PDF Archive2008 03 29tylerdurden001 - Compress
PDF Archive2008 03 29tylerdurden001 - Compress
PDF Archive2008 03 29tylerdurden001 - Compress
Made available to you via FastSeduction.com, the Center of the Seduction Universe, your "Get Laid Portal".
Most recently updated on: March 29th, 2008 12:58:58 AM (EST)
If you are unfamiliar with any of the terms used within this archive, you can find a thorough acronym listing on
FastSeduction.com.
This is the TylerDurden archive. There are many archives like this on Fast Seduction 101. For example, we have
archives for: Style (Neil Strauss), Mystery, Juggler (Wayne Elise), BradP, Ross Jeffries, jlaix (Jeffy), TwentySix (aka
Extramask), Zan, David Shade, MrSex4uNYC, TokyoPUA, Badboy, Formhandle, ijjjji, GoneSavage, Razorjack,
Svengali, toecutter, Jimbo, PlayboyLA, Jetman (aka John C. Ryan, Jr.), zarathustra_fi (Franco), Vin DiCarlo (aka
Woodhaven), Herbal, Maniac High, JohnnyC69, money_matteo, Hitori, epitome, IN10SE, Lifeguard, Geoff,
Huddersfield Mark, madbad, chessclub, Vince, Neo-Rio (aka Rio), Player Supreme, BlueMystery, NashvillePlayboy,
Nathan Szilard, ALPHAHOT1, A2daMIR, Alessandro, Harmless, ox, Trystan, Nightblue, Commander Zap, Nightlight9,
dc_guy, Coolwater, Whoisthis19, Dan Scorpio, finalD, Bishop, Laife, Lovedrop, Casey, Breakbeat, Jestor, HyperFocus
(aka Identity_X), Trystan, Tunnces, vampire2727, Shark (Ranko Magami), Scoob, Papa, Roadking. All of them are
available for download. And, you don’t have to worry, we’ve been around for a long time and the site is not going
anywhere, so you can download them at any time.
-1-
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Background
Background
Who is "TylerDurden"?
Or, more specifically, what are these post archives about and what do they have to do with his involvement with the
"Seduction Community"?
Yes, "Tyler Durden" was a fictional character in the book "Fight Club" by Chuck Palahniuk (which was also made into a
film). But TylerDurden (one word) is also the chosen pen-name of an extremely prolific poster on the mASF Forums
an one of the characters in the in the best-selling book The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists,
released in 2005. He was initially a protégé of the pickup artist Mystery, and later after having a falling out with
Mystery, formed a pickup company called Real Social Dynamics together with aspiring pickup artist and business
school student Papa. Together, Papa and TylerDurden formed the basis for the antagonistic characters in the book
The Game.
TylerDurden was known for various contributions to the seduction community, for examples concepts such as the
secret society and AMOGs. Tyler still travels the world today teaching men through his company Real Social
Dynamics.
What many people do not know is that Tyler was one of the most prolific posters ever to hit the seduction community,
(his posts number in the thousands) and for years the just about the only place he ever posted was on the mASF
Forum on FastSeduction.com.
Some of the TylerDurden posts will also help readers of The Game to better appreciate events and happenings that
occurred in the book. Many of the attributions of article posts stated in The Game as being from "Mystery’s Lounge"
were actually posts made to the mASF forum on FastSeduction.com. This archive of PDF files are a complete
collection of all of TylerDurdens posts on mASF.
To find other archives of posts from people such as Style, Mystery, and Juggler, all major personalities from The
Game, all of whom gained their initial broad notoriety from the community on FastSeduction.com, check our other
archives . You can also find new and influential members of the community using our searchable post archive
containing well over half a million posts, or join our very active forum.
Articles in this archive are generated through automated means on a regular basis. Due to the automated nature of
how this PDF is generated, on occasion there may be articles found within this archive which may not actually be
attributed to the author intended to be represented, although best efforts have been made to ensure the automated
generation process is as accurate as possible. In either case, proper attribution is given. Please make note of the
specific citing above each article for verification. Questions about this archive should be directed to the
FastSeduction.com webmaster at webmaster@fastseduction.com. To find more articles like this, visit the The Archive
at Fast Seduction 101 web site at FastSeduction.com. Don’t forget to bookmark the site when you visit! The site is
fully free to access an contains the largest knowledgebase and features on the subject of meeting women, pickup and
seduction.
-2-
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com For all you guys hurting over a woman. / Post 1
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (1) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Subject: For all you guys hurting over a woman. // view thread online
Post Date: August 19th, 2002 02:18:00 AM (EDT)
Group/Board: alt.seduction.fast.general
Article Author: "TylerDurden" (if mis-matched to this archive, contact webmaster@fastseduction.com)
Find recent posts by "TylerDurden" on mASF // contact "TylerDurden"
Email links in posts are protected using the Safemail system via FastSeduction.com
It IS possible, and not uncommon. Here’s how: your life is lacking, and you
use the absence of the chick as a rationalization for why your life is the way
it is or for why you feel the way you do.
There are also many other examples of more pathetic cases where the guy got
flat dumped and was obviously no longer respected, but can’t accept it.
Again, these are all based on SELF RATIONALIZATIONS for not feeling satisfied
with your life. If their lives improved, the problem would eventually have to
go away.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
-3-
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Feeling GUILT / Post 2
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (2) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
If you mean that this site got you into an LTR then you are wrong. That would
be a classic case of what GunWitch mentioned last month, where he spoke of
typical AFCs who find this site and then quit as soon as they get one decent
girl.
On the other hand, if you are concerned that you have NOT MANAGED HER
EXPECTATIONS properly, I suggest that you immediately refer to The HB BLITZ
series on "www.pickupguide.com", particularly the comments on the story by
MrSex4uNYC (who also discusses managing multiple women extensively in his
archive).
Here, I even cut and pasted for you, so you have no excuse.
www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/search.cgi?action=retrieve&grp=1&mn=93845230950205&site=pug
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
-4-
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com I want to show my SEXUALITY...how? / Post 3
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (3) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
The following post took me 1/2 an hour to write so you’d better appreciate it
:)
Are you not KOREAN? I’m going to tell you something you should have already
realized. Routines like RJ’s IC/lovevs.att, and the ones you mentioned work
ONLY for guys who already seem at least semi-alpha. If you are going after
Asian girls then these will work WELL, because Asian girls desire friendship
and connection as part of their culture.
But, judging that you are having trouble, you are probably going for
non-asians. I’m sorry to inform you, then, that you have an ALPHA DEFICIT that
must be rectified PRIOR to going into these routines. One of my asian friends
is probably a 9 in the looks dept., and is fluent in ASF and we discuss PU
regularly (he is my gym partner and he is fairly buffed like myself). He still
can NOT PU with these routines, unless he has first exhibited alphaness.
>kind of silent...i think they
>were thinking it was fake or
>something...
If they were not Asian girls they were thinking "fuck, I wonder if this asian
guy thinks that we’re meant for eachother or some shit..just what I need"..
I’M SORRY, I’m trying to help you. We all have physical nonideals to work
with. I’m 22 and I can see my hair line slightly starting to recede -at 22-.
In 5 years I may be bald, which will make things harder for me than being asian
makes things for you.. BUT I will ADAPT and I am NOT worried. Being Asian in
NORTH AMERICA is a problem because girls grow up with a preconceived
CONCEPT/IDEAL of what kind of guy they want. Although this problem is slowly
being rectified, the media still focuses beauty on mostly WHITE men and women.
-5-
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com I want to show my SEXUALITY...how? / Post 3
Can you name even 1 male or female asian sex fantasy symbol? Lucy Liu is all I
can think of (I gotta move to NY so I can PU on these celebrity chicks).
HOWEVER, girls even fall in love with other girls, so they can fall for you.
You have NO excuse, so don’t use my above comments as a rationalization for
failure. I’m just explaining that you must FIRST remove that barrier PRIOR to
running the routines.
How? Well as far as appearance, either embrace asian style and use it to your
benefit (I don’t mean wear robes - just sport some really COOL stylish asian
styles), OR, go for a totally Americanized style to downplay your
non-idealness. As far as personality, they have to see you as a human, and a
human who is a potential sex partner (ie CONFIDENT and ALPHA).. the Mystery
Method is unlikely to work for you because the SUPER HAPPY CHINAMAN is a
fucking STEREOTYPE.
Since you are Asian, you must not FOCUS on these routines.
Listen, for a PUA, these routines are effective because they appear ALPHA, and
the girl is thinking "I wanna fuck him but I’m scared he’s a player/I need to
feel a connection since I can’t just fuck anybody". Girls may be intimidated
by a PUA alphaness, and RJ/SS puts her into a state where she can give in to
her desires/break down her resistance. Unless a girl is thinking these things
already, there is no use in running these routines. THESE ROUTINES ARE
DESIGNED TO BREAK DOWN RESISTANCE. If they are not RESISTING you in the first
place, they are pointless (although putting certain girls into states via SS
may work, but it is NOT an overly high percentage method unless you are ROSS
himself and can use NLP like a PRO).
Here’s a chart for you (read from some book long time ago)
As an Asian, you don’t want to use the "I’ll show you my sensitive side" shit
that alpha PUAs would, because you’ll appear NICE. You don’t want to go
overboard on the Mystery method because you’ll appear Super Happy which is sort
of the Asian equivalent of a macho guy in North America. You want to be the
good guy.. fun, exciting, secure, a great guy to talk to. Not a TRY-HARD. You
might try learning ways to BAIT girls to ask you about your good qualities, and
let them feel that they have discovered some overlooked great guy (not that you
want them to think you’re ’overlooked’, but you get what I’m saying I’m sure).
>basically, i have been having
>problems with my
>stories...maybe these stories
>sound too fake...too
>coincidental...
NO -> If a chick wants you, it doesn’t matter wtf you say (within reason).
>do u guys pause and pretend
>you’re thinking of what to say
>when telling these chicks...i
>think i am having problems
>because i just flow without
>stopping...
