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Some of the key takeaways from texting include practicing indifference, varying response times, avoiding boring topics, and using techniques like push/pull.

Guidelines include knowing the context, knowing when to stop texting, avoiding double texts, varying response times, not always responding, and avoiding boring topics.

If a woman flakes on plans, you should not try to reschedule immediately, play it off like it's no deal, and rebuild attraction before asking her out again.

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Godmode Text Game


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INTRODUCTION 5
GUIDELINES 6
CONTEXT IS EVERYTHING 6
KNOW WHEN TO STOP 6
NO DOUBLE TEXTS 6
VARY RESPONSE TIMES 7
DON’T ALWAYS RESPOND 7
PRACTICE INDIFFERENCE 8
AVOID BORING TOPICS 8
STOP TRYING 9
EMOJIS 9
ROAD MAP 10
COLD OPENERS 13
OPENERS 15
PUSH 17
PULL 20
BAITING 23
BARRIERS 25
TEASING 27
ONE WORD REPLIES 29
BEING A CHALLENGE 31
VULNERABILITY 34
FUTURE PROJECTION 36
ASKING HER OUT 38
HANDLING TESTS 41
DEALING WITH FLAKES 44
NON RESPONDERS 46

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INTRODUCTION
Texting often gets dismissed within the pickup community
and rightly so. If you don’t know what you’re doing it’s far
easier to destroy attraction than it is to build it, however it
doesn’t have to be. When applied correctly texting bridges
the crucial gap between getting her number and getting her
to see you, if you don’t have the texting fundamentals down
you’re going to miss out on a lot of opportunities.

If you’re new to pick up, some of the advice and texts I


propose in this book may seem counter intuitive, illogical and
maybe even risky but I want you to keep an open mind here.
Growing up the best piece of advice I got about women was
“whatever you think you should do, do the opposite”. I can’t
remember who said it but I do remember how powerful the
effect was on me and how much it improved my game. I
learnt quickly how male and female brains are wired
differently and what we as males think should work often
doesn’t and what we think shouldn’t work often does. The
same concept applies when texting women.

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GUIDELINES
CONTEXT IS EVERYTHING
Do not stack the texts provided here one after the other
machine gun style in hope of something sticking because
that’s not going to work. You need to come across as natural
as possible and not sound like a copying and pasting robot.
Know that it’s not only what you say that matters but also the
context in which you say it in. I will explain what the correct
context is to use with each technique so you know exactly
how and when to use them.

KNOW WHEN TO STOP


Avoid texting her too much, especially in the beginning. Your
attention should be earned gradually over time and not given
automatically. Find the right balance between texting them
enough to create intrigue and then leaving them wanting
more.

NO DOUBLE TEXTS
If she hasn’t replied to one of your texts do not fall into the
trap of texting her back the same day. Do not begin to doubt
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what you wrote. Your mindset should be that she is testing


your neediness so don’t give her a reason to lose attraction.
If she still hasn’t responded after at least 2 days, open her
again.

VARY RESPONSE TIMES


Don’t be predictable, vary your response times. Sometimes
it’s fine to text back immediately, though if you’re busy then
make her wait. The general guide is to mix it up so she that
doesn’t know when to expect your response.

This rule does not apply if you’re in the middle of a


conversation where not responding would destroy the
momentum of it or if you’re arranging time dependant
logistics so gauge it accordingly.

Don’t overthink it when it comes to how long you should wait


before texting her for the first time, though it’s better not to
wait any longer than a day so that the interaction is still fresh
in her mind.

DON’T ALWAYS RESPOND


Do not respond to every text. This may seem hard at first and
counterintuitive though you will quickly begin to realise how
effective it can be. It will also give her space to miss you.

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The best time to leave her hanging is when she asks you a
question and not during a lull in the conversation because
now she’s expecting a response and not just assuming that
the conversation ended naturally. This makes your non-
response much more powerful. Text back in 1-2 days picking
up where the conversation left off like nothing happened. Do
not apologise for or explain your absence.

PRACTICE INDIFFERENCE
Indifference is attractive. Be completely indifferent to all
responses and outcomes. Never show anger over text or any
strong emotion for that matter. Showing that kind of
response means you’re attached to the outcome and that
you think your life would somehow be better with her in it.
Your mindset should be that her responses don’t affect you
because you’re fine either way. Also avoid sending overly
serious texts, texting should be fun and lighthearted so try to
keep it that way.

