Booklet On Child Sexual Abuse - Prevention & Response
Booklet On Child Sexual Abuse - Prevention & Response
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Child sexual abuse:
Prevention and response
Preface
The UN Convention on the Rights of the Child (UN CRC), ratified by India in 1992, urges States
to ensure the right of children to protection from abuse, violence, neglect and exploitation.
Available data on child sexual abuse is often not reflecting the real magnitude of the
phenomenon due the taboo and culture of silence around it and the difficulties to research
the subject. Yet, the 2007 Ministry of Women and Child Development Study and other micro-
studies suggests child sexual abuse is an alarming reality in India.
India has recently adopted The Protection of Children from Sexual Offences Act (POSCO),
2012. This is the first comprehensive law on sexual abuse which expands the scope and range
of forms of sexual offences, makes reporting of abuse mandatory and defines guidelines for
child friendly police and procedures. Together with the Juvenile Justice Act, POCSO has
created an opportunity to ensure greater protection to children that have suffered abuse.
Doctors and health care professionals are often the first point of contact with abused children
and their families. They play a keyin detecting abuse and providing immediate and longer
term care and support to children and their families.
The present booklet provides an overview of child sexual abuse prevention, detection and
management of abuse from a legal, medical and mental health angle. It aims to serve as a
guide to ensure a prompt and adequate response to victims of child sexual abuse, not only
for physicians, but all also for allied professionals. It can be used both as a compendium of
information as well as a resource manual for training.
The booklethas been developed through the contributions of a group of experts and
professionals whom IMA and UNICEF would like to thank: Ms. Vidya Reddy; Dr. Jagadeesh
N. Reddy; Dr. Rajesh Sagar; Ms. Hamsa Vijayaraghavan; Dr. Rajeev Seth and Dr. Anandi Lal.
The IMA and UNICEF pledge to exert every future effort in collectively implementingthe
principles of protecting UN child rights, prevention and management of child sexual abuse
in all settings in India.
Louis-Georges Arsenault
Representative, UNICEF India
Introduction
India is home to the largest child population in the world, with almost 41 per cent of the
total population under eighteen years of age1. Needless to say, the health and security of
the countrys children is integral to any vision for its progress and development. However,
there has been a steady increase in sexual crimes against children, and according to a study
conducted by the Ministry of Women and Child Development in 2007, over half of the children
surveyed reported having faced some form of sexual abuse2.
Doctors, nurses, and other health sector professionals are important stakeholders in the
prevention and response to sexual violence against children. According to the Adverse
Childhood Experiences (ACE) Study, a major American research project examining the effects
of adverse childhood experiences on adult health and well-being, a powerful relationship
has been established between emotional experiences during childhood and physical and
mental health during adulthood 3 . Sexual abuse is an extremely traumatic experience that
can affect the body as well as the mind, and the reaction of the body and the mind to
such an occurrence could leave a lasting impact on the health conditions for any person at
any age. Studies have consistently demonstrated that sexual abuse suffered in childhood
is associated with a broad range of behavioral, psychological and physical problems that
persist into adulthood; these include anxiety, depression, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder
(PTSD), self-destructive behavior, dissociation, substance abuse, sexual maladjustment, and
a tendency towards revictimization in subsequent relationships 4 . Adult survivors of childhood
physical, emotional, or sexual abuse are not only at increased risk for depression and other
mental health disorders, but new evidence suggests they are increasingly more likely to
suffer from heart disease, obesity, and other potentially fatal physical conditions. Thus, it is
imperative that the right kind of intervention and opportunity for recovery be provided at the
right time. This is why the role of the health sector is such an important one.
This booklet provides a brief overview on child sexual abuse (CSA). It offers key information
to health professionals (doctors, nurses and mental health professionals) on how to prevent,
detect and respond to abuse. It provides insights on the Indian law for the protection for
child victims and specifies the role for the medical sector. Finally, it gives inputs to health
professionals on how to manage cases of child sexual abuse. A bibliography is available for
further reading.
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National Cen sus 2001.
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Ministry of Women and Child Development, Study on Child Abuse
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http://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/acestudy/
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Browne, & Finkelhor, 1986; Roesler & McKenzie, 1994
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As defined by the Act, sexual offences include penetrative sexual assault (Section 3),
sexual assault (i.e., non-penetrative) (Section 7), sexual harassment (Section 11), and
use of a child for pornography (Section 13).
