Michelle Eloff Relationships

Michelle Eloff
Thursday, 22 May, 2003 (posted 30 June, 2008)
I am Guineviere, Lady of Camelot and I come forward to greet you this evening. My energy
vibrates green and turquoise light to all of you, embracing you in the presence of your essence and
holding you in your divine god self. Welcome Beloved Ones.
I have come forward with a specific teaching for all of you. This teaching is to help you understand
the dynamics of relationships. Everything that is a part of your reality is a part of your relationship
with your children, your family, your colleagues, your pets, your garden, etc. Everything is in
relationship. Understanding the differences in people is one of the first steps in embracing and
unconditionally accepting and acknowledging one another. One of the greatest mistakes that
humanity makes is to place expectations upon themselves and one another. When this takes place,
already the process begins to break down because you have projected an expectation onto
somebody and this they do not deserve. You to do not deserve to place high expectations upon
yourself for this always leads to disappointment, disillusionment and a breakdown of relationships.
The very first step is to acknowledge that you are a human being on a path. You are unique, you
have an identity and you have full right to be your true self. You then need to allow all others
around you to live the same way. This does not mean that people can treat you in whatever way
they choose. By adopting this attitude you allow yourself and the others in your reality to be their
true selves. Your world has been built upon false identities, fear, illusions and there are many
people living in your world who have no idea what their personal truth is. The reason for this is
that most people from a young age adopt qualities projected onto them by their outer environment,
parents, teachers, peers and all of this begins to colour the natural personality. And because one of
the greatest things that humans want is love and acceptance the person compromises their truth,
sells themselves short and puts on a mask to keep everyone else happy. Now bear in mind that not
ever will you be able to keep everyone happy, not even yourself, you will have days where you
will be loving of yourself and other days where you will simply feel frustrated and generally
unhappy with yourself. In relation to yourself you need to accept and love yourself as
unconditionally as you are to others. Unconditional love does not mean that you leave yourself
open to abusive and unacceptable behaviour. Many have turned their backs on unconditional love
because of the misunderstanding of what it means.
Unconditional love is to acknowledge a person on their path, where they are at without judgement
but also being true to your boundaries and not tolerating any form of abusive behaviour from any
one else as well as from yourself. The way you treat yourself is the way you will be treated. This is
one of the first lessons in coaching your environment on how to treat you. In order to relate
positively to others you need to know what is out of synch, and out of balance in your own heart.
The people who you are in relationship are your mirrors; you show one another what is right and
what is out of balance.
When a person blames another for ones feelings of sadness or of pain and not taking responsibility
for their actions is because the person is afraid to look inside their heart and acknowledge that they
are afraid, that they are hurting. The inner child consciousness of that person lashes out at you or

you lash out at someone else, not because they are a despicable person but because your inner
child wants them to hurt as much as you are, especially if the person has betrayed you in any way
whatsoever. This need not be limited to intimate relationships with a lover, this happens with
siblings, with friends and family.
I would like to add that as long as you hold onto resentment, bitterness and anger you are only
doing yourself harm. You give your power away to those you are angry with. You give your power
away to those whom you feel betrayed by for the duration of the time you chose to hold hostility in
your heart. It takes time to forgive and perhaps even longer to forget. The important thing is to at
least try. When you understand what limits you and what hurts you, you will better understand the
relationship with those in your reality. Most times traumatic experiences that took place in ones
childhood colours the theme of all future relationships. People have said to us before that they have
had a wonderful childhood, no memories of their parents treating them badly and eventually after
investigation something like a pet dying instilled a belief or a fear of loss and of life in that
persons heart and for the rest of their lives this fear affects their relationships. So the woman or
the man will hold onto their partners for dear life because of the fear inside is that perhaps they too
will be taken away. Is this clear to all of you so far?
