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    Before I Could Walk
    Before I Could Walk
    Before I Could Walk
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    Before I Could Walk

    By Abigail Collins

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    BEFORE I COULD WALK is the courageous account of one womans journey out of the darkness of Multiple Personality Disorder, resulting from childhood, satanic ritual abuse, into the light of wholeness. Uniquely, the author weaves her passionate feelings, sense of humor and inspirational insights into the fabric of her recovery. Overcoming her greatest fears, she successfully confronts the numerous but necessary issues of her condition and her long forgotten childhood trauma. Deliberately excluding traumatizing descriptions of the abuse this refreshing narrative focuses on topics of the diagnosis, alters, losing time, orphanhood, rage, pain, survivor guilt, integration and much more. Written in a language survivors will hear, Abigail offers the hope of restoration and healing to those who struggle in their mid-night hour. A must for all who are called out of the violence for a meaningful purpose and peace.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherAuthorHouse
    Release dateMay 6, 2002
    ISBN9780759666412
    Before I Could Walk
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    Abigail Collins

    Diagnosed with Multiple Personality/Identity Disorder, Abigail has helped pioneer the frontiers of Satanic ritual abuse when little data was available for treatment. At the persuasion of her therapist, she began writing and drawing for publications and became involved in numerous projects throughout her recovery years. Her artwork has traveled throughout the United States to various Mental Health and teaching seminars, as well as, published in several issues of Many Voices. Her work also includes Dr. Walter Young, M.D. and Bob Larson’s video, In Satan’s Name, where the evils and recovery of ritual abuse are graphically exposed. Several articles within this book have appeared in Many Voices, Healing Woman and MENDING OURSELVES. With joy and laughter, Abigail impacts her audiences as she shares her testimony, journey and her Christian faith in Mental Health seminars, religious retreats and youth summits. Today she enjoys a fulfilling life with her husband and her adult children. A variety of interests hold her attention in the sports of hiking and swimming while she enjoys hobbies of gardening, sewing, collecting Ginny Dolls and shelling. Dedicated to seeing the captive set free and the brokenhearted healed, she fulfills her destiny by offering hope and deliverance to the suffering.

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      Before I Could Walk - Abigail Collins

      © 2002 by Abigail Collins. All rights reserved.

      No part of this book may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise, without written permission from the author.

      ISBN: 0-7596-6642-3

      ISBN: 978-0-7596-6641-2 (ebook)

      Scripture taken from THE HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION. ® COPYRIGHT © 1973, 1978, 1984 International Bible Society. Used by permission of Zondervan Publishing House."

      Scripture taken from the NEW AMERICAN STANDARD BIBLE ® Copyright © 1960, 1962, 1963, 1968, 1971, 1972, 1973, 1975, 1977, 1995 by the Lockman Foundation. Used by permission.

      IstBooks-rev. 5/03/02

      Table of Contents

      1. Life Before Therapy

      2. The Day The Party Ended

      3. Is Ignorance Bliss?

      4. In The Beginning There Was Chaos

      5. When The Dam Broke

      6. Do I Have To Like This Person?

      7. Don’t Forget To Sightsee Along The Way

      8. Nothing But Fragments

      9. You’ve Got To Be Kidding!!!

      10. A Matter of Touch

      11. Valley Of The Deepest Humiliation

      12. Children Are A Gift

      13. Where Am I?

      14. Silence Broken

      15. And Two Makes One

      16. Bridge of Acceptance

      17. The Longest Night

      18. When The Well Runs Dry

      19. Where Are You God?

      20. Tie A Knot and Hang Tight

      21. When Trust Won’t Come

      22. Don’t Quit

      23. Masturbastion

      24. When Death Had Her Way

      25. Help! There’s A Gay in the House!

      26. Until The Storm Passes Over

      27. When The Music Stopped

      28. When The Heart Breaks

      29. I Just Want To Blow Up The World

      30. A Time To Heal

      31. Gratis

      32. Halloween and Other Significant Dates

      33. Language Relearned

      34. Post Integration

      35. Graduation

      36. Life Beyond Therapy

      37. Bibliography

      For multiples of Satanic ritual abuse who are braving the rigorous frontiers of healing. May you come to know the glory of your Creator, Jesus Christ, and heal in His tender, loving wings.

      Acknowledgements

      I am greatly indebted to my children, who nurtured and kept me alive during the hard times. I am indebted to my therapist and all the other professionals who treated me, as well as, my priest, other ministers and intercessors who aided my healing.

      Last but not least, I am greatly indebted to my husband who extended endless patience and support through this writing project. I humbly give all credit to my Creator, Jesus Christ, who wrote this book for His people. I was only an honored vessel for His higher purposes.

