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10 REASONS WHY NOT TO HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE
10) SEX IS A DECEIVER

Often, sex is a surging reason why a person links up with someone. This may ensnare them into
committing to a relationship with a person they actually detest. Sometimes, personal traits (which are a
beacon towards true love) are not taken into account. Thus, they end up with someone they would not
even share a sandwich with, let alone their own body.
9) NO LOVE, NO SEX
The very idea of having no sex before marriage is often portrayed as an outdated and hollow custom.
However, this is just a clever way to ensure a person doesn’t commit to a serious relationship with just
anyone. When you love somebody, the love will only grow if you value the emotional and deeper
aspects of it. However, if the relationship primarily centers around supposedly meaningless things like
sex and fulfilling physical desires, then the relationship will eventually lose its spark and end. So when
you say ‘no’ to sex before marriage, what you are really saying is that you don’t want to engage in sex
without love.
8) SEX IS A CONNECTION TO THE MIND

During sex, a chemical called Oxytocin is released which establishes a special connection between the
two individuals. This in turn, increases possessiveness. Now, if sex is the sole reason for engaging in a
relationship, then one is making themselves almost a punching bag for emotional stress. Those who
engage in continuous, casual sex and constantly break up with their partners may often end up in a
mental wreck. Such a rhythmic act of joining and splitting produces a negative effect. Hence, at the first
sight of pressure, either of the partners might run for the exit.
7) DOMESTIC VIOLENCE INCREASES

It is a fact that domestic violence sees a substantial increase in non-marital sexual relationships. In one
study, 80% of violent altercations occurred between non-married couples*. Primary causes of domestic
violence including jealousy, fidelity and confusion of commitment tend to occur less within marriages.
6) CHASTITY GUARDS THE VALUE OF A RELATIONSHIP

The very act of people guarding their chastity pronounces their dedication of commitment to their
special someone. This, along with the integration of marriage establishes durable and successful
relationships for many thousands of years.
5) PREGNANCY
With casual sex, becoming pregnant is almost always a likely scenario. But in the first place, why risk
bringing an innocent child into the world with just one parent? The best way to avoid this is by
displaying the most solid form of commitment: marriage.
4) A CARELESS GIFT
In certain pre-marital cases, sex seems to happen when the female agrees to it. As an alternative, the
woman could withhold sex and only give it to the man who would provide security (in various forms). By
not practicing this, women lose out. This leaves the man instinctively getting what they want from the
woman, and that too for free! A careless gift indeed.
3) MARRIAGE SAVES WOMEN FROM FRAUD
If a man truly loves a woman and supports her state of mind, he will not have a problem with waiting to
have sex after marriage. If he dominantly demands it before then, it’s very likely that he is not sincere at
all. Hence, marriage in most cases, is an indicator of true commitment and not fraud. Better to be safe
than sorry.
2) TEMPORARY ATTRACTION
When love and deeper emotions power the relationship, it will do so to endure. If, however, sex was
always the only aim, then unfortunately, the countdown has already begun to the relationship’s demise.
Superficial beauty and sex are only momentary things which fade over time. And when they finally do, it
smites the self-esteem. Alternatively, marriage- by its nature - tends to encourage true love.
1) ENDANGERING WOMEN
In this modern world of Tinder and casual dating sites, casual sex is often promoted. The knock-on effect
of this puts many men on the lookout for sexual liaisons, sometimes aggressively so. The unprecedented
rise in sexual crimes (ranging from subjecting women to unsolicited attention to even rape) is a sad
consequence of failing to appreciate the long term benefits of marriage.

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10 REASONS WHY NOT TO HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE

10) SEX IS A DECEIVER

8) SEX IS A CONNECTION TO THE MIND

7) DOMESTIC VIOLENCE INCREASES

6) CHASTITY GUARDS THE VALUE OF A RELATIONSHIP

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