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Romance 101
How To Show Her You Love Her
by Pioneerthinking.com
1. Learn a few love words in another language and recite it to her:
Li amo (Italian)
Eu amo-o (Portuguese)
Le amo (Spanish)
9. Don't forget to listen to her, I mean really listen. Ask her thoughts, dreams, goals or just about how her
day was.
10. Sing to her. It doesn't matter if you can sing or not....just hearing her favorite song from the man she
loves is worth gold.
11. If you are away at work etc, call her to say you're thinking of her.
12. Write her a love letter and mail it to her.
13. Dedicate a song on the radio for her, don't forget to tell her to listen that day!
14. Read her some poetry.
15. Write her some poetry expressing your feelings for her.
16. Sip some wine together and just cuddle.
17. Paint her toe nails.
18. Give her cute pet names. Makes her feel special.
19. Make her feel like she is what you live for.
As you all know when i browse through this big and wide internet world i always take lessons
and i share it with you. I bet we all have relationships but how do we handle and appreciate our
relationships? Having good relationships does take work. It's hard to be honest, and it's hard to
accept the consequences of your honesty and authenticity. It takes time, energy, and
committment to stay connected through all the problems that life and people bring. It can be
painful, aggravating, and scary to stick it out through all the ups and downs.But the alternative
is worse.
Here are the simplest things you can do with the person to show them that you love them so
much. A little relationship advice can go a long way, and so can a list of relationship tips.
Specific, practical ways of showing your love for your partner, kids, and friends can increase the
communication, connection, and caring in your family. These are "equal opportunity" tips,
which means they can be applied to any relationship in your life!
Hope these helps you to re-define and enhance your relationships. 62 Ways to Show "Love":
1. Say "I love you."
2. Don't compare them to anyone.
3. Be courteous at all times.
4. Embrace the present moments without fear or guilt.
5. Live by the Golden Rule (Do unto others.).
6. Give them your full attention when talking.
7. Become their biggest fan!
8. Toast each other regularly.
9. Tell them how they bring love to your life.
10. Share funny quotes or events.
11. Talk about your day during mealtimes.
12. Read books aloud together.
13. Say you're sorry.
14. Recall good and bad memories.
15. Let go any bad experience and anger.
16. Encourage health in all its forms.
17. Let the tears flow together.
18. Act silly together.
19. Be lavish in praise.
20. Ask questions about opinions, feelings, thoughts.
21. Forget about labels.
22. Encourage adventures and risks!
Women Id dated in the past only wanted to go out for salad or sushi. But she was
enthusiastic about eating all kinds of things with me. I loved that easygoing attitude of
hers. Aside from showing that youre not high-maintenance or neurotic about your
weight, that kind of unabashed enthusiasm also tends to translate into other areasincluding the bedroom. A woman with a healthy appetite for food tends to have a healthy
appetite on all levels, and sex is absolutely a part of that, explains Barton Goldsmith,
Ph.D., author of Emotional Fitness for Couples: 10 Minutes a Day to a Better
Relationship.
65. 2. He loves your occasional obscenities.
You may worry that its not ladylike, but occasionally letting a curse escape your lips at
an unexpected moment can be a major turn-on. Hearing a woman use profanity out of
context gives a guy a shock of sexual adrenaline, explains Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of
She Comes First: The Thinking Mans Guide to Pleasuring a Woman and co-host of
Discovery Healths Love on the Rocks. Men like women who can be tough and assertive,
and as long as she doesnt take the talk too far, its a positive thing.
66. 3. He loves that you arent a neat freak.
Believe it or not, guys find the proliferation of hair products, accessories and unidentified
stuff strewn about your apartment oddly sexy. I love that my wife makes a bigger mess
than I do, says Ziad, 31, of Durham, NC. When she cooks, food ends up all over the
place. It shows that shes carefree, and it reminds me to enjoy the moment rather than
worrying about the consequences. This laid-back mind-set also carries over into your
weekend wardrobe. Guys love a woman whos not trying too hard, explains Dr. Kerner.
Most men think a pair of boxer shorts and a ratty old T-shirt around the house is your
sexiest look. So dont spend hours choosing the perfect date-night outfit or getting your
place in House Beautiful-shape, because men love you just as you are-in your
comfortable, slightly sloppy glory.
67. 4. He loves your extra padding.
