The document is a reflection on the phenomenology of love by Mark Anthony Bryan O. Arimado. It discusses how love is often equated with things like respect, feelings, and preferences, rather than what love truly is. While love can be associated with many feelings, that does not mean those things are love itself. The author believes we love unconditionally when we find someone for no other reason than we simply love them. True love is accepting someone for who they are, including their flaws and weaknesses, without trying to change them or expecting anything in return, but rather loving them with our best unconditionally.
The document is a reflection on the phenomenology of love by Mark Anthony Bryan O. Arimado. It discusses how love is often equated with things like respect, feelings, and preferences, rather than what love truly is. While love can be associated with many feelings, that does not mean those things are love itself. The author believes we love unconditionally when we find someone for no other reason than we simply love them. True love is accepting someone for who they are, including their flaws and weaknesses, without trying to change them or expecting anything in return, but rather loving them with our best unconditionally.
The document is a reflection on the phenomenology of love by Mark Anthony Bryan O. Arimado. It discusses how love is often equated with things like respect, feelings, and preferences, rather than what love truly is. While love can be associated with many feelings, that does not mean those things are love itself. The author believes we love unconditionally when we find someone for no other reason than we simply love them. True love is accepting someone for who they are, including their flaws and weaknesses, without trying to change them or expecting anything in return, but rather loving them with our best unconditionally.
The document is a reflection on the phenomenology of love by Mark Anthony Bryan O. Arimado. It discusses how love is often equated with things like respect, feelings, and preferences, rather than what love truly is. While love can be associated with many feelings, that does not mean those things are love itself. The author believes we love unconditionally when we find someone for no other reason than we simply love them. True love is accepting someone for who they are, including their flaws and weaknesses, without trying to change them or expecting anything in return, but rather loving them with our best unconditionally.
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A REFLECTION ON THE PHENOMENOLOGY OF LOVE
By: Mark Anthony Bryan O. Arimado
Magical, unexplainable, weird feeling, butterflies in the stomach,
and forever these are some descriptions that we usually think when we hear the word LOVE, a word with just four letters but actually has a lot of impressions to each of us. Some equate love with many things existing in our world. Some bound to explain love when in the first they havent got the chance to find and experience it. But what does this word really mean? Is there really such thing as falling in love and falling out of love? Now, let me bring you my own reflection and perspective on what, how and when Phenomenology of Love actually comes in. It is according to Max Scheler that we usually equate love to what it is not. We equate to respect, benevolence, fellow-feeling, feeling-states, preference, and rejection of values, value apprehension and even judgment. It is really with mans human nature to mistake things to what they are not and had never been. Love can be associate it with many things that we experience and feel but that doesnt mean that it is love. But in the first place why do we really love? Is it because its in our nature being human to express love or is it because we love because its a requisite to be called totally human? For me, we love not because of any reason but because when we got the chance to find that someone we simply love him/her unconditionally. Loving is just loving something or someone. We dont necessarily love because for example we want to make him/her a better person. We do not necessarily love because that person is ought to be like this or like that. Love doesnt really have this kind of distinctions. When we are in love we should not find what is not in him/her. We should not seek and expect higher values and we should not desire to change our lover but what we should do is be open and accepting of whatever he/she has and who he/she really is, therefore, love is not really blind on that note. Loving is not loving when you just love because you share same interest, because youve done a lot of sacrifices for your lover,
because of your attachment to him/her, because your lover
reminds you of a past lover and because you think alike. It also in also in the phenomenon so-called love that we experience such heart breaks and heart aches but whats really wonderful is after all of those dark times, we learn how to let go, move on, have fun again and see yourself experience love all over again. Love doesnt cease to exist. It may change it form but wont really disappear. Genuine love is loving a person for all he/she is, with all the weaknesses and flaws he/she possess, without expecting anything in return, loving with all the best that you can, to love unconditionally at the end of the day.