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721 FEEDBACK

Text and Pictures elucidating Process oriented Feedback,


Supervision, and the Learning Process
Amy Mindell
November 2005

Consensus Reality
Dreamland

Essence
All of us are, or will one day be, in the position of giving feedback to others
whether we are teachers, bosses, parents, or simply friends giving advice to
one another. Over the years I have developed into a teacher and supervisor
of other therapists and therapists-in-training and have found that, for me,
the task of giving feedback carries as much excitement and learning as it is
daunting and challenging. There is always more to learn about how to teach
and give feedback in useful ways.

Supervision can be a wonderful learning process for everyone involved. At


the same time, I am acutely aware that no matter how good hearted the
supervisor might be, or how open and capable the supervisee may be, the
atmosphere around a feedback situation is most often filled with various
background spirits, some stemming from past wonderful or difficult
educational experiences, earlier parental situations, abuse issues, etc. At the
same time, the nature of the particular student or supervisee and the
particular supervisor or teacher, the momentary mood, the performance
that is being looked at, the moment in time, and the feelings of all involved
play significant roles in what occurs. The person in the position of getting
feedback may feel relaxed and excited about feedback or possibly uptight
about what might be said. At the same time, the supervisor might feel fully
engaged and interested or alternately, nervous about what to say, how to say
it, or how to be conscious of the rank differences between her or himself and
the supervisee.
Sometimes as a supervisor, I have had a sense of wellness and at other
times I have felt quite ill at ease in my role. I have at times felt stuck in a
traditional model of teaching that did not feel quite comfortable or suited to
me. I have always attempted to give helpful information to my supervisees
based on the persons individual qualities, abilities, and style, yet I have
often felt that the interaction was lacking something important, some deeper
dimension that I was not touching upon. Questions filled my head. What is it
that I, as a supervisor, can really give to others? Why is it that I sometimes
feel that I am under scrutiny and supervision as well? Why do I often feel
that I am not using all of me to engage in the learning and teaching process?
What does it really mean to follow the feedback process rather than
preconceived ideas about teaching and learning?
I reviewed some of the best learning experiences that I had had in my life.
They all seemed to contain a sprinkle of something magical, mysterious or
spontaneous, in addition to the practical material I was learning. I realized
that this mixture of clarity and magic, everyday life and the dreaming
process, was the key factor in my original interest in process work and in my
desire to become a process-oriented therapist. However, I was not quite
finding the same magic in my supervision work.
The Hidden Background to Teaching and Learning
I was greatly relieved when Arny began to develop a new form of supervision
in 2002, which he called 721 Feedback. His concept of 721 Feedback is a
refreshing and more encompassing approach to teaching and supervision
than I had previously known and has since enhanced my supervision with
others in magical ways. This new concept expands traditional feedback
methods toward a more multi-leveled approach that incorporates the
awareness of various dimensions of experience that arise during the
supervisor-supervisee interaction. With the use of 721 Feedback, supervision
broadens to include not only practical learning, but also the hidden dreaming

background to teaching and supervision, which is crucial to any learning


situation.
In this article I introduce the reader to 721 Feedback. The information you
will find here is derived from Arnys teachings and my recent classes in
Portland on this subject, as well as our use of 721 Feedback with therapists
in various countries around the world. The positive response to, and
usefulness of this modality has pointed toward the potential cross-cultural
application of these ideas.
I hope that the ideas in these pages will help to augment and enrich any
methods that you already use for feedback and evaluation. For
simplicity, in the following pages I speak about the process of 721
Feedback in terms of the interaction between a supervisor and a
therapist-in-training though this model applies equally to other realms
of feedback as well such as the interaction between instructor and
learner, teacher and student, coach and client, boss and employee, etc.
Your particular style will dictate how you might incorporate the following
ideas into your own work. Some will use these ideas in a mainly
cognitive way while others will use them in a more nonlinear way. In
any case, any good supervisor already has elements of these ideas
integrated into her or his work though they may not be identified as
such.
360 Degree Feedback
The roots of 721 Feedback can be found in 360 Degree Feedback, a term
coined in the 1980s for an assessment and evaluation method utilized in
some businesses and organizations for conveying feedback to a particular
worker about her or his performance.1 We are very thankful to Dr. Max
Schuepbach for originally informing us about 360 degree feedback in
organizations. 360 Degree Feedback was designed as a more effective
approach to feedback than the earlier top down style of evaluation (in
which those above, such as the bosses, give evaluation to those below, i.e.
the employees). 360 degrees refers to all of the degrees of a compass 2 and
therefore, feedback comes from many sources and levels relative to the
employee such as the employees colleagues (peers), supervisors, those
workers with lower rank, customers (if applicable), and ones own self
evaluation.
360 Degree Feedback is certainly a milestone in the direction of shifting
traditional styles of evaluation in organizations towards a less hierarchical
and more holistic model. It places more emphasis on empowerment,
teamwork, continuous learning, individual development, and self
responsibility.3

