A cinematic portrait of various gay Orthodox Jews who struggle to reconcile their faith and their sexual orientation.A cinematic portrait of various gay Orthodox Jews who struggle to reconcile their faith and their sexual orientation.A cinematic portrait of various gay Orthodox Jews who struggle to reconcile their faith and their sexual orientation.
- Awards
- 8 wins & 3 nominations total
Photos
Steve Greenberg
- Self
- (as Rabbi Steve Greenberg)
Nathan Lopes Cardozo
- Self
- (as Rabbi Dr. Nathan Lopes Cardozo)
Shlomo Riskin
- Self
- (as Rabbi Shlomo Riskin)
Yaakov Meir Weil
- Self - Psychiatrist
- (as Dr. Yaakov Meir Weil)
Storyline
Did you know
- TriviaThe spelling of the last word in this movie's title comes from the Jewish tradition of treating any written representation of the name of God with respect, and not writing it on any document that might be treated carelessly or accidentally or deliberately defaced, destroyed, or erased (a longstanding Rabbinical interpretation of Deuteronomy 12:3). Since this movie, like most, had posters, sales materials, contractual paperwork, DVD covers, and other ephemera with its title on them go out into public hands, the filmmakers used the G-d spelling out of respect and recognition that there was no way to know how the documents on which the name would be treated outside of their presences.
- Quotes
Rabbie Meir Fund: ...so the Jew who is gay by choice... work like mad to overcome it... a Jew who is, as we might say, wall-to-wall gay... I will hold his hand, figuratively... and do the best I can to give him strength to serve G-d.
- ConnectionsFeatured in SexTV: Trembling Before G-d/Midori (2002)
Featured review
This is a very disturbing documentary. One can only congratulate director Sandi Dubowski for the courage in dealing with the subject matter. Of course, the study here was done among Orthodox Jews who are at the margin of their religion. This film is universal because it could apply to conservative beliefs as well.
How can the people in charge of a congregation reject anyone because they are different from what ancient texts tell? Aren't these gay men and women the product of legal marriages from religion abiding parents? These children didn't ask to be born gay, but the fact remains they are that way and no one, being the rabbis in charge, or the parents can reverse the fact. Love, nurturing, acceptance are lacking from all those in high places.
After viewing the film, I felt great sadness for the people that have to lead a life away from family and community for just being gay. Shame on the parents and the leaders for banning their children into oblivion. I salute their stand for being themselves.
How can the people in charge of a congregation reject anyone because they are different from what ancient texts tell? Aren't these gay men and women the product of legal marriages from religion abiding parents? These children didn't ask to be born gay, but the fact remains they are that way and no one, being the rabbis in charge, or the parents can reverse the fact. Love, nurturing, acceptance are lacking from all those in high places.
After viewing the film, I felt great sadness for the people that have to lead a life away from family and community for just being gay. Shame on the parents and the leaders for banning their children into oblivion. I salute their stand for being themselves.
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- Also known as
- Трепет перед Б-гом
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Box office
- Gross US & Canada
- $788,896
- Opening weekend US & Canada
- $21,410
- Oct 28, 2001
- Gross worldwide
- $788,896
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