Treating - Eating - Disorder 2019
Treating - Eating - Disorder 2019
Treating - Eating - Disorder 2019
Printed in Singapore
ISBN: 978-981-48-0799-9
This book is dedicated to all our patients, their families and caregivers,
without whom this book would not be possible.
Contents
Motivating Yourself 47
Nishta Geetha THEVARAJA, Psychologist
WONG Tzu Sean Serene, Senior Psychologist
NG Jing Xuan, Psychologist
Contents v
Occupational Therapy and Eating Disorders 75
Florence CHIANG, Senior Principal Occupational Therapist
Su Ling WOO, Senior Occupational Therapist
Sylvia LOKE, Occupational Therapist
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that it strikes at such a young age, shockingly even in the pre-pubertal
population. What used to be thought as a culture-bound syndrome or
a Western-world problem is now found to be a growing feature in most
Asian countries. Local studies have reported that patient demographics
and psychopathology are not very different from their counterparts in
the West. Given the propensity of medical complications, potential
growth retardation, psycho-social dysfunctions and their lethality, early
detection and treatment cannot be further emphasised. Preventive
measures will definitely benefit, as with other psychiatric conditions.
This book brings together the experiences of various multi-
disciplinary team members involved in the care of an eating disorder
patient. We aim to provide some hard facts about the condition and
what treatment entails. But most importantly, our team hopes to bring
hope to the patients and caregivers in their journey towards recovery.
This book is a labour of love and hard work from all members of
the Eating Disorder (ED) team in Singapore General Hospital (SGH).
Since 2003 when the ED services started in SGH, many patients have
passed through our doors and many members of staff have participated
in their treatment and recovery journey. The intention is to consolidate
the shared knowledge and experience that we had accumulated through
the years of treating ED in this hospital. It also began with the thought
of preserving some of this knowledge and experiences in the form of a
permanent record. We also felt it was important that this information
be made available to the general public, practitioners, people with
connection to an ED or mental health issues, in the hope that it will be
helpful and useful in some way, no matter how small.
This book echoes our multi-disciplinary approach to the treatment
of ED in SGH and in Singapore, from local to international patients.
Chapters have been contributed by SGH practitioners in our field of
specialisations – psychiatrists, psychologists, dietitians, physiotherapists,
art therapists, occupational therapists, medical social workers and nurse
clinicians. While individual names are attached to the chapters, it is
worth acknowledging the unwritten contributions that have been made
by many staff members past and present whose knowledge, wisdom and
passion have all played a part in this book.
On a personal note, I must thank my colleagues and everyone in
the ED programme and team for their contribution and patience in
this project. I must also especially thank Dr Lee Ee Lian and Dr Evelyn
Boon for offering me the opportunity to work in the ED team; Dr Lee
Huei Yen and Dr Ng Kah Wee for their unstinting support for this
project; Ms Dian Handayani for her help with the design of this book;
Ms Erdyyanna Binte Norman for all her help through my early years;
Mr Goh Eck Kheng for his early advice; Mr Ian Koh and staff from
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Armour Publishing; Ms Teo Shu Phay for help in editing; Ms Jacqueline
Khoo; and JC Trust Ltd for their generosity in sponsoring this book.
Vivien L H Yap
Senior Psychologist
Project Coordinator
This book has been made possible with the kind sponsorship of
JC Trust Ltd.
The Emergence of Eating Disorders and the History of Eating Disorder Services in Singapore xi
The Emergence of Eating Disorders
and the History of Eating Disorders
Services in Singapore
Dr LEE Ee Lian, Visiting Consultant Psychiatrist
A Brief History
The first clinical case reports of Anorexia Nervosa date back to Richard
Morton (Morton, 1694), Sir William Gull (1873) and Dr Charles Lasegue
(1873). Bulimia Nervosa, as a recognised disease entity, is a relative
latecomer, with Prof Gerald Russell describing it in 1979 (Russell,
1979). Binge Eating Disorder first merited a mention in the Diagnostic
Statistical Manual in 1987 (American Psychiatric Association, 1987).
Western reports in both scientific journals and popular media
emerged in greater numbers from the 1970s onwards. Celebrities such
as singers and actresses helped to bring about greater awareness of the
illnesses.
Eating Disorders (ED) as diagnostic entities emerged in Singapore
in the 1980s, lagging a decade after they came to prominence in the
West. Ong, Tsoi and Cheah described, for the first time, seven cases
of Anorexia Nervosa (Ong, Tsoi & Cheah, 1982). Whether the late
emergence and then-relatively few numbers was due to a lack of cases
or a lack of awareness remains unknown and untestable.
A nascent flow of ED cases started showing up in the 1990s at the
Institute of Mental Health. Other cases appeared at other hospitals,
presenting themselves to the specialties, masquerading as medical or
surgical problems.
Interestingly, it was in the 1990s that Singapore’s GDP caught up
with that of the Western world, e.g., the United Kingdom.
The Emergence of Eating Disorders and the History of Eating Disorder Services in Singapore 1
Certainly in the 1980s and 1990s, there were no specialised expertise or
dedicated ED services. Psychiatrists had to self-educate themselves (pre-
Google era) in the challenging treatment of these complex cases while
the patients bravely fought to recover. In 1997, Prof Teo Seng Hock,
then Medical Director of Woodbridge Hospital, had the foresight to
approve the first Clinical Fellowship in Eating Disorders under the
Health Manpower Development Programme of the Ministry of Health.
This enabled the first Psychiatrist to be trained in ED, at the University
of Toronto/Toronto General Hospital from 1998 to 1999. Since then,
more Psychiatrists, Paediatricians, Allied Health Professionals and
Nurses have received ED training, both in specialised centres abroad
as well as in Singapore. Professional input has also been gleaned from
prominent ED centres around the world, such as Maudsley Hospital,
Stanford University, Toronto General Hospital/University of Toronto
and University of Los Angeles.
An Eating Disorders Clinic was set up at the Institute of Mental
Health in the period 1999–2000 to treat ED patients, a milestone in the
early beginnings of an ED treatment service in Singapore.
In 2000, a support group for patients and caregivers was founded
under the umbrella of the Singapore Association for Mental Health
(SAMH). This group was started by a Psychiatrist and four intrepid
recovered patients, who named it “Support for Eating Disorders
Singapore” (with a tongue-in-cheek homonymous acronym, “SEDS”).
The early meetings were held at the now-defunct Alexandra Psychiatric
Clinic, in a scrubbed-up room which had to be on the second level
because of the flooding everytime the longkang (monsoon drain) next to
the clinic overflowed!
In 2003, after the SARS crisis had settled, the Eating Disorders
Clinic was right-sited to Singapore General Hospital, in recognition
of the clinical need for the integration with mainstream medicine in
order to better manage physical complications and reduce mortality
rates. Inpatient care and inpatient/outpatient groups were located in
the midst of a medical ward at Ward 64 and thus the Eating Disorders
Programme was founded, which included outpatient clinics. Referrals
of ED cases were received from primary care physicians, other
The Emergence of Eating Disorders and the History of Eating Disorder Services in Singapore 3
Singapore now leads the way in ED treatment and research for
South East Asia, and Asia.
References
American Psychiatric Association. (1987). Diagnostic and statistical manual
of mental disorders: DSM-III-R (3rd ed., rev.). Washington, DC:
American Psychiatric Association.
Morton, R. (1694). Phthisiologia or a treatise of consumptions. London, UK:
W and J Innys.
Ong, Y. L., Tsoi, W. F., & Cheah, J. S. (1982). A clinical and psychosocial
study of seven cases of anorexia nervosa in Singapore. Singapore
Medical Journal, 23(5), 255-261.
Russell, G. (1979). Bulimia Nervosa: an ominous variant of anorexia
nervosa. Psychological Medicine, 9(3), 429-448.
Learning Points
Overview
Cardiovascular System
Heart rate
Electrocardiograms will usually be ordered by the doctor, especially in
the first few visits in the clinic or the initial period of hospitalisation.
An electrocardiogram is a non-invasive test which allows the doctor to
look into the heart rhythm, conduction of the impulses and electrical
activity of the heart.
Individuals with Anorexia Nervosa often present with bradycardia
— defined as the slowing of the heart rate to less than 60 beats per
minute. Severe bradycardia, usually rates of less than 40 for adults and
less than 50 for children, can be an indication for hospitalisation (Hay,
2014) in view of risks of arrhythmias and cardiovascular collapses. With
refeeding and weight restoration, bradycardia will usually resolve over
time. Tachycardia, on the other hand, is an abnormally high heart rate.