By understanding or at least acknowledging painful experiences from your past you are able to
commit on a deeper level to your partner, or to your friends depending on your age and your
relationship status. But Beloved Ones do not ever walk away from a relationship without resolving
the issue. At least do it in your own heart and mind. The way that this is done is to imagine your
self in a beautiful and sacred space. And in this space you are joined by your angels of healing and
all those divine beings who serve, guide and guard you. Remember to call upon the Archangel
Michael to assist you, and then imagine the person joining you in this visualisation and begin to
confront them in this sacred space. Say everything that you have wanted to say, express your hurt,
your disappointment, your anger, perhaps even hatred, express it uncensored. Because you are
doing it in a sacred space in no way or form can what you are saying hurt them or affect them
negatively on any level whatsoever. When you have said everything that you want to, allow this
person to answer you, to at least defend them selves. If you wish to reply to this continue until
there is nothing left to say between the two of you. Then look down to your body and observe if
there are any cords that extend from any area from your body connecting to the person who is
sitting in front of you. When you have established this ask the Archangel Michael to take his sword
and slice through them, then pull them out of your body and leave them to lie in a heap on the floor
before you, and then ask the person to whom you are relating to do the same. Allow Archangel
Michael to use the violet and silver flame of St Germain to ignite this and allow it to be burnt up
into its nothingness, leaving you free and whole. Look deep into this persons eyes and thank this
one for the lessons brought and the opportunities that you were presented with to grow together, to
understand more of life, as painful as it was. But those who betray you the most, who hurt you the
worst are in truth your greatest teachers. And in acknowledging this you set yourself free, and you
set your new friend free. By making peace it does not mean that you have to make physical contact
again, this is not always necessary, and sometimes rather left alone. Then what you need to say to
this person is that I forgive you for all that you said and for all that you did, consciously and
unconsciously, and I ask you to forgive me for everything that I said or did consciously and
unconsciously. And then affirm, I choose that through this act of forgiveness to free my spirit, to
move on with my life and experience peace. Then draw your consciousness back into your
physical body, giving thanks to the divine presences that have given support to you. You can do
this visualisation as often as you need to until you feel completely free.

What lives in your heart and what lives in your mind becomes your reality. This is the truth of your
life. It is very easy to put on a show for others, it is very easy to even fool yourself, but your heart
will always draw to you the truth of what is inside you when relating to people or being in a
relationship with a person in marriage or otherwise. We will now focus on intimate relationships.
One needs to understand that more often than not your life will have mundane issues, not every
day is going to be sunshine and roses. Relationships are the most wonderful way of knowing about
oneself, the most incredible opportunity to master your self. Far too often people get caught up in
the romance of the relationship, not seeing that once the honeymoon has worn off that there are
real issues to deal with. When children come along, there are further responsibilities, and further
issues to deal with. You personally will go through your own personal cycles of change and
growth, and this will affect your relationship. Every relationship goes through cycles and each
cycle is the opportunity for your to acknowledge a level of growth that has taken place, and also an
opportunity for you to take your relationship to the next level, and the key ingredient in all of this
is communication. Not just communication, but truthful, honest and open communication. By
sitting down with your partner and acknowledging that there are certain areas of conflict you have
already taken the first step in the direction of healing the particular issue. You both then need to be
strong in yourselves to speak what is in your hearts and what is in your minds. Perhaps your
partner has been so involved in their own cycles of change that they have not been able to
acknowledge that you are in a very vulnerable or fearful space. By telling your partner that you are
afraid, that you feel disconnected, that there are aspects of your relationship that you are not
comfortable and happy with, you give your partner the opportunity to work with you. By not being
open and honest with your partner with your feelings, is very unfair, because you are not giving
your partner the opportunity to defend them selves, to share their conflict and to help you
understand their perspective. You are being unfair to your relationship and to your children by
bottling up your feelings, your fears, your resentment and your anger. You may be depriving your
children of a mother or of a father if the relationship comes to the point of separation because you
have not felt safe enough to express your truth. The only way that your partner can know what is
going on is if you tell them.
So be true to yourself and be true to your relationship. By having honest and open communication
you can work together to find creative solutions. Problems manifest when something is out of
balance. When cycles come to an end often conflict arises, because the next cycle needs to be
initiated and old paradigms, and old attitudes need to be left behind. Try imagining moving into a
new home, it is best to toss out what you no longer use, and what has become obsolete, rather than
taking everything with you and making a lot of work for yourself to pack up all your rubbish and
then to unpack all your rubbish again. It is the same with relationships, with others as well as with
your self. So the next time you are confronted with conflict in your relationships have the courage
to be true to yourself and trust that in being truthful you will find a resolution. It may initially take
time but it is always better to experience the short term pain of honesty, perhaps a little knock to
the ego is more the experience than deep pain that one feels with honest communication, rather this
than the deeper pain of finding out that your partner has not been truthful with you.
