SUICIDE FIRST AID GUIDELINES FOR INDIA

How can I tell if someone is feeling suicidal?

It is important that you are able to recognise the warning signs of suicide.

Signs a person may be suicidal

A dramatic change in mood, behaviour or appearance, for example:

• Expressing, in words or actions, having no reason to live or no purpose
in life;
• Sudden or dramatic increase in depressed mood.

Someone who is suicidal may threaten to kill themselves, or say that they
wish to die, verbally or in writing. This may be very direct, but is sometimes
subtle. Watch for:
• Looking for a way to kill themselves (e.g. seeking access to pills or
poisons, weapons or other means), including seeking information
about possible suicide methods (e.g. would 100 mg of this kill me?);
• Unexpected jokes about death or suicide;
• Expressing, in words or actions, that they feel trapped, like there is
no way out, or that they are unable to find an alternative solution to
their problems.

People may also behave in ways that are life-threatening or dangerous, for
example, engaging in self-injurious behaviour such as cutting, poisoning or
hitting their head against the wall.

Someone who is suicidal may try to set their affairs in order, for example:
• Giving away valued possessions;
• Asking others to take on responsibility for the care of people or
pets.

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People may show one or many of these signs whereas some may show signs
not on this list (such as hopelessness, rage, anger, seeking revenge, anxiety, agitation,
sleep disturbance, starting or increasing tobacco, alcohol or drug use; withdrawing from friends,
family or society; significant change in the level of religious interest or preoccupation with afterlife
or any dramatic change in behaviour, mood, appearance).
If you have seen some of these warning signs, and you suspect that the person may be suicidal,
you should ask them directly. For example, you might ask one of the following questions:

Are you having thoughts of suicide?

Are you thinking of killing yourself?

Don’t avoid using the word ‘suicide’. It is important to discuss the issue directly, without ex-
pressing fear or negative judgement. Doing so may help you to appear confident in the face of
the suicide crisis, which may have a reassuring effect on the person you are helping.

Although some people think that talking about suicide can put the idea in the person’s mind, this
is not true. Another myth is that someone who talks about suicide is not really serious. Remem-
ber that talking about suicide may be a way for the person to indicate just how badly they are
feeling.

How can I tell if the situation is serious?

First, you need to determine whether the person has definite intentions to take their life, or
whether they have been having more vague suicidal thoughts such as ‘what's the point,’ or ‘I
can't be bothered going on’. To do this, you need to ask the person if they have a plan for sui-
cide. The three questions you need to ask are:

1. Have you decided how you would kill yourself?

2. Have you decided when you would do it?
3. Have you taken any steps to secure the things you would need to carry out your
plan?

A higher level of planning indicates a more serious risk. However, you must remember that the
absence of a plan is not enough to ensure the person’s safety. All thoughts of suicide
must be taken seriously.

You need to know about the following additional risk factors:

Has the person been using alcohol or other drugs? The use of alcohol or other drugs can
make it more likely that a person will act on impulse.
Has the person made a suicide attempt in the past? A previous suicide attempt makes it
more likely that a person will attempt suicide again or kill themselves. You should ask the
person directly if they have made a suicide attempt in the past, or ask their significant oth-
ers (e.g. family members, close friend or religious leader).

Once you have established that the risk of suicide is present, you need to take action to keep the
person safe.
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How can I keep the person safe?
Never leave someone who is feeling suicidal on their own. Try to engage other people from
the suicidal person's social network in preventing suicide.
After gaining the person’s trust, try to remove the means of suicide available to the person if
it is safe to do so. If you cannot get the person to agree to hand over the means of suicide (for
example, pills, poisons, gun or razors), emergency services must be contacted immediately. If
there is any risk to your safety (for example, if the suicidal person has a gun or other weapon or
is agitated) do not attempt to remove the means of suicide.
Tell the person’s immediate family about their intention to suicide. Ask for help from their rela-
tives, friends or housemates to ensure the person does not have access to weapons, poisons, or
other means for suicide. It is better to work collaboratively with the person and others to en-
sure their safety, rather than acting alone to prevent suicide at any cost.

What about professional help?

You must call or take the person to a doctor, psychiatrist or other mental health professional right
away. Call a mental health emergency team, or whoever is responsible for responding to psychi-
atric emergencies. In particular, if the suicidal person is suffering from psychosis, or using alcohol
or other drugs, emergency assistance should be sought immediately.
The person needs to be involved in decisions about who else knows about their thoughts
of suicide. However, if they refuse to involve someone else, you should still contact a profes-
sional.

How should I talk with someone who is suicidal?

