How to (Un)cage a Girl
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A celebration of girls and women in a three part poetry collection that is powerful, hopeful, authentic, and universal.
Francesca Lia Block
Francesca Lia Block, winner of the prestigious Margaret A. Edwards Award, is the author of many acclaimed and bestselling books, including Weetzie Bat; the book collections Dangerous Angels: The Weetzie Bat Books and Roses and Bones: Myths, Tales, and Secrets; the illustrated novella House of Dolls; the vampire romance novel Pretty Dead; and the gothic werewolf novel The Frenzy. Her work is published around the world.
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- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5This is a collection of poems for young women. "for women who had been rapedand women who had never been touchedfor women who had been devoured limbs eatenand women who had sucked the bloodof their passive matesfor ladies who at one time or another consideredthemselves hideous monstersand who had at other times blinded their loveswith goddess gloryfor smart hungry sad creatures who disguisedthemselves as womenand wept in secret because they did not looklike supermodels" (from l.a. bacchantes p. 39)The collection is structured into three parts, loosely following the life of a narrator from girlhood to womanhood, and chronicles many painful moments such as death of a parent, eating disorders and struggles with body image, lost chances and secret regrets."she was the second person ever to make me poetrymaybe i had it all wrongmaybe i was the one who was supposed to fallin love with herand now I can't even remember her name" (p. 72)Interwoven throughout this semi-biographical narrative are snatches of fairy tales, magical creatures such as fairies and vampires, and even Shakespearian plays as one poem, miranda is an ode to the character from Shakespeare's The Tempest:"your father may burnhis books of magicand abandon the sprite once locked in a treebut not you mirandanot you" (p.89)This will appeal to, and speak to, many young women in a deeply empathetic and positive way. Block's message of loving who you are and feeling comfortable in your own skin is incredibly positive, and the darker and more painful snatches will be cathartic to girls going through similar experiences. The poetry itself is not brilliant, the structure is a little messy for my tastes and the poems feel unfinished (unpolished?) but overall it's a wonderful message and Block's personal, sympathetic style peppered with magical beings and colourful imagery is well worth a look.
- Rating: 2 out of 5 stars2/5Honestly...not a fan. I appreciate poetry and even dabble in it at times, but unfortunately this one was not really my cup of tea. It was interesting to learn where the cover image art stems from and there were two note-worthy poems that I will mention more in my blog post, but overall, it wasn't for me.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5How to (un)cage a girl is a collection poems by Francesca Lia Block. It kind of feels like a coming of age story learning to love and take care of yourself.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I really wish I had had this book as a teenager, or heck, even a year ago when I was having a lot of body image issues. I think it really addresses that topic well for girls, particularly those of us who really enjoy women's magazines and popular culture and struggle with the images portrayed therein.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5This slim volume of Weetzie Bat’s creator Francesca Lia Block’s poetry is a collection of subtle (and not-so-subtle) messages of feminism and what it means to grow up as a woman in this culture. The first section is a year-by-year series on the themes of sexual awakening and the need for independence from parents while still desperately needing parenting. The poems in this section give voice to the struggle to be an adult while still wanting to be taken care of, touching on the illness and death of a parent, body issues and sexuality, and the general goofiness of teens hanging out with their friends. The second section is on media images of women and the unfair expectations put upon girls in their adolescence. This short section is the weakest of the collection, full of references that are timely and relevant but will likely seem dated a few years from now. The third section (which makes up the majority of the book) is where the collection comes together, though. Titled "love poems for girls," they are exactly that, poems of empowerment and strength, of reassurance, of empathy. These are the poems that have the most useful, universal messages of valuing oneself and taking comfort in who you are.
While Block's language isn't always poetic in a flowy, flowery way, and her rhythm is not a strict iambic pentameter (or anything else, for that matter), the rhythm of her words has a lyricism to it that never feels clunky or forced. Her poems do sound like an adult talking to a teen, but never talking down to the teen. Sometimes all a girl needs is to know someone else has actually been there and lived through it.
This slim volume of poetry didn't always light my world on fire, but many of the poems are things I think I would have appreciated reading when I was in high school. - Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5This poetry lives in the adolescent, in that its focus remains for the most part superficial. Since this book of poetry is directed toward a young adult audience, this is not a bad thing.
