Bridge The Gap by Bob Doyle PDF
Bridge The Gap by Bob Doyle PDF
Bridge The Gap by Bob Doyle PDF
BRIDGE THE
ABUNDANCE GAP
IN YOUR LIFE
HOW TO CONFIDENTLY STEP INTO YOUR
DREAM LIFE IN 3 SIMPLE STEPS
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CONTENTS
INTRODUCTION 4
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INTRODUCTION
If someone had told me back in 2003 that I was going to be living a life of such
abundance, excitement and satisfaction, I would have found it almost impossible to
imagine.
I thought that such profound happiness was for other people - luckier people.
If youre like I was then, you know how miserable it is to be aware that every day
you stay stuck is another wasted day you cant get back.
However, I discovered how to bridge the abundance gap between my old life and
my dream future, stepping into a wonderfully fun, debt-free and secure existence.
I live my dream every single day now, teaching students all over the world about
my unique approach to the Law of Attraction.
The truth is that most of the things that people teach about manifestation are
wrong. If youve been taught that you can manifest things out of thin air, no
wonder youre frustrated!
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This approach gives you the sense that you should give up the minute something
unexpected happens, or you face a setback. In fact, you have to empty your cup
before you can fill ityou cant create a positive life outside if youre broken on
the inside.
So its not your fault if the Law of Attraction hasnt worked for you, and your past
struggles dont mean the Law of Attraction cant work for you now.
Believe it or not, my transformation only took three years - and I had nobody to
show me the way!
There are plenty of other people out there who, like me, simply refuse to settle for
less than the life they truly want.
You have the same connection to the universe that we have, and you can achieve
just as much - if not more.
Even if youre not as deeply unhappy as I used to be, perhaps you just have this
nagging sense that life isnt all it could be.
If you find yourself asking Is this really all there is? then now is the perfect time
to learn new skills that take you beyond that flat, dull feeling - for good.
Throughout this book and the associated masterclass, Im going to show you how
to bridge the gap between where you are now and your dream life.
You can get away from that uncomfortable underlying sense of dissatisfaction, and
move past whatever is holding you back from the abundant life you know you
deserve.
And you can do this without putting blind faith in anything mysterious or
implausible. For example, you dont need to pretend to be positive! Youll simply
become naturally happy, and start living your true purpose.
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Reflecting on my personal success and on the journeys of those Ive taught, Ive
discovered there are three basic steps standing between most people and the life of
their dreams.
In each section, youll learn the basic reasons why parts 1-3 are necessary, and
what types of activities can facilitate your exciting transformation along the way:
Each section contains unique action steps, and reading through all of these stages is
vital if youre going to get a sense of how to become the best version of yourself.
However, youll get the best results by combining this book with the forthcoming
masterclass, which will deepen your understanding and help you to see how you
can begin creating amazing results almost immediately.
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I decided to put on this masterclass so that I could teach you simple yet powerful
exercises associated with all three steps mentioned above - theres even a free
downloadable PDF workbook you can use so that you start seeing tangible results
during the class.
In just a few short hours, you can begin the process of transforming your life into
the exciting and rewarding experience you deserve.
So, as youre reading this now, I believe youre done giving up and are ready to tap
into your real power.
Make the commitment now to read this entire book. It wont take long (I promise).
You can easily read the entire book in one sitting (I set out to write it this way on
purpose).
Go grab a tea or coffee and get yourself comfortable before you begin!
Ready?
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This is the first vital step to creating the life youve always wanted. The early
stages of bridging the abundance gap between you and your dream life are all
about transforming into the type of person who can attract and receive.
Before you start trying to build the bridge that takes you from your old, dreary life
to the future youve somehow always known you can have, we need to pause for a
moment to look at something that makes the whole process much easier.
Specifically, I want you to stop thinking that you can only manifest the life you
want if youre capable of being entirely positive 100% of the time.
Sure, being in a great emotional place certainly helps you to get what you want,
but that doesnt mean you should plaster a big fake smile onto your face and live in
secret terror of becoming negative.
