DJing Pook-Style

By Al Moh.

Thanks to pook!

Introduction So here it is. Your ticket to DJ-town. You dont believe me? I can only say that this worked for me. It brought me success, admiration, sex, girls, new hobbies, new friends and what not. So try it out, its worth it. There is a reason why pook is famous. While most techniques in the PU community try to fight the symptoms of AFCism, pook got to the heart of the matter. No more techniques, lets just accept our nature and become men! Life is so much more enjoyable living as a man. So here it is. One document with all the parts of DJing Pook-Style I wrote. There is one thing I missed up until now. Pook advices every DJ to become a mystery. You do this by having an interesting life and only giving tiny bits of information about yourself when youre asked. For further reference go to the DJ-Bible and read the posts about conversation. Everything else you need should be right here. You should still read other stuff. This might not be your way of becoming a DJ. But I know for sure that it is one way to do things. And it worked for me. Now, enough said. If you have any questions or comments pm me.

Part A Patience I would like to ask you a question. Did you really read the DJ-Bible? You did? How often? One time, maybe two or some articles three times? And do you think you really understood it? Some sentences you have to read four or five times and really think about it until you can truly understand its meaning. As aspiring DJs, we try to take the easy path. We appreciate posts like pooks, because they sound so logical but then again we turn towards SS und NLP and canned openers and such because we want to know what EXACTLY to do. We want to have weapons in our minds that we can use while talking to this HB, because we just run out of words. We want to do a and then b and then c and then know we are DJs and have all the women gravitate towards us. So tell me, what is a, what is b and what is c? And the PUA calls out: Thats an easy one, Al, you first use a good opener backed up with confidence, then you create comfort by mirroring her, you initiate kino and there it is!

Well, I certainly thought so and it did give me some more success, but this is wrong. This is so wrong. Its wrong because But this post is about pooks school so lets hear what he has to say: A Don Juan is a state of mind, not a list of methods and tricks. I used to just pretty much overlook this sentence at the very beginning of Kill that desperation because it seemed to be just an introduction. NO! This sentence is EVERYTHING! Let me repeat that, this sentence is EVERYTHING! I've been here for 3-4 years. Looking at my past posts, I can see how A leads into B and then to C and so on. For example, the Kill That Desperation post (for me) slammed the door shut on 'tricks' and 'tactics'.

Exactly, because the focus must be on YOU! But what did he do then? So what else was there to do? After that came "Be A Man" which seperated sexuality from intercourse. This slammed the door on me on all the 'lay reports' and all. We are in a habit nowadays of defining sexuality only to matters of sex when, in fact, it goes well beyond intercourse.

So what is our problem here?

It is that the man puts the woman on the pedestal rather then himself. Imagine if a woman did all of the above to you. Imagine if a woman was OBSESSED with you, always calling you, always available, and always spending her free time FOR YOU. Any interest you had for this woman would soon evaporate. Why? Because in your own mind you are thinking two things: "No one else must want her," AND "If I can get her OBSESSED about me, I know I can get BETTER girls to be interested in me." Her desperation is turning you off. The same is true for women. What does the PUA do? He puts her on a pedestal. Now I can hear all those people yelling at me: No, thats not true! I am in control, I am building the situation around her, its just a hobby! Is it? What is your goal? Your goal is the girl, your goal is sex, isnt it? So she is the price that you are trying to get. She is in control, you are just trying to manipulate her by activating her erotic instincts and breaking down barriers. You influence her as in taking down that sexual dam that keeps her energies contained. But I still don't think you're making her SEXUAL. With men, we are not entirely sexual. We are only partly sexual. So when we do get aroused, it invades our thoughts as something foreign. When aroused, men's behavior erupts into something quite different. Women are ENTIRELY sexual. This is why it is so hard to see if they are 'aroused' because they do not have that same eruptive nature as we do (of a foriegn influence). The result is that Men are said to be the sexual ones because we SHOW IT more. It is more visible. But women do not show it as clearly since their consciousness and sexuality are both harmonized together. There is no conflict like there is in the male mind. SS keeps saying that it is making the girls horny and sexual. I don't buy it. Women are not men. Women are already sexual and are usually in some state of horniness. What can be done is to tear down whatever walls that is keeping her in check. This is what I see SS doing. As far as influencing her to have sex, I don't see that. She already wants to have sex. My complaint has been with the SPIRIT of SS. Rather than being a man (keeping that transcendent spirit, letting the woman meld to you for you are the prize), you are responding to her sexuality that is 100% a part of her. You entering Dionysius, the feminine realm. You are AIMING at that.

So no tactics, the focus must be on you. One key is sexuality. But if you dont aim at sex, what are you aiming at then?

From sex to the very first meeting, the focus must be on fun. You must get this soulmate, true-love, and pedestal worship out of your head. Not that these things are necessarily bad, they poison everything AT FIRST. Fun is a powerful key. It is so powerful that female friends may become interested in you just solely because YOU ARE FUN. On dates, focus not on what will go wrong, not on what will go right, not on the outcome but on the game. Even if the girl ends up being a loser, you still win because you were focusing on the fun and not on the girl. (And those that focus on the girl lose focus on the fun and, thus, lose the girl). Note that fun doesnt just mean funny. Humour is good but fun is a lot more, you have to enjoy yourself. So tell me pook, once again, what are the keys to Don Juan? Key One: Her sexuality and YOURS shall be embraced. Become sexual! Key Two: Fun shall be the focus. Do you enjoy yourself? Learn how to date yourself and shell be along for the ride! Key Three: You are the PRIZE to be won. No more pedestals! I am going to do extra posts on each of these three aspects in more detail, because this really is almost everything you have to know and apply. But this post is about patience. Patience is your foundation to change.

I have observed guys that had it all (looks, confidence, experience, and even interest from the women). I was envious of these guys for they seemed to know what they were doing and knew how to do it well. I was in awe of how they could be so smooth with the ladies. Their abilities amazed me. Where I worked at, there were a couple of women who all the guys wanted. These women had initial interest in the guys mentioned above (and as you can imagine, those guys had quite a bit of interest in them). So the guys moved in for the kill. They unleashed their charm, their wit, their humor to get the women they so desperately desired. In the end, both women had ditched these guys and went out with me. So what happened? How could guys with more experience, confidence, wit, and looks be shot down by the most in-demand women in the area? And how could someone like me (who lacks in these certain areas) succeed when such smooth ladies-men fail? It all has to do with patience. These guys failed because they came on entirely too strong, too fast. After a couple of dates, they wanted to marry the person. Though they were smooth, they could not hold back their desire for a girlfriend. The women sensed this and recoiled from them instantly. If you dont have patience, you cant destroy the AFC within you, period. After all, why arent we impatient? Because we want to have something NOW that we havent gotten yet. Its us longing for a price. Yet, since we now are the price, the great catch, there is no reason to be impatient. We are on a road to DJ, what more is there to do? Relax and see how you change for the better and have more and more success. I will be patient and let the cards fall where they may. Notice that this was NOT inaction or an abrupt slowness. He did not let the lovely ladies attention get the best of him nor the success or failures of his competition.