Sure, youve heard that men love women with curves, but how about those extra pounds
youve been trying to sweat off at the gym? Theres a good chance that your guy loves
them, too. Just ask 26-year-old Nick: My girlfriend exercises regularly, but I think the
little pudginess in her thighs is sexy because it shows shes not perfect. Sure, your extra
padding may make men feel a little better about their own beer bellies, but theres also a
biological reason why men like this. Psychologists at the University of TX determined
that men were most attracted to women with hourglass figures specifically, women
whose waists were 60 to 80 percent smaller than their hips regardless of their weight.
They theorize that men unconsciously seek this body type because it signals that a
woman is able to procreate.
expresses these words. Yes, this act does show love. But yet even that isn't enough
and neither is being faithful to this true love of yours.
Sometimes it is the smallest acts that you can make that shows you love a person.
Do you know how you show your love each day to the one you love? If you are a
man and would like some suggestions from a woman on some small acts that you
can perform that show your love, continue reading. Here are a few ideas.
1. Making the coffee in the morning. Women like to wake up to the aroma to fresh
coffee, too. If you pour the coffee into our mug, add our cream or whatever we like,
we are even happier.
2. Doing the dishes just because you want to help.
3. Calling us up in the middle of the day and saying hi, I miss you.
4. Flowers, (I know not original, but still well liked)
5. Filling up our cars up with gas, so we don't have to do it.
6. Neck rubs, feet rubs, without us asking for them.
7. Fixing us a bathtub of hot water and bubbles.
8. Watching the kids for the evening, just because and telling us to go shopping,
watch a movie or whatever we like to do.
9. Can you cook or grill, doing it more often just because you want to do it.
10. Curling up around us in bed, so we find you that way when we wake up the next
morning, your body against our body.
11. Actually listening when we are talking.
4. Live by the Golden Rule (Do unto others as you would have them do unto
you).
5. Give your full attention when talking.
6. Become their biggest fan and cheerleader!
7. Toast each other over breakfast or dinner to say I love you.
8. Tell them how they bring love to your life.
9. Laugh about kids quotes on love or events.
10.Talk about your day during mealtimes.
11.Read books aloud together.
12.Say you're sorry.
13.Recall good and bad memories.
14.Let go of the past to say I love you.
15.Do nothing together.
16.Encourage health in all its forms.
17.Trust your partner enough to cry together.
18.Act silly together.
19.Be lavish in praise.
20.Ask questions about opinions, feelings, thoughts.
21.To say I love you, forget about labels.
22.Encourage adventures and risks!
23.Show your joy when they come home.
24.Bake cookies.
25.Leave stress at work to say I love you.
26.Use flannel sheets in the winter.
27.Solve problems together - such as crosswords or Suduku.
Saying I love you takes work and making your relationship stronger does take work. It's hard to
be honest, and it's hard to accept the consequences of your honesty and authenticity. It takes
time, energy, and commitment to stay connected through all the problems that life and people
bring. It can be painful, aggravating, and scary to stick it out through all the ups and downs....but
the alternative is worse.
Read more at Suite101: 64 Ways to Say I Love You: A List of Relationship Tips for
Lovers
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t's a cliche for a reasonmen aren't always best at showing how they feel, even when they're
head over heels. Here, 10 ways that men show you their love
1. He Opens Up
Emotional intimacy isn't easy for anyone, so if he's baring his soul to you, it's not because he
likes hearing himself talkalright, not just because he likes hearing himself talk.
9. He Compromises
It's simple: when he loves you, he wants to keep you happy. This doesn't mean always letting you
get your way, but it does mean he'll be eager to reach a middle ground with you where you're
both happy. Whether it's where you spend the holidays or who gets the remote, he'll show his
love by insisting that you call the shots sometimes. How To Be Romantic
10. He Tells You
Sure, there's a lot to be said for showing, not tellingbut if he's telling you how crazy he is
about you, listen up!
How To Show Your Love
Giving a person lifelong commitment and staying with him/her throughout your life is, in
itself, an indication of the fact that you are in love with him/her. Because of this very
reason, many people fail to express
their love, to their partner. However,
you need to remember the fact that
many-a-times, stating the obvious
(that your love your partner) is very necessary. It helps people come closer to each
other and develop a stronger bond. Whether you make use of words or actions, it is
very important to let your partner know that 'you care'. In case you are now confused
about how to show your love for your partner, the ideas given below will surely prove to
be of great help.