So many Law of Attraction programs teach that negative feelings are the enemy,
and that you should act like you have positive emotions until you magically
become a positive person.
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Only people who perpetually live in that miserable state need to worry about
attracting the kinds of things they dont want.
In truth, you can learn so much from negative emotions - theyre seldom what they
seem, and instead are often helpful signs from the universe that can be interpreted
and used to your advantage. And once you learn how to use them to your
advantage, youll immediately see how this skill gets the kind of results that propel
you towards greatness.
The key message I want you to take forward on your journey is that you dont need
to be afraid of any seemingly negative feelings that crop up in you. They can all
be tapped into and used as raw materials to build your dream life.
Lets move on from the idea of negative emotions as a power source for now - but
know that if the idea has sparked your curiosity, you can really deepen your
understanding of this phenomenon in my free to attend masterclass.
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Part of starting with a blank slate also involves developing a realistic conception of
the Law of Attraction - a conception grounded in science.
As I always say, you dont need to have blind faith in order to manifest the things
you want.
Instead, you just need to learn about manifestation in the same way as youd learn
about anything else in the world (like gravity).
You dont even need to believe in the Law of Attraction for it to affect you, as its
just like every other force of nature - its there whether you want it to be or not!
However, having the science under your belt can start to make the whole idea just
seem so much clearer.
There are old-fashioned, close-minded people who refuse to engage with the hard
science behind the Law of Attraction because it would mean giving up a life of
work spent believing in the wrong things. However, more dynamic young
researchers are constantly uncovering new data that supports what we already
know - that everything about the Law of Attraction can be explained with
reference to quantum physics.
Essentially, your emotions send out a signal, and this energy is what communicates
with the universe, changing and shaping the world around you.
If you can keep these simple facts in mind, youll create a massive shift in your
thinking - specifically, youll stop having mental blocks caused by doubts in the
Law of Attractions efficacy.
But if this basic outline isnt enough for you and youre keen to get a really
in-depth sense of the fascinating science that underpins attraction and
manifestation, you can dive into the Masterclass and discover the answers to your
burning questions about the links between emotions, beliefs and quantum physics.
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If you think back to some of your most traumatic or difficult life experiences,
youll probably notice that you tried to find r easons why these things happened to
you.
This is a natural human compulsion, as justifying terrible things can help you to
find emotional closure - its a lot easier to try and make logical sense of a bad
event than it is to accept the fact that you attracted something awful into your life.
However, these seemingly helpful meanings youve made are actually deeply
problematic parts of your belief system - and you have to clean your emotional
slate if youre going to have appropriate control of the life you create.
My own belief system used to be extremely messy, but my ego stopped me from
accepting the truth of my situation - the idea of enduring another failure was so
frightening that I let my career and family situation spiral out of control.
Everything changed when I realized that I didnt have to interpret life events in just
one way. For example, why couldnt losing my job mean a new opportunity rather
than the end of my chances for success? I was making my job loss mean that I
failed as a human, but I could choose to let it mean I was now able to finally create
something truly fulfilling for myself.
Consider this: every belief you have was given to you by someone else at some
point in your life. Even the negative assumptions and cycles that drag you down
are really just messages handed to you by some other person. But its hard to get
rid of these automatic assumptions about meaning!
The way that you get rid of them is by properly processing them - and the way you
do that is by getting past your egos defence mechanisms.
You can think of your ego as the mental construct that youve built to define who
you are and how you live. It actively benefits from keeping you stuck and by
keeping your pain alive.
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Here are some of the major reasons why people come up with endless reasons not
to do something:
You can adopt a victim mentality that attracts attention and sympathy
You can treat your body badly (e.g. with unhealthy drinking or eating
habits) in the name of coping with stress
You get to be right that theres nothing more to life for you - and this
keeps you in the safety of your comfort zone.
Being positive can actually be deeply uncomfortable! Its new, and it can feel
risky!
You will have your own unique reason for staying stuck - and you need to find out
what it is if youre going to successfully move through step 1 and clean your
emotional slate in preparation for your dream life.
Already, you should have a better sense of the kinds of things that have been
holding you back from being your most fulfilled self, and that can be a real
wake-up call.
