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Table of Contents
When it is well practiced, the Kama Sutra is able to bring many health
benefits to our physical, physiological and mental well being. There are
different reasons behind this, some of which include the yoga basis to the
sexual positions, tantric massage, as well as encouraging closer
relationships between couples.
There are many benefits to the yoga positioning in the lovemaking aspect to
the Kama Sutra. Yoga is well known to provide many benefits from
flexibility and relaxation to increased blood flow and mental clarity.
There are many other ways that a healthy sex life, as laid out in the Kama
Sutra, can contribute to your health and happiness.
When they are done correctly, the Kama Sutra positions are designed to
encourage bonding and curiosity between partners. Some of the more
advanced positions also foster trust in one another in order to balance and
not be hurt. Learning how to pleasure one another is a journey that is
exciting and invigorating and allows for new feelings to emerge in the
relationship.
Sex also aids in the production of hormones such as oxytocin, which keeps
you healthy and glowing. Engaging in one hour of sexual activity is
equivalent to fifteen minutes of jogging, and can burn up to two hundred
calories per session. Sex is thought to fight stress, increase heart health and
those who engage in regular sex are said to be less impacted by arthritis,
depression, anxiety, and stress.
This isn’t to say that you can go and have sex with anyone in order to reap
the benefits of having sex. The Kama Sutra promoted having intimate sex
with one partner. In order to have intimate sex, there needs to be a
connection on a level deeper than simply physical. The needs to be a
mental, emotional and spiritual connection between two partners in order to
really get any of the benefits of having sex in the way the Kama Sutra lays
out.
Today there are many people who feel as though their sex life has fallen
into a rut. The act of making love becomes boring and tedious and couples
tend to get lost in the day to day routine of their lives. This was true back in
the ancient Indian times as well as today. This was why the Kama Sutra
spent a lot of time discussing foreplay.
When a relationship fails to have a healthy sex life, the couple often finds
that they will eventually have problems in other aspects of their
relationship. The act of making love creates a closeness between a man and
woman, and this is what the Kama Sutra was created to cultivate.
Chapter 1. Sexual Compatibility
What is Sexual Compatibility?
One of the most powerful features of a good relationship is sexual
compatibility. At first, you could assume it is all about how much you and
your partner want the same things in bed. Possibly, how your partner has
body features like tits, backsides, dick or straight shoulders the way you
have always wanted. This is not completely off the mark, but sexual
compatibility goes way beyond such thinking.
Imagine a relationship where your partner has the exact things you want.
The height, the eyeballs, the body fitness and the smile you always adore,
but you cannot understand each other. You cannot tell if they are having a
good or bad time. She doesn't know when to let things go with you. He
couldn't tell when you are angry, tired, happy or feigning your emotions too,
do you think you could be a good fit for such a person? Do you think you
would relish having sex with him? It is applicable to both men and women.
Sometimes, he wants to talk and not have sex, but you have no idea and you
pressed for it. You both had sex, but it definitely won’t be one she enjoyed.
Women put on a show sometimes. A woman would frown and scream about
everything in the house as if she hated you. But all she wants is you. She
wants you to drag her into your arms and kiss her. She wants to melt in your
arms and passionately make love with you. If you are sexually compatible,
you would fully understand her when she falls into a mood like this, and
you know exactly what to do. But if you are not sexually compatible, you
might flare up at her weird behaviors. Label her all sorts and storm out of
the house in anger.
Men have their styles of attracting you without saying a word too. Each
person has a different style of communicating with their partner and they
frantically hope you could understand without waiting for them to explain
in words.
To know if you both have the same urge for sex. Your partner has to
have the same definition of sex as you. For instance, 'do I consider
anal, oral and so on as sex?' Whatever your answer is, she should
have the same answers too. 'Do I feel a mad drive for sex at least 5
times in a week?' 'Can I go up to 5 rounds each time I have sex?' 'Is
there a sex style, sex position that is so heavenly to me, and does my
partner enjoy exploring that same style?' You can begin to relax if
your partner has the same answer to these questions, your
compatibility level is gaining some scale.
You know exactly what turns her on. If you and your partner can read
each other, you edge closer to sexual compatibility than you can
imagine. You can tell when your partner is turned on and all they need
is a powerful fuck till they reach orgasm. You can also tell when you
should just give a cuddle and ignore your sexual drive. Your partner
can tell the same about you too. You both possess the trick to get your
partner up and very hard, you also know things that would instantly
turn your partner off. Having this ability is crucial to your sexual
compatibility with your partner.
Sex environment. Quite strange but certainly true. We all love to have
sex in different conditions. Do you enjoy having sex in a completely
dark place? Do you prefer a mildly lit or a very bright room? Or are
you the type who loved getting laid in quick silent places and not
even rooms? Is your partner the same? Some people love a man who
could slide into the kitchen quietly and turn them off while quinoa or
steaks are still on fire. They loved having sex in a quick spot like that,
the bathroom, the walkway, the table and not just the bedroom. You
need to find out the position of sex that thrills you more, and then
analyze how much your spouse dazzle at such sex styles. It is
completely 'okay' to prefer having sex in a bedroom, as long as it is
how your partners loves it too. With this your sexual compatibility is
certain.
The Kama Sutra states that upon entering the pleasure room, both
partners would cleanse themselves. Ensuring you are clean is
important to make sure that your body is appealing to your partner.
Many people today still like to be clean, and like their partners to be
clean, before pursuing intimate activities. This is also a great
opportunity for you to cleanse your day away and start your time with
your partner in a fresh frame of mind. Cleansing your body gives your
partner an opportunity to explore more intimate areas of your body
bringing a lot of pleasure to you.
The woman is lying down on her back. Lowers down her upper half of the
body and raises back her hips. The entrance of the vagina is stretched wide.
2. Crossed Legs
The woman lies down with her buttocks near the edge of the bed. The male
kneels or stands on the other side, entering her from the front. However, the
legs do not sit astride the male hips but are raised upwards and crossed
together. The male holds them up for balance as he penetrates her in this
position. He can also choose to cross and uncross her legs for additional
stimulation. For the most part however, the legs remain crossed, keeping the
vagina pleasantly tight for the male.
Tips: The position of the legs makes it impossible to stimulate the clitoris.
Benefits: This also leaves the female free to play with her breasts.
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3. Crab posture
5. The Eight
The woman is lying on her back, with her legs slightly open, possibly with
a pillow under her back to facilitate penetration. The man is lying on the
woman, and has his hands on one side and the other of her head, with his
arms stretched out as if doing the push-ups.
Tips: The woman holds her hands on the man's hips, and helps him forms
"8" numbers with the hips while he is inside her.
Benefits: The 8 "relaxed" is the symbol of infinity, and it seems like a good
promise to be made in two!
Tips: It’s also a fairly easy position and best done in front of the mirror,
allowing both male and female added stimulation during sex.
Benefits: In this position, both the male and female are free to play with
different erogenous zones such as the ass of the male, the clitoris, the breast,
the lips, the nape, the U-Zone and more.
7. Bandoleer
The woman is lying on her back with her legs raised and her knees joined
against her chest; the man kneels and penetrates her.
8. Utphallaka
The man kneels on the bed. The woman lies down on her back, raises her
buttocks and wraps her legs around him. As the man penetrates her, the
woman arches her back, getting help from him, who holds her hands under
her back.
9. Reverse Cowgirl
This iѕ thе position where the man lies down аnd the woman sit in thе cow
style but reversed in a way thаt her hip touches the man's pelvis аrеа. The
man penetrates frоm down and thе woman dоеѕ thе uр and down movement
аnd not the man.
Tips: Thе man саn support thе woman by holding her hip аnd supporting
thе movement bу giving hiѕ strength.
This is perhaps the most widely known and used sexual position in the
world. It is also deemed as the most conservative as this act can be done
with very little effort (and can also be done without disrupting the sheets
too much).
The man and the woman perform this act in horizontal to one another
Tips: there is little to no chance of seeing any other body parts unless the
man sits u.
Benefits: This position allows eye and body contact which makes it
favoured by both males and females.
Benefits: It is a very intimate position that allows for feeling your partners
body all over in skin-to-skin intimacy.
Tips: Although this position will put you and your partner into an
unfamiliar pose, it is not a difficult pose to achieve.
Benefits: It allows for increased pleasure for both the man and the woman
The woman lies on her back with one leg extended and one leg bent while
the man holds the bent leg. The man rests on his knees and places his thigh
over the woman’s extended leg. The woman then takes her bent leg and
touches the backside of it to the chest of the man, with her leg straight up
against the man.
The man sits on the bed or another hard surface with his legs outstretched.
The woman straddles his body with her back to his front. She lowers herself
onto his lingam from the straddling position. Once the man has penetrated
the woman, she stretches her legs out as straight as possible and grabs onto
the man’s feet for leverage.
Benefits: This is a fun position for couples to try if they are looking for
something a little different to try.
Tips: This position is a rear-entry position that doesn’t require the woman
to hold her weight up.
Benefits: The positions above are all relatively easy to achieve, although
they may take some practice to get perfect. Each one of them is going to
bring your lovemaking to a higher level than ever before. Not all of the
above positions may be right for you and your partner, however,
experimenting with them is half the fun. Once you have had fun with the
above poses, if you are feeling more adventurous, read on to find some
more challenging poses you and your partner can experiment with while
love-making.
Tips: If you are a bit weighty as a woman that’s great because curves and
voluptuousness is sexy, but you have to make sex comfortable for you too
and not just your partner.
Benefits: This one is not as hard as it seems. This in highly effectual and
puts a smile on your face pronto
19. Saint
The standard variation of this family has the man sitting while kneeling
backward and the woman lying with her back on the floor and lower part of
her body lying on his lap with knees folded upward. This position allows
access to both holes together with the intent of going slower or a bit harsher
according to the choice of both partners. Tips: Both partners are face-to-
face, providing enough opportunity for kissing, licking or boobs sucking,
together with the option of body licking for the woman too. The woman on
her knees mat fastens the mobility. Otherwise, the speedy penetration isn’t
guaranteed. But the thing that is ensured is a deeper penetration with strong
clitoral stimulation together with intense rubbing when going curvy inside
the vaginal or anal hole. Moving on while rotating the hips, also helped by
the man with his hands on her hips, could make the sex more enjoyable and
enthusiastic. Mildness comes naturally by going harsh.
Benefits: This is one of the favorable positions of kneeling family as it
offers an explorative approach towards the holes together with fishy
movements.
Tips: The better options could be to explore the holes and enjoy the
feelings by tilting, changing angles and letting the partner take over.
Tips: This position could be tried with some tilt and angles to get the most
out of it.
Benefits: This position offers greater mobility with a large area of skin
touching each other and making physical contact sensational by praising the
partner.
The bent candle is another sex position in the family of kneeling sex
positions. This position is known all over the world, and very appreciated
by couples. In this position, the woman lies on the ground with her back
touching the ground and her legs up in the air, hanging straight up with the
body of her partner. On the other hand, the man is standing on her knees
with his legs folded and hands on the knees of his female partner, holding
her tightly to support her legs and making room for his penis in her pelvis.
The woman is lying straight on the ground with face and boobs up,
encouraging him to kiss and fuck thoroughly.
Tips: The man could go gently and slower, if he wants, to feel the
sensations and satisfy his partner by offloading her from cum. whereas, he
may go hard to feel the heat of the moment.
Benefits: The sex would be quite reluctant and sensational as it offers deep
penetration with straight and curvy inclusion inside the vaginal and anal
hole, allowing both partners to move fast or slow according to their choice.
The folded candle is much similar to the bent candle. It also offers the
woman lying with a straight back on the ground and her legs straighten up
in the air, touching the body of the man and giving him enormous exposure
of her holes together with the option of choosing any of the holes to go
deep. Her legs are slightly folded and leaned forward towards her abdomen.
While the man, behind her pelvis, is standing on kneeling knees and
holding her buttocks and thighs with his hands to pull her towards himself
to guarantee deep penetration.
Benefits: This position allows him to expose both of the holes and go deep
in the vaginal hole as the vagina is pretty much right in front of his penis
and waiting for the shattering by a cock. The anal hole is a bit beneath the
penis as her pelvis is lifted by the man above the ground. Therefore, it
favours the anal gaping and makes it sensational, together with strong
clitoral stimulation by rubbing of the penis with the inner lips of the vagina.
Tips: The best approach to enjoy this position is to raise her pelvis up and
tilt her lower body to make room for the penis and exposure. Trying all
angles of this position can offer to explore the beauties of sex either going
gentle or harsh, relying on mutual understanding.
Benefits: This position offers the man a lot more creativity to fasten his
strokes as he has more room for his penis to strike hard to reach the depths
of the vagina. In this way, he can make sex really hard for the woman and
make him immediately offloading with cum and satisfying her completely.
27 Split Kneeling
27. Split Kneeling
The position is quite similar for both partners. The woman is standing on a
knee, touching the ground while another crossing with a knee of the man.
The male partner is also standing in an identical situation. This position
offers both partners the sensations of the sex on knees while holding each
other tightly. The man holds her buttocks to push her forward and hug her
tightly to ingest her boobs in his chest and feel the heat of the moment. The
female partner hugs him tightly with her hands around his neck and rests
her head on his shoulder.
Tips: To go deep inside the anal hole, he must lift her a bit to make penis
inclusion possible. Going inside the anal hole could be a lot difficult but
quite amazing and sensational due to its enjoyment factor.
Benefits: The man can go forward with powerful strikes to hit deep inside
her vaginal hole and to ensure strong clitoral stimulation.
Physical intimacy is the type of intimacy involved when people are trying
to make each other orgasm. Physical intimacy is almost always required for
orgasm. Physical intimacy doesn’t necessarily mean that you are in love
with the person you are having sex with; it just means that you are doing
something intimate with another person in a physical way.
How to Increase Intimacy
For a romantic relationship to be successful, there must be several forms of
intimacy shared between the partners. Without a combination of all of the
forms of intimacy, there is nothing that sets a romantic relationship apart
from an everyday friendship.
Communication
Communication is the key in a relationship of any sort, but especially in a
romantic relationship. Communicating is the only sure way to know where
the other person stands in terms of their thoughts, feelings, and needs.
Being able to be vulnerable and open with your emotions is a requirement
for any type of intimacy, and this involves being vulnerable and open about
your needs for intimacy itself. It is necessary to share oneself with the other
person in a relationship. This mutual sharing of yourselves is what will lead
to intimacy in the first place as well as an increase in your level of
intimacy.
Blindfolded Exploration
A great way to rediscover your partner’s body, especially if you feel like
you already know it so well is to explore it blindfolded. You can make this a
sexy exploration with the blindfold being almost BDSM-like or leading up
to something bigger, or you can keep it cute and loving, whichever style
best suits you both. After setting the mood and taking your partner’s clothes
off, get them to blindfold you. Have them lie down in a comfortable
position and begin gently exploring their bodies with your hands. You can
use massage oil if you want but focus on the exploration. Exploring their
body without your sight will give you a new perspective of the body you
thought you knew so well. You will be able to feel the details you
overlooked for all these years, and once you discover them, you will have a
new image in front of your eyes every time you look at them afterward. You
can take turns doing this, having the partner that is being explored lying
down and enjoying the sensations, or you can do it together at the same
time if you wish. With both of you naked and blindfolded, get into a
comfortable position that allows all of your arms to be free to move and
leaves your body open. Lying down on your sides face-to-face is a good
position for this, and you can switch sides partway through if you wish. To
start out, focus on exploring each other with your hands and avoid focusing
too heavily on any one part of their body, we want to discover it all. Take
your time though and move gently. Once you have been doing this for a
little, you can start to kiss each other, still blindfolded, and progress to
wherever you want to go. All of these sensations will prove to be different
when blindfolded. You will have a heightened physical sensation because
your vision is not there. If you wish to have sex, try it blindfolded as well.
Oral sex and penetrative sex with a blindfold will surely help you
rediscover their body even further. As the woman, try giving your partner a
hand job while blindfolded. You will feel all of the curves and nuances to
his penis and see it in a new way perhaps. As the man, give your partner a
vulva massage and find her clitoris with your eyes covered. This will help
you to find it ever after without even looking. Feel around gently and
discover everything between her legs. Eventually, you can slip a finger
inside of her and discover her spot and what it feels like. Even though you
never actually see it, having a blindfold on will enhance your physical
sensations in general, so touching inside of her will feel different than it
does when you have your vision.
Best Positions for Intimacy
The male lies on his back, ready to do some lifting with his partner. With
his legs bent and spread apart, he acts as a makeshift cradle for his lover. On
the other hand, the woman sits atop this cradle with her back facing the
man. Her legs are either kept together or spread depending on their
difference in size. She keeps her legs raised into the air as she is supported
by the man beneath her.
Benefits: This position allows for eye-to-eye contact and kissing during
lovemaking.
Tips: She may use her hands to support her back or hold hands with her
lover as they engage in congress
As the name implies, both lovers come into the shape of a candle with the
tops aflame with passion for each other. The male stands behind his lover as
he claims her from between her buttocks. His hands are free to satisfy her
other parts such as her navel or breasts or neck
Tips: He also has the option of kissing the neck or using his hands to guide
his lover’s face to his for kisses. The female stands in front as she enjoys
her man. She may use her hands to caress from the back as well as cling to
his sides.
As the lovers face each other, the man lies on his back as he serves as a
cradle for his woman. With his legs apart, he welcomes her weight onto him
as he pleases her.
On the other hand, the woman lies atop her lover with her legs together,
making for a tighter union that brings more pleasure to the male.
Tips: With both sets of hands free, the lovers may choose to caress and rub
each other to heighten pleasure.
Tips: The woman may choose to press her hands onto her lovers’ chest or
the bed behind him for support. The male can rock his lover forward to
back as if on a wing, changing the dynamics of the lovemaking.
