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Foreword Foreword Foreword Foreword

All praises are for Allah Taala, the Executioner of all affairs.
Salaat and Salaam upon the best of all Creation,
Sayyidina Muhammad (1), eternally.

Hazrat
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Maulana Yunus Patel Saheb (

_)
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was the Khalifa
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of two great luminaries: Hazrat Maulana Hakeem Muhammad
Akhtar Saheb (Mudda Zilluhu)
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and Hazrat Mufti Mahmood
Hasan Gangohi (

_), and was, himself, the mentor,

preceptor and spiritual guide of thousands throughout the
world.

Hazrat Maulana was an epitome of piety and righteousness,
and an ocean of wisdom in his guidance and advice to
Saalikeen (those seeking the Path to Allah Taala).

This book is a compilation of selected replies to Islaahi
correspondence, much of which was taken from the e-mails
that came from various parts of the world. The compilation of
these questions and replies was prepared with Hazrat Maulana
(

_)'s guidance and direction. It was hoped that many

more benefit from the advice and prescriptions given, since the
same questions were asked by different people.

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Hazrat : literally means, the respected . A title used when addressing a religious luminary
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May the mercy of Allah be upon him. This is mentioned after the name of a religious
personality who is deceased.
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Khalifa : Deputy or representative of a Shaykh.
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Mudda Zilluhu : meaning, May his shadow be over us for a long time.

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This book contains 20 letters with their respective replies, and
it was completed in Hazrat Maulanas lifetime, in Ramadaan
1429 (September 2008).

Confidentiality has been upheld, letters have been edited, and
no names and details are made known or published.

May Allah Taala make this book solely for His Pleasure, and
accept the very humble effort. May He make it a Sadaqa-e-
Jaariyah for Hazrat Maulana, as well as myself and all those
who contributed in its publication. May Allah Taala grant us all
a deep understanding of the knowledge acquired, accompanied
with the Taufeeq of practice on the Commandments of Allah
Taala and the beautiful teachings of Rasulullah (1) -
with sincerity and Divine acceptance.

May Allah Taala grant Hazrat Maulana (

_) the best of
Aakhirah.


[Rabiul Awwal 1434 / January 2013]



NB.: Do not touch the Arabic script of the Aayaat (verses) of
the Qur`aan Shareef if not in a state of Taharah (cleanliness)
i.e. Wudhu, or Ghusl (if required).




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IN THE NAME OF ALLAH
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THE COMPASSIONATE, THE MERCIFUL.

INDEED HE SUCCEEDS WHO PURIFIES HIS SELF.
AND INDEED HE FAILS WHO CORRUPTS HIS SELF.
[SURAH ASH-SHAMS 91 : 9 /10]

O YOU WHO BELIEVE, FEAR ALLAH AND JOIN
THE COMPANY OF THE TRUTHFUL ONES
(THE PIOUS, THE AULIYA ALLAH).
[SURAH TAUBAH 9 : 119]

AND THOSE WHO STRIVE FOR US - WE WILL SURELY GUIDE
THEM TO OUR WAYS. AND INDEED, ALLAH IS WITH THE
DOERS OF GOOD.
[SURAH ANKABOOT 29 : 69]


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Allah : The Name of the Creator of the Universe
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CONTENTS

1. Bay`ah and Tasawwuf
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2. Homosexuality
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3. Marrying a Non-Muslim 14
4. Acquiring wealth 19
5. Intolerance whilst teaching 23
6. Doubts in respect to Taharah 25
7. Revising the Qur`aan Shareef 27
8. Living with In-Laws 29
9. Various weaknesses 31
10. Debts 38
11. Children 40
12. Illicit Relationships 44
13. Winning the Lottery 48
14. Jealousy 51
15. Mujaahadah and Taubah 53
16. Horoscopes 56
17. Reading Mawaaiz 58
18. Studying Deen 60
19. Sihr and Treatment 64
20. Marriage 67



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LETTER ONE
Bay`ah and Tasawwuf

Question

As-Salaamu alaikum warahmatullah

Respected Maulana,

I would like to know about Sufism. Is it a part of Islam or is it
something which has just been made up by fraudulent people who
are marketing it as religion? What I hear sometimes makes me
think this is a hoax a money-making racket. Many talk about
shaykhs, peers, taking bay`ah, Islaahun nafs, etc. I would appreciate
a correct understanding of the ideology. What is the purpose?

Reply
Bismihi Taala

Respected Sister in Islam,

Wa-alaykumus Salaam wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

1.) Sufism, or Tasawwuf / Tariqah is very much a part of
Islamic teachings. Shariah is knowledge and Tariqah is
acting upon that knowledge. It covers all aspects of
Deen, by following in the footsteps of Rasulullah
(1), and revolves around the purification of
the heart and soul, the reformation of the nafs (self /
ego), developing intense love for Allah Taala and a
connection with Him, such that we submit to Him, with
heart, mind, soul and body. The Qur`aan Shareef
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alludes to Tazkiyah (purification of the soul) and Islaah
(reformation) a number of times.

2.) Unfortunately, many have spoilt the good name of
Sufism or Tasawwuf, by introducing actions which are
not in conformity with Islamic teachings. Some people
have made Tasawwuf appear like another religion, or
they have brought into Tasawwuf, the ideas and rites of
mysticism from other religions. Moreover, there are
many bogus peers who are just in it for money.
Therefore caution needs to be exercised in choosing a
spiritual mentor.

3.) Bay`ah is a practice (Sunnah) of Rasulullah
(1), which has been carried down, through
the ages, by our spiritual guides.

It is through the Barakah (blessings) of Bay`ah that a
person is able to easily and steadily traverse and
progress through the different stages in the spiritual
world, in a more efficient manner. The seeker is
constantly drawing direction and guidance from the
spiritual guide who has proficiency and expertise in the
field.

Bay`ah is choosing a spiritual doctor (a Shaykh) for your
spiritual ailments. The Shaykh must be one whom you
are most compatible with, and whose teachings, you
readily accept and follow. Of course, the Shaykh must
be on Haq. There are many fraudulent people in the
guise of the pious. The Shaykh must be learned,
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experienced, pious and wise for such a person must
have your best interests at heart.

The objectives are Islaah and complete obedience to
Allah Taala and Rasulullah (1). The mureed
(disciple) should therefore inform the Shaykh of his or
her spiritual weaknesses: hasad (jealousy), kibr (pride),
riyaa (ostentation), hirs (greed), hubbud-dunya
(obsessive love for the world) and so forth or sins
such as missing out Salaah due to laziness, backbiting,
casting lustful gazes, listening to music, being involved
in an illicit relationship, etc.

The Shaykh, if he is Kaamil
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, will not look down upon
his mureed when informed of such sicknesses just as a
doctor will not look down upon his patient, because his
patient has cancer, or a brain tumuor, or some other
disease or disorder.

The right of the mureed over the Shaykh is that the
Shaykh then makes Islaah of that spiritual malady thus
the Shaykh prescribes some remedy and also makes
Dua. For the mureed to experience the benefits and
curative properties in the Shaykhs treatment, it
becomes necessary to now follow the Shaykhs advice.
This is the mode and manner to restore spiritual health.

As an example: The mureed thinks himself to be pious
and great, and better than others. He looks down upon
those who do not do good deeds as he does, who do

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Kaamil : a devout, proficient, learned and impeccable Shariah adherent
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not dress according to the Sunnah like he does, or who
do not have a beard as he does. He considers himself
superior, and considers others as sinful, immoral and
condemned to hell-fire. This then is ujub (conceit) and
takabbur (pride).

The mureed should thus explain his condition by
informing his Shaykh: I think of myself as pious. I see my
piety to be my achievement because of my efforts. I look
down upon those who do not do what I do. I do not keep
their company because I consider it is below my dignity
to be with such people. etc.

So the Shaykh will prescribe some suitable remedy,
depending on various other aspects of the mureed.

If the mureed has a problem in controlling his anger, he
should inform the Shaykh: I am very temperamental
and I lose my anger when my wife does something wrong,
even if it is something small. I sometimes swear her, curse
her, and even threaten with Talaaq.

The mureed must spell out his weakness by giving an
example of his behaviour.

Just saying that I have anger, pride, jealousy is not very
helpful to the Shaykh. What makes you feel that you
have pride or jealousy?

The more specific you are in informing of your sickness,
the more specific and exact will be the remedy, Insha-
Allah.