721 Feedback and the Deep Democracy of Education


A number of years ago, Arny broadened the concept of 360 Degree
Feedback. In the context of supervision for therapists, but equally
applicable to any educational or evaluative system, he began to speak
about his concept of 721 Feedback. He realized that while 360 Degree
Feedback was an important step in relativizing rank differences and
creating a more satisfying and well-rounded evaluation system, it can at
the same time omit significant aspects of a persons abilities and
learning process. He pointed out that the content of 360 Degree
Feedback mainly addressed the consensual performance of the
individual according to agreed or consented upon measures. He noted
that, while consensual measures are crucial, there are also other realms
of experience that are fundamental to the learning process and the
feedback interaction.
Arny based 721 on his concept of Deep Democracy 4, a philosophy and
method that has been applied to working with individuals and groups.
The concept of deep democracy refers to the equal importance of all
people, parts, and levels or dimensions of experience whether in
ourselves as individuals or in the groups that we are part of. The three
levels are Consensus Reality, and the dreaming dimensions called
Dreamland and the Essence.
Arny showed that, during teaching and supervision, a more in depth learning
experience occurred when all of these levels were addressed. He came
up with the term 721 Feedback by designating 360 degrees to
Consensus Reality (similar to the 360 Degree model), then he added
360 degrees for the level of Dreamland and 1 degree for the level of the
Essence; hence the concept of 721. All of the levels are important, of
equal value, and are central to the process of teaching and learning.
721 Feedback requires that the person giving feedback notices the way
in which each level arises during supervision, gains access to these
various dimensions, and addresses them usefully in the supervisory
interaction.
721 Feedback is an awareness-based method and therefore is dependent
upon the supervisors ability to notice and address the various levels as
they arise. Though I strive to focus on all aspects of 721 when I am
giving feedback, I am not always successful; much depends on my
momentary awareness. In addition, each unique situation between
supervisor and supervisee may call forward, or highlight, one particular
aspect of supervision over another.
However, if feedback is not focused on all of these levels at some point, most
people have the feeling that something is missing; some piece of them feels
misunderstood or simply unseen. Therefore, to really connect as a teacher or

supervisor or friend with someone, feedback that touches upon all


dimensions is crucial.
Brief Overview of the Three Dimensions
Lets take a brief look at these three dimensions as they apply to supervision.
Later, I will elaborate further about each realm and will speak about how to
use them in practice.
Consensus Reality (CR) correlates directly to the type of information
conveyed in 360 Feedback. In CR, feedback
focuses on the therapists abilities in terms
of skills and metaskills deemed important in
a given therapeutic community. Feedback
can come from supervisors, peers, clients,
and the therapists own feedback to her or
himself. Evaluation and learning parameters
depend upon the particular therapeutic
school, specific task, or organization. In
process work some important skills include
the ability to notice the structure of the
clients process, communication edges,
signals, channels, and the use of such
feeling skills (what I call, metaskills5) as
compassion and fluidity.
Dreamland takes us to another realm that may seem a bit unusual for those
of us who are used to focusing solely upon the level of consensus
reality. However, it is not hard to imagine the dreamland
background to supervision. All of us are subtly aware of other
dreamlike feelings and figures that arise during any given
feedback interaction.
For example, imagine that a supervisor
begins to give feedback to the supervisee.
Before the supervisor says anything, the
supervisees shoulders rise up, her head
sinks down, and she begins to look afraid.
Even if the supervisor is full of positive feedback, there
is most likely another figure, such as a negative critic, in
the atmosphere who is unsatisfied with the therapists
work. This critic will inevitably voice her or his opinion
internally to the supervisee, during and most likely after
the supervision session, regardless of what the outer supervisor says.
Such figures can silently and powerfully dominate the feedback interaction to
such an extent that they can potentially obviate any other learning. Imagine
that, as the supervision session progresses, the supervisees face slowly
becomes glazed over. She may nod her head at what the supervisor is saying

