How To Get Rid of Panic and Anxiety For Good!
How To Get Rid of Panic and Anxiety For Good!
How To Get Rid of Panic and Anxiety For Good!
For Good!
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TABLE OF CONTENT
Introduction 4
Conclusion 55
Introduction
it, one way or the other. Because of panic attacks, a casual mood can turn into
when he’s eagerly waiting for his wife to give birth to their child.
A “little” anxiety is not a bad thing. It helps to protect you from harm or
Human beings are the most fascinating and intriguing creatures on earth.
The most pronounced reason why we have dominance in the animal kingdom is
the way the human brain works. One very distinct feature we have as humans is
our ability to have feelings. Although we do not discount that animals have
feelings too, as evidenced by the way we see them act or react to certain
situations, human feelings have the depth and significance that goes far beyond
further. For feelings that deliver us harm, we also expound ways to minimize it to
harmful feelings because at least some of them are not 100% harmful. In small
ways, they also do us good. The idea is to control and not be controlled. Let us
humans. It is one of the biggest (if not the biggest) deterrents to our success. Yet
in spite of the negative perception we may have about fear, it also has its little
good side. Fear prevents us from getting hurt, both physically and emotionally.
The “little” fear inherent within us is actually good for us. We need that “little” fear.
The same is true with panic. A “little” panic can serve as a form of
defense. But being engulfed with excessive panic may hinder you from
performing your normal activities and may deter you to take action especially on
not-so-common activities.
However, if you have only one option to face a panic attack, like it or not,
you have to find the right approach to contain such an attack and suppress this
discomforting feeling.
perceived threat or danger that can be controlled. In reality, such danger does
not exist. Even the worst scenario that you can perceive under these
Life is too short to be preoccupied with anxieties that hinder growth. In this
segregate what is myth and what is fact. We shall likewise discuss the causes
that give rise to panic attacks. All will be presented in a reader-friendly format.
For this same reason, we shall find the corresponding cure or remedy to
stop panic in its tracks. In the same context about fear, panic protects us from
harm; but when excessive panic becomes harmful itself, we have to explore
of controlling panic to a level that will work in your favor. Keep it on a scale where
the physical body and emotional state of mind are in comfortable, controllable,
and conclusive levels. You should be the one controlling panic attacks, and not
the other way around. This is possible and attainable as long as you discipline
yourself. These disciplines are contained herein and it is best to know, adhere,
and practice them. The succeeding chapters will serve as the path to curb panic
attacks.
Chapter One
Getting to Know Anxiety and Panic
1. A feeling that you might have forgotten to turn off an appliance before
2. A feeling that you might have left something behind on the last place
you’ve been.
3. The bothersome thought that you might have annoyed someone whom
somehow experienced anxiety one way or the other, in more instances than one,
and at different levels. These experiences make us all familiar with what anxiety
is. Aside from what we know about it, there could be some facts about anxiety we
condition. Panic attacks, on the other hand, are actually heightened anxiety.
· Difficulty in breathing
· Rapid heartbeat
· Restlessness
· Insomnia
· Irritability
· Feeling edgy
· Disturbed composure
undesirable situation we foresee. However, if we are left with no other option but
to face the circumstances, we might as well be prepared for it and face it with
confidence.
Not all anxiety feelings are caused by things we hate happening to us.
front of an audience may bring about anxiety. The worst scenario that could
happen is getting tongue-tied and this could bring about a panic attack. It’s a
mixed feeling of positive and slightly negative anxiety. Before the speech,
nervousness engulfs the speaker. After the speech, the feeling of relief starts to
dangerous. Some of us may think that anxiety may result to life threatening
butterflies in the stomach and clammy palms that occur when we get anxious are
pretty normal.
to blurred vision, dizziness, and a tight chest that leads to difficulty in breathing.
One might misinterpret this as a stroke. The thought of having a stroke might
make the anxiety-prone person think that he has a life threatening condition;
medical check-ups. This is the best way to segregate anxiety from a serious
illness.
imagined, we have one of two choices: either confront it or run away from it. This
us from possible danger. It’s not the “bad guy” that we usually think it is, but
a panic attack actually starts from the brain. From the brain, signals are sent to
the nervous system of our body. It is the nervous system that is responsible in
returning our body to its original state of equilibrium or tranquility once the threat
responsible for the rise and fall of our nervous feeling. This rise in feeling is
responsible in preparing our body to face or to flee the danger. The fall in feeling
or subsiding feeling works to restore balance and equilibrium, bringing our body
Let us use our example earlier about graduating top in class. Before the
valedictory speech, the rising feel goes to work. After the speech, the subsiding
feel is responsible for the body’s equilibrium. The rising feel is the controversial
section of the nervous system which starts the anxiety (or possibly panic attack),
while the subsiding feel is the one that brings our body to its original comfortable
state.