It can also be a harbinger of a much more serious underlying condition
such as an infection (Krantz, M.J., 2004).
Subtle arrhythmias may also develop into serious complications
in individuals with Anorexia Nervosa. Abnormal heart rhythms may
even predispose one to suffer sudden cardiac death (Rotondi, 2010).
Such abnormal heart rhythms can usually be reversed with weight
restoration.
Gastrointestinal System
Others
Other gastrointestinal related complications include non-inflammatory
parotid (a salivary gland on each side of the jaw) swelling, acute liver
damage and dental enamel erosions, especially if self-induced vomit-
ing is one of the prominent behaviours. As part of the initial workup
and subsequent follow up, the doctor may want to monitor the liver
enzyme levels. Elevated levels of liver enzymes can occur in weight loss
and fasting situations and are commonly seen in people with body mass
index (BMI) of less than 12 kg/m2. In fact, the refeeding process can
also cause a transient elevation of the liver enzymes. A liver ultrasound
scan may be ordered if the liver enzymes continue to rise. Patients and
caregivers will be naturally alarmed as it seems that the liver enzymes
will be raised in both the setting of starvation and refeeding. Often with
time, such levels will gradually normalise with weight restoration.
Neurological Complications
Bones
Bone accrual occurs during childhood and adolescence and peak bone
mass is usually attained when one is in his/her mid-20s. Low bone den-
sity often affects individuals with Anorexia Nervosa, placing them at
risk of osteoporosis and subsequent fractures. This is especially so for
females who had missed several consecutive menstrual cycles and for
males who had lost a significant amount of weight. People who are
afflicted with the disorder before or during adolescence have a higher
risk of long-term consequences compared to people who develop the
disorder when they were older. This is because people who became ill
younger may never get the chance to reach their peak bone density. The
low bone density is secondary to the increased bone resorption and de-
creased bone formation. So far, low BMI and longer duration of amen-
orrhoea have been identified as predictors of low bone density (Mehler,
2011). Unfortunately, we have seen some patients who were athletes
before but because of the disorder, suffered injuries and fractures at a
young age. Fractures at major joints such as the hip can result in serious
permanent gait disturbance and mobility problems.
Males with Anorexia Nervosa may also suffer from osteopenia and
osteoporotic changes. Predictors of low bone density in males are lower
BMI and longer duration of illness. Low testosterone levels also predict
lower bone mineral density. Males with Anorexia Nervosa seem to have
lower bone mineral density than their female counterparts (Mehler,
2008).
The doctor may order dual X-ray absorptiometry (DEXA) scan to
examine the density of the bones. A temporary abstinence from exercise
will be required for most underweight patients, until the body weight
has been restored. Exercise, especially high impact sports, should be
avoided to prevent injuries and fractures. Although it can be very dif-
ficult to convince one to stop the exercise, and usually the cessation is
abrupt, we often impress upon our patients and their caregivers the
physical impact the eating disorder had already caused.
Individuals with eating disorders often are found to have deranged thy-
roid function tests results. Thyroid hormone replacement is usually not
required and in fact should be avoided. With nutritional rehabilitation
and weight restoration, these hormone derangements will resolve. Most
of the time, the psychiatrist will continue to monitor the thyroid hor-
mones over the next few months and these levels will generally nor-
malise.
Hypoglycaemia (low blood sugar level) can occur in individuals with
Anorexia Nervosa. Chronic starvation, weight loss and excessive exer-
cise can lead to disruption in regulation of glucose and glycogen stores
in the liver. Monitoring for hypoglycaemia is also important in the ini-
tial stages of hospitalisation and refeeding. Patients can sometimes de-
velop coma due to severe hypoglycaemia.
There has been association between eating disorders and Type 1 dia-
betes mellitus, wherein patients are required to control their sugar levels
closely using dietary means and insulin injections. Studies have shown
that patients with Type 1 diabetes mellitus are at higher risk of develop-
ing abnormal eating behaviours such as restrictive dieting, binge eating
and purging behaviours. Patients may sometimes omit the insulin dose
in order to trigger a hyperglycaemic state and loss of glucose via the
urine, as a form of purge behaviour (Goebel-Farbbri, 2009). Such per-
sons are at higher risk of developing serious complications from poorly
controlled blood sugars, such as neuropathy (damaged nervous system),
nephropathy (permanent kidney damage), impaired vision and even
death.
Blood
Haematological
Bone marrow suppression may occur in individuals who are severely
underweight or who have been chronically malnourished. The com-
position of red blood cells, white blood cells and platelets may be af-
fected in individuals with Anorexia Nervosa — there can be findings of
low cell counts in blood investigations. Patients may complain of physi-
cal symptoms such as shortness of breath, lethargy and appearance of
Electrolytes
Electrolytes are the essential chemicals or nutrients in the blood which
ensure normal functioning of the body, for example, in muscle contrac-
tion and conduction of electric impulses in the nervous system. Some
examples of electrolytes include calcium, potassium, sodium and phos-
phate. When a person is severely malnourished or has recently purged,
these electrolytes may become deranged and present at either very high
or low levels in the blood.
In mild cases, a person may experience tingling sensations, weakness
or may not even experience any physical discomfort. In severe cases,
persons may experience palpitations, chest pains and even face the risk
of seizures and lapsing into comas.
Refeeding syndrome is a medical emergency. It usually occurs in the
early stages of hospitalisation when there is an increase in food intake,
characterised by falling trends of serum phosphate levels. One study has
quoted the risk of refeeding to be highest in the first seven to 10 days
of hospitalisation when reintroduction of food has been started (Ka-
meoka, 2016). Hence for such reasons, the doctor may need to monitor
the serum electrolytes very closely in the early stage of hospitalisation
and blood tests (such as renal panel and serum phosphate, calcium and
magnesium) may even have to be repeated daily. Physical symptoms
such as swelling of the lower limbs, chest discomforts and shortness of
breath are warning signs indicating medical instability and the indica-
tion for an immediate review by the doctor.
Dermatological
Given that eating disorders can be associated with such medical compli-
cations, some which can be potentially life threatening, the doctor may
advise for a period of hospitalisation for various reasons. Discussing
when hospitalisation is required and setting limits and attainable treat-
ment goals should be topics regularly visited during the doctor’s reviews.
The table below briefly lists some of the indicators for hospitalisation.
We have come across parents or patients who had requested for discharge
against advice or discharge at own risk (AOR). Some of the possible
reasons for such requests include patient’s reluctance to continue with
treatment, when dietary recommendations have increased or when
privileges (for example, meal outings, home leave) have been revoked.
We will advise that should such situations arise, speak to the doctor
in charge of the patient before making the decision to discharge the
patient. Patients are often required to be hospitalised for reasons such as
need for medical monitoring, restoring weight and re-establishing near
normal eating behaviours. Sometimes, their mood may still be poor and
they may be at risk of self-harm or even suicide. Hence, before making
such decisions, always speak to the doctor to have an understanding
of the situation and why the patient may be requesting for discharge
earlier than advised.
I often ask parents in such situations if they feel they are ready to care
for and refeed the patient. If they are not, it will be better to continue
the hospital stay. Most parents will agree that even getting the patient to
seek treatment at the beginning is faced with resistance. Hence requests
to terminate hospitalisation or treatment are not unexpected. Being
prepared for such tricky situations and remaining focused on recovery
is the best one can do as a caregiver.
References
Arbitbol, L., Zborovski, S., & Palmert, M. R. (2016) Evaluation of
delayed puberty: what diagnostic tests should be performed in the
seemingly otherwise well adolescent? Arch Dis Child, 101, 767-771.
Learning Points
Both males and females develop ED, however, girls are 10 times at a
higher risk than boys. Girls usually strive for leanness, whereas boys
strive for leanness and a muscular body shape. EDs start during the
teenage years usually, although some develop it in their twenties or
thirties. If left untreated, the illness will continue throughout the life of
an adult.
EDs are usually a result of a multitude of causative and risk factors due to
the interaction between genetic and environmental factors manifesting
in the illness. The same factors are also responsible for relapse after
the recovery of ED. A patient with an ED usually goes through several
relapses before attaining complete recovery.
