Scripture Prayers For Wives
Scripture Prayers For Wives
Scripture Prayers For Wives
TABLE OF CONTENTS
1. Introduction 3
2. Marriage Relationship 6
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Intercessors For A Righteous
Nation
Ann Kramer, Founder and President
“Thus says the Lord, In an acceptable and favorable time I have heard and answered you, and in a day of
salvation I have helped you: and I will preserve you and give you for a covenant to the people to raise up and
establish the land [from its present state of ruin] and to apportion and cause them to inherit the desolate [moral
wastes of heathenism, their] heritages, saying to those who are bound, Come forth, and to those who are in
[spiritual] darkness, Show yourselves [come into the light of the SUN OF RIGHTEOUSNESS].” Isaiah 49:8-9.
Dear Intercessor:
In every human relationship, marriage being the most intimate, there are three stages of love.
The FIRST stage is SUPERFICIAL. When we are first getting to know someone, we usually
only relate on a very shallow level. Initially, we try to put our best foot forward, because we are
trying to win one another’s love and approval. However, as time progresses, we begin to let our
guard down, revealing sides of ourselves that we would have been afraid to UNVEIL until we
were more secure in one another’s love. The longer our relationship is tested through life’s
circumstances, the more it tends to bring out the best and the worst of who we REALLY are!
This brings us to the SECOND stage of love, which is DISILLUSIONMENT. It doesn’t take us
too long to realize that this is NOT the person that we THOUGHT we married! Actually, this is
a very healthy and important stage of development. We cannot be DISILLUSIONED unless we
FIRST have some ILLUSIONS. An illusion is simply a FALSE EXPECTATION—and false
expectations ALWAYS bring DISAPPOINTMENT.
Several years ago, I knew a man who was preparing to marry, and the closer the wedding day
came, the more he noticed things in his future wife that did not meet his expectations of the way
he always DREAMED she would be. He had always DREAMED that she would have certain
physical characteristics—and she did NOT! He had always DREAMED that falling in love
would feel a certain way—and it did NOT! He had always DREAMED that she would respond
to his love in a certain way—and she did NOT!
One night, shortly before they were to marry, he had a DREAM. (Imagine that!). He
DREAMED that he was at the altar with his bride saying his vows. He could not see her face
because the VEIL obscured his view. When they finished with the vows, the minister said, “You
may kiss the bride.” When he lifted the VEIL, his “BRIDE” was a grotesque DEMON!
Needless to say, he was startled out of a deep sleep. He asked the Lord why he had just seen a
demon instead of his future bride! He said, “That is the Spirit of False Expectations. You have
been married to her for quite some time in your DREAMS. You must first DIVORCE her before
you are free to marry the woman that I desire to give to you.” How many of us, when we have
walked down the aisle, have committed to the person we THINK our spouse is, instead of who
they REALLY are? That is why commitment wanes in so many marriages.
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When we come to the stage of DISILLUSIONMENT—and ALL of us will sooner or later—we
have three choices with which to respond. First, we can say, “I must have made a mistake—I’m
out of here!” Then we are off to find someone else who will fit our illusion—only to be
disappointed again—because, unfortunately, illusions are NEVER based on reality.
Secondly, we can try to squeeze our spouse into the mold of our illusion through manipulation,
intimidation or domination, and make life miserable for both of us—not to mention that those
kind of tactics are nothing short of witchcraft!
Thirdly, we can cry out to the Lord and say, “DIS-illusion me!” Remember that the man could
not see his “bride” in the dream because of the VEIL. It is interesting to note that the material
used in bridal veils is called, “SILK ILLUSION”. Illusions always shroud or VEIL REALITY.
They are mirages that will always mislead us. So, when we ask the Lord to DIS-illusion us, we
are asking for Him to strip away every VEIL—every false expectation that keeps us from loving
the REAL person unconditionally.
If we choose the last response, we will step into the THIRD stage of love, which is the
SUPERNATURAL phase. Here, we begin to ask the Lord to help us to see our husband with
HIS eyes and LOVE him with HIS love—and He will overwhelmingly meet us there with HIS
ability to love.
HUMAN love at its very best is simply an extension of SELF-LOVE. “I love you because you
meet MY needs and MY expectations, and when you stop meeting MY needs or MY
expectations, I don’t love you anymore!”
Scripture Prayers for Husbands is designed to aid us in coming into the THIRD stage of love. As
we begin to speak the Word of God over our husbands, we will begin to see them the way that
God sees them. God is a God of FAITH—He always sees us as the finished product.