You might ask: “Exactly what part of our body is activated during a panic
attack?” In medical terms, just above the kidney are the adrenal glands that
continued anxious feeling can be beneficial to the body. Once the excitement is
done with, the subsiding feel takes over to return our body to relaxation mode.
techniques are actually a means of activating the subsiding feel even before the
perceived danger is over. Whether we will it or not, this feeling will be called into
action at one point or another as the body cannot continue to stay in an ever
We need not fear that anxiety will reach an uncontrollable level because our body
cells are wise enough to protect themselves from any potential harm. We may
even think negatively and perceive the worst scenario; yet our body’s ingenuity
will still prevail and protect us. Even modern science is baffled with the way the
human body works, which is why new discoveries develop as time passes by.
Whatever situation we find ourselves into, we can be sure of our body’s aim to
actually products of our mind; and to a certain extent, they are due to body
chemistry.
representing your mind and the other one, your body. While the mind keeps on
doing all sorts of stuff to bring the body to its worst condition (typifying anxiety),
A rising feel in the nervous system brings about other distinct reactions in
the body.
The heartbeat goes up due to the amount of blood flowing through our
body. This is to ensure enough oxygen supply so that bodily wastes are
needed, such as our extremities. The legs and thighs are primed up, ready for
moving; so do the arms and biceps, adding strength to our upper extremities.
This additional blood flow comes from the skin, fingers, and toes, which explains
why our skin has a paler color under this condition. Our hands feel numb and
point of suffocation, a tight chest, or a clogged throat. All of these are normal
under this condition, as the tissues in the body need to get more oxygen to
and depth of breathing, and even chest pains, are resultants of extreme anxiety.
A feeling of dizziness, a blurred (as in “seeing stars”) vision, a difficulty to
distinguish what is real and what is illusion, a hot flush feeling, a dry mouth, a
nauseating feeling in the stomach, a feeling of being hyperactive – all these may
also occur under an anxiety condition. The more extreme the anxiety is, the more
identify. We start to get agitated and our concentration gets derailed. We get
anxiety attack. It makes us commit mistakes that we hardly even notice, until
business associates, and they notice that our actions are out-of-the-ordinary,
they might begin to ask why. They might think we are hiding something when in
fact we are not. That is the difficulty of having such a disorder. Those who are
familiar with the situation can somehow help to pacify and calm down a panic
victim.
reported by a lot of people reveals that prolonged or repetitive work pattern like
those working with computers or in manufacturing lines can cause anxiety or
panic attacks. This is the reason why regular breaks must be set up for those
Another possible cause of anxiety or panic attack is the fear that we might
lose our body control. We are the ones who know our body the most, next to the
doctor. What we eat, how we treat our physique, how we feel, and how we think,
somehow reveal our health condition. In short, diet, stress, exercise, and our
entire metabolism have something to do with the anxiety level within us.
anxiety.
During a panic attack, two things usually come to mind: (1) the social
embarrassment if such attack occurs when you are in the company of other
people; and (2) the thought that runs through your mind of a probable serious
illness or disease. The second one is more dangerous especially when the
the attack even more. People often tend to think of the worst scenario, which
your mind to the fact that panic attacks do not lead to mental illnesses.
The most distinct difference between a panic attack and a mental illness is
that the former is sudden, while the latter is gradual. Nobody has gotten mentally
certain to occur in one’s mind. People have difficulty trying to distinguish between
a panic attack and an ailing heart condition. Just the thought of falling into
Chest pain and breathlessness are the major symptoms of an ailing heart
under physical exertion or when a person is tensed. The more extreme it is, the
Panic attacks can cause breathlessness to a person even at rest, and may
occur while under physical exertion like exercising. It might be difficult to tell then,
if a panic attack or a heart ailment is the culprit. So to settle this matter once and
for all, it is best to take an EKG test. It is better to have peace of mind than
engaging in guesswork.
heart condition, a home self-check blood pressure monitor (like one you can
carry in a bag) can be useful and convenient. This is helpful for people who are
Panic attacks usually make a person’s hands clammy with cold sweat.
Some people may develop the feeling of having upset stomach. I remembered
my niece once told me that the first time she drove her car alone (she was just
learning to drive then), she had stomach ache upon reaching home from work.
She felt so anxious or nervous being alone while driving that she hardly noticed
any aches in her body. Many “what ifs” or negative thoughts crossed her mind.