However, you probably still have an unsettling feeling that theres more to the
story, hiding in your subconscious.
And youre right - the ego is a powerful thing that generates enormous amounts of
resistance to change, and you often need to use clever little tricks to uncover its
real intentions in order to overcome them and reprogram your mind.
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In the masterclass, part of what youll do in order to start your process with a
suitably blank slate is to perform an ego audit. This is an amazing exercise that
hardly takes any time at all, and Ive designed this to produce results that youll
use all the way through the class (and beyond!).
You can have everything you want in life, especially once you see the ego for what
it really is.
When youre trying to work out what the idea of the gap really represents for
you, a blank slate approach is equally important. This is because people are often
wildly off base about what their gap is, and assume its something its not.
Alternatively, you might think that only one thing is filling up your personal gap
(such as a lack of money), and yet when you clear your mind of this assumption
you may discover that there are several significant factors creating your particular
gap.
So, if you just go ahead and try to close your gap without being very careful about
this intricate process of self-discovery, you can end up trying to work on the wrong
areas of your life or working on some of the right ones to the exclusion of others.
You might still be wondering if youve correctly identified your gap, or you might
be asking if youve managed to pick up all the relevant factors.
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Well explore how to identify your gap in much more depth in the masterclass, in
order to make sure that youre really working on the right things.
For now, at least you have a more concrete idea of what your gap might be - which
means youre one major step closer to closing it.
Weve already looked at how its important to acknowledge and accept negative
feelings when working with the Law of Attraction, rather than trying to pretend
they dont exist.
By allowing yourself to feel all your emotions to the fullest extent, you can
eventually release the negative ones - and this stops you from staying stuck in life
in the longer term.
You probably have some good ideas about how to get rid of anger, sadness or fear
thats keeping you trapped, and those will certainly set you on the path to cleaning
your slate and building your ideal life.
However, there are also scientifically grounded approaches to this process, and
theyre probably better than anything youve tried before!
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Once you have an emotional releasing technique under your belt, its not only
useful when youre going through stage 1 of bridging the gap - rather, its
something that will always be useful to you, and that you can deploy whenever life
gets challenging or you find yourself struggling to maintain the energy behind your
manifestation intentions.
There are three approaches I particularly like, so I make them a core part of my
teaching programs:
The Sedona Method: The Sedona Method overlaps with EFT in some
ways, but its more discrete (i.e. can be utilized without tapping or
touching). Its amazing at getting rid of natural beliefs, and its something
you can do anywhere!
I explain these approaches (and when theyre most useful) in the masterclass, so
keep them in mind - theyll likely be the key to getting rid of troublesome negative
emotions that are cluttering up your mind, and so you can use them to ensure it
takes less time to bridge the abundance gap between you and your dreams.
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Heres where you are: you know why cleaning your slate is necessary, and you
know something about how to do it.
Firstly, youve begun to see that you need to drop your old assumptions about what
you want, because your ego can hold you back from seeing what you really need
from the world.
Youve realized that you cant create what you want in the world if youre still
stuck in the past or drowning in unprocessed negative feelings.
Meanwhile, youve also started looking at techniques that help you stop being
stuck in the past, so you can look to the future with clear eyes.
The person youre becoming is a person who can have what they want - and thats
the first step towards attracting what you want. Now, lets take a closer look at the
idea of discovering your life purpose - in other words, becoming the kind of person
who has found their why and knows what it means to live that why.
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If youre at all like I used to be, you place a high premium on what you do.
However, while what you do does of course matter, its nowhere near as important
as why you do it. If youre going to bridge the gap and step into your dream life,
your actions need to come from a place of inspiration, not obligation or (worse)
desperation.
You absolutely need to be inspired if youre going to turn your goals into
reality.
But how do you get into this inspired state in a consistent way? You need to
become tuned into your most authentic desires.
To prepare you for that bigger step, there are some thought-provoking smaller
exercises you can do. For example, here are some core questions to consider as you
work towards finding your lifes why.