So what is patience? Patience is the refined sense of confidence.

Patience is controlling your eagerness. If you believe you are the Great Catch, youll have patience. Women are always going to come to you and your laid back approach is going to attract them even more. However, someone says: But what if I dont see results? There has to be something wrong if I fail, so I got to change my strategy, I got to be more persistent. Patience includes being able to make mistakes and learn out of them and having the patience to let yourself change slowly. You are not going to wake up tomorrow and be a Don Juan.

Do you allow yourself to fail? Or do you go search on posts on EXACTLY how you should act on a date? Do you try to push your comfort zones or do you read the pages of seduction material for the 435473th time? Failure is a necessary component of growth. Let yourself fail. Not all the time. You are not the Nice Guy who crashes and burns without a clue (and does it again and again and again). Don Juans are made by failing, not by succeeding. When you fail, you have information sent back on things that can be worked on. Are you too scrawny? Do you not have fun dates? Is your personality the problem? Do you let yourself have fun? Are you scared of sex? What is it? A failure can help you more than reading every damn post on this board. Failure will aid you much more than the whole of the DJ Bible. Going into Don Juan is not a light switch. You do not stuff this information in your head and become a drone of the ideas here. You need to fail. You MUST fail. You will always learn more about failing because it wont be hypothetical! You wont be having fantasies of you, being a blazing Don Juan, and going from girl to girl. No, you will be OUT THERE (which is where you learn everything) and you WILL FAIL. This failure points out where you NEED to improve. But Pook! If I fail, I will lose the girl! For every love that dies, a new one is born. It is a law of Nature! Keep the focus on YOU. So what if you lose the girl? Another girl will quickly take her place. If you WAIT on the first girl, you will be worse off when you meet that second girl. FAIL NOW. Patience is confidence, patience is willpower, patience is endurance. For nothing can overtake the power of Endurance! Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated failure. Endurance alone is power ultimate. So endure. We are the sum of our endurance. And we will not let others define us any longer.

Fear prevents us from being patient. We see this opportunity and fear to loose it, so we rush in because of our fear of being too late.

This board creates another fear: The fear of doing stuff that is AFC. Some people think if they fail after reading the DJ-Bible, they are doing something wrong so they come back and read more. They fail again and they read even more! At some point they almost read all day long and rarely apply because they are desperately trying to fix their errors. But maybe you arent doing anything wrong. Maybe you did the right thing but your delivery wasnt confident enough, you just have to practice more. Or the girl was just in a bad mood. Or whatever. You shouldnt think about stuff being AFC and DJ-like that often, read the bible, so itll be in the back of your mind and then experiment. I think a great exercise for everyone is to go to some distant town, one where no one will know you, and do whatever the hell you want. That's right. Go up that beauty and be super aggressive! Or go up to her and say WHATEVER you want. Relax! There will be no one from this board going, "Uh uh! You have gone 'against' the Don Juan way" (whatever that means). No rules. No regulations. Anything you want. Watch what happens. I bet you'll stunned at how successful you are. The next morning, with that beautuous babe's arms and legs locked around you in bed, you will stare at the ceiling and wonder how this happen. "Maybe I was super confidant last night!" No, for that brief moment, when no one was watching and no one you knew could 'criticize' you, you united dream and day. That is Don Juan!

But uniting dream and day is worth another post. So for now just remember: There's no shame in failure, only shame in not trying. Even when you don't try, the fierce guilt that tears you up is a sign that you are changing for the better and killing that nice guy within you.

Part B Desperation So this is my take at the third key to Don Juan (yes, I am doing them backwards, do you mind?^^). I remember when I went to this ball in February. A friend of mine invited 4 guys and 5 girls from our ballroom dancing class so we could show of a little and maybe make other people there dance as well. My best friend was there too. He always asks me about every single girl in the room to check how I think shes looking. So after a little while both of us spotted this HB8 waitress. If I say HB8, I really mean it, I think many people here meet a little too many HB8s and 9s, she was like the only 8 in the room and there were no 9s. In fact, I am still waiting for a day to see a 9, but maybe my expectations are just too high. Back then I was stuffed with material from this website and eager to try everything out, yet I couldnt quiet get myself to approach anyone. Fear was holding me back. I quickly realised that the waitress was too old for me and told my buddy that she would be all his (he is 3 years older than me). He couldnt make a move, he just wondered all the time how old she was and if she wasnt too old for him as well. At some point I lost my patience with him, walked over to her and just plain out asked her for her age and name. I got both and a short conversation going that I wasnt even looking for. From then on the evening was great. My female friends started flirting with me like crazy and I got a stranger HB to buy me a drink which was a GREAT accomplishment back then for me But lets get a little more objective here. Why was I able to approach her, when I didnt approach anyone else? Even though she looked much better than the other girls, I just talked to her without even thinking about it. It should be kind of obvious right now. I thought she was too old for me so I didnt consider anything. This knocked her right of her pedestal. By approaching her I was just helping my buddy out, I didnt care about the outcome. So as a matter of fact there are two ways of doing approaches: You either do as the PUAs do: Arm yourself with all kinds of weapons and try to ignore this fear of loosing her. The other way is to destroy this fear completely. After all, if you are the price, what is there to fear? Creativity demands Naturalness! You either make her the price and unleash you arms at her or you just go over and be yourself, be creative! Okay, so this is about the pook-style, so lets get back to him and back this one up. Its all about desperation, which makes us too careful, too holding back and thus, running out of words, which is the worst case. 9

In the end, we are all desperate with desire. We wouldn't be looking for tips and answers if we did not desire a girlfriend or MULTIPLE girlfriends (being a bit ambitious, aren't we? ). We all want a woman (or women ), but our desire and feelings brings out the desperation traits within us.

So how do we kill this desperation? There is a KEY to removing desperation forever. There is no simple 'trick' that will kill the desperation. It will not be in how you dress, how you talk, or where you go for dates. No, the KEY is in how you think. The KEY to killing desperation (and attracting crowds of women) is to THINK and BELIEVE that you are The Great Catch. Desperate guys do not do this. They see the woman as the prize rather then themselves. They see that the woman must be 'wooed' rather then them. They will, thus, supplicate and become a 'nice guy'. (And nice guys finish LAST.)

No trick? I thought I could just memorize a bunch of techniques to get her! ANYONE can memorize 'techniques', but FEW can change the way HOW they think. Women will be able to sniff out the former. But with the latter, women will be clawing each other for you.

Okay, but as a matter of fact, all AFCs coming her are not great catches, they do not have many women chasing them. This is reversing CAUSE and EFFECT. ASSUME you are the Great Catch, THINK that you are, and as you think you shall become. It becomes a self-fullfilling prophecy. Treat your hobbies as if they have more value then the women do (or treat your hobbies as if they WERE other women). When you think you are the Great Catch, you will act like it and the women will KNOW that you are.

