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    Confessions of a Teenage Gamer
    Confessions of a Teenage Gamer
    Confessions of a Teenage Gamer
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    Confessions of a Teenage Gamer

    By Nicolas Cole

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    When people think of World of Warcraft, they think of a socially awkward, acne-faced teenager with "no life." Confessions of a Teenage Gamer challenges those stereotypes and shows how a kid from a wealthy family with every opportunity at his fingertips ended up finding himself in a video game. Confessions of a Teenage Gamer is funny in its honest retellings of teenage puberty, witty in its commentary on rich suburban life, and thought provoking in a way that questions the meaning behind success and happiness. This true story draws parallels between sports, music, and video games—and shows how, at the core, they teach many of the same lessons. With a successful spine surgeon for a father, a music teacher for a mother, and a house full of driven, high-achieving siblings, Nicolas Cole's Confessions of a Teenage Gamer shows how far one boy will go to chase his dream of becoming a professional gamer.

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    PublisherNicolas Cole
    Release dateOct 2, 2016
    ISBN9780998203416
    Confessions of a Teenage Gamer
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    Nicolas Cole

    Nicolas Cole is an author, founder, and viral writer best known for his conversational style of telling stories.He has accumulated more than 100 million views on his writing to date.Cole rose to internet stardom in 2015 when he became the #1 most-read writer on Quora, accumulating tens of millions of views on his viral articles about personal development, and how to remain in a constant state of learning about oneself. His work began being republished in TIME, Forbes, Fortune, Business Insider, CNBC, The Chicago Tribune, and many more of the internet's most popular publications.In 2016, Cole then became one of Inc Magazine's Top 10 contributing writers, accumulating millions of views on his business & creativity column, and in 2017 he founded a ghostwriting and thought leadership agency called Digital Press, writing on behalf of more than 300 different Silicon Valley founders, company executives, venture capitalists, Grammy-winning musicians, Olympians, NYT best-selling authors, international public speakers, and more.Today, in addition to regularly authoring new books and articles online, Cole also publishes a weekly paid newsletter, called "How I Wrote This," sharing insight about both the art and business of becoming a writer in the digital age.You can subscribe here: https://howiwrotethis.substack.com/He currently lives in Los Angeles, but will forever be from Chicago.

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      The book itself wasn't bad! I really liked how he was brutally honest in the book about how much he hated his parents and how he compares video games to reaching goals. The interview portion was abrupt and a not welcome change of pace. I did not like that it ended on a cliffhanger.

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    Confessions of a Teenage Gamer - Nicolas Cole

    Confessions Of A Teenage Gamer

    By

    Nicolas Cole

    Intro

    Acknowledgements

    I’ll be honest, I never understood the point of having an acknowledgements section. As a reader, I usually skip these pages because they are filled with personal mentions and anecdotes no one could possibly appreciate, let alone understand, except the members of the author’s inner circle.

    Of course, as it comes time for me to place my own work on the world’s bookshelf, my tune has changed. After all, while I may have been the one slaving away at the desk, secluding myself from society seeking peace and quiet to put pen to paper (or fingers to keys), I would be naïve and probably arrogant to think I constructed all of this on my own. So I would like to take a moment to acknowledge the people that not only helped bring this book to life, but helped me grow into the person capable of writing the thing at all. Whether it was the way you listened to me sort through my ideas, or encouraged me during times of self-doubt, just know your gestures did not go unnoticed. Without you, this project (and potentially every project that grows hereafter) would never have gotten done, and I would have spent the rest of my life wondering what if.

    You know who you are. Thank you.

    Second — and this is what I believe every author’s acknowledgement section should be, if for no other reason than to give permission to all the other artists not yet free from their own debilitating self-doubt — I would like to take a brief moment to acknowledge all of the fears I have in calling this project complete.

    I would like to acknowledge that I have well over 3,000 single-spaced Microsoft Word pages in a folder on my laptop called Confessions of a Teenage Gamer. I remember the day I started this project: a Saturday, sometime just after Christmas, 2011. I set myself up in the Columbia College Chicago library with a large green tea (I was unsuccessfully trying to wean myself off coffee), a notebook, and my laptop. The library was mostly empty, everyone still on winter break. I got settled at one of the tables, plugged in my headphones, and proceeded to spend the next however many hours, days, weeks watching old World of Warcraft videos, taking notes in my notebook, writing down as many stories and important moments as I could remember from my journey. I made a list of every server I had ever played on. I made another list of every Horde and Alliance player that had in some way influenced my path. I constructed a timeline from Freshman year of high school to Senior year, trying to pinpoint which months I had reached certain milestones: when I had hit puberty, when I had hit Gladiator, etc. The entire first year of my working on this book was mostly planning, and in my head I constructed a wildly ambitious vision of the final product.

