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Sv121 Wilson
At the dawn of human consciousness, when people first gained the ability to reflect upon the world around them, it seems likely that they turned
the spotlight of consciousness inward to try to understand themselves. After
all, throughout recorded human history, self-knowledge has been a highly
valued trait. For thousands of years, Buddhists have sought greater selfawareness through the practice of meditation.The Greeks inscribed Know
Thyself on the wall of the temple at Delphi. Some of the most respected
figures in the Catholic Church extolled the virtue of self-knowledge, such
as St Augustine of Hippo, who in his prayer for self-knowledge wrote,Lord
Jesus, let me know myself and know You (Augustinian Spirituality, n.d.).
Similarly, St Teresa of Avila suggested that, Self-knowledge is of such consequence that I would not have you careless of it (St Teresa of Avila, 1577).
To be sure, different religions and philosophical approaches emphasize
different aspects of self-knowledge. In Buddhism it is a realization of the
transitory nature and unimportance of the self, and a route by which people
can gain awareness of suffering and compassion toward others, as well as a
greater awareness of ones feelings and motives (Flanagan, 2011). In Catholicism, it is gaining a sense of humility and an appreciation of Gods power.
For example, St Augustines prayer goes on to say, Let me banish self and
follow You, and ever desire to follow You (Augustinian Spirituality, n.d.),
and St Teresa of Avila adds, I believe we shall never learn to know ourselves
except by endeavouring to know God, for, beholding His greatness we are
struck by our own baseness (St Teresa of Avila, 1577).
Psychological science shares the idea that self-knowledge is of paramount
importance, but with a somewhat different focus than religious teachings.
Rather than spiritual growth or a sense of humility, psychology has focused
on the value of self-knowledge (e.g., to mental health) and how people attain it. Here I will review research on each of these topics.
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The preparation of this paper was aided by a grant from the National Science Foundation Grant SES-0951779. Correspondence concerning this article should be sent to
Timothy D.Wilson, Department of Psychology, University of Virginia, P.O. Box 400400,
Charlottesville,VA 22904-4400. E-mail: tdw@virginia.edu.
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ourselves and the social world that increase our well-being? I believe that
there are a small number of essential myths that human beings share.
Whether they are adaptive is open to debate, though I suspect they are, at
least in moderation. I offer four candidates of such myths here. Warning:
Discussing these myths is tantamount to dispelling them, at least temporarily, so read on at your own risk!
Essential Myth 1: We Are Immortal
Everyone knows that they are mortal beings who have an expiration
date. Some people believe in the immortality of the soul or in reincarnation,
of course, but no one can deny that our existence in our current bodies
will end sooner or later. Did you experience a ping of anxiety when you
read that sentence? I confess that I experienced such a ping when I wrote
it. Knowledge of our own mortality is the ultimate existential threat and
people have developed all sorts of strategies to avoid thinking about the inevitability of their deaths (Solomon, Greenberg, & Pyszczynski, 2004). As a
result, we live much of our lives avoiding the knowledge of our ultimate
demise, or at least avoiding to think about it. Is such denial adaptive? The
answer is no if it leads to behaviors that will hasten our demise, such as
smoking cigarettes and overeating. But constant reminders of our ultimate
end are paralyzing and I suspect that there is a happy medium, where it is
best to live each hour without dwelling too much on the fact that it might
be our last one, while at the same time trying to maximize our number of
hours by adopting a healthy lifestyle.
Essential Myth 2: We Are Important
There is no one that we spend more time with than ourselves. As a result, it is hard to avoid the impression that we are an important force in the
world, individuals who make a difference and are of great consequence to
many other people. For most of us, this impression is probably not as true
as we think it is. Suppose, for example, that I gave a questionnaire to your
friends and family that asked them to (a) rank how important you are to
them, in comparison to their other loved ones, and (b) to keep track of how
often they think about you when you are not around. Next I ask you to
guess what your average importance ranking is among your friends and
family, and to guess how often you are in their thoughts.To my knowledge
such a study has not been done, but if it were, I would bet that most of us
would overestimate our importance and salience to others.
This myth probably helps us get out of bed in the morning, work hard
at our jobs, and strike up conversations with strangers at parties. After all,
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why do any of these things if we are just one insignificant speck in the universe? Of course, this myth can be taken too far, resulting in narcissism. And
showing people that they are not as important as they think they are might
have the benefits of reducing the number of inane posts they make on social
media sites, shorten the length of their boring stories at parties, and increase
the likelihood that they focus less on themselves and more on helping others. In this regard, it is interesting to note that many religions stress the insignificance of any one of us on earth, stressing humbleness over
self-importance. But again, exaggerating our importance a tad probably has
motivational benefits.