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Thinking about those questions, youll have distilled your desires in a way that
causes a few key themes and concepts to emerge.
This is the perfect platform that will help you get the best results when using my
True Vision Blueprint technique.
I cant emphasise enough just how important it is for you to get a clearer vision of
what inspires you - if theres one thing that makes the difference between
manifestation success and failure, its probably the elusive and empowering feeling
of pure inspiration.
Your ego will try to block you, itll try to tell you that you cant have what you
really want, and itll spark feelings like fear and despondency - even when youre
looking straight at the thing that should be your life goal!
But if you refer back to what youve learned about combatting the ego, you can
quiet that critical inner voice and access an endless flow of inspired thinking.
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The next stage of aligning your why will involve finding a role model - or, as I like
to call it, a success twin!
Im sure youve already considered the idea of modelling at some point, i.e. the
process of trying to replicate another persons achievements or way of being by
emulating their behavior.
Its a great way to learn all sorts of skills and undergo some significant personal
growth.
However, you may have been looking in the wrong places for your success twin in
the past - as with dreams, identified blocks and sources of inspiration, we
sometimes overestimate the power of certain things in our lives which completely
underestimate other factors in our existence.
Before you do, my masterclass exercise on finding a success twin, helps to become
acquainted with the types of traits youre drawn to - whether its obvious or not,
these traits will have an intimate connection to the kind of life you want to lead.
Your success twin will probably exhibit a lot of the traits that just came to you in
the action step above, but youll pin down a more exact formulation later on.
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The point to reflect on right now is that once you find the right success twin for
your personal goals, youll feel not only a sense of kinship with this person but
also an intense conviction that it is possible for you to achieve your dream life.
Just as looking at the science behind the Law of Attraction helps to make
manifestation a concrete idea and get rid of doubts driven by lack of clarity,
finding a success twin makes the notion of a dream life concrete and gets rid of any
doubts driven by a nagging sense of intangibility.
Ill help you see and define your most powerful self, and that will illuminate the
kind of success twin you need to model in order to bridge the gap thats currently
keeping you stuck in life.
Aligning your why is an engaging and complex process that you can only really
delve into with a longer discussion of the subject, but you now at least feel like
youve scratched the surface of the idea and started to see how you can empower
yourself to become the type of person youve always wanted to be.
For one thing, youve thought about how important it is to feel pure passion for
what you do, and looked at how you might begin to inspire yourself in a reliable,
consistent way that promotes well-being and confidence.
Youve also considered what really matters to you in life, stripping away the
extraneous things that your ego throws up as distractions from your real purpose.
In addition, youve just been introduced to the concept of success twinning and
distinguished the idea of modelling a behavior from modeling traits.
With a clearer idea of how you want to be seen and remembered as contributing to
the world, you can now move on to reading about the framework of the third step
required to build a bridge to your ideal life - and thats unlocking your dreams.
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The majority of people bury their dreams or lock them away, often during the
transition from childhood to adulthood (when we tend to be taught that we cant
really do anything and that we should settle for a life that is merely okay).
The great news is that you dont have to be like most people. Instead, you can be
like that rare group of people who are truly satisfied, fulfilled and doing amazing
things for the world while feeling excited and alive.
Through my many years of learning and teaching, its become abundantly clear to
me that everyone has something special to offer - something utterly unique that can
only ever be your gift.
But the trick is to find out what that is, and then make it the foundation of your
future action.
Identifying, understanding and working with this gift will be what ultimately
bridges your identified gap and transforms your dreams into reality.
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Its common for parts of your subconscious (like that pesky ego we talked about)
to stand in your way and do everything possible to divert your attention away from
your gift.
These are all the sorts of blockages that can be minimized or even obliterated by
the slate-cleaning process I describe in Step I (and expound on in the masterclass).
By working hard to clear the way for self-knowledge and appropriate confidence,
you open your mind to receive the truth about your innate gifts.
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This contemplative exercise paves the way for precisely defining and
understanding your dream using the masterclass techniques I developed from my
own journey towards personal fulfilment.