This way of thinking doesnt just destroy the desperation traits within you, it also stops you from thinking and analysing too much.

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One thing I noticed when I was purging all the Nice Guyius from my system was that I thought way too much. It's like you meet the chick, the chick seems to like you, and you go, "Imagine what wonderful children we'd have! I think I'll name my first son after Pook!!!" This is thinking WAY too much, rather then going with the flow and having fun. Now I stopped thinking how people percieve me and just decided to have fun. They like this. They love this. Why? I'm letting my natural self come out. No mental games, no thinking "Omigoodness, how did the 'blow job' parretn go again!?" And guess what! If she does like me, she likes me for me, not for my pattern or for my 'neg hit'. This is true satisfaction. So basically, this key of thinking you are the great catch stops this endless flow of thought through your mind. This is by the way why I am posting the third key first. I think pook got it backwards. His first key was sexuality, then fun, then killing desperation. For real, he did it the other way round (notice, how he first posted Kill that desperation, then talked about fun in the answers to Kill that desperation and then posted Be a man about sexuality.) What this is really about is being desireless, while having fun, while still being perceived as a sexual being, a man! But more of this later, this post is just about the third key. Note that you arent supposed to become arrogant. You are not better than her. You are just more valuable to yourself, so she has to chase YOU! For you are the price to be won! The focus must be on you. This brings me to the subject of self-improvement. The Great Catch is consistently updating himself. Pook? The high standards you apply to your desires must be applied to yourself. What desires, I thought we didnt have desires Or we were supposed to be desirelss! The 'DESIRELESS' is to be NOT NEEDY. You WANT her but do not NEED her. It is a big difference. DESPERATE guys need a girl to 'complete themselves' to 'make themselves feel happy'. I say these guys got it BACKWARD. They ought to complete themselves and make themselves happy THEN go for the chicks.

Alright, so the difference is between needing and wanting a girl. SO lets get back to focusing on ourselves.

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Later, when I shrugged off that Nice Guyness, I was looking for a girlfriend. I thought a break came when a girl, a bit homely, had fallen in love with me a few months later. I thought, Should I go for her? Then I realized, NO! (Later, I realized that she and my crush were good friends. I eventually found out my crush tried to set us up.) I knew I could do better. And I did. By focusing on my interests, on my goals, on my improvement, everything changed. Other girls started to take an interest in me. Soon, I became the biggest mystery. My crush is bewildered for her friends have the hots for me and older women say, How I wish I were twenty years younger! I became the guy the girls talked about when they were alone. And she had placed me in the average category. Ha! Of course, I lost all attraction for her. I felt embarrassed about my past self. How could I get so whipped by a chick I hardly talked to? Now it doesnt matter, for I have the mindset that Im going to win the world. Why be happy to have a little, when it could be the whole world? So to all you aspiring DJs. Why are you here? Is it to obtain women? Or is it to become free? Do you want to make women want you? Or do you want to have them gravitate towards you while doing other stuff and bettering yourself as a person? You can hunt them or you can let them hunt you. You can be the guy hitting on chicks or you can be the Great Catch. It really is your choice. But remember, you can only be the Great Catch, if you still improve yourself. If you are not changed by life, then you are not living life! Only those who are not altered by life are those totally unaware of it!

It is the difference between ROTTING and RIPENING. Be the good fruit! Be the PRIZE to be won!

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Part C Fun Rejoice! And be glad! All those frustrations, all those hesitations, the nervousness, the burning, the butterflies of unease, the confusions, and the errors that manifest itself when your mind says "Do this" and your body and personality do not follow- all of these can be washed away... forever. Yes, you thought yourself ignorant about women, so inexperienced, so confused, and you just seemed to be following an evil circle. Maybe you were like me, a super mega dork who slept through life until now. And, perhaps like I did, you read and reread all material on women and life you could get your hands on. But what if I told you that you were always a Don Juan at one point in time? And I do not mean in a specific situation or hour, I mean at one point in your life you KNEW EVERYTHING ABOUT WOMEN and handled them WITH PERFECT EASE, so perfect that it was 100% NATURAL and if anyone told you to view a website or books for 'information' you would laugh yourself silly!

Well, well, pook, I do remember. The pieces fall into place, looking at my own childhood. There were no pedestals. There was just fun. You had one eternal enemy in childhood, boredom. Like a void, it encroached on you in school, ensnared you with a stupid trip with the parents, and enveloped you as you stepped on the school bus. You embraced every chance for play. If there is ONE thing a man must NEVER do to a woman, it is this: DO NOT BORE HER. Make her happy, make her angry, make her laugh, ANYTHING but bore her. That enemy, boredom, is back and women are looking for you to strike it down. Embrace your youth and live again for the first time.

Being a fun guy is being an exciting guy. And if you have fun, she has fun, because as you feel, she feels!

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The Nice Guy kept trying to EXPRESS his emotions through our language. Flowers, poetry, declarations of love, and so on. The player kept trying to CREATE INTEREST by doing things like kino, mirroring, eliciting values, and so on. He is just trying to get her to feel something and put a mirror to it, so it reflects to her. The player is providing mental masturbation in hopes she uses him as a boy toy for physical masturbation. But the Don Juan is already full of joy and the emotions carry over to the women via ********. Remember, what YOU feel, SHE feels. She will ALWAYS be trying to FEEL you. If you feel frustrated, she feels frustrated. If you feel despair, she feels despair. If you feel happy, she feels happy. If you feel playful, she feels playful. If you feel horny, well It has been shown that male lust turns women on. This is why the focus must be on you. As you think, YOU shall become. But as you feel, so shall she feel. Women cannot love a wall, so they want to knock it down. So connect! Get that feeling of joy in your world AND LET IT OUT. Let it live in your walk, let it live in your speech, let it live in your eyes. The sexiest thing a man can do is SMILE. But smile not with just your lips, smile with your eyes, smile in your walk, smile with your talk. Where I live, they have a big indoor playground for kids 4 to 10 years old were you can ride little cars, climb over barriers, jump on a trampoline and stuff like that. Once every month however, they close it for kids and open it for adults. So one of my friends suggested going there and we did. What a great night! Havent had so much fun in a while and at the same time all those childhood memories came back. What I also noticed was that everything worked out so well with other people. You know those nights when you go out and everything just seems to work for you? You are having such a great time, you are on top of your game. I found that those situations are created by yourself having a good time, having a lot of fun! This holds true for everything in life.