You are all physic beings. Whether you are aware of this or not, it is a fact. It is a scientific fact
that your energy responds or reacts to the millions of vibrational frequencies that are magnetically
projected between people all the time. Now with intimate partners this is even more sensitive. And
when either one of the partners is withholding a truth, or their feelings, the other partner will sense
it in one way or another. They may feel irritated or tense and anxious in your presence. Many

women and men have said that they have felt that their spouse is having an affair, even when there
is no physical or tangible proof of this. The reason for this is because you feel it on other levels.
You know, and this feeling knows and experiences everything in relationship on all levels. Without
communication Beloved Ones, truthful communication, a relationship stands very little chance of
remaining strong and whole. Acknowledging the cycles of relationships is the first step in
overcoming any form of disillusionment or disappointment in your partner not measuring up to
standards that you unfairly placed upon them. Your wife is going to wake up and look like
something out of the Rocky Horror Picture Show on some mornings, and your husband will be
smelly on some days. Make peace with this, it is a human fact. However what is in your hearts is
what is important. What originally brought the two of you together? What sparked the flame and
passion of love? What did you see in one anothers eyes, the first time you looked into that
persons eyes? What stirred in your heart and what stirred in your soul?
This brought the two of you together. Remember these qualities, they have not disappeared, they
may be sheltered under a few extra pounds, but this is not the end of the world. They may be
sheltered under the stress and responsibility of having children, paying the mortgage, keeping the
cars on the road, children in schools. The person whom you fell in love with is still there. It is up to
both of you as a unified entity to find this again. Therefore intimate time together is of the utmost
importance. Always make time to spend together, even if it is an evening out once per month. Your
children will be fine. You will be giving your children the gift of security, support and stability by
ensuring that your intimate relationship with your husband, your wife or your lover is being kept
healthy. If you do not have children, do it anyway, because the stress of modern life can also kill
relationships.
Now we would also like to speak about relationships that people become involved in, that become
a habit or the person is too afraid to make it on their own. This Beloved Ones is a very destructive
experience because not only are you giving your power away to the person whom you are with, but
you are switching the pause button on to the game of your life and you begin to miss out on all of
the valuable opportunities of experiencing your divine truth. Many people are drawn together to
balance out karmic situations, to learn from one another. Not all unions were made to last forever.
And one of the reasons why relationships break up so easily in your modern world is because
many relationships are lessons, and partners have not taken the time to truly look at why they are
choosing to be with that person. Believe it or not there are people who marry for money, there are
people who marry out of fear that perhaps no one else will come along and this is the lid that fits
the pot that they are, and so they commit to a relationship that is not motivated or cemented in
pure, true love. If you find yourself in a situation such as this one, or you know of someone who is
in such a situation, the first thing that needs to be clearly understood is that if you stay where you
are things will not get better, they most certainly will get worse. Having a child will not change it
around. Most times having a child to try and save a marriage or relationship actually speeds up the
process of destruction because more pressure is added through added responsibility, and often
resentment and bitterness manifest because one of the partners, usually the husband, now feels
even more trapped. Therefore you, or the person in such a relationship must look into the very
depths of your heart and discover why you have bought into victim consciousness, and poverty
consciousness, by believing that you do not have the resources inside of you to make your life
work in a way that you can experience peace, tranquility, harmony and true love. Some might say
that this is a plot for a fairytale, perhaps it is, but did you know that all of you can experience a part
of the fairytale at any time that you choose and that living happily ever after can be a part of your
reality, if you put your mind to it and choose to work with your relationships.

You are responsible for your own happiness. If you are in an abusive relationship you have to get
yourself out. If you are in a loveless marriage you have to make the first move to get out. If you are
married to someone and you love the person deeply and there are problems, it is up to you to speak
to your partner in order to resolve it. It is easy to expect your partner to know that you are upset.
Many partners do but are afraid of the confrontation, you take the first step, do not wait until your
partner brings the subject up. You could find yourself waiting 35 years for this, and many have. Do
not wait in a relationship until the children have grown up, because you are only hurting your
children. You are teaching your children that it is quite all right to sacrifice your happiness and it is
quite alright to be in a relationship where no love exists. Is this the example you wish to set for
your children, for their relationships? We do not think so. The more you are true to yourself, the
truer you are to those around you. Some people have even remained in relationships because they
have no justifiable reason to leave their partner, he is a good man, or she is so good to me and
she is an excellent mother, I cannot do this to her. But what are you doing to her, or to him by
making this person believe that you love them when you dont be true to yourself and be true to
those who deserve the truth.