Tips: the complete upper sections of both parties are free to add more
variety to the lovemaking.
Tips: the man can choose to hold his lover’s leg up with his hand or use
them to pleasure the other areas of his willing partner.
With the man lying on the bed, he serves as the ride for his lover. On the
other hand, the woman squats atop the man, exposing herself and their
union to him.
In this setting, the male has both hands free to support his lover as she is in
an unusual position. His goal here is to keep her balanced as she dictates the
tempo of the congress. From the same position, the woman uses her legs to
either push her up and down or rock her back and forth on top of her lover.
Tips: It is also to be noted that both lovers should be facing each other in
this position and should make the most of this exposure through kissing and
other forms of flirting.
39. The Fire
Tips: With one hand free, the man may choose to cradle the back of his
woman or use it to please her breasts. He may also use his arms to bring the
face of his lover closer to him for a kiss.
The female bends over the table with her behind exposed to her lover. In
this position, she is pleasured from behind as she lays flat on the table with
her legs dangling off the edge.
Also a standing position like the Candle, this variation has the lovers facing
each other as they stand. Here, the male must raise his leg on a stool or
chair to keep his thigh up for his lover to sit on.
From there, the woman will wrap her legs around her lover and enjoy him
as he lifts her up and tends to her needs.
Tips: In some cases, couples may not need to use a stool or chair if the
male is strong enough to carry his own lover. This may be the case in higher
unions.
43. The Intimate Spoon
Tips: With the woman and man perpendicular to each other, they may
engage in kissing or fondling or any other of the arts mentioned in this
manual as they are no longer in a spoon.
Tips: The additional skin contact will prove to be pleasurable for both
lovers as they enjoy coital congress.
Benefits: Given this position, both pairs of arms are free to explore each
other.
What if they don’t climax? Well, then they treat the whole experience as
though they won the pot only to discover the chips can’t be cashed in.
They’re stuck with two handfuls of cheap plastic. Everyone can agree that
orgasms feel amazing. It’s a sure sign that all the elements in lovemaking
came together correctly to give that partner a moment of ecstasy.
As great as they are, it’s a huge mistake to make that the goal of
lovemaking, especially when practicing the Kama Sutra. When practicing
the techniques, the experience shouldn’t be a judge on whether or not one or
both partners experienced orgasms. In fact, they shouldn’t even be basing it
on how close they came to climaxing. Orgasms can be very elusive,
especially for women. Sometimes it might take more time than they have.
Sometimes thinking about it makes it difficult actually to have it.
Sometimes, it doesn’t happen because it just didn’t happen.
Male Orgasm Basics
The male orgasm is something that most people have witnessed or seen if
they have ever watched any sort of porn or heard about it in the media. The
male orgasm is made out to be extremely simple and easy to achieve, but in
this section, we are going to examine it in more detail and break it down
into more specific parts.
To start, are you aware that there are different types of male orgasms? If
you are a male, you are likely aware of this, but if you are a female, you
may not be. The term male orgasm includes any and every type of orgasm
that involves the male’s genitals.
Orgasm and Ejaculation
Ejaculation and orgasm for males are two distinct events, even though they
most often happen at the same time. This fact makes them often
misunderstood, as many think that ejaculation is a sign of orgasm. If orgasm
occurs and ejaculation occurs at the same time, this is called an ejaculatory
orgasm.
There is another type of orgasm, one that happens when ejaculation does
not. As you likely guessed, this type is called a non-ejaculatory orgasm.
This is sometimes called a dry orgasm as well, and this type is also very
normal. A man can achieve orgasm without ejaculation, and this still counts
as an orgasm.
How to Stimulate the Prostate to Achieve Orgasm
Once you have found the prostate, you can begin to massage this area and
let the sensations build gently. Keep going like this and find out what type
of movements or pressure feels best. As you continue to stimulate it, let the
pleasure make until the point of orgasm. When you are comfortable with
this spot, try having your partner encourage it for you. Having someone
else’s hands touch it for you will feel different than your own, and with
your free hand, you can turn yourself and your partner on in other ways.
Once you have found the clitoris, you will then be able to stimulate it to
achieve orgasm. Begin by gently placing two fingers on it and putting a bit
of pressure. Rub it by moving your fingers in small circles-making sure to
be gentle. Continue to do this, and she should begin to get more aroused the
more you do this. By rubbing the clitoris, you will be able to stimulate the
entire clitoris, even the part of it that you cannot see, and this will cause the
woman to start to become wet in her vaginal area for her body to prepare
for sex.
How to Stimulate the G-Spot to Achieve Orgasm
To give a woman pleasure by stimulating her G-Spot, you will need to press
on it over and over again until she reaches orgasm. The G-Spot needs to
receive continued and consistent stimulation for the pleasure to build
enough for her to reach orgasm. This can be done using your fingers, a
penis, or sex toys of a variety of sorts.
Since a woman can have two different types of orgasms, one from
stimulating the clitoris and a different one from penetration or hitting the G-
spot, this could be why a woman can reach orgasm during oral sex, or by
having her clitoris stimulated, but has trouble reaching the same level of
pleasure during penetrative sex. In many positions, the G-spot is not
stimulated by the man’s penis, and this can result in the woman having
some amount of pleasure, but not enough to reach orgasm. For a great
experience as a couple, knowing what makes the woman feel great is
paramount.
Chapter 6. Kama Sutra Positions for
Male Orgasms
The man's penis actually covers the woman's obvious vulva. Her thighs are
up to the degree of the man's shoulders, whose plunges deeply and
forcefully into her so she can experience his member's dimension and
length all the better. The lady can stroke the man's buttocks with her fingers
all through "The Bull's Blast" phase. The strong thrusts of the man
determine the growing sexual strength of the lady alongside the spine.
The man lies to his wife. She holds his legs, equipped to take him up to the
hilt. He insinuates himself softly and profoundly rooted internal of her,
cuddling her there, stroking her back, thighs, breasts. She stretches her legs
and opens them barely to yield herself to the wants of her lover even in
addition so that she can give her vulva to the glans and penis shaft fully.
Even in the same role, the male lover can also have enjoyable with his
lover's anal opening, if he knows she loves anal penetrations. In this way,
the woman can loosen up in the first-rate possible way, and the man has
complete manipulate over his penis' penetration into the moist and confined
opening that she gives him with love and trust. He holds her by her thighs,
can bite her throat, and brush over her breasts with his hands, whilst
thrusting ever deeper. The man's urge is entire in both cases and of a
lengthy length.
Lying on the floor, legs interlacing, the man and woman flip to every other
with their backs. However, for certain men, whose brief and thick penis can
solely be flexed with difficulty, the specific effect of this role can be
incredibly painful. In the continuation of this role, the woman, who now
retains her balance with one arm going through her lover and who is
supported on the physique of the man, is solely titillated by means of the
glans at the entrance of her vagina. It is, of course, simply foreplay to
deeper coitus. The guy inserts his erect penis into the vagina by using softly
shifting to one side. Now the vagina is geared up to acquire it in full.
Benefits: The function is suitable for these fanatics who are beginners in
the art of regulating sexual energy. "The caress of the bud" position
provides lovers with the opportunity of becoming more aware of the degree
of gratification and, as a consequence, it through stopping the movement
when they experience that they are shut to the climax.
Holding on her arms and soles, the female raises her pelvis to allow the man
to insert his penis into her vagina. Being kneeled, he may seize his lover's
waist with one or both hands. The female should shift her pelvis softly,
matching her step with the coming and going of the man's movements. To
take up the full erectile length of her lover's cock, she has to unfold more
often than not her legs.
Tips: If the man feels close to the ejaculatory orgasm, he has to end shifting
and center of attention his interest in the location of the heart to sublimate
the sexual energy. This can be achieved for the girl too.
Benefits: This position helps lovers to seem at one another-seeing how their
appeal rises and sharing their love.
Facing her, with his chest pushing on her breasts, the man plunges into the
vagina of the girl with full loins thrusts
The female receives him with broadly unfold thighs right up to the hilt.
Even if there is consistency between the dimension of the woman's vagina
and the dimension of the man's penis, then the woman will attain the
cervical-uterine orgasm that is usually for the tantric orgasm. Contrary to all
assumptions, the female in this function needs to no longer be passive. She
has to hold close the man's buttocks and press his pelvis on hers to assist
him in reaching deep into her.
Tips: This position in the art of sexual continence is now not recommended
for beginners in view that it encourages the awareness of sexual energy in
the genital region.
Benefits: This role favours the entire intimacy of the lovers' genital zones.
On her back, the female spreads her legs. Her husband grips her knees, and
she's pressured to unfold her legs even further. Having her legs spread like
this, she can in no way fight against his invasion. He can explore her to the
content of his core-gently with the complete length of his penis or-which
will stimulate her urge for food for more-he can aggressively insert and
withdraw his member.
Tips: Both lovers ought to pay attention to their attention all through the
"Open Pincer" position to direct the fundamental and sexual strength
alongside the spine till the crown.
56. "The TOP" Position
Within that role, the lady should now not be passive. Through preserving
the thighs of the man, she will press his pelvis on hers, supporting him to
penetrate deeply into her.
Similar to the position of "Moving the nail home," "The peak" role in the
art of sexual continence is not endorsed for beginners as it encourages the
concentration of sexual power in the genital region. This is why the man
must make gradual movements and middle his attention in the cardiac
plexus to regulate the sexual electricity and end the ejaculation.
Similar to "the top" position, this position gives each fan intense pleasure,
and it favours the accumulation of sexual strength in the genital region.
The fans want to focal point their interest in the center of the forehead to
sublimate the sexual electricity. It extends their control energy over the
sexual energy.
When the man feels shut to the ejaculatory orgasm, he ought to pause his
movements for a few seconds and focus his interest on the crown to direct
the sexual energy through the spine to the crown.
In this place, the female is not passive. Holding the man's thighs, she pulls
the man's pelvis toward her to reach deeper in his thrusts. The robust thrusts
of the man in this position might also provoke the awakening of the
Kundalini of the woman. Lovers must discover their effective rhythm,
which generates their Kundalini power's awakening.
Tips: Both lovers have to middle their energies in the discipline of the heart
to sublimate the sexual electricity into greater refined sorts of energy. When
the girl senses that her lover is getting close to the climax, she has to cease
the man's actions and press firmly in the center of the brow with her thumb.
Benefits: The "row" role offers both lovers huge pleasure and amplifies the
sexual energy. This is why newbie in the art of sexual continence
lovemaking need to not to proceed the intercourse with it.
The girl experiences his lover proper up to the hilt with thighs broadly
spread. The man can explore her to the core of his heart-gently with the
complete size of his penis, or-which will expand his appetite for more-he
can violently insert and withdraw his penis.
Benefits: This role favours the whole intimacy of the lovers' genital zones.
That is why the man should quit his motions when he reaches the pre-
orgasmic stage and listen to his interest in the cardiac plexus to direct the
sexual energy.
Chapter 7. Kama Sutra Positions for
Female Orgasms
The woman will lie down on her back with her legs open. The man will
kneel in front of her pelvis and penetrate her. He will take one leg and
bring it up slowly to that it points the ceiling. He can then place it on his
shoulder or wrap his arm around it.
63. Jugghead
The man is going to lie down either beside a couch or bed while keeping
his back on the floor. The man will put his legs up on the bed or sofa. The
woman will position herself above the man while being on all fours with
an arm and a leg on each side of him. The man is going to lift his lower
back and crotch off the floor so he can penetrate you. The woman will sit
on his penis and thrust herself back into him.
Tips: The woman can thrust as hard as you want or just let him push into
you while you take it easy.
70. Scissors
The woman will lie down on her side with her legs on top of each other.
Now she will raise one leg and bend it slightly so the man can get to her
vagina easily. The man is going to be lying on his side, too. He will be
positioned so that his head is near your feet. He will slide his lower leg
under her lower leg near her crotch. Now, he will place his top leg over her
lower leg and move closer until he is able to penetrate her.
This places her lower leg in between his legs. The woman will be facing
away from the man while he is facing her back. Once he is comfortable,
and inside the woman, he will begin thrusting.
73. Flatiron
The woman is going to lie down on her side with her legs together and
slightly bent. If she is flexible enough, she can rotate her upper body to
slightly face the man. It makes intimacy better. The man will be on his
knees and will penetrate from behind.
74. Anvil
The woman should lie down on her back. Don’t leave the legs on the bed,
but pull them as close as you can to your legs. The man will position
himself over her. He isn’t going to rest on the elbows but rest on his hands.
Your man can help you position your legs so your ankles are resting on his
shoulders. The man will then begin thrusting in and out as fast or slow as
he wants.
75. Butterfly
The woman is going to lie down on the bed or table on her back and lift her
hips. The man will come up and penetrate the woman. The woman can
then place her ankles over the man’s shoulder or just place then against his
chest or at his waist. Just find a position that works best for you.
Benefits: In this position, the penetration will be extremely deep for her.
76. Crisscross
The woman is going to lie down on her back on a table or bed. She is
going to raise her legs and point them toward the ceiling. The man is going
to come up to her and enter her. After he has penetrated her, she will keep
her legs straight and then cross them slowly.
Tips: It might be easiest to just cross her legs at the ankle. If this is too
hard, you could just place them on his chest.
77. Sandwich
The woman will lie down on her back, and the man will penetrate her, just
like in the missionary position. Instead of putting her legs on the bed, she
will bring them up toward her chest while leaving them open. The man’s
arms are going to be around her shoulders. He will now bring them down
and place them under her knees and lift them to change up the angle of
penetration.
The woman might have to adjust how wide she spreads her legs until she
finds a position that feels best for her. From that point, she will just lean
back into the man and thrust into him. Until you get used to this position,
you can do this in front of the bed so you can rest your weight on the bed
rather than her hands.
Benefits: This position gives much deeper penetration just by changing the
angle of your back slightly. Your hands are also free to stimulate your
clitoris.
Tips: The hardest part of this position is finding the right piece of furniture.
You are both going to be sitting in the exact same position. The best things
would be a footrest or wide stool that will hold both of you.
Chapter 8. Sex Toys
Sex Toys for Him
Cock Ring
A cock ring was originally designed to keep a man’s penis harder for a
longer period of time. It does this because it is a ring made of metal that sits
at the base of a man’s penis, which helps to keep the blood flow inside of
the penis for longer, which maintains an erection. These cock rings can be
as tight or as loose as the man is comfortable with, as they come in a variety
of sizes. This will also increase the man’s pleasure as he will last longer.
Flashlight
Clitoral vibrators are small and compact, portable, and easy to use. This
type of vibrator is turned on with the push of a button, and then you can
hold it to your clitoris for quick and intense clitoral pleasure in a way like
nothing else. Having something that is designed to be used on your clitoris
that is also vibrating at speeds much higher than your hands could ever
reach will be quite a new sensation, but one that you won’t soon forget and
will be quite eager to have again.
There is another type of vibrator that is a little larger than a clitoral vibrator,
and that also has an extra protruding piece on the side of it which can be
inserted into the vagina so that you can have both vaginal penetration (so
that you can stimulate your G-Spot) as well as vibrating, clitoral
stimulation. This type is called a bunny ears vibrator since the portion that
you insert into your vagina looks a little bit like bunny ears. With this
shape, you can feel both of these types of pleasure at the same time! This
will be a new world of pleasure for you as you may never have had both
your clitoris and your G-Spot stimulated at the same time.
Vibrating Dildo
Dildo
A dildo can be used in the vagina or the anus, whichever you prefer, and
you can use the same dildo for both of these places, so you don’t need to
buy two. If you want to use your dildo during a solo session, you can insert
it into your anus in a similar way as you would insert it into your vagina.
Just be sure that when switching between the anus and the vagina, you
thoroughly clean the dildo and/or your hands to prevent the chance of an
infection.
Sex Positions and Sex Toys: How to Correctly Combine Them
Sex toys can make familiar postures vivid and memorable. But what
intimate things to apply in certain positions? How to use them so that they
help, rather than interfere with the process? You can use sex toys in any
position, in different circumstances. But somewhere, a mini-vibrator that
works silently and does not attract attention will be more appropriate, but
somewhere a massager that connects to the network would be more useful.
When used, the sensations will be different, and it's interesting! With
intimate little things you will never get bored in bed, even after 10 years of
living together.
Mini vibrator.
The small vibrator can simply be driven through the body. Additional breast
caresses will please her, but it will be most interesting when the toy touches
the clitoris. Of course, the lady will have to keep such a thing in her hands,
but then she can easily regulate the force, vibration intensity and range of
motion. The ideal solution is a vibrator with three shaking legs that can
“hug” her nipples, clitoris or even ears.
Anatomical massager
A convenient thing that can be located between the bodies. The main
impact is on the clitoris of the girl, but you can also pick up the massager
and start driving along the neck, back, or other parts of the body. An ideal
model that repeats the bends of the body without obstructing the usual
movements. A lot of modes, a waterproof case and a quiet motor will not let
you get bored.
Clitoral vibrator
Pleasant stimulation of the most tender point of the body, she will like it. So
that the bodies do not move away from each other, we recommend taking a
mini vibrator for the clitoris. Gradually, you can increase the speed of
frictions and the vibration power of a sex toy, so that the finale is simply
enchanting. Of course, this thing will help exactly the girl to have fun, but
sometimes this is what is required in the couple.
Electrical stimulator.
The form of an electric stimulator can be any: from phallic to unusual.
There are even gloves with electrical stimulation. The impact occurs in
small discharges of current. It is easy to adjust the impact force, wavelength
and repetition rate. Light impacts are like tickling, strong ones resemble
pulsation. The application is safe, but it is important to monitor the feelings
of the partner. If you want to play on the verge of pleasure and pain,
electrical stimulators will help!