When we pray, “Lord, change my husband,” it is easy to be focused on the things that do not
meet our expectations. However, when we speak the Word of God over them, WE are the first
ones to change. Our perspective of our husband begins to be consistent with the things that we
are speaking OVER him in prayer. Then, we will even find ourselves saying some of those very
things TO him. Absolutely NOTHING inspires change more than someone believing in you—
someone seeing you as a winner. Proverbs 18:20-21 says,
“A man’s moral self shall be filled with the fruit of this mouth; and with the
consequence of his words he must be satisfied whether good or evil. Death and
life are in the power of the tongue, and they who indulge in it shall eat the fruit of
it for death or life.”
May we be like the woman in Proverbs 31:26 who, “…opens her mouth in skillful and godly
Wisdom, and on her tongue is the law of kindness giving counsel and instruction.” May we see
the Word of God which we declare in prayer transform our marriages into exactly the same
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image that we are creating with our words—into HIS very own image—into the glory of the Lord
Himself!
“And all of us, as with UNVEILED FACE, because we continued to behold in the
WORD OF GOD as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are constantly being
transfigured into His very own image in ever increasing splendor and from one
degree of glory to another; for this comes from the Lord Who is the Spirit.” (II
Corinthians 3:18).
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SCRIPTURE PRAYERS FOR HUSBANDS
MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP
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Father, I declare that lives considerately with me, with an intelligent
recognition of the marriage relation, honoring me as physically the weaker, but realizing that we
are joint heirs of Your grace. Therefore, his prayers are not hindered and cut off. (I Peter 3:7).
Father, I declare that and I are ONE and of the SAME MIND—
united in spirit—sympathizing with one another, loving each other compassionately, courteously,
tenderheartedly and humble-mindedly. We never return evil for evil or insult for insult, scolding,
tongue-lashing, or berating; but on the contrary, blessing, praying for each other's welfare,
happiness and protection, truly pitying and loving each other. (I Peter 3:8-9).
Father, I declare that I am sane, sober-minded, temperate and disciplined. I love my husband and
children. I am self-controlled, chaste, a good homemaker, good-natured, kindhearted, adapting
and subordinating myself to my husband. Therefore, Your Word is not being exposed to
reproach, nor is it blasphemed or discredited. (Titus 2:4-5).
Father, I declare that loves me as Jesus loved the church and gave Himself
up for her. He loves me as being in a sense his own body. (Ephesians 5:25, 28).
Father, I declare that has LEFT his father and mother and has been
joined to me, and we have become one flesh. (Ephesians 5:31).
Father, I declare that our marriage is held in honor, esteemed worthy, precious and of great price
and especially dear in ALL things by BOTH of us. Our marriage bed is KEPT honorable and
undefiled. (Hebrews 13:4).
Father, I declare that my desire and craving is for my husband. (Genesis 3:16).
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Father, I declare that and I live in HARMONY, and
we are of the SAME MIND and ONE in PURPOSE, having the SAME LOVE, being in FULL
ACCORD and of ONE harmonious mind and intention. We do NOTHING from factional
motives—through contentiousness, strife, selfishness, or for unworthy ends—or prompted by
conceit and empty arrogance. But instead, in the true spirit of HUMILITY, we each regard the
other as BETTER than and superior to ourselves, thinking more highly of one another than we do
ourselves. We each esteem, look upon and are concerned for not merely our own interests, but
also for the interests of each other. (Philippians 2:2-4).
Father, I declare that I am a virtuous and worthy wife. I am earnest and strong in character. I am
a crowning joy to . (Proverbs 12:4).
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RELATIONSHIP WITH CHILDREN
Father I declare that does not irritate and provoke our children to anger.
He does not exasperate them to resentment, but he rears them tenderly in the training, discipline,
counsel and admonition of the Lord. (Ephesians 6:4).
Father, I declare that the Spirit of Elijah is turning and reconciling, through repentance, the hearts
of our children to ______________________ and his heart to them. Therefore, our children
OBEY their parents in the Lord, they HONOR, ESTEEM and VALUE, as PRECIOUS their
father and mother. As a result, ALL is WELL with them, and they shall live long upon the earth.
I have confidence in You, Father, that our children are DOING and will CONTINUE TO DO the
things which ________________________ and I suggest and charge them to do. (Malachi 4:5-6;
Ephesians 6:1-3; 11 Thessalonians 3:4).