Fortunately, it was just only in her mind. It was only when she reached home that
she noticed cold sweat on her forehead and hands, aside from her aching
stomach. She felt so tired and fatigue but relieved after the drive.
panic attacks can interfere with one’s daily life. This is why remedies are
manageable level.
work for one may not be applicable to another. So other ways have to be
explored or used. Being able to adopt more ways than one to solve panic attacks
shampoo as an example. Some people may prefer ABC shampoo while others
prefer XYZ shampoo. Of course, there are other brands as well. A person may
even prefer two or more shampoos that can be used alternately depending on
the mood, season, weather condition, and user’s scalp condition, among others.
Still others prefer to use conditioners after shampooing while some don’t.
In a similar manner, the cures for anxiety are likewise varied to suit
different people. It is important to note that there are anxieties brought about by
uncontrollable events like natural disasters and loss of human lives; and there
are those which are perceived or imagined (the ones that can be controlled or
between the two so as not to be discouraged with the outcome of the cure, not to
mention time and effort that may be devoted for this purpose.
specific anxieties. This way, one can say: “I am aware and I admit that I am
suffering from anxieties. I will deal with them the best that I can”. By stating this,
one is psyched and committed in finding the right approach to cure the disorder.
discussed. To those who have frequent brushes of anxiety, these techniques will
be very useful and helpful. By learning all of them and by finding out which one
best suits your needs, you’ll soon be enjoying an anxiety-free life for good.
Chapter 2
Power Relaxation
Some people find relaxation and meditation skills beneficial in getting rid
of anxiety and panic attacks. These skills are the opposite of the fight/flight
response. You neither resign nor flee from anxiety, but you just let it glide through
your mind and body. When learning and practicing these skills, it is important to
Try any one or all of the techniques in this chapter until you find one
Roll Breathing
This type of exercise aims to develop the full capacity of your lungs and to
harmonize yourself with your breathing pace. This is best done while lying on
1. Place left hand on your stomach, and place the right hand on your
chest. Breathe in through the nose to the lower lungs (notice left hand
rises while right hand does not move) for around 10 times.
2. After you feel at ease after 10 times of filling and emptying your lower
lungs, repeat the same step. But this time, continue inhaling to the
upper chest (notice right hand rises as left hand falls a little).
letting left hand fall first, then the right hand. Feel your worries and
anxieties leave the body. Do this for around 5 minutes. Notice that the
stomach and chest resembles rolling waves, rising and falling in a
rhythmic motion.
Do this daily for several weeks or until you feel comfortable with this
technique, so that it can be used whenever needed. If you get dizzy or light
headed at first, you must breathe and move slowly, and then gradually increase
Deep muscle relaxation can diminish anxiety, stress, and tension. The
objective of this method is to tense and relax every muscle part of your body.
Let’s begin.
seconds (strong but not to the point of discomfort), then let go and relax them for
10 to 15 seconds. At different points, check each muscle group and relax each
one a bit more each time. Let’s start from the bottom going up to the head.
6. Breathe in deep through nose, hold it in your chest, and exhale through
mouth.
9. Clench your arms into fists, bend arms at elbows, and flex biceps.
10. Stretch out wrists and forearms, and bend them backward to the wrist.
11. Extend your chin to the chest, then tilt head backward (for the neck).
13. Smile from ear to ear (for the cheeks and jaws).
rejuvenating experience.
Relaxation Response
This technique slows heartbeat rate and breathing, lowers blood pressure,
and relieves tensed muscles (as adopted from Herbert Benson, MD). While in a
sitting position, with eyes closed, perform the modified progressive muscle
and not from the chest. Every time you exhale, say a desirable word, phrase, or
your mind as a stimulus and don’t be distracted by any other disturbing thoughts
that enter your mind. Just let them drift away. Quietly relax for several minutes,
then open your eyes. Notice any difference in breathing and pulse rate prior to
the exercise. It may take more than one practice to attain deep relaxation. The
Imagery
So when you think you’re sick, then your mind may influence your body to really
get sick. When you imagine yourself getting healthier and stronger, then your
Imagery isn’t concentrated only on the visual aspect. It can become more
powerful if you involve the sound, taste, smell, or touch of the thing you’re
imagining. The more senses involved, the more defined the imagery is.
almost all of the world’s cultures. This natural healing process is backed-up by
several studies and proofs of its effectiveness. Some cancer patients use
imagery to remedy their illness by imagining strong white blood cells attacking
weak cancer cells. Imagery has the capacity to boost the immune system of the
body.