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1999 WHO Consultation on Child Abuse Prevention, quoted in WHO Guidelines for Medico-Legal Care of Victims of Child
Sexual Violence, Chapter 7
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Findings on the prevalence of child sexual abuse by region from 2 meta-analyses,
Stoltenborgh et al 2011
Data on child sexual abuse in India is scarce for the same reasons outlined above. The table
below provides a few snapshots.
In 2007, the Government of India published its first (and so far, only) report on CSA.
This Report reveals: Of the children interviewed, over 53% reported having faced
some form of CSA
Over 57% of these were boys.
72% said they did not report the abuse to anyone.
Only 3% reported CSA to the police.
In 2005, the international organization Save the Children and the Indian NGO, Tulir -
Centre for Healing and Prevention of Child Sex Abuse, surveyed 2,211 school-going
children from different backgrounds in Chennai.
48 percent of the boys and 39 percent of the girls interviewed said they had faced
some form of CSA
15 percent of these children had faced severe forms of abuse, defined in this study as
oral sex, sexual intercourse, making the child touch the offender's private parts, or
making the children take off their clothes and looking at them or taking their pictures.
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Offenders come from all walks of life and cannot be picked out or identified by appearance. It
is therefore essential to pay attention to behaviours (and patterns) and situations that present
risk rather than focusing on an individuals character. Young people can also sexually abuse
younger children or their peers but the dynamics of offending may slight vary.
Vulnerabilities of children
Due to their age and being experientially immature paired with the fact that children are still
developing socially and emotionally, children can be easily confused, controlled & coerced.
Most of them would not be able to interpret or understand an adults intent. Children give
unconditional love and seek attention and affection. In addition to this, socio-cultural norms
mandate that children respect and listen to adults. A person who intends to commit a sexual
offence against a child, or to groom so as to abuse that child sexually, would be able to take
advantage of all these factors.
If the child is an adolescent, his or her vulnerability increases as they are curious, rebellious,
and easily aroused.
Some of the higher risk factors for a child to become a victim of a sexual offence include
isolation (such as children in institutions, children living on the street, working children,
children of families in transition, children with disabilities, and children from dysfunctional
families).
Grooming
Grooming is a method of building trust with a child and adults around the child in an effort to
gain access to the child and increase the chances that the child will not consider the sexual
advances of the perpetrator untoward or improper. However, in extreme cases, offenders
may use threats and physical force to sexually assault or abuse a child.
Grooming Behaviour
Although not all child sexual abuse involves grooming, it is a common process used by
offenders.
It usually begins with subtle behaviour that may not initially appear to be inappropriate,
such as paying a lot of attention to the child or being very affectionate.
Many victims of grooming and sexual abuse do not recognize they are being manipulated,
nor do they realize how grooming is part of the abuse process.
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Often, the abuser actively encourages the child to keep their interaction a secret.
He/she may also try to isolate the child from persons to whom he or she is close, by saying
that person wouldnt understand their love.
The touching may start in a way that feels vaguely confusing for a child, like tickling or
hugging. For example, they may use touching as a game or introduce sexual touching as
accidental.
They are likely to blur the boundaries of ordinary affection so the child confuses this with
the abuse. This often occurs around the child's normal bathing, dressing and bedroom
routines.
The objective of grooming is to ensure that the child will not protest, and will keep the
secret.
Physical Symptoms:
Sexually transmitted diseases,
Pregnancy,
Complaints of pain or itching in the genital area,
Difficulty in walking or sitting,
Repeated unusual injuries,
Pain during urination and/ or defecation, and
Frequent yeast infections.
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Behavioural Indicators:
It is important to pay attention to changes in a childs behaviour as children communicate
how they are feeling through their behaviour. If an adult notices any of manifestations, he/
she should not automatically conclude that s/he has been victimized this may be one of
several possibilities. Rather, he/she should provide support and assistance to help determine
what could be the cause of them. It is important to note that change in a childs behaviour
should be further explored, regardless of whether sexual abuse is believed to be the
reason or not.
