God and The Gay Christian: Matthew Vines State of Belief Radio Interview, May 31, 2014
God and The Gay Christian: Matthew Vines State of Belief Radio Interview, May 31, 2014
God and The Gay Christian: Matthew Vines State of Belief Radio Interview, May 31, 2014
best to try to extend grace to other people, even if they arent where
we would like them to be in terms of their views on the issue. But
relationships are a two-way street, so if there are some people who
dont really want to continue in relationship because of that, theres a
limit to what you can do. On the whole, though, it has been positive
with most of our friends even if they arent in agreement yet still a
positive dialogue in relationship.
[WG]: Matthew, you write that the good news of the Gospel is that the
bible does not condemn same-gender relationships. I grew up in the
Evangelical tradition in some ways, am Evangelical still about the
Gospel, for sure and I know people who would say, Thats just not
true. The Gospel is against this. So talk about that please, if you
would.
[MV]: Right. Well, I would say, first of all, the Good News of the
Gospel is that Jesus Christ is Lord, and that He died for our sins so
we can be reconciled to God not primarily that same-sex
relationships can be blessed.
However, I do think that same-sex relationships can be blessed by
God, and the basic argument that I outline in the book is that there
are six passages in the bible that refer to same-sex behavior. Theyre
all negative.
But that the type of same-sex behavior condemned in scripture is
significantly different from modern-day, long-term, committed samesex unions. And specifically, especially in the New Testament, when
Paul was writing against same-sex behavior, he was describing
same-sex behavior as an expression of out-of-control lust along the
lines of gluttony or drunkenness. It was a vice of excess that any
person could be prone to if he let himself go too much.
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Thats a very different framework for thinking about and talking about
same-sex behavior than our modern framework of sexual orientation,
where were just talking about some people not who have lost control
and who could be satisfied with heterosexual relations but are going
beyond them in search of new and exotic pleasures, but people who
are simply gay, and they have a same-sex orientation an exclusive,
permanent, un-chosen orientation that they could express in lustful
ways, but they can also express in long-term, faithful, chaste,
responsible ways.
And so that kind of conversation about sexual orientation and the
long-term relationships that can be an expression of a gay orientation
thats not the same conversation that Paul was having in his
discussion of same-sex behavior in Romans I. And so its not that
Paul was wrong; its just that we are talking about a different issue
the issue of gay Christians and their relationships, where he was
talking about same-sex behavior as an expression of excessive lust
on the part of just anybody.
[WG]: Yeah. When you sat down to write this book, God and the Gay
Christian, who were you thinking of? Who did you imagine getting the
most out of what you were writing?
[MV]: Well, the first person I was thinking of was myself five years
ago, and the type of resource and book that I would have loved to
have had for my own understanding, and also to be able to give to
family and friends who I wanted to have a fruitful conversation with
about this.
The second person I was thinking about was my dad five years ago,
who held pretty strongly non-affirming beliefs at the time. He and my
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mom have since changed their views and are fully supportive of me;
but at the time, thats where he was, and I didnt feel like there were
very many resources that met non-affirming people and by that I
mean people, Christians, who oppose same-sex relationships where
they were at in a respectful and loving way but also a way that could
help pave a path forward for them to a more affirming understanding
of LGBT people.
And so those were sort of the On the one hand I was thinking about
me and other gay Christians like me, who need more resources; and
then also the people in our lives who care about us but need to see a
path forward for them to be able to truly embrace and affirm us.
Those would be the main types of people I was thinking about.
[WG]: You know, I want you to correct me if Im wrong on something
here: I have read the book and I am really, really impressed by the
seriousness which you give to the biblical text.
[MV]: Well thank you.
[WG]: I know youre a young man, but you write as a biblical scholar,
which I think is so important, because there are a lot of people
especially a lot of gay people who struggle with the idea that the
bible says one thing, and that theyre living in contradiction to that. I
think also, Matthew, that there are other people that would be
homophobic, anti-gay, and the bible is just a crutch for them. They
dont usually look at the bible that much, but its convenient on this
particular issue. Talk about your passion for understanding those
verses that have been weights around a lot of gay peoples necks.
[MV]: Right. So, my passion sort of comes in two different directions.
One is what you just said, in terms of the way that these six passages
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have been understood and applied has been really tragic in the lives
of countless LGBT people, where it has produced relational
brokenness, suicidalism, and just an incredible amount of damage
and destruction. And when I said in the book its bad fruit, thats from
when Jesus talks about how good trees bear good fruit and bad trees
bear bad fruit, in the context of false prophets. And in this case, that
teaching and misunderstanding of these verses has produced a
tremendous amount of terrible fruit in peoples lives. And I think that
should make everyone passionate about reassessing how were
thinking through this issue because thats just not the way that any
Christian teaching should play out in practice.
On the other hand, this issue has done more than any other issue in
our day to discredit the bible to a lot of people in our secular culture,
and to a lot of Christians who are struggling with their faith. They feel
like if the bible, properly understood and interpreted, produces that
kind of human suffering that wouldnt be produced otherwise, then its
very hard for them to continue to embrace the bible as Gods word.
