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    Difficult Conversations (HBR 20-Minute Manager Series)
    Difficult Conversations (HBR 20-Minute Manager Series)
    Difficult Conversations (HBR 20-Minute Manager Series)
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    Difficult Conversations (HBR 20-Minute Manager Series)

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    You have to talk with a colleague about a fraught situation, but you're worried that they'll yell, or blame you, or shut down. You fear your emotions could block you from a resolution. But you can communicate in a way that's constructive--not combative. Difficult Conversations walks you through:

    • Uncovering the root cause of friction
    • Maintaining a positive mind-set
    • Untangling the problem together
    • Agreeing on a way forward

    Don't have much time? Get up to speed fast on the most essential business skills with HBR's 20-Minute Manager series. Whether you need a crash course or a brief refresher, each book in the series is a concise, practical primer that will help you brush up on a key management topic. Advice you can quickly read and apply, for ambitious professionals and aspiring executives--from the most trusted source in business. Also available as an ebook.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherHarvard Business Review Press
    Release dateJan 26, 2016
    ISBN9781633690790
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    Readers find this title very informative and helpful in navigating difficult conversations. It provides comprehensive yet flexible steps to prepare and deal with parties you may not agree with. The book offers practical insights to manage conflict in all areas of life. It is short and worth reading.

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      Great practical insights to manage conflict at each and every sphere of life.
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      short and good book. It is worth to read it
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      The book is very informative in tackling how are we going to navigate difficult conversations. It presents the steps which are comprehensive yet not rigid in structure. It helps the reader how to prepare and deal with parties you may not necessarily agree with.

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    Difficult Conversations (HBR 20-Minute Manager Series) - Harvard Business Review

    Difficult Conversations

    Get up to speed fast on essential business skills. Whether you’re looking for a crash course or a brief refresher, you’ll find just what you need in HBR’s 20-Minute Manager series—foundational reading for ambitious professionals and aspiring executives. Each book is a concise, practical primer, so you’ll have time to brush up on a variety of key management topics.

    Advice you can quickly read and apply, from the most trusted source in business.

    Titles include:

    Creating Business Plans

    Delegating Work

    Difficult Conversations

    Finance Basics

    Getting Work Done

    Giving Effective Feedback

    Innovative Teams

    Managing Projects

    Managing Time

    Managing Up

    Performance Reviews

    Presentations

    Running Meetings

    Difficult Conversations

    Craft a clear message

    Manage emotions

    Focus on a solution

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    Preview

    You’ve been putting off a difficult conversation. Maybe you feel wronged by someone or misunderstood. You may be caught in a clash of personalities or have competing goals with a colleague. Perhaps you have to deliver bad news, and you dread the person’s reaction. Whatever your situation, you need to address an issue to keep moving forward. This book will help you develop the skills you need to turn a difficult conversation into a productive dialogue, including:

    • Understanding what makes some conversations difficult

    • Discovering what’s at the heart of the challenge you’re facing

    • Identifying and managing the emotions involved

    • Seeing the bigger picture to expand possible solutions

    • Framing the issue in a way your counterpart can relate to

    • Listening actively and responding with empathy

    • Staying flexible and managing the unexpected

    • Finding areas of agreement

    • Building on your new skills so you’ll be ready for the next tough conversation

    Contents

    What Makes a Conversation Difficult?

    Conflicting interests

    Different personal styles

    Lack of trust

    Different views of the facts

    Strong emotions

    Think It Through

    Should you act?

    When you decide to have a difficult conversation

    Prepare for the Difficult Conversation

    Assess the facts—and your assumptions

    Address the emotions

    Acknowledge that you’re part of the problem

    Identify a range of positive outcomes

    Develop a strategy, not a script

    Conduct the Conversation

    Acknowledge the other person

    Frame the problem

    Ask questions and listen

    Look for common ground

    Adapt and rebalance

    Establish commitments

    Follow Through

    How did you do?

    Jot down your impressions

    Follow up in writing

    Keep your commitments

    Become a Better Communicator

    Reflect before you speak

    Connect with others

    Before you talk, listen

    Make your words count

    Establish a feedback loop

    Address problems head-on

    Learn More

    Sources

    Index

    Difficult Conversations

    What Makes a Conversation Difficult?

    What Makes a Conversation Difficult?

    You know the feeling: that knot in the pit of your stomach; the fog that descends on your mind. You’re avoiding a difficult conversation. Maybe you fear the public confrontation if you ask

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