Meditation Ebook
Meditation Ebook
Meditation Ebook
My name is Giovanni Dienstmann, and I’m a writer and contributor to the Wake Up
World platform.
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Almost everybody knows the value of meditation. In fact, there are 76 scientifically
proven benefits to the practice (source). Yet very few of us make meditation a part of
our daily life.
So the problem is not raising awareness about it, but helping you to build a daily
habit, find the most powerful meditation technique for you, and learn how to apply
the superpowers of meditation into your daily life.
I call these the Three Pillars of Meditation (habit, technique, application). This short
guide will help you with one of those pillars: finding the ideal meditation technique
for you.
What is Meditation?
Before we talk about choosing the best technique for you, let’s make sure we are on
the same page as to what is meditation.
The word “meditate” actually means to think deeply about something. However, when
Eastern contemplative practices were “imported” to Western culture, this is the term
that was used to define them, for lack of a better word. Nowadays meditation has
more the meaning of this exercise of focusing attention, rather than to reflect deeply.
When most people think of meditation techniques, what comes to mind is either
watching the breath, or repeating a mantra. Those techniques are great, and they do
work for some people – but not for everyone.
Maybe those practices even “work ok” for you, but until you experience the richness
of meditative practice, you can’t know if there isn’t a more effective technique out
there for you.
The good news is that meditation is an incredibly vast and flexible practice. There is
a great variety of methods developed by different contemplative traditions over more
than 3,000 years. They were developed not because the monks were bored, but
because different people have different needs and temperaments.
Some techniques…
▪ may make you feel too passive; while others may energize you.
▪ make you feel more centered; while others make you feel more spaced-out and
detached.
▪ are more suited to improve work performance; others may be better for
exploring the spiritual dimension of meditation.
▪ are easier for people that are more visual by nature; while others go smoother
for people that are predominantly auditory or kinaesthetic
So there is no “one size fits all” in meditation. Yet that is the way meditation is often
taught. Most teachers and courses teach you only one or two techniques…
In fact, it is safe to say that there are as many meditation techniques as there are
different types of sports and diets. Now imagine the problem if everyone is only taught
either basketball or running… Or if everyone was given the same type of food,
regardless of their tastes, blood type, and allergies…
While most meditation techniques share a great number of common benefits, there is
still a big difference between practicing a technique that works for you and practicing
a technique that is optimal for you. Just like there is a big difference between an “ok
job” and your ideal job, or an “ok apartment” and your ideal apartment.
One particular technique may allow you to experience the peace, focus, and the other
benefits of meditation much more easily than others. It may feel more natural and
more enjoyable for you. But you won’t discover which technique that is unless you
experience with a few of them, in a systematic way, with proper guidance and support.
Finding the Best Technique for You
The best way to really find out the best meditation technique for you is to try many of
them, journal your experiences, and see which ones resonate with you the most.
Here I will give you some guiding principles on how to go about it.
Many meditation teachers and groups will try to tell you what the goal of meditation
should be. They may have a one-sided view about meditation, and have only
practiced one or two techniques themselves—thus that’s all they teach. As a long-
term practitioner and teacher, I have seen a lot of that.
But the truth is: meditation is a versatile practice. It is different things to different
people. And that’s ok! What matters is what you seek from the practice.
Once you clarify this point, as you go about trying different meditations, take note of
how they touched (or not) the benefits you are after.
Reflections
What are the benefits you most seek from meditation? Stress relief? Getting in touch
with yourself? Improving memory and concentration? Emotional healing? Spiritual
awakening? Overcoming anxiety? Choose one to three.
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Imagine you had the perfect meditation session. In one word, how do you feel?
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(2) What Are Your Dominant Senses?
Most meditation techniques work predominantly with one of the sense-modalities, or
with the mind, heart or consciousness. You will likely find easier to meditate by using
your preferred sense-modalities—which is where your attention is already flowing.
Body:
• Yoga Nidra
• Chakra Meditation / Kundalini Meditation
• Walking Meditation / Kinhin
• Neiguan
• Taichi
Breath:
• Mindfulness
• Samatha
• Pranayama
• Qiqong
• Spinal Breathing Kriya
Sight:
• Trataka
• Visualization
• Mandalas
Sound:
• Mantra Meditation
• Nada Yoga
Mind:
• Inner Silence
• Labeling
• Neti-Neti
• Self-Enquiry
• Zazen
Heart:
• Loving-Kindness
• Sufi Heartbeat Meditation
• Kirtan
• Christian Contemplative Prayer
Other meditation techniques are multi-channels, meaning they don’t focus on a single
object. These meditations are more of the awareness-type, rather than concentration-
type. Here are some examples:
• Mindfulness
• Inner Silence
• Vipassana
• Zazen
You can learn more about each of these meditations step by step in this article.