but does not really hear anything -- except the critics incessant voice, that
is! The critics opinions are like a semi transparent cloud that overlays and
colors the momentary situation.
Interference in communication by one figure or another is more common
than not. In fact, because of the complex nature of supervision and feedback
it is rare in such situations that only the supervisor and supervisee are
present in the room! All sorts of figures may be in the atmosphere such as a
nasty demon, a loving and supportive elder, a playful child, a depressed
person, or even a jealous colleague! Even if they are not directly focused
upon, these figures will subtly influence and disturb both of the individuals
involved.
You might ask why it is important to notice these dreamland figures in such
learning situations. Dreamlike moods and figures have a powerful influence
and are, therefore, crucial aspects of the learning process. They can
enhance, disturb, or cloud the momentary situation for all. An astute
supervisor will notice dream figures that are present and bring them into the
feedback process. He or she will know that the moment of learning and
feedback is a complex mixture of all of the parties, moods, and figures
involved and that when focused upon usefully, in addition to consensual
elements of feedback, the overall learning process will be enriched. I will give
some examples below, but let us first take a peak at the realm of the
Essence.
The Essence level takes us to yet another dimension of feedback. In
general, the essence refers to the deepest part of us: an aspect of ourselves
that encompasses and embraces all of our parts. Arny calls this part of each
of us, the Big U.6 In embodied form, it is something like a wise elder inside
of us that includes, yet is greater than the sum of, all of our parts. The Big U
has a compassionate attitude that embraces all
the various aspects of ourselves and a sense of
detachment that comes from being connected
with something greater than the momentary
events of life; a sense of eternity outside of
ordinary time and space. A playful image of the
elder is the octopus (right), which is deep in the
sea, has arms to embrace all the various sides,
yet is more than the sum of all of them. In
order to get close to our essence as supervisors,
we need the capacity to slip a bit into an altered state and to feel the deepest
part of ourselves. There are many methods to do this and I will mention
some of them a bit later.
In supervision, using the Essence means that the supervisor gets in contact
with the deepest part of her or himself and lets feedback flow from this
aspect of her nature to the supervisee. In fact, the supervisors Big U is her

or his best teacher. When she looks through the eyes of this deep part of
herself she can speak to the depths of the supervisee as well.
The supervisors can speak from this Essence level in a given moment or the
feeling quality of the Essence can be used as a basic metaskill from which all
feedback occurs (including that of CR and Dreamland). In recent seminars,
we have seen that feedback at all levels is best conveyed and also received
when it emerges from the Big U of the supervisor. When the supervisor
comes from her own deepest essence, the act of supervision transforms well
beyond the typical realms of the good or bad abilities of the supervisee.
Rather, whatever feedback occurs is embedded in a larger context that
embraces the momentary learning as well as the wholeness and depth of the
learner.
You may be wondering if it is then possible to give negative feedback to the
supervisee. Actually, the Big U makes such feedback easier and more
effective. The Big U makes it possible for the supervisor to feel freer about all
the various aspects of her feedback because they will be conveyed through
the feeling quality of her or his Big U attitude. For example, Arny has said
that when negative feedback such as I think you are not doing well at a
particular skill comes from a Big U feeling, it is communicated with a sense
of detachment and therefore does not carry the normal sting that such
information usually carries. The most painful feedback often occurs when the
supervisor is not feeling detached but is intensely invested in what she is
saying. And of course all of us have that from time to time! That is natural,
too, and I have been through this many times! However, if complex or
difficult feedback is said with the metaskill of detachment, the supervisee will
get the message that she or he should learn something but that she/he is a
creative and deep individual nonetheless with her or his own path and
process.
Deep democracy emphasizes the equal importance of all three levels. They
are like parallel worlds7 occurring simultaneously though we often tend to
focus only on one and disregard the others. This marginalization of particular
levels is natural, but to really connect as a teacher or supervisor, feedback at
all dimensions is needed. However, exactly how and when a supervisor will
use these levels depends on her or his particular style and the momentary
feedback situation.
Local and Nonlocal Supervision: Learning Together
Arny has described the difference between local and nonlocal supervision.
Consensus reality is local, meaning that you are you, and I am I. We are
separate individuals. However, in Dreamland and in the Essence worlds
events are nonlocal; that is, in dreamland dream figures and experiences are
shared and do not belong to any one individual. He calls this phenomenon
Non-Consensus Reality (NCR).8

