Light Up the Grind
()
About this ebook
Richard Everts' advice ranges from why adults should still believe in Santa Clause to how the secret to a loving marriage is in having separate bathrooms. "Light Up the Grind" is an intellectual and insightful collection that pulls you in with its simplicity and leaves you with an unexpected deep understanding on life, love, and the grind.
Related to Light Up the Grind
Related ebooks
#MuchBetter #ThanksForAsking Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Low Vibe Oracle: Official Guidebook: An Awful Guide to An Awful Oracle Deck Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsConnections in the Sacred: Finding Your Meaning in the Ordinary Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Art of Positive Disruption: A Krizillion Ways to Create a Kaleidoscopic Life Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsCreative Play: A Guide for the Artistic Path Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsNotebooks: 2010 - 2020 Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsEssential Eyes: And Other Stories for Surreal Times Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsTeen Philosophy Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGreen, Ho! Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsBaggage: Tales from a Fully Packed Life Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5At A Loss For Words: A Post-Romantic Novel Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Spoon Knife Anthology: Thoughts on Defiance, Compliance, and Resistance Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsTreading Water Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsIntrospections: What the Hell Is Going On?! Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsNew Frontiers and Other Lands Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsLet the Elephants Run: Unlock Your Creativity and Change Everything Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5Take the Red Pill Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsWandering Amongst Imagination's Headstones Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsInsect Carcasses Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsRefrigerator Magnets Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsIn Pursuit of Inspiration: Trust Your Instincts and Make More Art Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Meditations: 30 days to self-made happiness Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGet There Now: Transform Yourself and the World Through Laughter, Listening, and the Power of Choice Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Way Through the Woods: The green witch’s guide to navigating life’s ups and downs Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsYou Won't Believe Me Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Spirit Test, A Breadcrumb Path for the Transcendentally Challenged Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsKaleidoscope: Seeing God's Wit and Wisdom in a Whole New Light Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5What Never Happened: An Observation Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsYou Were Built to Create Cool S**t: A friendly guide to exploring your curiosity and crafting a better world Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings
Personal Growth For You
Unfuck Your Brain: Using Science to Get Over Anxiety, Depression, Anger, Freak-outs, and Triggers Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Four Loves Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: The Infographics Edition Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: A Therapist, HER Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Big Book of 30-Day Challenges: 60 Habit-Forming Programs to Live an Infinitely Better Life Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Girl, Wash Your Face: Stop Believing the Lies About Who You Are so You Can Become Who You Were Meant to Be Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Alchemist: A Graphic Novel Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Purpose Driven Life: What on Earth Am I Here For? Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Think and Grow Rich (Illustrated Edition): With linked Table of Contents Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Self-Care for People with ADHD: 100+ Ways to Recharge, De-Stress, and Prioritize You! Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes are High, Third Edition Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The 5AM Club: Own Your Morning. Elevate Your Life. Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Crucial Conversations Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High, Second Edition Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Source: The Secrets of the Universe, the Science of the Brain Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Changes That Heal: Four Practical Steps to a Happier, Healthier You Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The 5 Second Rule: Transform Your Life, Work, and Confidence with Everyday Courage Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Codependence and the Power of Detachment: How to Set Boundaries and Make Your Life Your Own Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before? Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Mastery of Self: A Toltec Guide to Personal Freedom Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Present Over Perfect: Leaving Behind Frantic for a Simpler, More Soulful Way of Living Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Reviews for Light Up the Grind
0 ratings0 reviews
Book preview
Light Up the Grind - Richard Everts
Dedication
For my eternal Beloved,
for whom I am but a pale footstep
upon the sandy beaches of time.
May your light burn ever brighter through me,
then shine down upon me,
illuminating a grateful steward’s life.
And for my wife and son,
who deserve a better Terra.
© Richard Everts 2022
ISBN: 978-1-66782-123-8
eBook ISBN: 978-1-66782-124-5
All rights reserved. This book or any portion thereof may not be reproduced or used in any manner whatsoever without the express written permission of the publisher except for the use of brief quotations in a book review.
Contents
Introduction
Ideas Should Never Have Time to Cake to a Whiteboard
Santa Claus Is Real
There Are Always More Dragons Being Born
The Key to a Happy Marriage
Set Yourself on Fire
Don’t Be Ashamed of Two Things
The Power of a Good Compliment
Evil Is Real
Be a Huckleberry
Ozzy Was Right
Never Forget the Last American Saint
The Freedom of a Round Table
Final Thoughts
Introduction
This is a short book about some things I’ve learned and experienced over the last couple of decades of pretty much constantly getting my butt kicked by life, with a few small victories here and there.
I’m lucky to be alive, having almost died quite a few times and, as Jim Morrison once said, This is the strangest life I’ve ever known.
I’ve directed and produced some films, started and failed at a number of startups, had dozens of jobs and lots of gigs in various industries and services, spoken at numerous conferences and events, and worked within the disabilities nonprofit community for a long time. I even have ideas about the next thousand years that I’m writing in another book.
But I just wanted to get something out.
So, here it is, my first self-help book, after reading hundreds of self-help books by others.
Sometimes it’s personal. Sometimes it’s just stories or ideas. However, I can say that whatever is here is all true, at least as far as I know.
I hope you enjoy and get something out of it.
Ideas Should Never Have Time to Cake to a Whiteboard
In my living space, close to where I sleep, I have a custom whiteboard that I built out of a huge roll of white film-background paper, which is used as a base, covered with three four-by-eight-foot pieces of acrylic plastic sheets. They sit as two four-by-eights stacked horizontally, with the third vertically next to them, which gives me a twelve-by-eight-foot whiteboard for less than $375 worth of parts from The Home Depot and B&H Photo.
Visitors always find the board filled with my latest crackpot ideas, scribbles of physics or math equations or neural networks, notes about the next big business idea or mock-ups of user experiences of software, or sometimes just terrible narratives even I can barely read, that I wrote at 4 a.m. after my body forced me awake and commanded me to create.
It’s also where I keep my New Year’s resolutions every year, tucked away in a small corner. This year, it looks like I’ll hit four of the five, which is an improvement over the previous year with three out of five.
Likewise, I keep track of some of my strangest dreams, to see the patterns of my subconscious, of what my mind is really