Biological factors — Family history of ED, dieting, puberty, certain
physical illnesses where weight and diet need to be watched (e.g.,
Diabetes Mellitus).
Psychological and social factors — Stress at work, interpersonal difficulties
with family and friends, low self-esteem, isolation, maintaining a sense
of control in their life only through food or weight, abuse or neglect of
any form, loss of someone or something cherished (e.g., relationship,
abilities, etc.), bereavement, entrapment in life circumstances, distressing
life events, certain cultural practices where fasting is observed, engaging
in certain professions where a certain weight and diet are required (e.g.,
dancers, actors, models, athletes), certain psychological conditions (e.g.,
anxiety disorders, depressive illnesses and addictions), and anankastic
(obsessive-compulsive) and perfectionistic traits that predispose one
to develop an ED, irresponsible reporting in the media portraying an
Recovery
Fully recovered patients have Body Mass Index (BMI) within normal
range, with no behaviours or thoughts of the ED. Partially recovered
patients have some symptoms of the eating disorder interfering in their
everyday functioning (Bardone-Cone et al, 2010).
Time to Recovery
Predictors of Outcome in ED
In order to recover, you need to first acknowledge the disorder and seek
help. An ED is a serious mental illness which impacts the body, mind
and social functioning. Stop blaming yourself, and stop self-recovery. It
is essential you seek help from professionals. We, at Singapore General
Hospital (SGH), have a specialised ED service which involves a multi-
disciplinary Team (MDT) of professionals with specialised interest
and training in ED to look after you. Members of the team include
At the first appointment, a psychiatrist will see you and take a thorough
history of how the ED developed, the symptoms, its progress, its causes,
and its impact on your physical and psychological health and social life.
Then there will be a physical examination, followed by investigations
that the doctor will ask for. You and your parent/caregiver will be asked
to come into the room and you will be given an explanation of your
diagnoses, complications of ED and how you need to manage these at
home. You will be referred to a dietitian and/or psychologist or medical
social worker. These Allied Health professionals work as part of the
team and play various roles in helping you recover from the illness (as
explained in other chapters of the book).
Post-Recovery
It has been found that certain obsessive concerns with order and
exactness continue to exist in the post-recovery phase of Anorexia
Nervosa.
“Pearls of Wisdom”
References
Agras, W. S., Crow, S. J., Halmi, K. A., Mitchell, J. E., Wilson, G. T. and
Kraemer, H. C. (2000). Outcome predictors for the cognitive
behaviour treatment of bulimia nervosa: Data from a multisite study.
American Journal of Psychiatry, 157(8), 1302-1308.
Bardone-Cone, A. M., Harney, M. B., Maldonado, C. R., Lawson, M. A.,
Robinson, D. P., Smith, R. and Tosh, A. (2010). Defining recovery
from an eating disorder: Conceptualization, validation, and
examination of psychosocial functioning and psychiatric comorbidity.
Behaviour Research and Therapy, 48(3), 194-202.
A Nutritious Diet
Preventing Relapse
Studies show that relapse rates are as high as 50% in anorexia nervosa
(Pike et al, 1998). To prevent relapse, it is essential that patients continue
with regular weight checks and dietary counselling for at least a year
after reaching their ideal healthy weight. If patients’ weight decreases
below ideal healthy range, it may suggest a potential risk of a relapse. In
addition, dietitians and family members need to recognise behaviours
that can predict relapse, for instance delaying or skipping meals or
snacks, cutting food into smaller pieces, hiding food, choosing healthier
food options, increasing exercise, binge eating and regular self-weighing
or body checking. Ideally, dietitians have to reassess patients’ food intake,
thoughts and behaviours that hinder them from maintaining weight.
Managing Purging
All ED patients have their own list of ‘safe’ and ‘unsafe’ foods. ‘Safe’
foods are those which are very low in calories. They include fruit and
vegetables as well as non-caloric drinks. ‘Unsafe’ foods are generally
ones that are higher in calories and contain fat and/or sugar. All food
groups should be included in a healthy eating plan, including foods
which are higher in fat and sugar if eaten in moderation. Patients
usually feel intense guilt if they eat an ‘unsafe’ food and this can lead
to further restrictive behaviours. Most patients do want to eat ‘unsafe’
foods but are too frightened by their caloric content. This often results
in them denying that they even like the taste of certain higher-calorie
foods.
There are some healthy ways of reintroducing ‘unsafe’ foods into diet
which the dietitian is able to help with. When selecting the unsafe food,
it is important to select a normal-sized portion. If the snack choice is
potato chips, for example, then a single serving packet is recommended,
and not family-sized bag. It is likely that one will feel guilty after taking
an ‘unsafe’ food. Therefore using distraction techniques such as having
an activity planned to distract himself or herself for a few minutes will
subside the feeling of guilt. Reintroducing ’unsafe’ food into the diet
can be a difficult process and the exercises below may help an individual
to break the pattern of restriction.
Place a selection of ‘safe’ and ‘unsafe’ food into a box. For instance, a
packet of plain biscuits versus a packet of cream-filled biscuits. Shake
the box and pick up an item. It must be a random pick, you are not
allowed to look into the box or feel the shapes of the items inside. The
task is to eat the item whether it is ‘safe’ or ‘unsafe’. This challenge can
be carried out once a week, gradually increasing the frequency.
Create a list of eight to 10 ‘unsafe’ foods. On the top of the list, write
down the ‘unsafe’ foods that gives you the most amount of anxiety. On
the bottom of the list can be the least anxiety-provoking foods. This
way you can ensure that you face your ‘unsafe’ food in a way that is
more gradual, by starting from the bottom of the list and slowly working
your way up. It is also important that you try the same food multiple
times before moving on to the next one. If the anxiety has decreased in
response to the particular food that you have been repeatedly exposing
yourself to, it means that you are ready to move on the next ‘unsafe’
food in the list.
Remember, eating a well-balanced diet is vital for good health and
well-being as food provides our bodies with energy, protein, essential
fats, vitamins and minerals to live, grow and function properly.
Therefore always check with your dietitian to ensure that your meals
provide sufficient nutrients from different food groups at appropriate
proportions.
References
Herrin, M., Larkin, M. (2013). Nutrition counseling in the treatment of Eating
Disorders. New York, NY: Taylor & Francis.
Pike, K. M. (1998). Long-term course of anorexia nervosa: response,
relapse, remission, and recovery. Clinical Psychology Review, 18(4),
447–475.
Setnick, J. (2017). Pocket Guide to Eating Disorders. Chicago, IL: Academy
of Nutrition and Dietetics.
Overview
Poor body image and body image disturbance have long been associated
with EDs. Often, it is difficult to not speak about one without the other.
It has also become one of the key criteria in the diagnosis of an ED like
anorexia nervosa or bulimia nervosa.
I met Lily when she first presented at our clinic at 17 years of age.
She had sought help on her own accord as she was concerned about
her constant purging and irregular menses. Her teeth were also hurting
from the purging. Lily suspected she had an ED, and had Googled the
signs and symptoms of Bulimia Nervosa. She had bravely gone to the
polyclinic to get a referral to our centre, and came to see the psychiatrist
here. She was diagnosed with Bulimia Nervosa and Major Depressive
Disorder. Lily was then referred to see a dietitian and a psychologist
(myself) for individual therapy. She was understandably apprehensive
and worried.
During therapy, Lily revealed that she had been bullied all through
her primary school years as she was on the plump side. She was teased
and made fun of because of her size. Fortunately, she had some good
friends, and that had helped her cope with the teasing. However, she
had never really felt comfortable about her size, and was always self-
conscious about her overall appearance. Her self-esteem was also not
very good as she never felt good enough and did not think she was
worth much. She was not one of the popular girls and was not very
extroverted.
Lily also faced teasing at home. She was always called ”the fatter
one” by all her relatives as she was a little on the plump side while
her sister was on the thinner side. Her parents and grandparents had
even called her “Little Fatty”. She had always felt awkward with that
nickname but did not know how to tell her family to stop. The teasing
and nickname made her feel very self-conscious and unhappy with
herself and her body. Lily started to diet in an attempt to lose weight
Therapy with Lily took about three to four years of hard work. It was
not a smooth and linear journey; we had to face ups and downs, and
good and bad periods but she persevered. The initial focus of therapy
was using Cognitive Behavioural Therapy for Bulimia Nervosa to help
regulate her eating and stop her purging. Stabilising her eating and
stopping the compensatory behaviours took a while and with great
effort and hard work on Lily’s part. Fortunately, she was willing to trust
the process and cope with the weight fluctuations and occasional binges.