      List of Illustrations

      1. Funnyside of the Multiside-What makes you think I’m afraid?

      2. Funnyside of the Multiside-I’m not Multiple!

      3. Funnyside of the Multiside-What Do You Mean I Can’t Keep Time?

      4. Funnyside of the Multiside-This Is Progress?

      5. Funnyside of the Multiside-Do I Have To Like These Others?

      6. Funnyside of the Multiside-You said To Cooperate…

      7. Nothing But Fragments

      8. Funnyside of the Multiside-What Do You Mean These Things Take Time?

      9. Funnyside of the Multiside-I’d Rather Fight Than Switch!

      10. God Rocks Away Our Pain

      11. Integration

      12. Ain’t It The Truth!-Mt. Healing

      13. Funnyside of the Multiside-Let Me Out of Here!

      14. Ain’t It The Truth!-Sea of Multiplicity

      15. Funnyside of the Multiside-I’m Ready To Grieve.

      16. Funnyside of the Multiside-You Said To Loose Control…

      17. Funnyside of the Multiside-What Anger Problem?

      18. Storms

      19. Ain’t It The Truth!-On The Shores of Normal

      Preface

      When I was diagnosed with Multiple Personality Disorder, now known as Identity Disorder, there was very little literature available for survivors. I desperately wanted to know someone else had successfully made the healing journey. My mind was full of so many questions and concerns. I felt so incrediably isolated from the human race, as though no one else had experienced my hardships. My therapist gave me clinical material which I hungrily devoured but it didn’t provide a road map. There were testimonals with blow by blow, descriptions of the horrifying abuse but I had to know my experiences were coming from myself and not by any outside suggestions, movies or literature. In the midnight hour, I longed for another survivor’s assurance of hope and an exchange of successful recovery experiences but there was only a silent void.

      This book is a collection of short articles, illustrations and cartoons addressing the various aspects and stages of the theraputic, process of healing. The pages within share the intimate details of my painful journey through recovery with God and my therapist. In a way, it is a diary of conflict and reconcilliation, in a journey of small steps towards trust. It is designed to be read at various stages of growth or as a whole and meant to be tangible proof of another survivor’s assent to healing. Provided at the end of every chapter are the Scriptures that benefited me. It is my hope you, the reader, will also profit.

      Over the years some methods of treatment have changed due to different schools of thought. Also, treatment is sometimes distinctive to the personality traits of the therapist, not to mention, the intrusion of the insurance company’s mandates that now often alter recovery plans. However, aside from those issues and for the record, I personally never experienced any inappropriate touching from my therapist, nor, did she ever make any suggestions to me about the events or those people involved with the abuse. At my own insistence, I didn’t permit any kind of hypnotism or drugs to aid my retrieval of memories. I totally relied on God and His Holy Spirit, to bring those buried events into my present day consciousness.

      It is my hope, the reader’s recovery will be accelerated through this book, as well as, give relatives, friends and support people an understanding of the issues at hand. In no way is this text meant to be a preaching or judgemental platform but an account of my own personal journey into the Light. Every survivor must find their own path and every journey is unique to the individual, although similarities are common to all. My greatest desire is for every survivor to find their own loving, intimate relationship with the real Jesus, so the lies of the false Jesus, will be banished forever, and you can live in secure, contented peace.

      Chapter 1

      Life Before Therapy

      One single word could best summarize my life, twenty plus years ago, and that was chaotic! No matter how hard I tried to make the pieces of my life fit together, they fell apart with disappointing regularity.

      Exhaustion plagued me most of the time. I had no idea what day it was, except for the school calendar, much less the year. Headaches, painful bowel problems, allergies and asthma were the norm. Anxiety and tachacardia assailed me which finally lead to the diagnosis of mitral valve prolapse. Excruciating, monthly periods totally incapacitated my activities for days, until a hysterectomy and reconstructive surgery ended my agony of twenty two years. Apart from the hormonal imbalances, mood swings kept me swinging like a monkey going from tree to tree, often leaving others at a complete loss. Adding to the confusion, I frequently had no memory of my various displays of emotions. Nightmares often robbed my nocturnal sleep and my screams pierced the night for help. Rarely, did I have any recall concerning my night terrors but only a vague feeling, haunted my dreams, from my long ago childhood. Despite my intense dislike of being touched by strangers, I would seek medical help for vague sicknesses, only to be told there were no evidences for my complaints. This resulted in psychiatric referrals that only dead-ended in chemical addictions of tranquilizing, prescription drugs and a large financial debt. Deep inside, there was an unexplainable, undercurrent but no matter how hard I tried, I couldn’t penetrate the thick walls of my memory. Approaching my Mother for answers only brought more defeat, as she accused me of having an overactive imagination. An unsettling foreboding left me with a sense of knowing, she held the keys to my truth and was lying. My sense of isolation and mistrust of others was even more solidified.

      In addition to all my complexities, my marriage was full of strife and violence that held frequent beatings and child abuse for my two children. Consequently, my children lacked boundaries and were out of control, acting out their emotions. Depression and hopelessness were my constant companions since we attended an interdenominational church that compounded the abuse with Shepherding. I was counseled not to rely on any other, outside sources and particularly, psychiatrists and doctors. If I left the marriage, I would certainly go to Hell and take my children with me. Accounts of the life-threatening abuse and beatings were cast off in disbelief and ignored since I was the one who walked in rebellion. I was admonished for not submitting to my husband and told I got what I deserved. I needed to repent of my sins, have more faith and trust God for healing. Feeling betrayed by the Church, I held onto God with all my strength. I was exhausted from all the stress and the endless tightrope I walked. I no longer had to be concerned with keeping my figure, as the pounds were falling off with regularity, regardless of my diet and frequency of excercise.

      Frightened and alone I wanted to give my children a better life but I felt trapped and unprepared to financially support us. Returning home to my wealthy, widowed Mother wasn’t an option, since she on numerous occasions, expressed her hatred for children. I wanted God to magically work an instant miracle and make it all

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