Making Sense of Psychotherapy and Psychoanalysis: British Psychoanalytic Council
Making Sense of Psychotherapy and Psychoanalysis: British Psychoanalytic Council
Making Sense of Psychotherapy and Psychoanalysis: British Psychoanalytic Council
What is psychotherapy?
Psychotherapy involves conversations with a listener who is trained to help you make sense of, and try to change, things that are troubling you. It is something you take an active working part in, rather than something you are just prescribed or given, such as medication. Some people are able to get treatment under the NHS from a mental health professional, or through a local voluntary organisation. Others find a private psychotherapist or psychoanalyst. (Information about finding a therapist appears on page 15.) Its possible to work individually, to have couples therapy, or to take part in group therapy or analysis. For anybody trying to find their way round it, psychotherapy is a confusing field. At first glance, there seem to be dozens of different varieties. What has happened is that, over the years, different brand names have arisen for methods that are often variations on a few basic types: behavioural and cognitive therapies; person-centred or other humanistic therapies; psychoanalytic therapies and systems therapy.
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Cognitive behaviour therapy In behaviour therapy, the therapist is a sort of personal trainer, who will show you how to practice facing your fears (for example, of open spaces, social situations or insects) bit by bit. He or she may also be the one to help you if you have problems like an irrational compulsion to wash your hands, or to check things over and over again. In such cases, the therapist will help you gradually to stop these activities, and will support and reassure you while you face the anxiety this change will stir up. Cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT) also takes a training approach, but this time it trains you to question and control troubling and repetitive thoughts. These can be, for example, miserable, selfhating thoughts, or irrational fears. Mary has always been an anxious person, but started to have panic attacks after recovering from a road accident. Her heart would race, and she would find herself panting and feeling faint, with tingling and cramps in her fingers. She was terrified that these were warning signs of a heart attack. She went off sick from work and was afraid to go out. Marys cognitive therapist listened very carefully to her story, and explained that panic attacks were alarming, but harmless. She gave Mary an information sheet, and asked her to keep a diary of her symptoms. Mary realised that the worst thing had been the fear of the attacks themselves, with a dread of sudden death redoubling the panic. She managed, through the therapy, to regain control of this vicious circle of panic-generating thoughts, and to talk herself down in the way the therapist had trained her to do, when she felt the anxiety coming on. Her attacks ceased and she went back to her ordinary activities. Behaviour therapy and CBT dont look primarily at what caused the troubling behaviours and thoughts, or at deeper layers of the mind. They work with the immediate, conscious problem, in a
commonsense and supportive way. They aim to train you to think and feel differently. Sessions have a clear plan and structure, and you are usually given homework to do in between. Typically, the treatment doesnt last more than a few months, though the therapist will often offer you follow-up sessions. Person-centred or client-centred psychotherapy Unlike a cognitive or behaviour therapist, the person-centred or client-centred therapist wont produce a plan or structure to the sessions, but will encourage you to talk freely about things that are troubling you. He or she will be warm, responsive and nonjudgmental, encouraging you to be as open as possible, and to face and come to terms with difficult memories, feelings and fears. He or she is trained to help you to make sense of things in your life and to think about things in new ways, so that you can move on. Client-centred therapy may be long or short-term, usually on a once-weekly basis. Although the therapist will keep professional boundaries, the role in ordinary life that is nearest is that of a good friend. Your therapist may or may not share some of their own experiences, when they judge that this will be of help to you. Clive, 21, was confused and ashamed about feeling attracted to other young men at university, especially as his mother kept dropping hints about finding a nice girlfriend. Hed buried himself in study through his teenage years, trying to ignore the growing evidence of his sexual orientation. Clive got depressed, and saw a male therapist in the student counselling service, who encouraged him to be honest with himself and to explore what his true longings and desires were. When Clive finally came out as gay, the therapist was an enormous support, through being there, reliably, for sessions and relating to Clive in an interested, warm and matter-of-fact way. He was there to listen after the first
difficult weekend with Clives parents, and was a sensible voice and stabilising influence as Clive started to find his way in the complex gay scene of the campus. Humanistic therapy There are a number of approaches linked to the client-centred one, which come under the general heading of humanistic approaches. Again, the therapist presents him or herself as an ally, or friendly supporter, and may also have some special technique to offer that aids self-expression. An example is gestalt therapy, where the client, either individually or in a group, may be encouraged to explore problematic situations not just through talking, but through action. The empty chair technique, for instance, allows you try out a dialogue with an important other, or a part of the self, who is imagined to be sitting opposite you. Other therapies such as art, drama and music therapies also give special ways of expressing yourself besides words. Psychoanalysis and psychoanalytic psychotherapy Psychoanalysis and its offshoot, psychoanalytic psychotherapy (also called psychodynamic psychotherapy), is the most ambitious of all therapies in terms of its scope and aims, and approaches from a different angle. It started with the discoveries of Sigmund Freud a century ago, but its methods have changed and developed a great deal since then. Its the most complex of the talking treatments, and has had a significant influence on most others. The psychoanalytic therapist will seem less socially responsive and immediately reassuring than other therapists, who take more of a trainer or friend role. He or she will ask you to try to say whatever is going through your mind. The analytical therapist will be closely tuned in and empathic, but will also be more neutral, keeping personal feelings and reactions private. As well as giving
