Dan: And there’s the kiss. I was wondering if they were going to do
it, and they’re doing it. Look at them going at it.
Roseanne: They are not ‘going at it’ Dan, it just happens to be two
people of the same sex kissing, and there’s nothing wrong with
that.
At this moment, out of nowhere, Mariel Hemmingway (Sharon) appears over
Roseanne’s shoulder and says hello. Roseanne returns the greeting, with just a little
too much enthusiasm, and the episode ends on a close up of her fixed and ever so
slightly too wide grin. Sharon’s appearance, and the jog that it provides to our
memories of Roseanne’s discomfort with her own ‘lesbian’ kiss neatly dampens the
ardour of her liberal superiority in relation to Dan, and the moment is very funny,
providing us with a very satisfying and rare occasion of Roseanne’s silenced defeat.
But of course, the cost of that humour is that both the wedding kiss of Leon and
Scott, and the ‘lesbian’ kiss of Roseanne and Sharon from the preceding season, are
displayed for voyeuristic heterosexual consumption: indeed given the rapidity with
which the direction moves us from Leon and Scott’s kiss (seen only from the back
of Leon’s head, of course) to Dan’s reaction to it, we may conclude that the very
point of the kiss is not its display of gay love, but its garnering of disgusted
heterosexual titillation. Rather than circulating through Roseanne as a cultural
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threat, something that contextualises and denaturalises masculinity and the
heterosexual power with which it dominates women, homosexuality becomes but
an effect of a liberal world view ventriloquising progressiveness, based on diversity
and inclusion, but always under the terms of existing power relations. Certain
issues and identities can be run through this world view in a challenging way, as
the confrontation with Mr. Williams challenged Roseanne’s racism. But in that
episode, as with the current one, difference is not allowed to articulate for itself,
but only as a testing and enlightening reflection of the oppressive term in each
binary. Homosexuality is liberally enshrined, and direct expressions of homophobia
are not allowed to be directed at gays and lesbians themselves. It is only in relation
to the quasi-queerness of David that Roseanne even begins to dare to examine the
place of homosexual panic in the constitution of homosocial systems. Such
questions are however kept at some distance from actually identified gay
characters, who all circulate through the woman-centred ambit of Roseanne herself.
But as we have seen, even here, Roseanne’s heterosexuality remains the structuring
condition of queer representation. Queerness signifies, often blatantly, but always
as the opportunity for progressive, ‘cool’ assimilation rather as the occasion for a
challenge to heterosexual authority, Roseanne’s included. Specific and distinct
cultural expressions of homosexuality are ultimately seen as in no way
incompatible with ‘cool’ heterosexuality. Indeed such expressions are displayed for
the edification of cool heterosexuals, both in political terms - by flattering the
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liberal ego, and in voyeuristic terms - by always framing queerness as kinky and
strange. Queerness rarely appears strange and weird to queers themselves.
Mary-Come-Lately or Gay Goddess?
What makes these limitations in the scope of Roseanne’s queerness so marked, is the
extent to which the show invites lesbian and gay subcultural investment: and as
we have seen from American publications, this is certainly forthcoming. However, it
could be argued that the disparity between the tenor of the treatment accorded
the ‘issues’ of racism and sexuality in Roseanne is due neither to the distinct and
radically different nature of the questions themselves, nor to some ideological
shortcoming on the part of the producers, but occurs because Roseanne is drawing
performatively on a camp register that is characteristic of much queer cultural
negotiation. This register, an attitude of mise en scene, timing, tone and irony, as
well as the more substantial qualities of script and direction, can in itself be
appealing to queer audiences as it elicits a way of reading well versed through a
canon of appropriated camp classics. This is a quality of the material not
highlighted in mandarin, formalised discourses of textual analysis, and I am aware
of the need to do justice to the multiple and ironic layers through which Roseanne
pitches its treatment of homosexual life. Features of the sitcom would make it
highly valuable as a cultural resource for gay men regardless of its specific gay
content, as most films and television in the subcultural queer canon attest.36 As I
have tried to indicate, Roseanne’s scenes of dialogue have a distinctive performative
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quality that at its most successful manages to convey the weight and substance of
experiences the show dramatises, yet at the same time inhibiting earnest,
unengaged and complacently liberal empathy. Characters frequently get upset,
angry, violent, but Roseanne frames such emotional outbursts within a structuring
representational mode of dead-pan, almost dispassionate irony that scours away
any latent limp humanism our generic expectations may enshrine. The formal
ideological terms through which Roseanne makes queer representations are thus in
constant negotiation with the show’s performative vernacular, which constantly
frustrates suspension of disbelief, peeling away layers of textual authority. It is this
quality of Roseanne which registers with queer audiences, the duality enforcing a
recognition of the artfulness, the constructed nature of the text and what it
represents; alas it seems that this reflexivity begets continuing queer identification
even as the ideological investments of the show betray and trample on such
investment.