Here are some exercises to help you determine what type of sensory channel is
predominant for you, and also if you are more of a body-based person, heart-based,
or mind-based.
Reflections
Do you often think in terms of images or feelings, or always in the form of words?
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What form of beauty impresses you the most? Beautiful forms or images, agreeable
sounds and music, or graceful movements?
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If you close your eyes and try to visualize a purple apple, can you do it? What about
remembering the sound of someone’s voice, or the touch or certain clothes on your
skin?
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Do you navigate your life relying more on thoughts and analysis, or on feelings?
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Which of these makes you come more alive: sightseeing and movies, music and
conversations, or physical activities?
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Reviewing your answers to the questions above, do you feel that you are more of a
visual person, auditory person, or kinaesthetic (body) person?
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Having said that, each style of meditation has a predominant skill it develops the
most, and this is something you might want to consider when choosing your
technique.
Awareness
The skill of awareness (or mindfulness) is about observing the whole spectrum of
your present moment experience, without clinging, rejecting, or judging anything. It
is panoramic and broad.
The more you develop awareness, the more you are able to zoom out from your
thoughts and emotions, gain clarity, and see the big picture.
Finally, developing awareness gives you the ability to pause more, and not be
reactive. In a way, it’s the most essential skill. All forms of meditation have it.
Focus
The skill of focus (or concentration) is about strengthening your mind-power and
will-power. It’s the ability to place your attention where you want it to be, ignoring
distractions, and keep it there, moment after moment.
The more attention we give to a certain thought or feeling, the stronger it grows. If
we stop paying attention to it, and instead pay attention to a more positive one, the
old thought will eventually disappear, and the new one becomes our new reality.
This is the neuroplasticity of our brains. The ability to focus, gained through
meditation, helps you actively change yourself, and your life, by allowing you to
decide what you will pay attention to.
What you pay attention to will exist. It will grow. It will thrive.
What you remove attention from will cease to exist. It will wane and disappear.
Relaxation
The skill of relaxation is an essential preliminary component of all meditation
practices. The techniques that emphasize this skill are, among others:
• Yoga Nidra
• Tai Chi standing meditation
• Pranayama (some forms)
Relaxation is not a superficial skill, as some may judge. It is deep, and works on many
levels.
The first level is physical relaxation. This is letting go of physical tensions stored in
your muscles. It is to calm the breathing, slow the heartbeat, pacify the nerves. You
then feel at ease inside your own body.
The third level is mental relaxation. It is about widening your mind, taking yourself
less seriously, being more open and flexible. It is the ability to release pattern of
thoughts that no longer serve you.
Reflection
After reading the descriptions above, which of the three Core Skills of meditation do
you need to focus on most, at this time of your life?
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(4) What Is Your Worldview?
On the other hand, some styles of meditation are more spiritual by nature; others
are even more religious by nature (see distinction between spirituality and religion
here). These are the styles that you want to avoid in case you are atheist/agnostic, or
actively seek out, in case your meditation goals are more spiritual by nature.
Examples of meditation styles that are spiritual, but not necessarily religious. This
means that you don’t need to adopt a specific religion to follow them, but need
openness about the existence of the spiritual dimension of life:
• Sufi Meditation (some forms)
• Chakra Meditation
• Neidan (Taoist internal alchemy)
Reflections
Is it important for you that your meditation technique follows a specific spiritual
philosophy? Or is it important that it follows none and be 100% secular?
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Which wisdom tradition / spiritual lineage resonates with you the most?
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Running Meditation Experiments
Well done on sticking with us thus far! You have learned a lot.
Step 1: Clarity
If you have gone through the suggested reflections, this is the step you have just
completed. Which means that now you have clarity of:
Step 2: Selection
Having this understanding, you then review the next section of this Guide, “Overview
of Meditation Traditions” (below), and come up with a list of meditation techniques
for you to try.
Step 3: Experimentation
The best way to figure out which is the most powerful meditation for you is to
experiment many of the ones that feel promising. You can do this by yourself, or with
the help of a good book, meditation course, or knowledgeable teacher.
Don’t let anyone tell you which meditation you “must do”—only you can truly know
that. So explore the techniques and make your own decision.
I recommend you spend at least one week on each of the styles you selected on Step
2. During the week, meditate every day using that particular technique.
If you are an intermediate or advanced meditator, you may want to follow it on your
own. Otherwise, a good guided meditation audio can be a very helpful tool.
It can be helpful, during this phase, to keep a meditation journal. At the end of each
meditation, you can ask yourself:
• How long did I meditate?
• How did I feel before? How do I feel now?
o In my body
o In my mind
o In my heart
• What flowed well in this meditation?
• What was difficult about this meditation?
