Finding Forgiveness in God's Word: A journey of hope and redemption.
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Finding Forgiveness in God's Word - Joyce L. Villeneuve
Forgiven?
INTRODUCTION
How did you do it? How did you find that deep grace to forgive all that had been done to you?
As I looked into the interviewer’s eyes, I saw the deep pain reflected in them—a pain that made him ask the question that he had been seeking an answer to for a very long time.
And I knew that my answer had the potential to change this young man’s life forever.
How Do I Forgive Myself?
Scripture reading: Luke 7:36-50
She came quietly to Simon’s house. She had heard that Jesus had been invited to a meal with Simon. What were her plans? Had she come just to listen to the conversation going on at the table, as was typical of those times? Perhaps she thought she would be able to anoint Jesus’ feet with the perfumed oil she carried in the little alabaster flask, after His feet had been washed by Simon’s servants when He entered the house, as was the tradition of those times.
We don’t know her name. We only know that she was a woman of ill repute. We do not know what had caused her to become a woman of ill repute either. Did she have bills to pay and no husband to help her? Was she unskilled and therefore had no opportunity to take care of herself through honest work? Had she been abused and thus propelled into a life of sin? We don’t know. Only she and God knew. Yet, she came. Uninvited. But hopeful. Humble. Thankful.
Can you imagine what it took for her to show up at this Pharisee’s house? Can you imagine the courage it took for her to come to the feet of Jesus? Can you imagine the scorn and disdain with which she would have been received? What could have brought her there in spite of all she knew she would face?
Yet, she came. In faith, she came, and she brought her shame, her sin, and her repentance to the one Person she knew would not look down on her and would not belittle her, but instead would have compassion on her and recognize the forgiveness that had transformed her heart. She came, bringing her tattered self-image, her battered spirit, and the woundedness in her heart. Perhaps she had heard Jesus talk about God’s love and forgiveness. So, she came, because her faith told her that God had forgiven her, and she wanted to show Jesus her gratitude at being forgiven and her humble acceptance of God’s love.
She came with humility. She stood silently behind Him, at His feet, weeping. As her tears fell on His feet, she began to wash His feet. The feet that should have been washed by Simon’s servants. Using her tears to clean the dust and dirt off them. She did not have a basin of water—just her tears. Tears of sorrow, perhaps? Maybe tears of regret? Tears of repentance, gratitude and acceptance, definitely. How her tears must have flowed for her to have been able to wash His dirty and dusty feet!
Then she began to kiss and dry His feet with her hair. She did not bring a towel to dry His feet. Instead, she used what is a woman’s crowning glory—her hair—to wipe His feet dry. Letting down her hair in public like that would have been considered shameful, but she didn’t care. She wiped His feet anyway. Finally, she anointed them with the fragrant oil from her little alabaster flask. She gave the most expensive item she had—fragrant oil, probably worth a year’s wages—showing her love and gratitude.
She knew she was not worthy. Yet, her faith brought her to His feet—the feet of the Person where she knew forgiveness was to be found. And what did she find? Not harsh words, or disdain, but words of compassion…forgiveness…grace…redemption. Jesus confirmed that her faith had saved her and her sins had been forgiven. Right there, in front of everyone. He looked at her with tenderness. He did not despise her—He affirmed her. Not only did He affirm her, but He redeemed her in front of the Pharisee, giving much value and worthiness to her actions.
The Bible says that Jesus told Simon in Luke 7:44-46, I entered into thine house, thou gavest me no water for my feet: but she hath washed my feet with tears, and wiped [them] with the hairs of her head. Thou gavest me no kiss: but this woman since the time I came in hath not ceased to kiss my feet. My head with oil thou didst not anoint: but this woman hath anointed my feet with ointment.
Jesus knew that she had repented for what she had done, just from the way she wept, letting her tears wash His dusty feet and wiping His feet with her hair. He saw the humility of her actions. He knew that she was sorry for the life of sin that she had been living. He knew she had faith that she had been forgiven and had humbly come to His feet with a contrite heart, seeking only to show her gratitude and her love.
Jesus did not require any great works from this woman. He knew she had already reaped the consequences of her sin, just from the way Simon, the Pharisee scorned her. Just from the way Simon shunned her leads me to believe that perhaps there were others in the town who also looked down on her. She had no worth or value in Simon’s eyes, because the Scripture reveals the thoughts he had about her when he wondered how Jesus could let her touch Him.
But, Jesus gave her worth and value. All the time that she was washing His feet with her tears and drying them with her hair, He would have had His back to her and His face to Simon. However, once He had told Simon that she had treated Him better than Simon, who was supposed to be the host (and typically, in those times, he would have greeted Jesus with a kiss and would have ensured that his servants washed Jesus’ feet and anointed His hair with perfumed olive oil), Jesus turned His back on Simon and looked directly at this repentant woman. In that tender look, He showed His love, He confirmed that she had been forgiven, and He affirmed her as a child of God.
Forgiveness, Grace and Redemption
The Scripture of the sinful woman is full of humility, tenderness and redemption. I love this Scripture passage because I have found myself several times at the feet of Christ, begging for forgiveness. I don’t lead the kind of life that this woman is said to have lived, but I have sinned and gone against the Word of God and I have had to seek forgiveness. Most of us experience situations in life that bring us to our knees and leave us with doubts about God’s love and, perhaps, even anger against Him.
One such incident that happened to me about fifteen years ago ended up being a shattered dream. I had gotten a very prestigious job, and I was doing extremely well. I had everything going for me at that particular time: a beautiful condo, cars, credit cards, long business lunches, and prestige. Everything I touched seemed to reap rewards. But it was not the right job for me, and I heard God telling me to give up the job. I typically pray about everything, and I have conversations with God about everything and anything. Sometimes, I wonder if I don’t tire Him out with my incessant conversations and observations.
But, for some reason, I had not prayed about that position, or asked God if it was the right job for me. Perhaps it was because, deep down, I knew what the answer would have been. So, I battled with God over relinquishing the job. How could He give me all these skills and talents and success, and then tell me that this was not the right job for me? I looked for every excuse not to give it up.
I was raised in the Christian faith from birth and I have had a personal relationship with Jesus since I was thirteen years old. I love God and am passionate about Jesus. I have always been faithful to God and His calling on my life, so finally, in obedience to Him, I did as He asked and gave up that job. It was one of the hardest things I had ever had to do, career-wise. All the way home, all I could think of was that it was over. All the sacrifices, all the hard work, the dreams—over.
What I did not admit to myself at that time was the real reason I loved that job. You see for the very first time in my life, my parents had told me how proud they were of me when I got that position. Here I was, more than thirty years old, and I was still seeking my parents’ approval! Sure, this was a high-level executive position with a lot of status, but it was the wrong job for me (as I found out much later).
I tried to make believe that everything was okay, while inside a little part of me died. I buried my feelings over the following months, trying to be strong for my family, especially my children. Instead, anger started to fester inside of me. I was angry at God and began to turn away from Him and harden my heart against Him. I didn’t realize it at the time, but in doing so, I gave Satan an entry into my heart and he inflamed this anger against God. Oh boy, did he have a field day! He had me twisting so much