Vibro-bullet
A vibrating bullet is a vibrator no larger than a finger. In length, it rarely
reaches more than 8 cm, the diameter is also insignificant. Most often used
to caress the outer zones, rarely immersed in the body. It fits easily between
bodies, does not interfere with movement. At the same time, it does not
cause jealousy in the partner, because it visually looks harmless, does not
resemble the phallus. But at the same time, it can work at different speeds,
have a very strong motor. The control can be buttons, from a control panel
with a cord or with a remote control.
Butt plug
Anal toys complement intimacy in a pose when the woman is on top. But
you can choose not just a cork, but anal rhinestones. This is a bung with a
beautiful crystal at the base. If a girl sits with her back to her partner, then
he will see not only her body, but also a charming stone in her anus. By the
way, with the help of such a cork it is easy to prepare for anal sex.
This is one of the most popular and classic oral sex positions for men
because it lets them watch their partner perform blowjob while she is on her
knees in front of him. It gives the man a good view, and he can even use his
hand to guide the back of her head and thrust his penis into her mouth. This
is a good position for the lady because it makes her neck long and nice,
which is good for deep-throating, not choking
90. Sideways 69
91. Corkscrew
The man is going to stand while you kneel in front of him. Hold the base of
the penis in both hands. Place his penis in your mouth and tilt your head
from side to side as you work up and down their penis.
Best Kama Sutra Oral Sex Positions for Her
92. The 69 Position – A Classic with a Twist
The 69 is a classic sex position most couples would have either heard about,
or no doubt tried themselves several times. Traditionally, the 69 got its
name because of the way our bodies are positioned when we perform this
move. Couples look exactly like the number 69, with partners facing each
other in an inverted fashion. In this move, both partners will start by lying
on their sides, facing each other but not directly. One partner’s head will be
towards the top of the bed, the other at the bottom. As you bring your
bodies together, your face gets closer to your partner’s genitals.
The 69 is one of the best equal side-by-side sex positions you can perform.
It gives you a good view of your partner’s genitals (which turn you on), and
you’re both in control of pleasuring the other. Mutually giving each other an
oral at the same time allows you to feed off each other’s energy and
pleasure as you get closer to the edge of release. This is the perfect position
for those who get horny when they see their partner being pleasured and
who get turned on by the sound of their partner moaning.
For a twist on this classic when you’re feeling adventurous, try flipping the
69 on its back. For the woman, sitting on the man’s face can be extremely
pleasurable because it puts him in the position to give her great oral while
she controls how much pressure she feels. For the man, flipping the 69 on
its back leaves your hands free to roam all over her body as you drive her
crazy with your oral skills.
The man will lie down on his back as the woman sits on his face. Her body
will be facing down on the man’s as he starts licking and kissing her clit,
maybe even massaging her buttocks as he does. The woman will die down
along the man’s body, holding herself up with her arms, in the perfect
position to begin giving the man an oral at the same time.
With the woman on top, she can adjust her position to her liking to give the
man intense fellatio while he stimulates her clit with his tongue and fingers.
At the point when she's nearly peeking through oral sex, rapidly give her
flick on the clitoris using your tongue. You should ensure the clitoral hood
is off the way for a good sensation. Be delicate and make snappy
movements with your tongue here and there the clit. Most men commit the
error, thinking the clit is simply little nerve finishing in a little area in her
body. By doing the oral flick you covering more zone of her and make
vibrations that convey the sensation past the reach of your tongue
This position is an all-get to go to the vulva. The one who receives will lay
level on their back with their butt directly at the edge of the
bed/counter/lounge chair. The provider stoops (or stands, contingent upon
stature) on the floor facing their vulva.
The provider can stick a pad under their knees for additional cushioning. In
the event that you need, the one who receives can put their feet on the
provider’s shoulders for balance, or they can allow dangling their legs. This
position opens up the provider's hands for tongue sex, nipple stimulation, or
penetration.
95. Saddle Straddle
If your partner is dominant, they are going to love straddling you while you
suck and stroke their penis. You can use both your hands and twist up and
down their penis while licking around the head.
96. Swiper
Ask your partner to create some suction on your clit by putting their mouth
over your labia and clit. Now ask them to shake their heads in circles, side
to side, and change up from slow and fast. This will mimic the way many of
us masturbate. You can place your bottom on some pillows to give them
better access.
98 Shark Fin
98. Shark Fin
Because oral sex can’t be done underwater, the woman needs to lay down
with her hips at the edge of the tub. She will open your legs but keep your
feet in the water and enjoy everything your partner is doing to you.
99. Butterball
This position is great for oral but for rim jobs, too. Make sure whoever is
receiving, is showered and fresh. They will lie down with their knees pulled
up to their chests. This still allows the “doer” to reach the clitoris and
breasts of the “receiver.” If the male is the receiver, the woman can play
will his butt, testicles, and penis. If you don’t have dental dams close by,
you could grab a sandwich bag or plastic wrap.
Chapter 10. Orgasm without
Penetration
Best Positions and Tips
100. The Modified Handjob
The modified handjob requires the use of two hands instead of just one. The
penis is handled in the normal handjob position while the other hand assists
in stroking the shaft or stimulating the balls.
104. Breastfucking
This position is included in the tactile category as there is no actual
penetration happening during this act.
Basically, the woman squeezes her breasts together to form a cavity which
the penis can “penetrate.” This act may require proper lubrication as the
lack of it can result in chafing of the skin.
Further stimulation can be achieved by allowing the penis to enter into the
woman’s mouth as the man “thrusts in.” Since this act requires the use of
the mammaries, it is only logical that the bigger the woman’s breasts are,
the better the act is performed.
Relax
As the lady, you really want to make sure you relax your muscles and take
deep breaths. Go slow and take care not to tense up out of fear. In order to
help reduce tensing up due to fear, make sure you follow the next step
carefully.
Start Small
Especially if you are brand new to anal, as in an anal virgin, you will want
to start very small. Using plenty of lube, and a small toy or his pinky finger,
he can gently work his way into your bum and help you relax the muscles.
He should move slowly and at your discretion, to ensure you are prepared
for every step.
Go Slow
Aside from working your way up slowly, all movements should be slow as
well. Once you’re used to it, and have more confidence in the experience,
you can start going faster. But every single anal experience should start with
slow movements and shallow penetration. From there, he can choose how
deep and quick he will go, based on how she feels.
C i t
Communicate
This is the one time you especially want to communicate well during sex.
The lady should always be telling the gentleman if what he is doing is okay,
and he should not be doing anything she doesn’t like or that hurts her. You
can even enforce a safe word that means you stop completely if one party is
not enjoying themselves or is hurt by it.
Use Additional Stimulation
Anal feels a lot better for a lady if she is being stimulated beyond just
through the butt. Rubbing her clitoris and nibbling on her upper shoulders
or neck can greatly enhance her experience. As well, having her focus on a
pleasurable stimulation taking place elsewhere on her body can help her
further relax her muscles and enjoy the experience.
Don’t Go from Butt to Vagina
Never go from butt to vagina. Whether it is a finger, his penis, or a toy,
nothing should ever penetrate the anus and then the vagina. This can lead to
infections that are not enjoyable for anyone.
If You Absolutely Hate It, Stop
The first time or two can be extremely not enjoyable for the female, but
eventually it can start feeling better. However, that being said, it should be
noticeably better with each experience. If it is clearly not getting better, or it
is getting worse, and one or both aren’t enjoying it, then stop. You don’t
need to do it just because! Sex should always be fun and pleasurable for
both lovers involved.
Anal Sex Position for First Time
This is by far a popular choice for tоо mаnу couples. It is like spooning but
оn thе belly. The girl will need to lie down on her stomach and she can
spread her legs apart tо gіvе her man the ample amount of room to
penetrate her.
The man needs to lie right on the top of his partner and face the same
direction. After sufficient lubrication, he can then push his penis inside and
give you the pleasure you have been seeking.
Benefits: This is one of the powerful anal sex positions which is likely to
give you both a lot of thrill.
Benefits: This form of sex has the potential to get rough as your man could
do all he wishes since you are bent on the table and can only moan and
shriek in pleasure and pain.
Best Anal Sex Positions
109. The Curled Angel
This sex move is a variation of the sexy spoons position. It allows for
intimate closeness, and gives both parties the ability to control the speed
and depth of penetration. It works by having the lady laying on whichever
side is most comfortable for her. She should have her knees pulled up
towards her chest, exposing her bottom to him. The gentleman can then
slide in behind her, holding her with his arms, and tuck his legs up under
hers. From there, he can penetrate her, and they can work together to
control the penetration and intimacy involved in this position.
This is an intimate woman on top position that allows both lovers to engage
in a sensual make out session at the same time. It works by having the
gentleman sitting up, then leaning back on his hands. His knees can either
be bent up to create a seat for her, or his legs can be stretched out to give
her free space. Then, the lady can straddle over top of him with a leg on
either side of his waist, and guide his penis to penetrate her from behind.
Tips: she can proceed to control the depth, speed and rhythm,
Benefits: Both lovers enjoy a deep and loving gaze, or a sexy make out
session.
This intimate face to face position is one of the best for anal sex. It is a man
on top position that allows for deep penetration, but due to the angle it can
inadvertently cause g-spot stimulation at the same time. Ideally, you should
have a pillow involved to make this a more comfortable position. To get
into form, start by having the lady lay on her back with the cushion under
the small of her back holding her bum up in the air. Her knees should be
bent with her feet firmly on the bed, helping hold her up and exposed. The
gentleman can then slide in between her legs and penetrate her, while she
hugs him. For added stimulation, she can use a free hand to rub her clitoris.
This is a very sensual position for anal sex that is excellent for a romantic
anal experience.
Lay back on the bed with your feet raised all the way up and your ankles
crossed behind your head. Now he can get into the missionary position and
thrust back and forth.
Benefits: Before trying this, you may want to stretch a little! This will
really hit your G-spot and your hands will be free to stimulate your clitoris.
Benefit: This is particularly good for woman who don’t normally come by
penetration on its own. It is almost guaranteed to give a woman a deep
satisfying orgasm.
Benefits: This position works great if you sometimes find that direct
clitoral stimulation is too much. Pull up your pubic area whilst he does this
to feel the full sensation.
120. Bridge
Begin by having your man lay across two objects (bed and chair) leaving
his mid-section un-suspended acting as a ‘bridge’ between the two. Start by
sitting on him from the side then slowly bring your leg over so you are now
facing away from him. Keep thrusting a few times in between turns.
Benefits: This one is really good fun to try and just getting into the position
can result it lots of laughter. To carry this off properly your partner must
have good upper body strength.
Benefits: Both partners are able to control the speed at which they go and
they can control how deep the penetration is. This can be tricky as you must
remain balance throughout.
123. Leg Up
You stand facing one another. She raises one of her legs up and wraps it
around your waist or thigh and squeezes to pull you in closer.
Lie on the bed with your legs hanging off the edge, shift your bum forward
until that is also off the end. Your man will kneel in front of you and
penetrate you. No push up onto your toes and arch your back. Get your man
to hold your bum and then he can begin to thrust.
Benefits: This position is great when you are focusing on your man
however pushing onto your toes can heighten your orgasm. In this position
it is very easy to hit the G-spot just by slightly changing the arch in your
back.
Benefits: This position gives really deep penetration and your partner will
have his hands free to feel your boobs or clitoris
Benefits: Each time he squats it will be like he is entering you for the first
time over and over again.
Benefits: It can really hit your G-spot and by bringing your legs closer
together your man will feel fuller inside you.
Benefits: Being on top is great for the female orgasm whichever way you
do it, by your partner having his knees up he will feel fuller inside you.
Benefits: You are able to control the depth of penetration and speed.
Benefits: This position can create intimacy as you can look into each
other’s eyes. He will also have a great view of your breasts. This may be
difficult to master as your arms can get tired easily, however the orgasm
that can be achieved in this position can be extremely powerful.
133. Erotic V
Begin by sitting down on the edge of a table or desk. Have your partner
stand in front of you and crouch down slightly so he can enter you. Put your
arms around his neck and slowly pull one leg up at a time onto your
partner’s shoulders.
Benefits: You are both able to look at each other whilst doing it making it
much more intimate. Lean back and have your partner hold your bum for
more support.
The man and woman begin by sitting facing each other. You must shuffle
forward until you can wrap your legs around his torso. The man can now
enter you, have him wrap one leg over you to hold you in place. To make
the position steadier have him hold his weight on his elbow and you must
hold your weight leaning back onto your hands.
Benefits: You will be controlling the movement and speed at which things
happen. Your partner can also kiss your back and neck which can feel great
with his penis inside you.
Benefits: Similar to some other sex positions this can give a lot of laughs
when trying to get into the position. You must be strong enough to hold
your partners weight so this may not be suitable if your partner is a lot
bigger than you.
Benefits: Great for you as you do not have to do any work. The angle of
your pelvic area will provide extremely deep penetration, really hitting your
G-spot.
Why: The head of the penis is directly rubbing against the G spot, as the
name of this sex position suggests. By concentrating on this sensitive spot,
the woman can reach her climax. In addition, because of the limited
thrusting and penetration, the man can last longer before he, too reaches his
climax.
Chapter 13. Menstrual Cycle and Sex
Menstrual Cycle Basics
During a woman’s younger years, she will get her period every month.
Period is the casual term for menstruation, and it is how it will be referred
to hereafter. Once a month, if a woman does not get pregnant, she will get
her period, which involves the lining of her uterus being shed. This makes
way for the possibility of pregnancy the next month, as the uterus will
develop a new lignin over the month. A period usually lasts about a week
and involves skin cells and blood being shed through the vagina. The reason
for this is that there is extra skin and blood that accumulate in the uterus to
prepare for a possible pregnancy, but it will only last for one month at a
time.
Benefits and How it Affects Sex
If a woman is comfortable, there is no problem with her having sex during
her period. There is nothing that says that a woman should not, and it will
not hurt the man or the woman. As long as neither of them is afraid of
blood, the only difference will be the mess that it will cause. Women
actually tend to have a much higher sex drive during their periods and
during the week leading up to it.
There are some benefits that come from having sex on your period. One of
these benefits is that having sex while on your period can actually offer
relief from the pain of period cramps. Period cramps can be very painful,
and anything that makes them feel better is a welcome suggestion,
especially when it feels as good as sex will. This result is because of the
orgasm. The chemicals that are released in the brain make you feel happy
and also have pain relief functions. The other reason is that an orgasm
makes the uterus contract and then release. The release part of this will
likely make a woman feel better than she did before in terms of cramps.
The man stands with his back to the running water with the woman standing
in front of him, facing away from him. The woman then bends forward and
can put her hands on the edge of the tub or the wall of the shower for
support. The man slides his penis into her from behind, grabbing onto her
hips for a deeper thrust, and then they are ready to go for it. This position
has a good chance of the man being able to hit the woman’s G-spot with his
penis, so this position will be greatly enjoyed by the woman. The warmth
and the wet environment of the shower are sure to make for an
unforgettable sexual encounter.
To get into this position, the man will get on his knees on the floor (on
towels or sheets for ease of cleaning) and sit back on his heels. The woman
will sit on his lap, facing him, and put his penis inside of her. She will keep
her feet planted on the floor and use the balls of her feet to bounce herself
up and down on the man’s penis. This position is great because the woman
is hovering over the floor and this will allow for most of the blood to land
there instead of all over the bed or the man.
Things to Keep in Mind
There are a few things to keep in mind if you and your partner decide that
you wish to have sex on your period.
1. Blood Stains
Ensure that before you begin, if you are going to have sex anywhere outside
of the bathtub or the shower, that you put down a lot of towels or something
that will be able to absorb the blood. If you get it on your white bed sheets,
it will stain. Keep I mind as well that whatever towels you choose to lay
down will also likely be stained, so be sure to choose those that you don’t
need to keep freshly white.
2. Self-Consciousness
Having sex during her period may make a woman feel self-conscious.
Keeping this in mind is important as she may feel sensitive about her body
or the amount of blood that is involved.
4. Tampons
Tampons that are forgotten about when having sex can cause a problem. If
you were wearing a tampon before having sex, ensure that you remove it
before a penis or fingers are inserted into the vagina. Otherwise, the tampon
will need to be removed by a doctor.
5. You Can Still Get Pregnant
While the chances are lower during your period, you can still become
impregnated during your period. It is difficult to say at what point your
body will be ready to conceive during your period, so taking adequate
precautions is necessary.
Chapter 14. Sexual Fantasies
A sexual fantasy is something that a person imagines or dreams of doing or
taking part in, in a sexual context. This fantasy is something that, when
imagined, leads the person to become sexually aroused. A sexual fantasy
will commonly involve something that you would not regularly have the
chance to do. For example, it could be something like having sex with a jail
guard as their inmate. In this case, this is not something that you would
likely do, but you fantasize about doing it as it arouses you.
Common Sexual Fantasies
Sexual fantasies often come in the form of role play. Like the example
above, a sexual fantasy often needs to be acted out, such as one person
playing the role of the jail guard and the other playing the part of the
inmate. This is a common sexual fantasy, and this brings us to the first
category of sexual fantasies.
Power Dynamic Fantasies
Many fantasies and role plays involve some type of power dynamic, where
one person has control over the other or is in an authoritative role, while
their partner is submissive to them.
Kink
Another common type of sexual fantasy involves kink. This can include
things like restricted movement from being tied up, being spanked or
spanking their partner, or having sex wearing specific things like leather or
fur.
Fetishes
The final category that we will look at involves fetishes. This can be
something like fantasizing about having someone suck on your toes,
fantasizing about peeing on someone or having them pee on you, wishing to
have sex in a large group, or wanting to have sex with a mask on.
As I’m sure you can see, the different categories of sexual fantasies involve
a lot of overlap, which. Is why they are most often referred to as the general
umbrella of “sexual fantasies?”
Best Sexual Fantasies for Beginners Who Want to Try New Things
Now that you understand sexual fantasies, I am going to share some
common sexual fantasies that are great for beginners who are looking to
spice up their sex life a little bit.
The Photo Shoot
The first example of a sexual fantasy comes in the form of a role play. This
role play is The Photo Shoot role play. In this role play, one person will play
the model, and one person will play the photographer. You can begin acting
out how a regular photoshoot would go, with one person posing for photos
clothed in front of the camera. The photographer can tell the model what
poses they want to see. As it progresses, the photographer can tell the model
to take off some items of clothing, or the model can do this on their own. As
they take more layers of clothing off, the photographer can ask them to do
more and more sensual positions for the camera. Eventually, the
photographer can go in to help them get undressed, or when they are fully
naked, the photographer can step in to help the model move their body into
poses they want to see. With the touch barrier broken, they can then
continue to touch each other. The model can position themselves in
positions with their legs spread, their but out their breasts towards the
camera, anything. This will eventually progress to the photographer
touching the model, and sex ensues.
Public Sex
Some sexual fantasies involve having sex in new or nerve-wracking
locations. One example of this is public sex. This can involve having sex in
a movie theatre, in an alleyway, in a boardroom of the office, and so on.
Maybe you fantasize about this while having sex at home in your bedroom,
or maybe you take it to the actual place that you fantasize about and try it
for real!
Handcuffs/Tying Up
Handcuffs are a sexy and simple introduction to the world of restraint and
domination that you have probably heard of before. This is a great place to
start because the person being restricted can still express their desires and
wishes for pleasure, but the other person is ultimately in charge of what
they choose to agree to and what they do not. Because both partners can
still see and talk to each other, they can communicate throughout, telling the
other person how to touch them and what they like. The fact that one
partner is in control will be the thing that makes both of you go wild with
desire.
Chapter 15. Best Sex Positions Not In
The Bed
The male should find a secure chair and sit on it. The female can position
herself facing towards the male with her legs either side of him. The female
should then lower herself on to his penis for penetration. Once inserted, the
male should use his hands to support the female behind her back and
bottom. The female should then slowly lean backwards until her head is on
the floor. While performing, the male should take care to support the
female’s weight. However, the female should take care to move slowly to
ensure that the male is not experiencing any strain or discomfort.
Tips: This position requires penile flexibility, else thеrе іѕ а rіѕk оf thе male
straining his suspensor ligaments! If уоu wаnt tо fіnd оut if thе male’s penis
іѕ flexible еnоugh, hаvе him ѕtаnd аgаіnѕt а wall. Рull his penis gradually
down. If the penis саn point directly down to the ground wіthоut causing
pain thеn уоu ѕhоuld bе fine tо perform thіѕ position, but still bе careful.
The female should stay still when the male is initially penetrating her and
guide the penis to the vagina. The female should wait while he finds the
most comfortable position and angle to thrust without injury.
А pillow ѕhоuld аlѕо bе uѕеd оn thе floor tо comfort thе female’s hеаd
during sex. The male should sit in a sturdy chair. The female can then climb
on top with her legs either side of him. She should lean back until her head
is on the floor.
Tips: She can also help take some of the strain off of him but bouncing
back onto him instead of having him do all the work.
Tips: She can place her hands over his or on a surface in front of her.
Benefits: The position is great for a couple who wants to have a quickie.
Tips: This position is best if the lady is flexible, as it requires her to have
her legs stretched out straight to either side. The man will have free hands,
so he can rub her thighs or massage her breasts while she rides him.
Benefits: It allows for deep penetration, and for the woman to control the
speed and rhythm, as well as where she is being stimulated by him.
To start, have the female lay back over a piece of furniture, with her feet
firmly on the floor. Then, he can come in between her legs and penetrate
her.
Tips: Depending on the height of the furniture, he may or may not have to
get down on his knees to be at the same height as her. He can hold her
hands, stimulate her clitoris, massage her breasts, or do anything they
desire.
Benefits: This position takes control away from the female entirely and
gives it to the male. It is perfect for hitting the g-spot, and gives the
gentleman the ability to use his spare hand to stimulate her clitoris at the
same time, ensuring she will achieve a mind-blowing orgasm. Bonus points
if they both orgasm at the same time!
She starts off lying down, and he will lean over her. She wraps her arms
around his neck and her legs around his waist once he enters you. He then
wraps his arms around her and brings her to a standing position.
Tips: He can grab her butt to help move her up and down.
Benefits: This is a standing position that does not use a couch, bed, or wall.
Chapter 16. Level Up Hard-Core Sex
Positions
In Free limbo, the woman should lean backwards and support herself on the
bed using her hands. When positioning herself, she should be careful to be
slow enough to ensure that she does not over-strain his man's penis. Once in
the perfect position, she has to thrust her body up and down slowly with the
aid of her legs. The woman can also be able to grind the man by moving her
hips backwards and forwards in relatively slow motion. On the other hand,
the man should always make sure that he is comfortable and enjoys himself
without any much pressure on his penis. He can decide to hold onto your
hips and move them back and forth as you grind him. This sex position is so
intimate since it entails both partners facing each other. It is also a very easy
style to execute as it has no major complications if it is done in the right
way.
151. L train
151. L train
This is basically said in the name. The letter that is made in this position is
the letter L. This position is almost similar to the doggy style. There is a
difference between the doggy style and this position here since the woman
instead of positioning themselves in a dog walking style the woman lies on
the side. After the woman has lied on their side then the man goes behind
her and kneels. Here he positions himself near the sexual area of the woman
who is his partner. The man then positions the woman’s leg into an L letter.
In this position, the woman is comfortable without having to kneel and bend
their backs. This is very uncomfortable for the woman and this position,
therefore, makes the woman’s work easy. Remember for pleasure to be
found there must be a lot of comfortability. So this position has readily
provided that. The L position also allows the man to penetrate more than in
most sex position, therefore, it is really a good position. It also allows the
man to hit the woman’s g-spot just like in the doggy style position. If one
needs to make the woman sexually satisfied you can always trust that this
position. It makes the pleasure for the woman intense and undeniable and
the woman will be able to orgasm even if she has never gone through it
before.
152. Raised Doggy
In this position, the woman has the legs and hands on a raised platform and
the man standing behind her.
Tips: For those couples with a big height difference, this is among the ideal
positions that they can try.
Tips: She can opt to help you do it better by placing her hands on your hips.
When she does this, you will be in a position to access the tempo that will
make her feel as if she is in another world.
Benefits: It is enjoyable, and you will not regret thinking about it. It is a
great idea to play it, and it will create a strong bond between you and her.
The sweetness of that spot will make her find the pleasure that she wants.
This position is ideal for a quick - very quick, in fact - lovemaking session.
It requires a great deal of strength, flexibility, and balance on the man’s part,
and may be best performed on a bed or other soft surface. That way, no one
will get hurt if the man needs to come out of the position. To start, the man
will create a bridge with his body (also known to yogis as a full-wheel
backbend) and the woman will straddle him in this position, moving herself
up and down. To take the weight off of him somewhat, she should support
herself with her feet while doing so. Don’t stay in this position too long,
though - while it’s difficult to hold in the first place, it can also create
dizziness for the man from all of the blood rushing to his head.
The man stands with his back to the running water with the woman standing
in front of him, facing away from him. The woman then bends forward and
can put her hands on the edge of the tub or the wall of the shower for
support. The man slides his penis into her from behind, grabbing onto her
hips for a deeper thrust, and then they are ready to go for it. This position
has a good chance of the man being able to hit the woman’s G-spot with his
penis, so this position will be greatly enjoyed by the woman. The warmth
and the wet environment of the shower are sure to make for an
unforgettable sexual encounter.
Only the man will be standing for this position. The woman, however, will
sit atop a desk or table ledge of appropriate height, and spread her legs.
Both legs can be pressed atop the man’s shoulders, if the woman is flexible
enough to allow for this. Depending on the man’s height, he may need to
bend his knees slightly to reach the ideal entering position. The woman can
lean back to brace herself as he thrusts.
This position also allows for deep penetration and gives the man a great
view while doing so. The woman can use her free hands to either grasp onto
the edge of the surface she is laying on to help take some of the pressure off
of the man. If no assistance is needed from the man, the woman can put on
a show for the man by grabbing her breasts or twisting and tickling her
nipples. She can also rub her clitoris to help with stimulation and achieving
orgasm.
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160. Frog Style
It’s the doggie-style, but instead of being on all fours, the woman lies on her
face, with her arms stretched out and her buttocks in the air. Anytime
someone’s face is positioned down, it’s recommended that it be on a bed,
not the floor. Many of these positions already have you feeling awkward, if
not uncomfortable. Why compound that with carpet burns or marks from a
hard wood floor? The cushioning of a mattress or maybe even a pillow
might be just the thing to make the position work for the both of you.
The advantage to this is that the woman can last longer without having to
support her upper have and she can use her hands that would’ve otherwise
been trembling from supporting top half to pleasure herself. The man has
his hands free to, so he can provide stimulation to the breast and back.
The man is in full control of this position and is able to watch the
woman enjoy the act, which is a good visual show. The man can also vary
the speed.
167. Surrender
This position is a nifty one of course it’s all on the female here but if you
are an eager little devil and you want to be able to really enjoy the top
position. This would be where the male is on his back hanging off the bed
or big soft chair.
Not recommended with say a kitchen chair variety. This would hurt the
upper back and be kind of dangerous.
As he lays back his penis and hips will be thrust up in such a way that will
be more beneficial to both but certainly the female. The female of course
can bounce or use the vertical slide method that we have described in
appropriate exercises.
This position can be started in the position nine pose. The difference is to
make sure he is sitting up with the main focus being him pressed as far into
the female as possible. The female’s legs would be pointed up to the ceiling
and the male is holding one knee over his shoulder while he is leaned to the
side closest to that leg.
This is very effectual with a great feel for both parties. The last several
poses we described leads to the deepest pressure inside the female.
This one can be a bit tricky for people who aren’t exactly flexible.
Start with the man on his back, and the lady slowly straddles him. Once he
is in her, he will lift his torso, and she will position herself so that they are
face-to-face. Both will wrap their legs tightly around each other’s buttocks.
Both will link elbows under the other’s knees and bring them up so that
they are at chest level.
Tips: This position will require a rocking motion since thrusting isn’t
possible in this position. The woman can squeeze her pelvic floor muscles
to provide him with a stronger sensation.
He will lie on his back, keeping his legs together. She will straddle his penis
and then move to lay stretched out on top of him, pelvises aligned. She will
lift up her torso so that she is resting on her hands. The slightest movements
will provide pleasing friction.
Tips: This is great for an intense make-out session.
A profound sitting position belonging to the bull variation is open bull 180.
This position seems quite amazing while looking at its demo. This involves
the man sitting on the ground with his hands on the floor to sustain his body
while his legs are half-folded and lifted from the ground, driven apart to
make room for his lady. While the woman sits on his lap that is half of the
actual area due to the folding of the legs. She sits and leans forward a bit to
allow front and back entrance to the penis. As she sits on the penis,
therefore, the bending of the penis miscalculates its inclusion. This position
delights the man with intense kissing and licking experiences as both
partners are too close to each other. He can kiss and lick on her neck,
shoulders, head, and face and back to delight her for sexual intercourse.
This position also allows breast access with hands to put forward and caress
her breasts. The woman feels a bit uncomfortable in movement as she has
less room to move around and feel the penis going in and out. But rocking
and tilting the ass together with changing the angles could make it a fiesta
for both of the partners.
Tips: Try to opt for frequent sex if you are at the advanced level of sex.
Your partner will definitely love it.
It involves the man, lying on the ground with the upper body lifted, which
sustains himself with fists on the floor. While the woman, being on top, sits
on his abdomen, arched backward just like in the arched cowgirl position.
This position allows the man to not only explore the sight-seeing of penis
inclusion but also delights him with clitoral playing and stimulates her
nerves to go wild towards the sexual approach.
Tips: The woman can open her legs wide apart to give him full access,
together with deeper penetration and frictionless inclusion. Woman, being
on top, is captivated with controls over penetration and movements
according to her choice. The movements mostly come from her side when
she lifts, rocks and rotates her hips.
Benefits: Both partners, in this position, can catch each other’s emotions
and move in a rhythm that will bring more satisfaction for both of them.
He will position himself so that he isn’t quite sitting in the chair, with his
hands resting on the chair and his feet on the bed or sofa. He will be
completely elevated off the ground. He will look like he is going to do a
tricep dip. She will then straddle him as she is facing him, but she should
not place any weight on him. He will then lower himself and push back up,
moving in and out of her.
Tips: This is a tiring sex position, so don’t plan on being here too long. You
will need a sturdy chair that faces your sofa or bed.
She will lie on her back close to the edge of the sofa or bed and raise her
legs into the air so that they are pointed towards the ceiling. He will stand in
front of her and grab her legs, pulling her towards him so he can enter her.
Once he has her lifted towards him, he will lift her waist off the bed so that
only her shoulders and upper back are touching the bed.
Benefits: There is a lot of stimulation for both people with this move.
Chapter 17. Experimental Sex Positions
183. The Rocking Chair
Stand astride your man, so that you are face to face. Once it's inside you,
wrap your legs around his buttocks and make him do the same. Then you
and your man should join your elbows under each other's knees and lift
them up to the level of the chest. Then start rocking with forward-backward
movements.
Benefits: It allows couples to have sex by stimulating new parts of the body
and therefore to experience new sensations, to awaken the senses by putting
them into play differently. The senses will hit of life by performing this
position.
Tips: This position can only be performed if your partner is strong and
trained and has no back problems. It is also a position that requires a lot of
balance, as your partner has to support your weight and at the same time to
rotate the pelvis. He may also try to raise and lower the pelvis, but
movement will be limited by your body.
Benefits: This is a very pleasant position as the penetration is deep and the
contact between your pubis is very exciting for the clitoris!
Tips: For more intense stimulation and to help balance, the partners can
support each other by holding their wrists.
Benefits: This position is ideal for those who love deep penetration.
The man kneels at the edge of the bed and penetrates his partner lying on
his back. Holding her by the ankles, she slightly raises her legs apart and
moves rhythmically.
Benefits: The penetration is very deep, relaxing for her and particularly
exciting for him, which dominates the situation from above.
Th I di H d d
189. The Indian Headstand
The woman is resting on her hands, her arms are stretched out. The man is
at the edge of the bed and lifts her pelvis, while she rests her legs on the
partner's arms.
Tips: It is a position that requires great agility, a little strength and that
cannot last more than a few minutes.
Tips: The woman should be careful not to strain her back when arching.
Benefits: the man can bend forward and has full access to do anything to
your chest kiss you and others.
191. Propeller
The man is lying on top of the woman as in a classic missionary position.
While above the woman, maintaining the position gives the momentum to
make a 360-degree rotation.
Tips: The woman must guide him with her body, like the propeller over a
helicopter, making sure to lift his legs when they swing overhead.
Benefits:
Benefits
This can be tricky to get right and can take practice to master.
192. The X
This position is all about control: your man is lying on his back on the bed.
Turn around then straddle above him, so that your back is towards him.
Lower yourself unto his erect penis. Extend her legs back towards her
shoulders and bring your torso towards the bed, between her legs. With both
your legs and your man's legs you will form an X. Then start sliding up and
down. To get more thrust use his feet.
Benefits
This will create a great sensation as you will get extra stimulation from his
body rubbing on your clitoris.
194. Gravity
The woman is lying on her back and brings her knees to her chest. He is
kneeling in front of the woman, holding his feet. With just the movement of
the hips, the man can penetrate her while controlling the movement and
helps to keep her in balance. To increase the pleasure, she can put her feet
on his chest, holding her hips still further giving him extra control and
letting him penetrate even more.
195. Pinball
The woman is lying on her stomach. The man is kneeling in front of her,
grabs her pelvis and keeps him at the height of the penis. This position leads
to excitement very quickly. For a more comfortable variant, the man is
seated on his heels, he draws the partner's pelvis to himself, stroking her
clitoris.
This position is decidedly complex and requires good musculature for both,
particularly for the woman's arms. The woman starts by lying on her side,
rising with her left arm and keeping her calves, feet and ankles on the
mattress. The man supports her by holding her by the pelvis and, lifting her
right leg, penetrates her. Despite being very difficult to perform, it is a
position that promises deep penetration and explosive orgasm.
199. Supernova
The Supernova begins with the classic position with the woman on top of
the man, standing on the covers. The man must have his head on the side of
the bottom of the bed. She crouches on him with her knees bent and feet
well placed on the bed as he penetrates her. The woman bends backwards
leaning on her arms and moves until orgasm is reached. When the time
comes, she throws herself forward towards the man and leaning on her
knees, she pushes the man towards the edge of the bed until she protrudes
until her shoulders and arms are completely outside the pallet. At this point
the woman moves to the starting position until the pleasure for both is
achieved.
Benefits
It can be fairly difficult to get the timings right but is good fun to try out
and if done properly can give a great simultaneous orgasm.
200. The Y
She lies on the bed belly down making her body protrude, from the pelvis
down, beyond the bed, resting her hands on the floor to support the weight.
He positions himself above her, his legs between those of her. He penetrates
her from behind. The man can also take the woman by the hips and lift her
back instead of lying on top of her.
Chapter 18. Kama Sutra Erotic Massage
(Tips)
After the tease, give your partner a few seconds to take in the moment.
Then, you can begin with the massage. Again, it is important that you
observe his/her reactions, listen to the cues he/she is giving you. These cues
will help you determine whether to apply more pressure or less against
his/her body.