Step 4: Shortlisting
Based on your experiments and journal notes of Step 3, now select two to four
meditation techniques. Then you can go for another round of experimentation, but
stay one to two months with each technique, and try to learn as much about it as
possible.
Step 5: Consolidating
After you have gone through such a process (or your variation of it), then you are
much better able to choose your technique. Once you do so, finally, it is better to
stick to one main practice, so you can go deeper with it.
Or, if you are down to two techniques—and depending on how much time and
motivation you have for the practice—you may use both of them as your daily
practice. Either you can practice two different meditation sessions per day (one in
the morning, one in the evening), or split your single meditation session into two
parts (one for each technique).
Overview of Meditation Traditions
Here is a list, for your reference, of the most popular meditation techniques from the
main traditions, with short descriptions. This is by no means a complete list—as
mentioned, there are hundreds of techniques.
In the lists below, the practices under the traditions of Yoga, Vedanta, Buddhism and
Taoism can be done in a secular way (even though some are spiritual by origin). The
ones in Sufi and Christian mysticism, however, are spiritual or religious by nature.
Please don’t get overwhelmed by all this variety and technical names. Consider this as a
“map” for you to refer to when you want to check what types of meditation exist, and what
traditions they belong to.
It is beyond the scope of this Guide to teach you each of these techniques. That takes a
whole book, and guided meditation audios. From this point onward you can Google about
the different types of meditation, or a particular meditation you feel attracted to. Or you
can check out my book, Practical Meditation, which covers many of these.
Meditation Tips
Here are some meditation guidelines that are applicable to basically all styles of
meditation. Please don’t look at these as “hard rules”, but principles that, if followed,
will enhance your meditation experience, and the benefits you get from your
practice.
Here are six other tips to make sure your practice is optimal. They are not
mandatory, but they make your meditation go easier:
• Your body should not be exhausted. So it’s not a good idea to practice right
after exercise.
• Your mind should be awake. So it’s not good to do it when you are sleepy or
tired.
• Your belly should not be full. Give it 30~40 minutes after light meals, and 2~3
hours after heavy meals.
• Put your phone on airplane mode or sleep mode, during your practice, so you
are not interrupted.
• Do a minute or two of breathing exercises before meditation, if you know
any. This will make it much easier to relax and calm the mind.
• If you are meditating at home, wear clothes that are comfortable and loose.
Remove accessories.
The Meditation Posture
Your body influences your mind. If you slouch down on a couch and look down, you
will feel a certain way. If you stand up, tall and wide, and look ahead—you’ll feel
another way.
Body language is powerful not only in communicating with other people, but also in
telling your nervous system how you want to be feeling right now. And that is why
there are specific recommendations for the meditation posture, to make sure you
are in the optimal state for the practice.
These meditation postures are not part of a ritual. They are not a cultural symbol.
Rather, they are the result of centuries of experiments as to how different positions
affect our mind.
In whatever meditation posture you sit, these are the important elements:
• Firmness — so you feel grounded and safe;
• Straightness — so your mind doesn’t go into sleep or daydreaming;
• Comfort— so you are able to sit still for long, with less distractions;
• Relaxation — you need to relax all muscles not engaged in keeping the
posture up, especially the muscles of the shoulders, arms, and face.
In terms of straightness, the essential point is to keep your spine and neck straight,
and standing on their own (without leaning on anything).
To help with straightening the spine, position your pelvis on your meditation seat in
such a way that it is slightly tilted back—this will help your back be straight more
effortlessly.
To help with straightening the neck, gently stretch the top of your head towards the
ceiling, as if it was being pulled by an invisible string.
This is the core of the meditation posture. Once you sit in a position like that, close
your eyes and mouth, have the tongue gently touching the roof of the mouth (so you
salivate less), and relax your body. Relax into the posture, enjoying its dignity and
stability.
There are different recommended positions for meditation, these are the five main
ones:
The most popular postures for Westerners are Burmese (simple cross-legged)
and Seiza (kneeling on a stool or a cushion). I meditate on Burmese style.
Full lotus and half lotus are traditional postures, but require a lot of flexibility, and
are usually not comfortable. If you are looking for other traditional meditation
postures, that are less demanding than lotus, check out Siddhasana, Siddha Yoni
Asana, Sukhasana, Swastikasana, Vajrasana. It’s beyond the scope of this e-book to
expand on those; if you want to learn more, I recommend Swami
Satyananda’s excellent book on asanas.
Regardless of the position of your legs, having the right height in relation to the floor
is essential for the right position of the pelvis. What we want to achieve is that the
hips are above the level of the knees, so your pelvis can roll forward, and the back
can straighten naturally, without stress or pushing.
To learn more about how to find a good cushion or stool for you practice, check this
guide.