    I would like to acknowledge that this book turned out very differently than I had originally imagined.

    I would like to acknowledge all the days I couldn’t write because I expected this project, my first real project, to be my opus — perfect and loved by all, an instant classic. I would like to acknowledge the other days I couldn’t write because I was terrified of what my parents, my siblings, my friends, and everyone in the world would think of my story — and, in a sense, what they would think of me. I would like to acknowledge the other, other days I couldn’t write because I had fallen in love with a girl my senior year of college, and time spent gazing into her eyes was more easily and pleasurably spent than time at my desk alone, reliving my awkward adolescence in extreme detail. And I would like to acknowledge the other, other, other days I couldn’t write after we broke up a year later and I was so depressed and exhausted from having written the same chapters over and over again that I considered abandoning the project altogether, never calling myself an author.

    I would like to acknowledge that I never gave up.

    I would like to acknowledge that the reason why it has taken me five years to write this is because I haven’t wanted to say goodbye. I would like to acknowledge that this story represents my wide-eyed adolescence, and deep down I have been afraid to call it finished because that would also mean letting go of the kid that once sat in his computer chair believing he would one day grow up to slay dragons.

    I would like to acknowledge that much of my fear of criticism and avoidance in publishing this work has been an attempt to protect that child-like part of me. I would like to acknowledge that I’m glad I didn’t publish the first draft, or the second draft, or the third draft, or even the fourth draft, because as much as I’d thought I’d let go of the anger from my adolescence, I hadn’t yet — and every time I went back to revise another chapter, all I was really doing was refining the same frustrated, abandoned, unhappy tone. I would like to acknowledge that deep down I always knew something about the writing wasn’t right, that I was still writing from a place of hostility instead of reflection. I would like to acknowledge that I still felt like I had something to prove.

    I would like to acknowledge the path and all the lessons I had to learn in order for me to get to where I am today, undefined by any sort of external success; I mean where I am emotionally. I would like to acknowledge that I forgive my parents and my family for everything that happened, and I would also like to acknowledge that I forgive myself for the pain I put them through and that I take accountability for the fact that I was by no means an easy sibling or child.

    I would like to acknowledge that the grueling process of writing and rewriting this book helped me do that.

    I would like to acknowledge that there is no more genuine pursuit in life to me than writing. I would like to acknowledge that my measure for success is not in how many copies I sell, or how many awards I win, or how many other authors feed me words of validation. I am only successful if I have shared from my heart without an ounce of apology, standing on my own two feet and confessing my deepest truths with the world.

    I would like to acknowledge by that definition, this project was a success.

    I would like to acknowledge that five, ten, twenty years from now, I will probably look back on this first book and cringe at all its imperfections. I would also like to acknowledge that immediately following that cringe will be a smile of deep gratitude for having had the guts to do it in the first place.

    I would like to acknowledge that nothing I have achieved in my entire life has ever felt as good as the release of this book. And I would like to acknowledge that the real reward is not the finished product, but all the lessons I learned along the way.

    And finally, I would like to acknowledge how much I love my family. The fact that they are one of the only topics I could write about until the end of time should stand as a testament to the amount of space I hold for them in my heart. Nothing I write, ever, is in any kind of malice toward them, regardless of what the story may portray or capture emotionally. I believe the love of a family is one of the greatest gifts any human, animal, plant, or energetic being can experience here on earth, and that is why I cannot help myself but to write about it. All of it. Because each one of us knows that love and, if anything, need to be reminded of its depth.

    As we prepare to dim the lights, cue the music, and begin the show, I would like to acknowledge how excited I am to share this with you. Nervous. A little sweaty. But excited.

    This is everything I am. This is me at my most vulnerable.

    I would like to acknowledge that I am ready.

    Chapter 1

    A Town Called Hypocrisy

    I am not the same person I used to be.

