Comeback Book - Chapter 1
Comeback Book - Chapter 1
Comeback Book - Chapter 1
COMEBACK
DON’T TAKE A STEP BACK WITH A SETBACK
TIM STOREY
Harrison House
Tulsa, Oklahoma
INTRODUCTION
“The Pack is Back” topped the news headlines on January 27, 1997. The Green
Bay Packers had won the Super Bowl for the first time in decades. The
momentum of their comeback positioned the “Pack” for a “back-to-back” win in
1998. But football fans went wild when Denver Bronco’s quarterback, John Elway,
played the comeback game of his life in what was believed to be his final chance
for a Super Bowl win before retirement, and took the coveted Super Bowl trophy
home to Denver.
Everybody loves a comeback story. Abraham Lincoln ran for congress and lost,
ran for the senate and lost, had a nervous breakdown and a troubled marriage;
but he finally made it to the White House. George Foreman came back at forty-
one years of age to become heavyweight champion of the world. Evander
Holyfield, another world champion heavyweight boxer, had a serious health
setback that threatened to end his career, but he came back to fight and win
again. Moses, studying to be a great man of God, killed a man and ended up
working at minimum wage for his father-in-law on the back side of the desert, but
he came back and marched three million people out of Egypt. Joe Montana
brought the San Francisco 49’ers back to victory. People love to cheer for the
underdog. Look how many went to see Sylvester Stallone’s Rocky movies. Rocky
came back so many times he finally wore out his comeback in that last movie in
’97!
To be honest all of us experience setbacks in life at one point or another.
Maybe as you are reading this, one of your children is in trouble or your finances
are in crisis or your marriage is falling apart. Perhaps someone close to you is
plagued by repeated setbacks, and you don’t know how to help. Whatever
caused you to pick up this book, I want you to know, It’s Time for Your
Comeback.
In the midst of a setback, people often take a step back. Then another setback
comes, and they take another step back. Before long they find themselves so far
from where they want to be they just give up. They can’t see the light at the end
of the tunnel, and they are overcome by the darkness. Life is doing something
with them instead of them doing something with life.
If you are saying to yourself, “I’ve stepped back so far I don’t even remember
where I started from,” just remember, no matter what took you off the yellow
brick road, it’s not how you start something, it’s how you finish that counts. Even
while you are feeling the sting of your setback, your comeback is already being
prepared for you.
What do you envision for yourself in the coming year? I am offering you an
opportunity for smooth sailing. By applying the solid principles in this book, you
are going to sail over life’s obstacles; and use these tools to raise the roof on
your expectations — learn to dream again. Some of you have been living with
four-foot ceilings when the sky is the limit.
I envision a comeback with your name on it. Your life has a purpose and an
assignment. You were created to live by design not by default. You are being
positioned to accomplish your destiny. When you come up against adversity, you
will run right on through it without drowning or being burned.
Notice I didn’t say “if” adversity comes, I said “when” adversity comes. You’re
probably asking, “Why do I have to go through the storms and trials?” Because
somebody needs your test to turn into a testimony, and somebody needs your
mess to turn into a message. Remember, someone worse off than you is always
watching you. Let me show you how to become a power of influence and leave a
legacy of encouragement and accomplishment for others to follow.
You may be at the point of giving up. You’re weary and you don’t know if you
have the energy to start again. But listen to me, It’s Time for Your Comeback so
don’t step back. It’s too soon to give up. There is always time for one more
comeback, and it’s going to be a great one. Your limitations are your
opportunities. You are a masterpiece in progress.
What I am sharing with you in these power-packed chapters are the truths and
principles that have brought me through pain and desperation in my own life. It
only takes ONE to change a life, and I am forever thankful for that ONE in my life
who encouraged me and set an example for me to follow. Allow me to start you
on the path to your comeback right now.
Don’t put this book down until you make a commitment to set aside a specific
time and place to finish reading it. Whether it is five minutes a day or an hour a
day doesn’t matter. Just do it! Read it again and again until you plant these
principles and ideas in the depths of your heart. Your comeback is waiting for
you!
CHAPTER 1
THE STORY
OF A COMEBACK
Do you find yourself asking, “Is there more to life than what I’m living?” If so,
rejoice that you are experiencing “divine dissatisfaction.” You are being shaken
out of complacency, out of your comfort zone, out of your “setback” mentality.
Don’t ignore what you are feeling. It’s time to do a thorough housecleaning of all
the junk in your life so that the unshakable essentials stand clear and
uncluttered. It’s time for your comeback.
Setbacks Happen
Setbacks happen to everyone time after time throughout life. There is no
escaping it. You may have suffered so much pain and trauma that you have
become numb to the injuries caused by the setbacks. You may not have laughed
in a long time. You may be angry because you’ve been abused, rejected,
abandoned, stabbed in the back by a friend or family member, robbed or beaten.
A friend, who is a NFL linebacker, was hit so hard in a playoff game it broke his
thumb. He was so caught up in the intensity of the game he didn’t even know it
was broken until eight plays later. His thumb was just dangling from his hand,
and blood was everywhere when one of the other players noticed the injury.
My friend’s adrenaline was so high he didn’t feel the pain. That is the way you
may be. You don’t know you’ve been injured because you’ve been numbed by
the trauma or else you’re living life in the fast lane, and you haven’t slowed down
long enough to let yourself feel the pain.
Return to Significance
I don’t care where you are or how big a mess your life is, don’t step back —
God has your comeback already prepared. You may get tired of my saying this so
often, but you must get this firmly planted in your heart. A comeback means to
return to a place of significance, to return to a place of stature, to return to a
place that was lost for a period of time. Sometimes we need to hear about other
people’s setbacks and comebacks so we can hold onto our own hope.
Everyone messes up, even the great men and women in the Bible.
• Abram told his wife, Sarai, to lie and tell the pharaoh she was Abram’s sister
(Genesis 12:10-20), and yet God changed his name to Abraham and promised
he would become the father of nations (Genesis 17).
• Moses let anger get the best of him and killed a man (Exodus 2:11-15), and
yet he led the people of Israel out of Egypt (Exodus 12:31-42).
• Rahab was a prostitute, but she saved Joshua and Caleb (Joshua 2) and is listed
in the lineage of David and Jesus (Matthew 1:6).
• Peter cut off a man’s ear (John 18:10) and then denied Jesus (John 18:25-27).
You know the other disciples must have thought, Peter, get with it. We thought
you’d get it once you cut off that man’s ear. Now you’re denying Jesus and
cussing folks out by the fire. God took away the shame, renewed Peter’s name
and let him preach on the day of Pentecost (Acts 2:14-47).
God did the same for all the others, and He’ll do it for you too. So stop beating
yourself up. See yourself and your faults and failures from a good father’s point
of view, from a God’s eye view. God is a comeback kind of God.