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Focus on having fun then on avoiding the pain of rejection or loneliness. The carrot is more attractive to her then the stick. Quit taking this so seriously! These are GIRLS. GIRLS! What are they going to do to you? Beat you up? You like having fun, right? Then do it! Be playful. Be crazy. Do what makes YOU have fun, and see if she'll go along for the ride. No more nervousness! No more shyness! Those originate in you worrying how you will be percieved. Rather, everything is in how you percieve yourself. This makes the difference. This is why action dates are great. But what really kills the fun is us worrying about acting right. Ooh la la! That is my philosophy! Let it be written in the sky, written in the stars, so your mind will wash away those old toxic analyzations. Ooh la la! And this is our mission and destiny. Some people have so confused the easy life and the hard life as to think that the path of security of walking on eggshells throughout life will make their life easier. But it is when you throw yourself into the fire that you learn everything. Analyzations, good-bye! And self-doubt, farewell! No glory lives on the back of such. And Don Juan, dream on. Life awaits! Ooh la la! Come sirs, drink this tonic I am handing you. No more doubts, no more 'what ifs', no more stupid suspicion of whether she is 'manipulating' us or not. Drink, drink, and put it down the hatch!

Our own education has brainwashed us! We think: Now, we are adults, we arent supposed to make mistakes anymore, arent we? We think that our life is boring so we are looking for excitement, but we end up with drama that we secretly like because it makes life more exciting. Do this no more! Forget about all those Don Juan techniques when you approach her!

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Alas! Whenever the young man approached a woman, a thousand Don Juan philosophies came to thwart his peace. All these IDEAS clogged his action! Then he remembered how AWESOME he was with women when he was a little kid. He was always the Don Juan of the sandbox. He wondered, Have women really CHANGED? No, only in his mind. At heart, women are still little girls. So when he saw the luscious babe sitting there, he smiled and saw a bored little girl looking for fun. He would make fun of her, do physical action things with her, take her by the hand to lead her somewhere, and she thought he was the perfect guy. I understand now the source of Cocky and Funny he smiled.. Charm is treating women like little girls. C+F is not a technique, but rather a mindset of having fun and being confident. When you are with a woman and a thousand Don Juan philosophies and tactics come to thwart your peace, remember the kid that you were... and how he looked on life. Yes, she might be a twenty-something vixen. But underneath those milk-sacs and fat deposits that drive your chemicals mad, is a little girl. Rather than being nervous about some date, view the date as if you were seven years old. Everything becomes simple and fun (as it should be!). One thing is for certain, women go NUTS over a guy who keeps his boyhood charm as women want an ESCAPE. They do not want to hear your views on the world. They want to have the happiness and fun of their childhood back (as everyone does!). They will FIGHT for the rare men who truly live like this (this also explains the mystery why uneducated men often seem to do BETTER with women than many men with PhDs who are so 'smart' they intellectualized life out of existence).

What more can I say? It is the downfall of the philosopher, who thinks life out of existence. We heard it before, love is not rocket-science, even though rocket-science really isnt that difficult ;) Its the child that discovers the world by trying out stuff and running around. Its the AFC who tries to discover love by endlessly thinking about it and running a simulation inside his head. This is obviously not connected to nature. So in the end, have fun! You dont even realize how interesting life can be, how interesting the world is. Look around, there are so many things to discover, if we could just break one routine. Pay attention and youll get more information than everyone else. Right now I am looking out my window into our garden, watching the tree in front of our car, hiding it. I never thought about it, but this already tells anyone that my mother is in charge of the garden, because my father likes cars, and she thinks it destroy the garden atmosphere. Ha! I dont know what youll do, but Ill be gone in a few days, going on beach vacation and guess what? Having fun

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Boredom is where all evils enter the world. And when a person is bored, he is bored with himself. Interesting people, in their daily lives, are never bored as they find everything interesting.

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Part D Sexuality We are in a habit nowadays of defining sexuality only to matters of sex when, in fact, it goes well beyond intercourse. Thus, a male and a man are not one but two. Anyone can be androgenous. And being an androgenous is not a virtue, and being masculine is not a vice. Now, who is it that is saying 'man' and 'woman' do not exist, in their sexualized forms? Yes, gender theorists! Gender theorists hold that masculinity and feminity are socially imposed, in other words, artificial. I didn't realize they were the source but I did realize then that something was off sexuality wise in our world (the Nice Guys seem, not born, but manufactured). So I said, "Be a Man!" I want to free sexuality from 'just intercourse' else the world beocmes androgenous and very dull. In "Toward's Manhood", this thought got dealt with more. I ask a group of guys what a guy does that is MALE. The only answer they repeated was 'sex with women'. As big of supporter I am of sexing women, it shows that sexuality has been chased away and confined to the bedroom. I believe we're entering a new Puritan age where sexuality is outlawed, and allowed only through intercourse. The idea of a woman being feminine or a man being masculine drives some people nuts (as if they think they have a right to tell you how you should act!). Life is much more enjoyable as a masculine figure than a nerdy androgenous. Now, here is a good observation. If sexuality is banned from all arenas except for intercourse (where it cannot be banned), what is the result? The result is that society becomes more androgenous. And the result of that is that sexual intercourse becomes more and more hyped and monumentalized.

Welcome back to DJing Pook-Style. I got to admit that this one is more difficult than the other parts because pooks main focus is on sexuality. It has always been there. So this one consists of more posts and more quotes and I was kind of afraid to miss something, hopefully I didnt. Alright, enough talk, lets go. The first key is sexuality. Why does pook think that sexuality is so important? If you cannot embrace your sexuality, you can never be a Don Juan, and you can never be happy in life.

Sexuality is not just about getting girls. Sexuality defines you, it drives you, everything you do in life! Men want to conquer the world. Women want to conquer men. But beware, for there is no neutral, there is just male and female, nature doesnt intend anyone to be neutral.

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The nice guy is just a mix of the two. Note how he is supplicating to women, acting female. Note how he is sitting on the computer diving into virtual worlds were he can conquer and fight. He is torn apart between two sexualities; he feels ashamed of what he really wants as a man and sees those dream worlds as an escape to live his dreams. Before I came here I used to daydream a lot, where I was suddenly in some kind of dream world were I was a hero killing bad people and fighting for the good. We can not completely deny our gender. So lets get back on track. Where does it begin? It begins with one of pooks greatest posts, for here lies the secret to living a true and happy life. Be a man! Just be a Man! There is no need to reprogram yourself. You will have the interests you have, the hobbies you have, the body you have, but you can easily become a MAN. It is all simply in the way how you think and as you think you shall become. But what is Man? Shall we have the answer? Here it is: A Man is a guy who is not scared of his testosterone! A Man follows the passion in his life. Passion of women? Of course not. A Man has goals and desires that goes above that of chasing chicks. After childhood, there are TRUE winners and losers in life. A Man desires to be the winner. A Man WANTS to win in what he does. Because of his passion, a Man can sometimes come off as arrogant and egotistical. He does not apologize for this or for his desires. "It is your actions that cause the disgrace of Men," says the Nice Guy. "It is yours," replies the Jerk. No, gentlemen, the disgrace of men is in not embracing your true nature: following your passion and, thus, loving life. Women are to enhance your life, not to be your life. So to the Nice Guy, stop placing your happiness on getting a girlfriend. To the Jerk, quit wasting your life on seduction. Don't SPEND your time chasing girls, INVEST it by putting it into your interests and desires, thus the whole of your life. When you do this, all of a sudden you have what every woman wants: Ambition, charge, decisiveness, backbone, kindness, stableness, and confidence.

This turns our worlds upside down. The reason why we came here was to get women. Yet, this goal of getting women was our downfall in the first place. What am I doing wrong?, asks the Nice Guy. Asking this question, says the Don Juan.

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A Man has character and deep convictions. He has PASSION in life about something. It is this passion that transforms his life, gives him confidence, and gives him joy. It is this PASSION that will give you that right mindset for you have goals and dreams that go beyond chicks. And it is sexuality that gives him his passion. Note that when you masturbate too much, it kills your drive. Being a man means action, acting as one will shot up your testosterone and make you want to do stuff. There are things so simple in Nature and life that we utterly confuse them and ourselves with our stupid philosophies (jerks don't need websites like these!). Sexuality is one of these. Our countless reading of seduction over the internet is full of months if not years. Where has this got you? Yes, you feel you are always right on the edge of THE SECRETS to end your heartaches and tensions but, at the end of the day, you are still in front of your computer. Someone said to me, "What an odd definition of Man you gave, Pook! A guy not afraid of his testosterone? Surely it is more heroic. But it is entirely about testosterone. Girls are attracted to GUYS, not wimps, not nice guys, not chumps, but GUYS. Rather then trying to build and discover some killer philosophy to ease your troubles, why not accept the structure Nature has already set up? The secret of the jerks is that it is so widespread, common, and plain that since it is all around us we can't even distinguish it. Nature is process, always seeking and devouring. Nothing remains set; everything's in cycles. Rather than classifying the ACTIONS of the jerk and merely DUPLICATING them, let us adopt the SOURCE so the actions come natural and without thought or effort.

All those techniques work because they imitate the actions a sexual male, a man, would take. But in the end the PUA is just a good actor, needing more and more script to keep a woman which ties him to websites like this. The jerk is extremely masculine, thats why he is attractive to women. But hold on a second. What is the difference between the jerk and the Don Juan then? The Nice Guy eventually realizes what all the ladies want, becomes bitter, and changes himself into a Jerk. His goal now is to sleep with as many women as possible and figure out all the tricks and tactics to do so. He focuses on calculation rather then natural joy. When a woman comes, he pulls out a chart of all the 'moves' and 'tactics' with arrows and patterns. He unleashes his lap top, accesses a Lay Guide, and reviews his strategy. Time passes and once was fun becomes meaningless.

I got to disagree with pook on this one. He is not talking about the jerk, but about the player.

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But alas ( ;) ), having high testosterone isnt everything to being a man, otherwise the Jerk would be a Don Juan! We are all worms crawling between heaven and earth. The 'Towards Manhood' post went on detailing the 'heaven link' of Man. The 'Secret of the Jerk' post details the 'earth link' of Man. Personally, I think the 'Towards Manhood' post is a far better post than 'Secret of the Jerk' (because nowadays, everyone focuses on the earth link, never on the heaven link) but everyone seems very bent on the 'earth link'. We are all centuars and we ride the beast through this world. Both elements, of the beast and the 'mind/soul', ought to be understood. What good does it do to cut off the 'heaven element' and make no differences between us and apes, wolves, dogs, or norwegian rats?

The testosterone provides the earth link, but makes no difference between humans and animals! So lets go and see what more there is to being a man. Feminism has castrated the male mind. Masculinity, noble, wise, triumphant, essential to civilization, is damned as decadence. The key to success in dating and with women in general is NOT finding out how a womans mind works. To the contrary, the secret is finding out how a MANS mind works and being not a Nice Guy, not a Jerk, not some male, but a man.

Purpose, Passion, Persistence, in other words, Strength, Nobility, Mastery- this is Man. Masculinity is uninfluenced by his environments, physically and socially, while femininity is influenced completely by the environment, physically and socially. Sisyphus disrupts masculinity and places feminine characteristics into the male. Physically, Sisyphus will not adventure, risk, and ultimately surmount his surroundings. Socially, Sisyphus will shrink, become a wallflower, become agreeable with everything and everyone, and ultimately bend to the environment (submitting rather then dominating). The symptoms are broken dates, disrespect, being blown off in other words-unrequited love. The ROOT of the symptoms is the breakdown of this social form, Sisyphus, with the plagued individual is identified as THE NICE GUY. A womans fantasy is that her beauty and charm will ensnare great men, the politicians, the lawyers, the firemen, the doctors- in other words, winning the men who can have any woman. A mans fantasy is that his will and strength can overcome any obstacle heroically. You could even say that femininity is matter over mind while masculinity is mind over matter.

Masculinity is also a mindset. I do Kung Fu and one of the main concepts is to get your strength out of the earth by twisting you legs. Its the same with masculinity. It pulls the strength out of the earth link, testosterone, but you need to have the will to do this. Its your mind that defines your actions, and its your actions that unite dream and day. 21

For as you think, you shall become! There is a story that a friend told me that I, in turn, wish to depart with you. A sensible woman traveled to a village of fools in which a young boy was raised. A crowd of females, both women and Nice Guys, gathered around him with various objects: whips, ropes, and stones. One said, Look at how fast and strong he is! He makes the others feel weak. Let us tie stones around his body to slow him down. Another said, Look at how sure he moves through the world. Let us whip him to make him realize that the world yields to others, not to him. A third said, Look at how successful and resourceful he is. Let us tie him up with ropes and spread his fruits to others. A fourth said, Look at how he stands tall and straight, almost as if he were a demigod. Let us place stones on his head to weigh him down to Earth. And yet, a fifth said, Look at that attitude of superiority! Let us hoist him into the air with ropes, tie the whip around his neck, and weigh it down with stones to squeeze the bloody attitude with a hanging! Stop! cries the woman. What Nature has done is well made. The boy is endowed with the gifts whose fruits we depend on. Do not pretend to correct Nature. The superior physical strength, the confidence, the resourcefulness, the idealism, and the egoism- let these natural traits grow and blossom to the beauty that is Man. Then, in Shakespearean tongue, this woman cried, For what a piece of work is a Man! How noble in reason! How infinite in faculty. How in form and grace, how expressed and admirable! How in action, how like an angel! How in contemplation, how like a god! The beauty of the world! The paragon of animals! Nature has given us all that is necessary to accomplish our destinies. It has provided a social form as well as a human form. And these masculine traits are so constituted that they develop themselves through the clean and unpolluted mind, free of feminist imposed guilt, developing themselves harmoniously in your best pursuit. Away then with feminists and guilt felt males! Away with their stones of sensitivity programs to tie us down! Away with their whips of laws! Away with their ropes and bindings of legalities that shuffle our success and wealth to women! Away with the stones of guilt that push us to pessimism! Away with the hanging of annihilation whose executers hand is but our own! Towards Manhood! And through it, let men be men and the light of life shall shine again into the world. Towards Manhood! And let us never deceive ourselves again. Let Eve cry all she wants. Let the feminists, turning ever which way, prattle and rattle their flaming sword of devilish tongue for we have reclaimed Paradise.