AVOID BORING TOPICS


If it’s not interesting then you shouldn’t be talking about it.
Don’t try to get to know her over text and avoid asking facts
about her or what she’s doing (save those for in person).
Topics to avoid include work, news, personal facts etc. You
won’t be able to completely avoid some of these topics
entirely and that’s okay just don’t make them the focus of the
conversation or go out of your way to introduce them.
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STOP TRYING
A conversation should flow naturally with a similar amount of
effort from both sides. If you look at your recent texts and
see that you’re the one asking all the questions and doing
most of the talking then you need to take a step back and
assess what you’re doing. Try to avoid sending long texts,
most of the examples I provide here are one sentence or
less (usually around 5-10 words is more than enough).

EMOJIS
The use of emoji’s will allow you to get away with much more
than you usually could and can be the difference between
texting something that could possibly offend her and texting
something that will make her laugh. Without the presence of
vocal tonality and facial expressions, texts can be taken in
different ways (especially if she doesn’t fully understand your
personality yet) so it’s important to use emojis to show that
you aren't taking it too seriously. They will also allow you to
replace overused acronyms though remember to avoid
overdoing it and keep it simple, that means no girly hearts or
kiss emojis.

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ROAD MAP
This goal of this book is to effectively take you from point A
(sending your opening text) to point B (getting her eager to
see you) with as little resistance and as much compliance as
possible. Everything technique in between is designed to
help get you there faster and to overcome any obstacles that
you may face along the way.

You don’t need to follow every technique I propose here, in


fact I recommend that you don’t. It’s not about copying and
pasting the perfect sequence of texts and expecting her to
magically fall in love with you. Different techniques are
designed to work on different girls for different situations.

The 3 basic interactions can be placed into 3 categories -


engaged, neutral and disengaged. Whether she is really into
you (engaged), indifferent about you (neutral) or not into you
at all (disengaged), each case is different and requires
different techniques. I have colour coded each category to
align with each text so you know exactly what kind of texts to
use on what girl and what texts to avoid.

There’s no one size fits all approach here so you should


always be assessing the situation and responding

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accordingly. When assessing her interest level you do not


need to overanalyse and categorise each text she sends but

rather the overall tone of the interaction and the vibe she’s
giving you.

Engaged (GREEN)

• Prompt replies
• Lengthy replies
• Initiates conversation
• Asks questions
• Conversationally invested
• Frequent use of emoticons and LOL’s

Disengaged (RED)

• Slow replies
• Short replies
• Doesn’t initiate conversation
• Doesn’t ask questions
• Conversationally non-invested

Neutral (YELLOW)

• A varying combination of disengaged and engaged

Remember that these can change over time as the


interaction progresses, so if she starts out as disengaged or
neutral then your goal is to get her engaged as much as
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possible prior to asking her out as this yields a much higher


probability of her actually wanting to. If she’s already highly
engaged then less is more, you can skip a lot of the
attraction building techniques I propose and focus more on
building comfort.

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COLD OPENERS
Use on
• Engaged
• Neutral
• Disengaged

Cold openers are for girls whose numbers you just got.
So what goes into a creating a first text that sets you apart
and makes her eager to text you back? Three things: it
needs to be engaging, playful and give her a reason for her
to respond.

- By acknowledging and making fun of their fears in a


humorous way you’re putting them at ease and
demonstrating social acuity.

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- If you met her the night prior. This can be effective whether
you made out with her or not, either way works. The point
is that you don’t remember.

- Send shortly after talking to her so she knows you’re


referring to yourself.

- Effective if the initial interaction was strong and you can


sense that she is very interested.

- Callback something you remember about her during the


conversation that can be used against her.

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OPENERS
Use on
• Engaged
• Neutral
• Disengaged

Openers are used to initiate a conversation with those


you’ve already texted before. The same principles we used
to create cold openers apply (playful and engaging),
however we can now assume familiarity to establish the
foundation of the interaction.

Avoid asking how their day was or what they are up to. This
is value taking, forcing them to provide a response in order
to entertain you and putting the conversational burden on
them. It’s boring, it’s also what everyone else does and it’s
not going to set you apart. A better way to open is to provide
a playful and engaging comment, doing this alone sets you
apart from most of the other guys she is probably already
texting and it leads to a more stimulating conversation for the
both of you.