Father, I declare that loves You with all of his mind and heart,
and with his entire being, and with all of his might. Your Word is FIRST PLACE in his mind
and heart. He is whetting and sharpening Your words so as to make them penetrate, and teaching
and impressing them diligently upon the minds and hearts of his children. He is talking of Your
words when he sits in his house, and when he walks by the way, and when he lies down, and
when he rises up. He is binding them as a sign on his hand, and Your words are as frontlets
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between his eyes. He is writing Your words upon the doorposts of his house and on his gates.
Because has such a mind and heart in him always, it is going well with
him and will go well with his children forever. (Deuteronomy 6:5-9; Deuteronomy 5:29).
Father, I declare that our children HEAR the instruction of their father, and give attention to gain
and to know intelligent discernment, comprehension and interpretation of spiritual matters.
(Proverbs 4:1).
Father, I declare that our children ATTEND to ____ ’s words. They CONSENT
and SUBMIT to what he says. They do not let his instruction depart from their sight. They keep
his words in the center of their hearts. (Proverbs 4:20-21).
Father, I declare that our children HEED and are the FRUIT of _’s correction
and instruction. (Proverbs 13:1).
Father, I declare that responds to our children with long forbearing and
calmness of spirit. His soft speech breaks down even the most bonelike resistance. (Proverbs
25:15).
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RADICAL ABANDONMENT TO THE PURPOSES OF GOD
Father, I declare that trusts in You with ALL of his heart and
mind, and he does NOT rely on his own insight or understanding. In ALL of his ways he
acknowledges You, and You are directing his paths. He is not wise in his own eyes, but he
reverently fears You, and he is turning entirely away from evil. (Proverbs 3:5-7).
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Thank You, Father, that You are revealing the PRECIOUS TREASURE in the field to
__________________________. Therefore, I declare that in his JOY he is selling ALL to
possess the field. (Matthew 13:44).
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choke and suffocate the Word, so that it becomes fruitless in his life, but he is ALLOWING the
seed of the Word which You have spoken to his heart to fall on good soil—he is RECEIVING,
ACCEPTING and WELCOMING it and bearing fruit one hundred fold. (Mark 4:19-20).
Father, You have said in Your Word that in a race, all the runners compete, but only ONE
receives the prize. Therefore, I declare that is running HIS race
so that HE may lay hold of the prize and make it HIS. He, like every athlete who goes into
training, is conducting himself temperately, and restricting himself in ALL things. He is not
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running uncertainly—without definite aim, or boxing as one beating the air and striking without
an adversary, but he looks CAREFULLY to how he walks. He lives PURPOSEFULLY,
WORTHILY and ACCURATELY, not as the unwise and witless, but as a WISE, SENSIBLE
and INTELLIGENT man; making the VERY MOST of his time—buying up EACH opportunity
—because the days are evil. He is not vague, thoughtless or foolish, but he UNDERSTANDS
and FIRMLY GRASPS what Your will is. (I Corinthians 9:24-26; Ephesians 5:15-17).
Father, I declare that the ZEAL—the fervor of LOVE—for YOUR HOUSE has eaten up
____________________________. He is CONSUMED with JEALOUSY for the honor of
Your house. (John 2:17).
Father, I declare that _ ’s attitude is like that of the boy, Samuel. When
You speak to him, his reply is, “Speak, Lord, for Your servant is LISTENING.” (I Samuel 3:9).
Father, I declare that knows what a critical hour this is, and
how it is high time NOW for him to wake up out of his sleep and rouse to reality. The night is
far-gone and the day is almost here. Therefore, he is dropping and flinging away the works and
deeds of darkness and putting on the full armor of light. He is living and conducting himself
HONORABLY and BECOMINGLY as in the open light of day. He is clothing himself with the
Lord Jesus Christ, and making NO PROVISION for indulging the flesh. He is putting a STOP to
thinking about the evil cravings of his physical nature to gratify its desires and lusts. (Romans
13:11-14).
Thank You, Father, that You have given the capacity to HEAR and
OBEY You. Therefore, I declare that he DELIGHTS to do Your will. Your law is within his
heart. (Psalm 40:6, 8).
Thank You, Father, that You are with , and You see him as a
MIGHTY MAN of FEARLESS COURAGE. (Judges 6:12).
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Father, I declare that like David, is serving YOUR WILL,
PURPOSE and COUNSEL in his own generation; like David, he is a man after Your own heart,
who is doing ALL Your will and carrying out Your program FULLY. (Acts 13:36; Acts 13:22)
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DISCOVERING THE CALL OF GOD
Thank You, Father, that You are faithful Who has called ___________________________,
and You will fulfill Your call upon his life by hallowing and keeping him. You are making
known to him the mystery and secret of Your WILL, Your PLAN and Your PURPOSE for his
life. (I Thessalonians 5:24; Ephesians 1:9).
