Two Bipolar Chicks Guide To Survival: Tips for Living with Bipolar Disorder
By Wendy K. Williamson and Honora Rose
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From the “Two Bipolar Chicks”, Wendy K. Williamson and Honora Rose, comes this survival guide disguised as a low-key, how to manual. From their wellness vaults, they compiled three decades worth of tips for you. Filled with insightful anecdotes and personal viewpoints – which can differ – Wendy and Honora steer you through the swamps of bipolar disorder and teach you how to dodge the alligators.
From advice on medication, to their own, personal journeys with acceptance, you’ll pick up tips on managing depression and mania. There is plenty of factual advice and information on treatments and tidbits for the novice, the pros and everyone in between. It could be an asset to anyone navigating the bipolar waters. Two Bipolar Chicks Guide to Survival: Tips for Living with Bipolar Disorder is the consummate bipolar mix of everything you’ll want - and need - inside.
The most delicious part is it isn’t bogged down with scientific jargon, though they do explain what you need to know. You’ll hear more from the author you’ve grown to love and the co-author you soon will. It’s their personal insight that will make this a unique book. Divulging tidbits from manic sex and internet sites to how to not blow your life savings when in a manic episode, they blow the lid off telling it like it is.
You wanted to know more and here it is! Wendy has also brought in her editor and partner Honora to double the fun. Wendy K. Williamson is the author of the best-selling, inspirational memoir I’m Not Crazy Just Bipolar. This is the book you wanted her to write next: more tips, more about wellness, more information. Voila! The Two Bipolar Chicks Guide To Wellness: Tips for Living with Bipolar Disorder was born.
You’ll receive an education about treatments, including their own experience with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Electroconvulsive Therapy (ECT). You’ll learn the importance of medication management and that not all generics or doctors were created equal. They’ll tell you how crucial little details can be from pill trays to choosing your pharmacy to locking up the credit cards when manic. Wendy and Honora will tell you what has worked - and not worked - for them. This book is designed to fill in the gaps of the scientific ones and keep you entertained so you won’t fall asleep.
Wendy K. Williamson has been positively reviewed by Publisher’s Weekly and National Alliance on Mental Illness’ The Advocate. Together, Wendy and Honora run The Red Bank Writers Group.
Wendy K. Williamson
While studying at Virginia Tech, eight weeks before graduation, Wendy had her first manic episode. It was then she was diagnosed with bipolar type I. She graduated and worked in a number of fields until being downsized from corporate America. It was then she plugged in her laptop and wrote her memoir of honesty and hope: I'm Not Crazy Just Bipolar. Her second book, entitled Two Bipolar Chicks Survival Guide: Tips for Living With Bipolar Disorder is due out in May of 2014. Wendy has written for: BP Magazine, Bipolar Disorder for Dummies: 2nd Edition and The Two River Times. Her book has been reviewed by Publisher's Weekly and National Alliance on Mental Illness' The Advocate. She is the founder of The Red Bank Writers Group and has been interviewed on over thirty radio stations. Wendy resides in Monmouth County, NJ with her two kitties and fiancé, burning out laptops to stay sane. Follow her @bipolarwendy and @twobipolarchicks. www.wendykwilliamson.com
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Two Bipolar Chicks Guide To Survival - Wendy K. Williamson
PRAISE FOR
TWO BIPOLAR CHICKS GUIDE TO SURVIVAL
I don’t know any psychologists or M.D.s, including myself, who could have written this book by the Two Bipolar Chicks. I can’t tell you how ecstatic I am. These Chicks have come up with every rule to save your life as you know it. Listen to what they say. The first thing I asked Wendy after I read the book is, ‘Can I send this to my daughter … right now!?’
—DR. JAY CARTER,
internationally best-selling author of five books,
including The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Bipolar Disorder
This is an incredible resource and edgy self-help guide about bipolar disorder which will soften the blow of the diagnosis, teach you how to cope and manage with the illness and help you navigate on a daily basis. This book is a must-read because it will save lives.
—ANDY BEHRMAN,
author of Electroboy: A Memoir of Mania
"Two Bipolar Chicks Guide to Survival: Tips for Living with Bipolar Disorder is a must read for consumers and caregivers alike. Their 66 straight forward tips cover the topics and issues most pertinent to coping and managing bipolar disorder. Wendy and Honora offer a realistic and compassionate glimpse into their lives, giving the reader survival rules, hope, and encouragement."
—MUFFY WALKER MSN,
MBA founder & Chairman of International Bipolar Foundation,
a psychiatric nurse and mother to a son with bipolar.
"Two Bipolar Chicks Guide to Survival: Tips for Living with Bipolar Disorder is an excellent survival guide for navigating the complexities of the mental health care system. It is a unique self-help book that approaches the management of bipolar illness with a very practical approach. I especially recommend this book for patients, families, as well as ‘bipolar chicks.’"