The child may use inappropriate language continuously in his or her vocabulary or may
Confusion. Children may have many mixed feelings about what happened to them and
about what happened after they told, depending on the reactions of family and friends.
Guilt. Children may feel guilty, believing they are in some way responsible for the abuse.
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Shame. The guilty secret may make them feel worthless.
Fear. If the abuser has threatened that something terrible will happen if they reveal the
secret, they may be afraid.
Grief. Children may stop seeing the world as a safe and friendly place. They may mourn
the loss of their sense of innocence and freedom. They may also mourn the loss of the
relationship with the abuser if there had been a close bond between them.
Anger. They may feel intense, and often uncontrollable anger. Because they cant strike
back at the abuser, they may lash out at another person or they may hurt themselves,
others or a pet.
Helplessness. Because they felt helpless at the time of the abuse, they may feel unable
to resist sexual abuse in the future.
Depression. They may seem sad and less playful. They may lose interest in school,
friends and activities. Depending on how serious the abuse is, and on the childs nature,
these feelings may show up in several ways, for example, physical complaints, problems
in sleeping and eating, irrational fears, an inability to concentrate in school, macho or
seductive behaviour and/or sexual aggression. Even if there are no symptoms, it doesnt
mean that the child doesnt need help it just means that there are no immediate or
outward signs of the abuse.
Often, disclosure of sexual abuse is a process; thus, a child may first give hints about the
abuse to see how an adult reacts before he or she is able to give full disclosure.
Disclosure can be direct, i.e. when the child tells someone about the abuse; or indirect, when
the abuse is discovered as a result of the child becoming pregnant or contracting a Sexually
Transmitted Disease. How the abuse was discovered can impact the childs willingness to
share information about it; some children may be ready to talk, share and receive help while
some children may be afraid to do so.
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Talking to parents about the importance of teaching their children about their personal
space and privacy by 3 years of age
Encouraging parents to teach their children the concept of OK and NOT OK touching
and the need to tell if anyone touches their private parts for a reason other than to
provide care.
Encouraging parents to teach their children not to keep secrets.
Telling parents that they should limit the individuals who provide genital, perianal and
bathing care to those who they trust to reduce risk.
Letting parents know that it is best to ensure the children become independent in taking
care of their own genital/perianal care.
Encouraging parents to teach their children the appropriate names for their private parts
so they have the language to communicate.
Looking out for signs that a child is being abused and take necessary action.
Talking to other colleagues in the health care sector about CSA.
Mandatory Reporting
The Act provides for mandatory reporting of sexual offences, so that any adult, including a
doctor or other health care professional, who has knowledge that a child has been sexually
abused is obliged to report the offence, failing which he may be punished with six months
imprisonment and/or fine (Sections 19 and 21 of the POCSO Act).
When reporting, the doctor or other health professional should describe the nature of the
abuse and the involved parties (if he/she is aware of them). He or she should be prepared to
give the name, address, and telephone number of the child and also the name of the parent
or caretaker if known. However, he or she is not expected to investigate the matter, or even
know the name of the perpetrator. This should be left to the police and other investigative
agencies.
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The report may be made to the Special Juvenile Police Unit, or to the local police station.
Alternatively, a call can be made to the Childline Helpline at 1098 and they can then assist
the reporter in making the report.
"Child sexual abuse is a preventable health problem that has been allowed
to spread unabated due to scientific and social neglect."
-PAUL FINK, SCIENCE, VOL 309, AUGUST 2005
The Act does not lay down that a mandatory reporter has the obligation to inform the
child and/ or his parents or guardian about his duty to report. However, it is good practice
to let parents/guardians know that action to report will be taken. This will help establish
an open relationship and minimize the childs feelings of betrayal if a report needs to be
made. When possible, the medical professional should discuss the need to make a child
abuse report with the family and with the child if in his/best interest, according to the
age and maturity of the child. However, be aware that there are certain situations where
if the family is warned about the assessment process, the child may be at risk for further
abuse, or the family may leave with the child.
Under Section 27 of the POCSO Act, the doctor must conduct a medical examination as per
the provisions of Section 164A Criminal Penal Code. Where the victim is a girl, the medical
examination is to be conducted by a woman doctor. It is to be conducted in the presence of
the parent of the child or any other person in whom the child reposes trust or confidence;
if such person cannot be present, the examination is to be conducted in the presence of a
woman nominated by the head of the medical institution.
