I believe that the most important 'key' to a successful relationship would have to

be 'trust'. I believe that with trust, love will follow. However, what I have
noticed is that many people think trust, or expect that trust is to be earned by
the other person, when in all actuality it is something that comes from within
yourself. All too many times people will say they don't trust due to past
experiences. What they don't realize is that they have built up those proverbial
walls to protect them from the very thing they are searching for... yes, there is a
risk in trusting someone, but when you finally find that 'right' person, it makes
all the past experiences and lessons learned very much worth the risk. All of
life's little lessons do not have to be painful... even when they seem so at the
time.You just have to chalk it up to experience and move on. Nothing is worth
closing your heart. Nothing is worth living in a world of fearing what bad 'may'
come to you. Without trust, you close your heart to the happiness and joy that true
love brings. to do, a Chat's the risk... but why allow past betrayals to prolong
the pain by building a fortress around your heart that not only protects you from
pain/betrayal, but also denies you the ability to experience happiness and joy?
Most have been hurt enough by one person, why allow them and their actions to stop
us from finding what we search for? I say open your hearts to trust and bask in the
beauty, happiness, and joy, of the true love that will follow. For everyone there
IS a someone, you just can't find them if you hide away all your life. making sure
you call the person you care about or love, and be there whenever he/she needs you.
Just care for that person with all your heart, Friendship is one of the important
key in any relationship. I feel that if you can be friends first what chance do you
have at being lovers? With friendship you have to have trust and respect. You have
to like the person you're friends with to get along together. Once that is
accomplished falling in love with them is just an extension of friendship, only
stronger and better. Like the foundation of a brick house, love must also have a
foundation. That foundation is friendship. You must have a strong foundation
(friendship) in order for love to withstand the test of time Validating your
partner's feelings. It's so important to be heard in a relationship even if you do
not agree with what is being said, I feel that a relationship should always be
based upon honesty and acceptance. When you can fully accept yourself, honesty will
come naturally. This in return will leave your partner feeling comfortable with
you, knowing there is nothing to hide. If two people can see each other in full
view with complete acceptance, they can build a successful relationship from this
Quality time spent together, pillow talk, one on one, being open about everything
Always showing you love each other all the time by celebrating on different
occasions like the first time you meet each other in person, I think the most
important key to a successful relationship is when you truly enjoy each other's
company..Commitment is the one greatest key to a successful relationship. If you
are committed you will always find a way to work things out...... I am a man of
true character who believes in giving everyone a fair chance. I have established
some very well thought out career goals with a clear path and plan to achieve
success which is controlling my own destiny and not all the money in the world. I
do have my Christian faith to credit for my life, attitude and success; however, I
don't use the name of God to attract women for my character speaks for itself. I am
not the type of man who is focused entirely on himself.... Pretty am a God fearing
man. I was born and raise up in a christian home. I am a very honest and straight
forward person. I understand all what you have said. I am too old for head games. I
believe that God have gotten his own reason for us to meet and come this far. All i
want us to do for now. Is to have trust within ourselves. I want you to know that
there is no love without trust. Cause i believe that the most important key to a
successful relationship is trust and i believe that with trust any other thing will
follow. Or what do you think?? I really enjoy reading and responding back to your
email. You are always welcome to my world of joy and happiness. I have to stop here
for now. Till i read from you again. Thanks and God bless you Linda,
Warm regards, Charles.
onship based upon false truths is not likely to be successful, because both
partners do not have the correct frame of reference in the relationship. There are
many qualities that make relationships good support, compromise, and open and
honest communication is just a few of these qualities that you may desire in a
relationship. Engage only in relationships where both partners can openly discuss
their wants and needs, this can take practice. Remember loving relationships grow
and only become better, eliminate those who do not meet your needs when they
continually fail to support you, will not compromise, and will not be honest. These
three qualities alone will help you nurture and develop a deeper relationship with
your partner. I Hope to read from you soon

Thanks for your Respond,i am so happy to read back from you..We need to build more
trust and Honest in this relationship so that we can trust and have believe in each
other also. I want you to know that Relationships bloom and live longer where trust
plays it part. Your relationship is bound to have passion, desire, glimmer and
everything rosy when trust factor remains there. Expecting a relationship to be
sweet and warm without the trust factor would be a mistake, as it does not happen.
Honesty brings individuals closer and the same goes where trust remains, and once
relationships lack honesty, the rest goes out of control. I want you to know that
Relationships bloom and live longer where trust plays it part. Building trust in a
relationship is a constant process and can�t be surely achieved overnight. It�s a
gradual progression and you just keep playing your part the way it should have
been. Understanding the partner and his/her needs is a key, and only this takes one
to honesty. After all, without exactly knowing the needs and specific desires, you
can�t ever rise to the expectations desired by your partner. And once you set your
goals to live up to the expectations of your partner, it suggests that you are
heading on the track of trust building process in the relationship. It�s also not
easy to keep fulfilling all the needs and desires of your partner, and no one can
do it for all the time. But then, there are ways when you can become good enough
for the needs of your partner by just establishing an effective communication. Just
talk about the issues that are getting constant negligence from both the sides, and
then hope the things to fall in place automatically. After all, your effort to
communicate will have the essence that you are passionate and equally interested in
bringing trust in your relationship. Just sticking to the basics is what can
immensely help you bring trust factor in your relationship. Don�t ever try to
involve yourself into the activities that look banal, and even have not even being
ever practiced by your earlier. That might leave a bad impression and also dilute
the honesty factor. I hope to read from you as soon.

Katty Brayton.