The ideological intent which drives the narrative and specular organisation of the
‘lesbian’ kiss episode of Roseanne does seem to be genuinely based in an
appreciation of the need to question the political authority, cultural uniformity and
complacency of heterosexual society; this appreciation would appear to be derived
from an allegiance and familiarity with queer subcultures. There are a sufficient
number of in-jokes and subcultural references throughout the episode which
suggest the presence of an ‘authentic’ queer subcultural voice within the dialogue
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that is intended to be recognised as such. These interventions have been
interpreted by publications that speak from queer subculture, and by Roseanne
herself, as having heterosocial effects; that is, that they enact bonding between
women and queerness. Yet the failure of these affiliations lies in their inability to
diegetically transcend homosocial ideological systems: this is something made all
too apparent in the later gay wedding episode. It is these homosocial systems
which in their dominance maintain the breaches between women and queerness:
homosocial control produces the dissident need for a bonding that will enable us
to re-envisage gender relations, to reconfigure patriarchal gender roles.
Heterosocial interventions attempt to elude the homosocial functionality conferred
upon homosexual and female identities within male homosocial structures.
Heterosocial work requires a reflexive awareness of the complex matrix of power
relations that maintain difference and sometimes enmity between diverse marginal
identities: that must be the fundamental basis of any affiliation conducted on the
grounds of that difference. We must see the conditions which shape the
experiences of our potential allies and be able to perceive our complicity with
systems that enforce their oppression, as we see their complicity in ours.
It is very striking that after the initial exuberant burst of heterosocial activity
between Roseanne and Scott at the beginning of the gay wedding show, there is
no further interaction between them at all. Given the terms of their bonding this
isn’t surprising: it would be difficult to sustain such a relationship in the light of the
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insistence with which the Roseanne character later maintains her control and
superiority over gay men. This is to say nothing of the difficulty the producers of
the show would have in reconciling the anti-homosocial nature of Roseanne and
Scott’s continuing interactions with Roseanne’s heterosexuality and her
relationship with Dan. What would the show do with Dan whilst his wife and Scott
heterosocially challenged male bonding and power? We know that it is okay for
Roseanne to disempower Dan, indeed this is a central component of Roseanne’s
distinctiveness. We are familiar with her fabulously bombastic rantings and we
know that this does not castrate Dan or make him impotent in the overall
representation of his character. There are always spaces in Roseanne for Dan to
interact in manly homosocial terms with other men, often recognising his wife’s
substantial material authority in the process and trading that for masculine
credibility with others: on the roof fixing tiles with Mark, playing poker with his
buddies, down at the bike shop with Mark, at the municipal garage where he’s the
boss, or down at the Lobo bar with Fred. However, it would be a completely
different proposition for Dan to be disempowered by an affiliation between Scott,
a gay man, and his colluding wife. Such a direct challenge would be much more
damaging to symbolic male power than Roseanne’s ‘domestic goddess’ alone precisely because her domestic goddess requires him to come home every night
and demand his dinner on the table so that she can refuse him and they can then
have a power struggle. Roseanne is carefully manipulated so as to preclude the
writers having to find a way of reconciling the heterosocial queerness of Scott or
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Leon, with the progressive and queer-positive intent of the show, whilst retaining
sufficient unchallenged throbbing virility in Dan Conner. Dan’s homosocial
credibility is maintained in that he never has to be positioned directly in the
heterosocial discourses of his wife and her faggot associates and friends, a
positioning that would either compromise him (and the show itself) politically, or
would sacrifice some of the homosocial power he accrues through his relationships
with Fred, Mark and others, and which is measured by his symbolic distance from
David, the ‘art-femme’.37 In close proximity and in discourse with the queer cohort,
how could Dan maintain difference without recourse to direct homophobia? It is
much easier for him to become homosocially energised in relation to David, at the
‘art-femme’s’ expense, because David is not labelled as gay, and thus any
repression of him will not open up Roseanne’s apparently progressive agenda to
liberal criticism.