—ROBERT C. BRANSFIELD, M.D., DLFA PA
Clinical Associate Professor of Psychiatry,
Rutgers-Robert Wood Johnson Medical School,
Past President, New Jersey Psychiatric Association
Two Bipolar Chicks’ straight forward approach to bipolar disorder is not only enlightening and refreshing, but encouraging! Compassionately, yet candidly, their knowledge and experience of bipolar disorder is clearly conveyed. Williamson and Rose’s no-nonsense guide expertly steers you through bipolar disorder from pill boxes, to manic sex, all the way to learning to find acceptance of the illness. More than a decade after my own diagnosis, I find these clear-cut tips are relevant and exactly what every bipolar person needs.
—MRS. BIPOLARITY
"In the late 1980’s, Dr. Ronald R. Fieve gave us Moodswing (Bantam Press, NYC, 1989). His work is still considered seminal in pioneering the utilization of lithium to treat manic depression. In the 90’s, Dr. Kay Redfield Jamison of John Hopkins blew the doors open when she self-disclosed her Manic Depressive and removed the stigma for millions of Americans with the publication of An Unquiet Mind: A Memoir of Moods and Madness (Alfred Knopf, NYC, 1995). The first decade of the new millennium brought us more scholarly and self-help books on bipolar illness than the past fifty years. Now we have Two Bipolar Chicks Guide to Survival: Tips for Living with Bipolar Disorder: a thorough, well researched, systematic and enjoyable resource for individuals and family members and friends trying to understand, live with, cope with, recover from, heal and thrive with the disease of bipolar illness. Professionals of all disciplines will be thrilled to have their work as a resource."
—LAURA MADLYN HARRISON, MA, LCADC, CLEM
• Tips for Living with Bipolar Disorder •
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WENDY K. WILLIAMSON and HONORA ROSE
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WENDY
For Parker, Katie, Seamus, Megan and Devin,
When I’m not around, know that I am hunkered at my desk writing, wishing I could spend more time with you. If only I could have it both ways. You complete our family with style and spunk and I love you madly.
To my parents,
What you have done for me can never be measured or summed up in a few sentences. You have no idea what your love and support over the years has done in keeping me alive and feeling loved. You’ve also taught me the value in hard work and perseverance which has come in handy. And mom, I owe you a special thanks for your willingness to read even the roughest of drafts with your cheerful attitude and red teacher’s pen. You’ve always made a fantastic first editor.
HONORA
To my mom and dad,
You never gave up on me even when I gave up on myself. Many dark days you were there to assure me that everything would be okay. And you were always right. Your faith in me never wavered; you told me I could do anything I put my mind to. It is for that reason I am still here—doing well, happy, healthy and loving a life that a few years ago I could have only dreamt. Thank you for believing in me. I love you very much.
To John Henry and Eleanor,
The two brightest and happiest days of my life were the days each of you were born. You were, and always will be, shining stars in my heart and soul. John Henry, in you I see my fearlessness and determination. And Ellie, in you, my artistic free spirit. I wish for you to find what makes you happy. Life is too short for should haves
or would haves
. I love you both with all my heart. You are the best thing that ever happened to me and one day we will be together again.
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
We know this book wouldn’t have seen the light of day without our dynamic, super cool agent, Corinda. She knows the dreams business and we are proud to be part of her world. A huge thank you goes out to Anthony and Michael at Post Hill Press who took a chance on a couple of bipolar chicks at the inception of their company. Thank you to our editor Emilia for your precision and flow, and to the entire staff at Post Hill Press who added time and care to our book.
A huge thank you goes out to Kim Sillen for her endless talents, devotion and willingness to drop her work on a dime for us. The best part of being able to work with you is staying close to our lifelong friendship that started with Izod shirts, tube socks and trips to Hilton Head.
Thank you God for giving us each other, the goofiest bipolar chicks we know. You knew we needed laughter and constant hijinks in order to maintain any semblance of sanity. And we love you for that.