When resolving issues in relationships it is of the utmost importance that what you agreed upon be
upheld and respected. If you make a commitment to one another to continue with your
relationship, and after a few weeks or a few months one of the two partners is happily back into
their old habits, severe damage is being done, and very seldom can the relationship be salvaged.
This does not only apply to intimate relationships, these are all relationships. When you make a
promise, mean it. When you are saying you are sorry, mean it. Do not think because your partner,
or your friend, or your child has accepted your apology that in a few weeks it will be OK to live as
you were, to be your old self. If the relationship then breaks up you only have yourself to blame, if
your children do not trust you after this, you only have yourself to blame. Relationships with
children are very sacred and very sensitive. Children are precious, precious gifts given by God.
Children are highly evolved beings, like all of you are. They are intelligent, they have a
consciousness, and they have a will. The only difference is that their physical body happens to be
smaller than yours. But their minds are not, their heart is not, therefore your children deserve the
truth, as much as you do, as much as your partner does, and your friends. Children must be treated
with equal respect. If you want your children to respect you, treat them respectfully. Children
being seen and not heard is of the old school. Respecting elders is still necessary, if the elders are
respecting the children and setting examples of high quality, leading by example. I personally have
witnessed on many occasion adults treating children abusively, and then still demanding respect
from that child, this is impossible. Be honest with your children about your feelings. You obviously
cannot place your relationship problems on the shoulders of your two and a half year old or six
year old, but be honest with them that you are having a troublesome time, and that you are feeling
a little bit sad but that the love for your child is always strong. They need to know this because
whether you tell them or not, they know exactly when things are out of synch. Your little baby
swimming around in your womb also knows when you are upset. They deserve honesty as much as
you do. When relating to your children, acknowledge their divine will, acknowledge that they do
know what is good for them. Yes you have more earth wisdom, because you have been on the
planet for a little longer than they have, but this does not mean that they cannot feel for
themselves. When your toddler wants to wear a green shirt with purple pants, in your modern days
anything goes, not so? So what is the big deal? If your toddler wants noodles for breakfast instead
of oats or cereal, this is what the child needs. All children know exactly what their body wants
because they have not been brainwashed by society to eat cereal at breakfast time, to eat a

sandwich at lunchtime and to eat a hot cooked meal at dinnertime. They eat when they are hungry
and they dont when they are not. And they also know what foods contain the vitamins and
nutrients required by their bodies, and you as parents need to honor this. By doing this you are
supporting your children in maintaining a healthy relationship with their bodies. If you tell them
No noodles for breakfast, you can have it for supper, you must now have cereal the childs
communication system become scrambled. If the child has not eaten the whole day, do not worry
yourself; children always eat when they are hungry. By forcing children to eat when they are not
hungry, is forcing your will upon your child and that form of relating relates the message of I
have to swallow what is forced upon me I have no say in the matter. And this becomes a pattern
of victim consciousness. How many of you remember being forced to eat your peas, or being
forced to eat your carrots or that you were not permitted to leave the dinner table until you had
eaten all of your vegetables? How many of you flicked them under the table? How many of you
hid them in your pockets? (laughter) And how many of you ate, then went to the bathroom and
threw up? This is where bulimia, and all other eating disorders, and dysfunctional relations with
food begin very often. So we truly hope that you can see the value, the importance and the
intricacy of relationships. When you are in a bad mood and you kick the dog, what are you relating
to this animal? If your child happens to see this and kicks the dog and gets a spanking for this, this
is very confusing. Lead by example at all times and set the president of do as I do. Is this clear?
Now are there questions that we can assist any one with?