you a chance to unburden yourself, he or she will also be trying to pick up hidden patterns and meanings in what you are saying. The analytical therapist will also be interested in the way you are relating to him or her, and how this links with other, perhaps problematic relationships in your life. Psychoanalytic psychotherapy typically lasts much longer than cognitive-behaviour therapy, and you may well need more than one session per week, because it aims to influence deeper layers of the personality, at the sources of the troubling thoughts and behaviour. The most thoroughgoing form of it is full psychoanalysis, where the patient sees a psychoanalyst, four or five times a week, for a number of years. Such intensive psychotherapy is a huge investment, not just of money, but also of time and emotional energy. However, this big investment in ones life can produce significant rewards in terms of the ability (as Freud put it) to love and to work. People find themselves freed to live life more to the full, to be more creative in all sorts of ways, and to relate to and care for others better. Integrated therapies Sometimes therapists will also use combinations of different therapies, so-called integrated approaches. One example of this is cognitive analytic psychotherapy (CAT), where the therapist works partly in a cognitive way but also sometimes interprets on the basis of what is happening in the therapy relationship, as a psychoanalytic therapist would do.
Horrified and upset as she was at having to admit to herself her ruthless un-sisterly thoughts, Elisabeth was ultimately much liberated by the work, and could move on in her life. Her pains diminished, she became less involved with her family and was able to get out more. Finally, she fell in love and got married (not to the widowed brother in law!). Clearly, Elisabeth was a troubled late adolescent, over-involved with her father. She hadnt managed to separate from her family to become an independent, sexual adult. Without help, she might even have got stuck with a long-term career as the family invalid. The therapy helped her to discover that her sexual and aggressive thoughts were thinkable, and that people, including herself, were more complicated and disappointing than she had hoped. Along with these sad realisations opened up many more life possibilities. Transference and countertransference As time went by, Freud deepened his method. Besides unburdening themselves to a sympathetic listener, and retrieving buried memories and feelings, he noticed people repeated troubled relationship patterns in the room with him. This was the discovery of the transference. Say a young man has a problem with a domineering father. He might appear pleasant and humble, but show secret rebellion about his fathers ambitions for him. In Freuds consulting room, he might begin cooperatively saying what was in his mind, but then fall silent, commenting in a friendly way (that might be rather irritating for the ambitious, enthusiastic Freud!) that, sorry, his mind was wandering; that he just wasnt in the mood. We now know that the counter-transference gives just as important clues as does the transference. The analyst might feel irritated at the patients silent resistance. He or she then steps back and becomes interested in his or her own irritation.
The analyst starts to get the picture of an important relationship both the relationship with the father, but also, more importantly, the whole way this young man deals with others he feels controlled by. This pattern is going to repeat itself with bosses at work. It may infuriate his partner. Worst of all for the man, it will stop him getting what he really wants and needs in life, as so much energy will be wasted in automatically thwarting other people. Whatever it is you tend to do, and to be, in close relationships, that is what happens sooner or later with your psychoanalyst. And it is for real, and can feel very unnerving. Uniquely, though, you will have a real chance of understanding and changing these patterns. Paul, who suffered a deprived and abusive childhood, managed a university degree but then after doing a few casual jobs, broke down in his early 20s. He lived a reclusive life over the next decade, unable to work, and beset with fears and grievances, though he continued to read in libraries, clinging on to some hope that he could find a way back into life. He read about a low-fee psychoanalytic clinic, and found the courage to apply. He was taken on by a trainee under supervision, five times a week. Among other things, Pauls troubled relationships with his parents played themselves out in the analytic relationship. He could be submissive but subtly provoking, as he had been with his violent father, or passive and dependent, as with his mother. His analyst had to monitor, carefully, the ways in which she was being unconsciously set up to repeat the past in all sorts of actual and symbolic ways. Instead of automatically reacting, she worked on trying to make sense of what was happening, and talking to Paul about it. Change was slow and painful but, in time, the liveliness and curiosity that had been squashed and distorted in Paul could re-emerge. He started to take back responsibility for
himself and his life, inside and outside sessions. He began to recover his confidence and his pleasure in living and working, and made new friends. Through evening classes, he got back into work, and eventually managed to train and do very well as a teacher. Further sources of insight People reveal hidden things about themselves in all sorts of ways, inside and outside analysis. Examples are slips of the tongue, jokes and dreams. Dreaming is the way we think while we are asleep, and its much less carefully censored than our waking thoughts. Our imagination has a freer reign during sleep, and dream ideas can be revealing and sometimes creative. Dreams can be straightforward, but they often need decoding to reveal the ideas and feelings being expressed, and they can often be useful in analysis. Since Freuds pioneering work, there have been scores of creative and innovative psychoanalysts who have gone on developing the discipline, particularly across most of Europe and North and South America. London has always been a small but particularly lively centre for psychoanalytic developments. The practice of full four or five times weekly psychoanalysis constitutes a small proportion of psychoanalytically-oriented treatment, but remains an important research base for the psychotherapy profession.
