Two of Three Things I Know For Sure:: Story As An Instrument For Survival
Two of Three Things I Know For Sure:: Story As An Instrument For Survival
Two of Three Things I Know For Sure:: Story As An Instrument For Survival
Meg Strauss
Professor EJ Levy
E332
28 February 2017
In her memoir Two or Three Things I Know For Sure, author Dorothy Allison portrays
storytelling as an instrument for survival. Throughout the novel, stories play a strong role in
helping Allison, as well as Allisons family, endure the horrific and heartbreaking events that
surround their lives. While storytelling is most often associated with happy bedtime stories and
fairytales, Allison takes this association one step further, truly allowing the reader to understand
In the very start of the story, Allison illustrates how stories helped her cope with the
misfortune of her and her familys situation and reputation. Allison states that her and her family
were known as the the lower orders, the great unwashed, the working class, the poor,
proletariat, trash, lowlife, and scum (Allison, 1). By referring to her perceived status, the reader
is given a glance at Allisons childhood, which highlights why Allison needed an escape.
assuming identities I made up. Sometimes I was myself, arguing loudly as I could never
do at home. Sometimes I became people I had seen on the television or read about in
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books, went places Id barely heard of, did things that people I knew had never done,
particularly things that girls were not supposed to do. In the world as I remade it, nothing
With stories, Allison removed herself from the unfortunate world she was born into. In
the stories she created, she was not bound to a life full of pain and poverty. Telling herself stories
became her method of escapism, ultimately providing her with moments free of reality. These
moments during her rough childhood, in all essence, gave Allison the strength to endure her
awful adolescence.
While storytelling gave Allison an essential escape from her reality as a young girl,
stories also gave her hope. Throughout the novel, Allison reveals much about her family. Most
notably, Allison mentions how many of her family members never broke away from the town
that initiated so much pain upon them. For example, Allison tells how her mother seemed to have
so much promise in leaving her town, but ended up working forty years as a waitress, teasing
quarters out of truckers, and dimes out of hairdressers, pouring extra coffee for a nickel, or
In the start of the novel, Allison tells her sisters, Let me tell you about the women who
ran away. All those legendary women who ran away (Allison, 2). Within this quote, Allison
seems to be praising the women who left her town. Creating or seeing these women in a positive
light allows Allison to believe that one day she too can become one of these legendary women.
In the stories that Allison told herself or in the stories that were told to her, she sees that
she does not have to become her mother. She sees that she does not have to continue to live in
the pain her whole life. Most importantly, she sees that while her young self might be restricted
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to her miserable surroundings, her dreams and futures do not have to be. By seeing this hope
throughout stories, Allison is able to gain the confidence to leave all she has ever known, truly
Stories also allowed Allison to discover her roots. Throughout the novel, pictures of
Allisons family members lay on approximately every page. As the reader begins to read
Allisons memoir, it becomes quickly apparent that this is not simply an autobiography; rather,
this is a story of her as well as her familys story. Allison tells about her uncles, stating, My
uncles went to jail like other boys go to high school. They took up girls like other people choose
a craft (28.) She also talks deeply about her mother, grandmother, sisters, and aunt.
By hearing and retelling these stories about her own family, Allison discovers where she
comes from, why she is the way she is, and how she can ultimately break the cycle of pain that
passes throughout the familial generations. By understanding her roots, Allisons identity is
strengthened. Having a firmly-set identity only makes Allison stronger, able to not allow the pain
to define her. Hearing these stories of her family seems to provide comfort for Allison, as she is
constantly yearning to hear more stories about her kin. The text reads,
For two decades every time I visited, I shuffled through those picturesscores of
ancient snapshots stuffed in a box in the end table in Mamas living room. Each time I
pulled them out and asked Mama to go through them with me. The faces in Mamas box
were full of storiesongoing tragedies, great novels, secrets and mysteries and longings
It is because of this comfort in knowing ones roots that Allison seems to make a point of
passing on familys stories. For instance, when visiting her sister, Allison speaks to her niece,
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saying to her, Sit down baby. I got a story to tell you. Look at your mama. You know how she
is? Well, let me tell you about the day death was calling your mamas name, death was singing
Throughout Allisons memoir, there is a strong sense of what her family was like, all told
through stories. Due to her need to know stories of her family and her need to carry on these
stories, the reader can assume how important these family stories are to Allison. These stories,
wrapped in pain, humor, and truth, all help Allison confirm her identity, all the while ensuring
that simple sadness will not break such a strong sense of self.
Storytelling also gave Allison a way to honestly express her and her familys reality.
Telling her own stories ultimately gave Allison the power to speak the truth, to defy the
I tell my stories louder all the time: mean and ugly stories, funny, almost bitter stories;
passionate, desperate storiesall of them have to be told in order not to tell the one the
world wants, the story of us broken, the story of us never laughing out loud, never
learning to enjoy sex, never being able to love or trust again, the story in which all the
Arguably the most important role stories played throughout Allisons life were helping
her overcome the ill effects of sexual abuse. Allison states, The man raped me. Its the truth. Its
a fact (Allison, 39). From here, she begins to tell the story of how she was sexually abused by
her stepfather.
I started saying [the word rape] to get to that release that feeling of letting go, of
setting loose both the hatred and the fear. The need to tell my story was terrible and
persistent, and I needed to say it bluntly and cruelly, to use all those words, those old
awful tearing words. I need to be a woman who can talk about rape plainly, without being
(Allison, 44).
Allison was taught that acknowledging rape was bad. She writes that she was often asked,
Why do you bring that up? Must you talk about that? (Allison, 43). She was not able to vocally
express her pain without feeling the repercussions of admitting something that everyone else
pretended not to know of. Telling the story of her sexual abuse gave Allison an outlet to speak
the truth. No longer was she forced to hide what her stepfather was doing to her, slowly allowing
Not only did stories help her cope with the abuse, stories also helped Allison stand up to
her stepdad. Allison writes that she told her stepfather, You cant break me. And youre never
going to touch me again (Allison, 68). She describes that this act of resistance as a story to tell
myself, a promise (68). She knew that she did not want her own story defined by abuse. She
knew that having a story based upon resilience and assertiveness gave her a chance to ease the
Stories gave Allison hope, strength, identity, and promise. They gave her a chance to
move on from sadness and destitute, find herself through her family, stand up to her biggest
Allison writes, Two or three things I know for sure, and one of them is that to go on
living I have to tell stories, that stories are the one way I know to touch the heart and change the
world (Allison, 72). A story full of stories, Allisons memoir truly highlights how she used
Works Cited
Allison, Dorothy. Two or Three Things I Know for Sure. New York: Dutton, 1995. Print.