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Crucial Conversations about Drugs with Teens

TIPS for TALKING TO YOUR TEEN


Keep your best motives in mind by asking
yourself what you really want
Make it safe for your teen to talk; state
what you dont intend and what you do
intend
Confront with facts about whats
happening, not judgments
Discuss, agree on, and stick with
boundaries
Evaluate the dialogue to make sure its a
two-way conversation

ABOUT THE RESEARCH. The study


collected responses via an online survey of
1,017 individuals in November of 2006. Margin
of error is approximately 3%.

LEARN NEW SKILLS. To learn how


Crucial Conversations Training can help you
discuss important issues with your teen, visit
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V I TA L S M A R T S R E S E A R C H

According to a survey we conducted in association with the White House Office of National

57 percent of parents admit to


having some degree of difficulty in getting their teens
involved in meaningful conversations about their
concerns, such as who their friends are, how they
dress, and how school is going. And 74 percent have difficulty getting
Drug Control Policy (ONDCP),

their teens to respond to these concerns and are not sure their teens are even listening when
they do talk.
And when it comes to discussing
tough topics like drug use, 52 percent
of parents admit to some degree of
difficulty with those conversations.
Even more troubling is that parents
know drugs are part of a teens world
today. Fifty-six percent of parents
believe their teen goes to parties
where drugs are available and 48
percent believe their teen has friends
who use drugs. Despite that, few
parents do anything about it.

KEY RESULTS

74%

of parents have difficulty getting


their teens to respond to their concerns

52%

of parents have difficulty with


conversations about tough topics like drug use

56%

of parents believe their teen


goes to parties where drugs are available

48%

The research shows the strategy


of parents believe their teen has
most often used by parents to monitor
friends
who
use
drugs
their teens activities is to keep the
fridge stocked with food so teens
and their friends will be more likely to
hang out at home under parental supervision (52%). Few parents are checking up on their teen
(7%), asking questions to try to find out whats going on when it comes to drugs (21%), or going
through their teens belongings (29%), even though research shows teens who are not regularly
monitored by parents are four times more likely to use drugs.
And when parents have wondered if their teen might be exposed to drugs, 26 percent of them
did not speak up because they did not believe their teen would be influenced by drugs. Twenty
percent did not speak up because they had already discussed drugs with their teen in the past,
17 percent worried their teen would deny there was a problem, and 13 percent worried that
initiating the conversation would communicate a lack of trust to their teen.
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