Most of us are familiar with the local style of supervision or education. The
teacher is the teacher. The student is the student. In nonlocal supervision,
the roles are not set or fixed but are shared by all. In nonlocal supervision,
feedback that I give to you also applies to me in some way. We are both
teachers and learners simultaneously. Both viewpoints, local and nonlocal,
are important in the feedback process.
Here is an example of nonlocal supervision that some may be aware of.
Imagine that a supervisor tells a supervisee a number of times that she or he
should learn a particular thing. In consensus reality the teacher is teaching
something and the student is trying to learn it. Lets say, that with consistent
reminders and discussions, the supervisee does not seem to learn or pick up
the new information no matter how many times he or she is told to do so.
The supervisor becomes frustrated and has an affect and insists that the
student learn that particular thing!
In such a situation, if the supervisor cannot get out of her affect, then it is
time to consider that the learning problem is shared. While it may be very
true that the supervisee needs to learn something, at the same time the
supervisor should consider that she herself might need that learning as well! 9
If a supervisor insists repeatedly, for example, that a student-therapist be
more direct and less mothering with her clients, the supervisor probably has
the same difficulty with her own clients.
Here is another example of nonlocal supervision. In one of my supervision
sessions, I noticed a critic in the air who was plaguing a
supervisee. However, I also realized that I was feeling quite
inhibited myself and that this critic was bothering me as well!
We both agreed that there was a nasty spirit in the air. I
decided to place one of the many puppets I have in my office,
a green demon with a nasty scowl on its face, on the ground
to represent the role of the critic. Both the supervisee and I
took turns moving the critics head and speaking its words and
criticizing our work. As we played with this figure, we broke out into laughter.
We realized that both of us had been feeling shy with one another and that
the critic showed us that we needed more of its intense energy. The
supervisee needed to be more direct with her clients and I needed to be
more direct about my feedback!
Simply sharing and admitting that you, the supervisor, have similar
difficulties and problems as the supervisee can be very helpful, alleviate
some of the rank differences between you, and create more learning for all.
2/3 of the Teacher is Inside, 1/3 Outside

The idea that the teacher and student are shared roles is quite important.
While an outside supervisor or teacher is obviously crucial for learning,
it is helpful to remember that each individuals best teacher is her or
his own process. No outer teacher will ever be as good as, or as
helpful as, a persons own inner process. The persons inner teacher is,
and will always be, the best guide in all things. In essence, Arny has
said that 2/3 of the teacher is inside the student and 1/3 of the
teacher comes from the outer teacher. The individuals inner teacher
(her or his own Big U) knows things that no one else can teach her or
him. A supervisor who is aware of this will enlist the supervisees inner
teacher as a guide and helper. Perhaps the supervisee can step out
and supervise herself at one point or another in order to help bring
this inner wisdom to the fore.
Recognizing Dreamland Figures
The exact information that each supervisor conveys in Consensus Reality is
dependent upon the particular therapeutic paradigm that he or she is working
in, and the individual nature and focus of a given
supervisor. Therefore, I will not go into greater detail
about CR feedback. I would however like to expand
upon methods for gaining access to the Dreamland
and Essence worlds and a few ways to use that
awareness usefully in the supervision interaction.
Stepping into the realm of dreamland is one of my
favorite activities! It gives me a chance to drop out
of my ordinary mind and allow other information
and figures to arise. For some this is a natural process while for others it is
quite a stretch to momentarily drop consensual thoughts and notice a dream
figure in the moment.
Therefore, a diversity of methods that match the supervisors style and
nature are needed. Some discover dream figures by listening exactly to the
content of what a person says, others use a kind of shamanic altered state to
imagine figures, and still others observe a persons body signals for clues. In
any case, it takes a slight shift in awareness to open up to and notice the
other figures that are in the midst of a supervision session.
The basic idea is that something about the figures energy or essence or the
interaction with this figure is important to the persons learning process. For
example, it is possible that the person realizes that he needs to stand up to a
negative critic and defend his way of doing things. Or, he or she might need
to integrate some of the critics (or another figures) energy or essence. (The
essence means the very root or seed of a figure, not just its overt
manifestation. For example, the root of a critical voice might be exactness
or one-pointedness.)