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ground. Some Jungian analysts and therapists work in a similar way to Freudian psychoanalysts. Other Jungians have an approach that is more humanistic, or client-centred, as described above.
profession, such as social work, special needs teaching or nursing. Others come to their psychotherapy training from an arts degree.
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Mary, a 35-year-old single mother of two young boys, had started twice weekly psychotherapy six months ago for panic and depression. She reported: I realise now my head used to be full of my mother, arguments with her, pleading with her, telling her how unfair shed always been to me. I seem to go on and on to my therapist about it, and actually Ive started to argue with her, as well, quite a lot, recently. But its brilliant, when Im not in the sessions, theres this clear feeling in my head, mostly. Its not throbbing and buzzing with it all any more.
relationships keep going wrong in the same old way. If you go into psychotherapy, you may be starting a relationship that will become intense and deeply important, perhaps for a number of years. However, this is for the ultimate purpose of becoming more independent that is, freer of your dependence on stuck, unconscious patterns of feeling, thinking and behaving. If your psychotherapy seems to be never-ending, something needs looking at. If you are seeing a therapist in the health service, it will probably be for a pre-arranged, limited time anyway, and you will work towards a planned ending. If you are able to have an open-ended psychotherapy, with no set time limit, you will usually find that it turns out to be a naturally evolving process with a beginning, middle and end. If it is allowed to take its own course, it is likely to last years rather than months. Both therapist and patient usually sense and agree when its time to set an ending date and to work towards this. Thats not to say that its easy to stop seeing someone you have worked so closely with and grown attached to. But giving up and mourning the therapy itself is actually an important phase of the work.
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there are also some specialised psychotherapy centres in the NHS. Child and adolescent psychotherapy is also a recognised specialty in the NHS, again more readily available in the big cities, where the training centres are located. This treatment is most often psychoanalytically oriented. Occasionally, psychotherapy is offered to people who are inpatients in hospital or in a therapeutic community. A number of charities have set up psychotherapy clinics aimed at specific groups of people, including adolescents, people who belong to ethnic minorities, women or refugees. The organisations that offer training in psychoanalysis and psychotherapy often have charitable status, too, and can provide low-fee, intensive psychotherapy to anyone suitable who is willing to be treated by a trainee, under supervision. Finally, and again most readily available in the larger cities, you can see a private psychoanalyst or psychotherapist. So far, there are no statutory regulations covering the psychotherapy profession, although hard work is in progress to put this in place. This means that you have to take care to make sure that your therapist has had a thorough training, with a reputable organisation, and follows a proper professional and ethical code. Its very risky indeed to take the name of a psychotherapist from a phone book or a shop window, unless they are under the banner of a recognised professional body or you have other knowledge about the persons skills. Often, its the least qualified people who advertise in this way, while the more professional practitioners depend on referrals through colleagues in their training organisations, or on their name being found on a professional register. The British Psychoanalytic Council (BPC) is a specialist psychoanalytic regulatory and professional association, whose individual members are required to have a long, intensive training, including being analysed themselves. The BPC is made up of several member institutions that have their roots in
psychoanalysis and analytical psychology. This common heritage and shared identity has enabled the BPC to establish collective standards on all aspects of training, professional development, clinical practice and appropriate ethical codes for professional conduct. The United Kingdom Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP) is a large psychotherapy registering body, which covers a broad range of different organisations and categories of psychotherapy, including psychoanalytic psychotherapy, cognitive and behavioural therapies, person-centred and many others. The UKCP has a number of different sections for different approaches to psychotherapy. All members are required to meet the minimum standards of training for their particular section, which may or may not include personal psychotherapy, depending on the approach. Several other organisations also register psychotherapists, including the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, the British Psychological Society, and the British Association for Behavioural and Cognitive Psychotherapies (see page 26). These umbrella bodies require their member organisations to have disciplinary procedures, ethical codes of practice and requirements for continuing professional development. Membership of one of these registers is a useful guide when looking for a therapist, but getting an additional personal recommendation to a therapist, from a professional or a friend, is invaluable. Before committing yourself, its important to meet the therapist to see how sensitively they respond to your worries and questions about treatment. Ideally, you should try to meet more than one potential therapist. If you are paying for your own treatment, you will inevitably have more choice about who you see than if you are referred on the NHS.