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4.) In this journey of love, the mureed will experience
different spiritual states and conditions. However, this
is, as I generally describe, the scenery, enroute, as we
travel to reach our destination. The scenery, no matter
how beautiful, is not the destination. The objective is
securing the Pleasure of Allah Taala.

This too requires explanation. You could listen to the
talk or read the book: Feeling spiritually low? which
you will find on the website (YunusPatel.co.za).

5.) You can also listen to the talks: Tasawwuf made Easy,
and can download the book Ikhlaas from the same
website. The book includes some discussion on
Tasawwuf.

6.) May Allah Taala fill our hearts with His Love and guide
us all on the Path of Divine Love, and grant each one of
us the crown of His Friendship. May Allah Taala grant
Taufeeq of obedience and protect us from anything
that is displeasing to Him.

Was-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu
Yunus Patel (Maulana)

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LETTER TWO
Homosexual Inclinations

Question

As-Salaamu alaikum,

I am a Muslim male who was very normal in my nature until
recently. Having watched a movie which explicitly encouraged
homosexuality, I now find myself strongly attracted to other males,
to the extent that it is extremely difficult to restrain the desire to
engage in Haraam. Evil thoughts constantly plague my mind. I am
overcome with remorse and very ashamed of these feelings and also
afraid of giving into my desires, knowing that this is a very major
sin. Please help.

Reply
Bismihi Taala

Respected Brother in Islam,

Wa-alaykumus Salaam waRahmatullahi waBarakaatuhu


1.) Being ashamed of ones sins and wanting to keep them
concealed is a sign of Imaan. Of course, this does not
mean that a Muslim continues secretly indulging in
disobedience to Allah Taala and makes no effort of
giving up sins.

2.) Thoughts should be ignored, but if these feelings are
being entertained, effort has to be made in diverting
the attention. Keep the mind distracted and occupied
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with some work or activity either some form of
Ibaadah or something permissible.

3.) Often, the cause of boys/men suddenly feeling inclined
and attracted to other males is due to watching some
film with such content (i.e. of homosexuality). The
purpose of such films is promotion and encouragement
of sin, and the effects of such viewing are such that
even an otherwise normal male will begin having evil
thoughts and desires in respect to other men.

Others too have written of such experiences, so you are
not alone in your anguish. Recently a teacher wrote to
me, stating that he was a normal Muslim male who
had a complete aversion to homosexuality. However,
after viewing just one film on homosexuality, found
himself overcome with lust when it came to his male
students. He too was overcome with fear that he must
not fall into the sin. He found himself very weak to the
demands of his evil desires, but was also making every
effort to curb them. And yet prior to viewing this film,
he was sickened at the sin. So it was one movie that
triggered off such a volatile situation in his personal
and spiritual life. May Allah Taala save all.

4.) Make the effort of reading 2 Rakaats of Salaatut Taubah
and Salaatul Haajah every day, with sincere Dua
thereafter that Allah Taala forgive and change your
feelings and protect you from the mischief of nafs and
shaytaan.

5.) Keep reading :
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"O All Living, Self-Subsistent, there is no deity worthy of
being worshipped but Thee, You are above all deficiencies
and weaknesses. I am indeed of the wrongdoers"

6.) Continue meditating over the punishment that was
meted out to the people of Lut (

, ;:

.| ) and the Shar`i

Punishments for the person engaging in the act;
together with the fact that indulgence in the sin draws
the curses of Allah Taala and Rasulullah (1) -
and a person under such a curse is deprived altogether
of the Mercy of Allah Taala. (May Allah Taala protect
us.)

7.) Try and give Sadaqah
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in some form, on a daily basis,
with the intention that Allah Taala grant complete
change in your feelings and protect you.

8.) If Zam Zam
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is available, drink it with the intention of
cure from your evil, base desires for Zam Zam is a
cure for whatever is intended, when drinking it.

9.) Lower your gaze when it comes to such young boys /
handsome men, where you fear there will be some kind
of attraction. Do not be alone with anyone.

10.) Keep yourself occupied. Even when retiring to bed, try
to listen to some Zikr or Naath Shareef until you fall off
to sleep.

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Sadaqah : charity
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Zam-Zam : Sacred water from a well near the Kabah in Makkah Shareef.
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11.) Try and sleep in a state of Wudhu
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, read the Masnoon
Duas and Ayatul Kursi (Surah 2 : Verse 225).

12.) These are actually the whisperings, encouragement and
deception of shaytaan and nafs. Both are trying to
deceive and convince you that this is your nature, so
that shaytaan can ruin your worldly life and your
Hereafter, and the nafs can get some temporary
gratification, not considering consequences i.e. its
own humiliation and disgrace. With effort and striving,
you will, Insha-Allah, overcome both of them.

13.) At least you feel remorse over your weakness. Consider
the effort you are now making to address your
weakness and to come out of the sin, as a sign that
Allah Taala is with you and He will support and assist
you in your efforts to give it up.

14.) Fantasizing about men (or women) is Haraam. I
generally give a standard prescription to those who
write about having the weakness. It is titled, Giving up
Haraam Fantasizing, and will be found on the website
http://yunuspatel.co.za. Alhamdulillah, many have
found this beneficial in giving up the sin. You too should
make the effort to follow the advice given.

15.) May Allah Taala grant complete cure from this
sickness, protect from any Haraam indulgence and
purify the heart of such evil feelings.

Was-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu
Yunus Patel (Maulana)

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Wudhu : Ablution
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LETTER THREE
Marrying a non-Muslim

Question
As-Salaamu alaikum,

I am in my 20s and still not married. The Muslim boys I know are
of dubious and doubtful character, womanisers or into drugs, drink
and other Haraam. Their character also leaves little to be liked.

I am working with a man who is very good-natured and very kind-
hearted. He also respects me and is very keen on marrying me but
he is a Christian. I consider him better than hundreds of Muslim
men, so I would like to know if it is permissible to marry him? He
will not force me to give up my faith. It is just that I am worried
about what the community will say and I think this decision will hurt
my parents. I also want to form an Islamic home and bring up my
children in a religious environment. However, he is offering me what
I want in a husband also. Please advise.

Reply
Bismihi Taala

Respected Sister in Islam

Wa-alaykumus Salaam wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

1.) Whilst the character of many Muslims is far from being
described as admirable or noble, their
acknowledgment, recognition and belief in the Oneness
of Allah Taala and the Prophethood of Rasulullah
(1), is evidence of them being better in the
Sight of Allah Taala. In the Hereafter, there will be
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salvation for even that Muslim who may have lived a
sinful life.
As an example: A person steals a car or is involved in fraud.
The government will punish him according to his crime.
However, if he betrays his government and is found guilty
of high treason, this will incur a punishment which will be,
by far, much more severe because of the magnitude of
his crime.
The same with the Muslim and non-Muslim: The Muslim
who is sinful will be punished according to his sins, but
inevitably, his Imaan will be a means of securing him
salvation. He will enter Jannah.
The non-Muslim, on the other hand, can seemingly have
the most noble character and deeds, but because he is
committing high treason against his Creator and Nourisher,
by rejecting Him (even though Allah Taalas signs are
evident everywhere), or by associating partners to Him,
then no matter how good a character he has or how much
of service he renders to others, it will not be valid in the
Court of Allah Taala because the High Treason the
Kufr
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and Shirk
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, by far, exceed all limits of disobedience,
for which there can be no bail or parole (that is, if the
person dies in that condition of disbelief).
The condition of the Believer and that of the disbeliever
can also be likened to money. We have money which is
genuine and money which is counterfeit. If someone has a

