PACS Course Notes
PACS Course Notes
PACS Course Notes
Some of you have brought to my attention that you are feeling overwhelmed by the amount of content on
the final exam. I will clarify some things that will make studying for PACS 202 more effective.
Tips
- focus your attention on the modules over the readings.
- Module 24 is a helpful guide to what will be on the exam
- Dont feel you need to know everything
- This exam is quite a bit of writing so pace yourself and be mindful of the time.
Kelly
Ex: I am a good person Good people dont yell I just yelled only 2 of these can be true at
once ( we cannot hold two contradicting ideas in our head at the same time, especially if they
carry significant weight)
Attribution Error: How we see ourselves different from how others see us in conflict
When we do well, we see it as a function of our basic behaviour
When we do poorly, we see it as if someone forced us to do it
When someone else does something poorly, we see them as a bad person
When someone else does something well, we see it as if they were forced to do it
To overcome the attribution error we must realize its existence, become aware of it, and then
change ourselves. Remember we cannot change the other person. This is a basic shift in
attitude towards curiosity, and asking oneself the hard questions while listening to others.
Seven stage model of conflict escalation:
Stage 1: Problem solving: Conflict is intense but remains on issue
Stage 2: Personal Antagonism: People shift focus onto the person not the problem
Stage 3: Proliferation of Issues: piling on issues- trust becomes threatened
Stage 4: Triangulating: people talk about, not with each other
Stage 5: Escalating Reactions: conflict increasingly destructive
Stage 6: Antagonism and Hostility: Risk of violence
Stage 7: Polarization: Original cause of conflict is forgotten, Relationship may not recover
Conflict de-escalation can cause a short period of depression as people stop being heated
about the issue.
Consequences of unhealthy conflict:
-Expensive
-Risk physical and mental health
-Affects others
-Sucks our energy
Effects of healthy conflict:
-more creativity
-better sense of self identification
-better when dealing with future problems
-brings people together
-clearer perspective
-more energy
-better solutions
Module 4: Communication
Traditional model: Source-->Encoding-->Channel-->Decoding-->Receiver-->Feedback
(here you have an idea, put that idea into code typically a language, express that code, receiver
hears that, decodes what you have said, and then responds)
The 4 Communication Models:
Encode-decode Model
Match between what is encoded and decoded (so know background information to make
actual sense of a sentence i may have said - I argued with my mom...do you know
what my moms personality is?)
Increase signal to noise ratio
Intentionalist Model
What does the speaker intend to say?
Decode, inquire, intent
Impossible to determine true intent without shared knowledge between both parties
Perspective Taking Model
To ensure clear communication you need to take into account the perspective from
which the other person sees the situation
Hard to validate any other perspective other than our own
Dialogic Model
Context matters
Communication is a joint accomplishment where we use mutual exploration of our
experiences of conflicts and shared understanding of these experiences (ex. conflicts
with mothers)
Communication is established through the context of the social relationship
this model steps away from the standard model; it should be our goal to move towards
this approach in conflict situations
Intent: Action: Effect
helps us understand a persons background story of why they feel/act in certain ways
Action is public to people within the conflict, however intent and effect are private and
can be kept to oneself.
Ex: Joke in an office offended an individual, the offended individual assumed the joke
teller was trying to hurt her feelings while the joke teller believed she was being
humerous.
