A GRACEful Pattern For Faith
A GRACEful Pattern For Faith
A GRACEful Pattern For Faith
FAITH-SHARING SESSION 5
Additional principles:
d. Don’t say ‘you’ – say ‘I’. Don’t tell others what they should believe, tell
them what and what WE believe. When you have a trusting relationship,
the freedom is available to tell the other why we believe and what we
believe – in other words to share our own personal faith story. We all have
a story to tell and the responsibility to tell it. “I” statements start with: “For
me,” or “In Christ I have” or “With Jesus, I know”…
e. It is better to expose our vulnerability than to pretend invulnerability. To be
vulnerable means that we are capable of being hurt or open to pain. We
open our life to the possibility of sharing another’s pain. It also means
facing up to our own woundedness, our own shortcomings. It requires a
self-emptying of anything that would separate us from the persons with
whom we wish to share the gospel. Our point of contact with people is in
our common humanity. Our attitude and lifestyle should be like Harry
Denman, whose favorite request was, “Pray for Harry Denman, a sinner
saved by God’s grace.”
f. If people volunteer information, we can rest assured that they wish to tell
us more. This principle relates both to “listening” and “making invitational
statements.” If we listen, we will hear the feelings of the person we are
attempting to share faith with. We must decide whether we are willing to
be vulnerable to people, and whether we are willing to share their pain.
Group 1 – Role play – Point 1 – G: Grace. Develop a situation or story of a
person who feels unlovable and needs to hear the transforming good news that
“God’s love is for all.” One person will role-play the seeker, and another the
person who invites her, the seeker, and who offers the good news that God loves
her. After accepting God’s love and grace, role play a closure to that acceptance,
a prayer, an affirmation, etc. The situation could be the story of an adult who was
abused as a child and grew up feeling that she was of no value or worth and not
deserving of being loved by anyone, or any other situation you choose. Use
appropriate scriptures to make your point, and review the guidelines on pages
117 – 119 of the book.