-6-
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com I want to show my SEXUALITY...how? / Post 3
It takes a LONG time to fix this problem.. It will only be fixed with practice,
which you are obviously willing to put in so don’t worry. Keep doing what
you’re doing. You could try recording yourself.
>tonight, none of my routines
>worked...so i was fuckin
NO -> this implies that you think that routines do the work. This thinking is
wrongheaded.
>gunwitch, u say go SEXUAL?
>ok...i will do that next
>time...i will fuckin KINO like
>them like crazy...what else
>can i do to show my
>SEXUALITY...should i stare
>into their eyes and say i want
>to swim in it? give me some
>tips on showing my SEXUALITY
>to these chicks because i want
>to FUCK them!
NO -> If some asian guy goes up to some chicks and starts touching her, it will
freak her out. Try it if you don’t believe me (somewhere you don’t frequent)
You must attract prior. LISTEN: Check out the following and THINK ON IT.
and for help on your routines ONCE YOU HAVE RECTIFIED WHAT I HAVE MENTIONED
check toecutter posts 121 and 122.
I have taken the trouble to check back to find these for you so check them out.
I realize you’re well read, and may have already, but REVIEW them.
IN CLOSING, I think that you have done well in understanding how all of these
concepts are links. However, you are missing the point of what they are
intended to accomplish. These tools are not just like missles that are
launched at hit or miss. They are used in conjunction to create an IMPERSSION
that is all enthralling and makes girls want to be lead by you. I suggest
considering going off ASF for a while (except maybe to post something really
important/specific), because if you are constantly being bombarded with new
information, your mind will experience paralysis by analysis. Routines are
just meant to prevent nasty lulls in convos, and maybe give her a bit of an
impression that works in your favour. They are not the staple of your
approach, though they are necessary.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
-7-
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Better ’lines’ for social proof / Post 4
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (4) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Here are some some variations on the social proof line 4 threads above that are
more subtle and effective:
-talking about jobs [finding etc].. "yeah, you could make good money
bartending.. my ex worked at and she made alot in tips." (talk about ex’s too
early in convo is bad though)
-talking about social dynamics.. "you know what I hate, is like when I’ll start
hanging out with some girl, and as soon as she realizes that there’s no way
that I ever wanna be more than just friends she blows me off" (only if you have
GOOD game, otherwise she may misinterpret this as an SOI that you want to be
just friends with HER)
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
-8-
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Advise needed on handling situation / Post 6
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (6) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Be careful with this stuff. It is intended to prevent girls from thinking that
you’re a typical desperate loser by breaking the mould of what they expect. If
you can convey this by other means then do so.
David Shade Style: give her the answer she wants, followed up with a sarcastic
modifier "I want to get into a relationship, but my professional stud service
job is eating all my time, so we’ll have to settle for your pants" Never
answer this kind of shit test directly.
>she just wants a "normal
>relationship" where sex isn’t
>an issue for some time...
-9-
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Advise needed on handling situation / Post 6
Translation: I like to fuck, but you don’t inspire those feelings in me.
Patterns will not help you. You need to change your whole attitude towards how
you are approaching this chick. You NEED to STOP her thought process or you
are going to be the guy that she justifies her non-slut existence with before
proceeding to fall back into her old lifestyle with someone other than you.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 10 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Good or SHIT line? / Post 7
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (7) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
If you want to set the frame as non-LJBF, then make her promise to dress sexy
or say certain fun things when you arrive "I was just thinking about you" etc.
This line, although perhaps not serious, may cross the boundary of what the
girl views as acceptable non-slut behaviour (while being all
progressive/feminist picking you up may not).
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 11 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Venting.... some tips could help / Post 8
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (8) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
I do not see anything in this post that I can directly answer. This group is
being flooded with these sorts of questions from newbies and the members don’t
have time to help you through stuff that has already been covered in the
archives.
Don’t worry, you’ve come to the right place, you’ll improve in no time.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 12 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Power Games -- ever get sick of ’em? semi-field-report / Post 10
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (10) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Subject: Power Games -- ever get sick of ’em? semi-field-report // view thread online
Post Date: August 19th, 2002 04:25:00 AM (EDT)
Group/Board: alt.seduction.fast.general
Article Author: "TylerDurden" (if mis-matched to this archive, contact webmaster@fastseduction.com)
Find recent posts by "TylerDurden" on mASF // contact "TylerDurden"
Email links in posts are protected using the Safemail system via FastSeduction.com
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 13 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Going out alone / Post 11
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (11) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Do not go to clubs with a large group of just guys unless you are just there to
have fun/drink.
If you must, run the whole routine. Make pawns, form bases, and try to find
pivots to bring with you.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 14 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com What do u look like? / Post 12
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (12) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
The reason this group does not answer these posts is because the purpose of
this group is to dwell on things that are within our control. Looks are not,
with the exception of style and bodyfat levels.
Sounds to me like you look very good. But this post is AFC. If you are still
dwelling on this stuff, you have a long way to go, so stop posting and start
reading.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 15 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Feeling GUILT / Post 13
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (13) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Not a point of quitting reading the site. Its a point of not having the balls
to sarge anymore, because your sexual needs are TEMPORARILY taken care of.. In
fact, it is a perfect time to practice, because you will appear less needy.
>least 1 or 2 more ladies. I admit i feel
>like im betraying my LTR but im also
>looking at it from another point of view
>which opens my eyes even wider!
If you have promised her exclusivity then you are betraying her and you should
feel guilty. Regardless of the polyamorous views promoted on this site, you
should always feel guilty when you break your word to someone. These
relationship expectations should have been managed PRIOR to any agreements.
Now you must either live with the guilt or live with being in an exclusive
relationship. There is no healthy way to alleviate guilt for something that
you should feel guilty for.
>
>PS i couldnt paste the link u gave me...
>
Then don’t use the link. As I said, just link through www.pickupguide.com and
do ctrl-f for the hb blitz series.. pay particular attention to MRSEX4UNYCs
response.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 16 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Some good ones / Post 14
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (14) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
You PU some chick, it goes well, but she tells you she has a BF. NOW, if this
chick is particularly enticing do NOT use the following suggestion. This
suggestion is a low percentage maneuver, that gets the point across but closes
the door to run BF destroyers as well as an extended breakup seduction (that
can be effective) in the future. So, if you don’t care, run this and take your
chances - it may well work and is WAY preferable to giving up.
You suggest get together and get BF blah blah.. Answer said with
completely straight face, and only executed if it went really well but you
dont feel like extended BFdestroying session: hmmm..well it sounds like you
have the guy to take you out to lunch angle covered.. I guess we could keep it
casual for now.. would it be preferable for you to drop by my place later, Ive
got a nice place over by [xxx] (if yes then cool, if not then->)no.. hmm well
I dunno what else youd want from a guy youve only met x times..sounds like we
dont have much of a common ground at the moment.. still, you seem cool so Ill
call you in a couple weeks just to chat and see whats up.. -> leave. (This
establishes your sex potential from the start and doesnt land you in LJBF.
She can then feel free to reconsider her relationship w/ BF over the next few
weeks (oh Im so desirable I dont need to take his shit) and may be more
receptive upon call back added BONUS > if she totally freaks out, the keep
it casual is AMBIGUOUS, so you can pawn it off like you meant that going on a
date wasnt desirable because of her boyfriend, and you were willing to do a
friendship type thing like hang out at eachothers houses, which AFTER ALL if
she’s willing to be just friends should be no problem - "what? Am I so
attractive that you FEEL SO turned on RIGHT NOW? WITH ME, I can only think
that that would be the reason you’d be concerned about .. YOU WANTING TO COME
TO MY PLACE (hehehh)).
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 17 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com KINO: ’I just shaved’ trans to EV / Post 15
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (15) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
-kino: I just got a mach 3.. feel this.. [lead in to EV] do you like
scruffy/cleancut guys?
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 18 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Reason for flaking / Post 16
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (16) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
I overheard my younger sister talking to her friend the otherday (they’re both
20 and attractive):
"shit.. I thought he was nice but why’d he have to ask me out? I just didn’t
have the heart to say no.. Now I have to see him."
I asked her why she would have agreed to it.. my sister answered for her
"because if a guys not totally slimy or creepy, like if he comes off ok, its
hard to say no".
This is the reason for flaking.. Only SUPERHBs (or those who think they are)
and have bitchshields are accustomed to rejecting ACTUAL OFFERS.. they may put
up shields to guys trying to talk to them, but if you know ASF and can get
around that, they may have a hard time actually saying no to your offer.. its
just too ackward.
HOWEVER: In recognizing this, realize that you have two things going for
you.
1) The longer you have to talk to her (ie. if you get together) the more chance
you have to make her want you.
2) The law of congruency. She may start to like you over the next few days, as
a way to justify agreeing to your offer. (likewise, you can break down her
resistance by getting her to kiss you on the cheak or something, and then
congruency laws will make her like you more as the night wears on).
Don’t take it personally if you suspect that a girl has done this to you, just
realize that it won’t be a walk in the park. Treat it like if it works its a
BONUS, and if not its PRACTICE (still, do your best though). That will keep
you loose and increase your chance of f-close.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 19 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Perparing states for walk ups. / Post 17
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (17) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
The reason that I am not a fan of the unstoppable confidence type stuff is that
it requires you to think.
I can’t understand a system that is meant to downplay your fears, but yet acts
by making you dwell on them through mental exercises.
Join a boxing gym, and you’ll understand what I’m talking about.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 20 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com To fuck MLTR’s GF as threesome or not? / Post 18
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (18) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
You are actually in a worse dilemma than you likely realize. If you decide to
play it safe and turn down the threeway, you may comprimise your her view of
you as sexually exciting etc. If you take her up on it, she may not even be
trying to shit test you, but if she falls in love with you at any point she may
remember that GRAPHIC image of your eyes rolling in back of your head as you
stuff some chick other than her.
You can only use your own intuition to decide what she really wants.
