Genogram Instructions.306150702 PDF

Genogram Worksheet
Barry Litt, MFT barrylittmft.com

EMDRIA Approved Consultant
I. Genogram History-Taking Questions

Preparation: Use graph paper and begin in the upper left corner
Questions:
1. Beginning with your Mothers Mother: what is/was her name? Deceased and
cause or Age? Ethnicity?
2. What was your Mothers Fathers name? Deceased or Age? Ethnicity?
3. Were your Mothers parents married to each other? Were either of them ever
divorced, separated, remarried, or have children outside the marriage? If so,
who, how many, etc.
4. How many children did your Mothers parents have together?
5. Your Mother was what number in the birth order? (Draw Mothers circle lower
than the rank of her sibs, to distinguish her visually from the rest. Identify her
sibs only if it seems useful at the time.)
6. In your Mothers lifetime, how many times has she been married? And children
by how many men? (List all husbands and men with whom she became pregnant.)
7. What is/was your fathers name? Age or year and cause of death?
8. Begin fathers family history as with questions 16 above.
9. In your parents lifetimes, were they ever divorced, separated, remarried, or have
children outside the marriage? If so, who, what ages, etc.
10. How many pregnancies did your parents have with each other? Include
miscarriages, stillbirths and/or abortions. (As before, draw the clients circle or
square at a lower rank than the sibs to distinguish it).
11. In your lifetime, how many partners have you either lived with, married, or had
pregnancies with? (List these chronologically.)
12. Establish custody and household membership of each child. Document marital or
cohabitation partners for each child, and any offspring they may have (i.e.,
grandchildren).
Genogram Worksheet 2
II. Risk Factors

Preparation: Draw a 5 X 3 grid on the paper to indicate yes or no to the following:
1. Of everybody in the family that you have named, who does or did abuse drugs
and or alcohol, including prescription medication? (Indicate on genogram)
2. Have you yourself ever had a problem with drugs and/or alcohol or medications?
(If yes, then document details)
3. Repeat questions 1&2 for Psychiatric illness, depression, anxiety, nervous
breakdowns, bad nerves, or suicide attempts.
4. Repeat questions 1&2 for Physical abuse, or corporal punishment that would be
considered excessive by todays standards?
5. Repeat questions 1&2 for Sexual abuse, or inappropriate sexual behavior,
touching, or fondling.
6. Repeat questions 1&2 for Emotional or verbal abuse, name calling or threats?
III. Relationship Assessment

Preparation: Use a red pen to indicate pathology, a blue or black pen to document
data.
1. How would you describe your parents marriage? (Document the quote, then ask
for elaboration)
2. What did your parents do to be helpful to one another?
3. Did your parents show affection? To each other? The kids?
4. How did your parents settle their differences? (Ascertain the tactics and defenses
used)
5. Did one or the other parent seem to have more say in decisions?
6. Did your parents have traditional gender roles?
7. Did either of your parents confide in you or one of your sibs about grievances
with the other parent?
8. Did you ever feel you had to take sides with one parent over the other?
9. Which parent are you most like? With whom are/were you closer?
10. What did each parent do for you? How did they take care of you? What did they
discuss, counsel or teach you?
11. How do things go now between you and your Mom? Dad? Who initiates contact?
12. What do you do to be helpful to your Mom? Dad?
13. Is your Mom/Dad pleased with you? How do you know? What do you do to
please him/her?
14. Are you able to say no to your parents? When have you? What does it cost
you?
15. Are you worried about your Mom/Dad? If so, why? What do you do with that?
16. Who is the favorite child of each parent? Are any of the sibs black sheep?
17. How do you get along with your sibs now and during childhood? How were
conflicts managed? What role did parents play in sib relationships?
18. What role do you play in your family?
19. What would you like to see change in your family? In your conduct with family
members?

Genogram Worksheet 3
III. Relationship Assessment, Continued.

(Relationship with children of adult clients)
20. Establish the names, genders, ages, and custody status of each child
For each child in turn:
21. Was this child planned? Was this child wanted?
22. Were there any complications around the pregnancy or delivery?
23. What challenges did you face in raising this child?
24. Who contributed to raising this child?
25. What concerns do you have for this child?
26. What role does this child seem to play in the family?
27. Who is this child most like?
28. What does this child do to show care or loyalty to you? To the family?
29. Does this child know you are seeking help in therapy? What has this child been
told?
In the event of divorce or separation:
30. How does this child understand the reasons for the divorce/separation?
31. Who told the child what about this event?
32. Is this child expected to hold any secret information? From whom?
33. Who was/is available to this child to help cope with the event?
34. Does this child seem to take sides? Is the child expected to take sides?
In the event of a parents death or illness:
35. How old was this child when the parent died/became ill?
36. How does this child understand the cause/circumstances of the event?
37. Who told the child what about the event?
38. Who is emotionally available to this child about this?
39. Has the child taken part in the funeral/ill parents care?
40. How has this child been affected by this?


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Genogram Worksheet

Barry Litt, MFT barrylittmft.com

I. Genogram History-Taking Questions

II. Risk Factors

III. Relationship Assessment

Barry Litt, MFT barrylittmft.com

III. Relationship Assessment, Continued.

Barry Litt, MFT barrylittmft.com

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