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Kufr : Disbelief
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Shirk : Associating partners to Allah Taala
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R100 note which is old, crumpled and even torn, but it is
genuine, it will be valid for use.
If a person has a brand-new, clean, crisp, R100 note but it is
counterfeit, the government will reject it.
Similarly, the Muslim can be torn and crumpled in his
character, even in deeds, but due to his Imaan, he is
accepted by Allah Taala. The Non- Muslim can have good
character and can be engaged in good deeds, but he is like
that counterfeit note, and will not be accepted by Allah
Taala.
2.) No one is saying that this man will not accept Islam. We
make Dua that Allah Taala guide him to Islam, but
presently, he has no intention to do so. As such,
marriage will not be valid to him.
3.) Allah Taala advises us with that which is in our best
interests :
AND DO NOT MARRY UNBELIEVING WOMEN (IDOLATERS)
UNTIL THEY BELIEVE; AND A SLAVE WOMAN WHO BELIEVES
(I.E. IN TAUHEED) IS BETTER THAN AN UNBELIEVING WOMAN,
EVEN THOUGH SHE MAY ATTRACT YOU.
NOR MARRY (YOUR GIRLS) TO UNBELIEVERS UNTIL THEY
BELIEVE: A MAN SLAVE WHO BELIEVES (I.E. IN TAUHEED) IS
BETTER THAN AN UNBELIEVER, EVEN THOUGH HE MAY
ATTRACT YOU.
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UNBELIEVERS DO (BUT) BECKON YOU TO THE FIRE. BUT
ALLAH BECKONS BY HIS GRACE TO THE GARDEN (OF BLISS)
AND FORGIVENESS
[SURAH BAQARAH 2 : 221]
4.) You mention his level of respect for you. But he has
no respect for Allah Taala. Which is more important?
Would you prefer to live with a man who does not
recognise Allah Taala, does not respect Allah Taala,
does not love Allah Taala?
5.) It is not a matter of worrying about society. It is matter
of worrying about what Allah Taala likes and dislikes
for us and whether our actions will please Him or
displease Him. You should also worry about the
consequences that will inevitably follow in respect to
living together : different religions, different cultures,
living in a relationship that will not be valid, bringing up
children in confusion of beliefs, influenced by different
families, etc. You have to think long term.
6.) Yes, you should also consider your parents: You would
cause them tremendous hurt. Consider the disgrace and
embarrassment they will feel. Then you will be
deprived of their Duas and blessings. How then will you
enjoy any kind of happiness?
7.) If he is sincerely interested in accepting Islam that is,
he believes with all his heart that this is the true
religion, and not so that he can marry you, it would be
a different matter altogether, and also rewarding for
you.
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8.) Make Dua for his Hidayah (guidance). Send him suitable
literature on Islam, and terminate contact with him. Do
not communicate with him. If he wishes to find out
more about Islam, refer him to an Aalim.
9.) You say that you want to form an Islamic home How
do you expect to do this by living with a Christian man?
10.) Trust, trust, trust in Allah Taala. Insha-Allah, He will
open doors for you to fulfill your desire to settle, form
an Islamic home and please your parents. There is a
time and place for everything and everyone.
11.) May Allah Taala grant you a most suitable Muslim
husband, with noble character; a husband who will
offer you happiness and contentment and steadfastness
on Deen.
12.) For a marriage proposal : Read daily, before sleeping :
111 times

. Your mother can read

111
times. Durood Shareef should be read 11 times before
and after. Make Dua. You can also read Surah Dahr
every night (Juz 29, Surah 76).


Was-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu
Yunus Patel (Maulana)

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LETTER FOUR
Acquiring wealth

Question

I am a Hindu and want you to please foretell my future. Will I
become rich in the future? I am not well off and am very desirous
and ambitious of becoming a rich man. I would also like your
suggestions on how to become rich.

Reply
Bismihi Taala

1.) Sustenance, health, life in fact, everything is
predestined. It is only Allah Taala (God) who has total
knowledge of all and everything, as well as what is
going to happen. No human being can read your palm
or tell your fortune in any other way, and thereby
predict your future.

2.) However, we live in a world of means and thus we make
use of the means, and then leave the decision to Allah
Taala. So we make an effort in acquiring our
sustenance, in earning a livelihood. After this effort,
whatever reaches us, should be appreciated, whether it
is little or more. This is based on Divine Distribution,
not on how much harder we work and strive. Many
are professionals, but are without any kind of job or
income. Despite their degrees, they are unable to earn
a living.
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3.) Amongst many things, five are mentioned in particular,
which are exclusive to the knowledge of Allah Taala. No
one else knows about these five besides Allah. So no
person can tell you about these five things.

ALLAH TAALA STATES IN HIS DIVINE BOOK:

VERILY ALLAH, WITH HIM (ALONE) IS THE KNOWLEDGE OF THE
HOUR (QIYAAMAH), HE SENDS DOWN THE RAIN, AND KNOWS
THAT WHICH IS IN THE WOMBS. NO PERSON KNOWS WHAT HE
WILL EARN TOMORROW, AND NO PERSON KNOWS IN WHAT LAND
HE WILL DIE. VERILY, ALLAH IS ALL-KNOWING, ALL-AWARE
(HE IS ACQUAINTED WITH ALL THINGS).
[SURAH LUQMAN 31 : 34]

Thus, tomorrow is a secret known to Allah Taala Alone.
Included in this, is:

The detailed knowledge of exactly what a person will
be able to do.

All we can do is plan. However, we should not trust
in those plans. Anything can happen - an accident,
death, sickness, war, revolution, etc. which will then
change those plans.

All plans are subject to Allah Taalas confirmation.

This part of the verse also refers to wealth, i.e.
exactly how much money a person will earn for that
day.

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4.) Look towards those who have less than you to
appreciate what you have.

5.) For a Muslim, the true contentment lies not in material
wealth and riches, rather in the contentment of the
heart. This contentment is achieved with firm belief in
Allah Taala, His Final Prophet and Messenger,
Muhammad (May Allah send salutations and peace upon
him), belief in the Hereafter, and complete submission
to Allah Taala in this worldly life. The religion of Islam
offers true fulfillment to heart and soul.

6.) Ambition is in its place. Who isnt ambitious? But this
ambition must not be at the expense of rejecting the
One who has created us, nourished us and sent us to
this world with a high and lofty objective : And that
objective is not amassing wealth, rather it is recognizing
and submitting to the One who Controls our lives and
all our affairs, and to whom is our inevitable return. So
we work towards achieving His Pleasure. In this
manner, we secure our salvation in the Hereafter,
whereby we enter Paradise, God Willing and it is here
that every desire will be fulfilled without any effort.

So do not close your heart and mind towards the truth,
rather work to achieve the truth and you will find
yourself very rich within your heart and soul and
these riches cannot be stolen like material possessions.

7.) May God guide you to this richness which is truly
enviable and which you too will consider the ultimate
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bounty, because you will experience in your life, the
treasures of both worlds.

The clouds and winds, the moon, the sun and
the sky are always at work,
So that you earn your living and do not eat in
forgetfulness.
The whole creation is involved in working
for you in obedience,
The law of justice will not be fulfilled if you
fail to obey Allah.

Yunus Patel (Maulana)

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LETTER FIVE
Intolerance whilst teaching

Question

As-Salaamu alaykum warahmatullah

I am a Madrasa teacher and find myself intolerant when it comes to
some of my students, especially the ones who are weak and slow in
learning. In my frustration, I sometimes insult such students and
thereafter regret my behaviour. Due to their slowness, I even leave
off testing them. Please advise on how to overcome my intolerance.

Reply
Bismihi Taala
Sister in Islam,

Wa-alaykumus Salaam wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

1.) Ahle Ilm
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are supposed to be Ahle Hilm
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. Just as you
would like that Allah Taala tolerates you with all your
weaknesses and shortcomings, so you will have to train
your nafs to also tolerate others on their weaknesses.
Being human means that we are prone to shortcomings
and errors each and every one of us.

2.) Comments that are uncalled for and that are hurtful to
the children will invite regret. Learn to maintain silence.

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Ahle Ilm : People of Knowledge
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Ahle Hilm : People of Tolerance
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The Hadeeth mentions that a man does not slip so
much with his foot as he does with his tongue.

3.) Moreover, you should adopt adl
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in respect to your
students, otherwise not testing them due to their
weakness, will be an injustice to them. Allah Taala has
entrusted these students to your care. This is an
amaanat
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. Win them over with love, compassion and
affection. Encourage them with good words and with
incentives.

If need be, get the brighter students to give some time to the
weaker students, for revision purposes that is, if you do not
have sufficient time. However, do not be neglectful in giving
your attention to the child.

4.) There are many excellent books by our pious Ulama and
these book offer different methods of teaching, as well
as excellent suggestions in dealing with students. You
should try and obtain them, and follow through with
the noble advice and guidance therein.