Thank You, Father, that You are instructing and teaching him in
the way that he should go. You are counseling him with Your eye upon him. (Psalm 32:8).
Thank You, Father, that Your Spirit rests upon ; the spirit of
WISDOM and UNDERSTANDING, the spirit of COUNSEL and MIGHT, the spirit of
KNOWLEDGE and the reverential and OBEDIENT FEAR of the Lord. Therefore, I declare that
You are making him of QUICK UNDERSTANDING, and his delight is in the reverential and
obedient fear of You. He does not judge by the sight of his eyes, neither does he DECIDE by the
hearing of his ears, but he judges with righteous judgment. (Isaiah 11:2-4).
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purposes for his life. Therefore, he is not failing or perishing by the same kind of unbelief and
disobedience into which those in the wilderness fell. (Jeremiah 6:16; Hebrews 4:11).
Father, I declare that because _ fears You, he has Your secrets. You
are showing him Your covenant and revealing to him its deep, inner meaning. (Psalm 25:14).
Thank You, Father, that as You have thought and planned concerning _____________________,
SO SHALL IT COME TO PASS; and as You have purposed, SO SHALL IT STAND. For what
YOU have purposed—WHO CAN ANNUL IT? When YOUR hand is stretched out, WHO
WILL TURN IT BACK? What YOU speak is DONE. What YOU command, STANDS FAST.
YOU bring the counsel of nations to naught; YOU make the thoughts and plans of the peoples to
NO EFFECT. YOUR counsel stands forever; the thoughts of YOUR heart to all generations.
(Isaiah 14:24, 27; Psalm 33:9-11).
Thank You, Father, that ’s Teacher will not hide Himself anymore, but
his eyes shall CONSTANTLY behold YOU, his Teacher. His ears shall hear a word behind him,
saying, “This is the way, walk in it," when he turns to the right hand and when he turns to the
left. (Isaiah 30:20-21).
Thank You, Father, that You are with ____________________________, and You see him as a
mighty man of fearless courage. (Judges 6:12).
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Thank You, Father, that the Holy Spirit is announcing and declaring to _____________________
the things that are to come—that will happen in the future. (John 16:13).
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ACCOMPLISHING THE WILL OF GOD
Thank You, Father, that You Who began a good work in ______________________________
will continue developing that good work and perfecting and bringing it to FULL COMPLETION
in him. (Philippians 1:6).
Thank You, Father, that Your gifts and callings upon ’s life
are IRREVOCABLE—without repentance or regret—You NEVER withdraw them once they are
given and You do NOT change Your mind about those to whom You give Your grace or to
whom You send Your call. Therefore, I declare that because You are imparting this revelation to
him, he is ALL THE MORE solicitous and eager to MAKE SURE and STRENGTHEN his
CALLING and ELECTION. Therefore, he NEVER stumbles or falls. (Romans 11:29; II Peter
1:10)
Thank You, Father, that You, the God of Peace, are strengthening, completing, perfecting and
making ________________________ what he ought to be. You are equipping him with
EVERYTHING GOOD that he may CARRY OUT YOUR WILL; while You Yourself work in
him and accomplish that which is pleasing in Your sight. (Hebrews 13:20-21).
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Father, I declare that is making the prophetic words that
have been spoken over him firmer still, by paying close attention to them as to a lamp shining in
a dismal, squalid and dark place UNTIL the day breaks through the gloom and the Morning Star
rises in his heart. (II Peter 1:19)
Father, I declare that is filled with the full, deep and clear
knowledge of Your will in all spiritual wisdom and comprehensive insight into Your ways and
purposes, and in understanding and discernment of spiritual things, so that he is walking, living
and conducting himself in a manner worthy of You, fully pleasing to You and DESIRING to
please You in ALL things, bearing fruit in EVERY good work and steadily growing and
increasing in and by a knowledge of You, with fuller, deeper and clearer insight, acquaintance
and recognition. He is invigorated and strengthened with ALL POWER, according to the might
of Your glory, to exercise every kind of endurance and patience WITH JOY. (Colossians
1:9-11).
Thank You, Father, that You have called . You have brought
him, and You are making his way prosperous. You will do ALL Your pleasure and purpose
concerning him. What You have spoken to him, You are bringing to pass; what You have
purposed, you are DOING! (Isaiah 48:15; Isaiah 46:10-11).