There is no prescription for exactly what you should do with a dreamland


experience; each supervisor will have her/his own style depending upon the
momentary situation and the supervisees process. A general method,
however, might include first noticing a dreamland figure, bringing it into the
conversation, and waiting for positive feedback from your supervisee about
that figures presence. Once you have that response, you can go further and
explore this figure in any creative way that feels right for you and the
supervisee. You can think about the figure and what it might mean for the
supervisees learning. You can dialogue with this figure and even get up and
play it out in order to get to know it better. The process then will tell you
what direction is important. I will intersperse a few examples below.
Let me outline four methods for discovering dreamland figures. Lets call
them ghosts10 referring to figures that are in the air but not yet directly
represented in the interaction.
Notice Ghosts That Are Implied In What The Person Says
If you listen carefully to the content of what a supervisee says
during the feedback interaction, you can often discover ghosts
in what is implied in the persons statements.
For example, imagine that you are about to give feedback
to a supervisee and she or he says, I feel shy about my
work, did I do it wrong? In this case, the implied figure
is some critical character that is saying that the person
did something incorrectly.
References to third parties (who are not present) are also indications
of ghosts in the air. Imagine someone saying, Oh gosh, my colleague
so and so would have done that so much better than me. In this
case, the colleague is a third party, a ghost that can be brought into
the feedback session. This other person will surely have something
interesting to say!
Notice Ghosts in the Persons Behavior and Body Signals
You can also notice ghosts by watching a persons behavior and body
signals. For example, imagine that at the moment that feedback is
about to begin, the supervisee sits up very straight and clutches his
jaw as if ready to go to battle. What ghost might be present? Perhaps
it is a soldier who is ready and determined to meet any challenge!
As mentioned earlier, if the supervisees head sinks down into her
shoulders and she has a slight look of fear or anticipation on her face,
there is most likely some critic or critical parental
figure in the air.
If you are not sure what figure lies in the
supervisees signals you can simply ask what she or
he is experiencing. For example, imagine a woman

who sat up straight, raised her chin slightly, and had slight smile on
her face as our supervision began. When I asked her what these
signals were expressing, she said that she felt a sense of pride in her
work. In fact, she felt like superwoman!
Letting Yourself Dream About Figures In The Atmosphere
Another helpful method for discovering ghosts, particularly
for those who do not focus on signals and content but who
are more accustomed to, or enjoy, altered and shamanic
states is to shift into a slight foggy state of consciousness
and imagine dream figures in the atmosphere. This is one of
my favorite methods.
For example, in one of my supervision sessions, I
suddenly imagined a monkey sitting on the back of my
supervisee! I was really shy to say this but the
supervisee was eager to hear my nutty imagination.
When I told her, she said that she had dreamed
repeatedly of a monkey as a child. This monkey was capable of being
playful and taking it easy. When I asked her to imagine bringing more
of these monkey qualities into her work and her learning she was
delighted and felt that a heavy weight of seriousness lifted.
In another session, I imagined a jolly green giant in the atmosphere
who wanted to voice his opinion of support for the therapists work!
You never know what might arise!
If your imagination is not correct, let the person correct you or wait for
another image to arise.
Noticing Dreamland Figures From Your Own Feelings And Behavior
Another method for discovering ghosts is to become aware of your own
feelings and behavior and how those feelings indicate other figures that are
in the ethers of the learning atmosphere.
For example, I recall a supervision session in which the supervisee said
that he needed to learn many things and wanted me to give him very
direct feedback about his work. However, when the time came for me
to comment about his work, I hesitated to say anything negative to
him. As I studied my feelings, I realized that I felt protective and
wanted to care for the supervisee. I decided to meta-communicate
about my feelings (that is, talk about my experiences) to the
supervisee. I said to him, I know you want me to tell you my opinions
about your learning very directly and I would like to do that, but is
there something forbidding me from saying anything negative to you?
Is a mothering or a protective spirit in the atmosphere that wants to
keep off any potentially difficult information?
The supervisees insisted that he wanted to hear what I was thinking
but after I hesitated once again he insisted that he had had many

