Wardrobe Wisdom: How to dress and take care of your clothes
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You and your clothes can always look their fabulous best with the wisdom of Alicia Healey, a lady's maid and wardrobe consultant who trained at Buckingham Palace and now works with clients around the world. She knows what works for you and what fits every occasion.
Your wardrobe is crammed with clothes but you’ve got nothing to wear. Sound familiar?
Let us introduce you to The Lady’s Maid. A modern-day Mary Poppins of fashion, she knows what to wear, how to wear it and how to make do and mend with minimal fuss and lashings of style to ensure you and your clothes always look their fabulous best.
Alicia Healey trained at Buckingham Palace before travelling the world working as a lady's maid and wardrobe consultant for high-profile clients including a Middle Eastern Royal family. She’ll help you to declutter your closet, turn clothing chaos into calm and build a capsule wardrobe for every season with timeless, versatile garments.
For every special occasion, she’s got your back: whether it’s a job interview, a wedding, a day at the races or even meeting royalty. Let The Lady’s Maid help you take the stress out of dressing, pack like a pro, deal with every kind of clothing crisis, and defeat the dreaded moth.
Alicia Healey
Alicia Healey has an MA in Art History from the University of St Andrews. She spent four years working for the Royal Household based at Buckingham Palace before travelling the world as a Lady’s Maid, PA and Wardrobe Consultant, visiting locations including Riyadh, Japan, Bali and the USA.
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Wardrobe Wisdom - Alicia Healey
Introduction
Vain trifles as they seem, clothes have, they say, more important offices than to merely keep us warm. They change our view of the world and the world’s view of us.
ORLANDO, VIRGINIA WOOLF
Ladies of wealth in possession of extensive wardrobes are the kinds of ladies who might require the services of a modern-day lady’s maid. How else to manage the rows of handbags with five-figure price tags, shelves of shoes from floor to ceiling, endless rails of exquisite couture dresses and bespoke tailoring all hanging in line waiting for their next outing? Wardrobes of this scale are like museums – their valuable contents should be cared for, worn, seen and loved. Curating clothing is a lady’s maid’s work. That was one of the skills I learned within the Royal Household at Buckingham Palace over the four years I worked there. After I left, I became a style connoisseur and expert in all manner of clothing crises and wardrobe woes. I have criss-crossed the globe with Saudi Arabian clients, both rich and royal, where my duties included organising vast wardrobes, caring for clothes and accessories, packing suitcases and styling the perfect outfit. My travels have broadened my wardrobe as well as my mind – from acquiring the obligatory black abaya dress for a trip to Riyadh, to finding the right ballgown for guests reeling with the royals at Balmoral Castle – there are very few clothing crises that I haven’t faced!
I became captivated by the glamour of clothes as a child. Given a dressing-up box of my mum’s old clothing, I would squabble with my sister over trying on shoes and elegant dresses that swamped my child’s frame and spend hours tidying my grandma’s silk scarf drawer and jewellery box. I watched costume dramas and period films just to revel in the elegance of their clothes, in sharp contrast to the utilitarian casual style of the 1990s. Turning away from the sportswear, clunky shoes and lack of colour that dominated the shops as I grew up, I looked to women with timeless style – Jackie Kennedy, Eva Peron, Grace Kelly, Princess Diana.
Clothes are an avenue for being creative with our personal style and so reflect our individual personalities and moods. I have always been aware of the transformative power of clothing to change how we feel – whether it be a professional look to give confidence at work, or dressing up for a special event. Even casual clothes – the trusty favourites you return to over and over again – are like a comfort blanket and when I’m properly dressed, I feel my best self.
I developed a more mindful approach to shopping and looking after my own clothes after becoming startled by the millions of garments that end up in landfill sites each year. I kicked the hoarding habit and now have a classic capsule wardrobe that’s easily transportable across seasons, countries and cultures. In 2014 I started my blog ‘The Lady’s Maid’, and in 2017 an Instagram account to share my tips on style and clothing care. Now I have queries every day from Bahrain to Baltimore asking for advice on what to wear to different events, what to pack for trips, how to get rid of a stubborn stain and how to save that favourite cardigan from the ubiquitous enemy of all knitwear: the pesky moth.
In this book, I will provide practical guidance on how to create the perfect wardrobe space for your clothing needs, how to effectively organise your clothing within your wardrobe, how to care for you clothing and accessories, and how to dress for any occasion. Clothing is part of our everyday lives – everyone has to make choices on what clothes to buy and wear. Whether you’re a fashionista with a shoe collection to compete with Imelda Marcos, or have no interest in fashion until beset with what-on-earth-to-wear anxiety, my approach transforms even the most modest of wardrobes so that you can start to cherish the garments you own and dress effortlessly. If you would like to step into the (perfectly polished) shoes of Downton’s Lady Mary and have your very own Anna to help with all your wardrobe woes, then read on for Wardrobe Wisdom from The Lady’s Maid.
IllustrationIllustrationIllustrationDress codes
You can never be overdressed or overeducated.
