Location via proxy:   [ UP ]  
[Report a bug]   [Manage cookies]                
Everand Logo

Welcome to Everand!

  • Discover millions of ebooks, audiobooks, and so much more with a free trial

    From $11.99/month after trial. Cancel anytime.

    The Pi$$ed Off Midwife's Guide to having a Baby: What every parent should know
    The Pi$$ed Off Midwife's Guide to having a Baby: What every parent should know
    The Pi$$ed Off Midwife's Guide to having a Baby: What every parent should know
    Ebook101 pages59 minutes

    The Pi$$ed Off Midwife's Guide to having a Baby: What every parent should know

    By E. Bali

    ()

    Read preview

    About this ebook

    Working as a midwife in hospitals of all kinds, I came find that many women were coming into the labor ward ill prepared to have their baby. And the time I had with them in hospital after the birth was not nearly enough to teach them everything they needed to know about their precious newborn. So, I decided to write down everything I know in one

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherEktaa Bali
    Release dateSep 24, 2020
    ISBN9780648983019
    The Pi$$ed Off Midwife's Guide to having a Baby: What every parent should know

    Related to The Pi$$ed Off Midwife's Guide to having a Baby

    Related ebooks

    Wellness For You

    View More
    View More

    Related podcast episodes

    Related categories

    Reviews for The Pi$$ed Off Midwife's Guide to having a Baby

    0 ratings

    0 ratings0 reviews

    What did you think?

    Tap to rate

    Review must be at least 10 words

      Book preview

      The Pi$$ed Off Midwife's Guide to having a Baby - E. Bali

      1: Pregnancy

      The Health of your baby

      Your baby’s movements are the first sign of well-being

      From 16 weeks you’ll start to notice movements. Keep an eye on these and get familiar with your baby’s personality.

      Do not buy a Doppler. I repeat. Do not buy a Doppler. (This is the thing that the doctor/midwife uses to listen to the baby’s heartbeat). WHY? Because it is not an indicator of whether a baby is well. A Doppler only tells you the baby has a heartbeat, not that they are well or unwell. It cannot and should not be used as reassurance. Midwives just do it at appointments because it’s exciting for the parents to hear. It should not be used to reassure you if you are worried. Your baby’s movements are more important.

      The best way to tell if you should be worried about your baby is how normal their movements are for that time of day. If your baby’s movements are less than they usually are you MUST call your doctor/midwife/hospital immediately for monitoring.

      The health of your mind

      Why don’t we talk about this more?

      Make some time each day to talk to your baby or read to them (they start to pick up words and emotions from super early on, believe it or not)

      Your baby learns about the world it is about to enter from you. Babies born to super anxious mothers are more anxious themselves. Make time to do some deep breathing, tell your baby they are safe (out loud or inside your head) and tell them you love them.

      Have your partner connect with the baby as well by talking to them. (If your partner is a male, babies love male voices because they can hear the deeper voice more easily inside there).

      Take some time to think about your role as a mother and how you are going through into the new phase of your life.

      Connect to whatever spiritual beliefs you have about birth and life

      If things start to get stressful, hormonal, sad or angry, take a time out and feel those emotions, don’t ignore your feelings or bury them. And then count the things in life you are grateful for. There are some seriously interesting research studies on the effect of ‘gratitude’ on the body and mind.

      Develop a plan for how to deal with stress, anger, lack of sleep, baby blues and how to make time for self care after the birth.

      Take time for self care weekly (if not daily!)

      Self-care are things that bring you true joy and happiness

      Self care is also attending to the needs of your body and mind, even if it’s a chore to do it

      Nutrition

      It goes without saying: half or more of your diet should come from fruits and vegetables

      The rest should be meat, diary and carbohydrates (emerging research is showing diets higher in sugars and unhealthy fats can lead to behavioural problems in children).

      Those with dietary preferences should check with their doctor for vitamin deficiency

      I.e.: Vegetarians and vegans need to consider their Iron and B12 levels.

      Iron deficiency in pregnancy is very common in even in non vegetarians

      2L of water a day no excuses

      Towards the end of pregnancy some women can get constipated, so up your fibre and water or you can get gentle laxatives from the supermarket. You’ll need these for after the birth, anyway.

      Vitamins

      A prenatal vitamin

      + Any extras your doctor advises you: Iron, B12, Vitamin D are common

      The no-go zone:

      Undercooked meat and eggs

      Soft cheese and unpasteurised diary

      Raw fish, cold meats (risk of bacteria like salmonella)

      Big fishes (too much mercury)- shark, tuna

      Organ meats (too much vitamin A can be toxic to babies)

      Alcohol (there is no known ‘safe’ amount of alcohol we can recommend for pregnancy. The research is saying it is best not to drink at all).

      Exercise

      Stay consistent with exercise from pre-pregnancy. Don’t go adding new and elaborate things. You might have to tone it down during the end of pregnancy

      Do you pelvic floor exercises pronto! (If you want a good sex life after the baby or just want to prevent bladder leakage DO THEM). This is a great video explaining the whole thing: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OArrUPQqCHM

      Sleeping

      Lie on your side from 20 weeks, never on your back. (Why? Because the blood vessel that supply the baby with oxygen is right down the centre of your body behind the uterus. Every time you lie on your back ,the baby’s weight presses on this vessel blocking their own blood flow)

      If you have trouble sleeping by a body pillow or pregnancy pillow. These can be a life saver for finding a good position

      If, towards the end of pregnancy, you are getting a lot of painful Braxton Hicks contractions, it’s usually a sign that you need to hydrate and take a rest.

      Swelling

      Puffy feet are normal in pregnancy, especially towards

      Enjoying the preview?
      Page 1 of 1