How you process an image that works best for you takes practice, just like
imagery, it is best done while the mind is in a relaxed mood, and while the
come up with your own image or images that befit your particular mood and that
your chest, to your neck, and finally to your head. Each time the
whirling wind comes up, visualize all your anxieties and worries being
swept away. Feel the calming effect as the anxieties within you are
2. Picture yourself on the beach. As the waves splash your body, imagine
all the anxieties being “cleansed and removed” out of your system.
out all negativity out of your system, the magnet bursts like a bubble
and all your fears, worries, and anxieties are vanished to oblivion.
where you can see the trees, smell the flowers, hear the gentle flow of
water from the brook, and feel the refreshing breeze of fresh air. Now
Eye Relaxation
“The eyes are the windows to your soul,” as they say. Your eyes are two
light without putting pressure on your eyes. Envision and concentrate on the
color black. To make your vision stronger, you may visualize a black object, such
as a black curtain). Remain in this position for around three minutes while
visualizing on the color black. Gradually open your eyes, slowly getting used to
the light. Feel your eye muscles totally relaxed and refreshed.
Yoga
In essence, yoga is bringing body and mind in touch with each other. Yoga
sessions would include taking deep breaths, inhaling and exhaling through the
nose at around 3 seconds interval, and stretching gently from head to toe.
Performing yoga regularly can release inner anxieties and tensions lodged deep
The earliest evidence of yoga’s existence dates back nearly 5000 years
ago in India. Since then, yoga has been practiced as a natural remedy for various
and poses. Breathing exercise and meditation can help dissipate anxiety and
One effective yoga method is the belly breath technique. To do it, you
must sit on a firm cushion on the floor so that hips tilt slightly forward to avoid
lower back strain. Place either hand on the stomach. Breathe out slowly through
the nose, contracting the stomach and slightly pushing the stomach in. Breath in
with relaxed stomach muscles, arch back slightly, and let fresh air come in
through the nose. The hand on the stomach will be pushed out as the belly
expands. Once you’ve familiarized yourself with this procedure, you won’t need
to put your hand on your belly. Breathing from the chest is stress breathing, while
breathing from the belly is the natural and relaxed way of doing it. This will
For meditation, place a mat or blanket on the floor and lie on it face up.
Relax arms on the sides with palms facing the ceiling. Relax legs by
straightening them. Unwind your mind by focusing on the different body parts and
feel them releasing the tension within. Start with the face, down to the shoulders,
arms, hands, and chest focusing on heart and lungs. As you focus on each body
part, your breathing becomes deeper and slower. From the chest area, work
down to the hips, legs, and feet. Then go back to make sure that the face is still
After going through this scanning procedure, you can try silently chanting
the word “om.” Do this for about a minute to channel concentration from your
body to your mind. Stop the chant and lie quietly. As images or thoughts enter
your mind, don’t linger on them but just let them flow. The idea is to think about
nothing, only emptiness. Try to slowly transmit your thoughts to your mind's
boundary without any pressure. Just let them drift away. What you’re doing here
is finding tranquility. This may take a little practice but once you’re accustomed to
it, it will come naturally. Do this for about 10 minutes. Then bring yourself back by
repeating the same mantra for about a minute. By doing this procedure, you’re
Physical condition and mental attitude are directly linked to the way a
person thinks, feels, and acts. Both are equally important. The physical side is
influenced by the mental side and vice versa. When one of the two is weak,
difficulties ensue. This is the reason why one’s physique must be healthy with a
positive mental disposition. This condition is called for not only to cure anxiety,
but also in almost all other situations in life to handle whatever is thrown along
the way.
anything else, here’s a friendly reminder: “Take things in moderation. Even good
things when taken in excessive amounts can be bad.” Words to these effects
have been part of my attitude in life. I find it applicable in almost every activity I
engage in.
may still be reasonably good like doing overtime work for a few hours and some
days of the week. But excessive overtime work like working the whole night over
just to finish a job can be very disturbing to one’s health. It may be healthy for the
quantities. Vitamin A, for example, is good for our body in a lot of ways; but too
whether good or bad. Just do not stretch them over the limits, especially with
increased frequency.
What is being pointed here is not a picture of the bad side of good things,
but rather the bad habits some people do to good things. What is good will
Some people on a diet regimen tend to bribe the good stuffs to extreme
levels. Again, a good thing will always be good. It’s the way the thing is treated
Aside from the air we breathe, water is one of the primary sources of life.
substance where the beauty of nature is in harmony with all living creatures.
Without doubt, water is the one of the main ingredients in relieving stress
and anxiety. Even the human body is made vastly of water. Water transports and
body to its various vital organs. It is like a delivery truck that drops off the
essential substances where they should be or where the body needs them to be.
Dehydration, which is the lack of water in the body, disturbs the delivery
system resulting to pile-ups and shortages. We can interpret this unbalanced flow
regular water intakes and prefers something else due to its taste, he can slowly
and gradually increase substituting these fluids with plain water. In time, the
important to drink at least 8 glasses of water a day. The more you perspire, the
If one has to discover life on another planet or any unknown body in the
universe, one of the most important signs being looked for is water. The other
one is most likely to be the presence of oxygen in its atmosphere, which is why
water is indispensable.
