Case Study On Nuclear and Joint Families
Case Study On Nuclear and Joint Families
Case Study On Nuclear and Joint Families
Nuclear Family
The family is a social group characterized by common residence, economic
cooperation and reproduction. It contains adults of both sexes, at least two of
whom maintain a socially approved sexual relationship, and one or more children,
own or adopted, of the sexually cohabiting adults. A typical nuclear family consists
of a husband, a wife, a couple of children2. The number of members are very few
in a nuclear family.
Joint Family
A joint family is a form of family where the grand-parents, father, mother, and
children live unitedly under one roof. In such form of family system, every
member:
● is expected to make some financial contribution to the common fund,
● share common rights in the household property,
● eat the food made at the common kitchen, and
● make their daily expenditure from common fund.
In such form of families, the son doesn’t distant himself after getting married.
Instead, he lives with his wife and children in the same house along with his other
family members3. The eldest male member is usually the head of the joint family.
His power and functions are like that of a trustee. He is entitled to take economic
and social decisions on behalf of the family.
It is the best pattern of living that is most conducive to the growth, based on a
principle of fair economy. It holds it as a rule of creation that all men are not equal.
Naturally it imposes a kind of unwritten discipline that those who are more able
economically shall share some of the burden of those who are not. The joint mess,
naturally, runs on an understanding of mutual adjustment. Naturally those who are
benefited by the generosity of others remain obliged and grateful. Similarly in a
big joint family the study groups of boys are formed according to their age
matching. Naturally the cousins study together, play together, quarrel together and
are even punished together. As a result there grows in them a feeling of
camaraderie that is free from any discrimination of one being a full brother or a
cousin. In marriages also the grooms for marriageable girls become a concern for
all the elders in the family. Even if a daughter of a junior brother is selected by
someone because of her beauty or brilliance, he would not agree to her marriage
until her senior cousin sister is married. The basic necessities of all the family
members are taken care of. Each member is guaranteed the minimum subsistence
for living. It supports all the members of the family. Old and elderly people are
respected. Proper care is taken for old, widowed, physically weak and disabled
family members. As such the disciplines in a joint family are self-imposed on its
members. The head of the big family almost becomes its patriarch. The family
prospers squarely if the patriarch and the other constituents observe the norms
soundly and healthily. Finally, the spirit of oneness prevails in a Joint family
system.
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Patricia Uberoi (ed.), Family, Kinship and Marriage in India, (Oxford University Press, New Delhi).
It often creates parasites who love to feed on other’s income. They exploit the
goodness and principled behaviour of its partners. Sometimes some crooked
member of the family plot to torture and exploit another innocent member of the
family. High earning members often insults the low earning members. The cost of
education has gone up high. The high earning members often want their children to
study in costly schools but they don’t want to share the burden of the children of
the other members of the family. In large families, most of important decisions are
made by the head of the family. Since, all the individuals within the family doesn’t
get the opportunity to participate in major decisions of the family, they often feel
lost or develop a feeling of inferiority complex.
CONCLUSION
Both the joint and nuclear families have their own pros and cons. India is a country
which is known for its cultural diversity and thus, joint family system is still
prevalent in many parts of the country.
But with the increase in urbanization, nuclear families are taking over the joint
family systems. When compared to joint family, nuclear families many a times feel
better. They provide a peace and calm environment at home as there are very few
members in the house. Every individual after coming from work requires a
peaceful atmosphere at home, which gets practically impossible in the case of a
joint family. Therefore, in this contemporary world, people nowadays prefer
nuclear family more than the joint family.