There are two occasions in which Dan must face the queer challenge alone. One
occurs when Nancy and Marla have come over on Christmas Eve. The rest of the
Conner family is stranded in snow at the diner. The lesbian couple take the
opportunity to kiss under the mistletoe: Dan’s response is to pretend that it is not
happening so that he doesn’t have to engage it, and he looks away. Later on in the
episode, whilst he is basting the turkey, he and Nancy talk about her having
children. He suggests that she might have ruined her chances of being a mother
now that she is a lesbian, but Nancy says that she and Marla are planning to have
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kids. Dan asks her to explain how she could do that, ‘without being at all specific’.
At that moment they both look at the turkey baster, he hands it to her and runs off.
In another episode Leon is playing poker with Dan and his buddies. In the course
of some routine homosocial exchange of ‘babe’ stories, it becomes apparent that
Dan is not aware that Leon is gay. Leon comes out, and it is the rest of the poker
players who engage with this: one says that he knows a gay man in Chicago, called
Bill, who Leon might know. Dan’s intervention is to finally shut them all up so that
they can play cards.
In both instances the interactions measure Dan’s distance from queerness (he
doesn’t even express any voyeuristic interest in Nancy and Marla) without him
having to produce himself in such a way as to accommodate and relate to that
queerness. It is always going to be fine to have Roseanne queening and bitching
and feuding around with gay men or with lesbians, because representationally
Roseanne’s femininity will always be more natural, credible and consequently more
authoritative (however bombastic and militantly fat, she’s a wife, a mother, and
she’s a woman) than Leon or Scott’s ‘unnatural’ refusal of masculinity, or Nancy’s
refusal of heterosexuality and men, because that refusal constitutes a negation of
the very site through which she may accrue social authority. In one argument
between Roseanne and Leon in an episode about their partnership at the diner,
she tells him that no ‘Mary-come-lately’ is going to stand in her way. Such remarks
are as near as the show gets to out and out homophobia, and here it is rendered
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safe as it comes in the context of a bitch-fest. Nevertheless, whenever the character
of Roseanne Conner raises the stakes to a direct stand-off about who is the best
‘Mary’, Leon will always become the somewhat pathetic Mary-wannabe, whilst
Roseanne, with her marriage to Dan behind her, will be the authentic Mary.
Roseanne’s authority is dependent on the symbolism she accrues by virtue of her
blue-collar, white-trash, physically indomitable husband. Bringing her heterosocial
affiliations with gay men into too close a proximity to her marriage, would
challenge and erode her authority precisely by destabilising the homosocial
mythology of her masculine husband.
Extra-diegetically, as a personality, a media image, Roseanne herself is obviously
something of a gay icon, for the reasons I discussed above, and in the context of
corporate timidity and greed her political statements about a range of issues,
including those that relate to lesbians and gay men, are welcome and diverting. At
its best Roseanne is an extraordinary piece of television, deriving a witheringly
dead-pan comedy from synthesising a laissez-faire cynicism with a bombastically
passionate enactment of woman-centred authority which is intoxicating in itself,
especially to a queer audience, for the reasons I’ve discussed. If publications such as
Out and The Advocate can utilise Roseanne strategically to effect heterosocial and
queer advantages, re-fashioning its representations to find material that provides
subcultural sustenance, or material with which to worry dominant faultlines, then
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this is obviously very exciting. However, I am not sure that Roseanne’s literal
deployment of queerness in itself can sustain the weight of such desires.
Given the nature of the show, it is inevitable that all the principle narratives, and
experiences Roseanne dramatises ultimately become functions of its eponymous
heroine’s perspective. This dramatic solipsism is one of Roseanne’s strengths, given
that it makes the show so powerfully woman-centred, and can be used effectively
to solicit powerful ideological critiques when that dramatic epicentre is
destabilised, as in the confrontation with Mr. Williams. However, in relation to
Roseanne’s handling of lesbian and gay issues this solipsism is something of a
problem. We have seen how the nominally heterosexual, but queerly signifying
character of David is used not only to empower women in the shape of Darlene by
portraying them in supportive and authoritative relations with men, but to
reinstate a homosocially grounded masculinity in which he is failing, and the other
men are colluding. Roseanne’s knowledge of queerness stalls at those moments
when it would be challenging to heterosexuality, or incompatible with the
particular character and determination of Roseanne’s transgression as ‘killer
bitch’/feminist. Roseanne has said:
Men who are anything like women are devalued in this society.