Aside from water or fluids that a person needs for his physical health, solid
food or food in general is the other part of one’s diet that needs looking into.
Again, this is where moderation plays a major role in keeping one’s body fit and
healthy.
Practice good eating habits. By following the Food Guide Pyramid, you
can get all the vitamins, minerals, and most nutrients needed by your body.
Trying to keep track of our eating habits can be difficult for some of us due
to the fast-paced stressful life that we lead. We can’t find the time to monitor what
unbalanced diet can lead to acidity. This tends to raise the stress level, making
many people more susceptible to anxiety and panic attacks. To counteract this
activity, alkaline-based foods must be taken to balance the pH level in the body.
I believe most of us know about the 80-20 rule. Based on this concept, it is
stated that if a fairly fit person makes healthy eating choices 80% of the time
(consuming higher calorie foods), the other 20% of the time usually won’t be a
problem. Translating this to the amount of food taken each meal using the 80-20
principle, 80% amount of food in the grain, vegetables, and fruits groups, and
20% in the other food groups like meat, poultry, fish, eggs, milk, cheese, and
age and activity), you can more or less determine the comfortable level of stuffy
feel in the stomach. A person may be full after a meal but still feels light, due to
alkaline-based foods. A person may feel full or heavy despite eating moderate
amounts because of acidic foods. Though it is possible that other factors may
A balanced diet like those in the Food Guide Pyramid provides enough
vitamins, minerals, and most nutrients needed by the human body. However,
supplements may be used if you think the foods you are eating fall short of the
Nutrients in the body play an important role to ward off anxiety in one’s
daily activities. These include B-complex (Vitamins B5, B6, B12), Omega 3,6,
The B-complex normalizes the pituitary and adrenal gland hormone levels.
Vitamin B5 also helps relieve stress and tension, aside from anxiety.
Suggested daily intake is 500 mg. Foods containing Vitamin B5 include tuna,
100 mg. Foods containing Vitamin B6 include peanut, olive, whole grain cereals,
soybeans, corn, wheat germ, and nutritional yeast mixed into juice drinks.
mg. Foods containing Vitamin B12 include whole grain bread, eggs, peanut, milk,
Omega 3,6, and 9 regulate the heart and circulatory system. Foods rich in
these nutrients include flax seeds oil and fish liver oil such as Squalene.
Although supplements help keep the body healthy in many ways, nutrients
derived from natural foods are still the best. Thinking that supplements are
readily accessible while neglecting good eating habits is not an ideal habit. Try to
go as natural as possible.
Minerals play a vital role in regulating the water content, hormones, and
as to keep the different systems in the body functioning properly. There are at
least 60 different minerals found in the human body, and around 1/3 of these are
Foods to Avoid
· Alcohol
· Caffeine
· Nicotine
· Sugar
bouts of anxiety attack. If you can’t avoid consuming them, then at least reduce
your intake.
Chapter 4
Regular Exercise
One of the ways the mind gains more knowledge and information is
through reading. In the same manner, the physical body gains more benefits
through exercises.
greater heights of good health; and this will result to less anxiety attacks.
body look fit while toning the muscles and body mass. Subconsciously under this
Internally, the vital organs become more vigorous, thereby increasing the
metabolic rate. In a possible way, due to this increased vigor, you can feel a
contributes to the beneficial excretion of wastes, residues, and toxins from the
body.
During and after an exercise, you can observe the similarities that an
and signs like sweating, rapid breathing, and heightened heartbeat rate are
common for both. With this in mind, you can deduce your ability to be able to
handle anxieties in the same way physical exercise is handled. Whenever you
have a panic attack, just remember how you are feeling and adapting when
you’re exercising. You can then take that emotion and apply it to overcome your
anxiety.
jogging, or running, which ever the person prefers, are some of the choices.
Slightly sophisticated exercises with simple machines like biking, roller skating,
and skate boarding can bring some fun alongside the benefits. For those who
running is ideal. You may prefer going to the gym for a workout, and to the beach
or swimming pool for a swim. If you are to choose between a beach (even for just
a walk) and a pool, take the beach. A lot of people with respiratory ailments attest
that aside from the exercises obtained by swimming or walking along the beach,
the benefit of sea breeze to the respiratory system especially in the early
morning, is astounding. This is probably the reason why, aside from swimming,
houses along beach lines or seashores are the favorite vacation sites of many
people.