Was-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu
Yunus Patel (Maulana)


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Adl : justice
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Amaanat : trust
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LETTER SIX
Doubts in respect to Taharah

Question

As-Salaamu alaikum

My problem is as follows : Every time I make Wudhu, I feel as if my
Wudhu is not valid. I repeatedly wash my face, going beyond 3
times. When I take Ghusl, I consider that it is not valid and repeat
it. When I make Istinja, I feel I am still not clean. I continue making
Wudhu, Ghusl and Istinja but the doubts are not leaving me. I have
been to many Aamils and follow different treatments, but the
problem is persistent. I feel my sickness only increasing and am fed
up of running after Aamils and doing the different treatments.
Would be grateful for your help.

Reply
Bismihi Taala
Respected Brother,

Wa-alaykumus Salaam wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

1.) First of all : Put a complete stop to visiting Aamils. Just
read the following :

- 3 x Durood Shareef
- 3 x Ayatul Kursi
- 3 x 3 Quls
- 11 x La Haula wala Quwata Illah Billah
- 3 x Durood Shareef

Blow over yourself. Blow on water and drink. Make
Taubah and Istighfaar from sins. Give some Sadaqah.
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This will be sufficient to ward off Jinn and Jadu effects.
Do this morning and evening.

2.) Ignore all the doubts when making Wudhu. It is possible
to cover the face properly in washing 3 times.
Thereafter, just ignore the doubts.

3.) When in the toilet : After relieving yourself, stand up,
cough a few times, then make Istinja with toilet tissue.
After this, wash the private part. Wear your underwear.
Sprinkle a little water around the groin area. Then
attribute whatever wetness you feel to that sprinkle.
Ignore the doubts.

4.) When bathing : Soap your body properly once. When
the soap is washed off, believe your body too has been
washed.

5.) If you do not follow through with the above, you will
suffer anxiety and the problem can even lead to a
nervous breakdown and sicknesses.

6.) Read the book : Combating the Whisperings of shaytaan
found on the website (www.YunusPatel.co.za). Or
send us your address, and we will post it to you.

7.) I make Dua for your complete recovery from all
ailments physical and spiritual.


Was-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu
Yunus Patel (Maulana)

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LETTER SEVEN
Revising Qur`aan Shareef for a Hafez

Question

As- Salaamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakaatuhu

I am a Hafez of the Qur`aan Shareef, but find it very difficult to
keep up with dhor, due to my responsibilities as the breadwinner,
husband and father. As a result, there is neglect. The time is never
enough to do the dhor I used to do as a student. I would appreciate
Maulanas suggestions on how to maintain my dhor.

Reply
Bismihi Taala
Dear Brother in Islam,

Wa-alaykumus Salaam wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

1.) Every difficulty becomes easy on the path of Love
and for the Lover of Allah Taala, there is always
time for the Beloved, and always a desire to be in
communion with the Beloved.

The Qur`aan Shareef is the Kalaam (Speech) of Allah Taala:
When reciting it, you are listening to Allah Taala and
simultaneously, Allah Taala is listening to you. The
Hadeeth mentions : Almighty Allah listens to the voice of
the reader of the Qur`aan more eagerly than does a
master to the song of his singing slave girl.

We should be desirous of such opportunities whereby we
are recipient to this special attention from Allah Taala.
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2.) The following is an easy prescription which I give to
Huffaaz who are in professions and business:

a. Between the Azaan of Fajr and Fajr Salaah, after
the 2 Sunnats of Fajr, read 3 Rukus of Qur`aan
Shareef. After Fajr, read the same 3 Rukus. It will
take + 5 minutes.

b. Before and after Zuhr do the same 3 Rukus only.
Then before and after Asar, Maghrib and Esha
respectively, the same 3.

c. In a day, you have done the same 3 Rukus
+
10
times, allowing for some days when you cannot
manage before or after.

d. Take the following 3 Rukus the next day and recite
as explained above. In six days (average), you will
complete a para. On Sunday, make dhor of that
para, reading a few rukus each Salaah time.

e. In a month you will do + 4 paras, and in 7 months
revision of the complete Qur`aan Shareef without
much effort, Insha-Allah.

f. Continue like this for the rest of your life.

3.) May Allah Taala grant Barakah in time,
preservation of His Kalaam in your heart, and
Taufeeq of always reciting the Qur`aan Shareef.

Was-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu
Yunus Patel (Maulana)
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LETTER EIGHT
Living with In-laws

Question

Respected Maulana,

As-Salaamu alaikum

I live with my in-laws and there is free intermingling amongst the
brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law. I come from a conservative home
and am very uncomfortable in this situation. How do I live in such a
home without getting involved in an informal relationship with the
men in the home? Is there any proof in respect to keeping ones
distance from ones brother-in-law? How should I dress before my
father-in-law? What does Shariah say about having male servants?
Because my in-laws keep male servants to do housework also.

Reply
Bismihi Taala

Respected Sister in Islam,

Wa-alaykumus Salaam wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

1.) Sadly, we live in a time, where people are far too lax in
respect to the laws of Shariah. As a result, innumerable
problems abound more especially on the home-front,
with marital disputes, infidelity, disobedience of
children and so forth. It seems as if a fire is burning in
almost every home due to indulgence in sins.
Intermingling with the opposite sex is a sin, but is no
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longer frowned upon by the majority. It is rather
considered a norm.

2.) It is not permissible to associate with ones brother-in-
law (or sisters-in-law for males) in an informal or
intimate manner. You should associate with the ladies,
but if you are living in such a home as described in your
letter, then observe the following :

Keep the scarf low over the forehead.
Wear a loose modest dress or cloak.
Lower your gaze when crossing any non-mahram
persons.
Do not engage in chit-chat with brothers-in-law
and ghayr-mahareem.
Talk only what is essential with male servants, in a
straightforward manner.

3.) Your father-in-law is a Mahram, but if he is young or he
is of low morals, some degree of purdah must be
maintained, although the face can remain uncovered.

4.) Proof is in the Qur`aan and Sunnah. Nabi (1)
said that the brother-in-law is like death. This is
because if there is an informal and close relationship, it
can easily lead to an illicit relationship and break-down
in marriage. There is no shortage of proof of the same,
in many, many families where sisters-in-law and
brothers-in-law have fallen into adulterous
relationships, etc. Allah Taala protect us all.

Was-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu
Yunus Patel (Maulana)
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LETTER NINE
Various Weaknesses

Question

As-Salaamu alaikum Hazrat,

My weaknesses are as follows : I am neglectful of my Salaah.
Laziness sets in at the time of Salaah, and I find flimsy excuses by
which I forego the Salaah. I have the same habit when it comes to
Tilawat. I dont give time. I also have the habit of speaking lies and
cannot seem to give it up. I also gossip and take pleasure in
speaking ill of others and I dont show any respect to my parents or
seniors. I consider myself gullible at times and am very materialistic.
I am persistent and demanding in getting what I want. Can you
advise and offer me remedies for all of these ills?

Reply
Bismihi Taala
Respected Sister,

Wa-alaykumus Salaam wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

1.) The correct etiquette when writing to ones Shaykh is to
address two or three concerns or weaknesses at a time,
and not all weaknesses, at once. There are many
others, like you, also seeking attention and time for
Islaah, and they too have a right to be fulfilled.

2.) Be that as it may, acknowledgement of sins is a virtue in
itself and is half the battle won. Masha-Allah. Your
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sincerity will be evident if you make the effort in
following through with the advices offered.

3.) Due to time restraint, I will try and briefly address the
weaknesses which you mention :

Salaah :
Read the entire chapter of Fazaa`il-e-Salaah by Shaykhul
Hadeeth, Hazrat Maulana Muhammad Zakariyya (-

_).
Read one Hadeeth from the section of Fazaa`il
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and one
Hadeeth from the section which deals with warnings for
those who neglect Salaah. Read the Ahaadeeth with their
commentaries. Insha-Allah, before completing the
chapters, you will be punctual with Salaah.
Also draw up a chart for one month, of the days of the
week, together with the respective Salaah read each day
and give an honest account of the effort that you make in
reading your Salaah in its correct time. Send this to me
after one month.
Give Sadaqah of R20 each time that you make a Salaah,
Qadha.
Qur`aan Shareef :
The Qur`aan Shareef also has a right upon us that we
read it daily. Make time for some recitation, even if it is
just 2 Rukus a day, and thereafter increase gradually. Also
read Surah Yaseen every morning.