I’d suggest going into some deep talk with her. A sort of playful chat, that
is really open and honest, and sort of goes back and forth from sex to other
really personal issues (assuming that these are not off-limits in your
arrangement). Then, when you’ve got her baring your soul, you stand the
strongest likelyhood of figuring out what she really wants.
The only surefire way to keep yourself out of the bad zone with her if you do
do it, is to pretend (both in appearance while fucking, and in words
afterwards) like you didn’t like it because the GF wasn’t good enough for you..
That way, you don’t comprimise your status, but also don’t make her jealous in
the future.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 21 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com How do you justify to a girl that she should pivot / Post 19
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (19) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Subject: How do you justify to a girl that she should pivot // view thread online
Post Date: August 19th, 2002 05:14:00 AM (EDT)
Group/Board: alt.seduction.fast.tactics-techniques
Article Author: "TylerDurden" (if mis-matched to this archive, contact webmaster@fastseduction.com)
Find recent posts by "TylerDurden" on mASF // contact "TylerDurden"
Email links in posts are protected using the Safemail system via FastSeduction.com
Make it seem like a fun game, that you two could do together and have as
something fun in common.
Or, if she rejected you but had indicated earlier that she would not, then you
could use the "you’re wasting my time angle"
MRSEX4UNYC talks about making girls pivots all through his archived posts.
You could lookup ’pivot’ with ctrl-f and find much material.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 22 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Favorite closes this week. / Post 20
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (20) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
1) Driving down this road. See this cute girl walking down the street. I
start thinking ’there’s gotta be a way to pickup these chicks’. I turn back
around and pull over to ask her for directions to this place around the corner.
"oooh cool thanks. I just moved here.. do you like it? Why? (reasons xyz)
Wow I LOVE (XYZ).. I haven’t met anyone around here my own age actually, its
great but its getting kinda boring.. Is there a way I can reach you, we can
XYZ.."
Great, now my only break from PUing is blown, I don’t even get a break when I’m
driving. You gotta admit, this is better than honking and gawking.
2) HB9 employee in mall that I’ve seen shoot down lots of guys.
ME: "Didn’t you used to work downstairs? Oh you work here now? So what you
like a big fan of XMALL or something (neg: to be a fan of this mall would be
ridiculous)" HER: "No, I just don’t know what else to do right now.. Well I
could work as a waitress but I’m not confident enough"
ME: "Yeah, my ex used to work at XBAR (known for SUPERHBs) and she made alot in
tips"
Her: "Yeah but I’m just not confident enough."
ME: (I feel myself stalling bad so I setup a gimmick for quick close):
"Actually I happen to know that you’re confident."
HER: "How?"
ME (knowing she wants me): "Well, I tried to talk to you once, and you totally
blew me off.. that’s how I remembered where you work you know.. and I’m not
used to getting blown off so you must be confident (semi-neg tho at my expense:
I didn’t remember her cause of her looks like she thought, but because she was
bitchy)
HER: "OMG! I must have been in a bad mood that day.. I’m so sorry.."
ME: "hmmm.. well I’m not convinced.. I think that you’re a big bully."
HER: "no.. I’m not.. really.."
ME: "hah.. I’m j/k.. anyway it really doesn’t matter because I think that the
most important thing in girls is confidence"
HER: "It’s not that I’m not confident as a person, I just meant for being able
to handle rushes and stuff like that"
ME: "I dunnnnoooo.. I’m still skeptical.. can you demonstrate any evidence?"
HER: "like what?!"
ME: "I dunno.. a confident girl wouldn’t be afraid to ask me for my number and
to call me to make up for being such a meany.."
HER: "ok what’s your number"
ME: "I don’t give out my number to meanies"
HER: "uhh ok.."
- 23 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Favorite closes this week. / Post 20
ME: "but I guess you can give me your number, since you’ve shown me a nicer
side of you today, and you proved to me that you are confident"
HER: "here" (gives number)
NOTE: this took place with heavy EC and good body language.. you can’t just
use this on any random chick. You have to detect that she is interested.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 24 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Perparing states for walk ups. / Post 21
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (21) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Exactly. So many people on here don’t get this. They think "given the
context, I’ll have to run the sailor moon dolphin pumpin head monkey pattern,
in order to......"
ALWAYS TRY TO AT LEAST # CLOSE IF YOU ARE NOT LIKELY TO SEE HER AGAIN, YOU
NEVER KNOW WHAT SHE’LL SAY.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 25 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com I want to show my SEXUALITY...how? / Post 22
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (22) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
My buddy who showed me ASF is Asian, and he thinks that Asian girls are ugly
(personally I think some of them are really hot). Alot of the white girls that
he picks up are LSE (low self esteem) chicks, who are just looking for any
strong figure to latch onto (they are hot, but I personally harbour a strong
distaste for LSE chicks since I always fear that if I got them pregnant (or
they got themselves pregnant somehow) I’d have to have a kid raised by her).
Like I said, the closer a guy is to a girl’s ideal guy for her image (not
necessarily Brad Pitt, just the guy that she thinks that she can realistically
get on her best day) the easier his job is.
You can be really attractive yourself, but you’re not even CLOSE to that look
because she has probably never even thought about Asian guys before (not
necessarily, but very possibly).
Speaking honestly here, I have 2 really close Asian friends now, and Asians are
just like white people to me. But before I met them, I used to think that it
was weird to talk to Asian people I didn’t know that well.. It funny, because
at my university, the Asians stick to themselves and GET THIS: they actually
sleep during the day and congregate at night so that they can avoid all the
other people (like a secret society, its hilarious). My friends aren’t like
that though.
The thing is, I also had some classmates growing up who were CBCs (Canadian
born Chinese) and it didn’t even OCCUR to me that they were any different than
me..
One of my friend’s friends is obsessed with appearing western (his dream car is
a Pontiac Sunfire and he is a millionaire’s kid). He dresses white and acts
white. He even ignores other asians because he doesn’t want to appear like
those ’secret-society’ asian types I just mentioned (which as much as I hate to
admit it, he is actually right that at my school if asians are seen in groups
white people assume that they don’t want to talk to us). I like this guy but I
don’t respect him as a man, because I don’t think that you should comprimise
who you are and I think that he is insecure. Still though, he does get white
girls. But honestly, can you tell me you’d wanna live in his headspace? I
hope not.
I really don’t know you, so my comments are maybe very unhelpful.. maybe you
already have this angle totally covered.. its just that I get this image from
your posts of this like stereo typical overly happy chinaman that probably
everyone likes, but that chicks aren’t going to fuck. That’s why I think that
SS/MM isn’t what you should focus on.
- 26 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com I want to show my SEXUALITY...how? / Post 22
I guess that I can diagnose the problem, but really I’m not sure I can pinpoint
your solution. If you seriously do as many approaches as you say you do
though, you will. Its inevitable.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 27 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Change in Attitude / Post 23
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (23) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
What you’re saying is 100% true, but its also complete nonsense.
Yes, people do think these things, as do many of the girls that we approach.
You are right.
However:
1)these thoughts are NON-PRODUCTIVE, and will yield you nothing that you want
2)you can break down that resistance with persistance, and submissive body
language (tilt head, smile slightly, mirroring, tonality, playful
conversation).
3)if you do not ignore these thoughts, you will not have sex so you must ignore
them.
Why waste your time thinking these thoughts, when you could be using it to
think of productive thoughts.
Better yet DON’T THINK! Use the time to walk your ass over.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 28 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Re: Good or SHIT line? / Post 24
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (24) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
You know, really, if she took it all like it was in good fun then I’m sure
you’ll be fine.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 29 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com To fuck MLTR’s GF as threesome or not? / Post 25
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (25) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
To bad you can’t just explain your dilemma. Unfortunately, saying "well I
wanna look alpha to turn you on, but I don’t want to make you jealous" etc.
will likely lower your status in her eyes.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 30 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com College Girls / Post 26
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (26) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
This is the same thing as asking "how do I open chicks in general" since there
is no difference.
IOW, RTFM.
In fact, the only difference is that is even easier since being on campus makes
you seem a bit safer to the girl.
You are simply like 99% of men who do not like to sarge outside of their
comfort zone. That’s why I won’t even bother telling people about ASF..
because their response is always "yeah I can use that to pickup this girl at my
bus stop/class/work/streetcorner". That’s why you are only good at sarging in
your class. Because you need that parachute.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 31 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com clubs vs street & Gun’s Style for more than ONS? / Post 27
clubs vs street & Gun’s Style for more than ONS? / Post 27
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (27) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Subject: clubs vs street & Gun’s Style for more than ONS? // view thread online
Post Date: August 19th, 2002 06:52:00 AM (EDT)
Group/Board: alt.seduction.fast.tactics-techniques
Article Author: "TylerDurden" (if mis-matched to this archive, contact webmaster@fastseduction.com)
Find recent posts by "TylerDurden" on mASF // contact "TylerDurden"
Email links in posts are protected using the Safemail system via FastSeduction.com
If you want to secure an LTR, the answer to your question is this (GUYS DON’T
LAUGH):
-use the Gunwitch style to get laid
-then use the chick book ’The Rules’ to make her want you. (use a chick book to
fulfill your chick type desires)
Seriously..
That aside this is not a good post because it shows me that your way of
thinking is wrongheaded.
>clubs are hard! is it ok to
>skip them or is that
>counterproductive?
It’s "ok" to do whatever works for you. If nothing is working for you at the
moment, then it wouldn’t hurt to try them on the weekends. I don’t like them
at all, since my voice hurts when I leave and all the competition makes me
leary - but that’s besides the point.
>also can gunwitch’s style be
>used effectively to get girls
>for MORE than ONS-FB type
>things? like a MLTR.
Gunwitches method is to not dwell on things and get laid (from what I
interpret, though I would like to see a post with it all laid out someday if
there are any subtleties I’ve missed). Once you’re laid, you have a greater
chance of securing whatever kind of relationship you want because of CONGRUENCY
(look up on old posts if necessary, I think this is discussed in CRAIG’s
archive)
>would Mystery Method and RJ
>and NYC be much better for
>this?
There is currently no ’method’ catered to this, so this question does not make
sense to me. Just use common sense.