Under Rule 5 of the Act, emergency medical care is to be provided by any medical facility,
private or public; and no magisterial requisition or other document is to be demanded as a
precondition to providing emergency medical care. Such care includes:
treatment for cuts, bruises, and other injuries including genital injuries, if any;
treatment for exposure to sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) including prophylaxis for
identified STDs;
treatment for exposure to Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV), including prophylaxis for
HIV after necessary consultation with infectious disease experts;
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possible pregnancy and emergency contraceptives should be discussed with the pubertal
child and her parent or any other person in whom the child has trust and confidence; and,
wherever necessary, a referral or consultation for mental or psychological health or other
counseling.
Further, Rule 7 of the POCSO Act provides that expenses incurred in providing medical care
to the child may be recovered in the compensation awarded to the child.
Medical History
It is important to obtain a detailed medical history before examining the child. The medical
history will serve to guide the physical examination. Its objective is not to obtain information
for forensic purposes but for treatment and diagnosis and to ensure the safety of the child.
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The following should be addressed in the medical history:
A familial psychosocial history;
A detailed medical history of the child with a review of systems focusing on any ano-
genital complaints such as bleeding, discharge, pain, or past genital injury;
The child's history of sexual abuse, ideally obtained without the parent/caregiver present;
and
An adolescent medical history should include age of menarche and date of last menstrual
period.
Additional information to obtain includes changes in the child's behavior, specifically
sexualized behaviors, andespecially in young childrenthe names the child uses for
body parts (e.g., breasts, vagina, penis, and anus).
The child and the parent should be informed and reassured that the pediatric forensic exam
is not invasive or painful and does not routinely include the use of internal instrumentation
or speculum insertion.
The child should be prepared for the physical examination 6.
Consent should be taken for the following purposes: examination, sample collection for
clinical and forensic examination, treatment and police intimation.
Informed consent
Consent should be informed, i.e. the person giving the consent should be told about the
purpose, expected risks, side effects, and benefits of the examination, and the amount of
time it will take. This information should be given before the examination is conducted, in a
form, language and manner that the child and his parent/ guardian can understand.
A child that has suffered abuse and his/her family may approach a health facility under three
circumstances, and informed consent must be taken in all:
a) on his/her own only for treatment for effects of assault;
b) with a police requisition after police complaint; or
c) with a court directive.
If the child (and family) has come directly to the hospital without the police requisition,
the hospital is bound to provide treatment and conduct a medical examination with
consent of the survivor/parent/guardian (depending on age).
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Giardino AP, Finkel MA; Evaluating child sexual abuse. Pediatr Ann. 2005 May
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Sections 89 and 90, IPC
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If child (and family) has come on his/her own without the First Information Report (FIR),
s/he may or may not want to lodge a complaint but may require a medical examination
and treatment. Even in such cases the doctor is bound to inform the police as per law.
However neither the court nor the police can force the survivor to undergo medical
examination. In case the survivor does not want to pursue a police case, an MLC must
be made and s/he must be informed that s/he has the right to refuse to file FIR. An
informed refusal must be documented in such cases.
If the child (and family) has come with a police requisition or wishes to lodge a complaint later,
the information about medico-legal case (MLC) number & police station should be recorded.
Police personnel should not be present during any part of the examination.
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The general approach to the physical examination follows the standard head-to-toe approach.
Elements of the examination include the following:
Determination of structures of interest Mons pubis, labia majora and minora, clitoris,
urethral meatus, hymen, posterior fourchette, and fossa navicularis in case of girls and
penis, scrotum, and testes in case of boys
Choice of positioning for optimal exposure of prepubertal genital structures Frog-leg
supine position, knee-chest position, or left lateral decubitus position
Calming the child during examination
General observation and inspection of the anogenital area, looking for signs of injury or
infection and noting the childs emotional status
Visualization of the more recessed genital structures, using handheld magnification or
colposcopy as necessary
Collection of specimens for sexually transmitted disease (STD) screening and forensic
evidence collection
Evaluation of any observable findings Although most individuals who have been sexually
abused present with essentially normal examination findings, observable findings may
include (1) those attributable to acute injury or (2) chronic findings that may be residual
effects following repeated episodes of genital contact.