Question: I have found that in trying to discuss certain situations with your partner and wanting to
find solutions or creative solutions to the problem, most often in the past, in my recent past it has
been coloured by the emotions, which then get dragged into the conversation. The emotions take
over and the whole . (tape ends)
LG : When the conflict is building up and you feel it and it is felt by your wife. Acknowledge to
one another that you are feeling angry. Once this has been acknowledged both of you then have the
opportunity to take a breathing space and walk away to allow yourself to move into rational mind,
to acknowledge to one another that you are angry and agree that if you take it further immediately
you may not meet the desired end. Then walk away. One only moves back into rational mind
approximately 30 minutes after becoming angry so trying to resolve anything within 30 minutes
after becoming angry is fruitless. Acknowledge to one another your feelings and then go and put
your head in the pillow and scream until you see stars, or go for a brisk walk, or go and write a
letter, or go and play with the dogs. Whatever it is, but do not take it further until you have moved
into rational mind. Is this clear? Is there anyone else who whishes to speak?
Question: I would like to know how when my partner wanting to break off the relationship is
saying he is not wanting a relationship but it feels to me that it is a head thing and not a heart thing,
what is happening with that?
LG: Most often people who make decisions like this from the head are hurting deeply in the heart
and have isolated many of their feelings and do not understand what they are feeling. What may
very well be happening is that your presence, what you emanate is bringing his heart issues to the
surface and he is afraid so it is far easier to run than to stay. I would suggest that you write him a
letter. Communicate your senses, what you are sensing and that you understand that there is more
than likely deep hurt there and that you are willing as his partner to stand by him through his
transition, through his process of healing, all he needs to do is trust. Write the letter and do the
visualization that we mentioned earlier on. In the visualization what you can do is speak to him,
reassuring him, asking him to explain to you what is going on in his heart. By speaking to a person

on this level you are communicating directly to their soul as opposed to their earth ego. Allow him
to answer you back from his soul, and once you have completed the discussion ask his angels of
healing to filter the healing energy into his conscious mind so that it supports the dynamic of the
relationship between the two of you. Keep on reassuring him that he can trust you, do not push him
beyond what his will is but make it known that you are there. If you see however after many
attempts on your part, that he is still not willing to co-operate, then Beloved Sister I suggest that
you move forward. Is this clear to you? God Bless you, thank you.
Question: My son keeps getting sick, he is asthmatic but it is related to the sinuses, allergic
rhynitis, which I understand that it is a related issue. Do you have any suggestions?
LG: Beloved sister, your sons health is not only related to you, it is to the relationship between
you and his father. In the lifetime that you have chosen to be with your present husband, you have
chosen to bring spiritual awakening to your husband. Your son acts as the bridge between you and
your husband. As I tune into your husbands energy field let me tell you that he believes what he
sees. He has been astounded by many aspects of your life proving them selves true through what
you have done, especially with reversing your Lupus. Your husband however is not comfortable as
yet to reveal this to you. His scientific mind is trying to understand the logistics of spirit and
matter, and how science and spirit come together, and your son is a part of bringing this
understanding. I suggest to you to make a mixture of lavender and tea tree oil, mix this with a little
avocado oil and massage this over your sons sinuses as well as over his chest. When he is asleep
go and sit by him, put your hand on his chest and thank him for all that he is doing to try and bring
peace and balance to your relationship and tell him that he is free, that it is not his responsibility,
that you and his father are adults and mature enough to work through this. Have I made myself
clear? Blessings be with you.
Question: In our relationship if there is a slightest disturbance that is felt by our son, he
immediately looks at us, is he too sensitive or is he the type of person who picks it up, even
expresses it? Or is he oversensitive? LG: Is he first, second or third born? Third born.
LG: He too is serving as a bridge between the two of you. He is highly sensitive, and this is not a
negative thing. However I suggest that you speak to him and assure him as we have suggested to
this other sister, that it is not his process. Very often children feel their parents feelings and
perhaps even what the parents are not feeling and or expressing. Children need to know that they
are safe in their relationship with their parents, regardless of their age. Two or twenty, five or fifty,
children will always be children to their parents, and children will always view their parents as a
Mommy or Daddy. Is this clear to you? Open communication is important for him to understand
that it is not his role, it is not his purpose. Has this answered your question? When you mention
that it is not his purpose, what do you mean by that?
LG: It is not his purpose to make things better between the two of you. It is not his purpose to
process any emotions or feelings that is going on in your lives. If you are unhappy or sad he does
not have to be sad, he can embrace you and acknowledge that he notices that you are sad but he
does not have to be sad for you. Has this better explained it?
