Ünsiyyət Quiz
Ünsiyyət Quiz
Ünsiyyət Quiz
• Motivate yourself to listen enthusiastically. Before the other person even begins
speaking, tell yourself that you're going to give this person and his or her message your full
attention.
• Learn to be an active listener. Try hard to understand other’s point of view and
empathize with their experiences by "putting yourself in their shoes."
• Put emotions aside. Try not to let feelings like anger or jealousy stand in the way of
attentive listening.
• Give the talker incentives to open up. Use phrases like "Wow, go on!" or "That is very
interesting."
• Be patient with talkers who have a difficult time communicating, especially young
children. Show them respect by letting them fully express their thoughts and problems.
• Avoid distractions. Focus your attention on the person you are listening to, and
maintain eye contact with them.
• Do not interrupt the speaker. Doing so demonstrates a lack of respect for the talker
and breaks their chain of thought, leading to a mixed or incomplete message.
• Ask questions about anything you do not understand. Pick your spots carefully and
ask for clarification.
• Listen with your entire body. Nod your head to indicate that you understand. Use
appropriate body language to demonstrate that the message is being received loud and
clear.
• Pay attention to the speaker's body language. Hand gestures, physical mannerisms,
tone of voice, and intensity of the eyes can reveal more than the actual words being
spoken.
• Use "I" statements rather than "you" statements. Instead of saying "You always treat
me like a child," say, "I don't appreciate when you treat me like a child."
• Do not give up on a poor talker. If the speaker is rambling, repeating himself or
herself, or losing your interest try to be patient. Ask specific questions like "So what was the
result?" or "What did you do next?” to get to the point
• React to the message, not the messenger. Repeat what the person said to you back
to them in your own words to confirm the message they were trying to relate and
demonstrate that you understood.
20.What is Success?
Success in the accomplishment of an aim or purpose;
It is a process, journey;
Success means attempting to move forward;
Success is doing meaningful work that both meets your personal or professional goals and
provides enough income to support your desired lifestyle;
Success means different things for different people depending on your circumstances,
goals, and desires
True success is gained not only from the achievement of our goals but also from the
happiness and satisfaction derived from pursuing those goals. To become successful, one
has to have and keep a plan on how they will obtain success. Keep improving and
increasing your work ethic. Whether you want to become an athlete, musician, speaker,
entrepreneur, model, etc., train to become the best at what you do. Give it all. Work as
hard, or harder, as the top professionals in that field. Know that you will experience some
failure along the way but its important to remember that failure is a necessary step on the
road to success. Youve heard it before; its not how many times you fall that matters; what
matters is how many times you stand back up. When you keep reaching for your goals then
look back to see how far youve come since falling it is the failures that allow you to achieve
a sense of satisfaction, no matter where you are on your journey.
Success does come with a price it may mean spending less time on personal enjoyment
and some people may become jealous of your success, affecting your relationships in
unforeseen ways. However, if your priorities and values are in order, the success you
achieve will be well worth it and the people that truly matter will be able to share in that
success with you.Success should be about happiness. Too many people today display or
project success with material possessions or extreme actions. It is so profound today
because everyone is trying to keep up with the Jones.
Success isnt about owning a fancy car, a big mansion, or flying on a private jet. Instead,
success should be determined by the internal happiness of how a person feels.
The media and masses online today promote the outcome the money, the financial
freedom, the material stuff. If you just love the process, youre already more successful,
fulfilled and happier than most.