Send us a textEp 508: Ruan Willow with Marla Renee Stewart, Sexologist, Sexual Strategist, & Author. Join us as we discuss the intricacies of sexual health, the importance of unlearning societal norms, and the ways to foster better communication and pleasure in relationships. Marla shares her insights on sexuality, well-being, seduction, sexual tension, toys, techniques, using dirty talk, and the fascinating world of kinky play. Whether you're curious about squirting, impact play, or integrating sex toys into your love life, this episode is packed with valuable advice and practical tips to enhance your sexual experiences.Paying attention to your sexual health is a part of your mental health and self care strategies, as is seeking sex education. Alternative lifestyles are valid options. and can give people great happiness and satisfaction.Discussion Timeline:00:00:00 " Ruan Willow's podcast has hit 1.1 million downloads00:00:38 " Marla Renee Stewart is a sexologist, author and sexual strategist00:03:51 " Do you meet with individual clients or do you do classes?00:04:33 " In some of your classes, you have kink classes and non-kinky classes00:09:22 " Many people don't believe that squirting is a real thing, is it pee?00:13:05 " Some people don't really know what the clitoris even looks like00:17:37 " Your class helps femdoms understand their subs better00:18:47 " One of the keys to driving sexual tension is the planting of sex seeds00:24:26 " How about give us some tips or advice about people interested in impact play00:26:15 " Do you find any age groups that are more open to trying new sexual things00:33:14 " Pervertibles are everyday household items that can be used for kinky play00:34:08 " Now let's talk a little bit about sex toys. And do you have a favorite one00:37:39 " Do you think there are more toys available to women than people with penises00:42:10 " Some people are scared of sex toys, but you can try them00:45:15 " Always do the research. Munches are really great for education00:47:16 " Why is aftercare important? And what do you think00:52:19 " Marla Stewart encourages people to try things at least three timesResources: - Velvet Lips- Sex Down South Conference- Race and Kink- The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and ForeplayFollow Marla Renee Stewart on social media: @1marlastewartShow notes created by https://headliner.appGuest Bio: Marla Renee Stewart, MA (she/her) is a sexologist, author, and sexual strategist who runs her own sexuality education company, Velvet Lips, and is also a Co-Founder of the Sex Down South Conference. She has studied human sexuality for more than 22 years and has given over 1000 workshops all over the world. She also has been featured on a variety of media outlets, including Netflix’s Trigger Warning with Killer Mike and Love & HipHop Atlanta. She co-wrote her first book, The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay with Dr. Jessica O’Reilly, which debuted in April 2020.Podcast Host Ruan Willow's books and audiobooks: http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Support the showSubscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge