10 Self-Defense Strategies Everyone Needs To Know To Survive
10 Self-Defense Strategies Everyone Needs To Know To Survive
10 Self-Defense Strategies Everyone Needs To Know To Survive
to Survive
The best self-defense strategies and techniques work equally well for men and women, but let’s face
it: Women really need them because they’re assaulted more often than men. Statistics indicate that
one in three women will be the victim of some type of violent attack in her lifetime. Women also
endure more incidents of verbal and sexual harassment.
Although most women’s self-defense courses focus on skills for quickly and efficiently destroying an
attacker, self-defense training also should include methods for preventing a confrontation from turning
physical in the first place. Learning how to steer away from a threat may not sound as exciting as
ripping out an attacker’s heart, but as they say in every beginner’s class, evading an attack is almost
always superior to blocking an attack.
Here are a number of effective, real-life situation tested self-defense concepts and techniques that
anyone can use. If you’re an experienced martial artist, the physical techniques may appear familiar or
even surprisingly basic, but that’s fine. They’re intended to be simple because in an assault, you’ll
experience fear and panic, along with a natural adrenaline rush. Despite the superhuman effects
adrenaline can produce — we’ve all heard stories about the grandmother who lifted a car off her
trapped grandchild — it doesn’t always work in your favor. You may experience tunnel vision, auditory
exclusion and loss of fine motor skills. Consequently, it will be hard to see and hear, and complex
martial arts techniques may be impossible to perform.
If you stick with proven strategies and simple gross-motor-movement techniques — such as the 10
described here — your chance of surviving will increase drastically.
If something doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t safe — that’s the bottom line. Many women have been
conditioned to ignore the little voice that tells them trouble is coming. Your instinct is the best
detector of danger. The next time you hear that little voice, listen to what it’s saying.
If an approaching person gives you the creeps, walk to the other side of the street. If an elevator door
opens and the guy standing inside makes the hair on the back of your neck stand up, wait for the next
elevator. Those actions aren’t cowardly; rather, they’re a smart way to eliminate danger.
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Remember that attackers do not want to bait a fight; they want an easy mark. By walking with
confidence and awareness — looking around and keeping your head up and shoulders back — you’ll
dramatically reduce the likelihood of becoming a target in the first place.
Although an aggressive verbal confrontation can be terrifying, you have to be strong enough to show
the attacker he’s picked the wrong victim. If you stand tall, remain calm and respond confidently and
assertively, you’ll probably “fail” his interview. The power of your voice alone can cause him to seek
an easier target.
You should try to maintain approximately one to one-and-a-half arm lengths between yourself and the
aggressor. If he starts closing in, you need to use verbal boundaries. If he still doesn’t back off, it’s
time to get physical.
No matter which martial art you practice, learn techniques that are basic and stick with them in a self-
defense scenario. I recommend the following:
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• Heel-palm strike. Hitting with an open hand reduces the chance that you’ll
injure your hand and enables you to more easily attack from a non-
confrontational stance in which you’re holding your hands up and open while you
set verbal boundaries. Then, if your attacker steps into your comfort zone —
bang! — he gets it right in the face.
• Eye strike. The eye strike can be used in a standing or prone position. Often,
simply driving your fingers toward your assailant’s eyes will cause him to recoil.
Even if you don’t make contact, it creates space to set up a
more devastating blow.
• Knee strike. This technique is recommended over any type of standing kick
because it is easy to use and can be delivered while you stay centered and close
to the ground — which is crucial when you’re adrenalized. A knee to the groin can
end a fight immediately.
In particular, the side thrust kick functions in a variety of scenarios. If you’re on the
ground and your assailant is standing, it gives you an advantage because your legs are
longer than his arms. That means he’ll have to expose his body to your kick if he wants
to reach you.
Knee strikes also function effectively on the ground. While you struggle with your attacker, he probably
won’t protect his groin. Once you see an opening, get close enough to strike upward into his crotch.
Once your opponent knows you can fight, it becomes more difficult for you to prevail. To survive, you
must continue your barrage until it’s safe to stop striking and escape.
Source: Meredith Gold, Black Belt’s 2003 Woman of the Year, www.blackbeltmag.com
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