Cardboard Confessionals
By Mitch Reed
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People, especially students, find themselves battling the odds day in and day out. Many are faced with mountains of adversity and left to fend for themselves. What these people are looking for is someone to have confidence in them. They are looking for support and someone who cares. People can have mass amounts of power with how supportive they are and how much they care.
Mitch Reed
Mitch Reed was educated as a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist as well as a Behavioral Scientist, specializing in numerous therapeutic modalities including Past-life Regression. Reed is an expert on both—After Death Communications (ADC’s) and Near Death Experience (NDE’s). Reed prides himself on always offering real empirical evidence within his books.
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Copyright 2017, 2018 by Mitch Reed
All rights reserved. Except as permitted under the U.S. Copyright act of 1976, no part of this publication may be reproduced, distributed, or transmitted in any form or by any means, or stored in a database or retrieval system, without the prior written permission of the publisher.
Special thank you to the printing company that brought you Cardboard Confessionals:
Randy Lesnar
Western Commercial Printing
4005 South Western Ave.
P.O. Box 5184
Sioux Falls South Dakota 57117-5184
Resources:
Huffington Post
Center of Disease Control
TED Talks: Ric Elias
TED Talks: Candy Chang
Editor: Nora Groft
Design: Shari Reed
Special Contributors: 2016-2017 WSS Sociology Class, VJ Smith, Misty Comes, Nic Ahmann, Nancy Adair, Brett Brennan, Julie Kneeland, Becky Schlotterbeck, John Melius, Kara VerWey
ISBN: 978-1-543-93145-7
Printed in the United States of America
With any questions, comments, stories, or inquires please email me or contact me on twitter at:
cardboardconfessionals@gmail.com
@mireed20
Table of Contents
Preface
Foreword
Introduction
Chapter 1: Setting the Stage
Chapter 2: What is one thing you want to do before you die?
Chapter 3: What makes for a meaningful life?
Chapter 4: On what one thing in life you have given up?
Chapter 5: What is something people misunderstand about you?
Chapter 6: Of what are you most proud?
Chapter 7: What do you think about when you are alone?
Chapter 8: Describe your life in six words
Chapter 9: What’s Next
Preface
When I was a sophomore in high school, I decided I needed to work in the educational field. Undecided in the subject area, I knew I wanted to be in a school. I had a memorable school experience at Northwestern School in Mellette, South Dakota. In my early years in the education profession at Waverly-South Shore and Deubrook Elementary School, I made a lot of comparisons. I looked at the differences and similarities of the teachers, students, classes, and activities. If I would have had the insight I have now on how a school functions and the importance of education, I believe I would not have taken my school experience as lightly as I did. I think back on some of my peers and how I could have changed their school experience by just including them and showing them that I cared about them and their well-being; that is all that some people need to be successful. As I have aged, I also have learned how our viewpoints and priorities change.
Everyone should take the time to reminisce on their experiences and values. Writing a book requires one to do this. People can reevaluate the actions that they have taken in life; they can examine the relationships that they have made. This writing process has encouraged me to reach out to people with whom I have lost touch. While writing this, I have reinforced the passion that I have for the people in my life as well as my occupation.
There will be concepts throughout the book to which teachers and students will be able to relate. Those who are not in the educational field will have their eyes opened to some of the issues, dreams, aspirations, and thoughts of students in society today. The pages include dialogue on my experience that I have encountered during my time in the classroom and in education.
Life is short; passion and relationships are the true key to happiness, and observing a wide range of experiences makes for the best life. This book will help readers to take a step back and look at the relationships in their lives and how they can improve them. I hope that readers can see the power that they have to change people’s days, weeks, years, or even life with the simple conversations and words you use. We can empower people each day to strive to be better, leading to a fulfilling life for ourselves as well. Understanding the professed and concealed issues of society’s youth stands as the first step in helping them solve these problems.
At 24 years old, I received my first administration job. The idea of working with students and leading a staff excited me. Imagine a young kid who wanted to conquer the world; that was me. As my years went on, the process started to slow down. The excitement of the job dwindled. I often asked myself how I could bring the excitement back. I realized very quickly that excitement leaves and may not come back. My excitement had turned into passion; passion for my job, passion for the people around me, and passion for the future of the school. My passion included my family within the school. My wife worked as the Title I teacher in the district, and my 1-year-old daughter became known as the community baby,
getting passed around at all of the school and community events. I loved it at Waverly-South Shore School. The students strived, the staff cared, and the community supported. The people who have surrounded me throughout my life have helped me build passion. After moving to Deubrook, I began to realize the importance of education and the teachers. They are on the front lines with students, battling various problem that arise. The teachers at Deubrook are committed to excellence, and it drove me to be not only a better educator but also a better person.
As soon as that excitement turned to passion, I started to cherish every day, especially in the school building. I began to take in everything and realized that life is too short to sweat the small issues. Students and their lives became fascinating. Why were students acting the way they did? How much influence does home life have on a student’s achievement? Will they be prepared for the life after high school? How can I get students to understand that what they do with their time is important? These questions and that type of mindset drove me to continue to build strong relationships with the people around me, including the students.
