1. The luxury of time - to do what one wants for a change
When I was married to Colin [Lord Glenconner, r926-2010], I was always on the go. Now I can plan my day and do what I want.
2. It's much better being old than being young
I was shy when I was young. Being married to Colin, I wasn’t noticed. He was so flamboyant. I followed in his wake - and I followed in Princess Margaret’s wake, as her lady-in-waiting for 34 years.
Working for her, I met lots of people and now I’m not intimidated by anyone. Other people might be intimidated by me.
3. My lovely children are wonderful to me
My girls play cards