The Five Superpowers of Meditation
The process is simple, but not necessarily easy. And it doesn’t matter, because just
going through the process of meditation, in itself, is beneficial.
Every time you sit to meditate, you are cultivating five “superpowers” in yourself.
Here is where we start touching the third Pillar of the meditation, application. This is
a more advanced topic, but I wanted to briefly include it in this Guide so that you see
what is possible with meditation.
Superpower #1 — Pausing
What it is. Meditation gives you the ability to pause. This is that extra space between
what life throws at you, and your response. Mindful pauses make a huge difference
in how you feel at the end of the day.
You become less reactive, and can act more purposefully. This means less drama,
less hasty decisions, and less regret. You also save your energy and feel more alive.
How we develop it. In meditation, we train pausing every time we notice that we’re
distracted with thoughts, feelings or memories. We then pause, take a step back, and
put our attention back on our meditation object.
How to integrate it. Breathing exercises are the most powerful way of creating pause
in your daily life. This can be as simple as taking a moment to breathe deeply, cool
down, and be present. Or it could be more advanced such as using the Square
Breathing or Alternating Nostrils Breathing exercises.
Superpower #2 — Mastery of Attention
What it is. Meditation gives you the ability to zoom out and zoom in.
Zooming out is taking a step back, and seeing the whole picture. It’s useful so that
you don’t get sucked into negative mental and emotional states. It frees you.
Zooming in is the ability to really focus your attention wherever you want it to be.
This empowers you to be more productive, more present, more purposeful. With
these qualities it’s much easier to achieve your goals in all areas of life.
How we develop it. In meditation you are exercising the muscle of attention every
time you notice that you got distracted by thoughts, let them go, and then bring your
attention back. This happens hundreds of times, and develops into a “superpower”
you can use in your daily life.
How to integrate it. Have a solid foundation of a daily meditation practice, with the
technique that is most optimal for you. The rest happens automatically.
What it is. The ability to change yourself, your thoughts, emotions and habits. It is
based on the neuroplasticity of our brain. It also uses affirmation and visualization.
The more attention we give to a certain thought or feeling, the stronger it grows. If
we stop paying attention to it, and instead pay attention to a more positive one, the
old thought will eventually disappear.
How we develop it. Meditation trains us to control our attention, so we can put our
mind where we want it to be, and free it from everything else (distractions). With
this we are able to stop feeding the bad wolf, and feed the good one.
How to integrate it. Create the foundation of mental mastery through daily
meditation. Apply it in real life by carefully choosing where you put your attention.
Superpower #4 — Mastery of Emotions
How we develop it. Through meditation practice we learn how to accept ourselves
no matter what. To accept, without judgment or resistance, whatever emotions,
thoughts and memories are showing up. To see them clearly, and learn from them.
This gives you self-awareness, leading to self-compassion. You become relaxed and
fearless, since you are not running away from any experience. You are able to be at
peace even in the midst of the most difficult emotions.
You also learn how to better process and let go of negative emotions, by focusing on
the raw physical sensations without adding stories, and then releasing them.
Finally, you learn how to create positive emotional states without depending on
external stimuli. Basically, you’re able to feel good on-demand.
How we develop it. Through meditation you get to the insight that you are not your
thoughts. Not your emotions or memories. Not your past or your roles.
You realize that all these things come and go—but you, the witness, stay unmoved.
Just like a mirror that can reflect all images, but doesn’t contain any image on itself.
Or a cinema screen that can display images of fire, but never gets burned.
How to integrate it. Constantly remember who you are. You are larger than all your
problems. You are the witness. Practice meeting life from this new space.
Learn More
Do you want to learn how to overcome anxiety through the power of meditation and
personal growth tools? Then check out the Calm and Free course.
About Me
My name is Giovanni Dienstmann. I’m an international
author, meditation teacher, coach and speaker. As a
practitioner, I have done over 9,000 hours of meditation,
experimented with 80+ techniques, and trained with masters
of several traditions.
My work focuses on taking you from anxious and stressed to calm, centered and
focused, through the power of meditation. Thousands of people have taken my
programs, and experienced the benefits.
My Journey
I have been actively seeking personal growth, self-mastery, and a deeper meaning
in life since I was a teenager (I’m now in my mid 30’s). Even though I learned from
many sources and systems, what I was seeking was always the same: empowered
peace.
Yes, I wanted to experience peace of mind. Because with that comes a sense
of freedom, of not being disturbed by anything. With peace also comes confidence,
emotional balance, and clarity.
But not the peace of the graveyard! Not a peace that is passive, or weak. I was
searching for a peace that is empowered—full of energy, dynamism, and focus.
Empowered Peace.
That is my personal anthem, and the transformation that I seek to facilitate for you.