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- If you already have a solid interaction with the girl and


she’s completely engaged.

- Using humour to let her know you’re thinking about her


allows you to not appear non needy. Use on party girls.

- You can get away with setting frames like these if you do
them in an obviously humorous way. She knows you’re
joking, however on a subconscious level the frame of you
being higher value than her is still set.

- She won’t know whether you were reminded because she


looked similar to her or because of the way she stared at
you. It also gives you pre-selection by letting her know
other girls who look like her are interested in you.

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PUSH
Use on
• Neutral
• Disengaged

It’s important to remember that the goal here is not to insult


her, it’s to push her away and then pull her back in once
she’s earned it. This is a powerful way to create an element
of drama which helps solidify the attraction. Push/pull can be
a double edged sword so if she is already really into you
(engaged) then there’s no reason to use it on her. However if
you can sense that she’s disengaged or neutral about you
then use it.

You need a reason to use push, don’t try to force it into the
conversation, let it happen naturally as these texts could
seem misplaced if they’re used out of context. The right time
to use them will be when she says something that, 1) is
negative about you or you can misinterpret as negative, 2)
you don't like or 3) you don’t agree with. Whether you
actually care about it or not doesn’t matter, it will still give you
right context for your text to make sense and have the right
effect.

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Also remember to use emoji’s here wherever you deem


necessary to soften the impact and to let her know that
you’re not taking it too seriously.

- Even though you’re clearly joking this creates the frame


that you have all the power (and sexual power) in the
relationship.

- You’re pushing them away in a way that frames it as


negative however you’re doing it in a way that makes it
appealing.

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PULL
Use on
• Engaged
• Neutral

Women hate getting mixed messages and that’s why push/


pull is such a great technique. Push/pull works better when it
is used within the context of the same conversation, though
these can still be used on their own to build comfort if she’s
already somewhat engaged.

These texts are about finding the right balance between


showing interest but not showing too much interest to
appear desperate. It’s best to avoid using over the top,
generic compliments as they don’t translate well over text
and may make you look needy.

Like with push texts, you also need a reason to use pull.
Instead of asking a qualifying question such as “are you
adventurous?”, allow her to qualify herself on her own
naturally. Use them after she qualifies herself, says or does
something you like or when you’re connecting on some
level. It doesn’t matter what the reason is but just make sure
there is a reason as she needs to feel like she has done

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something to earn it otherwise it wont have the desired


effect.

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- Use if you haven’t had sex with her yet. Also by assuming
the sex is going to be bad will likely make her want to
challenge your assumption.

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BAITING
Use on
• Engaged
• Neutral
• Disengaged

The goal with baiting is to build intrigue and investment into


the conversation. Also if you feel like you’re putting more
effort into the interaction than she is then baiting can be a
great way to get her to reciprocate. Baiting is accomplished
by using vague or incomplete statements that pique her
curiosity and prompt follow up questions. A good baiting
statement should be light hearted, playful, and ambiguous.

- You need the right context to use this text. The right
context is if she sends you a picture or you’re in the middle
of talking about something related. With this text she’s
going to wonder what you think the first most attractive
thing about her is so have something prepared.

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- Obviously do not use if she’s even slightly overweight.


When she asks what you mean, explain that overweight
girls usually have the best personalities. Follow up with
“did you used to be a fat kid in school?”. This can be
stacked with the bait above if you said your favourite thing
about her was her personality.

- Have a reason prepared as to why this character reminds


you of her.

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BARRIERS
Use on
• Neutral

Dealing with barriers and overcoming them are the key


ingredient in every love story. Just think of the most popular
romance movies or fairytales (The Titanic, The Notebook,
Cindarella) and you will begin to see a familiar pattern: two
people become involved with each other but then are torn
apart by various reasons, though through the power of love
they are able to overcome them to create an even stronger
bond than they had before and live happily ever after.

Creating barriers are an effective way to allow you both to


work towards overcoming them together, creating a stronger
bond in the process.