Module 5: Conflict styles
conflict styles are patterned behaviours involving the expression of disagreement and
emotions and the intersection these two factors.
the core dimensions of a conflict are the following:
o patterns that reflect more direct or indirect approaches to communicating about
substantive disagreements
o patterns that reflect emotionally expressive or restrained approaches for
communicating how each party feels towards the other
Joharis Window:
o
developed as a tool to aid in self understanding and understanding of our
relationships with others
o
often used in work teams where participants given a list of adjectives that might
describe a person and uses them to describe themselves and other participants.
o
Compares what one thinks of themselves and what others think of them
you can build trust with others by disclosing information about yourself.
with the help of feedback from others, you can learn about yourself and
come to terms with personal issues.
o
four areas:
o
polarities: require us to live with both/and, which can be expressed as yes/no conflicts
o polarity conflicts are essentially about foundational values
o it is important to dig beneath the yes/no conflict to find the underlying polarity
distinguishing a polarity from a conflict
o a problem can be solved
o a conflict can be resolved
o a polarity can only be managed
Conflict Drivers
suggests that good conflict analysis determining the cause of the problem will help
you figure out how to focus your conflict resolution conversation. As you can see from
the diagram, the circle of conflict identifies six sources of conflict or six factors that drive
conflict forward
if there is agreement between the parties as to the drivers underlying their conflict, the
parties have a clear sense of what needs discussion. If they disagree on what drivers
are present, the first step is to explore the drivers. Again, this sets the framework for the
discussion
value conflicts: different criteria for evaluating the rightness or wrongness of their
behaviour
relationship conflicts: misperceptions or stereotypes of another may drive a conflict as
we impose a set of descriptions on each other that may have no bearing on reality; and
may be hidden behind the actions we take based on our misperceptions
moods and externals
data conflicts: people may have different views on what information is relevant or
different understandings of procedures
structure conflicts: unequal control, ownership, or distribution of resources, are aspects
of structure
o any situations of social unrest and see this aspect of structure lying behind the
unrest
interest conflicts
We often fall into the attribution error. Someone who is emotionally speaking can be
seen in a negative light, as aggressive or manipulative. Someone remaining completely
calm in a conflict can be seen as coldness or not caring about the situation.
Our emotions are shaped by many factors (personality, culture, family background etc.)
Conflict conversations increase our adrenaline, increasing the probability for us to lose
our cool and create a negative situation.
The Ladder of Inference (common thinking practice we go through) might be helpful in
analyzing what is happening for the student:
The student starts from the fact of the low mark on the paper (the observable data).
The student moves on to filtering out other data, such as the 90 the professor gave on
a previous assignment. (Select data)
The student makes assumptions - the professor thinks the student is not intelligent.
The student draws conclusions - the professor will never give a good recommendation.
The student adopts beliefs about the professor - the professor doesn't like the student;
the professor lets biases get in the way of helping students.
The student uses these beliefs to then take action
Emotional Intelligence: Being able to read and understand the emotions of yourself, and your
surroundings. Four components
1) Self awareness- Ability to identify the emotions of yourself
2) Self regulation- the ability to regulate my own emotions to surroundings
3) Social awareness- knowing what others are feeling
4) Social regulation- Be able to respond to the groups feelings and create improvement
Two Rules of Interpersonal Dialogue:
1. Your comments must seek to be kind, they must contribute a sense of goodness into the
room, and not add to the problem. In other words, you must protect the humanity of
the other.
2. Your comments must be honest. They must speak the truth as you know it. You must
protect your humanity.
Six steps for interpersonal conflict resolution
1) Prepare - what is going on here? Appropriate time to meet.
2) Open - speak purpose of your conversation
3) Hear - intent, action, effect / positions, interests
4) Understand - ask open ended questions to learn more
5) Solve
6) Close - ensure both parties agree and decide what to do if you revisit problem again
Module 14 (Negotiation)
Negotiation:
Most literature focuses on negotiation as an interest-based approach
Negotiation where the goal is simply to arrive at the price of an item for sale is power
based
Negotiation in which lawyers work to balance the rights of the parties involved becomes
a rights-based process
Negotiation is often experienced by the parties as power-based parenting split is
experienced as power over move by the other side
With the engagement of lawyers, the negotiation becomes right-based
Absence of trust contribute to the desire to balance power
Focusing on the rights of the parties, rights-based processes build on a system that
draws on the outside standards which both parties need to comply
Arbitration Weaknesses
Disputants are often less involved than mediation
One party wins, One party loses, often no compromise.