RTFM: MM is all about FMAC, which has little to do with what you’re asking
about, though the value that you’d create would help. RJ is about pushing
girls through states (even ones which make them fear losing you) which will
help what you’re talking about. And NYC is about making girls get with the
program and showing them why you’re desirable which sort of helps you.
- 32 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com clubs vs street & Gun’s Style for more than ONS? / Post 27
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 33 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Hilarious SOI -> Takeaway / Post 28
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (28) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Everyone remember that post "I don’t know whether to laugh or cry at this" (I
think was the name)
I sent 3 emails (1 to my HB9 ex from high school, and 2 to other HB9s that I
know think I’m attractive/exciting but that have BFs and since I’m in their
social circle I’m not fuckin w/ that [ducks for cover].
Anyway, the TACTIC/TECHNIQUE here is that of the SOI -> takeaway, that is
discussed in the Advanced forum. I figure that the girls will be like "HOLY
SHIT!! TylerDurden is making a move.... WTF?!?!?! What would that be like..
shit I knew we had chemistry but I never thought he’d do this.." Then they’re
like "I guess I’d better look at this website".. then they check and realize
that I was TOTALLY JUST KIDDING and it was just a joke and that they should
have realized that.
I know it’ll get them thinking about me.. but will it lead to a f-close?
hmmmm... I have a feeling it’ll be a while before I find out since they all
have BFs right now. I’ll wait til circumstances isolate us together (which
they do occassionally with these girls) and then start applying kino and see
how far I get. (this is not procrastination, I have other chicks to go after,
and its just for theory/fun.. I know I’ll see them eventually).
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 34 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Whats the BEST way? / Post 29
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (29) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
LOL!
Warning: This is a sensitive topic for me, so my rants will probably be overly
melodramatic. I loathe neediness and have taken great measures to EXTRACT it
from myself.
>What you feel is all that matters,
If a girl killed herself out of neediness for me, although I would realize that
I am not at all responsible, I would regret it and probably be put off sex for
a while.
>Dont tell her you plan to though,just do
>it, she finds out and doesnt like it,
If some girl fucks you in short order, she has willfully left herself open to
whatever consequences occur and she knows it. She has essentially made a
non-verbal statement that she wanted to fuck you regardless of the outcome,
though she may hope that an LTR would result. So it should not be discussed
prior to fucking, as she has chosen to foregoe her right to ask you your
intentions, and you have no obligation to tell her (since it would be tacky in
the heat of the moment, especially if she had no expectations but its just rude
to make her admit it since it reminds her that she’s a "slut"). However, if
relationship expectations come up, they should be downplayed David Shade style
(answer she wants to hear followed up with some sarcastic twist). "Do you want
- 35 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Whats the BEST way? / Post 29
be exclusive" "Of course. But you know I work as a pimp by night and my girls
expect me to give it to them.. so really unless you can support me financially
we can’t be exclusive".. just AVOID direct questions in a playful manner. If
she draws the line by demanding a direct question, slap her ass (state drops),
kiss her passionately (state goes up), and say "look, I realize that you have a
lot of things on your mind (showing you read her situation) but you need to
just STOP, and think about how right our relationship feels right now, how it
feels (run into IC-lovevs.attract patterns to run a state) and thus it feels so
natural.. you know how it feels just natural to do XYZ.. like you feel just so
comfortable.. that’s how we are.. I don’t want to put labels on our
relationship because it makes it to formalized.. like going to work.. I’m so
into you, and you can see that by the way I look at you (put her hand on your
heart).. I just want what’s natural though.
STILL, in the case where someone is in an LTR, I will always accuse them of
being lowly for cheating, because they should not be in the LTR if they are not
interested in being committed. What I am saying is that if you agree to an LTR
to get laid you are low, because the only way you could get sex was to lie
about your intentions. Its just as easy to go find a girl who has no problem
with your intentions, so why fuckup some girl who did nothing wrong to you
except like you?
The exception is some guy who is stuck in a loveless marriage for the kids or
his business or something. Then fine. But why agree to an LTR? Because you
can’t stand being alone between lays and you need someone to use as a cushion?
I think that’s low.
>"oh well", thats all she thought when
>she hurt her last boyfriend, dont be
>such a nice guy.
hahah.. SO TRUE. But it doesn’t mean that you have to sink to some stupid
bitches level. I do realize that you’re statement is REALISTIC, however.
From what I gather, this guy is in an LTR, and wants to PU some other chicks
because he’s revved after finding ASF. I don’t blame him. But it’s still
lame-ass, because if his LTR isn’t good enough not to make him not want other
chicks, then he either has to dump her or admit that he’s insecure.
I say this because I had an LTR a few years back, and I WAS insecure to leave
her for fear of going like 72 hours within sex and cuddling or something.. and
in hindsight, I was a fucking spineless BITCH with NO BALLS. I was NOT A REAL
MAN who could LOOK HIMSELF IN THE MIRROR because deep down I knew I was a bitch
who was staying with a chick I didn’t want sexually anymore (despite being
HB8.5 easily)and that I was scum.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 36 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Handling resentment and anger / Post 30
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (30) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
This post is a variation of a one-itis post, and conveys many attitudes that
are not promoted in ASF.
>I have been appraoching woman
>on a regular basis in all
>kinds of situations. However
Have you tried to close any of the girls you are approaching? Why not ask for
a way to reach every girl you "approach" and just see what happens (assuming
that you will not likely see them too much again, as you should be sarging
outside of your comfort area to avoid future discomfort)
This is that soccer thing or something isn’t it? You are still on about this?
NOT GOOD.
>I was too much of a
>perfectionist (I was waiting
>to learn more technique)
>before I decided too make a
>move,b ut by then it was too
>late and this other guy got
Good. You are aware of where you went wrong. Everytime you are about to
experience paralysis by analysis THINK back to your admission here.
>her. After a while as a fb
>with this guy, she flirted
>with me becasue I demonstrated
>more value. However, becasue
If I remember correctly, she flirted with you because she’s a little immature
manipulative brat. (the kind that’s hard for RAFCs to figure out, and thus a
highly potent one-itis magnet).
>Anyway, every now and then I
>get real angry and resentful
- 37 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Handling resentment and anger / Post 30
read Toecutter post #48 for explanations as to why what you are saying is
wrongheaded and contains non-productive attitudes that will hinder your
progress.
>her). I like this gal a lot
>because I have the intuition
>she has a very adventerous
>view of sexuality which for me
>is a big deal. Few women I
In the movie THE BEACH, Leonardo Dicaprio’s character says "under the haze of
infatuation, we just need any excuse to justify it.. while her hobby of
photographing stars would seem annoying to most people, under the haze of
infatuation, it’s what I been looking for all my life". Don’t post your
one-itis self-rationalizations on www.fastseduction.com.
That’s because you have one-itis. Your attitudes are holding you back.. Let
them go.
You’ve come to the right place, but you have not adopted the attitudes that
will bring you success.
Look, many of the guys on here can’t even get HBs to talk to them. You can.
You are in a good starting position.
If you write me back and tell me that you have GFTOW and you are still
experiencing this, then consider my remarks retracted and an apology extended.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 38 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Question on LTR / Post 31
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (31) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Now, on re-reading this, I realize that this is just another lame one-itis post
that doesn’t deserve replies.
Your name is TRYING2RAFC. What a letdown. You are not trying to RAFC. You
are doing what Gunwitch mentioned a month ago where all the people he
introduces to ASF just use it to get one girl and, and then revert back to
AFCs.
Why not change your name to TRYING2AFC without the ’R’ or TRYING2JERKOFF.
The best way to get an LTR that does not stagnate like 99% of LTRs is to keep
her guessing. She’ll be so obsessed with you that she won’t cheat and
labelling your LTR won’t be necessary for quite a while.
BUT NO, I was WRONG. You were asking how to ask some girl you haven’t even
gotten with yet to get into an LTR with you. This is ridiculous. You need to
seduce this girl and then get into the LTR. You are giving her the power. Use
the law of CONGRUENCY (Craig’s old posts, look up that word in any of the
archives) to make her want you.. This law has already been explained and I’m
not explaining it again.
You are proposing to do this in the wrong order. Come back when you have RTFM.
You have come to the right place, which is 50% of the battle (if anyone doesn’t
believe me, consider how many of your friends that you’ve been able to
convince that they are not the macks that they think they are.. most will
never admit it and say that you are a loser for reading this stuff). You now
have to admit that you have a problem that you want to rectify and take action
- 39 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Question on LTR / Post 31
to do so.
Then you will have success, and come back on this board and offer something
useful and we will have many exciting chats.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 40 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com please help with very odd/stressful situation / Post 32
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (32) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Subject: please help with very odd/stressful situation // view thread online
Post Date: August 19th, 2002 02:00:00 PM (EDT)
Group/Board: alt.seduction.fast.general
Article Author: "TylerDurden" (if mis-matched to this archive, contact webmaster@fastseduction.com)
Find recent posts by "TylerDurden" on mASF // contact "TylerDurden"
Email links in posts are protected using the Safemail system via FastSeduction.com
This is yet another one-itis post that clearly exhibits your failure to grasp
the material from this board, and a failure to adopt the attitudes from this
board, that are necessary for success.
I will point out where your thinking is wrongheaded, then go RTFM (which I bet
you don’t even know stands for "read the fucking manual).
No, the biggest problem is that you have one-itis, and have no interest in
getting rid of it. Instead, you only have an interest in fulfilling it, which
ironically will only lead you to not fulfill it.
Here’s what you can do. Stop posting these one-itis posts, and go read ASF
FAQ, read www.pickupguide.com and www.pickupguide.com/newstuff, read
playerguide, read Toecutter archives and skim MRSEX4UNYC, Mystery, David Shade
etc.
- 41 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com please help with very odd/stressful situation / Post 32
These are one-itis symptoms. -> overanalysis of everything which leads you to
dwell which worsens one-itis.
> I am sure she is
>spinning webs.