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Fazaa`il : Virtues
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If you have not learnt proper Tajweed
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and pronunciation,
make the effort to do so. It is Waajib
18
to learn to read the
Qur`aan Shareef correctly.
Whilst reading the Qur`aan Shareef, think : This is the
Kalaam (Speech) of my Allah of my Beloved. I am listening
to the speech of Allah.
And since you are reading His Speech, He is also listening to
you.
Lies :
A person asked Rasulullah (1) if a Muslim can be a
coward (i.e. Is it possible that this weakness be found in
him). He (1) replied : Yes. He was then asked if a
Muslim can be miserly and he (1) again replied:
Yes. He was thereafter asked if a Muslim can be a liar and
he (1) said: No.
Lies are so far removed from Imaan, and such an extremely
bad habit, that Allah Taala mentions it together with Shirk
in the Qur`aan Shareef. The Qur`aan Shareef combines the
sin of lying with the sin of idol worship in the same phrase.
The fact that Rasulullah (1) hated, detested and
abhorred lies would suffice as a deterrent to the one who
claims to be his follower.

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Tajweed : the art of reciting the Qur`aan Shareef in accordance with established rules or
pronunciation and intonation.
18
Waajib: obligatory
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What has been said above should be sufficient to give up
such a bad habit. If not, then when you have uttered a lie,
inform the person you have lied to: I am in the process of
reforming myself and one of my weaknesses is my habit of
lying. And as part of remedying this weakness, I have to
inform you, that I have just spoken a lie. Please forgive me.
Gossip :
This too is a very major sin. Allah Taala has prohibited this
in the verse : NOR SPEAK ILL OF EACH OTHER BEHIND THEIR
BACKS. WOULD ANY OF YOU LIKE TO EAT THE FLESH OF HIS DEAD
BROTHER? NAY, YOU WOULD ABHOR IT BUT FEAR
ALLAH(49:12)
When we have so much to account for, of our own actions,
do we need the burden of accounting for speaking ill of
others as well or having to contend with their sins as a
recompense for backbiting?
All you have to do is keep quiet. Why dishonour any
person? Would you like that others speak ill of you,
disclose your faults and be the means of your shame and
humiliation and disgrace? No. So like for others what you
like for yourself simple.
If you continue, go up to the person, and tell her: I have
made gheebat of you and request your forgiveness in this
world This should remedy the problem very quickly.

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Disrespect to parents and elders / disobedient :
You may have heard the clich: What goes around comes
around.
Just as you treat your parents and elders, so will you be
treated by your children and others who are junior to you.
Disrespect to parents is such a major sin that the person is
punished even before death - in this world as well as the
hereafter. Allah Taala has said in the Qur`aan Shareef that
we should not even say, uff to them so then what of
anything worse?
Humbly apologize to your parents. Ask them to forgive you
and to make Dua for you as well.
Make the effort to be good and obedient and that
obedience must obviously be within the parameters of
Shariah. There is no obedience to creation if it entails
disobedience to the Creator.
Gullible :
Deal with people with caution. Neither can you be too
trusting, because most people will take you for a ride, so
to speak. Nor should you be suspicious, because some
suspicion is sin.


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Materialistic :
Do not forget your destination. It is not this world It is the
Hereafter. This world is just part of the journey. It was
created for our use but we were created for the Aakhirah
- Jannah, Insha-Allah.
Make use of the things of this world, enjoy the material
bounties given but do not give your heart to sand. Give
your heart to Allah Taala. Do not invest all your energies
and time and money and effort in a world that will perish
and which you too will be leaving. It must not be that we
return to Allah Taala as losers.
Try to curtail visits to shopping areas, since we become
easily enamoured by the different or new products on the
market. This tempts us to spend unnecessarily and even
lavishly, or beyond our means which is sinful. If we
cannot afford those items, our hearts will be restless and in
grief. So we spare ourselves that unnecessary grief, by
going only out of necessity.
Persistent and demanding :
Do not make life difficult for others.
A Muslim is selfless and not selfish. A Muslim gives more
than he takes. Learn to do things for others for the
pleasure of Allah Taala and Allah Taala will then put into
the hearts of others to do for you, without you demanding.
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4.) To nurture and strengthen your Imaan, read the right
literature and keep good company, and be practical on
Deen.
5.) May Allah Taala make it easy for you and all of us to
give up all undesirable habits and to be practical on the
Commandments of Allah Taala and the teachings of
Rasulullah (1).
6.) I have enclosed some of my kitaabs. Insha-Allah, you
will find benefit in them.
7.) May Allah Taala grant the best of both worlds and
make you a good and pious Muslimah.

Was-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu
Yunus Patel (Maulana)



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LETTER TEN
Debts

Question

Respected Maulana
As-Salaamu alaikum wa-Rahmatullah

I am caught up in major debts. I have a weakness of purchasing on
credit, thinking I can cover my expenses in the months which are
interest-free. However, I am now in debts, over my head and dont
know how to come out. Is there any wazeefa which I can read?

Reply

Bismihi Taala
Dear Brother,

Wa-alaykumus Salaam wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

1.) Cut down the credit cards. Do not purchase
unnecessarily. Live within your budget. Get rid of
surplus assets by selling whether car, furniture or
other material possessions, and pay off.

2.) Read the following Masnoon Dua for easy payment of
debts

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"O Allah, I seek protection in You from all worries and grief,
and I seek protection in You from helplessness and laziness,
and I seek protection in You from miserliness and
cowardice, and I seek protection in You from overpowering
debt and from the high-handedness of men.

3.) We are all travellers on a long journey home to
Jannah, Insha-Allah. This world is just a stop en-route.
We are all in transit until we board the flight of death.

A Muslim is thrifty with his time in the world, knowing
that preparation has to be made for the journey ahead,
and not in amassing the material things of this world.
Whilst we make use of the things of this world, we
should not give our hearts to them and become
negligent of our purpose in this world.

4.) Curb your spending by limiting your visits to shopping
centres. Go when necessary and just to those shops
that have the items needed. Do not window shop or
visit every shop and get caught by the temptation to
spend unnecessarily. What you do not see, you will not
desire.

5.) May Allah Taala make it very easy to pay off all debts.


Was-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu
Yunus Patel (Maulana)

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LETTER ELEVEN
Children

Question

As-Salaamu alaikum warahmatullah

Alhamdulillah, I am in hijaab and punctual with Salaah and I try to
please Allah Taala and follow the Sunnah. However, since I have
had my daughter, I find bringing her up to be very trying and
sometimes I lose my temper. She is now two years old and besides
being demanding, always wanting my attention, and disruptive, she
also gets in my way every time I make Salaah, so much so that I
break my Salaah and have to start over. I am very frustrated and
take out my frustrations on my husband, who is very loving, caring
and patient towards me.

Reply
Bismihi Taala
Respected Sister

Wa-alaykumus Salaam wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

1.) Masha-Allah, it is very pleasing to note the effort that
you are making to please Allah Taala. May Allah Taala
grant Istiqaamah
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and acceptance.
2.) Islam has conferred upon the mother great rights due
to having carried a baby for nine months, and suffering
weakness upon weakness, thereafter the trauma of

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childbirth and the many sacrifices that follow once the
child has come into the world. On all of those sacrifices,
Allah Taala grants immense rewards.
3.) Almost all mothers describe the age of around 2 years
as the terrible twos because toddlers generally
become stubborn and rebellious and are a great test of
patience. So you are not alone in that frustration.
Inculcate the quality of Sabr (patience) by thinking of the
great rewards.
However, you should be careful not to allow your
frustration to get the better of you, such that you begin to
hit, slap or whack the child. Many, many mothers feel that
since it is their children, they can do as they like and it is
generally not because of Tarbiyyah and discipline, but due
to the frustration of their nafs. This frustration is then
taken out on their children, and often it is zulm (injustice).
Keep in mind that your child is a trust from Allah Taala
for which you will be questioned.
When distressed or frustrated, make a lot of Dua for your
daughter but do not ever curse, since a mothers Dua is
immediately accepted.
Read:

x 7 and blow on her when she is troublesome

and crying. Read Durood Shareef as well.