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Fringe therapies There are approaches not covered in this booklet that use the term psychotherapy without necessarily having a firm professional basis. Approaches of this kind may be based around special techniques or special belief systems. For example, some therapists offer to regress clients back to childhood feelings and experiences. Some give instructions, via the use of hypnosis. Others might combine talking with various sorts of body massage. Sometimes therapies are based around particular, unusual ideas, such as the idea that you need to go through re-birthing in order to solve your problems. Sometimes they are even combined with fortune telling or astrology. Around these fringes of the psychotherapy world, it becomes particularly difficult to be sure of the qualifications and expertise of the practitioner. People who are desperate and vulnerable may sometimes be drawn into expensive, useless or even abusive situations by would-be helpers, and caution is advised.
If you live in the right place, and are interested in a low-fee scheme via one of the BPC or UKCP organisations, you will need to go through a careful assessment procedure to see if their scheme is right for you. Most of the psychotherapy training organisations also offer consultations outside their training schemes, and will help you to find treatment of whatever intensity you want or need, whether that is once a week or more frequently. If you are seeing a therapist privately, just once a week, they will probably charge you at the top end of the scale above, sometimes considerably more. Unfortunately, the amount charged isnt necessarily a good guide to the experience and skills of the therapist, as psychotherapy is such a diverse and, as yet, poorly regulated profession. Its always wise to ask where and how a therapist has been trained, and how long they have been qualified.
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and relationships, together with therapists, in a variety of formal and informal group settings. Systems approaches and family therapy When whole families are seen together for psychotherapy, a systems approach is common. Here, the therapist or therapists work with the family to examine the different roles family members have taken on within the family system. For example, its common for one family member to take on the scapegoat role, expressing distress on behalf of others. A badly behaved child, who has led to the family seeking help, may be distracting everyone from a serious problem between the parents, which needs addressing. Family therapy of this sort is commonly used in NHS child and family services.
times; for example during breaks from treatment. If you have a tendency to psychotic experiences, the process of psychotherapy itself may sometimes trigger one off. This is why some psychotherapists are reluctant to work with people with psychotic illness, or may insist that your psychiatrist or GP are also in the picture. In some cases, it works better to continue taking medication alongside the psychotherapy, but in other cases, not, and the individual needs to seek advice about this. Its also important to think about the best setting for psychotherapy, for example as part of a day patient, inpatient or therapeutic community setting, or as an outpatient. This will depend a lot on how good your support network is. Substance abuse If you are a heavy user of drugs or alcohol, you are unlikely to benefit from exploratory psychotherapy until you are completely free of the substance you are dependent on, and physically recovered. Only then will you have a clear enough head, and enough self-control, to be able to work together with the therapist and to hold on to what happens in the sessions. While you are still using the substance, a structured educational approach aiming to help you free yourself of the addiction will probably make most sense, or a self-help approach like Alcoholics Anonymous or Narcotics Anonymous.
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grounds of their sexual orientation or ethnicity. Such fears are mostly unfounded, and NHS psychotherapy departments, for example, actively encourage diversity in referrals. Good psychotherapy is characterised by its thoroughgoing attempt to understand and make sense of the others experience, and good psychotherapists are people with openness and curiosity to explore the experience of others very different from themselves. Its also vital that psychotherapists should not blame or jump to conclusions, or dictate the way someone should live. Some people feel strongly that only lesbians can really help other lesbians, and only a Black therapist can really understand another Black persons experience, or a woman another womans. Others argue that this risks an artificial avoidance of conflict in the therapy, and that it might make more sense for both therapist and patient to struggle with difference within the therapy room. Its important that this debate continues, but good therapists try to treat every new therapeutic encounter as an encounter with a completely unknown other person. Some therapy organisations do exist specifically for certain minority groups. Above all, its important that any person with worries about being in a minority group has a chance to explore these complex issues with whatever psychotherapist they are seeing.