We have broken down sexuality. Let us no longer deceive ourselves. Let us live like men and do as we wish. There is a difference between males and females. Live this difference! There is a reason why pook told us to treat women like little girls. They love it! Do you think that society has ruined masculinity? That the evil feminists destroyed us all and that they will hunt us down? 22

First I did agree with people that the media corrupted our minds. Then I became annoyed by those people. I am going to quote myself right now: So the bottom line is, that you, as an artist (and a good one because you are a DJ), are creating your world. Imagine you are painting over an older picture that society gave you. Yes, in this old picture might be bad colours (feminists!!! RUNNNNN!), but with enough of your own colour you're just going to paint it over.

Now I realize that behind all of this is nature. All those weak males, those Nice Guys arent a consequence of feminism. Feminism is a consequence of weak males. We had two world wars and the world cried out: Something like this must not happen ever again! As much as I agree to this, they condemned manhood for war. So manhood was banished. This is our test. Nature sets up obstacles for us to overcome. We, as men, have to prove that we can overcome a society that banished manhood. We, as men, have to show that we do not feel guilty. We, as men, have to reclaim our world. If you are crying about it, you are not a man. This is our chance to show the world what sexuality is. I am getting a little tired of this post, so lets sum it up! Be sexual! Strike down fear and follow your instincts. Know that she is a woman and you are a man. Create your world and perceive yourself as a leader. Show dominance and strength. If you spend your time playing WoW until now, this is your lucky day: From now on you can be that same hero in the real world, just without all the violence. Be a Man! And with it, you will advance in your career, your social life, and even your dealings with women. Men are very rare these days so if you become one, you will be in HIGH demand. Your career will become better as people look at you as a leader. Life will re-develop before your eyes for you will obtain the most single quality that men, not trophy husbands, not nice guys, not tactiful players, but men have a monopoly on: Respect. YOU are the MAN! For if you don't STAND for something, you shall FALL for everything!

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Part E Uniting Day and Dream Oh how I hated this. I remember that every single vacation we went on, my parents dragged me to places I just didnt want to see. Old churches, castles, museums and other buildings of history. It was so boring, I couldnt stop thinking of going home and playing with my Legos. I got into quiet a few fights over this. Lets skip forward to last weekend. I went to a little town with my friends to walk around, do some sight-seeing and have a good time. We went into this old church dating back to the 12th century I think. My friends were running around looking at stuff while I simply froze. I was standing right in the middle of the church, looking up at the roof. I hope you dont mind me not talking about all the beautiful details I found because I would have to get out a dictionary and do hours of searching for the English words ;). Yet, my main thoughts were: What kind of great men build this? Do you realize this, when you look out of your window. Everything you see that was build by humans was once upon a time just a thought in the mind of a genius. Yet, he united day and dream by making it real. We are artists and creators. If you walk through a castle, how can you not wonder what great men walked there before you, how they build and created and lived and fought? Our mind is what creates this world, over and over again. When I went to the US for my high school exchange I basically created a new world for myself, with a new family, new friends, a new school, and even new hobbies. Dreams are more powerful than facts. Imagination is stronger than knowledge, the myth more powerful than history, and passion will always go further than experience. The final word to the book of science is that the world can be made to whatever we want, that the real world is not outside you but within, which gives us all the power to begin the world over again.

Our mind is more powerful then we ever thought! So you must unite Day and Dream. All the things women want confidence humor spontaneous... fun These are all qualities of a MAN living out his imagination. Embrace your dreams! Stop trying to be perfect in womans eyes for youll wrong the truest commandment with sexuality: Do not bore women. And Unite Dream and Day

I shall go into a little more detail, so you can understand what I mean. This is going to get a little bit philosophical. Philosophy is the refuge for those who refuse to be flesh-and-blood.

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Shut up pook, I am not seeking philosophy as a refuge, but to make a point. Living philosophy is killing your life, not just talking about it from time to time (just dont talk about it with women!) So look over here, I am going to pull out two screens. They are both black at the moment. The one on the left is going to be reality; the one on the right will be the imagination. Now lets assume we are talking about an animal here. Look, the left screen now shows a forest. This is reality. Oh, look at the right screen! Its a copy of the left one! What point is there? Well, wait and see. On the left side an animal appears. Its a potential prey! Now look at the right screen. It shows the animal eating the prey. Now, where is the point? There are two aspects I want to show you. First one is: The imagination side was altered. It was altered by emotion. Emotions are like the weather in the real world to the world of imagination. They can be like rain (sadness), like the sun (joy), like the wind or like a hurricane. The animal is certainly uniting day and dream now. Its going to catch the prey. So uniting day and dream means changing reality into what your imagination shows you. This is action. Reality also alters your imagination, usually through emotions. This is a reaction. What makes us human is our ability to alter the right screen, the imagination one, through thoughts. This leads us to abstract thinking. While for an animal a tree on the left side is also a tree on the right side, we can take this picture of reality, copy it on our imagination screen and replace the tree by, lets say, the word tree. We replace the picture by a word. This is why we were able to develop language. We divide the two worlds, the reality and the imagination one and create abstract thinking. Now this is where it backfires. An animal might not be able to alter the imagination through thoughts but we quickly loose part of our ability to alter reality into something that fits our imagination. The genius has to be able to do both. As the architect of this old church I was talking about created the church first in his imagination and then united dream and day, just like an animal would, by actually making it come true. Pook describes this phenomenon also, but he doesnt use the animal analogy. He uses a child.

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-You embraced your imagination. If you played with a girl, it was to be on your terms. You will not find a boy that says to a girl, "Whatever YOU want to do." I remember flicking caterpillars on girls (and they loved it!). You would point to the girl and go, "You are the detective and I am the cop." And then you pointed to others and go, "Look at these villains! Come, we must round them up!" And the girls joyfully played the part. What do you do NOW? "Let's go get dinner." BORING. -You had one eternal enemy in childhood, boredom. Like a void, it encroached on you in school, ensnared you with a stupid trip with the parents, and enveloped you as you stepped on the school bus. You embraced every chance for play. If there is ONE thing a man must NEVER do to a woman, it is this: DO NOT BORE HER. Make her happy, make her angry, make her laugh, ANYTHING but bore her. That enemy, boredom, is back and women are looking for you to strike it down. Embrace your youth and live again for the first time. The child unites day and dream without hesitation. As adults, we have this fear of doing so. We might offend somebody. We might get hurt, we might LOOSE something. Now this fear of loosing something is part of our abstract thinking. An animal has only the fear of loosing its life. We however, replace the picture of this car by the feeling of ownership. And everything we own, we can loose. Now we own lots of property, money, a huge ego, abilities, thoughts and a lot more. The more we have the more we can loose! Now if you realize that you have everything you need within your mind, that you can recreate the world whenever you want, then you arent afraid of loosing anymore! You can risk!