Ways Of Showing Your Love
Write A Letter To Your Partner
It is true that 'actions speak louder than words'. However, sometimes, you need to use
words as well, to show your love and make the other person feel special. So, just go
ahead and write a love letter for your beloved. If you are falling short of love letter ideas,
just write some of the reasons why you love your partner - he/she is very understanding,
he/she cares for you a lot, and so on. You can even title the letter as 'Top 10/ 20/ 50/
100 Reasons Why I Love You'.
Visit Your Partner's Dream Destination
Has your partner wanted to visit a destination for a long time? If yes, then what better
way to show him/her your love than by planning a trip to his/her 'dream place'. Apart
from helping you express your love, care and affection for him/her, it would also prove to
be the perfect way to get close to each other once again. If you do not have the budget
for 'dream destination', just go to any place that your partner would love to visit.
Hug Your Partner Whenever Your Find A Chance
Yes, you read that right! Something as simple as a hug can speak a lot about your love.
There is a kid in each one of us. Even when a person crosses childhood and becomes
an adult, there is a small part in him/her that never grows up. And the 'child' part of
his/her personality comes out the most in front of his/her partner only. So, treat the child
in your partner and give him/her a hug without any reason and slowly whisper 'I Love
You' in his/her ear.
Flirt With Your Partner At Every Chance
One of the main problems in relationships today is that, with time, the partners start
taking each other for granted. They forget all those things that they once did, to make
their beloved feel special. One such thing is flirting, which reminds your partner that you
still find him/her attractive and the love is only growing stronger with time. So, just grab
any and every chance of flirting with your partner and make him/her feel loved and
desired.
Some More Ways
Write loves note to your partner occasionally, saying 'I Love You'.
Let's get started. Getting a girl of your dreams is much like getting the car of your dream.
But unlike a car which you can always bargain for, there is nothing like a 20 percent
discount in courting the girl of your dreams, she's so sweet a thing to be discounted, you
dearly are in love with her and your feelings for her can only be communicated not by the
words of the mouth, but by the words of the heart. Getting the girl actually depends on
how big your heart is - faint heart, never won fair lady.
The first dating idea for any man is to make a good impression. In your doing so, you
don't have to talk, dress or do the common things that all the Toms do to get a decent
girl's attention. Be unique, that's all you need. Be a man of his own style. Dress decently indecency can make one be mistaken for arrogance; watch your language - obscene
language gives the impression of immaturity, being uncultured and cheap; be a man of
good habits - don't drink or smoke like any other loser.
How to make her fall in love with you? Take your time. Add some romance to your
dating style. When in College I had a crush on the most beautiful lady in our first year lot.
Though all senior guys were out to get that girl, I managed to divert her attention from
the other guys. I wrote her three letters without disclosing my identity and slid into her
room secretly; all I said was 'Yours Secret Admirer.' The first letter contained the meaning
of her name, this I got by playing around with the initials of her name to make meaning.
The second was a funny message that could only be read backwards and it was all about
her physique and her smartness. In the third letter I told the girl to be ready to receive a
rose flower from her admirer, but only if she could be kind enough to phone him using a
number that I had included in the letter. The girl did phone me that very night, and her
first words to me were, "Hallo Secret Admirer." So, the story of our love affair came to
be. Later she told me that was so creative of me, no one had approached her in that
manner. I made her fall in love with me and made a date in the romantic manner.
Befriending and understanding the girl you are out to get is the next important thing. This
is what I also did. You have to understand that as a lady, she loves to be loved, adores to
be adored and needs to be needed. This will move you closer to the girl and you'll get to
know what she's into, what she likes and dislikes, and what her style is. Love is built
upon friendship and it always leaves individuals better off having known each other
should they break up. I and my College steady were to break some time later but to date,
we are the best of buddies. Be sure that bringing out the selflessness friend in you will
make her create room for you in her heart.
A shoulder to lean on and some good friend that she can always turn to is all that a lady
wants. Please don't hesitate to be helpful and supportive. Be that friend who rekindles her
zeal of hardworking and restoring hope back into her life when she looses hope. This
above all other things will make you her daily vitamin simply because you bring out the
best in her in terms of personality and character. In you, she'll have found that friend
whom she can open up to, share with and advice each other on the rights and wrongs, the
dos and don'ts of life. Don't forget to always be there to celebrate the good times, and to
lend an ear when the girl needs you to listen as a friend.
Make the girl feel special; because she's someone's friend - your friend, and let her know
that she too has touched your life in a unique way like no one else could. Compliment her
for her company and for being there when you needed her, when you felt sad and all
alone. Show appreciations for the comfort the girl offers you and for making you smile.
In your day to day talks, share your dreams, your world, and every aspect of your life
with your girl. Always dream with her, build with her, and always cheer her on and
encourage her. Tell your girl how you always think about her even when you try not to
think about her. Let the girl know that she's your first thing in the morning and the last
thing when you go to bed at night.