The focus on therapy then switched to working on her self-esteem as
well as body image issues. For Lily (and many other individuals with
an ED), her ED and focus on diet and weight were not about vanity
or looks, rather, it was about having some sense of control of her life.
She used her eating and weight as a way to exert some order amidst
the chaos of her moods and emotions. Part of the therapy work was to
deal with her depression and self-harm. Lily was also taught coping and
stress management strategies to respond to her fluctuating emotions and
distress.
Lily had learnt to feel bad about her body and her size at a young
age with all the teasing from school and at home. She had also hated
her body so much that she took to cutting herself as a form of self-
punishment, and she believed she deserved only bad things. There was
so much self-loathing.
Much of the body image work was just focused on exploring the
reasons she hated her body and herself. Issues of teasing and bullying
had to be dealt with by allowing her to express how she had felt about
all the teasing, as well as doing cognitive restructuring to challenge
some of the internalised negative self-talk she had developed as a result
of the bullying and teasing. Cognitive restructuring is a technique
used to identify negative automatic thoughts that are irrational, and
subsequently dispute them. This was not an easy process as she had
really believed some of the self-blaming and shaming thoughts to be
true.
Positive self-affirmations were gradually generated in session for Lily
to say to herself daily in front of the mirror. Initially, it was too difficult
for her to even say the words so we had to write them on Post-it notes
and placed them on the mirror for her to read. We gradually also did
exposure work with the mirror to get Lily to feel more at ease looking at
her own reflection without criticising her body. She had tended to avoid
the mirror or looking at herself as she would feel so much disgust.
We also explored how she felt about each of her body parts through
a body part drawing exercise, and discussed the emotions and thoughts
she felt about them as well as what these negative emotions and thoughts
were really about. For Lily, she treated her body like a punching bag
and took out all her frustrations and anger about other things onto her
physical self. She had genuinely believed that things would change if
she looked different. For example, she would think that “I would not be
teased or bullied if I had been prettier”, “my friends would like me more
if I were thinner” and “I need to be 45 kg and have thinner thighs and
a flat stomach, if not, my boyfriend will leave me”. These thoughts and
assumptions were not true but she was quite stuck with them for a long
period. The truth was Lily was depressed and felt things around her
(how people felt about her, being bullied, grades slipping) were beyond
Today
Lily is now well and has been discharged from all follow-up appointments
with us. She has moved on to complete her studies at the University and
even been able to enjoy overseas internship stints with the University.
She is currently planning to pursue further studies in journalism and
writing. She is still in a loving relationship with her boyfriend, and they
are planning to get married. Lily still has some not-so-good days, where
she feels lousy about herself and how she looks. However, she is more
empowered to attend to those thoughts and feelings, as well as exploring
what they are about instead of acting on them. She has also developed
a positive environment for herself by not surrounding herself with toxic
individuals. Her relationship with her body is in a much better place
and upon discharge, she has confidently said she knows she has made
peace with her body and self. She continues to write and keep a travel
blog, and dreams of travelling the world.
References
“10 Steps to Positive Body Image.” (n.d.) National Eating Disorders
Association. Retrieved from http://www.nationaleatingdisorders.
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Bell, L., & Rushforth, J. (2008). Overcoming body image disturbance: A
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Choosing Recovery
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1. ”Miracle question” activity (Berg & Dolan, 2001)
• Imagine that when you wake up the next morning, a miracle
has happened and all your current difficulties have disappeared.
What would you notice is different? Would your loved ones notice
a miracle has happened? What would they notice that is
different?
• What has stayed the same?
• If zero equals the worst that life can be, and 10 equals the
miracle, where are you?
• How is the ED going to help you get to the miracle?
• What is going to get in the way of the miracle?
• What are some signs that the miracle is already happening?
How did you achieve that?
You may learn from these exercises that while there may be various
advantages of the ED, it also brings about a multitude of problems.
Oftentimes, the valued benefits of the ED are short term while the
drawbacks are longer-term and more pervasive in nature.
While motivation begins to move you into action towards change, you
may be wondering if you are ready or getting ready to embark on an
effort to make changes with regards to the ED. Having motivation
does not mean that it can be sustained indefinitely while we adopt
the behavioural changes. Moreover, change can be quite stressful and
scary. Yet, any sort of recovery requires change. Motivation and change
are very much interlinked, and they are not something that suddenly
happens but a continuous process. Motivation can be changed, and you
can be at different stages of motivation.
There are six stages of change based on the Stages of Change Model,
and by finding out which stage you are in, it can help you to understand
your readiness to change (Prochaska et al., 1995; Gold, 2016). Knowing
the stage you are in can help you to apply appropriate strategies in
making changes. This can be helpful in sustaining your motivation and
minimising your risk of losing ground in your motivation to change.
However, relapses are inevitable and are part of the process of change.
As such, relapse to a prior stage in the stages of change may occur at
any time during the process of change. It may be useful to re-examine
your motivation from time to time and work to sustain or enhance it
whenever necessary. Based on Prochaska et al. (1995) and Gold (2016),
the six Stages of Change are as follows:
Pre-contemplation
People in this stage are typically not even considering about change.
You may be aware of the ills of an ED but see the benefits as more
significant. You may have a lack of interest in change and have no
intention to change. This stage is described as being in denial.
Contemplation
At this stage, you are considering making a change, but not ready or
not sure whether you want to make a commitment to change your
behaviour. It is likely that you are exploring the potential benefits and
barriers to change.
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Preparation
At this stage, you are preparing to take action to change your behaviour.
You may evaluate and test out various interventions to reduce ED
behaviours. Most likely, you are willing to change and able to see the
benefits of stopping or reducing ED behaviours. You may be making a
commitment to change and making plans to start changing soon.
Action
Individuals in this stage are typically more active in implementing plans
for change. You are probably making effort to change your behaviour,
gain insights and develop new skills simultaneously. You may also seek
external help such as therapy and medication, etc. Individuals are
probably learning new behaviours, attempting to overcome challenges
and staying on track with the objectives. This person is actively
embracing change and getting used to the new behaviour.
Termination
This is the ultimate goal of the process of change. If you are in this stage,
you have successfully adopted and integrated the desired behaviour and
lifestyle. You are unlikely to fall into temptations or high-risk situations.
Mostly likely, you will be more confident of continuing the healthier
lifestyle, enjoying the freedom from the ED or having a more meaningful
lifestyle. In short, relapse is quite unlikely.
Although you may envision or even idealise the road to recovery being
clear, direct and trudging forward, the reality shared by those with an
ED is that recovery is often a road strewn with slip-ups (minor influence),
set-backs (moderate influence) and relapses (major influence) (refer to
Diagram 1).
Progress Progress
Slip-up
Relapse
Set-back
Time Time
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isolated. Identifying relapse earlier and getting the necessary help to
get back on track with recovery often helps to keep one motivated
to recover. By making efforts to reduce relapses to set-backs and set-
backs to slip-ups, one can feel empowered to stay motivated throughout
recovery.
Self-blame, regret and frustration are commonly experienced
following relapse. These may fester feelings of worthlessness and
hopelessness in yourself. To regain motivation for recovery, try your
very best to forgive yourself when you have had a relapse. Instead of
perceiving relapse as a failure to achieve recovery, try viewing relapse
as a feedback or an opportunity to understand blindspots in recovery so
as to get stronger to battle the ED. Your will to tolerate and overcome
challenges grows stronger as this is is important for battling your ED.
In addition to having realistic expectations about relapse, setting
realistic expectations for recovery is also essential. Recovery does not
mean that you will be entirely void of fear when making food choices
and exercise only for leisure, and that you will be extremely confident
about your body image. Rather, you will be able to lead much of
your life with minimal interference from the ED. Recovery pans out
differently for each person. For recovery, just reaching your target weight
is not sufficient. Recovery is a holistic experience, where acceptance of
yourself and being comfortable in your skin are far more imperative
than meeting an acceptable weight.
Diagram 2: Values based on key life domains (adapted from Harris, 2009)
Take for instance a situation where you avoid family functions for fear of
having to deal with the dilemma of eating, yet, you feel increasingly sad
and yearn for more connection. You remember fond memories of times
spent together over family dinners and miss the conversations. This
suggests that the impact of the ED has strained family togetherness.