CONTENTS
Foreword by Dr. Jay Carter
Introduction
CHAPTER 1
WHAT A PILL
Tip One: The Trusty Pill Tray
Tip Two: Don’t Leave Home Without It
Tip Three: The Ziploc
Tip Four: Managing Your Medication
Tip Five: Side Effects
Tip Six: Choosing Your Pharmacy
Tip Seven: Medication Assistance
CHAPTER 2
NIGHTY NIGHT
Tip Eight: Love Thy Sleep
Tip Nine: Wind it Down
Tip Ten: The Sweet Sound of Sleep
Tip Eleven: Black-Out Shades
CHAPTER 3
DRUGS, ALCOHOL AND THE INES
Tip Twelve: Illicit Drugs are a No-No
Tip Thirteen: Limit or Eliminate Alcohol
Tip Fourteen: 12-Step Groups
Tip Fifteen: The Caffeine Blackout
Tip Sixteen: Nicotine the Other Ine
CHAPTER 4
SEX, MONEY AND ROCK & ROLL
Tip Seventeen: Manic Sex
Tip Eighteen: Stay off the Sex Sites
Tip Nineteen: Music for Mood
Tip Twenty: Money Troubles
CHAPTER 5
DOCTORS AND YOUR SUPPORT TEAM
Tip Twenty-One: Finding ‘the One’
Tip Twenty-Two: Psychologists, LCADCs and More
Tip Twenty-Three: Preparing For Appointments
Tip Twenty-Four: Be Honest
Tip Twenty-Five: Get Samples
CHAPTER 6
WELLNESS IS REWARDED
Tip Twenty-Six: Minimize Stress
Tip Twenty-Seven: Get Moving
Tip Twenty-Eight: Try Vitamins
Tip Twenty-Nine: Aromatherapy
Tip Thirty: Candles Set the Mind
Tip Thirty-One: Shower Power
Tip Thirty-Two: Reward Yourself
CHAPTER 7
CREATE YOUR LIFE
Tip Thirty-Three: Find Your Creative Edge
Tip Thirty-Four: Start Something
Tip Thirty-Five: Get Out & Have Fun!
Tip Thirty-Six: Volunteer
Tip Thirty-Seven: Writing and Journaling
CHAPTER 8
ORGANIZATION IS THE KEY TO SUCCESS
Tip Thirty-Eight: Do Your Research
Tip Thirty-Nine: Be Proactive
Tip Forty: Make To Do Lists
Tip Forty-One: Stick to a Routine
Tip Forty-Two: Put on Your Bipolar Glasses
CHAPTER 9
SUNSHINE
Tip Forty-Three: Consider the Summer Sun
Tip Forty-Four: Light Box in the Winter
Tip Forty-Five: Pet Your Pets
CHAPTER 10
ATTITUDE COUNTS: MAKE IT A POSITIVE ONE
Tip Forty-Six: Accepting Our Illness
Tip Forty-Seven: Dream
Tip Forty-Eight: Make a Gratitude List
Tip Forty-Nine: Let Love In
CHAPTER 11
TREATMENTS AND THERAPIES
Tip Fifty: When It’s Time to Check In
Tip Fifty-One: ECT: It’s Electric…and Effective!
Tip Fifty-Two: TMS and rTMS
Tip Fifty-Three: VNS
Tip Fifty-Four: IPSRT
Tip Fifty-Five: DBT
Tip Fifty-Six: CBT
CHAPTER 12
BIPOLAR DEFINED
Tip Fifty-Seven: Getting to Know Us
Tip Fifty-Eight: Know Your Type
Tip Fifty-Nine: Hold On
CHAPTER 13
SUPPORT YOURSELF
Tip Sixty: Outside Resources
Tip Sixty-One: SSD
Tip Sixty-Two: Find Bipolar Buddies
Tip Sixty-Three: Phone a Friend
CHAPTER 14
THE END
Tip Sixty-Four: It Will Get Better
Tip Sixty-Five: The Light at the End of the Tunnel
Tip Sixty-Six: Have a Little Patience
About the Authors
FOREWORD
Hats Off to the Bipolar Chicks
by Dr. Jay Carter, Psy.D.
International Best-selling author including
The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Bipolar Disorder
I don’t know any psychologists or M.D.s, including myself, who could have written this book by the Two Bipolar Chicks. Over the past nine years I have given trainings in bipolar disorder for over thirty thousand mental health professionals. At every training I have stated that the missing link between the science and treatment of bipolar disorder is … the practicalities.
My mother had bipolar disorder (BiPD), so I was raised by someone with BiPD, and one of my daughters has BiPD, so I raised someone with BiPD. If this book was available, it would have made life 1,000% better for my mother, daughter, and myself. I have written five international books, including one best seller. But to be honest, I don’t enjoy writing books. It’s just something I felt led to do. I can’t tell you how ecstatic I am that Wendy K. Williamson, BiPD and Honora A. Rose, BiPD have written this book.
The Two Bipolar Chicks have asked me to write about scientific phenomena, so I am going to give you the most significant phenomenological information I have found thus far, backed up with brain scan activity and latest research on executive functions.
The most noted discovery that I have found in people with BiPD is the loss of executive function during mania. That would be the loss of insight, foresight, hindsight, and lack of ability to see
the consequences of their actions. My best phrase for this is that they are not seeing themselves.
A mere intellectual understanding of the consequences is not real without vision. When a person is manic, they may be thinking six times faster than you. They may get impatient with you for talking so slowly. They are brilliant. Don’t argue with them: they will win. But they lack the ability to see
the consequences of their actions, or the context of the situation. The prefrontal lobe is that part of us that enables us to see ourselves. No other mammal on earth has this ability.
During mania there is a flood of activity in the prefrontal lobe. Racing thoughts knock out the ability to see the bigger picture of things with overwhelming details.