Do not be nervous about massaging your partner’s back. As long as you
avoid the spinal area, everything is safe. Start with light strokes. If you feel
that he/she likes it a little harder, you can apply pressure as necessary. Do
the massage with long fluid strokes.
1. Neck and Shoulders
Pour oil on your hands and rub your palms together. Keep your hands moist
and warm. Begin by stroking your lover’s neck and shoulders. Massage
these areas in continuous circular motion starting from the neck and moving
slowly toward the shoulders. From the shoulders, work outward to his/her
arms. Apply firm but broad strokes. Massage the areas for the next 10 to 15
minutes.
2. Side of the Spine
Pressure should not be applied directly to the spine. Tackle the side of the
spine instead. You can begin from left to right or right to left. It does not
matter as long as you meticulously care for both sides.
Stroke the side of his/her spine in a continuous movement. From massaging
his/her shoulders, continue the movement to the side of the spine and down
to his/her hips.
Use your fingertips for light stroking and the heels of your palms to add
more pressure as necessary. Add more oil if needed. This will help make
your strokes smoother and more fluid. Keep working on his/her back for the
next 10 minutes. Take your time. Do not rush the movements.
3. Back of the Legs
Do not apply a kneading technique in any part of your partner’s body.
Remember, tantric massage is about slow, long and firm strokes. When
working on his/her legs, you should apply gentle pressure only. It will be a
good idea to stroke his/her legs once again with a rough and soft textured
item. Pick his/her favorites. Continue stroking his/her legs gently and
slowly.
Work your way down until you reach his/her feet. Circular and continuous
stroking is essential in this area. Massage each foot one by one. It is best to
use your thumb for the stroking. Massage your lover’s legs and feet for the
next 15 minutes. Focus more on the legs as you can work further on his/her
feet once he/she is turned over.
6. Feet
You worked on the feet just a little from the back. Now, you can thoroughly
care for it. Using the thumb is ideal in this area but if your lover is ticklish,
you can opt for using the palms instead.
This is a sensitive area filled with nerve endings. Your warm touch on
his/her foot is enough to give your partner a different kind of sensation.
With your fingers and palms stroking it gently and continuously, you can
imagine the ecstasy.
Start from the back of his/her toes. Find the fleshy mound. Massage it
gently then continue at the back of the foot. Avoid applying too much
pressure on the arch. Stick with firm yet gentle touching. Continue stroking
from the toes down to the heel. Spend at least 3 minutes on each foot.
7. Front of the Legs
Like you’ve tackled the back of the legs, apply firm and long strokes from
your lover’s ankles to the thighs continuing the stroke from the feet. The
thighs and calves need gentle massaging only. Remember that your goal is
to provide a pleasurable massage.
8. Belly
From the front of his/her legs to the thighs, continue stroking him/her
meticulously to the hips until you reach the belly. Lay your hands flat and
massage this area in circular strokes in a clockwise motion. Avoid applying
any pressure in the belly. It is not necessary. Try slow and gentle touching
instead with your palms. Your touch should give your partner comfort.
Keep caring for this area for the next 3 to 5 minutes.
9. Chest
Before continuing the massage, rest your right hand over your lover’s heart
chakra. Take a few minutes here. Breathe in t
After a few minutes, rest both hands on his/her chest. Stroke lightly and
apply light pressure. Keep your palms flat as you massage his/her breasts.
Gently touch the lymph nodes and apply tender pressure to the nipples. Try
various kinds of strokes and pay attention to what he/she likes best.
Continue with the chest massage for 10 minutes.
From the forehead, move your hands to the side of your partner’s face down
to the neck and shoulders. Apply the same motion like you did when
massaging the back of his/her shoulders - long, broad strokes.
11. Arms
Move your hands slowly from the shoulder to the arm. Again, use firm and
long strokes in the area. Work all the way down to the wrist. Spend equal
time on each arm. Light kneading in the arms is welcome. Feel free to apply
the massage technique in this area.
Continue from the upper arms to the wrist all the way to the fingers. Keep
your partner calm, relaxed and connected.
Do not forget to meticulously care for each body part. It is all about
mindfully touching your lover’s body.
Genital massage is an option that some masseuse may offer. Since you’re
doing this for your romantic partner, you can feel free to involve the
genitals. Again, it is something you should talk about so he/she can know
what to expect and relax into the process.
Conclusion
The Kama Sutra is the epitome of an intimate sexual relationship. This book
has covered all of the basics, especially about how the Kama Sutra is about
more than just sex. It is about the connection with your partner on an
emotional and spiritual level. This book is written to teach a novice about
how to set the mood, and how to hold your partner, with a few positions to
try out.
The Kama Sutra is about loving your partner and showing them by
exploring every inch of their body. It is not about being considered a "sex
god," but about being an attentive lover.
Remember, sex is an incredibly important part of romantic relationships.
There are a ton of health benefits related to having sex regularly, including
improved immunity, increased heart health, lower blood pressure, pain
relief, decreased stress and improved sleep, better libido, and so much
more. After reading this book, I hope you were able to gain a fantastic
understanding of past and current sexual activities along with a variety of
different ways to spice up your own sex life and enjoy yourself and your
lover on a more intimate and sensual level. Sex can be as intimate or as
shallow as you make it; however, meaningful and passionate sex is almost
always preferred. With this book, you should be able to understand the
initial purpose of the Kama Sutra and the principles that surrounded it.
Aside from many asinine doings involved in recipes, spells, and charms,
there was also a lot of educational and exciting information on aphrodisiac
foods and which ones work the best. Some people might not even realize
the large number of foods that can be arousing to specific individuals. We
all have the things that arouse us – scribble that in on the aphrodisiac
section.
It is very easy to slip into a life of routine, which isn’t necessarily a bad
thing unless it has to do with your sex life and learning. Two things you
should never stop doing: learning and experimenting in the bedroom. Take
the knowledge you have received from this book as either a grain of salt or
as your new sexual bible. I hope you enjoyed it!
The connection of the bodies should not end with orgasm but should
continue long after both are replete. A man and woman should come
together in mind, body, and spirit. Such is the essence of the Kama Sutra;
such is the Art of Love.
SEX POSITIONS
Emily Lewis
Introduction
When you start having sex, it can seem a little intimidating. Sure, most
people are familiar with the missionary style, but where do you go from
there? We will see a variety of different sexes that are great for beginners.
This will include positions you can try while lying, sitting, standing, and
kneeling. It will give you a good starting point. It can continue branching
from there. It is important to understand that while some positions may be
great for you, your partner may not like them. Therefore, trying different
things and having an Arsenal of different sexual positions to try is
advantageous for having great sex sessions.
Sexual fantasies tend to roam our minds. The best thing about sexual
fantasies is that, when necessary, you can call them. When you masturbate
or have sex with your partner, you can create a sexual fantasy that will
increase your sexual arousal. But sometimes your mind gets a sexual
fantasy if you expect less. A fantasy is nothing more than an incredible
desire, an image or a story that you transmit. You can have relaxing,
exciting or fun dreams, anywhere.
There are many people who simply use their imaginations to obtain intense
sexual pleasure. And more and more people use their fantasies and fantasies
to make their sex life exciting. It is perfectly normal to imagine something.
The choice of your imagination is based on the use of good judgment to
determine if it becomes a reality. Sexual fantasies are a good way to keep
your mind and body motivated, whether or not you have sexual fantasies for
an entire day, or if you're just waiting for the right person in the right place
at the right time for action.
Imagination or external stimuli, such as a strange attractiveness, a love
image, or a movie, can provoke fantasies. Any advice you give is good to
imagine, as long as something takes you. You can express your imagination
in a sexual way through fantasies. You may think you want to do things, but
you didn't. You can still imagine things you have done in the past. Or
maybe some things you know you never want to do, but it's still fun to think
about. As often as you like, you can revisit your imagination. As if it were
your own private sexual refuge, you must turn to them. AIDS, abortion and
sexually transmitted diseases will not occur. There are other benefits to
sexual imagery. You don't need to use condoms or contraceptives in your
imagination. In your fantasies, you can feel really liberated.
Fantasies and masturbation often go hand in hand, but for many people,
fantasies also accompany sex. You can talk to your partner if you are late to
orgasm, to give your favorite sexual fantasy some love. Fantasies help you
focus on the erotic, so you don't get to any point of return. Fantasies can be
good ideas when you dream of how you want to make love, but they will
trust you more if you decide to put your thoughts into action. Imagination is
also great if you think you want to try some sex, but you're not absolutely
sure. In your imagination, you can see if it activates you before you think it
will happen. Sex therapists have also discovered that imagination can
enable people to overcome certain sexual problems. You can become less
sexually inhibited if you put positive, sexually free thoughts on your mind.
You can manage your sexual perceptions through your imagination and
learn to enjoy your own sexuality so that you can experience it with
someone else.
People have all kinds of fantasies. And I've heard it all these years as a sex
teacher. However, some aspects are more surprising than others. I've
compiled a list of the most common sexual fantasies I find. This list of the
best sexual fantasies is below. Take a look to see if one of them is the
fantasy of your dreams.
Chapter 19. Sex Bucket List Challenges
That feeling of doing something dirty at the risk of getting caught can be
such a turn on. The delayed gratification of slow foreplay and the build up
to hot and heavy sex is something that every couple should experience
together.
Sext at Dinner
Go to a nice restaurant. One where you should be on your best, if not
decent, behavior. Start with a couple of dirty texts at the table, maybe some
footie under the table. Text each other what you want to do in that moment
and watch your partner squirm with excitement.
At some point in the night, both of you will take a turn going to the
bathroom and sending a naughty photo to the other, which must be opened
discretely at the table. Fuck each other with your eyes and then when you
get back to the car, take a few minutes to release some of that sexual
tension.
Sex on Campus
It doesn’t matter where, when, or if you even finish. Find a secluded spot
behind a building, in the bushes, or in a closet and go for it.
Just be smart about it. Dress for the occasion so that you don’t have to take
your clothes off. A short skirt for you and jeans with a zipper for him.
Being discrete is key to not getting expelled!
At the Movie Theatre
It’s dark, it’s loud and it’s the perfect place to do everything and anything to
each other’s’ bodies. Hand jobs and pussy rubbing are an easy escapade to
accomplish in a crowded theatre. You can reach over for a little tug action
or lay your legs across his lap, giving him full access.
Oh and that popcorn you dropped down your shirt? You’re going to need
some help getting that out.
Pro Tip: Go to a movie that’s been out for weeks and you’re more likely to
get a bit of privacy.
Remote Control Bullet Vibrator
Vibrator bullets fit perfectly your pussy, while your man holds the remote
control. He can increase the vibrators speed and change up the settings
whenever and wherever he likes.
Before dinner or a party, slip the vibrator in your pussy and hand him the
controls. The vibrator is small enough that you may even forget that it’s
inside of you…at least until he turns it on while the waiter is taking your
order.
Get Fingered in the Car
To get ready for this naughty play, wear a skirt or a dress; something with
easy access. Grab his hand and show him exactly where to put it. Have him
start by rubbing over your panties. Then either slide your panties to the side,
or take them off while he’s driving. Then, when you’re super wet, have him
slide his fingers inside of you.
Pro Tip: If you don’t have tinted windows, you’ll have to be sneaky about
this one.
Road Head
Driving on the back roads or driving at night is the perfect time to unzip his
pants and have a little fun on the drive home. Make sure he keeps his eyes
on the road, otherwise he may have to pull over if he gets really into it.
Sex in a Public Restroom
At the bar and just need to jump his bones right away? Use the bathroom!
Whisper in his ear, “meet me in the bathroom in 30 seconds”.
You’ll get up first to secure the spot. He’ll follow quickly behind. You’ll
already have your panties slid to the side while playing with yourself. Have
him slide inside of you either sitting on the counter or bent over with hands
on the wall. He may have to cover your mouth to stop the moans.
When you leave, do it like nothing ever happened and no one will suspect a
thing.
Pro Tip: If you’re out to dinner, have hot bathroom sex after you’ve paid
your bill. Your waiter won’t be looking for you and you can make a sneaky
exit once you’ve finished.
In the Classroom
Before you graduate from the Sex Bucket List, how about one last in-class
lesson? Sneak into an empty classroom at a time where not many students
or professors are in the building. Bend over a desk that is out of sight from
the door and get it on.
You don’t have to finish- you might not have time. But just that rush of
adrenaline is enough to make the two of you rush home and rip each other’s
clothes off.
You’ve been a good student, you naughty girl.
Chapter 21. Role Play
We all have a fantasy, but not all of us are comfortable acting it out. That’s
why this Sex Bucket List is here to MAKE YOU do it.
In each role play scenario, you can decide who plays who. There are no
gender norms in fantasy land.
The only rule: stick with each role play for at least 20 minutes; sometimes it
takes a while for the imagination to warm up. And if you’re having a
pleasurable time…keep going.
The Repair Man
Have a leaky shower? Better call the repairman over to use his big tools to
fix it. Make sure to test out the shower yourself before he leaves. Oh no…
you can’t find your wallet? How are you going to pay him?
Strangers in a Bar
Pick a bar that you’ve never been to before. Dress in a swanky outfit that
you don’t usually wear. Have the bartender send the cute girl or sexy man at
the other end of the bar a shot. So surprised by this gesture, you’ll certainly
get an invite to join.
Spark up a conversation about where you’re from and what you’re doing at
such a lonely bar on your own. Perhaps, you two can keep each other
company for the rest of the night…
Client & Call Girl Or Call Man, of course.
Let your call girl know that you’d like to reserve her services for a couple
of hours. Text her the address of the hotel and your room number. Tell her
what you want her to wear and what you are planning to do to her (or what
you want her to do to you) once she arrives.
When she knocks on the door of your hotel room, the ultimate fantasy
begins. She is there to cater to your every need and desire.
Uber Driver
You’ll need a ride home after your night out with the guys or maybe when
you’ve locked your keys in your car at work. Text your “Uber Driver” and a
car will be there shortly. Get in the back seat. Once you notice how
attractive your driver is, you might start think hot and may even feel the
need to start touching yourself during the ride. Ask your driver to take a
detour to a secluded area and ask them to join you in the back seat. Or
maybe once you get to your destination, get into the front seat and pull your
driver towards you to initiate some steamy car sex.
Master and Slave
Whips, belts, ties and brazen commands…the slave must concede to every
one of the Master’s wishes. The slave is utterly submissive and obeys every
single word.
Of course, pick a safe word first. The “safe word” doesn’t always mean
stop, it can also be a signal just to slow it down or ease up a little. Keep a
steady balance of pain and communication.
Teacher & Student
Props are a necessity for this naughty role play. Perhaps a notebook full of
dirty day dreams is what puts the teacher into punishment mode where he or
she uses a ruler to give a good spanking to the student. Dress the part in a
tie for the guy and a short skirt (maybe no panties) for the girl.
The Sexy Maid
Bending over in that short skirt to dust the lamp. On your hands and knees
to wipe the floors. Spilling water all over your chest while doing the dishes.
Being a maid can be a messy and physical job. But if she isn’t cleaning to
the homeowner’s satisfaction, there may be some punishment in order.
Porn Stars
Pick a porn that you really love…we all have one. And reenact it scene by
scene. Don’t skip any position, ass slap, or deep kiss. Really get into the
role.
Girls, you can get extra slutty beforehand by buying some fishnet tights or a
sexy bra- something you don’t wear day to day in your non-porn star life.
Doctor and Patient
Not feeling well? Don’t worry, your doctor is here to examine your entire
body head to toe, to diagnose the issue and to treat you with some naughty
TLC.
Stay in character by choosing a name for the patient, like Mr. Clark, and
stick to calling the other partner ‘Doctor’. Use these words as often as you
can to really put yourselves into the scene.
Chapter 22. Toys and Accessories
There is a reason that sex toys are so popular: because they make sex feel
awesome. Vibrating sensations, a little bit of pain, more orgasms, and free
hands that were formerly occupied. It’s time to see what all of the fuss is
about…
Vibrator for Her
Game. Changer.
Curved vibrators can be inserted into a woman to stimulate her g-spot, can
be used to tease her ass and nipples, and is magic at getting her to a clitoral
orgasm.
The vibrator can be used by her man as he explores what makes her body
shake or it can be used by her to have a full orgasm while her man is
penetrating her during sex.
Having a vibrator in the mix can easily double the amount of orgasms a
woman has during sex with her man. Over and over again.
Cock Ring for Him
Cock rings can make a man’s cock harder and bigger, they can make him
last longer, and the vibrating cock rings can stimulate his balls during sex
play.
The whole idea of a cock ring is that it restricts the blood flow in his cock.
When he’s hard, slide the ring down to the base of his shaft and let play
time begin.
Butt Plugs
While the name doesn’t sound very glamorous, you can actually find some
sexy looking butt plugs made of silicone, rubber, or harder plastics. With a
rounded-cone like shape and a large handle/stopper, butt plugs are to be
inserted into a man or woman’s ass, arousing the sphincter and for the man,
stimulating the g-spot.
You can keep the butt plug in while you play and have sex – this creates the
feeling of being totally filled up, awakening all of your erogenous zones
down there. Or your partner can tease you and fuck you with just the plug.
A Leather Paddle for Spanking
Finding the line between pleasure and pain is an acquired skill. Find that
balance, and your body releases opiate-like endorphins that give you a
sexual high. Spanking is the perfect activity to cause this reaction.
When you’re spanking, you want to hit the juiciest part of the cheeks –
usually right at the crease of the ass and leg. Spank in slightly different
spots to cause more of a slapping sensation. Keep hitting the same spot to
create more pain. The anticipation between each spanking is so arousing for
the one being punished.
Leather or faux leather has that smooth surface to hit the skin just right, and
a paddle offers a wide distribution of surface area to cause just the right
balance of pleasure and pain.