Given so, the value of family closeness holds importance for you.
Another example would be when the ED gives you a desired sense of
accomplishment and makes you feel self-disciplined such that you pride
yourself on your sheer determination for sticking to a stringent diet. In
reality, the ED actually overshadows or even contradicts many other
value-based attributes, such as flexibility, diversity, adventurousness and
joy. Note that your values are not flawed because they align with the
ED. Instead, the pursuit of those values become questionable when the
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approach taken, such as subscribing to the ED heavily, compromises
many other values that you find meaningful.
Values are ever-changing and keep undergoing revisions and
modifications throughout your lifetime. You may drop some values,
adopt new values and modify old values to suit the present. This is
the norm. With values, you are meant to exercise flexibility. To keep
motivated, recovery needs to hold meaning brought about by your own
values, and they are not those others impose upon you. If chosen freely,
values give you a sense of purpose and inner drive, and provide novel
experiences and better life satisfaction. Sticking to values that matter
for living a meaningful life are often incongruent with the values an ED
promotes. If you are able to make living meaningful, then the ED will
find it hard to thrive under such conditions.
Here are some quick tips on how to stay in touch with your values:
Harnessing Strengths
The road to recovery is not easy. At times like this, the future may
seem bleak, and you may be feeling discouraged. Hence, knowing your
strengths and harnessing them to help you along your journey can be
helpful.
Here are a number of activities that can help you explore your
personal strengths.
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1. Identifying your personal strengths
Look through the list below and select five personal strengths that
you identify with.
To guide you along further, consider what might someone who
knows you really well say about you, or what good qualities might
they see in you that could help you make the changes you want?
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Goodbye Eating Disorder
The following are some tips to help you to say goodbye to the ED and
work towards recovery (Paterson, 2008):
5. A new wardrobe.
Look through the clothes in your wardrobe. Getting rid of your
clothes that do not fit (e.g., smaller size or extra large) can be
symbolic in saying goodbye to your ED. You can also get clothes
that are more fitting as a way of stopping hiding from the world
and being more open.
8. Recovered box.
A similar activity to the Recovery Box stated beforehand. It may
also be beneficial to have a recovered box with items that can
remind you that you have recovered so that you can completely
say goodbye to the ED.
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There is a saying: “You can lead a horse to water, but you cannot make it drink.”
This is what it can feel like when trying to help someone with an eating
disorder (ED). The solution to an ED appears simple: getting the patient
to eat, but the problem is, he/she will not because of the intense fear
of putting on weight — a symptom of the illness — and no amount of
logic or arguing succeeds in shifting the fear of weight gain. Individuals
with ED may sit at the dinner table, but getting them to eat a normal
portion can be an exercise in frustration, often ending in arguments,
tantrums and tears.
Below is an example of a patient I shall call “Agnes’’. She represents
a composite of the many patients that I have seen.
Knightsmith (2012) has listed the following risk factors for the
development of ED:
These risk factors tie in with the real-world examples that my patients
have brought up in their therapy sessions:
• Issues at school, e.g., being bullied, not doing well, being side-
lined
• Difficulties with friendships/romantic relationships
• Bereavement
• Being overweight as a child and forced into a weight loss
programme at school or by parents
• Being forced to do a course at university that the parents think
will be good for the patient but which the patient is not keen to
do and which the patient has gone along with in order to be a
“good’’ child
• Absent parent(s), e.g., parent(s) working overseas, divorced
parents, parents working very long hours
• Change in school/country of residence
• Family members who have mental health issues, e.g., depression,
anxiety, obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), anger or even ED
issues which they have refused to acknowledge or seek treatment
for but which impact the patient. One study has shown that for
female children, the chance of developing an ED is higher if the
parent has had a diagnosis of a mental health issue such as bipolar
affective disorder, anxiety/depression or a personality disorder
(Bould et al., 2015)
• Sexual, physical or verbal abuse
• Parental marriage issues, e.g., constant fighting, arguing,
separation, divorce
• Secrets in the family, e.g., parent having an affair
• The patient’s needs not being met and a parent’s needs taking
precedence
In Therapy
In Agnes’ case, I would begin therapy by asking her what are the
problems she is facing, whether in school or at home. The aim is to
increase her coping skills to deal with her problem(s) and in so doing,
add resources to her psychological tool box to help her deal with the
events in her life.
It is important to validate the feelings of the patient, e.g., how
upsetting it is to see her grandfather ill and suffering and that it is natural
to be worried. Here, the usual practical replies of “Don’t worry’’ or “He
will be fine, he is seeing a doctor’’ are probably not going to be helpful
as Agnes can see that her grandfather is certainly not fine and she feels
anxious about the situation. I may say to her “It must be very upsetting
to see your grandfather so ill, as you have told me you are very close
to him” or “I can see that you are still anxious about your grandfather
even though he is receiving medical treatment. Would you like to tell me
what you are anxious about?’’
In addition, I would work with Agnes on identifying and acquiring
useful emotion-regulation and coping skills, some of which are described
in the next section of this chapter.
As you are reading this book, you might be someone who is suffering
from an ED, a carer, a family member or a friend of someone who has
an ED. What are some areas that might need attention? Here are some
suggestions or key areas:
Improve self-esteem
Low self-esteem and lack of confidence can affect a person’s view of
Learn to be assertive
Assertiveness is a skill that we can learn and develop over the years. It
is important that we know how to stand up for ourselves without being
passive, aggressive or passive-aggressive. We have a right to say what
we need or want or to say “no’’ in order to keep ourselves safe and
to put limits or boundaries in place. Saying “no” may engender some
feelings of discomfort. In fact, it is normal to feel a little or even very
uncomfortable when we say “no” especially if the other party may not
like our answer. I also ask my patients to think about this point: why
it might be okay for others to say “no’’ to them which they will be
accepting of, but not okay for themselves to say “no’’ to others. Note that
when your “no’’ is based on you being reasonable or the way you feel,
but if the other party is disproportionately unhappy, then the problem
may lie with them and not with you. When I role-play with my patients
on saying “no’’, they will often say to me that it is difficult at first but
it gets easier with practice and indeed, over time it will. On a separate
note, it is sometimes difficult to say “no” to ourselves for example: “No,
I shouldn’t eat salad for lunch today if I want to recover from the ED
and I need to follow the dietitian’s instructions.”
Suggestion: Use visualisation to help you practise assertiveness:
Think about all the times in the past when you perhaps should have said
“no’’ to someone but instead said “yes” because you felt bad or guilty,
Do note that it is the last part of the sentence about what you want
that is important and must not be left out. It gives clarity to others and
yourself about what you require. People cannot read our minds and we
must not assume that by telling them how we feel, they will know what
to do the next time.
Learn to self-soothe
This is an important skill to learn and it is almost like a mental challenge.
Yes, you can use external aids such as engaging in a sport, watching TV
dramas or movies or playing with your pet hamster to distract you when
you are feeling bad, but you will still need to have one additional skill
in your psychological tool box: to be able to talk yourself into a calmer
state of mind. Remember that the aim is to self-soothe and not to self-
agitate! Examples of how to self-soothe may be saying things like “I
will handle it’’, “I can handle it’’, “Tomorrow is another day’’, “I may
have failed my math test, but I am overall a success not a failure”, “No
need to worry, it is not the end of the world’’, “Twenty years from now,
this probably won’t matter” and so on. And just as property agents say
“Location, location, location” (when referring to what makes a piece of
real estate tick), in order to learn to self-soothe, it is “Practise, practise,
practise” until you find out what works best for you and this may take
weeks, months and years, so it is best to start practising today!
Suggestion: Start observing how you talk to yourself. Is it negative
most of the time? Do you call yourself names like “lazy’’ or “idiot’’?
Stop. Experiment with different soothing statements. Be patient. It
The suggestions in this chapter form only a small part of what can
take place in therapy (or outside of it), to help someone with an ED.
An ED whether Anorexia Nervosa, Bulimia or even Binge Eating is a
complex illness. While weight gain or stabilisation of weight can occur
fairly rapidly, psychological changes will take time. Therapy will take
many weeks or months. Unfortunately, there is no medication for this
illness. For long term recovery to take place, it is important to remember
that before the patient can let go of the ED, work needs to be done
to find a replacement coping mechanism. Acquiring a feeling of self-
worth, self-acceptance, self-love, better self-esteem, and body image or
validation and expression of feelings, wants and needs, are important
psychological tools for permanent recovery from an ED. Each has a part
to play as a replacement coping mechanism.