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Live the life YOU want. Materialist- If a man spends his life in a soul destroying job, he is held up as a model for society. Nice Guy- A man discovers 'great love' and throws himself at the girl, putting her on the pedestal, he kneeling, as she becomes his new goddess. Shining Star- Wants to enchant the gossipers, be it newspapers, television or radio shows, and whatever else. They want loud titles to hide that they are not truely men, no matter their scripted appearances. Citizen Dildo- A life full of notches on the bedpost. But then what? All four are addictive because they flood your body with stimulants. What is a Nice Guy's addiction of 'love' but a stimulant? Why don't you just get a needle and jab it in your arm, at least it won't be absurd. Since I am not on the typical scale of Nice Guy or Seducer, everyone wants me to act 'fully' as one or the other. But I'm neither. Most websites can be categorized into the four. This site flaps like a flag caught in harsh winds, not deciding which way fully to go, but wants to keep leaning to the Citizen Dildo. The websites that speak of a different alternative are few, just as few as the men that do it. You cant ever live the life you want if you dont risk. Now, lets get back to my two screens for a while. If emotions are like the weather, then it can only rain (sadness) if there are clouds. What do I want to tell you with this analogy? That you can influence your emotions, your vulnerability. Alas! He knew he was not Prince Charming so he did not act like one. But now he realized that Prince Charming is not the producer of the confidant thought; to the contrary, the confident thought is the producer of the Prince Charming. In order to be successful in the world, you must be successful in your mind.

Our imagination also automatically influences the reality, even without us acting. And thats why. As you think, you shall become. Yes, its that easy. You thought you werent good enough for women. You thought you were ugly, dumb, too small, too big, wrong skin colour, whatever it is. There is a reason why they say: If you have a problem with it, she has. For as you think you shall become. If you think you are unworthy, you will become unworthy. Personally, I think there is much more then we could ever know. I think that our imagination can influence the imagination of others. If we perceive ourselves a certain way, others will see us this way. This is what we call an aura. Normally, we would imagine something, make it real and another person would perceive it as something and put it into his imagination. Its 27

imagination -> reality -> imagination. But an aura skips the reality part. Its Imagination -> Imagination. If you know you are prince charming, theyll know too. I met people like that. They were standing behind me, I didnt even notice them yet but I already felt this aura and wondered were this suddenly comes from. Think about it. Think a little more. And now forget about it. After all, its a lot of philosophical stuff and you arent here to study for a psychology exam but to learn how to live life. We as men are creators. We are logical, we long for tools to create our worlds. Women however are emotional. How does something make them feel? The jerk succeeds because he is masculine. Thus he makes the woman feel feminine. And if she feels feminine in your presence this is your green light! But forget about that as well. Think about how you want to live your life, for the focus must always be on you. It is the pattern of our age that value is placed on living a long life. Because of this pattern of value being place on having a long life, it is easy to lose sight that the reason we hope to live long is so we have more time to live worthily. What does it mean to live worthily? This is something that only you can define. People have lots of opinions on what you should do with your life, but when the day comes that you are on your deathbed, knowing the imminent is possible, youre the one that has to reflect upon the choices you made. So what is life to you? I am not asking you to do this or that with your life, but I am only asking you to pause for a moment and think. What is life to you? Stop and look. Many people do not stop to consider. They relive their parents life, only to produce children who will live like them! They want money so they spend their time to get it, only to use that money to buy back time. They always place their minds in the future and never in the present, thus they dont live in the present or in the future. They lose the moments and in the end, that is all we have. This trading of time for money, or money for time, or present for future, or future for present is not a pure exchange, life gets destroyed in the transaction.

There are three types of people. Those that arent creative enough to create their own life in their imagination. They just follow others. Then there are those who have endless dreams of what they could do but they fail to unite day and dream. Fears are holding them back. Soon they become bitter because of their inability to do what they want. They blame others, the whole world but themselves and in the end they live other peoples dreams because they think thats just the way it is, you cant live your own dreams. 28

Last but not least are the ones who actually create meaning. Look at those children. They create their own world. Society hasnt told them yet that they have to fit in. No one told them they ought to make money. Nobody told them to find the one and only. They are free. Its freedom what we have to seek. The genius needs freedom. What is freedom? Its freedom of fears, freedom to create. For he who has no fears is able to unite day and dream whenever he wishes. Look at this young aspiring Don Juan. He is afraid to approach the young lady. You could tell him how ridiculous this is. You could tell him he just has to use this pick-up line and hell succeed. But in the end he has to kill his own fear. Men have got testosterone for a reason. It makes us have less fear and take more risks. That is why we are the creators. That is why we long for freedom. This post ended up with more text from me then from pook but I dont really care. Im writing these posts for myself and I think I could explain this better in my own words than pook did. In the end we have to take all this advice from SS and make it work for ourselves. Pook came up with the idea of writing everything he thought was important in his own posts so he could study them and not be smashed my tons and tons of posts all the time. This is a good way of improving yourself. See, this here works for me. Part A D work for me too. I dont expect this to work for everyone. Someone said that this website is divided in morality DJs, pook worshippers and people who dont care about morality. I only see DJs and non-DJs. There is no difference between a morality DJ and his opposite. Both created their own values. It really is your choice. You can create your own morals or you dont, as long as you create your own life I will die a happy Al. Is advice on this website good or bad? Try it out. And then ask yourself: Did I try to please the woman or did I try to please myself? Did I act like some AFC or did I act like The Great Catch? Did I rush in without being able to control my eagerness or did I have patience? Did I focus on the girl or did I focus on the fun? Did I act like a non-sexual or like a man? Was fear holding me back or did I unite Day and Dream? If you picked the first option in every question: Dont despair! Read those posts again and try to really understand what they are saying. Then get out there and try to actualize everything bit by bit. If you picked the second option in every question: Congratulation, you are about to live the life you dreamed of.

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Now your life belongs to yourself. What are you going to do with it? This Gift of life is yours and yours alone. It truly is the only thing no one can take away. Only you can give it away, to chunk it, to toss it into the abyss of time. But no longer will you do that. Before, you crawled and inched your way through life. Now, cocooned and reabsorbed with your new thoughts, you molt off your old life and begin a new one. The other caterpillars, feeding on their grubs and inching in circles, look up at the sky to see you blaze by. How can he fly so high? How is he so colorful? How can he be so free? Nothing can stop you now except yourself. You now have the power to do what youve always dreamed, what are you going to do? The inner light of who you really are has broken out and will dazzle the world. You are so lucky, for you have saved your life. Now you know how precious life is because you were so close to ageing without discovering it. And so people will notice the new you. Before I came here, I was mad for a girl. Now, that same girl looks at me and stares. Something is different, she says. Something in your eyes in your face Shrugging, she smiled. It must be the light. I kissed her and pulled her to me. "Yes, I said. It must be the light."