There’s a pecking order in male culture, and at the very bottom, if
they’re included at all, are women.38
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This neatly encapsulates the heterosocial enigma Roseanne poses. The recognition
that the shape of another kind of oppression may be similar to your own, indeed
may be a function of your oppression, seems an encouragingly heterosocial
understanding. Yet at the very moment of this awareness, we see that this
heterosocial knowledge is twisted though the axis of its empathy so that it
repositions Roseanne herself as inversely privileged: she becomes even more
oppressed. This privilege is naturalised, rendering Roseanne’s own heterosexuality
ideologically cloaked because her rendering of it lines up with heterosexist
hegemonies, and because it does not interrupt the homosocial narrative along the
axis of its homophobia. The Domestic Goddess, the Goddess of Retribution, Divine
tamer of Faggottry, she is our (flawed) champion of the progressive in the arena of
homosociality.
1In Lesbian Studies: Setting An Agenda (London & New York: Routledge, 1995) Tamsin
Wilton makes the following assessment of Simon Watney's argument in his Policing
Desire: Pornography, AIDS and the Media: ‘Gay men ... who see gay male sex in a
homophobic culture as intrinsically radical, and for whom the assertive and defiant
expression of sexuality has developed as the backbone of the collective cultural
struggle to survive AIDS, have denounced a monolithic 'feminism' as lifethreatening in its erotophobia and prudery.’ (p.102).
2Celia Farber, 'Don't Tread on Me', Spin, May 1996, vol. 12, no. 2, p. 40.
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3John Lahr, 'Dealing with Roseanne', The New Yorker, July 17 1995; Kevin Sessums,
'Really Roseanne', Vanity Fair, February 1994; Celia Farber, 'Don't Tread on Me', Spin,
May 1996, vol. 12, no. 2.
4Farber, 'Don't Tread on Me', p.41.
5Out, no.29, February 1996.
6Out, no.24, July/August 1995.
7Peter Galvin, 'Her life as a woman', The Advocate, January 24, 1995, p. 52, emphasis in
original.
8Tim Allis, 'The Faces of Straight America', Out, no.24, July/August 1995, p.70.
9Sue Carswell, 'Roseanne for Queen of the Universe', Out, no.29, February 1996,
p.114. In the 1997 season, during which Roseanne has dramatised the difficulties
faced by the Conner family now that they are multi-millionaires, Roseanne's screen
mother, Bev Harris, has admitted that whilst her dead husband was having sex with
her she would fantasise about the photographs in her illicitly consumed copies of
Playboy.
10It should be noted however, that Roseanne's identification of the Conner family's
class identity has been subject to considerable change, even disengenuousness,
throughout its run. By the time of the 1995 season Roseanne runs her own
business, and is no longer quite so oppressively positioned as she once was. See
Janet Lee, 'Subversive Sitcoms: Roseanne as Inspiration for Feminist Resistance',
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Women's Studies, vol.21, 1992; and Kathleen K. Rowe, 'Roseanne: Unruly Woman as
Domestic Goddess', in Horace Newcomb (ed.) Television: The Critical View (Oxford
University Press, 1994). Furthermore, at the beginning of the 1996/97 season the
Conners win the Illinois State lottery, and become multi-millionaires, which at the
least represents an abandonment of the show's realism, if not its commitment to
working-class politics. This shift in the fortunes of the Conners does not appear to
have been popular. In the UK Channel Four moved Roseanne, in the middle of its
season run, from its prime time position in the schedule on Friday nights at ten-oclock to a late-night mid-week slot, on Wednesdays at eleven-thirty.
11Lahr, 'Dealing with Roseanne', p.51.
12Roseanne Arnold, Roseanne: My Lives (London: Century, 1994) p.91-95, pp.107-110,
pp.111-130.
13Lahr, 'Dealing with Roseanne', p.54.
14Lisa Schwarzbaum, 'All the Rage', Entertainment Weekly, April 21 1995, no. 271, p.24.
15Galvin, 'Her life as a woman', p.52.
16Schwarzbaum, 'All the Rage', p. 24.
17ibid.
18Mick Bowes, 'Only When I Laugh', in Andrew Goodwin & Garry Whannel (eds)
Understanding Television (New York & London: Routledge 1990) p.129.