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Mention the term “occupational therapy” and most people might either
think that occupational therapists are specialised in helping people
find jobs, or that they only have a role to play in the field of physical
disabilities. In fact, the roots of occupational therapy were present
as early as 1840–1860 whereby the use of meaningful activities such
as crafts, was frequently used to encourage relaxation and promote
productivity among individuals with mental illnesses.
Occupational therapy is “a health profession that uses activities
(occupations) with specific goals to help people of all ages to participate
in activities of everyday living.” Activities of everyday living “include
and are not limited to self-care, leisure, school and work” (Singapore
Association of Occupational Therapy, 2012).
In other words, when a person finds himself or herself having
difficulties engaging or participating in the activities they used to enjoy
or need to do, an occupational therapist can play an important role with
his/her interventions.
On the surface, it may appear that a person with an eating disorder
(ED) merely has difficulty in only one aspect, which is that of eating his/
her meals. Thus, it may come across as somewhat of a surprise to hear
how occupational therapists are involved when it comes to rehabilitating
a person with an ED. Indeed, those who have gone through an ED or
have seen someone go through it would attest to the far-reaching impact
it has on multiple facets of life.
Eating is seldom purely only about the food; the social aspects of
eating can become very challenging as the person with ED struggles
• Goal-setting
• Activity scheduling/time management
• Planning and preparing meals
• Social skills training
• Leisure exploration
• Return to school/work/community
The ability to plan and prepare a standard snack or meal for oneself
is a life skill that an ED can have a tremendous impact on. The issue is
not that the patient is unable to cook or put together a meal, but more
pertinently, it is whether he or she is able to rationally handle feared
ingredients or food items and add them into the meal(s) that he/she
will consume. Patients usually find it a challenge to handle ingredients
such as butter, oil and sugar, or may have difficulty in judging what an
adequate portion is for themselves. The occupational therapist provides
a therapeutic milieu where patients get the opportunity to go through
the actual practical process of preparing a meal or snack. A hands-on
session like this then creates a very valuable opportunity for the therapist
to offer support and to normalise the experience, through subsequent
discussions to process the experience and struggles faced. Through the
discussion and processing, patients are encouraged to challenge their
distorted beliefs about food. For instance, a patient who believes that
touching butter will result in immediate weight gain will realise such
beliefs are irrational and stems from his or her fear of ‘unhealthy food’.
With exposure to such feared food over time, it is hoped that the patient
will gradually be desensitised, and a more positive experience around
meals or snack time can be recreated
With the isolating nature of an ED, the person often withdraws him
or herself from his/her social circle, thereby reducing the amount of
Leisure Exploration
Activity Analysis
• The awareness of what type of clothes would suit her body frame
and flatter it (cutting, fabric type, etc.)
• Deciding the type of clothes she is looking out for (personal style)
• The knowledge of where to browse for such clothes
• Handling possible comments from store assistants after trying it
• Personal assessment of the suitability and decision to purchase or
not
For a complex and potentially very challenging task like this, the
occupational therapist’s activity analysis is vital as it then allows in-
depth processing to be done over multiple therapy sessions, with the
goal of preparing the patient to make an actual attempt at obtaining
new clothes ultimately.
References
Singapore Association of Occupational Therapists, (2017). What is
Occupational Therapy? Retrieved from https://www.saot.org.sg/about-ot
Overview
Benefits of Exercise
Doctors may recommend stopping all exercises initially until the ED,
mood and weight have stabilised at satisfactory levels. Once the doctor
has cleared the person to re-start his or her exercise, supervision by a
Physiotherapist is required in addition to a Dietitian’s input to ensure
treatment goals are not compromised. Exercise needs to be appropriate
for BMI, patient’s wishes and goals, and medical conditions. Exercise
privileges may be withdrawn when negative behaviours are displayed,
for example weight drop, restriction, and purging (purging can cause
an imbalance in electrolytes putting the person at risk of fainting or
collapsing or stressing the heart when exercising).
Initially relaxation, deep breathing and stretching exercise may be
introduced to ease body stiffness and alleviate excess muscle tension or
pain. This should be done at the prescribed dose as even stretching can
be done excessively.
As the ED improves and progress is made, low intensity exercise can
gradually be introduced. This is a fine balancing act and as mentioned
before needs to be done under the supervision of a Physiotherapist.
Intensity of exercise
Low Intensity — Causes minimal increase in heart rate and breathing.
You could continue the activity comfortably for most of the day. This
includes stretching, slow-paced walking, yoga, etc.
Moderate intensity — You should still be able to talk but not have
enough breath to sing. This includes walking, low-impact aerobics,
dancing, etc.
Types of exercises
As described above, exercise is a planned, structured, repetitive and
purposeful activity. Exercise can be broadly classified as aerobic, weight
training or resistance training, balance exercises and stretching or
relaxation exercises. Some exercises are a combination of aerobic and
resistance training such as high intensity interval training (HIIT). Each
of these exercises has different benefits.
Aerobic exercises aim to improve one’s physical fitness, while weight
training primarily increases muscular strength. Balance training helps
with falls prevention especially in view of the higher risk of osteoporosis
among individuals with ED. Stretching improves flexibility, which may
These are general guidelines for exercise based on BMI. However due
to other factors such as physical and psychological health, your doctor
may have different recommendations. Please check with your doctor
before starting exercise when you are recovering from an ED.
BMI less than 17kg/m2: Avoid engaging in any exercise as it can
affect weight gain and may be detrimental to your health. Breathing,
relaxation and stretching exercises can help reduce muscle tension and
exercise urges.
BMI 17kg/m2 towards healthy weight: Build your strength,
flexibility and endurance with low-intensity supervised exercise such as
yoga, Pilates, walking or light resistance training. Exercise should not
compromise weight restoration.
At a healthy weight (as determined by your doctor): Increase the
intensity of your exercise gradually.
Unless otherwise advised by your doctor, follow the moderate
intensity exercise guidelines.
Seek advice from your doctor before you start any vigorous intensity
exercise.
People with ED, especially those who have been underweight and
amenorrheic for more than six months to one year are at an increased
risk of having thin bones that can break easily. We call this osteopenia or
osteoporosis. A bone mineral density (BMD) test can be done to check
the strength of your bones to see if you have osteopenia or osteoporosis.
It can be hard to curb the impulse and want to exercise excessively when
recovering from an ED. Often the thoughts of exercising can become
overwhelming and the patient believes exercising can only relieve the
distress caused. There are in fact various techniques that may help
alleviate this distress and ease the excess muscle tension and energy felt
in the body.
Compassion
It can be very frustrating caring for a child with an ED. Often, parents
find the child’s behaviours to be very confusing and senseless. Some
may attribute the behaviours to personality defect and feel very angry
and disappointed with the child. In caring for a child with an ED, it is
important to remember that the child is suffering from a psychiatric
illness and in need of help. In particular, Anorexia (AN), a type of ED
usually characterised by low body weight, fear of gaining weight, food
restriction and other compensatory behaviours like excessive exercise,
is one of the most serious of psychiatric conditions with high mortality
rates due to the severe impact on the person’s physical, mental and
emotional health.
Communication
Contracting
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oxygen masks first before helping their children during emergencies.
Examples include having adequate rest and taking meals regularly.
If they have family members and friends who could help, they may
wish to tap on them, e.g., for emotional support, meal supervision or to
reach out to patient. For school-going children, parents could consider
getting support from the school by sharing with the school the child’s
condition and areas of need such as helping to keep an eye on the child
to ensure that he or she takes proper meals in school and not exercising
unnecessarily.
ED usually impacts everyone in the family, with some being more
affected than others. Besides tapping on informal support network,
family members may want to seek professional help for themselves if
the need arises. By practising good self-care habits, not only can the
caregiver be of greater help but he or she would also serve as a good
role model for the sick child in the recovery process.
Last but not least, it is important for caregivers to be kind to
themselves, and let go of any guilt or self-blame feelings that may be
present by recognising that it is not anyone’s fault when a child develops
an ED. By doing so, they would be better able to conserve their energy
and direct it towards helping the child.