All these can aid to relieve life’s stresses, improve health condition, and
and desired pace. Duration of exercise is based on your own capacity or doctor’s
recommendation. Keep going for as long as you are comfortably able. Rest a
while when needed, then go on again. This way, you can experience and
the next exercise session if possible. Remember to drink water or fluids prior to,
overcoming anxiety, but also in the over all context of maintaining a healthy body.
There is no better description about exercise than this quote by Dr. Robert
Butler who states: “If exercise could be packed into a pill, it would be the single
Natural home remedies are practical ways to keep anxieties under control.
In this chapter, you shall discover new ways to attain wellness - ways that are as
finding cures to anxieties. This is a good idea. This combination is better known
Acupressure
similar in many ways to acupuncture. It uses hands (at times other parts of the
body like feet and elbow) in applying pressure to specific points of the human
safe, without side effects, and 100% natural. No medication is required. The
results are effective and instantaneous. And the best part is that it is inexpensive
pressure, its purpose is to restore or accentuate the flow of energy in the body to
activate its own healing process. This energy which is better known as Qi
(pronounced “chi”) or Qi Kong is used in turning stagnant energy into free flowing
energy in the body. It makes the blood flow smoothly, thereby giving relief to
provide other benefits to the overall health condition of the body and mind.
these techniques are utilized. Nevertheless, practice them even under normal
condition. General rule: Press firmly but not to the point of experiencing
pain or discomfort.
1. Grasp your thumb (either one holding the other) in a firm, earnest, and
gentle manner. Continue holding your thumb until your anxieties fade
away.
2. Tightly press the spot that is approximately 4 to 4.5 cm from the bottom
of your palm, while taking several deep breaths. See SPOT A in the
3. Intently press the spot where the “third eye” is perceived to be (at the
the middle toe. A pressure from top to bottom accelerates the flow of
these techniques may be new and they may feel apprehensive to try them. But
the important thing here is that acupressure procedures are natural and
"Thought Field Therapy is the study of the structure of thought fields and
the body's energy system as they pertain to the diagnosis and treatment of
TFT. This involves tapping different spots of the body to get rid of emotional or
mental distress. The tapping transpires at the border points of various energy
meridians and supplies the extra energy required to promote the beneficial flow
between 1 and 10 that best depicts the level of your distress. A rating of 10
discomfort at all.
Procedure 3: While thinking about the distress, tap solidly five times (using
your two fingertips) the spot above the bridge of your nose, roughly where either
eyebrow meets. See POINT 1 in the 1st TFT ILLUSTRATION below. Tap firmly
Procedure 4: Tap solidly (using your two fingertips) the spot under the eye
around 5 times. See POINT 2 in the 1st TFT ILLUSTRATION below. It doesn’t
matter which side you tap. You can even tap both sides at the same time. Again,
Procedure 5: Tap five times the spot about 4 inches below either armpit at
the side of the body. This is a little below the level of the nipple. See POINT 3 in
Procedure 6: Tap 5 times the spot under the collar bone, around 1 inch to
the left or to the right from the center of the chest, before the first rib. See POINT
Procedure 7: At this point, rate your anxiety level again from 1 to 10 (with
Procedure 9. If not, join your fingers together and proceed to find the spot
between the base of the little finger and the wrist, on the outmost edge. See
POINT A in the 2ND TFT ILLUSTRATION below. Tap this spot 5 times using the
other hand while saying, “I wholeheartedly accept myself even though I am still
process is to locate (at the back of the hand) the spot between the knuckles of
the ring finger and little finger. See POINT B in the 2ND TFT ILLUSTRATION
below. Tap using 2 fingers of the other hand while simultaneously engaging in
3. With head not moving, turn your eyes to the left side
4. With head not moving, turn your eyes to the right side.
8. Count from 1 to 5.
procedure from the top. This time, the taps will be thrice as many.
When you have finally achieved a 3 to 1 rating, you may wrap it up with
Procedure 9. This time, the tapping of the hand is done with the eyes circling
aware of this activity to avoid being misinterpreted. Can you imagine what other
people may think when they see a person rolling his eyes in all directions? J
Aromatherapy
used for maintaining health and a whole lot of other purposes. It focuses on
healing through our sense of smell. This wonder cure deals with essential oils
derived from botanical plants. These essential oils can be added to a bath or
massaged to the skin, spread out into a room by evaporation, or can be inhaled
directly. You can fuse together two or more oils to produce your own
Essential oils have powerful effects that stimulate our smell instinct. It
relieves tension and fatigue, and gives us an invigorating feeling. Our sense of
smell is directly connected to the brain. A life deprived of invigorating scent can
lead to a dull one; and in turn, can lead to an anxious and depressive mood.
peppermint, lavender, floral, tea tree, citrus, and rosemary. Revolving around any
of these six scents can help induce relaxation by relieving tension and stress.