Express empathy for the person and tell them that you care and want to help. Try to appear
confident, as this can be reassuring for the person. Encourage the person to do most of the
talking and listen to them without expressing judgment. You should not argue with the per-
son about their thoughts of suicide. Reassure the person that thoughts of suicide are common,
and that many people have them at some stage in their lives. Accept the suicidal feelings for
what they are and discuss suicide as a possibility, rather than an unthinkable act.
The threat of suicide may indicate that a person is trying to communicate how badly he or she
feels, and is often a plea for help and a desperate attempt to escape from problems and distress-
ing feelings. You should therefore allow the person to talk about those feelings, and their
reasons for wanting to die. Do not dismiss the person’s feelings, or compare their problems to
the problems of others. Help the person to understand that their thoughts do not need to be
acted on.
Thoughts of suicide are sometimes caused by a mental disorder, so you should find out if the
person has such a disorder. Avoid asking if they have a ‘mental illness’; instead ask if they are
receiving help for any emotional or mental health problems. Clearly state that thoughts of suicide
may be caused by a treatable disorder, as this may instil a sense of hope for the person.
By discussing specific problems, you can help the person work out practical strategies for effec-
tively dealing with difficulties and life problems that seem impossible to cope with. Find out what
has supported the person in the past, and whether these supports are still available.
Consider and use the person’s belief systems and values to encourage them to change their
mind about suicide. Avoid offering false hope, or making unrealistic promises.

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Find out whether there is anything important in the person’s life which may reduce the immediate
risk of suicide (e.g. attachments to children). Encourage the person to consider the conse-
quences of suicide, especially the effect it may have on the people s/he cares about. However,
do not make the person feel guilty or ashamed. Instead, focus on the importance of the person in
the lives of the people they care about, the ‘good things’ in the person's life, their hopes for the
future, and other reasons to live. Encourage the person to think about their personal
strengths.

No-suicide contracts
Try to develop a contract with the person to ensure their safety. A contract is an agreement not to
act on thoughts of suicide. Be aware that a no-suicide contract is not a guarantee that the person
will not kill themselves, and it is not a legal document. However, it can be a useful tool. If the per-
son does not want to write the contract down, it is fine to make a verbal agreement.
The contract should include an indication of when it will end, for example, the time when the per-
son will next speak to you. The contract should be for a length of time which is easy for the per-
son to cope with (even just a few hours), so that the person can feel able to fulfil the agreement
and have a sense of achievement. It should include safety contacts (such as a suicide helpline,
professional helper or family member) in case the person feels unable to continue with the agree-
ment not to attempt suicide.

Passing time during the crisis

Suicidal crises can last a few hours or a few days. While the person is suicidal, whether you re-
main with them all the time (as a family member or friend) or only for a short time, there is time to
pass. You will need to find a way to pass this time. Suggest things to distract the person from
their suicidal thoughts, especially things which are relatively easy to do and which will encourage
a sense of control and achievement. It is preferable that the person chooses an activity
which has been found in the past to help them to cope or that they enjoy.
After the crisis has passed, maintain contact (whether occasional or frequent, depending on the
relationship) with the person and take steps to ensure they are receiving professional help.

A final note:
Remember that despite your best efforts, some people will still die by suicide. However,
always do your best for the person you are helping.

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An important note:
Self-injury can indicate a number of different things. Someone who is hurting themselves may be at risk of suicide. Oth-
ers engage in a pattern of self-injury over weeks, months or years and are not necessarily suicidal.
It is not easy to tell the difference between self-injury and a suicide attempt. Some people argue that anyone who injures
themselves must be suicidal even if they are not conscious of it. Others say that it is the person’s intentions which count.
The only way to know is to ask the person directly if they are suicidal.
These guidelines can assist you only if the person you are helping is suicidal. If the person you are assisting is injuring
themselves, but is not suicidal, please refer to the guidelines entitled MHFA Guidelines for non-suicidal self-injury.
Purpose of these Guidelines
These guidelines are designed to help members of the public to provide first aid to someone who is at risk of suicide.
The role of the first aider is to assist the person until appropriate professional help is received or the crisis resolves.
Development of these Guidelines
The following guidelines are based on the expert opinions of a panel of mental health professionals from India about
how to help someone who may be at risk of suicide. Details of the methodology will be published in the International
Journal of Mental Health Systems. Check the website www.ijmhs.com to download a free copy of the article or contact
us to request a copy.
How to use these Guidelines
These guidelines are a general set of recommendations about how you can help someone who may be at risk of suicide.
Each individual is unique and it is important to tailor your support to that person’s needs. These recommendations there-
fore may not be appropriate for every person who may be at risk of suicide.
Also, the guidelines are designed to be suitable for providing first aid in India. They may not be suitable for other cul-
tural groups or for countries with different health systems.
Although these guidelines are copyright, they can be freely reproduced for non-profit purposes provided the source is
acknowledged. Please cite these guidelines as follows:
Colucci, E., Kelly, C., Minas, H.K. and Jorm, A.F., Suicide First Aid Guidelines for India. Melbourne: Centre for Inter-
national Mental Health & ORYGEN Youth Health Research Centre, The University of Melbourne; 2009.
Enquiries and expressions of interest to organize Suicide First Aid training should be sent to:
Dr Erminia Colucci, CIMH, School of Population Health, The University of Melbourne,
Level 5, 207 Bouverie St
3053 Carlton Melbourne VIC Australia
Email: ecolucci@unimelb.edu.au or fera_76@hotmail.com

All MHFA guidelines can be downloaded from www.mhfa.com.au/Guidelines.shtml.

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This research was supported by a grant from the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention and CIMH funds.

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