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Note: This text is context dependant so make sure to only


use it once she has done something to ‘earn’ it

- This text combines several techniques (baiting, push/pull,


barriers and vulnerability) to create an incredibly powerful
effect. “This is weird” translates to you not being used to
whatever you’re feeling towards her, implying that she is
having a different effect on you. You’re creating a barrier
by telling her that you have a rule that she is in the process
of breaking because she is winning you over. You’re
framing yourself as the ‘forbidden fruit’ by telling her not to
be so adorable, though it’s only going to make her want to
try even harder and make you more enticing.

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TEASING
Use on
• Engaged
• Neutral
• Disengaged

Teasing is also known as flirting. To tease effectively be witty


not insulting. Be sure that you have a good read on her and
remember to deliver it with a playful tone (use emojis). If
she’s fun she will play along.

Teasing a girl can help to create a fun, emotionally


stimulating and challenging interaction while at the same
time as it will demonstrate that you are a confident, high
status with a good sense of humour since men of low status
wouldn’t dare to make fun of a girl, they would be too afraid
of offending her which would lead to rejection (you don’t
care about rejection).

- This DHV’s by implying you’re experienced with ‘hot girls’


and challenges her sexually.

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- Get her to open up about herself more by challenging her.

- If she asks you a lot of boring questions.

- Use if she says she misses you.

- If she says something unusual.

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ONE WORD REPLIES


Use on
• Neutral
• Disengaged

A common mistake made by guys just learning text game is


that they will try too hard and set out to make ever text
clever. They’re afraid to either seem boring or to let the
conversation die out naturally. It’s another form of neediness
and women can sense it.

By sending her a one word reply you’re giving her nothing to


reply to and showing her that you don’t care if the
conversation dies, in fact you’re prompting it to end. This is
also a great way to test her level of interest because if she
responds with anything then it’s a clear sign that she’s
interested and wants to keep the conversation alive.

If she doesn’t respond then you can send another text later,
since you don’t give her anything to respond to in the first
place it doesn’t count as a needy double text.

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BEING A CHALLENGE
Use on
• Neutral
• Disengaged

Every now and then get her to question whether you’re


actually interested in her or not.

The difference between these texts and push texts


(indicators of disinterest) are that the latter are used in
response to when she says or does something that can be
perceived as negative. However these are used in response
to when she says or does something that can be perceived
as positive. The difference is subtle yet the implications are
quite significant.

Here we’re intentionally breaking rapport right after she tries


to build it. When she states interest, misinterpret or frame it
so that it seems like she is the one pursuing you. To avoid
coming across as too cocky use emojis to let her know
you’re being playful and remember to not over do it by being
too much of a challenge, you need to be somewhat
attainable still.

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VULNERABILITY
Use on
• Engaged

A common texting mistake made by guys is that they try to


brag to make themselves sound cool. It doesn’t work, in
reality it’s just another form of neediness that you should
avoid entirely.

Instead of bragging do the opposite and reveal something


completely dorky or a weakness about yourself. Not only
does this show that you’re not trying to impress her or care
for her approval, it makes you seem more relatable and puts
her guard down. You’re opening up to her by showing her a
glimpse of vulnerability which is a powerful way to create a
deeper connection which builds comfort.

Though all of these concepts apply in person, the very


nature of text messages mean that everything should be
kept fun and light hearted…you can’t exactly text her about
that traumatic childhood experience you had when you were
9 so make sure you still keep your messages light and
combine them with humour.

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FUTURE PROJECTION
Use on
• Engaged

Why can a woman have a bad dream about her partner,


wake up to realise it was only a dream and yet still be mad at
him? Often times dreams have an emotional impact on
people because their emotions can’t determine what’s real
and what isn’t. Whether it actually happened or not doesn’t
matter because they still experienced it emotionally.
Likewise, if you can get a girl to associate imaginary
experiences with you they will be just as powerful as real
ones. They also mentally prepare her for spending time with
you since she’s already envisioning it in her mind.

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ASKING HER OUT


Use on
• Engaged

If she’s not already completely engaged, skip this section,


go back and cycle through the techniques again until she is.

Hopefully by now you have followed all the steps outlined in


this book and she’s completely engaged. She’s now eager to
see you and waiting for you to ask her out. As previously
mentioned, do not use these texts to start off a conversation.
Wait until you’re already in the middle of a good
conversation and then ask her out in a completely casual
way like it’s almost an afterthought. This makes it seem more
casual and spontaneous.

The first date should be low commitment. In fact, you


shouldn't even call it a ‘date’.

