The Negotiation (Da Niegotsieishon) : 1. Diapositiva 1
The Negotiation (Da Niegotsieishon) : 1. Diapositiva 1
The Negotiation (Da Niegotsieishon) : 1. Diapositiva 1
DIAPOSITIVA 1
The negotiation (da niegotsieishon)
based on the theories of William Ury
(beis on de tioris of william ury)
2. DIAPOSITOVA 2
What is the negotiation?
The Negotiation is in fact the action and effect of trading
The principal point of the negotiation is to get a deal between two parts
This action is part of our daily lives and part of the societies
reward
when a mom wants her child to eat his food, she negotiates it with a
3. DIAPOSITIVA 3
Phases of negotiation
4. DIAPOSITIVA 4
Up on the balcony
This is about our reacctions, and this reacction has to be null, 0 reacctions.
The person has to get time to think and focus in his own answers
There are many tactics to get this
you can talk with words that show education and quiet
If someone attacks you just let him finish to talk then ask for a break
For example : I need to make a call
The point is not to control the others, its about control yourself
5. DIAPOSITIVA 5
You get your opponent 's side
listen carefully
the other
6. DIAPOSITIVA 6
Restate
The point of this strategy is about When your opponent is adamant
Then you change the game
To change the game you have to focus on some question to the opponent
you have to make questions that aim to solve the problem
example:
-why
-Why do you want this?
-Why on this way?
-What is the problme?
-Is that fair?
You have to make question that the answer cant be NO
Evade attacks
7. DIAPOSITIVA 7
Build a golden bridge
there are four barriers
when you build a golden bridge, you can help your opponent to get
through the barriers
1. It is not his own idea. Show options to your opponent, Let yourself
notice him that your ideas meet his needs
2. not satisfied interests, You should look for the real and most important
interest of our opponent
3. Fear of being wrong, Help your opponent to do not being afraid of made
mistakes, you can support him, tell your opponent that in principle he
was right but that circumstances have changed, you should try to
convince him
4. Lot in a short time, Go slowly to advance quickly, your opponent can
easly say NO to your offer, because it is a short time to make a big
decision
You have to talk slowly about every good point of your
offer and help him to cross the bridge
8. DIAPOSITIVA 8
Use the Power to make your attack
Let you know to your opponent on the consequences of not accepting the
offer.
You can make a warning but you can not make a threat
The warning is more respectful
The threat says what you will do if he does not agree with the offer . The
warning says what will happen if he does not agree with the offer .
Do not provoke your opponent
Do not Counter attack
The point of this strategy is show to your opponent that the only way to
satisfy his needs is making a negotiation.