Her knowing that you were thinking of her when you slipped beneath the softness of your
blanket and gave in to the bliss of sweet dreams, will make her go 'my my' and her heart
will sing your name all the year round.
You have to be creative and constructive to keep girl's interest in you so full of life. I
remember one time I told my girlfriend to be to imagine we are both deaf and dump. We
then sat opposite each other on the table and started sharing our feelings for each other
using eyes and hand signs. It turned out to be some fun. There was also this time that we
were in the library and we decided we are not going to speak to each other verbal, so I
wrote a love note on a paper and passed it across the table to her, she replied and on and
on we carried on our love on paper conversation till we almost exhausted a whole rim of
paper. At sometime, I noticed that some guys sited with us on the table were enjoying our
ordeal than their studies. Such are the things that made the girl embrace my world. I
remember her suggesting that we play deaf and dump two years after we broke up, can
you imagine that?
Never fail to phone her, even when she least expects it. I once called some girl that I was
interested in at four o'clock in the morning. When inquiring of what I was doing up so
early, I told her I was in thirteenth heaven, where people think of their loved ones when
they can't sleep. Wow! First thing early the next morning, she was at my door with a
king-sized hug for me. No matter how many dates you take her, don't make any elbow exceeding moves after any date, just drop her home and with a friendly handshake, wish
her good night. Don't kiss her when she expects you to. Your respect as a gentleman will
be earned on how patient you are with her when it comes to such matters as kissing her
and accessing her inner graces.
The writing is on the wall that you want her, but you can't have her just yet. Increase your
demand. Try to show her that men are also hard to get at times. Make her realize that
when she feels a little dizzy, a little tired, a little sad, a little sick, a lot bored and very
much cold, she's actually missing vitamin you. By this time, she'll be so much into you
and since love is truthful and is characterized by open and honest communication,
honestly promise her your everlasting devotion, loyalty, respect, and your unconditional
love for a lifetime. Prove to her that you'll always be there for her, to listen and to hold
her hand, and that you'll always do your best to make her happy, and feel loved.
Remember, patience is the key to her heart; be like that gardener watching a fruit as it
hangs on the tree, day after day admiring it, but, exercising tremendous self-discipline,
neither feeling the fruit, nor pinching it, nor testing it to see if it is ready. And then, one
day he holds out his hand and the fruit simply drops into it, ripe, warm and eager to be
eaten.
The patience and self-control which you practice will make you more attractive and
charming. This will qualify you as her daily vitamin and win you that heart hers.
I wish you to meet the girl of your dreams ASAP, make her fall in love with you, and
make her feel the happiest girl in the world!
Men may not concern themselves as much with the trappings of Valentines Day as
women may, but they do care about being loved as women do. Love can be celebrated
every day and not simply on Valentines Day. A man values a good time spent with his
girl, and places a different value on gifts than a woman would. Consider these tips for
good ways to show love to a man.
Many women may agree that it is difficult to shop for men, and perhaps that is because
the simple gifts that rarely go wrong with girls do not have the same effect on men. While
most women enjoy gifts that are pretty or ornamental, men like gifts that they need and
can use, and gifts that are something they most enjoy.
Find out what it is that he would like the most. However, a man does not always like to
receive a gift that he may very well get for himself. As is many womens natural tendency
to put much thought into gifts, try to put more thought into the gifts given to that special
man.
For the most part, men like to know that what they find fun is also fun for the women
they love. Spend time with activities that he considers fun and take an interest in them. A
man likes to have his girl there while he does something that he enjoys, and feels more
loved when she shows interest in these activities. It makes a man happy when he has the
companionship of his girl as a friend as well as a wife or girlfriend.
Even if it does not seem like he is paying much attention to his girl and enjoying her
company, he is enjoying it through the fun activity that is being shared. It may seem like
he is only playing a video game or whatever it is that he finds fun, but he is enjoying it all
the more because his girl is with him.
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As women value love, men value respect. This is not to say that women do not need
respect and men do not need love; it simply means that showing respect to a man will
help assure him that he is loved, while showing love to a lady will assure her that she is
loved. Love and respect work together.
Affection will show a woman that she is loved. And although men may like affection,
they also appreciate a show of respect. For example, caring about what a man values
shows respect for those values and for the man. A man will also feel respected when his
lady shows that she trusts him.
Men value respect the way women value love. These ways of showing love let that
special man know that he is respected, and through that, he will feel more loved.
Consider these simple ways to say I love you to him not simply on Valentines Day, but
every day.