- By asking her out using the condition above (that she has
to bring you a present), you’re creating the assumption
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that she’s already agreeing to see you and not only that
but you expect to get a present out of it. Instead of framing
it as a question “Do you want to do something on
Tuesday?”, you’re avoiding the question entirely, making
her mind up for her and putting her focus on bringing you
a present.

- If it’s at night you can subtlety challenge her by using the


condition “if it’s not past your bedtime”.

- By telling her that she’s boring you at the start will make
her more likely to agree on a spontaneous get together to
challenge your assumption. Since it’s a personality test
she’ll probably pick bubble tea to further challenge it. Also
again, you’re not asking her to see you because you’re
already assuming she’s going to say yes, instead you’re
asking her to pick the drink.

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- Use if she has shown resistance. The “starting to forget


what you look like” works on a psychological level by
activating her fear of loss. Even if she’s completely neutral
about you, no one wants to be forgotten. It also allows you
to appear non-needy (since you can’t remember what she
looks like) while still pursuing her.

- Using lyrics are a risk free way to send overtly sexual texts.
Anything from Drake will work.

- Using role reversals and conditions to frame her as being


the sexual aggressor.

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HANDLING TESTS
Use on
• Engaged
• Neutral
• Disengaged

If you’re following this guide correctly you will get tested.


This is a good sign, it means she likes you enough to see if
you’re worth testing in the first place. Understand that she
has to do this in order to filter out any low value, insecure
men. If you get tested do not get caught up in the
conversation by responding to it logically or emotionally,
don’t try to explain yourself or back track in any way, shape
or form. When you show her that you don’t need her
approval, her attraction for you increases ten fold.

In order to pass these tests you must be completely non-


reactive in every way. Ignore whatever she said and instead
step back and comment on the overall situation. Keep your
responses low investment, brief and disarming.

Sometimes the best response is no response. If she is


seeking a reaction of some sort from you then not
responding may be the best option. Often times she will end
up texting you again, diffusing the situation on her own.
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- The Neil DeGrasse Tyson meme is perfect for this. By


calling her out as a badass you’re disarming her with
humour and sarcasm. Also copying and pasting a meme as
a response is about as low investment as it gets.

- Letting her know you think it’s cute when she’s mad will
completely disarm her attempt to be mad.

- Yes I know this is completely illogical and that’s the point.

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DEALING WITH FLAKES


Use on
• Engaged
• Neutral
• Disengaged

How you handle the flake can determine whether you see
her again or not. The worst thing you can do is show any
sign of emotion about it. In fact, flakes are a great
opportunity to show your indifference to the outcome so use
them to your advantage.

If she flakes on you and doesn’t offer an alternative time, do


not try to get her to reschedule on the same day. Play it off
like it’s no big deal and then go back to rebuilding attraction
and comfort before asking her out again.

- If she hasn’t responded and you can tell she’s going to


flake, cancel on her first. This lets her know that you’re
going out no matter what and that you have other options.
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It also shows her that you’re not mad by suggesting you’ll


make plans later next week.

- If she hasn’t responded and you want to confirm the date


without appearing needy a good way to do it is to diffuse
the situation with sarcastic humour.

- By casually implying you’ll start cheating on her you can


seed the idea that you aren’t going to wait around for her.

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NON RESPONDERS
Sometimes numbers go cold and stop responding entirely.
There are many possibilities that may have caused her to
stop responding so it’s important not to get too caught up in
trying to analyse why. If you have sent multiple texts days
apart and she hasn’t responded still then wait a week and
follow up with a ‘last resort’ text. A lot of the time they won’t
work, though it’s useful for the odd occasion it will. The time/
reward ratio is sufficient enough to make it a part of your text
game arsenal.

The goal of the last resort text is to simply reignite the


intrigue she presumably felt for you at some point in order to
compel her to respond. If you don’t get a response to the
first one, wait a week before sending the next one and so on.
If you have cycled through all three and there’s still no
response, move on.

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Use this as your ‘last’ last resort text. This text works on three
levels:

1) Non-neediness - You’ve forgotten her number.


2) Abundance - You know 2 other girls with her name, she’s
not special.
3) Intrigue - She will want to know which one you think she is.

If she asks, don’t tell her which one she is, instead focus on
trying to rebuild attraction.

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