If this is true then she is a bad person and you should NEXT her (which you
should anyway).
>Even worse she recently
>claimed last night to have had
>cramp the in exactly the same
>place in the body (left calf)
>as me at exactly the same
>time. What??? I’d already
>told her first though - so I
>think she’s fibbing on this,
>either that or its just plain
>WIERD (i think the former)!
She is bad...EVIL (not really, but as far as you should be concerned she is)
>I’ve been fighting this
>feeling for ages (i’d like a
>woman - but not with so much
>baggage!), however when I
You’d like whatever you can get because you are AFC. This girl is in your
comfort zone and you are too afraid to sarge outside of your comfort zone for
fear that your lame view of yourself as a desirable guy will be brought down
around your ankles. Give up and idea, and learn to face the truth, or admit
that you are not a real man.
>first moved in she instantly
>pushed all my buttons without
>me knowing why - I believe
>she’s playing the game though
>- deliberately not forming a
>’friendship’ to keep the
>tension.
Fuck that. Your friend actually respects you enough to think that he can vent
off a little steam to you and that you’re not such a desperate needy case that
you are going to interpret it as a justification for you to go after his LIVE
IN girlfriend.
>They do row alot and dont look
>too functional as a couple.
- 42 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com please help with very odd/stressful situation / Post 32
Only YOU can headfuck yourself. She does not have access to your feelings.
Only you do. Go read up on buddhism if you don’t believe me. Only you have
control over your inner states, and you are mentally weak to let others control
you (no, I am not a buddhist.)
>but when we are makes me feel
>like an arsehole to my so
>called ’friend’, plus I get
Trust your intuition. You should feel guilty. Not because you wanna get laid,
or because you wanna lay someone elses girlfriend. Rather, its because the
only reason that you want her is because she’s so accessible and you can’t PU
other chicks (yet).
>- Smile, blatant natural
>looking smile with loads of
>teeth
People smile.
>- Laughing - I can make her
>laugh most of the time
People laugh.
>- Subconcious ’mirroring’ of
>coughs
People have deep rapport with eachother. My MALE friends mirror me all the
time.
>- Scoping me out blatantly
She’s attracted to you, or messing with you. That doesn’t mean that you should
want her. Take it as a confidence booster and use that confidence to pickup
other chicks.
>- Use of NLP, she’s dropped a
>few ambigious statements at me
- 43 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com please help with very odd/stressful situation / Post 32
She likes to mess with you. THINK ABOUT IT. If she was a good person would she
fuck with you like this knowing full well that its messing with you (BELIEVE
ME, SHE KNOWS IT IS ALL GIRLS HAVE RADARS FOR THIS SHIT).
>and how? And what about my so
>should I politely tell her I
>find her attractive - but for
This is just dumb. RTFM. You don’t get girls that way. Why not just go to
alt.romance for people who share your AFC mentality. Comon, I’ve you’re really
sooooo in love then RTFM is hardly alot to do for a girl that just so FAB. Men
have slayed dragons for their lame one-itis problems, all you have to do is
RTFM.. is that really so much to ask?
>btw im 6’3’’ - good looking
>with firm bod but RAFC
You are not RAFC. You are AFC. Worse, you’re better looking than me and yet I
am ten times better off than you. You don’t have an excuse to hide behind.
>out of context - he said ’if i
>fall by the wayside you’ll be
>right in there right’ - was
>this a clue?
LISTEN, you want this girl because she is confusing you -> the most POTENT
one-itis magnet. The more you dwell the more it releases chemicals in your
brain the more LAME AFC you become.
Here is how you get her (though you don’t deserve this). Go to
www.pickupguide.com. Read MRSEX4UNYC’s stuff on how to make girls that don’t
want you become your "pivots" (or look it up in his archive.) As MRSEX says,
after she sees you macking all these chicks, she will want you.
Can’t PU lots of chicks? Well I guess that you just should have thought of
that when you were feeling lazy, since now its your downfall.
Good luck buddy, I FEEL FOR YOU, that’s why I’m being so harsh to kick you in
the ass.
Please don’t post anything more like this, there are NO easy solutions (except
dumb luck, hence the AFC term ’getting lucky’ to represent sex).
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 44 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com WHAT THE HELL IS THIS!!! / Post 33
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (33) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
84 people have read this in the 6 hours that it has been posted. Check back in
a few days and it will probably be in the several hundred.
Thank you for trying to help iron out the problems in the board, but take it up
with Formhandle what can I do?
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 45 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Zynner Challenge: Weeks 4-6 / Post 34
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (34) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
The problem is, unlike most of the people on the board who READ READ READ and
do shit, you’re doing the opposite and its hurting you.
Look, I don’t think that you even need to keep approaching without the
intention of closing as a mental comfort barrier, because you’re comfortable
with it now. You’re a cool guy, so don’t worry.
Read the nMP www.pickupguide.com/newstuff and get a few ideas from it. Read
the toecutter archive post #122 and surrounding posts on good routines, and
good questions for questions type game.
Attempt to #close all girls you chat if they are not in closed environments (ie
if you will likely not see them again). As Gunwitch says, she’ll know either
way (if she doesn’t then you are wasting your time, assuming that you are not
using a sneak in the back door approach which some people do) so why not ask if
there is a way to reach her?
Think about it, there may have been girls who thought that you were cool and
were just too shy to exhibit any IOIs.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 46 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com 6 chicks, 8 days / Post 35
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (35) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Have you ever had success touching a girl’s knee who you just met when there’s
no alcohol involved. I guess some guys on here can, but I don’t think that its
necessary and you can get the same effect with brushing her hair behind her ear
or ANYTHING not that blatant. Its not like the convo had gone to hinting at a
fuck yet.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 47 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com 6 chicks, 8 days / Post 36
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (36) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Have you ever had success touching a girl’s knee who you just met when there’s
no alcohol involved. I guess some guys on here can, but I don’t think that its
necessary and you can get the same effect with brushing her hair behind her ear
or ANYTHING not that blatant. Its not like the convo had gone to hinting at a
fuck yet.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 48 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Re: Feeling GUILT / Post 37
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (37) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Of course you can get over guilt. You can also become a sociopath and do
many other things. BUT
Option 1:
-managing a girl’s expectations
-being a man, which means that your word is important to you and you don’t
comprimise it to make some girl feel better (which is supplication, though she
isn’t aware of it)
-having the confidence that you are alpha enough that girls will fuck you
without false promises of relationships
Option 2:
-doing whatever is necessary to get laid
-being a bitch, who stoops to whatever he has to do to get laid
-doing this because you know that you will not get laid as much otherwise
- 49 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Re: Feeling GUILT / Post 37
I wouldn’t like to think that this board is about being ’Option 2’. There are
many PUAs who have no difficulty managing chicks expectations, and MRSEX will
attest to that if you check the post I listed. This board is about taking
control of your life and making positive changes. If you wanna do what’s
necessary to get laid, you could also just get some ruffies. (I realize this
is a logical fallacy to compare the two, I’m just trying to illustrate).
RJs stuff does NOT hynotyze girls to do what they don’t want he just says that
as a marketing point. ASF tactics will not make a girl do what she doesn’t
want to do. You can use them all you want and not feel that you have done
anything wrong.
Lying to girls to get them in bed with you (not lies during pickup which are
expected and PART of PU and all people with comon sense know that) is not cool
because you comprimise your own integrity.
It’s like sleeping with UGs just to get off. It feels good at the time, but
you lose a little piece of yourself every time that you do it.
I’m a real man and if you met me you’d see it in my eyes (and if you ever wanna
go wing I’d be happy to meet you as your posts are normally good). Girls see
it too. Its important not to do anything that makes you feel guilt, because
you’ll comprimise that for short term benefits.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 50 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Handling resentment and anger / Post 38
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (38) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
sorry, I meant you have TO fuck ten other women. Go to ASF Archives and
download his gzip file.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 51 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com please help with very odd/stressful situation / Post 39
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (39) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Subject: please help with very odd/stressful situation // view thread online
Post Date: August 19th, 2002 04:51:00 PM (EDT)
Group/Board: alt.seduction.fast.general
Article Author: "TylerDurden" (if mis-matched to this archive, contact webmaster@fastseduction.com)
Find recent posts by "TylerDurden" on mASF // contact "TylerDurden"
Email links in posts are protected using the Safemail system via FastSeduction.com
You’ve been helped. I don’t put enough stock in cyber interactions to have the
emotions necessary to insult sombody. I was harsh because I have felt the bite
of one-itis, and helping you to strategize on how to get this girl will only
add to it and thus your all round problems.
>Can you imagine looking in the
>mirror at a body to die for
>and having to spend hours on
>the internet and practice
>sarging/flirting every day
>just to get a sniff - its the
>stuff breakdowns are made of -
Wear shirts that show off you V-taper. So girls can see that you have wide
shoulders and a slimmer waist. When I do that, I walk through the mall and
make EC with all the girls.. They start giggling and blushing and some try to
pick me up. (and I’m not that great looking)
>So geeza, thankyou - but I
>would like to say that I do
>still hold out hope for some
>romantic ideal (hence liking
>someone who just seems right),
So am I. I learned this stuff because I want to get married young and have a
HUGE family, because I come from a dysfunctional family and feel that I have
missed out. That said -> I want to have a LOT of fun in the mean time. And
MOST IMPORTANTLY, if you don’t learn this stuff, then you will marry out of
necessity and not out of choice. Do you know how much I have learned about
what I want from women since ASF? I HAD NO IDEA of what kind of woman I wanted
before. Plus, if you don’t learn to be a real man, your wife will turn you
into a slug like my mother did to my father. It’s kinda hard to pass shit
tests when you know you can’t get anybody else :)
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 52 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com where to find The Cube? / Post 40
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (40) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
You should have read the contents of this site prior to posting on ASF.