Question: Could you maybe, one question, my son is turning fifteen this year but in stature he
looks like a ten year old, and it is bringing him a great amount of grief for him personally, at
school What can we do to help him grow, not only in stature but also in confidence?

LG: My suggestion is that you connect him with a group of like-minded and like hearted children.
His delay is not a permanent thing and within the next 18 months we do foresee his energy shifting
dramatically. He needs to understand that confidence is not about the way you look, it is about the
way you feel in your heart. Tell him about the story of David and Goliath. By him understanding
that size is not everything and the children who victimize him or tease him do this in order to feel
better about them selves. Children can be very cruel, especially when they observe something that
is different to them. It is not the difference that they are attacking, it is because it is different that it
does bring up fear for some people. Why is this person different? Children are very often coloured
by their parents programs, what they see on television, what they read in magazines, and
everything that you see is bigger, is better and the way you look is of the utmost importance. The
car that you drive, the music that you listen to, the clothes that you wear, this sadly is a modern day
fact, your son is learning the lesson of building his power and his size from the inside out. Through
these qualities he can also teach these people that looks are not everything, and that one-day they
too (looks) will be gone. He will teach them the true understanding of beauty and of love. These
children are rejecting aspects of themselves and this is why they reject him, they would rather
make another feel less, smaller and afraid than have to admit that they too feel this on the inside. I
mentioned earlier on that one of the most important things that a human being wants to experience
is love and acceptance. This is one of the reasons why many children get caught up in drugs, in
alcohol, and smoking cigarettes, because they want to fit in, they want to be loved and they want to
be accepted. Your son is different for a reason, he chose his body for a purpose and if perhaps he
can understand that his uniqueness is his power, that his uniqueness can change the hearts and
minds of many perhaps he will come to feel stronger in himself. But I urge you to get him involved
with others who can relate to him. There are groups of children who get together for what I think is
termed in your language Team Building however we do not chose to label it this way, it is more
a sense of bonding on a spiritual level. God bless you.
Question: How does one know when they are truly in love with someone. I have an experience
where I thought I have met my soul mate and I was convinced that this was the relationship I was
meant to be in and it did not work out that way, now I am involved with someone who believes
that we are soul mates and that I am just not sure.
LG: What went wrong in your first relationship?
I think it was a combination of me being very certain and him being very uncertain, he is younger
and I must be very honest, I cant answer you other than that. I dont know, maybe it was just the
age gap and it wasnt that big it was only two years.
LG: I can tell you that he was most certainly an important love in your life, what I must tell you
though, is that when the right person is there, there is a mutual connection, a sense of comfortably,
a peace of being able to be who you are with no masks put on. It is like you have been away from
each other and you come together and you carry on from where you left off. Everybody
experiences a love that may not necessarily be the love that lasts for their entire life time, but when
the love that is meant to last the lifetime comes along there is no missing it, there is not wondering
whether it is or not. Your heart, your entire being just knows, and it will be mutual. It will be a
connection, an electricity, a plug fitting into a socket. Is this clear to you? God bless you.
Question: I think that a person just came into my life, who has just come out of a twenty-five year
marriage, Im just not sure how to proceed with it. I am using my intuition, trying to be cautious..

LG: I always suggest that love follow its heart. Many have called me the Queen of Hearts. The
Queen of Love, I wonder why? (laughter) However, through following your intuition,
acknowledging what it is cautioning you about will give you a better understanding. Perhaps your
caution is in believing that there is certain baggage coming along with him. Perhaps even a little
fear of you being a rebound relationship. I suggest to you to feel all of this. To truly feel it, is it a
truth or is it a fear and by determining this you will know what next to do. It is always important to
feel ones feelings, not think what ones feeling. Feel whether it is a truth or whether it is a fear. I
also suggest that you ask that the divine plan of your relationship come into being gracefully,
harmoniously and miraculously revealing to you the direction that it is heading in, you may ask
this. Affirm that it be in accordance with the highest will of your soul and his soul and let it go.
Continue following your heart. God bless you.
Question: Both my children, I have been told that sugar is not good for , so in my household if
you want something sweet with sugar in it .. my daughter seems . to cheese, so Im wondering
.