If the arbitrator's award is unfair or illogical, a consumer may well be stuck with it and
barred forever from airing the underlying claim in court.
Does not care about relationships, just the outcome.
Better chance to preserve a commercial relationship
Usually faster, cheaper, more efficient
Binding decision with less hassle
Private not public forum
Each case decided on own merits
Module 18: Hybrids
Types of Hybrids
1. Mediation/Arbitration- the parties agree to mediate first, but they also agree up front
that if no mediated settlement is possible then they will shift to arbitration. Strength: A
decision will eventually be reached. Weakness: If a new arbitrator has to come in, they
have to be sped up on what was missed, which takes time.
2. Collaborative Law- Collaborative law brings together the parties and their lawyers
together for a series of conversations to resolve the conflict. Lower cost than going to
trial, the disputants are the negotiators making it easier to restore relationships.
3. Ombudsperson- An ombudsperson is an independent neutral officer within a large
organization. Their role is to investigate complaints regarding the functioning of the
organization; to look at both sides, and to secure redress if the complaint is justified.
4. Partnering- Partnering is a long-term commitment between two or more organizations
for the purpose of achieving a specific business objective. It attempts to reorient the
parties from a them and us mentality to a we approach.
5. Moderated Settlement Conference-The disputants present case to a panel of three
neutrals who give a non-binding opinion. This approach uses three people, as this
carries more weight than a single person
Arbitration
present proofs
arguments
arguments
power by society
binding decision
binding decision
date set for trial. for lesser crimes, trial before judge; for more serious crimes, trial
before judge and jury
o in jury trial, jury limited to determining guilt. if find guilty, then process moves to
sentencing.
o throughout process, accused can at any time enter guilty plea and then process
would enter sentencing
o throughout process, accused is entitled to presumption of innocence.
basically: what laws have been broken? (criminal law), Are they guilty and who did it?
(blame), what sentence is appropriate? (punishment)
victim not connected to the decision making system - done through lawyer and judge.
Summary of the Philosophies of Criminal Justice:
o
Philosophy
Principles
Retribution
13th century
judeo-christian
idea of blood atonement
Utilitarian
Rehabilitation
behaviour sciences
19th century
neo-classical economics
political libertarianism
mid to late 20th century
communitarian
return to ancient wisdom
ancient-future
Restitution
Restoration
answers
restitution
set of needs created by these experiences:
o
o
Key Principles
Full participation and consensus
o Participation is voluntary
o Decisions based on consensus
o Community members involved
Healing What has been broken
Mediators need to be constantly vigilant regarding their behaviour to ensure that they
dont unthinkingly direct the parties in the mediators preferred direction
o Mediator is a mediator not an arbitrator and so they shouldnt make
recommendations even at the parties request
Definitions of Conflict Peace & violence: Keep the definitions in mind, understanding of
the way parties are engaging in conflict
Stages, levels of conflict & conflict resolution: where are the parties on the escalation
scale knowing the levels guides your interaction as a mediator
Circle of Conflict/drivers: having a sense of the drives at play will enable you to tailor
your responses
System Analysis: homeostasis - how is the system resisting change or resolution. The
symptom bearer- who is the person that seems to the problem, are they really the
problem? Emotional triangles - whos triangled in, if you step in how you function, self
differentiation
Conflict Styles: what styles are people using how is that helping or hindering resolution
Positions & interests: do an analysis of positions & interests, how can you use that
analysis to help people function differently with each other
Rights, Interests & Power Analysis: how is rights, interests & power analysis present &
shaping the conflict, how can you use them to help people find resolution - which one
should get the most focus
After looking over all this^ think about which approach is best: interpersonal dialogue,
negotiation, hybrids, arbitration, adjudication
Then Consider what would lead to restoration: forgiveness, apology and
retribution/restorative justice