Conclusion
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If food is like medicine to a child with an ED, then meals and mealtimes
would be the battleground for all parents and families. Caregivers
want to do their best to be supportive to their loved ones but often
feel helpless at mealtimes — they either give in to the illness to avoid
conflicts and tension or end up venting their anger and frustration at the
child, leaving him or her feeling unsupported and discouraged. From
enjoying meals together and bonding over food as a family, parents are
suddenly being thrown into the situation where they have to try in every
possible way to get their child to eat the food that is on the table.
Friends and relatives may provide ad-hoc support during mealtimes
by sharing meals together, encouraging the person to eat, and providing
emotional support after meals. However, for the majority of young
individuals who are ill, parents are likely the ones who carry the greatest
responsibility in supervising mealtimes from the moment their child
enters treatment till they make some progress in their weight and can
regain some of the control of their meals. Parents become frustrated
yet anxious while they watch their loved ones struggle at mealtimes and
fight family members who try their best to help them get out from this
illness and ordeal. Furthermore, it can be a lonely journey for parents
since some may feel embarrassed to let others know and ask for help.
Even for those who have some support, most parents may still need to
carry the burden of supervising the meals on their own.
In this chapter, a child is defined as anyone who is under 21 years
old and would be pursuing his or her studies and largely financially
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dependent on the parents. It is developmentally normal for the
relationship between the child and parents to evolve over time as the
child individuates to be an adult. Different challenges would emerge for
a 13-year-old adolescent as compared to an older youth at 20 years old.
Some of the pointers may still be useful as a guide for adults with ED
but parents would need to exercise judgment and find a balance given
that the nature of parent-child relationship would be quite different for
a working adult in their 20s or even older living with his or her parents.
Below are some tips that may be helpful for parents as they support
their child during mealtimes.
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3. Recognise ED as separate from the child
Resistance from ED comes in all shapes and sizes such as
throwing food away, hiding food, crying, pleading, bargaining,
coaxing, using vulgarities, throwing tantrums, hitting, emotional
blackmail, or even threatening to harm themselves. Parents
should separate the ED behaviours from their child and remain
firm in their responsibility to supervise meals (Treasure, Smith,
& Crane, 2007). Parents should not take these behaviours per-
sonally since they arise due to ED and were largely non-existent
at mealtimes prior to ED.
Parents have their own limits and should try and realise how
these ED behaviours can push their buttons and affect their mood.
No matter what behaviours parents have to manage, they would
need to assess each situation and observe the child’s coping. In
most situations, it could get worse before things get better but
the child’s safety is priority at all times. It is imperative to consult
the treating doctor and team regarding safety issues if parents
have such concerns and how to balance them with the task of
meal supervision.
There is no fixed way of providing support to the child in
treatment and during mealtimes. The best way to find out how
to support the child is to ask him or her directly in additon to going
by gut feel or past experiences so that support can be most
effective to the child. While the child may want to recover, having
the ED voice in his or her head 24/7 can be a real mental torture.
It is helpful to affirm and praise the efforts put in by the child.
From my experience and conversations with patients with ED,
the child often wishes that parents could acknowledge their
efforts despite their slip-ups and lack of motivation. This encourages
the child to persevere and not give up, knowing that parents are
on their side, and not fighting against them.
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one parent will be firmer and wants to push while the other is
‘softer’ and prefers to go slow. Like any parenting situation,
parents affect one another, that is, one parent gives in in order to
balance the situation when he or she perceives the other parent
being too firm. Over time, the parent who is firm gets exhausted
pushing the ED, and frustrated being the only one doing the job
while the ‘softer’ parent feels disempowered by the ED and
gets blamed for constantly giving in to ED.
Regardless of different approaches, it is critical for parents to
work together so that they can fight ED as a team, and not
each other. Parents need to be on the same page regarding
decisions concerning the child so that ED does not have a chance
to split the parents. In order to maintain its hold on the child, ED
would look for the weakest link and push the boundaries. If
parents are not aware of ED’s tactics, they may fall right into
ED’s trap and start blaming one another. If parents do not resolve
these differences and work out a plan, ED will continue to attack
and cause further tension in the home.
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order to avoid the consequences set by parents. Some examples
of consequences include increased portions at the next meal,
increased supervision and accountability, reduced activity level,
withdrawing the child from PE, CCA and other school activities,
taking leave of absence from school or internship, cancellation
of holiday trips and so on.
A few things about consequences: they should be set well ahead
of time, definitely before the start of the meal (Lock, & le Grange,
2005). Furthermore, consequences only remain as a plan until
they are carried out. Lastly, they work best when parents carry
them out in a calm and consistent manner. Just like the child
who is defeating the ED one meal at a time, parents would also be
encouraged to know that they would gradually feel empowered as
they implement the consequence for their child one at a time and
fight ED.
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• Should the child bring home-cooked food or buy from
the canteen?
There is no right or wrong answer but it depends on the comfort
level of the child and/or parents and the child’s specific challenges
at that point. Home-cooked food allows more control by
parents and saves time for the child during recess or break-time.
On the other hand, buying from the canteen can train the child
to make good food choices and reduce preparation time on the
part of the parents or helper.
References
Lock, J., & le Grange, D. (2005). Help your teenager beat an eating disorder.
New York, NY: The Guilford Press.
Treasure, J., Smith, G., & Crane, A. (2007). Skills-based learning for caring
for a loved one with an eating disorder: The new Maudsley method. East
Sussex, UK: Routledge.
Learning Points
Visual/Art Journalling
“You can’t use up creativity, the more you use, the more you have.” (Maya Angelou)
In art therapy, art journalling can be a powerful and healing tool for
mental health recovery. Malchiodi (2017) suggests that visual journalling
helps traumatised clients to cope with distress and hyper arousal
symptoms, manage stress, and promote self-soothing.
For those who are working hard to manage their eating disorders
(ED), art journalling can be an invaluable tool. Recovering from ED
comes with its ups and downs. Sometimes, fears and insecurities take
the driving seat, eager to make the big U-turn to the comfort and safety
of ED. There are those days when boredom and loneliness creep in, and
ED comes knocking at the door, offering to fill that void and to give the
illusion of achievement and gratification through the control of food
intake and losing weight.
The visual journal can be used to offload complex thoughts and
feelings about recovery. Like a compassionate and non-judgemental
friend who is always available for you, it can also help you manage
triggers and ED behaviour. For example, a patient reported that
whenever she felt the ED urges, she started to write and doodle the urges
down. By the time she finished unloading ”these calls” in her journal,
the urges had become more manageable so that she could practically
just ignore them. Journalling bought her some time to ”cool down” and
to think carefully about the ED urges.
Another patient who had recovered stated that after adding art
making in her initial “writing only” diary, she began to notice a shift
in her perspective. Looking back, she used her diary for a daily rant,
and often ‘hid’ behind complicated and smart words. Until one day,
while flicking through an old magazine, she saw a photograph that
provoked her. The photograph spoke to her of her pain and struggles
in a way that words could not describe. She then began to incorporate
these photographs in her ”writing only” diary, and without realising
it, she had begun an art journal. Sometimes, she used the images as a
conversational focus point in her psychotherapy sessions and vice versa,
and found that these sessions inspired her to search for more meaningful
– The journal
This could be as simple as a plain, unlined, medium to heavy weight
notebook that you can get at any bookstore. Size wise, A4 is a good start
as it allows plenty of room to make art and write. However, if you prefer
something small and portable like an A5 size, it is also good.
2. Close your eyes and start scribbling with your eyes still closed.
Write some words that describe the scribble or your experience
of doing this activity. Was it scary, good, liberating, and easy to do?
Was it difficult to do or fun? Transform these words into a short
sentence or a poem. Figure 1 is an example taken from someone’s
journal using this directive.
Figure 1: An art journal example of a scribble exercise with eyes closed and
the reflection of the exercise
5. Pick a colour or two that represent how you feel today. Fill a page
or two using oil pastels of these two colours. Write down a
reflection of your thoughts and feelings after performing this
exercise.
8. Recall the last time you felt tranquility and calmness. These
feelings usually arise when one is faced with nature’s beauty or
the calming sound of the waves on a beach. Find colours that
represent these calming and peaceful feelings. Paint or sketch
using these colours. You can revisit this page whenever you need
to refocus and ground yourself again.
Last Thoughts
References
Malchiodi, C. (2013). Visual Journalling as Art Therapy & Self-Help. Retrieved
from Cathy Malchiodi Phd, LPCC, LPAT, ATR-BC, REAT website
https://www.psychologytoday.com/sites/default/files/attachments/231/visual-
journal-pages.pdf
Programme Groups
Patients are therefore expected to attend all the different groups, each
group lasting for an hour. The baking group, however, runs for 90
minutes.
