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DR Childress Communicating With Children

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C. A. CHILDRESS, Psy.D.

LICENSED CLINICAL PSYCHOLOGIST, PSY 18857


219 N. INDIAN HILL BLVD.., STE. 201 CLAREMONT, CA 91711 (909) 821-5398

Communicating With Children


SOUL
S Silence; allow unpressured time of simply showing interest in your child
O Observation; watch with curiosity and interest what your child is doing
U Understanding; understand your childs world from your childs perspective
L Listening; reflecting back what your child just said shows that youre listening
Non-Verbal Support
Show your child that you are interested in what theyre doing with your facial expressions,
your gestures, and your warm tone of voice. Physically get down at your childs level, and
show interest and excitement in your childs activity and ideas. Smile. Imitating your childs
activity is a good way to show approval and develop bonding in the play.
Self-Talk
As you play with your child, you can describe your activities out loud. For example, if your
child is pretending to prepare a meal, you can describe setting the table, Im putting the red
plate and folk over here, and a blue plate and spoon next to them. This is called self-talk,
labeling and describing what youre doing. This is a good technique to help children with
language development and is a good way to join a child in play.
Parallel Talk
In parallel talk, you describe what your child is doing. As you interact with your child, you
comment on what your child is playing with and what your child is doing. By simply
describing what your child is doing, parallel talk blends language with your childs activity
(Youre patting the playdough flat like a pancake, arent you.). This is a wonderful way to
both bond with your child and to support their development of language.
Repeating
After listening to your child, repeat back what your child just said. Repeating back what your
child just said is called reflective listening and it is an effective way of acknowledging and
clarifying what the child said. Reflective listening also encourages the child to continue
talking.
Open-Ended Questions
Questions that have more than one answer or that call for description are called open-ended
questions (what and how questions). Examples of open-ended questions include:
What do you think would happen if
How did you think of that?
What can you tell me about?
Encouraging
You can encourage children to talk about their ideas and find solutions to problems by
asking them how they solved something, what they plan to do, or what they did; or by asking
them to help you. Showing curiosity in what your child is doing encourages your child.

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