Activity Consensus List
Activity Consensus List
Activity Consensus List
http://sexpressionists.blogspot.com
Purpose: This activity is designed to help assess which sexual activities you and your partner
would be willing to do in order to improve communication and relationship fulfilment.
Directions: Print out two copies of each list. Give one copy to your significant other. Complete
one copy yourself. Complete the list in separate rooms. The activities are randomly placed on
the list. If a term is unfamiliar, use a search engine to research it. Rate each activity on the 1-5
scale. After completing the list, compare answers. The more honest you are, the more effective
the activity will be. There WILL be discrepancies between different individuals. Also, resist the
urge to judge your partner for their choices. The more you trust each other, the better the
results.
For more information on this consensus scale, see the original post here:
http://sexpressionists.blogspot.com/2013/08/is-my-partner-kinky-method-to-assess.html
Sexual Activity 5 4 3 2 1
I would I think I I'm not sure I'm pretty I do not
love to do would like how I feel sure I would want to do
this activity! this and about this dislike this this
want to but would but may be activity.
give it a like to willing to
try. discuss it. give it a try
at least
once.
4 Spanking
6 Have a female-female-male
threesome
17 Blindfolded sex
25 Analiingus
29 Face sitting
30 Skinny dipping
34 Dry humping
35 Quickie sex
37 Humiliation
42 Morning sex
53 Be a sex slave
69 Do “69” position
94 Kiss passionately
95 Vaginal fisting
96 Anal fisting
99 Glory hole
100 Handjob
101 Footjob
108 Pegging
111 Snowballing
150 Electrostimulation