    For the first 18 years of my life, I lived alone in the bathroom. I taught myself how to beatbox, in the bathroom. I taped the blade of my hockey stick while dreaming of what the NHL would be like, in the bathroom. I would carry my dad’s laptop upstairs with me, sit on the toilet, and, because our wireless Internet wouldn’t reach from the basement to the third floor of our white-collar mansion, I would open a Word document and start writing, in the bathroom. I would sit there for so long that my legs would go numb and my ass would turn red and my mom would finally come upstairs knocking, Cole? Are you still in there? One day, I would become rich and famous and I would build the perfect bathroom: with a tray table that would come out of the wall, and a laptop always charging next to the plunger, and maybe even a mini-fridge nearby with endless bottles of orange juice. How I would ever become rich and famous while on the toilet I had no idea, but my future was certain: it would have to be done from the bathroom.

    The majority of my childhood, early adolescence, and formative teenage years were spent undiagnosed with Celiac Disease — a food allergy to the most commonly used ingredient in America, wheat. The bathroom closest to the kitchen was my safe haven after a destructive dinner. The bathroom connected to my bedroom gave me shelter in the middle of the night. The bathroom in the basement is where I kept a nice collection of Game Informer magazines for whenever the plague struck and there wasn’t enough time to make it upstairs. Hours, days, years of my life were flushed down the toilet as I sat, digging my nails into my thighs, squeezing, heaving, pleading for the pain to be over already, please God, make the diarrhea stop! A bomb would finally release, toilet water would splash up, the smell of death pulsing within four walls, and then all at once a calm would settle, like the rising sun after warfare. I would take a deep breath, and, for half a second, feel relief.

    But was it over?

    2nd grade: sitting on the alphabet carpet, a warning shot firing from my pants, all the kids plugging their noses and saying, Who did that? with me joining them, the best pretender of them all: Yeah, gross. Whoever did that is gross.

    5th grade: raising my hand, asking to be excused to the restroom, only to return twenty minutes later, the whole class knowing; they knew I’d gone number two, not number one, and probably a really bad number two because I’d been gone for so long.

    7th grade end-of-the-year picnic: an ice cream social at someone’s house, stacking my sundae with intestinal assassins disguised as Oreo cookies (wheat) and graham crackers (wheat). I sat down at the long wooden picnic table beside my friends, my crush just happening to sit opposite of me. She had horizon blonde hair in a ponytail, and big blue eyes that smiled like the open sea. This was it, the perfect opportunity. I was going to ask her what her favorite ice cream was and then see if she wanted to be my partner for the water balloon toss — and when everyone was getting ready to leave is when I’d ask her to be my girlfriend.

    Within minutes of my first bite into the sundae, I felt the tide shift. I tried to hold it but couldn’t. I quickly abandoned the table and asked one of the chaperones if I could go inside and use the bathroom. She pointed me to the basement, and without seeming too desperate — eager fecal matter poking at my quivering butthole — I thanked her and made a run for it. Stairs vanished in my wake. I reached for the doorknob and before my cargo shorts were even past my knees, a wild splatter exploded into the bowl below. I panted. I winced. I squeezed my face and curled my toes and hated being human because for some reason I was the only child born on the face of this planet who couldn’t take a normal poop.

    When I was done, at least for the moment, I turned to my left. Where there should have been a nice healthy roll of toilet paper was only a golden rod, empty and alone. Surely there was some toilet paper behind me. Under the sink? In the shower? Please! But no, there was no hope. This was my reality. I considered screaming for help, but then everyone would know my secret — everywhere I went, diarrhea. I wiggled on the toilet seat and shook off what I could, and then gently stood up with my shorts around my ankles and waddled over to the sink. I looked at myself in the mirror. Only me. This would only happen to me. I jumped up into the sink and aimed my ass under the faucet. With my hand scooping water, I wiped my brown remains down the drain.

    When I went back upstairs, they had started the water balloon toss without me. At the other end of the lawn I saw her, the love of my life, paired with one of the soccer players — a boy who took normal poops, I was sure. She was laughing, her bright white smile in glimmering braces aimed towards the sky, her head back. I wanted to tell her how beautiful she looked, write her a poem even and leave it by her backpack. One of the parents yelled out, Cole, do you need a partner? Everybody looked over, even her. But before I could respond, my stomach dropped again, fear rattling through my body. To my entire 7th grade class I had to publicly admit, Actually, I’m not feeling so well. My friends called out to me, telling me to stop being lame. With my butt cheeks clenched, I quickly waved goodbye and headed for the back gate. As soon as I hit the street, I ran the whole way home, trying to make it to my own bathroom before the next explosion.

    This was my life.

    When I wasn’t in the bathroom, I was sitting in a doctor’s office, listening to another white coat ask me to please describe the consistency of my stools.

    You mean you want me to tell you what my poop looks like? I said.