Ice Cubes
Ice cubes bring so many senses to the forefront: pain, heat, cold and a
numbing sensation depending on where you use it.
Put an ice cube in your mouth and suck on her nipples. Or insert an ice cube
into his ass and then give him a blow job while it melts.
A Feather - xxx
One single feather is all it takes to make your partner beg for you. Start
somewhere outside of the erogenous zones like the palm of their hand and
tips of their fingers. Work your way up to teasing as you linger with the
feather just below the belly button. Eventually hit the hot spots and watch
your partner squirm.
This is an ‘xxx’ activity- no sex for an hour. Let that tension build.
Hand Cuffs
Whether you’re incorporating cold metal hand cuffs into a cops & robber
situation or you surprise your partner with fuzzy handcuffs that restrain
their hands behind their back while you tease them relentlessly…handcuffs
are a quick and easy way to turn regular Wednesday-night sex into a world
of fantasy.
Fantasy Duct Tape
This tape is totally different than your everyday duct tape. This tape has a
similar hold and thickness, but the adhesive comes off of your skin much
easier.
Bind her hands together, put tape over his mouth, or get kinky and tape each
hand to one foot for total vulnerability.
Ties for the Bed Posts
The submissive partner in this scenario will be totally vulnerable to his or
her partner, which heightens the sensation of every touch, every kiss and
every instance of penetration. Add a blind fold in the mix for an even more
intense sexual experience.
The dominant partner has total control, having his or her way with a
helplessly restrained sex toy. He or she can let their carnal desires dictate
how rough or sensual they will play.
Nipple Clamps
Most women and some men get great sexual pleasure from having their
nipples played with. Now, imagine that your nipples are being played with
during the entire duration of sexy time while your hands are freed up to
wander.
Nipple clamps can range in their intensity from slight sensation to fierce
pain. Make sure you test them out before you fully clamp them down.
Chapter 23. Dirty Talks
There is no need for dirty talk to be complicated, weird, awkward, or
creepy. Dan Savage, a sex columnist summed up sex talk with this simple
statement. Basically, dirty talk needs to be straightforward and simple.
Even though it can and should be simple, most of us will freeze up win the
moment and end up saying some we heard in porn that sounds weird,
awkward, unnatural, or very unsexy.
Given the number of ways dirty talk can go awry, why do we even want to
bother with it at all? The simple answer is that when it is done correctly and
is said by a person that you are attracted to, nothing is sexier than vocal sex.
Our biggest sexual organ is the brain, so it makes perfect sense that we get
turned on by what is said during a moment of passion. It also works in
reverse. When you voice the fantasies and desires that you typically keep to
yourself to a rapt audience can be a major turn-on.
When you get to the heart of it all, good dirty talk can remove us from our
regular lives and put us into our act of sex. While you may be physically
feeling things, if your mind isn’t into it too, the pleasure reward can end up
falling short. This is why people fantasize when masturbating. Dirty talk
removes us from our heads and into the body. The simple tones and sounds
can help all of the worries of the day to melt away and remember how
amazing our partner feels.
Now that I have sold you on it let’s move onto how to make it work for you.
Keep Things Simple
You don’t need to be a porn star right out of the gate. Say the things that
feel natural to you, and definitely don’t think you will need to come up with
some elaborate narrative before things start. This isn’t some strange
Shakespearean monologue that you have to recite, and there is no need to
talk every single time. Dirty talk doesn’t have to just happen during sex.
Picking the right moment to say something like, “I can’t wait to feel you
inside me,” can do the trick.
Think about your senses, if vulgar or profane language isn’t something that
you typically use, then don’t feel like you have to. Chances are, your
partner would be turned off if you all of a sudden started using words you
have never used before. Your aim should be to be playful, and you should
start early. While your partner is at work or picking up some things from the
store, drop a few hints about how you want to play.
This helps to build the anticipation of sex. You can easily send a text that
says, “I can’t stop thinking about tonight…”
Be Amazing With Instructions
You have two forms of dirty talk. One form helps to build anticipation for
sex, and the other is simply instructional and happens, most of the time,
during sex. Giving some direction or instructions can be pretty sexy. You
could tell your partner something like, “When you get home, I want you to
put on your best lingerie, and then I want you to lay, face down, on the bed,
and wait for me to come home and play with you.” This combines both
forms of dirty talk and can be used to add in some role-playing.
If It Doesn’t Work, Talk About It
If you say something that causes some nervous laughter, that’s okay, but
there may be times when you say something that could trigger them. They
may not know how to verbalize why those particular words bothered them
at that moment, but if you ever feel that you took things too far, you should
definitely make a point of talk with them.
It helps to make sure that both people involved understand that with dirty
talk, you want to carve out some erotic space and that you don’t actually
feel that way about the person. It’s all about playing. Think about how some
people get off being called “daddy,” but it’s not about incest. Instead, it has
to do with dominance and authority.
If you happen to take things too far, then make sure you correct them.
Honor the things that your partner isn’t into, and if they are comfortable
with it, talk to them about why it bothers them. But, they should never feel
like they owe you an explanation as to why they didn’t like it.
It Can Be Good Without Being X-Rated
It is important that you read the room when it comes to dirty talk. You
shouldn’t say something that is super vulgar unless all signs point to that
being what you should do. You can easily say something that it too X-rated
and end up turning off your partner. If this were to happen to you, it would
probably be an embarrassing moment, but one that you can recover from,
and, hopefully, laugh about with your partner.
Give These a Go
So, to make things easier for you, if you really don’t know what you should
say to your partner, I will provide you with a list of lines that you try using.
You will have to fill in the blank on some things, but I think you will get the
gist pretty quickly.
1. “Fuck me hard.”
2. “I love it when you moan my name.”
3. “I want you to use me like a toy.”
4. “You taste so good.”
5. “I’m going to come for you.”
6. “It makes me crazy when you ____.”
7. “When I get home, I want you in my favorite skirt with no
underwear…”
8. “Yes, please. More.”
9. “Right there. Touch my ____.”
10. “I’ve been thinking about what I want to do with you…”
Give some of these a try the following time you want to get your partner in
the mood and see how it feels.
Chapter 24. Oral Sex - Fellatio And
Cunnilingus
Oral sex is very popular nowadays, but it is not a new invention, that is
certain. But even today some communities still think it is a bad idea to give
oral sex to a sexual partner, even your wife. This is a very personal
decision, and nobody can make you feel guilty you for it.
Oral sex is the sexual act of having your partner’s genitals on your tongue
mouth or on your lips. Oral sex can be performed both on your male or
female partner. Overall many medical researches around the world have
stated that oral sex is safe. However it is good practice to take some
precautions in terms of hygiene as oral sex exposes some risks. There is the
tendency to contact gonorrhea, chlamydia etc. You should watch out for
sore throats, swollen lymph nodes or open sore in or around the mouth.
Having an oral screening from time to time is very advised. You can cure
some health complications easily when you detect them early.
Uses of Oral Sex
Some people enjoy oral sex a lot some don’t, there is no way to generalize.
However it can really boost the excitement and it can also be used as a
strong seduction technique to turn on your companion.
The woman lies on the edge of the bed with one leg raised and wait for the
partner to assume his position. You can support the raised leg by wrapping
your hands around your hamstring just below the knee.
The man will knee on the floor and place the head between her legs. Use
the tongue to put gentle pressure on her clitoris and then proceed to give her
a nice mouth job.
2. Butterfly Position
The man will lie on his back and wait for your partner to assume her
position. Hold your tongue firmly as you press it against her clitoris and
occasionally push it into her vagina.
3. 69 Position
The man lies on his back and waits for the partner to assume her position.
The woman will place the vagina on his face and his penis in her face.
Gently stroke his length in up and down movements, take his tip into your
mouth, then teasingly lick it, start giving him a mouth job, and let your hand
stroke the rest of his length you cannot take in, and tease the sensitive area
below his testicles.
4. Face Sitting
The woman lies on her back with a pillow below the head. She takes his
length into the hands, gently stroking it, while occasionally taking its tip
into the mouth and using the tongue to tease it. After she will take it all into
the mouth and gently suck it. Hands will be used to stroke the rest of his
penis.
The man will wait for her to assume her position then hover over her such
that the penis is at her face. Hold onto a headboard or wall for support.
5. The Throne
For the woman: Lie on your back with your legs in the air. Place a pillow
below your ass to help raise your pelvis. Wait for your partner to assume his
position. As he gives you a mouth job, move and grind against his tongue
for better results.
For the man: After your partner assumes her position, bend her knees so she
can lay them on your shoulders. Go down on her, use your hands to stretch
the skin fairly away from her pubic bone to allow you to lick the head of
her clit right out from beneath the hood while your tongue licks her clitoris
occasionally changing the pressure.
Other Amazing Oral Sex Positions For Him and For Her
Chapter 25. Orgasm
Clitoral orgasm
Let's start with clitoris. The clitoris is a small organ with a ton of nerve
endings found above the vulva, generally fixed by a hood and extending
downwards inside the lips. The ideal approach to stimulate the clitoris is
gently rubbing it with your fingers, palm or tongue from side to side or
circular the movement.
Once the clitoris starts to get wet, or after lubrication as not all vaginas can
get wet without help apply faster and stronger pressure in a rhythmic
movement, complete this movement with substantial pressure. When the
orgasm starts the sensation begins to intensify. If that's enough to get you
out, it's amazing!
Vaginal orgasm
Aim to use fingers or a toy for penetration instead of the penis, mimic the
"come here" or circular movement rather than an in and out motion. Repeat
movements, that work well and the feelings will develop.
Anal orgasm
Due to the prostate, anal orgasms are more common in men. For anal sex is
ideal to use lubrication and assure perfect hygiene as typically an area with
a lot of bacteria.
Combo orgasm
Combo orgasm combine clitoral and vaginal stimulation simultaneously,
either in parallel or in inverse rhythms (whatever feels best for you or your
partner). This is the most well-known approach to accomplish female
discharge involving the clitoris and the G-spot. Other erogenous zone
orgasms are accomplished only through strong experimentation.
You might even reach an orgasm from kisses on your neck, nibbles and
sucking on your areolas, or fingers on the inside of your elbows. A good
approach to find erogenous zones is to use a delicate external item and
observe where you have the most feelings.
Orgasms will come even better with communication. In any kind of sexual
set-up openness is absolutely vital. Sharing with your partner what you
need, how, and where is the ideal approach to guarantee the greatest
enjoyment. It's very important to have these types of discussions before or
during the sexual act. This implies sharing what are your wishes either with
words or with your body language.
Keep in mind that sexual partners are not capable of reading minds and
physical reaction, despite the fact that we would love them to be able to do
that.
In the event that your sex habits are not getting you off, then trying with
touching new regions on various occasions with different body parts
(private parts, fingers, and mouths) is the following best action to solving
your orgasm quest.
Experimentation and achieving orgasm don't require necessarily a partner.
The better you know your body with fingers and toys, the better you can
share with your partner what you want.
What Occurs During an Orgasm?
During a genuine woman orgasm the vagina, uterus, and rear-end (and now
and again other body parts like hands, feet, and guts) contract quickly,
squeezing for 0.8-1 seconds one after another. Ladies may also release a
fluid out of the urethra that contains a blend of whitish liquid from the
Skene's peri-urethral glands and urine (no stress urine is extremely sterile).
Not everybody experiences sex and orgasm in the same way. Therefore the
above list is a good starting point but obviously not comprehensive. Sex
doesn't have a manual. That is the motivation of why exploring in the
moment, and finding what your body likes is really paramount.
The process that leads to an orgasm can be simplified into four phases:
Excitement - Initial warm up
Slow progression - Specific movement that feels pleasurable
Orgasm - Explosion of joy and discharge
Resolution - The refractory time frame.
However this is a simplification as it is inaccurate to say that that sex ends
in orgasm, since this prevents many ladies from demanding their orgasms
by trusting that sex is over when their male partner finishes. But also not all
sex requires an orgasm, and orgasms don't necessarily mean that sex is
excellent.
Orgasms can be short. They can come on several occasions in succession or
just once, or don't come at all. Try not to set the standard for your orgasms
by another person's experience. Orgasms are unique, discover your orgasm
with experimenting, communicating, and trying new things. Allow yourself
to discover all the processes to get to the orgasm.
Chapter 26. Sex Position For Beginners
Sex can at first seem intimidating. Most people are familiar with missionary
position but what should be the following step. In this segment we will see
some sex positions that are amazing for beginners. This will include
positions while laying down, sitting, standing, and kneeling. You while
have a good basis to initiate your journey in the fantastic word of sex.
It is essential to understand that while some positions may be ideal for you,
your partner may not like them. So, as deliberated before be open, try
different things, and do not be afraid to experiment.
Knowing a big set of sex positions is the base for having an excellent sexual
session.
6. Face to Face Side Ways
In this position both parties will be laying on their sides. You'll be facing
each other. The female will be slightly higher on the bed than her male
counterpart. This is so that her hips are above his.
One of her legs will wrap around the top of him and the other one should be
laid down straight. Sometimes this can feel a bit awkward but with practice,
it feels truly great. This is a fantastic position for beginners because it helps
you to gain comfort with your partner. It is a very intimate position that will
allow deeper levels of penetration. The closeness of this position also helps
both to relax and enjoy the experience.
7. Beginner Advance Missionary Style
In this position the female will be lying flat on her back and the male on top
of her. The female's legs can be in a variety of different positions.
Sometimes, she will lay them down flat on the bed while other times she
may wrap them around her partner's waist.
This simply comes down to what is most comfortable. Other people prefer
to have their knees bent so that their feet are flat on the bed and their knees
are facing the ceiling. Missionary position is basic but essential for
beginners. It is one of our go-to moves. It allows for different positioning
which can help both parties achieve orgasm more easily. It tends to be very
comfortable for both the man and the woman. You will be facing each
other, and this will allow you to focus on the level of intimacy that you are
exuding. Additionally, it will make it easy to communicate what your needs
are if the position needs to change slightly.
8. Spooning
You will lay in the spoon position. The female's hips should be above her
partners. The Top leg will need to be lifted slightly so that penetration can
occur. Sometimes this feels a bit awkward and you may need to adjust your
positioning to find a good level of comfort.
You can modify the Cowgirl this position in a variety of different ways. To
make it a true sitting position you simply need to change the position of the
man. Rather than him lying on his back have him sit with his back leaning
against a solid surface. He can bend his knees or leave them straight just
depending on what feels best for both parties. From there the female is
going to do the exact same thing as stated above.
You can alter the cowgirl into another position by simply turning the female
around. This is referred to as a reversed cowgirl.
It provides a different stimulation to both the man and the woman. This is
due to the fact that the underside of the man's penis will now be rubbing the
front wall of the woman’s vagina. This type of stimulation can be fantastic
for reaching climax and providing mind-blowing orgasms.
12. Behind Style Position
This is one of the most popular positions for inexperienced, as well as,
experienced people. Many find that this is one of their favorite positions
because of the level of penetration and movement that can be experienced.
In addition, men tend to like the view of their ladies from behind. To
accomplish the doggie style position is fairly simple. The woman will need
to be on her hands and knees or on her forearms and knees. The man will
approach her from behind. Her knees should be about shoulder-width apart
so that her man can kneel between them. He will then enter her from
behind.
More often than not the man will hold on to the woman's hips which will
give him some control over the speed and power of his thrust. However,
this position is also good if the woman wants to take control. There are
different variations of the doggie style position. Sometimes, the woman will
lay flat on her stomach and the man will kneel over top of her. This can be a
bit more challenging than a basic doggie style position, but it is also very
exciting. It will make the female feel tighter around her man's member and
heighten the level of pleasure that both parties experience
.
13. Basic Standing
In this position the man approaches the woman from behind and places his
legs between hers. This will give him excellent leverage. He will also be
able to grab her by the hips and control the speed and thrust at which
intercourse is performed. This position is extremely easy to accomplish and
exceptionally pleasurable for both parties. He will be able to play with
depth to tease her and truly provide her with a variety of sensations.
More than likely both parties will be able to participate in this position for a
decent amount of time as it is not physically demanding.
14. Sum Up
Once you have experimented with these sex positions, you'll be able to
move into other ones. Understand that there are hundreds of different
positions that you can try out. We have only given you the tip of the
iceberg. There are many other basic positions that are easy to accomplish.
In addition, there are more advanced ones that will take some practice.
When you're comfortable with your sexual partner experimenting with sex
positions becomes extremely easy.
Chapter 27. Man on Top and Woman on
Top Sex Positions
These positions allow the man to be in control of the depth and angle of
penetration. These sex positions work best for lazy girls who would like to
experience maximum sexual satisfaction without too much effort. However,
these techniques do not allow the man to last long and because of the skin-
to skin friction, he is bound to go over the edge easily and quickly.
15. Flat Iron Position
Woman: Lie face down on the bed with your legs straight. Bring your feet
together so your hips compress. This will make the vagina tighter and
ensure skin to skin grinding between the vagina and the penis. Slightly raise
your hips by placing a pillow below your stomach.
Man: Position yourself on your partner and slowly penetrate her deeply.
Place your hands on the sides of her stomach to support yourself so the
weight placed on her is not too much. Slowly thrust in and out and ensure
the first thrusts are slow and shallow; this will help you last longer while
she yearns for more. Pick up the pace while continuing the deep fast thrusts,
or do it in whichever way she likes it. This position narrows the vagina
making it easy for the man to hit the woman’s G-spot, clitoral stimulation,
and allows for deep penetration.
16. Push Up Position
Woman: lie down on your back with your legs in the air.
Man: Assume a push up position, slowly push your length into her, and then
start thrusting. You can pause to kiss her from time to time. Tease her by
removing your penis and rubbing her outside with it or by entering her with
just the tip or half your shaft. This will heighten her desire and she may
even reach for your penis and insert it herself.
