Session two...
After her first coaching session, Ruby then cancelled the next two sessions. For a couple of reasons, I wondered whether I would ever see her again. Firstly, Ruby had told me that she ‘likes to make people happy, but always gets it wrong’, and I was concerned that she thought she had ‘got it wrong’ with me.
But what was really playing on my mind was the second reason: I wondered if I had ‘got it wrong’ with Ruby! In our session, I had asked whether she ever felt in danger with her husband. It was totally unlike me to be so direct, particularly in a first session. I was worried that I