Add the following to your daily Duas:

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And those who say, "Our Lord, grant us from among our wives
and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for
the righteous."
[Surah Furqaan 25 : 74]

4.) Anger and frustration are part of being human.
However, do not give vent to such feelings in a manner
which would be unacceptable and sinful. If you have,
humbly apologize to your husband.
5.) Express gratitude that Allah Taala has blessed you with
a husband who is good. Do also show your husband,
your appreciation.
6.) You do not need to break your Salaah if she obstructs
you. You are allowed to take 2 or 3 steps back to allow
for Sajda. You can even move forward as long as you do
not go beyond the place of Sajda. Such obstruction
was even caused to Rasulullah (1). Sometimes
his grandchild climbed on his back when he went into
Sajda. He prolonged his Sajda to allow him to get off.
Such obstruction is excused.
7.) The Ibaadah of a married person is superior to that of
the Ibaadah of an unmarried person. This is because of
the added responsibilities, as well as the demands that
come along with marriage and parenting.
8.) There are many good kitaabs on the upbringing of
children, which have been compiled by our respected
Ulama. You should try and read these books and follow
the noble guidance conveyed.
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9.) May Allah Taala make easy the upbringing of your
daughter, and may He make her the coolness of your
eyes and the comfort and delight of your heart. May
Allah Taala make easy all your tasks.

Was-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu
Yunus Patel (Maulana)


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LETTER TWELVE
Illicit relationships

Question

As-Salaamu alaikum warahmatullah

I was involved with someone who is very well-known in the
community for his religious activities. He secretly courted me and
promised to marry me but now I have been told that he returned to
his hometown and married someone else. I feel angry and betrayed.
I had trusted him so much. It is very difficult for me to accept that
he has done what he has. As it is, I have so many problems at
home. My father is involved with another woman and he is so
abusive and violent to my own mother. And my mother just stays on,
with patience. I am making plenty of Dua, but not seeing any
acceptance. So Id like to know if Allah is helping me or making my
life more complicated. After all, I am also trying to give up some of
my sins.

Reply
Bismihi Taala
Dear Sister,

Wa-alaykumus Salaam wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

1.) One of the beliefs of a Muslim is: Whatever has befallen
you, could never have missed you and whatever has
missed you, could never have befallen you. This is
Taqdeer.
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2.) However, the fact that the courtship was Haraam
played a role in things not working out. It was Haraam
to pursue the relationship. And indulgence in Haraam
invites the displeasure, anger and curse of Allah Taala
on such persons. When He is not happy with such a
relationship, it can never be successful. It cannot end
in happiness, unless both make sincere Taubah and
make the Haraam relationship Halaal, with Nikah.
3.) You mention that you placed a lot of trust in him. You
should understand that if a person is not loyal and
faithful to Allah Taala, he will not be loyal and faithful
to you. If a person disobeys Allah Taala openly, this is
proof of his disloyalty. The contact that the person
maintained with you was disobedience to Allah Taala.
He should know better since he is rendering religious
services. This itself was a sign that all will not work out
favourably between the two of you, because there was
a lack of Taqwa (abstinence and fear of Allah Taala).
4.) Consider what has happened as the past. Forget about
it. Bury it. All your questions to him will not undo what
has been done. He is married and he is enjoying life, so
why mourn and waste your tears over him.
5.) However it is very important that you make sincere
Taubah for the Haraam contact that you had with him.
6.) May Allah Taala give your father Hidayah to give up
the sin or marry the woman. Some senior member of
the family or an Aalim should be requested to speak to
him or counsel him.
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7.) May Allah Taala greatly reward your mother for her
patience and tolerance.
8.) If your father is so violent and aggressive, causes such
physical harm, and is not prepared to go for counseling
and rectify his behaviour, then your mother should take
the matter up with the social welfare department or
the Jamiatul Ulama in your area for a resolution to the
problem.
9.) You should definitely not make such statements as Is
Allah helping me or making my life more complicated
This is very, very dangerous for ones Imaan and leaves
one on the threshold of kufr. It is necessary that you
sincerely ask Allah Taala for forgiveness for such
irrational statements.
10.) Allah Taalas assistance is with those who are
Muhsineen (doers of good), those who abstain from
Haraam and also fulfill all commands and rights that are
directed to them.
11.) When Allah Taala answered the Dua of shaytaan who
was already rajeem (rejected / accursed), why would
He not answer your Dua? Allah Taala is to His Servant
as is His servants expectation of Him. If you have
doubts about Allah Taala answering your Duas and
being able to assist you, then you should not expect
acceptance of Dua and His assistance.
But if you have conviction, that Allah Taala is Kind,
Compassionate, Forgiving and Generous and He is the
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One who is All Powerful and that absolutely nothing is
difficult for Him, and with that Imaan, you make Dua,
you will see the fruit of your Dua at some stage.
12.) Masha-Allah for the efforts in giving up sins. However,
all sins have to be given up, to earn the Pleasure of
Allah Taala. Sins such as television viewing, music,
reading immoral magazines and literature, casting
lustful gazes, speaking lies, gossiping, chatting over the
internet with boys, etc. And of course, it should go
without saying : Reading Salaah punctually, dressing
modestly and fulfilling all other rights of Allah Taala, of
Rasulullah (1), of parents, and others.
13.) Befriend some good, pious Muslim girls, who will be a
good influence and who will offer you encouragement.
14.) May Allah Taala grant us His Recognition and Intense
Love for Him.

Was-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu
Yunus Patel (Maulana)

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LETTER THIRTEEN
Winning the lottery

Question

As-Salaamu alaikum wa Rahmatullah

I am very tired of my circumstances. My family is very poor and
there is much difficulty. Sir, will you please help me to win the
lottery? I know it is Haraam but my situation is a very desperate
one. If you were in my situation, you would understand.

Reply
Bismihi Taala
Sister in Islam,

Wa-alaykumus Salaam wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

1.) We should understand that life in this world is a test
and that Allah Taala will test us in respect to various
conditions such as fear, hunger, loss in wealth and life,
sickness, and so forth. However, Allah Taala also gives
glad tidings to those who bear these difficulties with
patience.

You should always keep in mind that Allah Taala does not
burden a servant more than His servant can bear: Allah
Taala mentions this as well: ON NO SOUL DOES ALLAH PLACE
A BURDEN GREATER THAN IT CAN BEAR (2:286)

2.) Winning the lottery is no solution to a Muslims
problems. Haraam will only bring more problems and
very severe azaab (punishment) from Allah Taala.
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3.) Read the extract, on gambling, taken from one of my
books, which I will include at the end of the letter.
Insha-Allah, this will give an understanding of how
grave the sin is.

4.) You and your family will have to check your lives and
see if it is in conformity with Deen. Are all the family
members punctual with Salaah five times a day? Is
there abstinence from sins, such as music, television
viewing, etc?

If not, you have to understand that problems must arise
and they will increase, unless we resort to sincere
repentance (Taubah) and become obedient to Allah
Taala and Rasulullah (1). On obedience, Allah
Taala promises all kinds of blessings in health, wealth
and life.

5.) Make sincere Taubah, turn to Allah Taala, beg of Him
Insha-Allah, conditions will become favourable.

6.) Are you in such dire and desperate circumstances
where you do not have food at home, shelter, cannot
pay for water and electricity, etc? If so, you should go
to one of the Muslim welfare organizations in your area
and ask for financial assistance and the members of the
family should make some effort to obtain Halaal
earnings. Home industry is a thriving business. The
ladies in the family can sew, cook, bake or make
something and sell from home. But poverty is no
justification for the lottery.

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7.) Allah Taala mentions that after every difficulty there is
ease. May Allah Taala open doors of Halaal Rizq
(sustenance) and grant ease and aafiyah, prosperity and
plenty of happiness.


Was-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu
Yunus Patel (Maulana)
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There are those who, on reading of some person winning 6
million Rands in the lottery, desire to also buy a lottery ticket. And
this desire increases in intensity when reflecting over so many digits
in a winning. Once more, the command of Jihad is declared against
the nafs.
I always say that a Muslim should consider every Haraam Rand,
Dollar or Pound won in a lottery or in gambling or coming in any
Haraam way (interest, fraud, theft, insurance, etc.) as one pig. If we
do not consider every Haraam Rand as a pig, then there is a
weakness in our Imaan. If a person wins 6 million or 13 million
Rands, Dollars or Pounds, we should consider that the person has
won 6 million or 13 million pigs.
If a Muslim is told that he has won 6 million pigs, which are
accommodated on a very large farm, then immediately that Muslim
will say : La haula wa la quwata illah Billlah
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whereas, just as
that pig is filth and Haraam, so too are the winnings of the National
Lotto or any other form of gambling.
May Allah Taala grant us the understanding.