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Additional Article: Kill that Bitterness! NOTE: I thought I might add this post I wrote a while ago because it fits in. Live like an artist! Being a Don Juan is not a net sum of PU tactics and manoeuvres but of your outlook and approach on the world. You know, everyone can memorize some pick-up lines and smooth tactics that PUAs are so proud of. But few can change the way how they think and how they see the world and create its meaning. A Don Juan isn't just a PUA. He is aware of these techniques and uses them whenever he wishes but a DJ is about loving yourself, you hobbies, your fellow humans, including women and the world in general. This must be stated because it brings me to the subject of bitterness. Today in my German class we were talking about art and what makes an artist. This brought us to the genius as it is defined in the Storm and Stress. I don't want to go too far into the material but after having said a lot about creating meaning and holding up a mirror to nature and bringing life into your artwork the topic of love came up. In "Lenz" from Bchner, the main character has a discussion about good realism, bad realism and idealism. He says that one requirement of a good artist, a genius, is, that he loves humans, so that he can portray not just the bright sides of human life but the dark sides as well. Moving along: Instantly this connection to DJism popped up in my head. So I got to the conclusion that a DJ has to love too to create meaning. Because we, as men and DJs, are like artists, creating our own world. Without love, our world is not going to be full of life, but rather either a copy of the world that society dictates us (bad realism) or an idealistic world which eventually leads to bitterness because we can't hold up the picture of an ideal world inside of our heads. So I asked myself what makes a man become so bitter like we have often seen people do on this site. These are some of my answers: - Hoping for a quick fix using PU methods and not obtaining it - Seeing women as objects - Just reading all day long without applying and thus not seeing any results - Lacking patience - Falling into the "I am a victim of society" trap - Replacing the word "life" by the word "PU" Why is this? Shouldn't this website encourage us to live the lifes we want and be happy? But then again, many of the examples I just said are created through misunderstanding of concepts. We were looking for help because we weren't successful with women right? And what did we find? A catalogue of techniques and smooth manoeuvres. Women were knocked from their pedestal but some of us hit these pedestals too hard. Women fell down to the floor so to speak, beneath men. But no, this is wrong. Love is not AFC. Love means passion and passion for life is our source of confidence and strength. I sometimes have the impression some of you guys degrade love 31

to some emotions gushing through your veins just for the sake of destroying desperation. Desperation must be destroyed but not for that cost. Women are human beings. If this is news for you, you are either still AFC (seeing women as goddesses) or bitter (seeing women as objects). Lets look at my thoughts once again: - Hoping for a quick fix using PU methods and not obtaining it There is no quick fix. Every skill you achieve in life will take you some time to learn it and some more time to get really good at it. So why do you think that getting good with women is just a question of theory when every other skill has to be learned by practicing it? - Seeing women as objects Since you are a DJ and not some kind of bitter PU wannabe, you should love women because they are humans, and they are fascinating creatures. Just don't let them blind you. There have been people that forged gold into beautiful objects. And there have been people who shot themselves over some pieces. - Just reading all day long without applying and thus not seeing any results As I said, practicing is a must. As a Don Juan you are looking for the emotional experience without being a slave to your emotions. Embrace your emotions and enjoy the thrill. Heard the statement "she is along for the ride" before? She certainly is: It's your ride but you take her with you so you can both enjoy it. - Lacking patience Success comes over time. So be patient. Just having discipline but no patience is going to make you loose that discipline because there aren't great results right away (maybe some though). Just having patience and no discipline is going to make you loose your patience after some months of having no results whatsoever (how could you? You didn't change anything, no change = no other results, every child knows that). But having both, patience and discipline, will turn you into the man you have dreamed of being. Love and passion is going to make everything much easier. It gives you more patience and discipline. Waiting is easier while you do other interesting stuff and doing exercises that put you on a thrill don't require much discipline: You'll do them for fun - Falling into the "I am a victim of society" trap We had this topic over and over again. The evil matrix is going to hunt you down! Go and kill yourself because otherwise the agents (most likely feminists) are going to do it for you. You know what? There is not evil force out there. There are just a lot of individuals out there and some of them have an interest in maintaining the system. But since they aren't united, because they still have different interests, they are not going to hunt you down. You know what? You really aren't that important^^. Don't worry; your life is going to be just like you imagined it. I learned that the difference between something acceptable and something weird is the strength of your mindset. Add up those strengths from the different sides to get the result. You want an example? Imagine you are approaching a set while still thinking that approaches aren't acceptable in your society and feeling uneasy about it. Now the set consists 32

out of two women who blow you of big time (you know, they just look at each other communicating: Who is this looser???). Know imagine you really thought it was totally acceptable in society and normal and you approach just one girl. She might not be used to getting cold approached but since you are communicating that it's okay and there is no third person telling her it's not, your reality is stronger than hers so it's going to be normal. So what is normal? Normal is the sum of the strongest mindsets that think it's normal. So the bottom line is, that you, as an artist (and a good one because you are a DJ), are creating your world. Imagine you are painting over an older picture that society gave you. Yes, in this old picture might be bad colours (feminists!!! RUNNNNN!), but with enough of your own colour you're just going to paint it over. - Replacing the word "life" by the word "PU" Oh yeeeeessss, how sweet is this success that you finally achieved with women. You love them! But wait: You lost all your other passions. And getting pu**ie is becoming old after a while and a LTR is no option because for a deeper connection, you life would have to consist of more than just PU. Oh oh. You are now in a loose-loose situation. Which is whose fault? Right, must be women... You know what? Know yourself! It's not a joke. Know your hobbies. I loved this post from Demon about what makes a DJ different. Life, Love and Leadership. If you are just doing PU you are not loving life: there is nothing to love or you would do other things. Yes I know. Maybe now that you don't have women, they seem so much better than all your hobbies combined. But you know what? We always want what we can't have. We are creators. We want to create. Trust me on this one and even if you don't get women right now work on finding new hobbies and a passion as well. You are going to be thankful later on.

Now I am a little tired of this post. But I still hear someone yelling: "Hey, but this PU material calls for seeing women as objects, after all it generalizes them, gives you methods that supposingly work. Women become "HBs", groups of people become "sets". True and false. PU has the tendency to generalise. But all skills have this tendency in the beginning, because you can't start with learning about every different woman on this planet and what exactly works for her. These techniques work on most of the women because nature has some kind of sexual program running. It's the same with men, most of us respond to certain behaviours and trades in women. Are we objects because of this? No. Animals are treated like objects even though they have the same sexual programming running. It's not our sexuality that sets us apart from animals. It's our mind. And every human being, be it man or woman, has an own mind, an own character. Never forget that. You will find EVERYTHING under the sun, every combination of characteristics you can imagine. So do not turn women into objects. PU methods are techniques that usually help you because they are perceived as attractive by our primitive part of the brain. A woman can dress up to seduce men. We can learn techniques to seduce women. But we are still individuals. Never forget that! Seducing a woman is another act of creating an artwork. You have to create and combine, use techniques you learned or new ones, use rules they told you or break them, it's all depending on the situation. But never turn human beings, men or women, into objects, for this is the path to hell.

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Bring back the love into your life. Live Life for the fullest. Create meaning and see how joy comes back inside, first dripping carefully, then rushing like the biggest river.

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