Good luck.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 53 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Question on LTR / Post 41
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (41) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
That is AWESOME. The reason that I say that, is that your post has shown a
poor understanding of ASF material. That means that you are probably a
natural, and once you DO understand ASF material, you will probably be one of
the direly needed PUAs who can help on this board.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 54 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com One-Itis / Post 42
One-Itis / Post 42
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (42) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
No, its not to prove that all women are the same.. read the ASF FAQ. Its to
learn how to handle women in general, so that you improve you reaction times
and ability to handle different situations. It is also to prevent the one-itis
chemicals from bugging you.
She is a fucking head case. You don’t need that. The most aggrevating chicks
are the ones who are SO CLOSE to being perfect but are SHIT. Like this girl.
She is SHIT to you, because she has an intimacy problem. LJBF her and move on.
Chicks are either desirable or not. There is no in between. No matter how
good she ALMOST is, if she has an intimacy head-case problem then she is NOT
desirable, regardless of her other redeeming qualities.
YES, it is EXTREMELY difficult to find someone who you connect with. Now, what
are you going to do about it. Sit here and whine to us, or get out and read
the stuff that you should have read PRIOR to posting here.
>Right now, it seems to me thatem
>as much as Tara, and I wish I
- 55 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com One-Itis / Post 42
I like how you said her name.. wanna know what that shit is?! Its like in the
LOVE VS ATTRACTION pattern where RJ gets you to talk to the girl about falling
in love, and how you just say the persons name and then you are hooked.. you
are doing this process to YOURSELF.. having to say her name on a seduction
board?! Comon man pull it together.
>could just get back with Tara
>and get rid of her fear of
>relationships.
You just wish that you could stay in your AFC comfort zone and have everything
that you want and have everything perfect etc.
This will not happen.. Wanna know the best way to make her come back.. do the
program, and she’ll want you back.. even make her be your PIVOT once you are
good.
You do not appear to have any intention of learning ASF judging by this post so
please do not post here until you are willing to talk about something
PRODUCTIVE.. then I will gladly chat you about anything, since I feel for you
and know what its like to have one-itis.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 56 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Alphaness? Asians,,What is your style? FMAC? Good? / Post 43
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (43) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Subject: Alphaness? Asians,,What is your style? FMAC? Good? // view thread online
Post Date: August 19th, 2002 06:36:00 PM (EDT)
Group/Board: alt.seduction.fast.general
Article Author: "TylerDurden" (if mis-matched to this archive, contact webmaster@fastseduction.com)
Find recent posts by "TylerDurden" on mASF // contact "TylerDurden"
Email links in posts are protected using the Safemail system via FastSeduction.com
I just meant that FMAC will not work for you the SAME as it would for a
non-asian guy picking up white girls, because you are working from a deficit.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 57 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com College Girls / Post 44
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (44) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Everything that you said is TRUE. I agree completely with your analyses.
You can hookup with married, engaged, even uptight cultured (like my boy who
nailed some arabic chick that HAD to stay a virgin on sentence of DEATH or some
shit, and had to get re-sowed up when she went back to her home from her
exchange).. so don’t BELIEVE that girls won’t fuck you if you learn to totally
overwhelm them with your presence.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 58 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com No more RIDICULOUS self-rationalizations / Post 45
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (45) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
GUYS:
Girls enjoy sex probably MORE than us. I don’t want to see anymore posts with
shit like "she had to go home", "she was in a relationship", "she was not in
the right mental place at the moment" etc. etc. etc.
THINK! When guys are having sex, do they yelling shit like
"OH MY GOD! YES! YEEEESSSS OH MYYYYYYY FUCKING
GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOODDDDDDD!!!! YOU ARE MY FUCKING MASTER!!!!! FUCKKKKK
MEEEEE..... OOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHH UUUUH UUUUHH UHHHHHHH
AAAAOOOOHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHOOOOOOOOOOOO...
HAAAAAAARDERRRRuuuhuuuhhuhhhhhhhhhh"
Huh?! Have YOU ever done shit like that? NO! Only chicks do that.
Do our eyes roll into the back of our heads.. do our bodies VIOLENTLY
CONTORT?!?!
NO.
So I don’t want to see ANY more posts with rationalizations for why chicks
don’t want to be picked up or fucked or anything.
If you want to write about that, then tell us WHY you think she put up
resistance (as in, in a productive way that you could have CHANGED or did not
consider at the time).
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 59 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Good use of PAWNS / Post 46
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (46) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
This is some work from 2 months ago. I like to post work that I think is a
little different.
I meet this girl in my lecture class. We hit it off, but I’m seeing this other
chick HB9tall in the class so there’s not much I interested in doing at the
time (though I could have, I did not want the stress).
Anyway, one day HB9tall doesn’t up, so I go sit beside the girl I met. I ask
her why she never says ’hi’ to me, and tell her that if she doesn’t start
saying hi to me I won’t bother talking to her anymore, because I’m really into
her but am not gonna make myself feel like a loser talking to someone who can’t
even say hi (I do this PLAYFULLY, something that I have the LUXURY of saying,
when I’m clearly with HB9tall who probably makes this girl insecure, though she
is equally hot).
Anyway, I sit beside her, and start initiating kino. She starts getting
nervous (because I had failed to sufficiently break down resistance, and she
probably no other guys have had the balls to do this sort of cold pickup on her
not at a bar -the way it works at my university is that I’ve noticed that girls
get REALLY excited when I start talking to them.. like all their getting
dressed up fine to go to class is finally paying off) On break we talk for a
mins but then she starts talking to her friend on her left.
Guess what I do? I say "you know hun, I’m gonna go down to the front row to
see better".
Then I go down to the front row and use the following strategy:
There is some SUPERHOT dark girl that I know is into me from my EC on every hot
chick habit, but I am not interested because she is dark (though an awesome
person it turned out). So I sit beside her, and start making up all these
FRIENDLY reasons to start BLATANTLY kinoing her, all the while telling her
about how I love my LTR (fake) and how I’d never cheat on her.. it’s like "oooh
I love that sweater on you lemme feel the material" or all like all tickling
and playing.
- 60 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Good use of PAWNS / Post 46
The strategy:
I used the dark girl as a pawn, because to the girl a few rows up in the
lecture hall, it appeared as though I picked up this HB within seconds.. really
I never could have gotten away with THAT MUCH kino (it was HEAVY) if I had not
made my friendly/nonsexual intentions clear to her prior. (not that you can’t
get away with kino, but this was excessive).
So the chick I really want sees all this and I can see her in the back of my
eye looking down all shocked.
So as I’m walking out of the class, arm and arm (playful) with this chick, the
chick I want says "hi tylerdurden" which is FUNNY because I’m really leaving
and she’s just being totally supplicative to what I wanted right down to THE
WORD even though it makes no sense given the context (since really she should
be saying ’bye’). I just mumble ’hi’ and give her a quick 3 sec. dose of EC.
and then continue on out the door with this new girl.. as soon as I get around
the corner I just dart since this girl is like going off to see her BF or some
shit like that..
Anyway, I unfortunately dropped that class and haven’t seen the girl since,
because she is gone for summer, but I bet when she gets back she will be IN
LINE. And if not -NEXT- I don’t give a shit because I had my fun.
Oh, and as a side note, it turns out that my buddy is friends with the dark
chick from the other class she takes, and she was asking about me to him
non-stop.. so just goes to show.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 61 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com asking for a chicks screenname? / Post 47
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (47) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
It’s a perfectly good idea, if you are still having trouble with over the phone
flaking. Or, perhaps if you are skeptical as to her enthusiasm, it could
provide you an opportunity to build more value.
Otherwise it is superfluous.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 62 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Suggesting a FB relationship to a older HB / Post 48
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (48) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Just fuck her, and don’t state that your intentions are a romantic
relationship. If she fucks you that early then FB is implied, as she has NO
reason to believe that you are intending a relationship unless YOU have hinted
at it.
Unless you’re suggesting that you breach the topic prior to having fucked her.
Not a good idea. Girls reaction to sex should be "oh? I dunno how, but it
just happened." I personally could not convince a girl that I have not been
physical with to get into an FB relationship with me. If you can, then props
to you.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 63 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com No more RIDICULOUS self-rationalizations / Post 49
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (49) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
I am doing the things that I read in the manuals, and that worked for me
pre-ASF.
My comment was not aimed at people who couldn’t get laid. It was an attempt to
help clear this board of posts that are saturated with self-rationalizations
that are NON-PRODUCTIVE.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 64 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com No more RIDICULOUS self-rationalizations / Post 50
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (50) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
I decided that I want to play football for my university this year. I started
on CREATINE 2 days ago, and I didn’t drink quite enough water, so I’m feeling
shitty and staying in the house all day today to rest (plus the loading of
creatine is making my stomach free like shit.) I’ve been sitting around
listening to CDs and surfing the net all day, since I normally go out. I’ve
made many posts my first day, because unlike so many people here, I actually
READ the required readings PRIOR to posting. This stuff is not rocket science.
>I’m naturally a skeptic, so
If you are a skeptic to anything that I have posted today, then you have not
read the manuals. I say this confidently, because there is no NEW content in
my posts. My posts are merely regurgitations of past well known ASFers who
have no fled this dwindling board to the Mystery Lounge. I could be a virgin
and the stuff I have written today would still be valid, since it is not
ORIGINAL, but rather just the stuff from the manuals that everyone is SUPPOSED
to read before posting on this board.
>i’m curious as to how long
>you’ve been practicing the
>techniques here on asf, what
I had two very hot long term AFC girlfriends growing up, as well as some girls
I was dating, because I was popular in my social circle and because I was into
a lot of very bad shit that turned certain types of girls on. However, once I
came to university I noticed that girls gave me no attention. So I decided
that rather than piggybacking off my reputation, I’d learn how to pick up on my
own. I started of by reading these two psychology books about
love/mating/bodylanguage. Then I approached 5 girls per day for a whole school
semester (these girls were all very hot, as there are hordes of HBs at my
university). Then I realized that although I could get their attention, I was
missing the ability to keep a LONG convo. going with someone I just met. I
used RJ and other routines to fill in the gaps. The ASF stuff helps alot,
because it has allowed me to make a conversation into an artform almost.. my
ideal convos are playful teases, where I come off cocky/funny, but then just
when she expects me to go over the top, I break out the RJ and start making her
think I have a sweet inside that she can peel back and discover.