difficult experiences in the last days, and though he felt he needed a


tough learning situation in order to grow more fully, he actually felt
very raw and could hardly take anymore. He said that this forcefulness
had recently dominated his personal life and he recognized that he had
become a bit pushier while working with his clients than he was
comfortable with. He then realized that while he at times needed this
push in order to concentrate more fully, he would feel better if he
was a bit slower and more sentient in his daily life and in his work with
his clients. The man was quite content with the supervision. However,
after the session, I noticed that the sense of protectiveness remained
in me even hours later. Therefore, I needed to consider how I, from
time to time, also tend to push myself further than I am comfortable
with.
In another instance, I felt a bit ill at ease, as I was about to begin
giving some feedback to my supervisee. I went into a slight altered
state and noticed that if I were free, I would want to pull on the
persons legs and arms! My supervisee was very open and I told her
what I was experiencing. She asked me to literally pull slightly on her
arm and see what would happen. I did this and suddenly had the
feeling that I was pulling her out of a box that she needed freedom
from. Immediately she said that she felt imprisoned by all of the
shoulds concerning how she ought to work with her clients. The
demands on her made her feel very uptight and unfree. We then had a
fruitful discussion about how she could use the energy and essence of
the figure imprisoning her in a more useful way; to be more exact in
her work. At the same time, she experimented letting go of all
demands about what to do and having an empty mind to guide her in
her work. Paradoxically, letting go and having an empty mind gave her
even greater access to her skills and abilities.
Asking the Person about Dream Figures in the Atmosphere
Finally, if your dreaming eyes are not functioning well on a particular day, or
you are simply unsure of what figures are around, why not ask the
supervisee what he or she imagines? He or she may have surprising and very
helpful ideas about what dreamland figures presently inhabit the
atmosphere!
A Short Exercise
In order to practice dreaming and noticing figures in the
atmosphere why not try the following with a friend. Sit together
and ask your friend to talk about his learning or anything else on
his mind. Now, let yourself be in a slightly foggy, altered state of
consciousness and hear, notice, or imagine some figure in the atmosphere,
either from what your friend has said or done, from your own imagination, or
from your own experience. Notice feedback and when your imagination
receives positive feedback from your friend, simply discuss how this figure

(or its essence) might be a significant aspect of your friends process and
part of your own process as well.
Essence Feedback: A Basic Metaskill for all Dimensions
Giving feedback from the Essence level means that the supervisor connects
with her deepest self and allows feedback to flow from this inner feeling
about the supervisee. Sometimes I experience the
Big U as if it were carrying me and showing me
what to do and say to the other person.
The supervisor can give Essence feedback in a
given moment or as the basis for all feedback that
she conveys. As mentioned previously, all feedback
including CR and Dreamland feedback, is best given and received when it
comes from and is embedded in the supervisors Big U state. Therefore, it is
helpful if the supervisor is able to get in touch with her Big U at the
beginning of her or his supervision session.
There are many ways to get in contact with your deep essence. Here are a
couple of methods:
Relax And Remember The State Of Sleep
Relax and imagine that you sink into the state of sleep. From this deep
dreaming mind in yourself begin to speak and give feedback to your
supervisee.
Put Yourself in the Service of a Greater Mind
Imagine putting yourself in the service of a greater mind such as the earth,
the universe, the spirit, etc, depending upon what image and feeling is right
for you. Let go of yourself, feel yourself being moved by this greater mind,
and from this inner feeling begin to speak to the supervisee.
Discover the Big U in Your Body
Discover your Big U by asking yourself where the deepest part of you is
located in your body. Take time to feel it there in that part of your body.
When you are ready, still sensing this part of yourself, turn and find the
direction on earth or in your room that this feeling is drawn towards or is
most closely associated with.11 When you have found it, take a few steps
there, feel the meaning of that direction, and make a gesture that captures
the significance of that path. Now, ask yourself, what type of style this
feeling, direction, and meaning are recommending for you as a supervisor or
therapist. Imagine how you would act, how you would relate as a supervisor
with that style and feeling. Make a quick sketch of this gesture and put a few
words next to it to capture its meaning. If you can, take this paper with you
to your supervision sessions to remind you of this deep part of yourself.
When I asked myself recently about the deepest part of me, I sensed it in my
chest and the feeling went towards Kenya. As I walked in that direction, I

