The Secret Language of Leadership
The Secret Language of Leadership
The Secret Language of Leadership
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The Secret Language of Leadership
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change.
When leaders give reasons for change to people who don’t agree with them, it’s worse than ineffective.
A significant body of research shows that it usually entrenches those people more deeply in opposition
to what the leaders are proposing.
In 2003, Howell Raines was fired from his post as managing editor of the New York Times. Raines
had every managerial advantage. He had the strong support of his boss. He had a clear strategy for
reenergizing the newspaper. He was able to hire and fire and place his own associates in key positions.
Under his tenure, the newspaper won an unprecedented number of Pulitzer prizes. The pretext for
Raines’s dismissal after only nineteen months on the job was the revelation that a young reporter—
Jayson Blair—had been found guilty of plagiarism and lying. But the deeper underlying reason for
Raines’s dismissal is that he had “lost the newsroom.” He had failed as a leader to win the hearts and
minds of the staff of the New York Times to implement his bold change strategy.
In 2007, Bob Nardelli was dismissed from his position as CEO of Home Depot. He’d arrived with
impeccable credentials, implemented a plan to revive the struggling company, and achieved dazzling
financials. After six years, he had doubled sales and more than doubled revenues. Gross margins had
also steadily improved. The apparent trigger for Nardelli’s departure was his unwillingness to lower the
amount of his extraordinary pay package. This had become an issue because the stock price was down 7
percent since Nardelli had taken over, while his compensation remained astronomical. But the
underlying reason for his departure was that he wasn’t able to generate sustained enthusiasm among
the array of investors, shareholder advocates, hedge funds, private-equity deal makers, legislators,
regulators, and nongovernmental organizations who want a say in how a company is run.
This is why the traditional leadership approach of trying to persuade people of something different by
giving them reasons why they should change their minds isn’t a good idea if the audience is at all
skeptical, that is, cynical or even hostile. If a leader presents reasons at the outset of a communication
to such an audience, it will likely activate the confirmation bias and the reasons for change will be
reinterpreted as reasons not to change. This occurs without the thinking part of the brain being
activated: the audience becomes even more deeply entrenched in its current contrary position. Reasons
don’t work, because the audience is neither listening nor thinking.
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So although leaders might imagine that giving a presentation discussing and analyzing problems
and reaching rational conclusions in favor of change can do no harm, they need to think again. Giving a
talk full of abstract reasons arguing for change can quickly turn an audience into an army of strident
cynics.
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