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Extract from the book, Kicking the Habit
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There is no Power and Might except with Allah.
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LETTER FOURTEEN
Jealousy

Question

As-Salaamu alaykum
Respected Maulana Saheb,

My problem is that I do not like to see my brother get ahead in
good deeds. For example : There is a strong resentment when I see
him engaged in Zikrullah, listening to Islamic lectures, reading
Islamic literature and so forth. Basically, I do not like to see him
doing any good deeds. This gets so strong that many times I do not
do good deeds in the fear that he will see me and start doing the
same. For example: I would want to read Qur`aan Shareef but I
would not, in fear that he will see me and start doing the same.

This is a daily occurrence and I am thinking that it may be hasad,
even though not related to worldly issues. It is with a`maal. Please
help me cure this disease.

Reply
Bismihi Taala
Dear brother in Islam,

Wa-alaykumus Salaam wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

1.) Yes, it is Hasad. Why burn your heart? You should be
happy that your brother is setting a noble example and
you should emulate him, or yourself do good deeds that
he will emulate. If he copies you in good deeds, all
those deeds become yours. You will get the reward for
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all his deeds as well. SubhanAllah! How generous Allah
Taala is!

2.) Hasad destroys your own good deeds so ultimately
you lose out. Allah Taala grants Taufeeq and we make
Dua that Allah Taala grant us the Taufeeq to also do
more good deeds, with Ikhlaas and acceptance.

Hasad is being unhappy with the decisions of Allah
Taala and what He grants to people but if there is
desire for the same bounties, make Dua that Allah
Taala blesses you also. In this regard, make Dua to be
blessed with such obedience as well.

3.) Be happy for him. Praise him, within limits, on his
efforts. And be grateful that Allah Taala blessed you
with a brother who is good company and not a
brother who is taking you to sins.


Was-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu
Yunus Patel (Maulana)


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LETTER FIFTEEN
Mujaahadah and Taubah

Question

As-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

Maulana, despite having spent 5 years at Madrasa, and being
occupied in the khidmat of Deen, I still find myself weak with regard
to nafs and shaytaan. I still fall into some sin or the other. This
makes me very despondent and a feeling of darkness envelops me. I
carry out some good amaal and then spoil them with some bad
deed. There are times when I find myself intending to do something
displeasing to Allah Taala, then though I find restlessness in my
heart, I give in to nafs and shaytaan. After this, I cry in repentance,
but after some time, fall into some sin again.

I try to read Tahajjud but would like to become regular in its
performance. I have been told that it is not good to sleep during the
time of Fajr and would like to verify.

Reply
Bismihi Taala
Sister in Islam,

Wa-alaykumus Salaam wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

1.) The Hadeeth states that all of the children of Hazrat
Aadam (

, ;:

.| ) are sinners but the best of them are

those who make Taubah.

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To err is human but every experience, good or bad,
should be a means by which we draw lessons.

As we go through the mill of life, we draw from our
experiences and learn the dark and dangerous zones of
life, the red light areas and the green light areas of life.
But it becomes easier to escape the dark alleys of sins,
when we follow someone who has a lamp or torch.
Sometimes we think that the short cut is better, but the
longer route is spiritually safer. However, it is only a
spiritual guide who can lead us down the right path
otherwise, nafs and shaytaan make us branch off at
some stage, taking us far from Allah Taalas pleasure.
(Allah Taala protect us all).

2.) The Fatwa
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given by your heart, by means of the
restlessness, was that this deed is wrong.

3.) Regret, remorse and tears of repentance are dearly
loved by Allah Taala. It even honours a person with
higher spiritual stages, conditional to the person being
sincere. So be hopeful. Allah Taala is Loving, Merciful
and Forgiving. Alhamdulillah, He has given you the
Taufeeq of Taubah, but this should not make you
complacent.

4.) Retrace your steps to obedience. Give up sins and
continue with the Fardh and Waajib and Sunnah. Allah
Taala will grant the Taufeeq to do even more when you
prove yourself in the efforts that you will now make to
obey Him.

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5.) Listen to my weekly talks (which are audio-streamed).
Read the kitaabs again, especially Combating the
whisperings of shaytaan and Aashiq-e-Sawdiq.
Insha-Allah, there will be benefit and improvement.

6.) You can wake up half an hour before Fajr for Tahajjud
and stay awake right until Ishraaq. The morning is
blessed for the Ummah of Nabi (1). Work
towards having a rest in the afternoons. But if you
cannot do so, then sleep when sleep comes, but not at
the cost of a Fardh Salaah. It is not a sin to sleep after
Fajr Salaah, as some make it out to be.

If you find it difficult to wake up for Tahajjud, read 2
Rakaats (or more) before the Witr and you will get the
reward, Insha-Allah. You will also get more reward in
abstaining from sin, than reading Tahajjud although,
the merits of Tahajjud are very great. So if that too can
be secured, it is a precious bounty.

7.) Making Dua. Request the same.

Was-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu
Yunus Patel (Maulana)


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LETTER 16
Horoscopes

Question

As-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

My question is that should we believe in horoscope and signs,
because sometimes I read things about my sign and the prediction
that is written for my sign upsets me, if there is something scary. I
want to know whether this information is true or useless. Please
clarify this.
May Allah bless you.

Reply
Bismihi Taala
Respected Sister in Islam,

Wa-alaykumus Salaam wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

1.) It is Haraam (forbidden) to believe in horoscopes. You
should not even look at it in newspapers, etc. Make
sincere Taubah. It is all useless information but very
dangerous for ones Imaan.
2.) Fortune tellers are disbelievers because they are
claiming to have knowledge of the Unseen, which is
exclusive to Allah Taala. It is a money-making industry
which millions have become easy prey to. Reading
palms, looking into crystal balls, reading tarot cards,
etc. are all Haraam.
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3.) Moreover, a person who believes in such fortune
telling, that is, that the fortune teller has the
knowledge of the Unseen, loses his Imaan. Rasulullah
(1) said : Whoever goes to a fortune teller or a
soothsayer and believes in what he says has disbelieved in
what was revealed to Muhammad (1).
4.) If one reads horoscopes or visits such people out of
curiosity but does not believe, then too the person has
committed a serious sin. It is mentioned in a Hadeeth :
Whoever goes to a fortune teller and asks him about
something, his prayers will not be accepted for forty nights.
(Of course, the person will have to pray, as well as
repent for the sin).
5.) All in all, this is a very grave sin which many Muslims
take lightly, spending a lot of time and money in having
their futures being read. We seek Allah Taalas
Protection.
Was-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu
Yunus Patel (Maulana)


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LETTER SEVENTEEN
Reading Mawaa`iz

Question

My very beloved Hazrat Maulana,
As-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

Hope Hazrat is keeping well, Insha-Allah.

Alhamdulillah although Hazrat did not reply in writing to my query
about not completing the prescribed Zikr, I firmly believe that
Hazrat must have made Dua for me. Alhamdulillah, I am
experiencing the effects of those Duas since the time I sent the
previous letter and even before Hazrats reply. Alhamdulillah, I am
completing my Zikr or at least most of it.

Hazrat Mufti Saheb has advised me to read the Mawaa`iz of
Hazrat Hakeemul Ummah (Rahimahullah). Alhamdulillah, I am
really enjoying it. However, when I come across a unique and
interesting incident or explanation, the first thought that comes to
my mind is that I must remember this so that I may relate it to my
students or relate it in a bayaan. Is this contrary to Ikhlaas? I get
the feeling that ideally one should remember such things for the
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Reply
Bismihi Taala

Wa-alaykumus Salaam wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

1.) Alhamdulillah, I am well. Making lots of Dua for your
progress.

2.) Masha-Allah, pleased to read that you are steadfast on
Zikr.

3.) Hazrat Maulana Ashraf Ali Thanwi (

_)s Mawaa`iz
are a must for our Ulama. If you come across such
incidents or explanations, the first Niyyah should be
amal, then sharing it with others, for the pleasure of
Allah Taala.

4.) Convey my Salaams to the family, with request for
Duas.

Was-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu
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LETTER EIGHTEEN
Studying Deen

Question

Dearest Hazrat
As-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

With Hazrats duas, Alhamdulillah, the Umrah was a very beautiful
and spiritually energizing experience. Please make Dua that Allah
Taala accepts. I always remembered to convey Hazrats Salaam,
when at the Raudha Mubarak.

We experienced a number of setbacks during the safr, with delays,
etc., but I considered that there must be khair in Allah Taalas
decisions for us. Alhamdulillah, we returned safely.