To fully understand students and their thoughts, sometimes we need to get to their level. When I was in school, time meant nothing. Anything significant that happened in our lives, we simply swept under the rug; we lived in the moment, and no one was going to stop us. We enjoyed life and created many memories, but I often think we didn’t embrace them like we should have. I heard many times from our high school football coach to embrace the moment and never take it for granted. This never really made sense to me until I got into college and the real world started making a little more sense.
How do we as educators get students to understand that what they do in high school matters? The relationships they make, the impressions they leave, the experiences they encounter, and the morals they develop play a significant role in their success later in life. I didn’t want to be the teacher or administrator who jumps up on his soap box and talks philosophically to these students, but I wanted them to understand that if they are spending time doing something, it matters. Time is valuable and full-hearted attention needs to be given to the task at hand. Adolescents and young adults especially need to understand they will never get time spent in their youth back. Some of the best advice I received growing up was:
Don’t look back on your life and regret time not spent well.
People with children in school know that when their students started school, the family dynamics changed, and school became an important part of the familial identity. When students come home, they are asked how school was. When they are eating dinner, they are asked what they learn. Families that put importance in education give their students a better chance of succeeding later in life. Everything I have learned has been in a school setting. I learned manners in elementary, awkwardness in middle school, responsibility and direction in high school, accountability in college, and passion in my professional career. So many of my values and viewpoints developed in an educational setting, and I would like to thank all my prior teachers, classmates, coworkers, and students for my strong foundation.
They always say the best way to learn is to make a connection to the information being presented. My experiences have reinforced my passion. The people one meets throughout life will mold their values and passions; that is why it is important to surround oneself with good people. I have been fortunate enough to learn from some great people. These people showed me that life is too short; the importance of being supportive and caring means everything, and that anyone can change people’s day with just a smile. A few lessons I have learned have come from people who are no longer with us. These people lived with passion, their lives spent focusing on the big picture. They lived in the moment while setting goals to be successful in the future. Their demeanor is what I admired most about them.
I have taken what I learned from these people and tried to implement that into my life. How can I make things better for my family? How can I help and impact the lives of people whom I encounter? What can I pass on to them to help them achieve their goals? How do I leave a legacy behind of which my family can be proud? Those are questions to which I will continue to seek the answers. Those questions drive people. Those questions that, when answered, bring fulfillment to one’s life. I will continue to search for those answers and rely on the people I love and the people I meet to help me get to where I want to be.
Many people have helped me along the way. My wife and daughter have fueled my passion for life and push me to be a better person each and every day. My parents and family have been supportive throughout my life, including this process. I could not have completed this project without the students in my sociology class who gave this project purpose. A special thanks to Misty Comes, Nic Ahmann, Nancy Adair, Becky Schlotterbeck, Julie Kneeland, John Melius, and Brett Brennan on reading bits and pieces throughout the process and giving me constructive criticism. I appreciate V.J. Smith and his guidance throughout the book writing, editing, and publishing process. Lastly, I want to thank my editor Nora Groft for her hard work and dedication to help this project be successful. Without them, the completion of this project would have been a massive undertaking.
Foreword
Have you ever asked yourself why? Why do people do the things they do? Why do situations turn out the way they do? Why is life so difficult? I used to ask myself these questions all the time until I met Mr. Mitch Reed. Little did I know that when I met this guy five years ago, he would change my outlook on life, and help me to become a better educator, parent, and person. I started teaching with Mitch in 2012. I was new to the school and was beginning my twelfth year of teaching. Mitch was starting out his career as a high school teacher. He pushed to change the world with all his great ideas and wasn’t going to let anything get in his way. Interestingly, he did everything he said he was going to do, and was very successful along his journey. It took him three years in education to work up to the principal position. He was not only the guy to go to at school, but also was visible to students, staff, and the community. He went to every school function and showed the students and community he cared.
My daughter was diagnosed with autism in 2015 at the age of ten. I always thought she may have it, but doctors always told me no. Imagine the devastation when a team of highly qualified doctors told me my thoughts were true: I was inconsolable. I told Mr. Reed the diagnosis, and he was empathetic, but he also said the news did not change who she is. We have all grown to love her and that won’t change because of the diagnosis. The diagnosis was just a label on the things that she does differently; it doesn’t change or define her.
My daughter had a serious infatuation with Mitch. Anytime she saw him at school, she would have to be with him. He always made her feel important and took time for her. It’s people like Mitch who truly make a difference in the lives of children. He would even come over to our house, sit in the hot garage, and color with her. How many twenty-something-year-old males would do this? He has become a great friend to my family and I appreciate his influence in our life.
In this book, he will provide insight to help us become a better people. He takes bad situations and is somehow able to turn them into learning opportunities. Our success can be determined in how we look at the situations in our life. His wisdom at such a young age is admirable. The way he connected with his students is truly amazing. He explains the importance of knowing people and their