>would you say your SP is, and
- 65 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com No more RIDICULOUS self-rationalizations / Post 50
While I’ve been lifting weights, I’ve been eating EXTREME amounts of food to
bulk up (I used to be skinny, I train like a hardgainer). I get hungry every 2
hours, and sometimes if I’m talking to some HB, and it starts towards the start
of the 2 hours, I’ll start to get so hungry I can’t think straight (and I start
feeling very faint).. this is because my metabolism is in hyperoverdrive from
eating so frequently and so much. Then I just eject, though I should close but
all I can think about is food, and I’m all turned off.
>"I be catchin’ bitches while
>bitches be catchin’ feelings"
>-xzibit
Xzibit is the shit.. his new album Man vs. Machine is gonna be awesome.. I just
heard the track ’Lose Your Mind’ w/ Dre and Snoop.. it’s tight.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 66 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Now I’m really recovering / Post 51
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (51) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Girls don’t even care when you go talk to them.. If you’re nervous, go up and
start a convo about how when you meet an attractive girl, you get nervous (and
since you’re not that nervous its a good neg).
What they don’t like is guys with dry throats and sweaty palms walking up to
them.. its creepy.
Do that Zynner thing where you just try to talk to girls for a week.
In my experience, the girls who you first chat will be the ones you use as
pivots once you actually learn how to PU.. This is because they’ll end up
thinking that you’re cool, but not enough to sleep with you. If you talk to a
whole bunch of girls, then when you’re finally out with a girl you do have a
shot with, girls will start coming up to you left and right (this happens to me
now).
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 67 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com To be working on set of porn movie.. tips? / Post 52
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (52) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
I have never met a porn star in real life, but I think that Mystery’s STRIPPER
RULES would apply to pornstars, since most of them started as strippers. Check
the archives for that.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 68 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Re: Feeling GUILT / Post 53
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (53) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Buddy, I’m sorry if you are put off by the possibility that you didn’t have to
comprimise yourself to get the same results (or better) that you’ve gotten.
This isn’t a flame board, so I’m not likely to answer any more of these posts,
unless there is something productive being said.
I’ve learned to live without guilt by not doing anything to feel guilty for.
Calling what I was saying "bullshit" seemed pretty inappropriate for a board
that is trying to be productive, as there was nothing that I said in there that
was contra-ASF.
I don’t supplicate girls. That means I don’t comprimise myself for them.
If a girl is not good enough to make me want to fuck noone but her, I don’t
agree to an LTR with her. Simple as that. If this guy is all revved about
ASF, but he thinks that he loves his girlfriend, he should go out and flirt
with a bunch of girls but not take it farther than that. The only point that I
can think of being in an LTR that you don’t intend to honour, is the fear that
you can’t get a consistent supply of sex without it. Can you think of another
reason? You can’t say that you like the companionship, because you could have
gotten that without committing to an LTR.
A real man does not need to lie to girls to get a constant supply of sex, and a
real man knows that keeping his word to people who respect him is important.
If a girl gets into an LTR with you, you shouldn’t be agreeing to it unless she
respects you. So there is no reason to lie to her.
- 69 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Re: Feeling GUILT / Post 53
If you have anything to say to this, READ "who is formhandle?" (ie, the creator
of this board) on the home directory. Formhandle is someone who is dedicated
to improving himself. He does that by many means, such as artistically, web
design/business, and learning to better himself via ASF methods.. I doubt that
someone commited to improving himself would condone the sort of ethics that you
are speaking of.
I respect myself, and nobody (in real life) ever fucks with me. They know.
People get out of my way and respect me. If I need a huge loan for some new
business plan I’m running, ITS DONE NO CONTRACTS NOTHING. People know I’m for
real by the look in my eyes. How do you think that translates in PU? Think
about it? I am not getting off bragging about this on the net. I am trying to
show people the benefits that I have gotten through self-respect. I hope that
this is productive for people on here.
Psychologists have shown time and time again that carrying secrets causes
stress on "normal" emotionally healthy people. This can be seen in people’s
eyes.. You can see it in their stress level. You are suggesting a very
demeaning lifestyle to the people on here, and it concerns me, because you
actually do know what you’re talking about when it comes to ASF, so people may
take you seriously.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 70 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com HBs who won’t * in public / Post 54
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (54) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
whoa.. You actually eject chicks for not kissing you within minutes/hours of
meeting you? I realize that *close is an ideal (lowers flakiness, etc.), but
I’ve never used it as a rule. Think of all the girls that are thinking that
you’re like their soulmate or some shit like that. They might have been burned
by a player before, and don’t want to appear easy because they think you’ll
NEXT them post-sex. So they hold out, but really would do it within 1-3
meetings (which, to be honest, is fine by me as long as the intention is there,
and they excite me [ducks for cover])
My HB9 LTR from high school that I still talk to has still never kissed a guy
that quick (I talked to her about it last week, and she looked at me like I was
out to lunch).. but its possible she’s never met a guy who could manage it.
I think its also important to remember that club *closes are far more likely
than anywhere else. Not that you can’t elsewhere, but the
alcohol/daytonasetting increase your chances dramatically.
I would never NEXT a girl who won’t *close though gives IOIs, unless you have
many other options (which I bet you do) and the chick is no more enticing than
others.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 71 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com HBs who won’t * in public / Post 55
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (55) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Mys. is the man, and I think what you’re saying makes sense, but I have to say
that I’ve never been a fan of the whole asking for permission thing (though
saying ’you’ want to kiss me is not asking for permission, but it still amounts
to an only slightly preferable variation on asking).
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 72 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Alphaness? Asians,,What is your style? FMAC? Good? / Post 56
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (56) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Subject: Alphaness? Asians,,What is your style? FMAC? Good? // view thread online
Post Date: August 20th, 2002 05:29:00 PM (EDT)
Group/Board: alt.seduction.fast.general
Article Author: "TylerDurden" (if mis-matched to this archive, contact webmaster@fastseduction.com)
Find recent posts by "TylerDurden" on mASF // contact "TylerDurden"
Email links in posts are protected using the Safemail system via FastSeduction.com
Just trying to clean up the board.. you have to agree its gotten kind of messy
in the last 2 months :) I feel that responding to people’s questions who have
not read the manual is harmful to them, because the work that was done on this
board between 1999-2001 was more productive than what’s being done now. For
guys to just read the faq, and continue to stare into their computer screens
asking questions (that are only further self-rationalizations of their AFCness)
is harmful to them. I am hoping to see productive questions being asked. An
example of productive work would be like Styles SP.
This is AWESOME advice methinks.. I knew there was some look that I was
thinking of, but I couldn’t put my finger on it when I was writing it.. kinda
like that Triad look.. (although I dunno about the Run-D-MC chain, maybe a
silver gino chain is as far as he can get away with.)
>As for tecnique and attitude, forget
>what Tyler said about "if you come on
>strong wih KINO the chiks gonna be like
>"whys this asian guy touching me". NOPE,
This was exactly what I meant. He said though, that he was just gonna run
around touching girls (or at least that’s what I interpreted, though probably
he wasn’t, we all know Manifestis has the balls to actually do it). What I
meant, was you can’t just walk up and do it. You come of
alpha/authoritative/butstillfun first, and then you do it. The look that you
suggested will help that, I think. The point of my post was that he had to
- 73 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Alphaness? Asians,,What is your style? FMAC? Good? / Post 56
"compensate for his alpha deficit" PRIOR to running FMAC.. not to drop it..
Mys’ stuff is kinda like coming off super happy (like "hey check out these
photos.. these are awesome.. wanna see something awesome.. look at this bottle
levitate) which is GREAT for some guys, but for a 5’4 Chinese guy I felt that
it would promote the happy chinese guy stereotype that I see where I live. I
would be interested to hear Mys’ take on whether or not he thinks that method
would work for Manifestis, or if he’d modify it.. I’d definetely respect his
opinion if he disagreed with me.
>Think Bolo Young from that bloodsport
>movie, or Jet Li in persona, the reason
>Chow Yun Fat is a mediocre sex symbol
>(even to white women)isnt because hes so
>funny or happy, its cause hes fucking
>harsh man. I imagine when white women do
Good point, I hadn’t even -thought- of Choa Yun Fat as a potential sex symbol,
but technically he should be. The fact that he isn’t is something that we can
be learn from.
>you can swing it money wise) OR AT LEAST
>show the upper body if you look good
>with a thin tanktop. Also try good
Yeah, show those wide shoulders. Do lateral raises in the gym. If you’ve got
it, definetely use it. It makes a HUGE difference, not in picking the girl up,
but in sparking interest and giving you a buffer zone for fuckups.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 74 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Wicked BF destroyer + close / Post 57
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (57) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
I see this girl from school (HB8.5, slim HUGE breasts super cute face, but only
5’1 which demotes her status from 9) that I know. She has a BF but he is
obviously the provider type not seducer type. I see her and ask her what’s up.
She says her BF ditched her to go out with his friends tonight (to a movie) and
that she’s disappointed.
ME: look, why don’t we go check out a movie too. Then if we see them, he’ll
see that you have this cool guy to take you out even without him.. even though
we’re just friends it’ll at least get him in line.
HER: umm.. I dunno.. I have other stuff I was planning on getting done tonight.
ME: ok, I know that you have alot of stuff to get done, and you’re really
busy.. and you’re probably thinking of all the stuff that you can get done..
but really, if you can just STOP.... and think about how cool it’d be for us to
check out a wicked summer flick and maybe even set your BF straight you know
it’d be -awesome-.. we always chat but we never actually hang out.. we should
do something tonight .. plus you were obviously looking forward to doing
something really exciting tonight, or you wouldn’t be disappointed that you’re
not going.. ok? comon..
HER: well I dunno lemme think about it.
ME: look, I have other stuff I can do tonight, I have some things to get done
right now, I’m going to come back in half an hour to come see what’s up..