I would appreciate some understanding of the Zikr sessions that are
held at the Masjid.

Hazrat, this is my final year and I have many concerns. I humbly
request special duas and guidance in respect to how to carry myself
in this final year, studying Hadeeth.

Reply
Bismihi Taala

Wa-alaykumus Salaam wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

1.) Masha-Allah, very happy to read that the Umrah and
Ziyarah went so well. May Allah Taala accept all the
Duas and Ibaadaat.

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2.) JazakAllah Khayr for remembering me in your Duas and
for conveying my Salaam.

3.) The Hadeeth mentions that safr
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is a portion of
suffering. So a musaafir
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should expect some hiccups
or difficulties whilst on travel. Dua should constantly be
made for ease and aafiyah. Sadaqah should also be
given out as a measure of protection.

4.) Yes, there is always khayr in Allah Taalas decisions.
The delay could have been a means of protection from
some calamity or some loss.

5.) The Zikr sessions that are held in the Masjid are carried
out by different Mashaa`ik
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as a training for their
students / mureeds. Their methods are based on
experience, together with the benefits in making Zikr in
that particular manner. Whilst not Sunnat or Waajib,
there is a lot of benefit derived in their methodology.
However, do not consider the method as an integral
part of the Zikr.

6.) May Allah Taala grant the best of both worlds and
make your final year a most successful year, wherein
you imbibe all the anwaar of Hadeeth.

7.) Complete Adab
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is required when learning Deen,
moreso with Tafseer and Hadeeth.


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Safr: travel
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Musaafir : traveller
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Mashaaik : plural of Shaykh
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Adab : respect
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Try to remain with Wudhu, use Miswaak, and read
plenty of Durood Shareef. Have utmost respect for your
Ustaadh, otherwise that knowledge will be lost. Try and
make your Ustaadhs khidmah
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.

It is imperative to abstain from sins. Make every effort
to show your love for Nabi (1) by following
the Sunnah. Make the Niyyah of bringing the reality of
each Hadeeth into your life.

When writing Hadeeth, write the Arabic 1 in
full. Make Dua for deep understanding of the speech of
Rasulullah (1), acceptance in your endeavours
and for Allah Taala to use you in the khidmah of
Hadeeth.

The following advice offers much food for thought:

Seeking out knowledge is not saying ; So and so related
from so-and-so; rather, seeking out knowledge is fearing
Allah, the Possessor of Might and Majesty.

[Imam Sufyaan At-Thauree (

)]

When you have written down (studied) ten Ahaadeeth,
check if you notice an improvement in the way you walk,
in your level of patience, and in your degree of self-
dignity. For if you do not see any such improvement, then
know that your knowledge harms you and does not
benefit you.

[Advice given to Imam Sufyaan At-Thauree (

)
by his respected mother]

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8.) May Allah Taala grant the best of both worlds, and
accept your learning as well.

9.) Also requesting Duas.


Was-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu
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LETTER NINETEEN
Sihr and Treatment

Question

As-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

Respected Maulana, I always felt very strongly against people
visiting Aamils and becoming obsessed in following different
treatments when it comes to them having jinn / sihr problems. I feel
that the Sunnah offers the perfect prescription, with the Quls and
other Masnoon duas. However, due to being affected by witchcraft
by my in-laws, I too was encouraged to visit some aamils and ended
up going for different treatments and feel worse than when I
started. Moreover, I was told that since my in-laws are the cause, I
should keep away from them but I think this may hurt my husbands
feelings.
Would appreciate Maulanas guidance please.

Reply
Bismihi Taala
Sister in Islam,

Wa-alaykumus Salaam wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

1.) A major problem these days is that many, many
Muslims frequent aamils
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. But the majority find
themselves in deeper problems. Of course, there are
those who are genuine and do offer great assistance to
such afflicted people. There is a place for taweez and

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wazeefas in Islam but for many it is a profession and
they prove to be bogus. So one has to be very careful.

2.) The Sunnah of Nabi (1) has taught us how to
deal with and what to read when affected with
jealousy, witchcraft and even jinn. Much relief is found
in adhering to these advices.

3.) Download and listen to the talk, Jinn and Jadu
found on the same site
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.

4.) I always discourage the habit that many women have,
of visiting various Aamils. If it is a case of Sihr, then if
you are aware of one reputable, pious aamil, it would
be permissible to follow his treatment, but visiting half
a dozen aamils generally worsens the situation.

5.) Moreover, there are many Aamils that escalate the
individuals problems. They also disclose information
which is not necessarily true. Sometimes their
information is taken from Jinns or from other avenues
which make the information flawed and unreliable
since it is plain lies and mischief.

6.) You should not entertain the opinion that your in-laws
are doing Sihr on you. If this is a false accusation, it is a
very, very serious sin in the sight of Allah Taala. If they
are jealous, their jealousy will cause them more harm
than good.

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7.) Adopt the following prescription, which is also very
simple. Insha-Allah, you will see positive effects.

Read the following :

3 x Durood Shareef
3 x Ayatul Kursi
3 x 3 Quls
11 x La Haula wala Quwata Illah Billah
3 x Durood Shareef.

Blow over yourself. Blow on water and drink.

This will benefit in warding off Jinn and Jadu effects. Do
this morning and evening.

Also make sincere Taubah and Istighfaar from all sins.
Take out some Sadaqah.

8.) Do not break family ties. Your opinion that your in-laws
are the cause of the problems must naturally be very
upsetting and hurtful to your husband. This is, after all,
his own mother and father. Yes, you should behave
normal with all, and make Dua that Allah Taala
protects you from anyones jealousy.

9.) Visit your in-laws, take some baking or some little gift
for them. Win them over. Insha-Allah, their hearts will
change.

Was-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu
Yunus Patel (Maulana)

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LETTER TWENTY
Marriage

Question

As-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

Respected Maulana, I wish to marry and settle down, because I find
the temptations in the outside world very strong, and I want to
protect my chastity. I would like to know how to go about in respect
to marriage and any advice Maulana could please give to me.

Reply
Bismihi Taala
Dear Brother,

Wa-alaykumus Salaam wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu

1.) If you are wanting to marry, then the best is to inform
your parents that you wish to now settle down. Enquire
if they have any suitable girl in mind for you.

If you have an inclination towards a certain type of girl,
make it known. For example, that she must be modestly
dressed, or in purdah or someone who will be happy to
be a housewife and not want to work, etc. They can
then make enquiries of someone who would be suitable
and compatible.

2.) The procedure is simple once some girl is
recommended : You can go and see her and can even
speak to her in the presence of a Mahram, and that too,
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not as a lengthy conversation. A few simple but
important questions; the rest can be found out
discreetly.

If you take a liking to her and propose, and if she
agrees, let everything that follows be most simple and
inexpensive, to gain Barakah and earn the Pleasure of
Allah Taala.

Islam does not have engagements, mehndis, bridal
showers, parties, and celebrating for one week prior to
the Nikah. Once the answer is given, do not delay the
Nikah. As I said, have it simple and Allah Taala will
bless the marriage.

Walima is a Sunnah, but this too must be done without
any extravagance. Also, include the poor when inviting.

3.) In the interim between the proposal and Nikah - there
should be no communication and meeting, no taking
drives, etc. with your wife-to-be, since she is still a
ghair-mahram. Do not begin your marriage with the
anger and curse of Allah Taala by engaging in Haraam.

4.) Make a lot of Dua that Allah Taala grants a good,
compatible spouse who will be the source of happiness
and goodness to you and an assistant in your Deen.

5.) Also read good Islamic literature in respect to the
Masaa`il
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of Nikah and Talaaq, as well as how to live
with your wife. This is very important.


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6.) May Allah Taala bless you with a good and compatible
spouse, and grant you a very happy and successful
marriage.

Was-Salaamu alaykum wa-Rahmatullahi wa-Barakaatuhu
Yunus Patel (Maulana)


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Publications

Tafweez The Cure for Depression
Hedayatus Saalikeen Book 1
Combating the Whisperings of Shaytaan
Aashiq-e-Sawdiq Part 1
Aashiq-e-Sawdiq Part 2
Ikhlaas
Kicking the Habit
Du`aa
Labour of Love
Removing the Safety Net
His Character was the Qur`aan
RujooIlallah
Towards Reformation of the Heart
Feeling Spiritually Low?

Ma`aarif-e-Mathnavi
Treasures from the Qur`aan and Hadeeth

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