17. The Anvil
Make the woman lie on the bed and bend her legs to bring his knees to his
chest, after which you can put yourself on top of her (if you are much
heavier than her, be careful not to lean or hurt her).
The angle allows to obtain a really deep and stimulating penetration; it is
also a very intimate and romantic location.
18. The Cross
Get her to lie sideways, open her legs and kneel over the leg she has placed
on the bed. You can hold the other leg with your hands or carry it on your
shoulder.
The beauty of this position is that you have a fairly unusual penetration
angle (in addition to reaching a fairly deep penetration).
19. Lazy-Cow Girl Position
Man: Lie on your back. Wrap your arms around your partner’s waist. While
she is thrusting, you can make small circular moves with your pelvis.
Woman: Wait for your partner to position himself then while facing him,
gently lower yourself onto him. Curl your feet around the inside of his legs
while keeping your knees on the bed. This position allows both partners to
read the emotions on each other’s faces. This helps heighten the intimacy. It
also gives room for kissing and stroking. Moreover, when the woman is on
top, it can help the man last longer thus ensuring maximum sexual
satisfaction.
Man: Sit at the edge of a bed or on a chair while facing your partner. Let
your partner sit on your laps and as she strokes your penis, you can suck on
her nipples, gently stroke them, or kiss her.
Woman: Sit on your partner facing him with your legs on the sides of his
stomach. Gently stroke his length then slowly lower yourself onto his penis.
Place one hand on his lap and the other on his shoulders, and then move up
and down his length. You can kiss each other while doing this or
romantically look into each other’s eyes. This creates a more intimate
environment.
This position is great for marathon sex since being seated helps you support
your partner. This position, like most woman on top positions, lets you – the
woman – control the angle and depth of the penetration and thrusts. You
also see the emotions on each other’s face and know when you hit it right.
With your groins grinding against each other, you can squeeze your vagina
muscles as he moves his pelvis in circles. This position allows him to last
longer thus ensuring maximum sex enjoyment and satisfaction. It also
allows the man to kiss her or massage her breasts and clitoris.
22. Python Position
Man: Lie flat on your back with your arms at your sides. Wait for her to
assume her position.
Woman: After he assumes his position, lower yourself onto his hardened
penis then stretch out slowly so you are now lying directly on top of him
with all your limbs aligned. Holding his hands, proceed to stretch your arms
out at your sides, and then lift your torso, just like a snake. The back and
forth friction created as you push with your feet ensures maximum clitoral
stimulation. Pressing your breasts against his chest and the friction created
as you lie skin to skin ensures maximum arousal.
23. Octopus Position
Man: Sit on the floor or bed with your hands leaned behind you, spread
your legs, then slightly bend them at the knees.
Woman: Wait for your partner to assume his position, and then with your
arms on the floor for support, face him, raise your legs and place them on
each side of his shoulders accordingly then scoot forward and slowly push
his penis into you. You can occasionally lean forward to kiss him. This
position allows for deep penetration as he moves up and down rather than
the normal side to side movements. Since you are face to face, you also
watch each other’s emotions.
24. Roller Coaster Position
Man: Lie on your back with your legs straight and wait for your partner to
position herself. You can help her thrust by holding her ass up when she
thrusts and raising your pelvis to meet her occasionally.
Woman: After your partner positions himself, slowly lower yourself onto
him while away from him, and fold your knees. Move in circles for a few
minutes. This will increase the sensations. Start in a slow motion then pick
up the pace after you take note of the perfect angle and depth of penetration.
You can support yourself by placing your hands on his sides. In this
position, your hands are free to caress each other. He can rub your clitoris
or caress your breasts.
25. Lap Dance
Man: Sit on a chair and wait for your partner to assume her position. After
she lowers herself onto you, slowly thrust into her with one hand rubbing
her clitoris for stimulation.
Woman: Wait for your partner to assume his position then sit on him while
facing away from him. Gently lower your anus onto his penis then start
grinding. Occasionally tilt until you discover the perfect depth and angle of
penetration.
26. Chef Position
For the Woman: Sit on a kitchen table with your legs parted. At the sight of
your partner, gently rub your clitoris and wait for him to assume his
position.
For the Man: After your partner assumes her position, move in between her
legs and gently enter her. Wrap her arms wrapped around your shoulders
then start thrusting. She can wrap her legs around your waist for deeper
penetration.
27. Hostess Position
For the Woman: Stand close to a sink and a mirror in a bathroom. Watching
each other climax or just watching each other in a mirror while at it is
enough to send you and your partner over the edge.
For the Man: Make her watch you as you enter her from behind. Slowly
push your penis into her vagina then slowly start moving. Rub her clitoris
with one hand while the other grips her breast.
28. Standing Tiger
For the Woman: Kneel on the edge of your bed and wait for your partner to
assume his position.
For the Man: After she assumes her position, enter her from behind. With
your legs outside hers, use your thighs to squeeze her knees together to
tighten her vagina.
Chapter 28. Powerful Sex Positions for
the Male Orgasm
29. The Closed Door
This position is similar to the missionary in that both people are lying down
face-to-face, and the man is on top. The difference, however and what
makes this an advanced position is that the woman will keep her legs shut
tightly the entire time. The man’s penis can be inserted while her legs are
open and then once it is in, she will close her legs. What this does is
constrict her vagina and make the canal tighter for the man’s penis. In
addition to this, if she is aroused her vagina will be engorged and the canal
will be tighter already. Because of this, the man’s penis will be hugged
closely as it slides in and out of her and this will make for extra pleasure for
him.
30. The Sitting Lap Dance
This following position is another that is best for male pleasure and the
male orgasm. This position requires strength on the part of the man and the
woman and is quite an athletic position, but this is why it is called an
advanced sex position. Be careful when trying this one.
To get into position, the man will sit upright in a comfortable chair or on the
edge of a bed with his feet planted on the floor. The woman will climb onto
his lap and wrap her legs around behind the man or stick them straight out
past him. Then, the man can insert his penis into the woman’s vagina. From
here, the woman will lean back until she is lying straight back, and her body
is flat. While she does this, the man will have to hold onto her at her hips or
her lower back, depending on your height variations. The man in this
position will perform a combination of thrusting his hips into the woman
from a seated position and pulling her onto his penis repeatedly. A high
amount of upper body strength is required on the part of the man in this
position. Place some pillows on the floor underneath the woman when
trying this position, just in case. The woman can hold onto the man’s arms
for support as well here.
This position is great for the male’s pleasure because it allows him to
control the speed and depth of thrusting, and it allows for deep penetration,
which will feel amazing on his penis.
31. Splitting the Bamboo
The waterfall is a position in which the man has complete control. The man
will begin by sitting in a chair with his feet on the floor. The woman will
climb onto his lap and insert his penis into her. She can wrap her legs
around his waist. Then, slowly, she will lean all the way back until her head
and arms are touching the floor (with pillows underneath). From here, the
man will hold onto her hips and can move her body onto his penis at
whatever speed and depth he wishes. He can also grab onto her breasts and
massage her clitoris in this position if he wishes. This position can be quite
challenging for the woman, but the blood flow to her head will make it
pleasurable for her. This position is great for the man since he is in control,
and the tightness of the woman’s vagina around his penis in this position
will be greatly pleasurable for him.
33. Standing Suspended From Behind-Anal
This position is great for those who are experienced with anal sex as it
allows for deep penetration and also requires strength from both partners.
This one is a bit trickier to get into, so to begin, the man will be sitting
down on the edge of the bed or in a chair and the woman will sit on his lap,
facing away from him. Then, the man will insert his penis into her anus. He
will hold onto her under her knees or under her buttocks, and once secure,
he will stand up, still inside of her. Then, leaning his back against a wall for
support, he will thrust into and out of her while holding her up. This
position can be very pleasurable for both people if fitness and strength are
there, which is why this is such an advanced position. This position is great
for the male orgasm because this position and the fact that it involves anal
sex will make it feel great for him. The only thing is that it requires a lot of
work from the woman as well.
Chapter 29. Sex Positions for the Female
Orgasm
These positions that follow are best for the female orgasm and the pleasure
of the woman. For great pleasure for the woman, positions that maximize
G-Spot contact, as well as positions that allow for simultaneous clitoral
stimulation, are best.
34. Standing Suspended
This first position is great for the female orgasm because of the angle that
the man’s penis enters her vagina and also because the man is in control in
this position so the woman can relax and enjoy the pleasure he is bringing
to her body.
To get into this position, the man will stand facing a wall with the woman
standing in front of him, her back to the wall. She will then jump into his
arms and wrap both her arms and her legs around him. Once here, he can
insert his penis into her vagina while holding onto her buttocks or
underneath her knees. He can lean her back on the wall in front of him for
support so that he does not have to support her entire weight in his arms. If
he holds onto her underneath her knees, this will open her up so that her
vagina is easily accessible. The fact that she is suspended coupled with this
will make it so that there is deep penetration occurring, and this will be
pleasurable for both the man and the woman. Deep penetration is great for
the female orgasm because there are two places located deep within the
vagina that, when stimulated, lead to a very intense orgasm for her. The
penis must achieve continuous deep penetration in order for this to happen
and in this position, it is quite possible.
35. Cross-Legged Vibrating
This position allows for multiple female orgasms because it involves
penetration as well as clitoral stimulation. The man will sit cross-legged,
and the woman will sit on his lap, wrapping her legs around behind him.
This can be done in a comfortable chair or on a bed. Once the penis is
inside of the woman’s vagina, he can thrust into her with his hips or lift her
up and down on his penis with his arms. Then, since her legs are spread
wide in a cross-legged position, she can use a vibrator on her clitoris (or her
hand if she doesn’t have one). This position will make for possible G-Spot
stimulation along with the clitoral stimulation which can lead to a blended
orgasm. It can also lead to back-to-back orgasms. This can happen if she
comes clitorally, and then penetration continues, which could then lead to a
G-Spot orgasm (or general vaginal orgasm). Then, there is even the
possibility of her having another clitoral orgasm if she begins stimulating
her clitoris again
36. The Scissors
This position is a little difficult to get yourselves into, but once you do, it
will be well worth the effort. To begin, the man will sit on the bed with his
arms behind him, holding his weight up but leaning back. Then, he will
bend one of his knees so his leg is bent. The woman will lie down on the
bed face-down and with her head at the opposite end of the bed as the
man’s. She will spread her legs and move her body toward the man’s until
their bodies meet. When they meet, their bodies will look like two pairs of
scissors crossed into one another. From here, the man will insert his penis
into her vagina. The woman can move her body up and down on his penis
and the man can thrust into her. It may take a bit of time to develop a
rhythm in this position, but when you do, you will both feel intense
pleasure.
37. Vibrating Cowgirl
This position is an advanced spin on a classic position, as well. You may be
familiar with the cowgirl position. This position begins in exactly the same
way as that. The man is lying on his back on the bed and the woman
straddles his penis, inserting it into her. The woman will move her hips on
his penis to control the depth and speed of penetration and is able to take
control of her pleasure here. This position is great for G-Spot stimulation
because of the angle at which the man’s penis meets the woman’s vagina.
Since the penis curves upward and the G-Spot is at the front of the vagina,
positions, where the man and the woman’s heads are at the same end of the
bed, are best for G-Spot stimulation.
What makes this position advanced is that once you are in this position, you
then will bring a vibrator to the clitoris of the woman. This can be done by
either the man or the woman, whichever you prefer. Because the woman is
on top and sitting upright, her clitoris is exposed and thus is open and
accessible by a vibrator. This will give the woman maximum pleasure as
she will have both G-Spot and clitoral stimulation at the same time. She
may even be able to achieve a blended orgasm, which is a combination of
two different orgasms at the same time, leading to a giant mind-blowing
orgasm. If you do not have a vibrator, you can use your fingers (either the
woman or the man) and stimulate the clitoris in this way. This now brings
us to our following category of positions, which are the best positions for
multiple female orgasms.
Chapter 30. Crazy Sex Positions
Additional Tips
The position does not require vigorous thrusting. Keep it relaxed and slow
to make it more sensual.
The man put pillows behind his back so he can recline and leave his hands
free. If he is flexible, enough he can massage your back or do anal
fingering.
41. Flying V Sex Position
You are not going to fly in the Flying V Position aka Superwoman Sex
Position.
Though you will feel like you are flying once your man has you in position
and he is thrusting back and forth inside you.
What the woman should do
The woman lies face down on the bed.
The woman’s stomach rests on the bed with her arms stretched out in front
of her as if she is flying.
Her hips positioned on the edge of the bed and her legs hanging over the
side of the bed and spread open.
What the man should do
The man stands near the edge of the bed behind you.
He holds up both your thighs and spread it in a V position while he steps in
between your legs.
He starts thrusting in and out of the woman.
Additional Tips
The man can thrust against the woman by just moving his hips or if he
wants a little bit more force by moving his entire body.
The man can bind the woman’s wrists on the bedpost for BDSM.
42. Reverse Missionary Sex Position
This is the same as the standard Missionary Sex Position but with a twist.
The couple would be head to toe in position instead of facing each other.
The man also needs to be flexible to execute this position properly.
What the woman should do
The woman should be flat on her back on the bed. She pulls the man’s penis
to help guide him inside her.
She will have to wait for the man to be comfortable, as he would be pulling
his penis down to thrust in and out.
What the man should do
The man lies on top of the woman in a head to toe position with his crotch
on top of hers.
The man spreads his legs apart so it will rest on either side of her.
The man carefully pushes his penis downwards to enter the woman. This
requires a little gentleness to avoid straining his penis.
He gently thrust up and down until he finds a comfortable rhythm.
Additional Tips
The man needs to take extra caution when executing this position. If he
feels a strain on his penis, he needs to stop and find a more comfortable
position.
Try doing the Betty Rocker position to help test if your man can execute the
Reverse Missionary. They are almost the same in terms of movement but in
the Betty Rocker, you can help ease the pressure on his penis.
43. Brooklyn Bridge Position
The Brooklyn Bridge position aka Big Dipper sex position will test the
man’s strength and endurance.
It is not popular because many consider it as something worth trying once
but not regularly.
What the woman should do
The starting point of this position is the man.
Once he is in position, the woman can face him while straddling him
without putting her weight on him. It will be like a straddling squat so as
not to strain him.
She can hold onto his waist as he thrusts up and down.
What the man should do
The man places a sturdy chair in front of the bed or the couch. The distance
should be just far enough for him to reach.
He starts by sitting on the chair first facing the bed. He lifts both legs and
rests them the bed. He should bend his knees slightly to avoid injury.
He then places his hands on the chair behind him and scoots over the chair,
his butt hanging suspended in the air. His position would make him look
like a suspended bridge.
He gently lifts himself up to thrust in and out of the woman.
Additional Tips
This is a tiring position for the man so do not expect the sex to last longer
than a minute.
If both want to make it last longer, the woman can start squatting up and
down on the man while the man ceases all movements.
44. Sitting on Throne Sex Position
Jellyfish Sex position looks hard as it sounds. The position requires good
balance and strength but gives off a lot of intimacy between the couple.
What the woman should do
The starting point of the position is the man.
Once he is in position, the woman straddles and squats down on him, her
legs on either side of his waist.
The woman wraps her arms around the man and starts grinding on his
crotch.
What the man should do
The man kneels on the bed and sits down with his butt resting on his ankles.
He wraps his arms around the woman’s waist and hips to pull her in closer.
He thrusts and grinds against the woman.
Additional Tips
This position is difficult to execute, if you are looking for something lasting
this is not the position for you.
This is not a good position of there is a huge disparity between the couple’s
height.
46. Down Stroke Sex Position
Hanging upside down may not be your cup of tea but using the Down
Stroke position will allow you to transition easily to other positions.
There is also the benefit of experiencing tremendous G-spot stimulation
doing this position.
What the woman should do
The woman lies on her back near the edge of the bed or a sofa.
She raises her legs, her toes pointing towards the ceiling. The position is
similar to the Deep Impact position.
She waits for the man to get into position to penetrate her.
First, we have the woman lying on the bed, with her legs lifted in the air.
The man then places himself in between her legs, holding onto her ankles
for additional support.
This is a great position if you enjoy aggressive sex with deep penetration.
Penetration can be done vaginally or anally; whichever you please.
This is also a wonderful position because it allows the two of you to look at
one another, which is a great way to improve intimacy between both
parties.
In this position, the man will be able to make her partner come and squirt
very easily, because he will reach without too much problem her G-spot
from inside.
Meanwhile, the woman should also help herself and her man, by
stimulating her clitoris with her fingers.
Keep going in this position for 7-10 minute, and if you two have made
preliminaries in the right way, and you settled the right mood in the way I
explained
In this position the woman should come and squirt before the man comes,
but if happens that the man comes first, you can finish this with the man
masturbating the woman.
48. Backwards Ride
Then there's the second one, which has this time the woman on top
position.
So, if you’re a woman who likes to be in control, then this is a great one for
you.
The man lays down with his upper back on the floor, hands out, while his
bottom half is resting on a bed or couch.
The woman gets on top and rides from above, with her legs up or on the
side of her partner.
This position is especially great because it allows the woman to be in
control of the pleasure that she is experiencing.
Anyways, also the man can feel a lot of pleasure, especially if he likes to be
dominated by his woman.
Since the woman is the one who control the situation, she can determine
approximately when she wants to come.
Instead, the man, even though he can feel pleasure too, won’t come very
easily, or maybe he won’t come at all.
That’s because in this position, he doesn’t have enough mobility to move in
the proper way.
The man is under the control of his partner, so he has got to communicate
with his woman, to explain to her what the best way is to move, in order to
maximize the pleasure that he feels.