And so I feel like the bible Christians are losing out on so many
opportunities to minister to people and to bring people into closer
relationship with Jesus and God through scripture.
And so also for that reason, its one reason I have a passion for
wanting to recover the heart of scriptures teachings on these
subjects, and to hopefully open the door for people to be able to reengage with scripture again, and to be able to see a lot of more value
where perhaps theyve seen less, recently.
[WG]: This past week I read the update that you sent to a lot of your
supporters and friends who are interested in what youre doing and
what the book is doing, and I picked up on that note that the Southern
Baptist Convention had written almost a hundred-page paper
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criticizing your book before it ever came out. And you said you were
going to be responding to that. Tell me a little about those dynamics,
because I was surprised that they Well, I wasnt surprised they held
the view, but I was surprised that they responded in such a dramatic
way.
[MV]: Right, well what Albert Moller, who runs the Southern Baptist
Theological Seminary said in his response, was that hes concerned
only partly about the book, but partly about how the book is going to
be received by people, and how there are a number of Evangelicals,
he said, who feel very sympathetic to LGBT people and really want to
be able to change their beliefs and their views on the issue, but
theyve felt that their hands were tied by their interpretation of
scripture.
And so there are a lot of people who are very open and eager to be
able to engage with the type of argument that Im putting forward in
this book, and that ultimately want to be persuaded by it because
they feel in their hearts that that is what would be most consistent
with the life and example of Jesus. And so his concern was that the
book can reach people who really want to be able to accept it, and
therefore for Christians like him who disagree with my beliefs on this,
it needs to be combatted all the more fiercely because there is that
latent interest and openness to it.
[WG]: Good grief. I know Al well, and Ive debated him a lot of times
on television. And what bothers me about that is that its like he
doesnt want you to let people know the Gospel is Good News!
[MV]: You know, I mean, I try to look at things from his perspective.
And from his perspective, I dont think thats how he would process it,
and that he thinks that same-sex relationships are really all bad, so
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Even if I dont know yet if I fully agree with his position, I see
sufficient faithfulness in this positions engagement with scripture. I
see sufficient persuasiveness and care and thoughtfulness in this
position that I am not going to be casting aspersions on the faith of
people who hold this position. And that basically this does not The
bible is not at stake in this conversation. Becoming gay-affirming does
not mean rejecting the authority of the bible.
[WG]: Right. And thats a great contribution, if that can happen, and
you certainly have made the case for it. You started Reformation
Project I know the title cant be accidental will you walk us through
some of the steps of your work that you do with folks at the grassroots
level?
[MV]: Right, so the Reformation Project is a non-profit organization I
launched last year to be training mostly lay Christians who are
affirming of LGBT people and who want to be having constructive
dialogue with non-affirming believers.
And so last year we had our first leadership training conference for
about 50 Christians from across the country very intensive prep
work for three months in advance, and really focusing on making sure
that affirming Christians know how to talk about the bible and
homosexuality in both respectful and persuasive ways. Which is not
something thats been our strong suit in the past.
And then this fall, were going to be hosting a much larger regional
training conference for up to 900 people in Washington, DC, at the
National City Christian Church from November 6th through the 8th.
Registration for that will open soon, at reformationproject.org, so
people will be able to sign up for that. And the main two goals of that
conference are, one, basic education and knowledgeability about how
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[MV]: Well, its actually been pretty encouraging to me, because when
I was first coming out especially to my broader church community
my real struggle was just to get people to listen, and just to create
enough openness to even have the conversation.
So what I find encouraging about all of this so far is, even though of
course not everybody agrees with me right now, we are really starting
to have the conversation. And were having the conversation with gay
Christians in the room. Its not going to cut it anymore to have a
quote-unquote conversation about homosexuality where its just a
bunch of straight, non-affirming people talking about this abstract of
gay other that isnt even there, and they can say all sorts of things
that you would never say if there were actually someone you knew
and loved as a brother and a friend in the Church with you in the room
with you.
And so its not just about having a conversation; its about making
sure that gay Christians have a voice on the conversation, and are
really being heard and listened to. And I feel like So to me, its just
very encouraging - even though I know theres a long way to go this
is a necessary step in getting there.
[WG]: Youre helping a lot of people take some very necessary steps,
and you are really wise for being your age; and youve made a great
contribution.
Matthew Vines is Founder and President of the Reformation Project,
which trains Christians at the grassroots level to support and affirm
lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people. His new book this is
one that if you have to sell your shirt to buy it, you ought to do that
his new book is titled God and the Gay Christian: The Biblical Case In
Support of Same-Sex Relationships.
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[WG]: And heres a post-script to that interview. In the time since the
taping, news has come out regarding the publisher of God and the
Gay Christian, WaterBrook Multnomah, which has published
numerous evangelical bestsellers, has resigned from the National
Religious Broadcasters. Whats now come to light is that there was
relentless pressure within the Evangelical community to suppress
Matthew Vines book entirely. And just publishing it has evidently
disqualified Multnomah from an ever-more-doctrinaire but hopefully,
ever-more-irrelevant world of right wing demagogues.
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