[leave]
-come back-
- 75 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Wicked BF destroyer + close / Post 57
ME: HEY HB8.5 I’m just sorting through some shit.. come down here...!
-comes down-
ME: check out this wicked movie (this cool anime shit w/ crazy gfx)
HER: cool.
-sit down beside her.. start breathing on her neck and talking a bit too close,
starting to initiate delicate kino (so as not to scare her since she’s on my
bed and I don’t want to snap the line)-
ME: geez.. you’re so tense.. chill out you’re infecting me with stress.. here..
-commence massage, which I’m not even a pro at but I didn’t know how else to
handle this-
-start massaging her, then I’m like "take your shirt off so I can do this
properly.. look I don’t hang around with kids, you’re an adult, chill out.
It’s not like .... YOU’RE SO ATTRACTED YOU DON’T HAVE THE STRENGTH TO STOP ME..
so she listens and I rub her back for a bit, then SHE TURNS OVER without even
me asking (which actually made me blush I have to admit) and I start massaging
her breasts..-
OH, and btw, the convo. on the way there was some very good BF destroying stuff
that I’m quite proud of.. I can’t remember the exact words, but it was to the
effect of talking about how women want a man who’s rational and in control, and
who they can depend on, but who can read their signs and body language to know
what they really want etc. Someone who makes them feel safe (you know how it
feels when you’re sleeping, YOU’RE RIGHT NEXT TO SOME GUY WHO MAKES YOU FEEL
SAFE, LIKE ME, like for me, I find that girls seem to just feel so comfortable
and natural sleeping on the inside of the bed next to the wall.. blah blah)
All this referring to how her boyfriend doesn’t make her feel that way, though
not directly.. basically a "what makes a real man" convo. which was aimed at
illustrating where her BF lacks and how ditching her for his friends reflects
that..
Oh yeah, I almost forgot the best part.. I actually started saying all this
shit about how girls can’t get me hard unless -I- decide to let her to.. that
was actually a big part of it.. so she starts giving me a handjob and blowing
me and I’m still not getting hard (concentration boys). Until she starts
rubbing her twat up against my dick, and doing this really kinky thing where
she nibbles my ear while putting her tongue in it, and the sounds it made
(since I couldn’t ignore them, because I was concentrating on ignoring the
feelings) cracked me, and she won the little contest (good for her). I think
that she was really impressed by my self control, but she would have likely
gone for it without it.
- 76 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Wicked BF destroyer + close / Post 57
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 77 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Re: HBs who won’t * in public / Post 58
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (58) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
I realize you meant that, but I’d suggest clearing your brain of this sort of
dialogue :)
Plus Style seems smart, and is capable of filtering advice, so I’m sure he
appreciates the time you took to type regardless.
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 78 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com modified FMAC / Post 59
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (59) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Yes, many people don’t realize this. However, if she approached you just
because she’s super outgoing or something, then no. (ie, if some chicks being
friendly, you can’t just stab it in her :) )
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 79 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Slap me, kick me, whatever, HELP! / Post 60
Database fetch via The Archive at FastSeduction.com (via Archive Builder v2.0) The Archive sponsored by
The Art of the Pickup ®
%> Query for author: match: [attribute] "TylerDurden" (60) ... "You can read ...
» view this article on FastSeduction.com « (to be able to select & copy text) or you can WATCH."
Subject: Slap me, kick me, whatever, HELP! // view thread online
Post Date: August 21st, 2002 02:00:00 PM (EDT)
Group/Board: alt.seduction.fast.general
Article Author: "TylerDurden" (if mis-matched to this archive, contact webmaster@fastseduction.com)
Find recent posts by "TylerDurden" on mASF // contact "TylerDurden"
Email links in posts are protected using the Safemail system via FastSeduction.com
Well, at least you admitted it (that it was an HB6). I won’t go for less than
HB7.5, because I don’t want other girls seeing it.
Unless you live in a rural area, I can’t see how this can’t be your fault.
>I got the exact situation I
>wanted, and now it’s like I
>don’t want it. Last night, we
If you’re satisfied with girls in her looks range, use her as a PIVOT (read:
MRSex4UNYC archives, ctrl-f search ’pivot’, or even just as BAIT to go bring
girls back to your table, but say ’He’s my bestfriend.. I wish I could hookup
with him, but he only goes for blah blah.." This will possibly make her
jealous, if you are successful. If you are not, it could make you look dumb,
BUT even if you are just good in peaking girls interests and you don’t try to
close them (not recommended but anyway) she will see you as far more desirable.
REMEMBER, whining about wanting exclusivity will do JUST THE OPPOSITE so DO NOT
do that.
>target doesn’t respond, it
>doesn’t really matter because
>I just got laid yesterday and
Ok, I’m going to tell you exactly what your problem is here, and how to help
you to come to a better self understanding of it.
- 80 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com Slap me, kick me, whatever, HELP! / Post 60
In "The Rules" it advocates telling men that you will not stop seeing other men
until you are engaged, to create a ’competition’ anxiety in the man’s mind,
thus making him want to commit MORE and eventually propose. This is what’s
happening to you, and the book only takes 1 and a half hours to read cover to
cover and it is recommended reading for all ASFers. She is probably not
directly using this on you, but it will help you to understand the principal
behind WHY you have these NEWFOUND strong desires for her.
P.S., good luck, but I HOPE the ’I’m still sarging’ part of your question is
not a ONE-ITIS post in disguise :)
This post/article is de facto Copyright © 2002 by "TylerDurden" with rights assigned to Learn The Skills Corp & FastSeduction.com. NO REPRODUCTION WITHOUT
PERMISSION. Explicit permission and full agreement to the copyright notice on FastSeduction.com is required for any reproduction.
- 81 -
TylerDurden via FastSeduction.com DISCLAIMER
DISCLAIMER
^ GO BACK TO THE FIRST PAGE ^
"Fast Seduction 101" and "Fast Seduction" are registered trademarks owned by Learn The Skills Corp (owner of
FastSeduction.com also known as "Fast Seduction 101").
The articles in this archive file are Copyright © by the original author, as cited, as well as Learn The Skills Corp unless
they were obtained from the public USENET group alt.seduction.fast, in which case they are exclusively the copyright
of the original author, as cited, and republished here as fair use. Regardless, the structure of these files, as a
collection, including any and all organization, formatting and distribution methods are fully Copyright © {!YEAR!} by
Learn The Skills Corp. No part of this archive may be republished under any condition without the explicit permission
from both the original authors and Learn The Skills Corp. The files made available in this archive are for personal use
only.
For articles collected from public USENet, they are being redistributed within this file freely with the full rights of the
author maintained. Use of these such publicly posted USENet for commercial purposes without the prior consent of
the original author is forbidden. Author contact information can be obtained through a search of The Archive at
FastSeduction.com.
For articles compiled from the private forums on Fast Seduction 101, they are made available with implicit permission
of the author ONLY through the Fast Seduction 101 web site. Any other redistribution, modification, or duplication in
whole or in part not pertaining to personal use, commercial or otherwise, is EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN without the
explicit written permission of the original author and Learn The Skills Corp.
Redistribution of this archive file itself, edited or otherwise, in any form is also prohibited without prior explicit
permission from Learn The Skills Corp.
- 82 -
Table of Contents
Table of Contents
The Titanic TylerDurden Archive v2.0 from Fast Seduction 101® . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1
Background . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2
For all you guys hurting over a woman. / Post 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3
Feeling GUILT / Post 2 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4
I want to show my SEXUALITY...how? / Post 3 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5
Better ’lines’ for social proof / Post 4 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8
Advise needed on handling situation / Post 6 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9
Good or SHIT line? / Post 7 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11
Venting.... some tips could help / Post 8 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12
Power Games -- ever get sick of ’em? semi-field-report / Post 10 . . . . . . . . . . . 13
Going out alone / Post 11 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14
What do u look like? / Post 12 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15
Feeling GUILT / Post 13 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16
Some good ones / Post 14 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17
KINO: ’I just shaved’ trans to EV / Post 15 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18
Reason for flaking / Post 16 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19
Perparing states for walk ups. / Post 17 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20
To fuck MLTR’s GF as threesome or not? / Post 18 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21
How do you justify to a girl that she should pivot / Post 19 . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22
Favorite closes this week. / Post 20 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23
Perparing states for walk ups. / Post 21 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25
I want to show my SEXUALITY...how? / Post 22 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 26
Change in Attitude / Post 23 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28
Re: Good or SHIT line? / Post 24 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29
To fuck MLTR’s GF as threesome or not? / Post 25 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 30
College Girls / Post 26 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 31
clubs vs street & Gun’s Style for more than ONS? / Post 27 . . . . . . . . . . . . 32
Hilarious SOI -> Takeaway / Post 28 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 34
Whats the BEST way? / Post 29 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35
Handling resentment and anger / Post 30 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 37
Question on LTR / Post 31 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 39
please help with very odd/stressful situation / Post 32 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 41
WHAT THE HELL IS THIS!!! / Post 33 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 45
Zynner Challenge: Weeks 4-6 / Post 34 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 46
6 chicks, 8 days / Post 35 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 47
6 chicks, 8 days / Post 36 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 48
Re: Feeling GUILT / Post 37 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 49
Handling resentment and anger / Post 38 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 51
please help with very odd/stressful situation / Post 39 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 52
where to find The Cube? / Post 40 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 53
Question on LTR / Post 41 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 54
One-Itis / Post 42 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 55
Alphaness? Asians,,What is your style? FMAC? Good? / Post 43 . . . . . . . . . . . 57
College Girls / Post 44 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 58
No more RIDICULOUS self-rationalizations / Post 45 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 59
Good use of PAWNS / Post 46 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 60
asking for a chicks screenname? / Post 47 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 62
Suggesting a FB relationship to a older HB / Post 48 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 63
No more RIDICULOUS self-rationalizations / Post 49 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 64
No more RIDICULOUS self-rationalizations / Post 50 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 65
Now I’m really recovering / Post 51 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 67
-i-
Table of Contents
- ii -