It is important to remember that the results of a physical examination will be within normal
limits in the vast majority of cases of child sexual abuse. The absence of physical findings
can be explained by several factors:
Many forms of sexual abuse do not cause physical injury. Thus, the sexual abuse may be
non-penetrating contact and may involve fondling, oral-genital, genital or anal contact, as
well as genital-genital contact without penetration.
Often, the child and family typically know the perpetrators, and physical force is not often
a major component as in adult sexual assaults.
Mucosal tissue is elastic and may be stretched without injury, and damage to these
mucosal surfaces heals quickly.
Finally, disclosure of abuse is often delayed; many victims of sexual abuse do not seek
medical care for weeks or months after the abuse, and superficial abrasions and fissures
can heal within 24 to 48 hours.
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Evaluating the Child for Sexual Abuse, SHEELA L. LAHOTI, M.D., NATALIE MCCLAIN, R.N., M.S.N., C.P.N.P., REBECCA
GIRARDET, M.D., MARGARET MCNEESE, M.D., and KIM CHEUNG, M.D., University of Texas Medical School at Houston,
Houston, Texas, Am Fam Physician. 2001 Mar 1
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Diagnosis
Gram stain of vaginal or anal discharge
Genital, anal, and pharyngeal culture for gonorrhea
Genital and anal culture for chlamydia
Serology for syphilis
Wet prep of vaginal discharge for Trichomonas vaginalis
Culture of lesions for herpes virus
Serology for HIV (based on suspected risk)
Management
Medical treatment of CSA follows the diagnosis. Recommendations include the following:
The following are the components of a comprehensive health care response to sexual
violence and must be carried out in all cases :
Consent
Age Estimation
First Aid
Physical
Dental
History Radiological Hand-over to Police
Dry
Examination
Pack
Evidence Seal
Collection
Treatment of Injuries STI test
and prophylaxis HIV test
and prophylaxis Emergency Treatment Documentation
Contraception UPT (if
applicable) Counselling
Information and Referral to Discharge Follow-up
other services
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Forensic Examination
Forensic evidence includes blood, semen, sperm, hair or skin fragments that could link
the assault to an individual person, as well as debris (e.g., carpet fibers) that could link the
assault to a location.
Evidence collection should be performed if sexual contact occurred within 96 hours of the
physical examination.
Whether a sexual act has been attempted or completed. Sexual acts include the slightest
genital, anal or oral penetration by the penis, fingers or other objects as well as any form of
non-consensual sexual touching. However, the absence of injuries does not imply consent.
Whether such a sexual act is recent, and whether any injury has been caused to the childs body.
The age of the survivor, in the case of adolescent girls/boys.
Whether alcohol or drugs have been administered to the child.
History of
sexual Type of Swab Purpose Points to Consider
violence
Peno-vaginal Vaginal Semen/ sperm-detection whether ejaculation
Lubricant occurred inside
DNA vagina or outside
use of condom
Body semen/sperm detection if ejaculation
saliva (in case of occurred Outside
sucking/licking)
Peno-anal Anal Semen/sperm detection whether ejaculation
DNA occurred inside
lubricant anus or outside
faecal matter use of condom
Body semen/sperm detection if ejaculation
saliva (in case of occurred Outside
sucking/licking)
Peno-oral Oral Semen/sperm detection whether ejaculation
DNA occurred inside
saliva mouth or outside
use of condom
Body semen/sperm detection if ejaculation
saliva (in case of occurred Outside
sucking/licking)
Use of Swab of the orifice (anal, Lubricant Detection of lubricant
objects vaginal and/or oral) used if any
Use of Swab of the orifice (anal, Lubricant
body parts vaginal
(fingering) and/or oral)
Masturbation Swab of the orifice or Semen/sperm detection whether ejaculation
body part DNA occurred or not
lubricant if ejaculated in orifice
or body parts
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Ministry of Health and Family Welfare, Guidelines and Protocols for Medico-Legal Care of Survivors/ Victims of Sexual
Violence, 2014
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Role of Mental Health Professionals
Throughout the process, mental health professionals play a key role in assisting the child
and his/her family, as highlighted below:
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The key organizations and professionals involved in the pre-trial and trial stages to
assist the child are:
Special Juvenile Police Unit or local police: Under the Juvenile Justice Act, each district
has to have police officers especially trained to deal with childrens issues. They form the
Special Juvenile Police Unit.