recalled the shamanic ceremony that Arny and I had participated in there.
The people were extremely loving and shamanic. As a supervisor I imagined
being very open and warmhearted about what I would say and at the same
time a bit unpredictable and dreamy, allowing my shamanic nature to
express itself through the realms of Dreamland and the Essence.
Here are a few examples of giving feedback from the Essence
In one situation, after giving CR and Dreamland feedback to a
supervisee, I sank further into my Big U and began to speak. I said
that while the therapist-in-training was struggling to learn various
things there was also something very earthy about him that would
never be altered or destroyed and that would be his greatest gift in his
work with others. The therapist felt that I had touched upon something
that he cherished about himself but rarely focused on, and that he
could use this earthy feeling more in conjunction with his skills.
In another situation, as I began to give feedback to a woman therapist
from my Big U, I felt myself becoming very quiet and respectful. I felt
there was something else I needed to say before I could speak about
her skills. I realized that she had a certain presence of heart that, from
my Big U perspective, needed to be honored and respected. The
woman said that she had always been aware of a big loving presence
inside of her. She meditated on this feeling for a moment and said that
contact with this feeling reconnected her with her initial reason for
becoming a therapist. She said she had lost contact with this side of
herself and that remembering it now gave her a deeper reason for
what she was doing and would support her overall growth and
learning.
In addition to the therapist being close to her Big U, it is very helpful if the
supervisee is able to be close to her Big U as well during the supervision
interaction. From the supervisees Essence state of mind, he will hear the
feedback perhaps in a new way (through the eyes and ears of her Big U),
may feel more fluid with the feedback situation, and will also be able to give
himself feedback from his deepest self.
A Few Tips For Doing 721 Feedback
The following is a basic 721 Feedback Exercise that you can practice with
friends, supervisees, colleagues, etc. Before describing the exercise, let me
mention a couple of helpful tips.
Follow The Momentary Process
Supervision is an interaction more than anything else. The supervisor says
something, the supervisee responds in some way, the supervisor notices
feedback, etc. The process has its own natural and organic method of
unfolding that involves the consciousness of all parties, though the supervisor
in this case ideally has more awareness and will use it to the benefit of the
supervises.

Therefore, the following exercise is meant as a strict linear process that must
be followed step by step. For example, in Part II, you might skip to
Dreamland feedback first due to a dream figure popping up strongly in the
moment. Then you might flow to CR feedback, or to the Essence, etc. The
whole process has to do with your ability to notice feedback, to interact with
the supervisee/therapist, and to flow with the various levels as they arise.
Ideally, the supervisor will address all levels but follow the momentary
process to determine what actually occurs. Most importantly, please use this
exercise to practice your fluidity as a supervisor.
State The Level You Are Speaking From
A rudimentary lesson for 721 Feedback is to notice and speak about the level
you are addressing in any given moment. For example, if you are giving
factual CR information that you are interested in the person learning, state
that you are speaking for the moment on the level of Consensus Reality. If
you drop into the Essence, state that as well. Make it clear that you are
shifting to one of the levels and will return to the others in due time.
Everyone In Every Position Learns And Teaches
The principle of nonlocality tells us that everyone is a teacher and everyone
is a learner. Therefore, one of the steps of the exercise asks the supervisor to
consider how the information that he or she is recommending to the therapist
are also true for him or herself as well. I also include one further step and
request that everyone in the triad give feedback to one another. The
therapist can give feedback to the supervisor, the client can give feedback to
therapist, etc. In my classes, many people seemed to enjoy this roundtable
style of learning.

More Notes about the Exercise


In the exercise one person will be the client, one is the therapist and one the
supervisor for approximately 40 minutes. If you have time, switch
and change roles two more times in order for everyone to have the
chance to be in all positions. Please be aware that this is a
supervision and training exercise. Therefore, the focus is placed
mainly upon the process of 721 feedback and less strongly on the
clients individual process. As a result, I have limited the time
designated to the work between the therapist
and client. However please feel free to adapt
the timing to your own needs.
721 Feedback Triad Exercise
I. Working Together and the Therapists Inner
Supervisor (20 minutes)
1. Everyone in the triad takes a few minutes to get in touch with her or
his Big U by using one of the methods mentioned above.
2. The therapist works with the client for 15 minutes on anything the
client would like to focus on.
3. After 15 minutes the therapist should recall her or his Big U, feel it and
become it a bit. Then, as this Big U inner teacher, the therapist should
take a few minutes to give her or himself advice/feedback about her or
his work with the client.
II. 721 Feedback (10 minutes)
1. The Supervisor now recalls and re-feels her Big U. From this feeling,
she or he should begin to give 721 Feedback to the therapist. (Please
also encourage the therapist to be in her or his Big U at the same time
if possible.) The supervisor should follow the process as best as
possible as to when and which of the following levels to speak about:
a. CR: Discuss skills, metaskills, etc. What was good and what
more could be learned?
b. Dreamland: Notice/use your imagination to sense a dream
figure in the atmosphere in the moment. Wait until you have
positive feedback from the therapist and then dialogue with or
role play this figure, and discover how its energy or essence is
useful in some way to the therapists learning.
c. Essence: Sink more fully into your Big U and let deeper
feedback flow out of you about the therapist.
III. Reflection: (10 minutes)
a. What was it like for you, the supervisor, to give 721 Feedback?
How fluid did you feel with the three levels? Did you stay in your
Big U? In what way is the feedback you gave the therapist true
for you as well?
b. What was it like for you, the therapist, to receive 721 Feedback?
What was most helpful to you?