keep it handy for instant relief against anxiety and panic attacks. Storage should
3. Mix about 40 drops of essential oil to an aroma lamp (if you prefer to fill
the air in the room with an aromatic scent). You can adjust the dosage
At any rate, the inhalation process should be gradual and deep. Essential
Herbal Therapy
There are some people who find conventional medication disturbing due
have side effects), herbal medicines are safer and milder preferences. They are
cure illnesses, especially herbs. Herbal medicine from health food stores are
tinctures, ointments and creams, and fresh or dried herbs to make a tea using
Most herbal medicines are safe because they are natural. There are some
which are not completely safe when they are used in conjunction with
Those with chronic health problems usually take months or even years of
taking herbal medicine before they will notice significant improvements in their
conditions. However, herbal medicines coupled with nutritious diet and exercise
To treat anxiety, make a soothing tea drink out of any of the following
1. chamomile
2. oats
3. lavender
4. lemon balm
5. passion flower
6. kava kava
7. linden flower
8. valerian root
Pour a cup of boiling water to around a tablespoon of the herb, steep for
about 10 to 15 minutes, then strain and drink the tea while warm. Sweeten with
honey if preferred.
You may also combine the herbs to make a more potent tea drink for
beating anxiety. For example, you may blend chamomile, lavender, and hops.
You may also combine lavender, linden flower, oats, and lemon balm.
that uses treatment derived from distilled blooming flowers and plants. This type
to the emotion.
Modern tradition of healing with flowers and plants can be attributed to Dr.
Edward Bach, an English physician who in the early part of the 1930s tried to find
cures for anxiety and emotional disorders, without the side effects of drugs. Dr.
Bach noticed that the physical health of an individual gets impaired as a result of
process, he discovered 38 flowering plants and trees that lessen and soothe
remedy therapy.
In essence, this branch of alternative medicine is responsible in linking the
mind and body, like for instance psychological stress and heart ailment. The idea
here is that “in order to cure a physical ailment, find the cause.” It is sort of a
the flowers are used to enhance your emotional and psychological state in order
individuals. The results are not instantaneous and it may take weeks, unlike
to solving anxiety, unlike the conventional means wherein the cure is only for a
particular moment.
relief formula, this remedy consists of Cherry Plum, Clematis, Impatiens, Star-of-
Bethlehem, and Rockrose. To use it, just place 3 to 4 drops under the tongue.
For those who worry excessively, Aspen and Red Chestnut are advisable
treatments. A quarter full of water in a glass mixed with a few drops of these
concentrates is preferably taken in the morning upon waking up, before meals,
Sound Therapy
At one time or another in your life, you may have tuned in to music to
change your angry, anxious mood to a relaxing one. If you’re caught in heavy
tension.
The principle lies in our body’s main sound receptor, which is the ear. The
nerves in the ears, as well as the skin and bones that form them, accumulate
sound waves and transmit these waves in the form of impulses to the brain. After
this process, the brain sends out signals to the other body parts affecting muscle
tension, blood pressure, and heart rate. Listening to relaxing music can calm the
chemicals are known to reduce pain and can even change your mood from
must be one that we like. What is soothing for an individual might not be as
effective for another person. It is a matter of individual taste for a particular type
of music or sound. In most cases, soft music tends to soothe nerves while rock
music raises almost everything in the body, including pulse and heart rate.
Also, you must be able to distinguish what is music to your ears and what
is noise. The two have opposite effects. Music can heal while noise is hazardous.
Even if noise does not affect your ears so much, it might already be damaging
The best soothing sounds are nature-based. Sounds like ocean waves,
leaves rustling in the wind, streaming water, and gentle rain are just some of the
that are not dominated by noisy machines. For noisy manufacturing lines,
individual pocket radios with one earplug is recommendable, while leaving the
other ear open to make the person aware of his surroundings. Please note
though that this is just a recommendation as must companies have their own
regulations.
For best results to slow down your heart rate and reduce anxiety, sit
this for around half an hour or until the anxious feeling goes away.
Homeopathy
minerals, and other substances. Through this healing method, ailments are
treated by activating the body’s natural defenses, quite often with just one dose.
The wonderful thing is that it is reported to have zero side effects. According to
the National Center for Homeopathy, around 40% of the populace in France and
to conventional medicines.
individuals that are identical to the diseases that will be cured. This means that
when a person develops an illness out of a certain substance, it will take a similar
ailments may be given the same remedy. Conversely, two persons with the same
ailment may be given different remedies. This can be likened to two cars of the
same model. One owner may say the car is good because it’s durable, while
another may say it isn’t because it frequently breaks down. The problem may lie
in the way the cars have been assembled or the way the two cars are used in
physical symptoms. That is why two persons with the same illness but different
person as a whole, not just the ailment. This is why it takes a longer time for a
Here are some do’s and don’ts to remember that are required to maintain
place.