Many of the poems center on body image, fashion, popularity, finding self, boys, and the like. They revel in the insecurities of the teenager. If I had read this when I was in high school, I would have been amazed, thinking, This is me. She knows. I would have believed.
Even the language itself remains very on the surface. The breaking of the lines often seems arbitrary, and the descriptions tend to be repetitive (the first things to be noticed are the shade of the eyes or the color of the hair).
There is no punctuation throughout the book, except the odd question mark. Sometimes it helped the poem, allowing the thoughts to run into one another, the way they actually do in our minds, undeliniated. Other times this was a hindrance, causing confusion in the lack.
Block brings in mythology and fairy tales to help bring these poems depth and life. And every once in a while, she breaks away into something sublime, and I find myself wanting to linger over a line. I reread it, savoring it on my tongue. And there are those few poems where I have to pause and be still for a minute after finishing, because I just need to be there for a moment before I go back to read the poem again. - Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5Block's collection of poetry almost reads like a narrative, opening the floodgates of adolescence with 120 pages of verse. Her style is confessional, raw, and at times racy, but ultimately her work is refreshing. It's not the pinnacle of the poetic tradition, and it's certainly gimmicky, but considering the audience, the gimmicks make the work more accessible for non-connoisseurs. How to Uncage a Girl is an enjoyable read, and current teenage girls will certainly find this tome a treat, as it was written just for them.
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How to (Un)cage a Girl - Francesca Lia Block
PART 1
years at the asylum
thirteen: the little oven
i thought my teacher was a nazi
with hair slicked to the side
short and germanic
he lectured about hitler
spittle
in his voice
boys with greasy scalps
drew cartoons of me
with a witch’s nose
my body was so thin
i had chopped off
my pretty brown hair
my skin charred and blistered
red bumps broke out
there was blood between my legs
is this junior high school?
hell?
or somewhere worse?
fourteen: europa
in florence i saw the most beautiful
man in the world
standing by the botticelli
birth of venus
as if the painting had split open to deliver him
he even smiled at me
white teeth golden cheekbones
on the top of the hill was david
huge marble perfection
exposing his penis to me alone
can you imagine in america
god made flesh
but without the blood or loincloth?
by the trevi fountain in rome
pan himself made an appearance
curls and a gap between his teeth
when he grinned at me
a hairy, cloven mystery
lurking
in his jeans
the hotel overlooked a square
the walls were thick and ghost
white with moonlight
shadows streaked the room
i woke to hear my father growling to my mother
get onto me
and saw their bodies moving in the bed
beside my tiny single
cot
that was when i too turned to stone
my mouth sealed shut
they packed me up and took me off to greece
to introduce me to some marble goddesses
without pubic hair
as if that might make me feel better
my parents with good intentions
rolled their new caryatid onto the white sands
of the beach
a million perilous pulverized
petals of pearl
the water was such a sheer blue
you could see right through it
to the wavy patterns on the ocean floor
like aphrodite’s hair
i knew i should be grateful for this opportunity
to see the birthplace of the goddess
but how could i ever speak of it?
the greek boys came to play with me
they frolicked around
brown and curly full of life
when night fell and the ouzo glasses
lit up like lanterns in the taverna
my mother said, "kiss him, darling, it’s easy
so natural"
and i thought to myself, not with lips of stone
dear mother
not with lips of stone
fifteen: the canyon
steamy hot night in the eucalyptus rainwater-forged
canyon my friend and i discovered a ruined house
the wildflowers growing over the foundation and a
silver ring with a king a queen a snake and a rose
then as we walked home a boy on a motorcycle
zoomed to a halt leonine face tall rambling body
somehow the next thing i remember he was sliding
his hands up and down my legs i hadn’t shaved and
was prickly but he didn’t seem to mind later we
kissed in my friend’s shag-carpeted bedroom with
the water bed and beanbag chairs his hands moved
higher i wonder where the parents were i know a
few months later my mom dropped me off at his
apartment in west hollywood his mother was gone i
imagined she was very beautiful young and blond