OSCAR WILDE
I would venture to say that most women have thought to themselves, ‘I have nothing to wear’, when faced with an invitation to an event. And should this event come with a dress code, this dressing anxiety goes up a notch. Dress codes usually appear on invitations to formal events in order to guide the recipient on what to wear, so that you don’t arrive under or overdressed. While Oscar Wilde might have been right in the matter of education, I am of the opinion that it is indeed possible to be overdressed. For example, if attending a reception in the presence of the Queen and the dress code stated ‘Lounge Suit’, it would be bad etiquette to arrive in a state of dress more formal than this. The wording of the dress code on invitations relates to the men’s dress, e.g. ‘White Tie’, ‘Black Tie’, ‘Morning Suit’, ‘Lounge Suit’. These all, in their literal interpretation, refer to what the man should wear, so it is understandable that some twenty-first-century ladies might be somewhat uncertain as to what the female equivalent should be. Men’s fashion is always more uniform in nature: a black tie suit is a black tie suit, and the same one can be pulled out of the wardrobe event after event. The trouble (and fun) for the lady is that female fashion changes at a faster pace and there is an almost infinite variety of dresses, in terms of colour, style and detail, that are available for women when interpreting the same dress code. Add to that the pressure and expectation to wear a new dress to each event and the result is the modern-day what-to-wear dilemma.
Formal dress
White tie
White tie is the most formal of dress codes. It is rarely seen today and is reserved mainly for royal occasions, such as state banquets and other royal ceremonies and state occasions.
• Ladies should wear a full-length, formal evening dress, with matching elegant shoes and bag.
• Tiaras can be worn – though traditionally only worn by married women.
• Long gloves were traditionally worn with sleeveless dresses, but they’re not compulsory now.
• If a coat is needed it should be a smart evening coat – capes, wraps or faux fur shrugs work best with white tie.
• Shoes should be either heeled courts or sandals. When wearing closed-toe shoes, satin, velvet or metallic leather are the best options – plain leather or suede can look too casual.
• Jewellery – white tie is traditionally accessorised with extravagant jewels. The glitzier the better. If you have fancy family jewels, now is the time to wear them.
IllustrationWhite tie
Black tie
This dress code is similar to white tie for ladies but less formal and is still frequently seen today at formal dinners, receptions and balls.
• Ladies should wear an evening dress or a matching evening top and long skirt.
• Shorter dresses are acceptable but should be of a decent knee or midi length and dressy enough to distinguish from a cocktail dress, i.e. if you are going short, then go glitzy.
• Tiaras are not worn.
• Shoes – closed-toe heels or sandals, as with white tie.
IllustrationBlack tie
Cocktail dress
• Short dress – mini to knee-length is acceptable.
If in doubt, a little black dress is a great wardrobe staple to have as a cocktail dress – it can be easily dressed up and down, depending on the event.
• Accessories – costume jewellery is great for dressing up plain cocktail dresses – go for either statement earrings or a statement necklace.
IllustrationCocktail dress
Morning dress
Morning dress is the most formal day dress code (also known as ‘formal day dress’). It is still frequently used on invitations for day events, e.g. weddings, Royal Ascot, royal garden parties, investitures.
• Ladies should wear either a formal day dress with matching jacket/coat or a smart two-piece suit.
• Dresses can be worn without a jacket, but they should have a reasonable sleeve length.
• Check dress codes for the specific event – some may require hats/headpieces (e.g. the Royal Enclosure at Royal Ascot), but for other events it may not be necessary to wear a hat.
• Morning dress is a day dress code, so avoid too much evening-style fabric in the dress and accessories, e.g. satin or velvet.
• Closed-toe court heels in suede or leather are the most appropriate footwear, but peep-toe is acceptable in summer. Avoid strappy sandals.
• Bags can be a clutch or a small handbag.
• Jewellery – diamonds can be a bit dressy for the daytime. Semi-precious stones and pearls are the most appropriate choice.
IllustrationMorning dress
Top tips for formal daywear dressing
• Stick to two colours – one for the outfit and one for accessories.
• Neutral accessories are great for formal dressing – nude, ivory and black will go with outfits of most colours.
• Avoid bright colours unless you accessorise neutrally.
• The royals are wise to be seen mainly in all shades of neutral – it may seem boring, but it is hard not to look elegant in oyster or champagne.
• Avoid flimsy fascinators, such as a feather stuck on an Alice band – they add nothing to the style of an outfit. If you don’t want to wear a hat, choose a headpiece with a substantial base.
• If you have chosen a flamboyant statement hat, let the hat speak for itself and stick to a simple, unfussy dress and accessories.
• Traditionally, sleeves of dresses for formal daywear should be of a reasonable length, so if your dress is sleeveless, a neutral cropped jacket works well with most colours.
• Avoid cardigans for formal events (unless they are cropped and slim-fitting, and you are young enough to carry them off), as they’re a bit too casual as a cover-up over a formal dress.
IllustrationFormal daywear
Informal dress
Lounge suit
As a dress code, ‘Lounge Suit’ can be seen on either a day or an evening invitation. It is much more casual than morning dress and can be interpreted quite widely for ladies.
• If the event is in the evening, a smart short evening/cocktail dress would be appropriate.
• For daytime events, a day dress or a smart blouse and skirt, or jacket and skirt, is suitable, or a trouser suit.
• Choose colours/prints appropriate to the occasion – i.e. if it is a business event, your choice of colour would perhaps be more sober than for a more social event.
• Wrap dresses and shirt dresses are good options, as they are slightly more casual than other dresses, so are a good choice for bridging dress codes.
• If it is an after-work event, office wear can be smartened up with higher heels and smaller handbags, and jewellery.
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