c. If time, do further roundtable-style 721 feedback. That is, the


therapist can give feedback to the supervisor, the client can give
feedback to the therapist, etc.
A Multi-Dimensional Life
I hope that the above exercise and the information in this
short paper have given you a beginning sense of 721
Feedback. The concept of 721 teaches us that the
learning process has many levels, some of which are
often unseen. However, for a complete and rich
experience for all, it is important to bring the consensual
as well as the dreaming layers into dialogue. They are all
important, present, and influential in any learning situation.
The practice of 721 Feedback has freed me to use more parts of myself as a
supervisor and teacher, and I believe, to be of greater help to others. I have
the potential to be didactic and practical. I can use my dreaming nature to
discover the dreaming background behind interactions. And I can use my
deepest self in the service of others. As I engage in this whole process I am
both teacher and learner, weaving the practical and magical elements of selfdiscovery and learning together. At the same time I know that this learning
does not stop when I leave a supervision session but that all of these
dimensions are present in my life as a whole. Noticing how I fluidly move
between the various levels from moment to moment is central to my sense of
a fulfilling and creative life.
I hope that this short paper inspires you to explore these dimensions of
experience, to enrich the process of feedback, everyday life, and to update
and re-create education together!

360 Degree Feedback: The Powerful New Model for Employee Assessment and Performance Maintenance
by Mark R. Edwards and Ann J. Ewen, American Management Assoc., New York, 1996, p.25.
2
The term 360 feedback comes from the analogy to a compass: A circle with 360 points of reference used
to determine and monitor direction. 360 feedback provides performance data from multiple points of
reference, not just one. Like a compass, it is a navigational tool that more accurately tell when one is on or
off course. It can fill the gaps that invariably exist between how one sees himself and how others see him.
Its' purpose is, first, to gain deeper insight into how individual, and others, see the performance and, second,
to reinforce and accelerate the need for continuous development. From:
http://www.bnet.com/abstract.aspx?scid=1539&sortby=title&docid=72256
3
Edwards and Ewen, p.5.
4
See Arnys Leader as Martial Artist, HarperCollins, New York, 1992, pp.5-6, 154-155.
5
See my book, Metaskills: The Spiritual Art of Therapy, Lao Tse Press, Portland, OR, 2001.
6
See his Dreaming While Awake, Hampton Roads, Charlottesville, 2000, pp. 200-206.
7
Arnys speaks about parallel worlds in quantum physics; particularly Hugh Everetts many worlds
interpretation. See his Quantum Mind chapter 18 pp. 227-236 and my article Amys Hyperspaces:
Creativity, the Bird of Paradise, and the Doorway to Parallel Worlds on this website at
http://www.aamindell.net/research_frame.htm.
8
See his Dreaming While Awake, Hampton Roads, Charlottesville, 2000, p.47.
9
From our earlier research and from my classes on the interface between learning skills and personal style
we have discovered that if a person is unable to learn something over time, this usually indicates that there
is a gift behind the learning difficulty that is not yet recognized. Only when this gift is valued will it potentially
allow the blocked learning to occur. See my Alternative to Therapy, Newport, Oregon: 2002, pp. 314 - 315
for more on this.
10
See Arnys The Leader as Martial Artist p.36 and my Alternative to Therapy, Chapter 9, pp. 93-101 for
more on ghosts.
11
See Arnys upcoming book (to be published) Cosmic Path Walker: The Teachings of Don Juan, Richard
Feynman and Lao Tse in Shamanism, Physics, and Community for more on directional awareness.

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