LG: For your daughter specifically the cheese is supporting her, she is getting certain qualities
from it. For your son, if you are finding that he is desperate for something sweet, let him have it in
a natural form. Through fruit, even honey, yogurts even a little custard he can have every now and
then. Not a regular feature though. It is a difficult transition that he is going through especially at
his young age, even though it is truly beneficial and as a parent you are only having his highest
good held in your heart, but ease him through this process, allow a little natural treat to be a part of
the reward system, for adhering to his change of lifestyle, so that it does not appear to be
punishment all the way. Are you comfortable with this suggestion?
I am but I am wondering with regards to my daughter, she seems to get quite mucousy at about
three monthly intervals and I was wondering what that is all about and if it is not related to the
cheese and milk?
LG: Dairy does contribute to the build up of mucous and phlegm in the body, perhaps you can also
slowly start to change her eating patterns, where cheese is still a part of it, but supplemented with
other proteins. She is needing protein. Many children crave protein but are fed mostly on
carbohydrates sandwiches, noodles etc. and protein is what helps them to build the cellular
structure of their body, therefore through dairy they are able to get at least some of the protein that
they are craving. So try some meaty treats to replace her cheese cravings and see if that begins to
bring her craving for protein into balance.
Question: Lady Guineviere, I have a problem with my mother-in-law. She intimidates me terribly
and I dont know what to do. (laughter)
LG: Perhaps a ten-pound hammer would do the trick. (laughter). First of all Beloved One, I
suggest that you observe her behavior and ask yourself what does her behavior remind you of?
Are there tracings of people from your earlier past that you recognize within her, or is it simply the
opportunity for you to set your boundaries, to be like a lion and roar your truth. What is a typical
example of her intimidating behavior?
I dont know she is just very controlling. She is a controlling woman, she is much bigger than me,
I never feel good enough. I have been happily married for 15 years and I love my husband so
much. I just, she scares me and she does remind me of my dad.

LG: So begin to work with the issues related to your father and it will change with your mother-inlaw. God bless you, and forget the ten-pound hammer, especially if she is bigger than you
(laughter). Is there anything further before we end this session?
Question: I have sort of a complex question regarding people passing on and how to deal with the
loss and how it affects ones other relationships, because it is inevitable that people will pass, kids
will pass and I know that I will see them again, its just how to deal with the gap that they leave in
my life.
LG: First of all, accept that it is a natural process in the human experience to mourn someone that
is no longer there physically. Their physical body has been in interaction with yours. Their
presence filled up the space. When that is gone physically the human psyche needs to go through
the different levels of dealing with the separation. I suggest that you allow yourself to mourn this
process or whom ever it is that is having difficulty in dealing with the loss of a loved one.
Acknowledge that it is going to be difficult initially to live without that presence, to adapt ones
lifestyle in a different way, but what always works is by always acknowledging that the presence
of that soul is never gone. When the person feels comfortable we suggest a farewell ceremony. The
ceremony is saying goodbye to what was the physical presence, but reconnecting with the soul
presence of the person. By saying goodbye to the physical aspect you allow their soul presence to
truly ground and unite with your energy. You may find at that particular moment that something
may manifest. Perhaps a bee flies by or a butterfly comes to rest itself close to you, or a bird flies
into the room. These are all confirmations that the person who has moved on is still there. But one
must allow the human aspect the space to mourn this, to go through the levels of despair, anger,
deep sorrow, sometimes even guilt and then into peace and sometimes the anger and sorrow and
guilt may rise again. Do not stop it, go with it, dont stay in it, come out of it. God bless you.
I now come to the end of my relating to all of you this evening. I would like to end off with reaffirming the importance of being true to yourself and to those who you are in relationship with. If
you love your partner, or if you love your friend, or your child, or your parent then make the effort
to resolve the situation, make a commitment to one another that no matter what happens you will
never give up until you have given it your all. Love is meant to be experienced in every
relationship. The pleasure that you experience by smelling a flower is an experience of love. The
love you feel when you watch your child achieving success or simply playing and laughing is the
most wonderful interaction with the energy of love. You all have the power to manifest the highest
vibrations of love in your life, simply choose it. If you come to the realization that you are beating
a dead horse, then Beloved Ones have the courage to move forward so that you can find this love.
You have to look inside of yourself first though. May the light of God Almighty, and the entire
spirit hold, love and guide every single one of you and may you come to find the love that is in you
that relates to everyone and everything in your reality. I am Guineviere, Lady of Camelot and I bid
you farewell.
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