Feedback group
This is usually the first group of the week and is attended by all staff
members of the multidisciplinary team as well as all the patients in
EDIT. The team meets to discuss each individual patient’s progress
prior to joining this group. Both positive and negative feedback are
collated before the team comes up with individualised challenges for
each patient. Patients themselves are also expected to reflect on their
own progress and think about their own challenges for the week ahead.
During the actual feedback group, each patient will receive consolidated
individualised feedback regarding their progress during the past week
in EDIT. They are expected to share their own personal challenges
within the group, and at the same time receive the team’s challenges for
them for the coming week. Patients are expected to work on both their
personal challenge as well as the team’s challenges in the week ahead.
Feedback group is also a time for new patients to be introduced to the
group, giving both staff and new patients time to get to know each other.
Check-in group
Check-in group is convened after the feedback group, usually on the
same day after lunch — by which time patients would have had time
to reflect on the team’s feedback and challenges. It is run by one of the
psychiatrists in the team. The smaller group setting allows the therapist
to “check-in” on each patient. Patients’ experiences from the past week,
Nutritional group
Nutritional counselling is an important component in the treatment
of EDs. Patients tend to have extensive knowledge about nutrition but
their knowledge is often highly selective, derived from dubious sources
and often incorrect (Beaumont, Chambers, Rouse and Abraham 1981).
The goals of treatment should focus not only on correcting nutritional
status, but also aim to correct the misconceptions that many patients
have towards food and supposed “healthy eating”. It also aims to assist
patients in establishing normal eating behaviours and develop a normal
attitude and response to food.
Nutrition Group comprises a series of both didactic and interactive
talks conducted by the dietitians. It covers key topics on food and
nutrition relating to eating disorders with the hopes of achieving the
above aims.
Family group
Previous theories of families being a cause of the illness are now
recognised as over simplistic and erroneous. Current knowledge refutes
that families are either the exclusive or primary mechanism that underlie
risk (Le Grange, Lock, Loeb and Nicholls 2010). However, the family
can still play a role in the development and maintenance of EDs. The
majority of our local patients, both adolescents and young adults, still
live with their families. Families, therefore, play an important role in the
recovery process. Patients will get to explore their family relationships
and dynamics within their families as well as the impact of the illness
on the family through group therapy, activities, games and role play
exercises. This group is led by the medical social workers/family
therapists.
Art therapy
Art therapy can be a valuable tool in the recovery process. It can be
introduced as an alternative method to let patients express their feelings
related to the ED. Expressing themselves through art therapy can
be less intimidating for those who find it hard to communicate their
feelings verbally. It can also be learnt as a coping skill where patients
Group physiotherapy
Physiotherapists lead this group and it has both a practical exercise
and cognitive explorative component. Excessive exercise and activity
has long been recognised as a characteristic symptom of EDs. Many
treatment programmes totally prohibit exercise. This can be difficult to
enforce, strains therapeutic relationships and possibly hampers recovery.
The group aims to address patients’ feelings and thoughts towards
exercise. As with their distorted nutritional knowledge, patients often
know a lot about exercise but many are misinformed and harbour
misconceptions concerning exercise. These false beliefs are countered
by providing accurate exercise information with an emphasis on
deleterious side effects of excessive exercise.
On the practical side of it, patients are taught how to exercise safely by
learning appropriate exercises to improve flexibility, posture awareness,
toning and balance. By providing a model of healthy exercising that is
not excessive, this serves as a basis for maintaining a reasonable level of
exercise when they are eventually discharged from hospital or EDIT.
Whilst EDIT has served both inpatients and day patients well in the past
15 years, our programme is also constantly evolving with the emergence
of new data, evidence and treatment modalities in the field of EDs.
With the introduction of Family Based Therapy for adolescents with
anorexia nervosa, many patients no longer need inpatient treatment/
day treatment with additional family support. The team is currently
reviewing EDIT and the need to cater to a changing profile of inpatients
and day patients.
References
Beaumont, P. J., Chambers, T. L., Rouse, L. & Abraham S. F. (1981). The
diet composition and nutritional knowledge of patients with anorexia
nervosa. Journal of Human Nutrition, 35(4), 265-273.
Cash, T. F. & Deagle III, E. A. (1997). The nature and extent of body-
image disturbances in anorexia nervosa and bulimia nervosa: a
meta-analysis. International Journal of Eating Disorder, 22(2), 107-125.
Clay, D., Vignoles, V. L. & Dittmar, H. (2005). Body Image and Self-
Esteem Among Adolescent Girls: Testing the Influence of
Sociocultural Factors. Journal of Research on Adolescence, 15(4), 451-
477.
Dean, H.Y., Touyz, S. W., Rieger, E. & Thornton, C. E. (2008). Group
motivational enhancement therapy as an adjunct to inpatient
treatment for eating disorders: a preliminary study. European Eating
Disorders Review, 16(4), 256-267.
Garner, D. M. (1997). Psychoeducational principles in the treatment.
In D.M. Garner & P.E. Garfinkel (Eds.), Handbook of treatment for eating
disorders, 2nd ed., pp.145-177. New York, NY: Guilford Press.
Le Grange, D., Lock, J., Loeb, K. & Nicholls, D. (2010). Academy
for eating disorders position paper: The role of the family in eating
disorders. International Journal of Eating disorder, 43(1), 1-5.
Learning Points
Overview
Admission
Inpatient Care
Discharge Planning
Discharge planning begins when both patient and family are ready to
transit to outpatient care. This is also dependent on the consistency of
weight gain and emotional readiness of the patient. Hence, both patient
and family are encouraged to continue going on outings and home leave
before actual discharge to gradually cope with the transition of care
from hospital to home. This transition is often accompanied with other
outpatient treatment options which include Family Based Therapy (FBT)
or a partial hospitalisation programme named the Eating Disorders
Intensive Treatment (EDIT) programme. FBT is a treatment approach
which caters to children and adolescents. This approach is carried out
as outpatient care and guided by assigned family therapists to empower
parents in managing their child struggling with the illness. The EDIT
programme, on the other hand, currently caters to both inpatients and
outpatients, and runs five hours every weekday for a week to empower
patients to accept responsibility and manage their independency during
the programme. It provides support for patients through engaging them
in group therapies that work on managing every aspect of the illness,
and provides additional support for parents and other family members
during the transition period. This partial hospitalisation programme
also functions as a day care treatment for outpatients. Patients are
recommended to commit their time in the EDIT programme each
week and continue attending on subsequent weeks until they are fit to
Important Tips
Admission
• It is normal to face resistance because of the nature of illness.
Therefore, it is important for parents to encourage proper help-
seeking behaviours early on for better prognosis of the illness.
Admission may be avoided if the illness is identified early and if
there is quick intervention before it worsens.
• Parents and family members may need to enforce admission onto
their child when faced with a situation where the patient is
dangerously ill and unmanageable at home despite their child’s
cries of resistance. This is in the best interests of their child.
• Inpatient treatment is warranted only if a patient cannot manage
as an outpatient.
Inpatient care
• Family involvement in a patient’s care is of utmost importance in
the recovery process.
• Parents’ proper decision making in the treatment process is
important in preventing their child from falling into the death
traps of the illness.
• It is crucial that parents learn to differentiate between the
thoughts and feelings of the ED from their child’s to ensure that
care for their child is not disrupted by the demands of the ED.
• When family members feel torn apart between their child and
treating team, it is instructive that family members communicate
with the treating team to avoid unnecessary conflicts during the
Discharge planning
• It is important that premature discharge from hospital stay is
avoided to prevent disruption of recovery process.
• Premature discharge requested by parents, which is not
recommended by the treating team, may lead the family to a
“revolving door” phenomenon where frequent admissions may
occur due to the struggles from the illness. This phenomenon may
contribute to long-term effects involving financial issues and
quality of life.
• Family members need to know that patient may not be completely
well upon discharge from the hospital.
• Treatment still continues upon discharge through recommended
outpatient treatment options by the treating team.
• It is crucial for parents to continue to replicate inpatient care
in the hospital into the home setting temporarily until the patient
can accept responsibility in maintaining recovery.
• It is important for family members to look out for any warning
signs that may pull the patient back into the traps of the ED.