unable to recover from her depression over the death of her mother, four years previously. Once she started talking, Brenda found that she was far angrier with her mother than she had realised, and had never really forgiven her for all the times her mother had left her with relatives as a child, while pursuing her career. It struck her, for the first time, how her long-term grievances with a female manager at work might be linked to this. Although things made more sense after the six sessions, she still felt stuck. The counsellor referred her on to the local psychoanalytic psychotherapy service. She waited nearly a year for treatment, but then saw a therapist, once weekly, for 18 months, which finally enabled her to let go of some of her grievances, past and present, have some frank and helpful discussion with her boss, and start enjoying her work again. Where the immediate, surface problem is a disabling behaviour, such as constantly checking things, washing your hands, or making yourself vomit, a behavioural approach, at least to start with, will make most sense, because it deals with the symptoms that are filling your whole life. This might be all that is wanted or needed, or later you might want to work in a more exploratory way, to try to understand the fears that have been generating and driving your symptom. Sometimes, people very much want to know more about what is underneath. They can bear to find out things they dont like about themselves, and things that worry and upset them to remember about their lives and families. They welcome, or at least dont mind too much, having their private mental space shared by the therapist. Other people much prefer a more practical, limited approach, restricted to working together with the therapist on changing their surface symptoms and behaviour. So the choice of approach depends both on what is wrong and on what the person wants. Sometimes it takes some time to work this out.
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PALS (Patient Advice and Liaison Services) provide confidential assistance in resolving problems and concerns involving NHS professionals. Phone your local clinic, GP surgery, health centre or hospital and ask for details of the PALS. ICAS (The Independent Complaints Advocacy Service) can support you if you are making a complaint about the NHS. To get in touch, contact your local PALS or phone NHS Direct. (See Useful organisations.)
References
Introduction to psychotherapy A. Bateman, D. Brown, J. Pedder (Routledge. 2000) Handbook of individual therapy (4th ed) ed. W. Dryden (Sage 2002) A short introduction to psychoanalysis J. Milton, C. Polmear, J. Fabricius (Sage 2004)
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Useful organisations
Mind
1519 Broadway, London E15 4BQ tel. 020 8519 2122, fax 020 8522 1725 email: contact@mind.org.uk Mind Cymru: 3rd Floor, Quebec House, Castlebridge, 519 Cowbridge Road East, Cardiff CF11 9AB tel. 029 2039 5123, fax 029 2034 6585 Mind is the leading mental health organisation in England and Wales, providing a unique range of services through its local associations, to enable people with experience of mental distress to have a better quality of life. For more information about any mental health issues, including details of your nearest local Mind association, contact the Mind website: www.mind.org.uk or MindinfoLine on 0845 766 0163.
Alcoholics Anonymous
PO Box 1, 10 Toft Green, York YO1 7NJ tel. 01904 644 026, helpline: 0845 769 7555 web: www.alcoholics-anonymous.org.uk National network for anyone who thinks they may have a drinking problem. Look for Alcoholics Anonymous in any telephone directory.
Narcotics Anonymous
202 City Road, London EC1V 2PH helpline: 020 7730 0009 or 0845 FREEDOM (0845 373 3366) tel. 020 7251 4007, fax: 020 7251 4006 email: ukso@ukna.org or nahelpline@ukna.org web: www.ukna.org For those who think they may have a drug problem.
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NHS Direct
NHS Direct offers 24-hour medical advice via its telephone service, website and digital TV service. tel. 0845 4647, web: www.nhsdirect.nhs.uk
Tavistock Centre
120 Belsize Lane, London NW3 5BA tel. 020 7435 7111, web: www.tavi-port.org An NHS centre providing assessment and psychotherapy to adults, children and families. Also runs courses and trainings for professionals.
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For a catalogue of publications from Mind, send an A4 SAE to: Mind Publications 15 19 Broadway London E15 4BQ tel. 0844 448 4448 fax: 020 8534 6399 email: publications@mind.org.uk This booklet was written by Jane Milton Mind 2004 ISBN 1-903567-55-6 No reproduction without permission This edition published in 2007 by the British Psychoanalytic Council and Mind
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The British Psychoanalytic Council West Hill House 6 Swains Lane London N6 6QS Tel 020 7267 3626 Fax 020 7267 4772 Email mail@psychoanalytic-council.org www.psychoanalytic-council.org
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