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19For Roseanne's body image see, amongst others, Sessums, 'Really Roseanne',
Vanity Fair, February 1994. For considerations of the connections between
homosexuality and sickness and deformity, see Simon Watney, 'Sex, Diversity and
Disease' in his Policing Desire: Pornography, AIDS and the Media (Minneapolis:
University of Minnesota Press, 1987); Stuart Marshall, 'Picturing Deviancy' in Tessa
Boffin & Sunil Gupta (eds), Ecstatic Antibodies: Resisting the AIDS Mythology (London:
Rivers Oram Press, 1990); and Paula A. Treichler, 'AIDS, Homophobia, and Biomedical
Discourse: An Epidemic of Signification' in Douglas Crimp (ed.), AIDS: Cultural
Analysis/Cultural Activism (Cambridge MA: MIT Press, 1988), amongst others.
20Carswell, 'Roseanne for Queen of the Universe' front cover.
21On ‘killer bitch’ see Galvin, 'Her life as a woman' p.54; for ‘Goddess of retribution’
see Janet Lee, 'Subversive Sitcoms: Roseanne as Inspiration for Feminist Resistance',
Women's Studies, vol.21, 1992.
22For Roseanne's attack on Streep and Foster see Lahr, 'Dealing with Roseanne'
p.58; for attack on feminism see Lahr, ibid. p.47; for employing men writers not
women, see Sessums, 'Really Roseanne' p.46.
23Schwarzbaum, 'All the Rage' p.26.
24Allis, 'The Faces of Straight America', p.70.
25It doesn't seem irrelevant that Mariel Hemmingway famously played the object
of Woody Allen's lolita complex in his film Manhattan in 1979.
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26Sedgwick, Between Men, p.89.
27Carswell, 'Roseanne for Queen of the Universe' p.114; my emphasis.
28ibid.
29Roseanne's sharper eyed viewers may note that Elgin is the home of Lips, the gay
bar: funny how Elgin seems to be the proximate, but not too proximate scene of
diverse nefarious activities...
30Leo Bersani, Homos (Cambridge, MA & London: Harvard University Press, 1995)
p.113.
31The Advocate, 16 July 1996.
32Andrew Sullivan, Virtually Normal: An Argument About Homosexuality (London:
Picador, 1995) p.183.
33ibid. p.185.
34Homocult, Queer With Class: The First Book of Homocult (Manchester: MS ED (The
Talking Lesbian), 1992).
35ibid. (Note that Homocult's publication does not contain page numbers.)
36I am thinking here of those texts, many of which are listed in Paul Rouen, High
Camp: A Gay Guide to Cult Films, Vol.1 (San Francisco: Leyland, 1994) a representative
selection of which have made it into mandarin criticism in the works of Richard
Dyer, Paula Graham, Alex Doty, Andy Medhurst, Michael Bronski, Andrea Weiss and
others. See Dyer, Heavenly Bodies: Film Stars and Society (New York: St. Martin's Press,
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1986) (especially pp. 141-194); Dyer, Only Entertainment (New York & London:
Routledge, 1992) (especially pp.65-98, 135-148, 159-172); Dyer, The Matter of Images:
Essays on Representations (London & New York: Routledge, 1993) (especially pp.52-72,
19-51); Dyer, Brief Encounter (London: BFI, 1993); Graham, 'Girl's Camp: The Politics of
Parody', in Tamsin Wilton (ed.) Immortal, Invisible: Lesbians and the Moving Image
(London & New York: Routledge, 1995); Graham, 'Looking Lesbian: Amazons and
Aliens in Science Fiction Cinema' in Hamer & Budge (eds) The Good, The Bad and the
Gorgeous: Popular Culture's Romance with Lesbianism (London: Pandora, 1994); Doty,
Making Things Perfectly Queer (Minneapolis: University of Minnesota Press, 1993);
Medhurst, 'Victim: Text as Context', Screen Summer 1994; Medhurst, 'One Queen and
His Screen', in Healey & Mason (eds) Stonewall 25: The Making of the Lesbian and Gay
Community in Britain (London: Virago, 1994); Medhurst, 'That Special Thrill: Brief
Encounter, homosexuality and authorship', Screen Summer 1991; Bronski, Culture
Clash: The Making of Gay Sensibility (Boston: South End Press, 1984) (especially pp.92109); Andrea Weiss, 'A Queer Feeling When I Look at You', in Gledhill (ed.) Stardom:
Industry of Desire (London: Routledge, 1991); Weiss, Vampires and Violets: Lesbians in Film
(London: Penguin, 1993).
37A small, but noteworthy detail: in the spoof black and white fifties episode of
Roseanne, the character of David is transposed into the French exchange student
Davide who minces around in an artist's smock and rakishly tilted beret. Even the
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most heterosocially incompetent shouldn't have much of a problem decoding that
iconography.
38Galvin, 'Her life as a woman', p.54.
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