Health professionals, including those who render emergency medical care, conduct the
medical examination and provide any other medical assistance. In some cases, the doctor
or health care worker may be the first person who detects that the child has been sexually
abused, for example when a child is taken to a paediatrician with a complaint which the
latter then diagnoses as a sexually transmitted infection
Mental Health professionals, such as counsellors, psychologists and psychiatrists to
whom the child is referred for trauma counselling and long-term psycho-social support
Interpreters, translators and special needs educators who may assist the child at various
stages of the process.
Child development experts.
Social workers, support persons and NGO workers who may assist the child through the
process
Members of Child Welfare Committees before whom a child may be presented for
assessment of protection needs (Rule 4[3] of the POCSO Act, 2012).
Advocates, including legal aid lawyers and public prosecutors, involved in prosecuting
the offender.
Judges and staff of Special Courts.
The Model Guidelines under the POCSO Act, published by the Ministry of Women and Child
Development, contain descriptions of the functions of each of these professionals under the
Act, and also lays down guidelines for how these duties are to be discharged.
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Myths and misconceptions about child sex
abuse
The abuser is usually a stranger: In most cases, the abuser is a person known to the
child. The people most likely to abuse a child are the ones with the most opportunity, most
access, and most trust.
Incest, i.e. sexual abuse by a person related to the child, is not common amongst
well-educated or well-off people: Incest happens in all kinds of families, including
families like ours. It does not depend on class, socio-economic status, education, etc.
Sexual abuse never happened and the child is making it up or exaggerating: Children
rarely make up stories about things that traumatise them. In fact, research shows that
children often minimize and deny, rather than embellish what has happened to them.
No damage is done by the abuse unless the child is visibly physically harmed: Some
acts, like fondling and oral sex, leave no physical traces. Even if the child has not been
physically abused, any kind of sexual abuse causes psychological trauma to the child.
Many children do not reveal sexual abuse because they are enjoying it: The reason
children do not report it is because they are afraid, ashamed, or have been bribed or
threatened.
He looks normal and acts normal, so he cant be a child molester: Sex offenders
are knowledgeable about the importance of their public image, and can hide their
private behaviour from their friends, neighbours, colleagues, and even their own family
members. Some child molesters appear to be charming, socially responsible, caring,
compassionate, morally sound, and sincere and parents and other responsible adults
trust these individuals.
Child molesters molest indiscriminately: Not everyone who comes in contact with a
child molester will be abused. Sex offenders tend to carefully pick and set up their victims
by grooming in which the perpetrator skilfully manipulates the child into participating.
A child says that they have been sexually assaulted and then later says that it didnt
really happen. This clearly means that they are lying: Children may retract an allegation
because of enormous pressure placed on them to make it go away. Disbelieving adults
give the child the idea that if they say it was a lie things will return to normal. However an
offender will not stop abusing and often becomes more aggressive knowing that if the
child says something again people will not believe them.
The victim is always a girl: Just as women can be sex offenders, boys may be victims of
abuse. Unfortunately, child sexual abuse with male victims is underreported due to social
and cultural attitudes: boys are taught to fight back and not let others see vulnerability.
Boys are aware at an early age of the social stigma attached to sexual assault by another
male, and fear appearing weak to others. All of these attitudes make male child victims
less likely to tell of their abuse.
Children are abused because their parents have neglectful style of parenting and
fail to supervise their child properly. Though sometimes absence of sex education in
childhood makes a child an easy traps, however, usually offenders are quite tactful in
manipulating both the caregivers and the child and they are to be essentially blamed for.
Sexual abuse victims are "damaged goods" and their lives are ruined forever: While
sexual abuse is incredibly damaging, victims are not "damaged goods." Healing is easiest
when the intervention is immediate and appropriate therapy is provided. For adults who
have repressed memories, the recovery process can be lengthy. However, all victims of
abuse can become fully functioning, healthy children and adults.
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