Essential Myth 3: The World Is as We See It
When we observe the social world and form impressions of other people, we are often surprised to learn that other people saw things differently
from us.The reason we are surprised is because of a pervasive phenomenon
called nave realism, which is the assumption that we observe the world as
it actually is, rather than interpreting, construing, or selecting the information that reaches our senses (Ross & Ward, 1996). Because we believe that
we see things as they are, when others disagree with us, we believe that it
can only be because they are wrong and we are right.
Nave realism is not simply a motivational strategy that people adopt in
order to feel good; rather, it results from the fact that people are not consciously aware of the mental processes that select and interpret information
as it hits our senses. Because we cannot directly observe this process of construal, our interpretations of the world appear to us simple observations
(Pronin, Gilovich, & Ross, 2004). It is also clear that nave realism has many
negative consequences. For example, it is a roadblock to resolving conflicts
between adversaries; often, the two sides cannot even agree on the facts,
given that each side believes that it is viewing them accurately while the
other is twisting the facts to suit its own purposes. But is nave realism also
adaptive in some way? In small doses it may have some benefits. People
who are never sure what the world is really like, and are constantly aware
that theirs is but one of hundreds of interpretations, are likely to spend more
time equivocating than acting.
Essential Myth 4: Other People are Predictable
Think of a close friend that you know really well. Now suppose that
your friend found a $20 dollar bill on the floor of a bookstore. Would he
or she pocket the money or try to find the person who lost it? How confident are you in your guess? Research shows that we are overconfident
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there is not a single true story. Narratives are arbitrary to a degree; given
the same raw data about others and ourselves, we can arrive at radically
different interpretations. A person could view her spouse as the love of her
life who should be forgiven his minor foibles and flaws, such as the fact that
he once had an affair and was not the best father in the world. Or, she could
weave a quite different story, ruing the day she met such a cad. Similarly,
there is considerable latitude on the narratives that we construct about ourselves. Based on the same data, a woman could view herself as a talented
professional who, despite some setbacks, has become a star in her field, or
as an imposter who has succeeded through blind luck and will be drummed
out of her discipline as soon as people catch on.
This raises the important question of how we can judge the goodness
of a self-story. At one extreme, postmodern psychologists have argued that
no story is truer than another, and that we should avoid accuracy as a criterion (e.g., Gergen & Kaye, 1992). But surely this argument goes too far.
Even postmodernists would agree, I presume, that it is not adaptive for people to believe that if they jumped off of a tall building they could fly. Indeed,
research shows that the more peoples conscious beliefs about their goals
match their nonconscious goals, the happier they are. Consider, for example,
two people who are deciding on a career. One believes that he is a people
person and thus chooses a career that involves a lot of social interaction,
such as sales. In fact, though, he has a low implicit need for affiliation, and
is unlikely to be happy or successful in career that is mismatched to his implicit goals. The other person knows that she is not a people person, and
chooses a career more suited to her goals, such as becoming an accountant.
Research shows that the latter person will be happier than the former
(Schultheiss & Strasser, 2012).
Thus, a good self-story should capture who we are, at least to some
extent and by that I mean that it should correspond to our unconscious
traits, needs, and goals. This doesnt mean that there is only way of telling
that story, however. Indeed, late in his life, even Freud came to view the
process of psychotherapy not as uncovering truths, but rather the construction of a narrative that provides people with healthy, coherent explanations of who they are (Spence, 1982). But regardless of how the story is
told, it should correspond to the persons adaptive unconscious.
Which brings us to another sign of a good self-story, namely what I have
called the peace of mind criterion (Wilson, 2002). Our stories should
provide us with a meaningful narrative that allows us to gain closure on
negative episodes in our lives, instead of ruminating about them (Wilson &
Gilbert, 2008). Writing exercises have been developed to help people find
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problems that result from too much introspection (e.g.,Wilson, Dunn, Kraft,
& Lisle, 1989). There is a rich tradition of studying the contents of consciousness, dating back at least to James (1890/1950), followed by such endeavors as the study of daydreams (Klinger, 1990; Singer, 1975) and mind
wandering (Smallwood & Schooler, 2006). Many of these research programs
examine important questions of mental control, or the extent to which
people can consciously direct their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors (Wegner & Pennebaker, 1993). Again, much of this work involves the complex
interplay of conscious and unconscious processes, such as the extent to
which people can keep their mind on a task, and the conditions under
which their attention wanders involuntarily from one topic to another.
Clearly the interweaving of conscious and unconscious processes is a rich
topic to study, though one that requires clever experimental methods.
Summary
Self-knowledge has been a central topic of study for philosophers, religious scholars, and psychologists, as well as for all human beings who have
paused for a moment and directed their attention inward. Modern psychology has made considerable strides in understanding the limits of introspection, how self-knowledge can be obtained indirectly through the
development of self-stories, and the value of self-knowledge.There is much
to be learned about the complex interplay of conscious and unconscious
mental processes, and psychological scientists are uniquely equipped to advance this learning.
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