Keep going in this position until the woman comes. If she gets tired before
coming, or the man starts feeling uncomfortable after a few minutes, you
can stop this position and finish the intercourse with the earlier one.
In this way, the woman will be very excited, since she was on the top for a
few minutes, and with the former position, the man will be able to finish the
job and make his woman and himself come very easily.
We have already seen in the former position, a good way for you and your
partner to have sex, with the woman leading the situation.
If you like this kind of positions, where the woman leads or even dominate
the man, now I’m going to show you one more position that will perfectly
suit this purpose.
49. Reverse Ride
This position has some similitudes, with the former one, since the position
of the woman is almost the same, apart from the way she will use her legs.
The main difference consists in how the man must be placed.
He must lay down normally on the bed, in a more comfortable position than
before.
He then has got to grab with his hand the thighs of his woman.
He can choose to do whatever he prefers, helping his woman to move up
and down or back and forth, or just keep grabbing her thighs help her have
more stability while she moves.
The woman must sit on her man, with her face towards the feet of the man.
She then must grab one of his legs, with her own legs or with the arms, and
start moving in the way she can feel more pleasure.
This position is a little more comfortable than the former one for the man,
but it could be harder for the woman to come because of her direction.
If the woman doesn’t feel much pleasure, she can try to turn herself towards
the face of her man, and lean her hands on the back, to slant a little on the
back.
In this way she should be able to feel the penis of her man hitting on her G-
point from inside, and that should cause more pleasure for her.
50. Human Quod
The Human Quod is an advanced position for the woman, since she has to
make some effort in order to keep her body in the right position.
The woman relies heavily on upper body strength. The concept behind this
one is simple.
Have the woman get into a position that is like a push-up, except instead of
having her feet placed on the ground, they are up at the sides of her
partner’s hips.
This position can be done on a bed or couch, taking height into account
respectively.
While the man holds her legs, he can control the penetration and speed at
which he thrusts. This is wonderful for deep penetration, especially if
you’re looking to benefit from it on a mutual front.
This position also feels wonderful if the woman likes to be teased anally.
In order for the woman to feel pleasure, and eventually come, the man must
do a pretty good job before trying this position, at the beginning of the
intercourse, with preliminaries.
51. The Jackhammer
The Jackhammer has some clear similarities with the former position.
This position is perfect if made with the woman partially lying on the
couch, with the man behind her.
The woman has to grab the couch to keep herself steady.
She can choose what to do with her legs, if she wants she can keep her feet
on the ground, or eventually if she feel more comfortable she can lift them
up, and use them as a hook to keep herself attached to her man.
As the former position, the man must keep his partner from the hips.
In this one is even more important than the other one, because this time he
will have to help his woman to stay steady, or she will struggle to keep this
position for more than 2-3 minutes.
52. The Magic Pillow
This other position can seem a pretty basic and normal position.
What makes it so special is, yea, the pillow.
The woman has just to lay down on the bad like when she sleeps, and then
she has to put a pillow, possibly a big one, under her womb.
The man must lay over his woman, and then he can start penetrating her.
Both normally and anally are good in this position.
The pillow will help a lot the woman, in this position she will be able to
keep her hips up, in order to let the man, do his job in the best way possible,
without making any special effort.
This position is perfect after you have tried one of the former positions,
since in the other two we had explored, the woman has to put some effort
into them, to get out of them high levels of pleasure, while in this one she
will be able to relax, feel pleasure, and let the man do all the job.
Chapter 32. Sex Positions for Male and
Female Satisfaction
Now, it is the woman’s chance to return the favor. Woman-dominated sex
positions are usually called Woman-on-Top Positions, although they are not
necessarily performed with the woman on top. A woman-dominated sex
position is not determined by the placement of the man and the woman, but
by who controls the movements and the phasing. A common misconception
about woman-dominated sex positions is that they are only good for wild
women, usually those with advanced experience in sex. That is wrong! A
woman does not have to know a lot about sex to perform a woman-
dominated sex position. The sex positions require body coordination,
rhythm, and a bit of flexibility more than experience. The instructions
below will help couples enjoy these woman-dominated sex positions and
end their sex with an explosive orgasm.
53. Acrobat Sex Position
How to do it: The man lies on his back and the woman sits astride him
towards the direction of his feet. Her knees should support her weight to
help her move easily. After inserting his penis inside her, she then lies down
until her back is flat on her chest. She can initiate penetration in this
position by rocking back and forth and from side to side.
In this position, the woman will be in charge of the movements and the
pace. However, he will have more control over manual stimulation as her
most sensitive pleasure spots are within his reach. He can play with her
clitoris, breasts, stomach, and hips as she moves.
Pros: This is one of the few positions where the man can stimulate her
pleasure spots without stopping penetration. This gives her intense pleasure
and gives him a lot of toys to play with.
Cons: The woman may find this position a little uncomfortable at first. A
man who is used to doing everything in bed may also feel very restricted
underneath her.
54. Betty Rocker Sex Position
How to do it: This position is the opposite of the Acrobat. Instead of lying
down, the woman bends forward, giving her more mobility to rock on top
of the man however way she wants to.
The man starts by lying down with his legs slightly open. She then straddles
him by kneeling to control her weight on top of him. After his penis slides
inside her, she gently bends forward until her upper body weight is already
resting on her arms. She can start rocking back and forth, up, and down, and
from side to side once positioned.
Pros: For him, this position can be intensely pleasurable as his penis can be
stimulated from practically all angles and directions, something that he can
hardly experience with the basic Missionary and Cowgirl Sex Positions.
For her, the complete control over the movements can give her the chance
to maximize stimulation. She can move as she pleases and hit her vaginal
walls as she likes.
Cons: As the woman is bent forward, his penis is also slightly bent
backwards, which is not a natural angle for the penis. There is a possibility
of suffering from penile injury without utter care.
Mastery Sex Position
How to do it: This position is comparable to the Cowgirl/Woman-on-Top
Sex Position, the difference is that the man sits on the edge of the bed.
After the man sits on the edge of the bed or sofa, the woman sits on his lap
with both feet planted on the bed. She then wraps her arms around his neck
while he props his arms on the bed for balance. After inserting his penis
inside her, she can start rocking as she pleases while he plays with her
breasts and neck with his tongue. She needs to squat a bit to perform up and
down thrusting.
Pros: The man and woman can enjoy deep penetration, as their bodies get
tighter with each other in every movement. She can also be pleasured orally
without stopping as her breasts and neck are open to him. Most importantly
the couple can engage with non-stop kissing and tongue action as they
breathe heavily towards the peak of pleasure.
Cons: It may be a little tiring for her, especially if she chooses to squat
when doing vertical thrusting. The surface of the bed or sofa should also be
firm to allow easy balance on top.
55. Bending Back Sex Position
How to do it: This position is the most extreme out of all the positions.
The man lies on his back and bends his legs on the knees until his butt is
raised. Preferably, his knees should reach his chest or close to it. This may
seem like a very awkward position for him, but that is nothing compared to
the intense pleasure that he is about to experience. Once the man is
positioned, the woman then squats on top of his penis to allow penetration.
Her feet should be planted as forward as possible until their legs are
interlocked against each other. She then carefully rocks back and forth and
moves up and down until both of them release their burst of orgasmic
energy into each other.
Pros: Although the position is a little difficult and uncomfortable for the
man, the pleasure he will enjoy still hits the top of the pleasure meter. His
angle of penetration allows his penis to bend downwards, which gives him
an unusual manner of stimulation. Most men who have tried it also enjoy
how their balls rub against their woman’s butt.
Cons: The man can only last long in this position depending on how strong
his back and legs are. The woman can also last depend on how long she can
maintain the squatting position.
56. Poles Apart Sex Position
How to do it: The poles being referred to in this sex position are the man
and the woman. The man lies on his side while the woman also lies on her
side facing him. However, only their bodies will be facing each other as
their heads should be in the opposite directions. After the man penetrates
her, both of them can start thrusting deeper and deeper until they reach
orgasm.
The best thing about this position is that it gives the couple an equal chance
to move and meet each other’s thrusts as they please.
Manual stimulation is very limited as their bodies are completely locked
against each other. Eye-to-eye contact is also impossible, which can make
the position less intimate for some people.
57. Irish Spooning Sex Position
How to do it: This is classic spooning, but with a twist. Instead of simply
lying parallel with each, both the man and the woman bend their upper legs
upwards. The woman raises her leg up to her chest while the man does the
same by raising his leg up to her waist. This allows deeper thrusting and
good access for manual stimulation.
The man can caress her clitoris while thrusting, or he opts to play with her
breasts instead.
Some couples may find it hard to sustain, especially for women who cannot
bend their legs up to their chests for too long.
58. Node Sex Position
How to do it: Most ballroom dancers like doing this position as their finale
pose, hence, the name. This time, the couple will still be dancing only to a
more sensual rhythm that unites their bodies.
The couple stand facing each other. The man grabs the woman’s leg and
raises it to his hips. She then wraps her arms around his neck for support
while he penetrates her. This can also be done with her back against the
wall for better balance.
How to do it: This position is a more extreme version of the Dancer Sex
Position. Like in the last position, the couple stands facing each other.
Instead of raising the woman’s leg up to the man’s hips or waist, she
stretches her leg all the way up to his shoulder. This is more difficult, but
the greater difficulty only highlights the sensation of every thrust.
This will be very intense for the woman as this stretches her vaginal walls,
making them look and feel tight. This position also opens up her clitoris and
breasts for non-stop manual stimulation.
For him, the penetration will give him more intense pleasure as her vagina
is tighter. He will also have access on all of her pleasure spots, especially
the clitoris and breasts.
The great amount of flexibility required for this position may not be
suitable for all women. Furthermore, she might find it hard to balance on
one foot, especially if the man is too tall for her height.
61. Tree Climbing Sex Position
How to do it: This sex position is more extreme than the other positions as
it requires the man to carry all the weight while initiating penetration and
oral stimulation.
The man stands straight with his legs apart for better balance. The woman
then climbs on him by straddling him by the waist. Her legs should be
locked around his waist and her arms locked around his neck. To penetrate,
he lifts her a little by grabbing her butt. To reduce the level of difficulty, he
can push her against the wall or raise her legs up to his back lowering her
legs will only make her heavier.
The difficulty of this sex position highlights the sensation that both the man
and the woman can feel. The rarity of this position also makes many couple
more excited when performing it.
The man needs to be strong enough to balance and carry the woman while
thrusting. Manual stimulation will also be limited as the couple’s hands will
be busy keeping balance.
Chapter 33. G-Spot Sex Positions
Many men cannot easily find a woman’s G-spot. It’s not surprising since it
is not really an anatomical part of the body. The G-Spot is part of a
woman’s clitoris that swells when stimulated or aroused.
It can be found about 2 to 3 inches inside the vagina near the side closest to
a woman’s belly button. When a man effectively stimulates a woman’s
vagina, he can give her a G-spot orgasm.
62. Sniper G-Spot Sex Position
The Sniper G-spot position may look a bit difficult to do but this is one of
the best positions if you want deep G-spot stimulation.
This position has a slight similarity to Deep Impact Position.
What the woman should do
The woman lies on her back. She raises her legs up while her feet rest on
the man’s shoulders.
Her upper back and shoulders resting flat on the bed.
What the man should do
The man kneels with his knees together to support his weight.
He grabs the woman by the legs and places the woman’s feet on his
shoulders. He reaches behind the woman’s buttocks to support the woman’s
upside-down position.
The man angles himself so he can hit your G-spot.
Additional Tip
The man should be extra gentle because he if he loses control of his thrusts,
he could hurt her.
While you man does her thing, you can fondle your breasts for added
stimulation.
63. Acrobat Reverse Cowgirl Sex Position
This position is just like the Reverse Cowgirl Position except that it is more
acrobatic because the girl leans back like an acrobat hence, most call this
Acrobat Position.
What the woman should do
Facing away from the man, the woman straddles the man and rides him.
Her knees bent and touching the bed, the woman lays her back down over
the man.
She wraps her arms around his neck and gyrates her hips onto her man.
What the man should do
The man lies on his back on the bed.
Help keep the woman’s balance by holding her as he thrust himself against
her from below.
Additional Tips
The man’s position allows him to caress and fondle her breast.
He can also finger her while doing anal penetration.
If the woman is not flexible enough, she can bend her knees and place her
feet flat on the bed.
64. Cannonball Sex Position
The woman sets her raised feet against the man’s chest as if she is human
cannonball about to launch.
They call also call this Launch-Pad Position.
What the woman should do
The woman will lie down on her back. She will lift her knees up to her
chest. Her feet will be against the man’s chest.
What the man should do
The man kneels, facing the woman.
Holding the woman’s buttocks, he lifts her as he leans back to find the
perfect angle to penetrate her.
He thrusts in and out of her.
Additional Tips
Leaning back against the woman as opposed to leaning forward will give
the man a better chance of finding a perfect angle for G-spot stimulation.
65. Back Spooning Sex Position
This is also known as Pearly Gates Position but its similarity to Spooning
Position makes it possible to be considered as its variation.
What the woman should do
The woman lies on top of the man with her back to his chest. Her head is
positioned above his head.
The woman can place her hands and bent leg over the bed to keep her
balance.
What the man should do
The man lies flat on his back on the bed.
He helps the woman to position on top of him. His legs will be between her
legs while his arms are wrapped around her to keep her steady.
He angles himself to penetrate the woman.
Additional Tips
The man can reach below to stimulate the woman’s clitoris.
The man can perform anal and use a toy or his fingers to stimulate her G-
spot.
66. Extreme Exposure Sex Position
This is one position that will leave the woman extremely exposed and those
who have tried this call it the Exposed Eagle Position.
This is a hard position to do and it requires a high degree of strength and
flexibility.
What the woman should do
The woman sits on top of the man’s crotch, her legs bent on either side of
him.
The woman lowers herself backward until she is resting on the man’s
outstretched knees and legs.
What the man should do
The man will be in a sitting position, with his legs outstretched.
He helps the woman lower herself on his knees and legs while trying to
keep her balanced.
He is at the perfect angle to hit her G-spot.
Additional Tips
If the woman’s body is not flexible enough, she can just straighten them
out.
67. Bouncing Spoon Sex Position
The Deep Impact position is a deep penetrative position, which is what its
name implies.
A good position if you are into rough sex but take care to avoid injury.
What the woman should do
The woman lies down on her back with her legs raised towards the ceiling.
Once the man is in position, she can rest her legs on his shoulders.
She can keep her arms on the side, or she can caress the man’s thighs as he
makes thrusting movements.
What the man should do
The man kneels down. He grabs the woman’s hips and pulls her towards
him. He can raise her hips as he penetrates her.
Additional Tips
The man can change his angle for deeper penetration. He can also spread
the woman’s legs wider.
The woman can push her hips towards the man so he penetrates her
deeper.
69. Head to Toe Spooning Sex Position
It may sound a vanilla position but there is still something sexy about the
woman going on top of her man.
Another name for this position is Sliding Lady Position.
What the woman should do
The woman slides up on top of the man in a kneeling position.
She leans forward with her hands on either side of him as she moves back
and forth with her clitoris near the man’s pubic bone.
What the man should do
The man lies down on his back, his legs stretched.
He enters her as soon as she gets into position.
He either holds the woman on the waist or hips to guide her up and down
movements.
Additional Tips
The woman needs to arch her back a bit to get maximum clitoral
stimulation while she moves or grinds herself against the man.
They can increase pleasure by kissing. The man can also caress her breasts
with his mouth.
Conclusion
Thank you for reaching the end. This book was the ultimate guide from
beginner to advanced, the bucket sex list for men and women, tips that will
transform your sex life and improve your relationships; hopefully it is
informative and able to provide you with all the necessary information. You
have to achieve your goals, whatever they are.
Just because you've finished reading doesn't mean there's nothing left to
learn, expanding your horizons is the only way to find the property you're
looking for. It is your responsibility to internalize and practice your key to
always get the best results. You may need to analyze important points and
prioritize them for easy and coordinated action steps. Once you decide to
try some of the practices debated to make sure you understand that your
partner's consent is paramount, it is a key factor in getting pleasure and
excitement.
Start with the easy sexual positions as you progress through the
intermediate positions and finally the advanced positions. An important first
step in sexual arousal should be seduction, which expresses your desire to
progress sexually. Note that it can be difficult to overlook a partner who is
unwilling to try new sexual positions or explore additional gender
variations. Therefore, you must approach them with respect and love and
convince them of the need to try something different and it can be a step to
enjoy an ecstasy of sexual excitement and orgasm.
The following step is to make use of the information and tools you have
read about to make sure you have an improved sex life.
If you are in a relationship, communicate more with your partner regarding
what you are and are not comfortable with, talk to each other about your
fetishes, and maybe try them out once in a while to further strengthen your
bond as a couple.
Always remember that sex is a mutually beneficial activity in a relationship.
You, therefore, need to always treat your partner as an equal in the game
(unless you have both agreed to explore submissive fetishes).
When it comes to the use of sex toys, sexual lubricants, and gels, every
product has different reactions, depending on the person’s body. When it
gets to a point where you have decided to introduce such elements in your
sex lives, also make it a point of acquiring them together to find products
that both of you are comfortable in using.
Make it a point of going through once in a while with your partner to make
sure you are always on top of your game in having a healthy, satisfying, and
productive sex life.
The following step is to talk with your partner and decide what you would
like to try. A great place to start is with massages. It is a simple and easy
way to bring the two of you together and help to get you in the mood. You
may even want to go out and buy some massage oils. From there, you can
work your way up to trying out some new foreplay games and sex
positions. If you’ve never tried dirty talk, that may be something that you
and your partner would like to try as well. The possibilities are endless as to
what you and your partner decide to do. The most important thing is to
make sure that you are both on the same page and go from there.
I hope you have learned something!