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heart that is SINCERE, CERTAIN and UNSULLIED. He is approaching the Day of Christ, not
stumbling nor causing others to stumble. He is abounding in and being filled with the fruits of
righteousness. Your glory is being both manifested and recognized in him. (Philippians 1:9-11).
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THE BACKSLIDEN, ESTRANGED OR UNSAVED HUSBAND
Thank You, Father, that You are pouring out of Your spirit upon_________________________
with prophecies, dreams and visions. Therefore, I declare that he has repented and changed his
views; and he has purposed to accept Your will in his inner self instead of rejecting it. By faith, I
see him baptized in water, and having received the gift of the Holy Spirit. I see him
CONTINUALLY being filled and stimulated with the Holy Spirit. (Joel 2:28; Acts 2:38;
Ephesians 5:18).
Thank You, Father, that You are certainly delivering and drawing_________________________
unto Yourself from EVERY ASSAULT of evil. You are preserving and bringing him safe unto
Your heavenly kingdom. (II Timothy 4:18).
Father, I choose to SING PRAISE in advance for the FULFILLMENT of YOUR WORD over
_________________________. (Psalm 119:172).
Father, I declare that as Your Word is going forth in prayer over _________________________,
it is REVIVING him and giving him LIFE. (Psalm 119:50).
Father, I declare that the words of Godly WISDOM which You are giving me to speak over
___________________________ IN PRAYER are bringing him HEALING. They are going
forth as PRODDING GOADS, urging him to ACTION, and are firmly fixed in his mind like
NAILS. They are like FIRE consuming ALL that cannot endure the test in his life, and like a
HAMMER that breaks in pieces the rock of MOST STUBBORN RESISTANCE. Then, AFTER
I have prayed, I ask for the sensitivity to know when and how to speak and when NOT to speak
to HIM. Help me to remember that, “....he who REPEATS or HARPS on a matter separates
even close friends.” Help my life to ALWAYS LOVINGLY express TRUTH in ALL things in
my relationship to . Keep me ever mindful that YOUR WORD
is TRUTH, and NOT what I perceive with my senses; therefore, it is YOUR WORD that I need
to be speaking over him—NOT CRITICISM, FAULTFINDING or JUDGMENT, knowing that
even if he does not obey the Word, You have promised that he would be won over NOT by
DISCUSSION but by my godly life. May I always respond to him with a SOFT ANSWER, that
it would turn away wrath, and grant me a GENTLE tongue, that it would bring healing.
(Proverbs 11:18; Ecclesiastes 12:11; Jeremiah 23:29; Isaiah 50: 4; Proverbs 17:9b; Ephesians
4:15; Psalm 119:160; I Peter 3:1; Proverbs 15:1, 4).
Thank You. Father, that You are replacing and restoring for ________________________ the
years that the locust have eaten. (Joel 2:25).
Father, Your Word says that a backslider in heart is filled with the fruit of his own ways.
Therefore, I declare that _________________________is filled with the fruit of his own ways,
and he is returning to You, so that You would heal him of all his backsliding. (Proverbs 14:14;
Hosea 6:1; Jeremiah 3:22 KJV).
Father, even though is presently an unbeliever, by faith, I
claim him for Your kingdom. I cover and remit every sin and ask You not to lay them to his
charge. I call forth the spirit of wisdom and revelation in the deep and intimate knowledge of
You, by having the eyes of his heart flooded with light, so that he can know and understand the
HOPE to which you have called him, and how rich is his inheritance in the saints, and so that he
can know and understand what is the immeasurable and unlimited and surpassing greatness of
Your power in and for him. I declare that he is set apart, separated and withdrawn from heathen
contamination and affiliated with Christian people by his union with me, because I am
consecrated and set apart unto You. Therefore, our children are partakers in the Christian
covenant, and they are prepared for You, pure and clean. (John 20:23; Ephesians 1:17-19); I
Corinthians 7:14).
NOTE: When constructing a building, a scaffold is often needed to aid in the process of
completion. However, when the building is finished, the scaffold is no longer needed. These
scripture prayers are merely a scaffold. They are not the building itself. They are designed to
assist us in building the Word of God into our hearts, and teach us how to pray the Word in any
given situation. The more the Word of God is deposited within us, the more spontaneous our
prayers will become, as the Holy Spirit brings to our remembrance specific scriptures which
apply to the area upon which we are focusing. Once we have the mentality of praying the Word,
we will find that as we are reading the Word, many other scriptures will begin to “come alive”
for the purpose of prayer.
COPYRIGHT 1990. Revised 2003. All scriptural quotes and prayers are taken from the Amplified Bible (Zondervan), unless otherwise
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