    In detail, said the man whose name was finely etched in cursive on the front of his white coat pocket, pens peeking out the top.

    I rustled on the padded table, the paper under me crinkling. My mother and father were sitting nearby, hands folded, nodding for me to describe the horror.

    It’s bad. I paused, giving him time to jot down the adjective. It’s brown and green, and sometimes orange, even when I don’t eat carrots.

    Would you say it’s soppy? Mushy?

    My poop?

    Yes.

    I don’t know, I don’t reach in there and touch it.

    Cole, my mother said, be respectful and tell the doctor what he needs to know.

    The balding man nodded for me to continue, pen at the ready with his clipboard.

    Well, don’t get grossed out, but it’s pretty much like water. It’s like mud. Sometimes it’s chunky, but not really. It’s like I’m peeing from my bottom.

    My father gave me a stern, satisfied look. A Catholic look. I had used the appropriate word for my gluteus maximus. We were not allowed to use the word butt in this family.

    You think I’m exaggerating. I’m not. From the moment I popped out of the womb to my 18th birthday, diarrhea. So much diarrhea. At first, my parents were sympathetic, very reassuring, We’ll figure this out, Cole, don’t you worry. They took me to the best doctors, did their own research, organized an assortment of diets for me to try. But with each failed diagnosis they grew more and more frustrated, still wanting to help me, as parents do, but tired of always hearing the same excuse: I can’t. I have a stomach ache.

    And it’s not like my mom couldn’t relate. She had been struggling with the same issues ever since college. After her and my dad got married and my dad became a surgeon, he sent her to top-notch gastroenterologists, had every test under the sun done, and still, no answer to her intestinal problems. She’d grown used to the routine, and had little tolerance for my escapism.

    You can’t let this rule your life, Cole, she’d say on the other side of the bathroom door, baiting me to come out. I go through the same thing. But do I give up? No. I put some toilet paper in my purse and I deal with it.

    How did I deal with it?

    I stopped eating.

    If poop was the problem, then I’d simply stop making it.

    My routine was as follows: I would wake up for school, drink two glasses of orange juice for breakfast, skip lunch, come home, skip a snack, go straight to hockey practice, skate up and down the ice with my head pounding in a chant for calories, come home exhausted, wolf down a massive dinner (wheat), run to the bathroom, go to bed, wake up, and repeat the cycle over again the next day. I only allowed myself food when in the proximity of a home toilet. My toilet. Where nobody could hear the sounds of war echoing from my chute.

    Don’t get it confused — I was not anorexic. This was not some strange aspiration of mine to resemble an emaciated mannequin. If anything, I cursed the invisible man in the sky for not giving me the opportunity to grow. Here He was, showering all my peers with the seeds of manly qualities — changed voices, muskrat mustaches, newborn baby biceps — and what did I get? I got shit.

    Which really made pursuing my dreams difficult, as you can imagine. All I wanted, more than anything else in the world, was to play in the NHL and become the captain of the Detroit Red Wings. There, I wouldn’t be seen as a fragile boy with diarrhea. I would be a gladiator! I would win championships, meet a Victoria’s Secret model, have seven kids, all boys, and coach my own hockey team with all of them on it. And that reality was totally plausible; I could see my dream clear as day every time I would take a seat by myself on the toilet in the bathroom. But then another cramp would settle in, and a bomb would drop below me, and I would wonder when and how that dream would ever become my reality.

    It wasn’t even a doctor that figured me out. It was my mom, years later. She had been reading some book with a smiling blonde on the cover looking far too excited about a raw head of broccoli, and one afternoon, after much deliberation on her part, she handed me the book and said, Cole, I think we might be allergic to bread.

    At this point, I wouldn’t be surprised, I said with sarcasm. Being allergic to bread sounded ridiculous, like being allergic to air.

    I’m serious. The more I read, the more it all makes sense. It’s called Celiac Disease.

    Keep in mind, this was back in 2008. The masses didn’t know what Celiac Disease was yet, and going gluten-free hadn’t become a trend.

    So no more pizza? I asked.

    And a lot of other things, she said, informing me of the doom. Wheat is in almost everything, especially in America. This would mean no more breaded chicken, no more flour tortillas, no more pancakes or brownies or chocolate chip cookies.

    The list went on and on, and the longer she talked, the less interested I became. It seemed like my only options for food would be vegetables, rice, and plain chicken.

    I’d rather die, I said.

    I was about to leave for college. I could see it now: me trying to make friends while at the

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