2. Don’t expose the remedy to strong scents or odors because its efficacy
might diminish.
4. Avoid drinking coffee because its essential oils might decrease the
have been diluted 1 to 10.) For worse cases of panic attacks, try a dose of 30C
dosage when you begin to feel calmer. Consult with a homeopath if you have any
uncertainties.
Hydrotherapy
hydrotherapy treatments. This kind of remedy which dates as far back as 4th
century B.C. has been part of the healing process of nearly every civilization.
movement. Most hydrotherapy treatments deal with bathing and compresses that
stimulate blood circulation, which in turn deliver the nutrients to other parts of the
body.
To relieve anxiety, fill bathtub with water that is a little cooler than body
temperature, about 35 to 36 degree Celsius. Stay in the tub with your body
immersed up to the neck for about 25-30 minutes. Observe the temperature
using a regular thermometer, and add water if necessary to retain the appropriate
Diversion
enjoyable is by way of diversion. Choose a method that can give you the ability to
regain resiliency and vitality, leaving very little or no room for anxiety. It can be a
mentally stimulating activity or one that demands physical exertion. If both mental
and physical exertions are present in the activity, the more chances it will distract
recurrences of anxiety. Just make sure that chosen activity does not create a
new and different round of anxiety. If it does, look for other types of diversion.
time to watch funny comedy shows. Place pictures that remind you of
Chapter 6
When All Else Fails
In the previous chapters, you’ve been taught many ways to counter panic
and anxiety. Different people react to different cures. So if one technique does
not suit you, or you do not find it effective, go on with the next one until you find
But what if the panic and anxiety monsters don’t give up amidst the
numerous tactics you have used against them? Such situation is rare; but just in
people. Almost every time an important event is coming up, anxiety is the bad
guy who gets into the picture. The more you fight or resist anxiety, the more it
persists on wrecking and spreading havoc. Anxiety is almost always there with
intention to win over the person. When it does, it sports a wide, silly grin. It’s as if
anxiety is telling you, “So now you know who is boss around here.”
But the way to stop anxiety from pushing you around or from controlling
you is to move in unison with it. You have to harmonize with it, and not resist it. In
this case, apply the principle “If you can’t beat them, join them.” The more you
resist anxiety, the more it sports that silly grin on its face. To put it simply, you
“But wait, isn’t this tantamount to submission to anxiety’s whims? It’s like
waving the flag of surrender.” It may seem like a submission but it’s actually not.
by keeping in mind that it has no capacity to harm you mentally and physically,
Lots of things are on your mind and this could lead to extreme anxiety. Of course,
you make the usual preparations that involve weddings. Most likely, you acquire
preparations. You may have some special things on your mind that you want on
your wedding, so you coordinate them with the wedding planner. This is actually
advance of the worst scenario that can spoil your wedding and prepare an action
plan for it (just in case), and see if you can survive it (which I am sure you will).
To further ease the feeling of anxiety, consider this thought. At the instant
comfortable feeling you will experience once anxiety subsides. The assurance
and comfortable feeling of an after-anxiety attack will drive you to have a positive
attitude. You may even say to yourself, “Let’s get this over with; the sooner, the
better.”
uptight. Loosen those nerves. Be less concerned with the time but do not totally
ignore it. Take things in stride, in a light manner, even if it seems not. Be less
serious emotionally. Should you fumble, don’t lose your cool. If possible, see the
Ralph Waldo Emerson’s famous quote goes: “Do the thing you are afraid
to do and the death of fear is certain.” This is really true. If you allow fear to stop
you from living a normal life, it will always persist on your mind. This is much like
a movie. If you don’t watch the movie, you won’t know how its story will end. And
this thought will keep on lingering. By watching the movie, your curiosity will be
satisfied. The same thing is true with fear. By engaging in an activity you fear,
you will experience and feel the outcome of doing what you fear. Next time, you’ll
be able to conquer that fear because you have already “passed that stage.”
In the event of a panic attack, always remember that: “What you may
perceive as danger or threat is not real.” The panic attack is a result of the
emotions within yourself and how you interpret it. Keep in mind that this can be
controlled.
Conclusion
There is no denying that with the hectic and fast-paced lifestyle we lead,
anxiety or panic attacks have become more and more prevalent. What we need
not the other way around. By acquiring the right knowledge and applying the
proper techniques, there’s no reason for anxiety or panic to stay longer than it
should. Aside from being effective, all of the remedies stated here are natural,
You have learned many of the best ways to overcome panic/anxiety in this
book. New approaches may be discovered in the days ahead and we all look