I call these techniques the Unlimited Value Generator and the Abundant Self
Makeover - theyre two of my favorite ways of empowering others to grow into
their best selves. And theyll help you not only get an objective perspective on
your skills and talents but also show you how you can permanently become the
vision of yourself that you see when you imagine a joyful, abundant life.
Ill also teach you my 30% rule, which proves that you can take definitive,
concrete steps today - you dont need to keep waiting for perfect circumstances!
You already are who you need to be, and the 30% rule is your key to realizing
this and building an unstoppable action plan.
Youll find that unlocking your dreams is so much more about what you can give
than it is about what you can get - yet by giving in this way, you also end up
ultimately receiving more than you ever had before.
We are all born with a natural faculty of intuition, but - like your dreams - its
easily distorted and ignored over the years.
Like that negative voice in your head (the inner critic), your intuition whispers
things about what you want and need, and tries to draw you towards whats good
for you while pointing you away from whats bad.
Do you feel out of sync with your intuition, or doubt that you even have reliable
gut feelings that you can trust?
I can assure you that there are concrete examples in your past that prove you have
a rich intuitive grasp of the world - it might just be a little rusty right now!
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As you can see, your intuition is potent, and its there to reconnect with and to
develop. I used to doubt mine too, working a job I just hated and feeling like I
could never make the right calls in life.
Your intuition is your connection to the universe, and it is this gift that will help
you find new opportunities and make exactly the right choices to fulfill your
dreams and goals at the fastest pace.
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Unlocking your dreams is all about two major things: learning more about your
unique gift to the world, and strengthening your faculty of intuition so that youre
constantly being led in the direction that best suits your lifes purpose.
Ive encouraged you to start thinking about the things that set you apart from
others around you, which will bring your personal power - and therefore your true
dreams - into an increasingly sharper perspective.
Meanwhile, Ive pointed out that although the gut feelings that come from your
intuition dont feel logical or sensible, they have a proven track record of
promoting success, and you can use them as an incredible power source for
transforming your reality.
As you can now see, the three steps involved in manifesting your dream life are
really all about getting to know yourself on a newly deep level, clearing out old
mental clutter that no longer serves your purpose, and becoming the kind of person
who trusts the universe, finds solutions quickly, seizes opportunities and acts with
confidence.
As you work through these stages and use all of the new techniques in your
arsenal, your life before you bridged the abundance gap will slowly start to seem
like an old nightmare - youll step into a new life of purpose and abundance, and it
will feel like this is where you have always belonged.
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Now that you know the basics of my unique approach to manifesting the life of
your dreams, I want to invite you to attend my free masterclass and learn the
advanced skills you need to get the very best out of every day!
This webinar is absolutely free - all you need is a pen, a printed copy of the PDF
workbook (available to download after registering).
And yes - its not a quick one, I suggest setting aside 90 minutes to two hours
because its an actual class and there is a lot of powerful information to cover.
Ive been teaching this information for well over a decade now and heres a taste
of what people are saying.
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In addition to doing a range of practical exercises and covering all the expert skills
I laid the groundwork for developing as you read through this book, youll learn:
The details of the latest scientific research that explains how manifestation
actually works. Learning about the simple physics behind the Law of
Attraction removes the need for blind faith, and removes internal blocks.
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Techniques to identify and replace limiting beliefs once and for all,
allowing you to program your life so you can become happier, more
compassionate and inspired - in short, the very best version of yourself!
How to permanently get rid of negative emotions like anger, guilt, shame
and regret. These wont be buried, but instead released so that you can go
after your dreams without anything holding you back.
Ways to access creative inspiration, no matter where you are or how long
youve been feeling low.
If youve been living with a nagging voice that tells you theres more out there and
your potential isnt yet met, then this masterclass is what youve been waiting for.
Just like this book, its designed with the idea of starting with a clean slate in mind
- so if you have old wounds that need healing and youre desperately in need of
inner harmony, now is the ideal time to find that peace you crave.
If you havent signed up for the masterclass yet, just go here to get all the details
you need and secure your spot on the list.
I cant wait to see you there, and continue this training to help you bridge the
abundance gap to your dreams!
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