My love i want you to know that Trust is fragile. Once broken it is hard to mend.
This is all the more so in a Relationship. When trust is gone, the Relationship is
on shaky ground. Thus it is imperative to restore trust to save a Relationship that
is heading for break-up. Let me share two critical elements in restoring trust.
Although it may be difficult to restore trust, it is not impossible. Trust can be
restored through two main elements. These two elements are attitude and action.
There are attitudes for both partners to adopt. Firstly, on the part of the erring
partner, to restore trust there must be openness, accountability and assurance. In
essence, these three things are different attitudes. Allow me to elaborate on these
three attitudes. The attitude of openness is displayed by allowing the aggrieved
partner to ask any question he or she wants for as long as necessary. It is better
for your partner to ask concerning anything that still troubles him or her than to
keep it inside only for it to flare up in future and destroy trust again. The
attitude of openness leads to accountability. Being accountable to your partner is
a crucial step in restoring your partner's trust in you even though it might be an
inconvenience to be accountable. It is important that you bear with the
inconvenience and not give in to irritability, impatience or frustration. If need
be, allow yourselves to be accountable not only to one another. Trust is the
foundation of any relationship. The closer the relationship, the more important
trust is to that relationship. There is no other relationship closer than marriage
for two human beings. Thus restoring trust is imperative to save any marriage. Love
pls and pls let us restore our lost Trust. I will be waiting you online to chat
with me. Love you all time and days.

Honey we need to chat more and more so that we can Build our lost Trust,Faith and
Honest back in our relationship and pls reply back to my mail so that you can make
me happy Roger..While lying in bed yesterday and thinking about the times we've
spent together, I still wonder if I'm dreaming this magical life with you. Being in
love with you brings joy into my life again, when I thought I couldn't feel this
way about anyone, anymore. You came into my life suddenly and brought happiness and
again made everything so much harder and difficult after you proposed. I know you
like me a lot as you always say that I mean everything to you. I am just thankful
that you're in my life. The road for us is still long and wide and very, very
difficult, but remember I will always be by your side to support you, no matter
what. Also i will never Hurt,Lie and Cheat on you my love..Pls come online with me
by 4:00pm my time to chat with me more and more..I have to go and rest now and i
believe that you are going to reply me back Roger.. No matter what may happen to us
in this relationship Roger i will always tell you from the bottom of my heart that
i love you so Much..Bye for now..

Trust means to believe.I trust you, means I have no doubt in my mind about your
honesty, integrity and credibility.No relationship can survive without trust.How to
develop and keep the trust in a relationship forever, because as soon as the trust
breaks, the relationship breaks.Trust is the foundation on which a relationship is
built. If you don�t trust a person, howsoever you may love.Trust remains one of the
most important elements in a relationship. Without trust in our relationship,
failure is sure to follow. Trust in a relationship gives us a measure of peace and
calmness that leads to satisfaction and security. Here are a few ways to build the
trust in our relationship.Trust, in a practical sense, means that you place
confidence in someone to be honest with you, faithful to you, keep promises, vows
and confidences and not abandon you. Here are some factors to consider about trust.
Trusting another person requires a realistic perspective about.Trust needs to be
combined with a willingness to forgive and grows best in an environment of
acceptance and love. i will like to read back from u soon Love.

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one night stand. I'm not against making love - but I am against one night stands. I
guess what I'm saying is that when I share myself with someone, I give 100% and
nothing less. I expect that in return. I know I'm a man who can love a woman with
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I think a good relationship requires being each other's best friend, and trusting
one another. I think each should respect the other's opinion and that stupid
arguments over stupid things are healthy, as long as they are not taken too far. -
Krissy

Good communication. Never being ashamed of each other for any reason. On
occasion surprising your mate with a nice romantic date or evening together and
telling each other I love you. -Laura

There is a lot of love and caring in the relationship. There has to be love in
order for a relationship to work. -Donna

A good relationship is when your partner is more than just a partner... they
should be your best friend. -Rebecca

A good relationship is when two lovers understand each other, they're concerned
for each other and they respect one another. -GP

A good relationship is one purely based on trust, if nothing else. Being able
to be miles apart yet never worrying a minute about what they're doing.
Communication at all times is so important, and most importantly, respect for each
other and their need for alone time as well as together time. -Becky

Two people trusting each other fully, not being afraid to tell the other what
one thinks, whether it be good or bad, and the other respecting their opinion.
Being able to enjoy the same things with each other, enjoying each other, and being
able to take their separate lives and smoothly combine their lifestyles into a
couple's lifestyle. Carrie

Being friends first, last and always. If you have friendship as the basis of
your relationship, you can get through the hard times. The second ingredient is
commitment With those two things, you can't lose. -Heather

A good relationship is two people that are not afraid to tell the other
anything that may come up in the relationship. Best friends. Honesty, devotion,
love, and sense of humor. -kris

A good relationship exists when either individual has the freedom to leave but
neither wants to. -Charles
 I honestly think that a good relationship is one where there are no secrets.
You are completely open with each other. But the biggest key is that the other
person knows the worst possible thing about you and they love you even more for it.
On top of that you have to have faith and trust. So that when your man goes out
with an old female friend you can completely trust him and know that no matter what
happens, he will always come home to you. I know it may not seem like much but as
long as you have that and love, you are in a wonderful relationship. :) -Breanna

I define a good relationship by the way you treat each other. You could hold
them and run your fingers down the side of their face. Feel comfortable you know.
And you can also define it with fighting. Fighting is not my favorite thing to do
with my girlfriend. But it needs to be done. It's not a real relationship until you
do fight. -Jasen

I would have to say good communication! Equality, LOVE, not just lust, and most
of all, friendship is needed. -Morning Star

For me, a good relationship is being able to open up to each other even about
the simple things in life. A relationship between two people cannot grow without
trust. Loving a person is not enough, because if you've got doubts building up
inside then you your relationship won't work. A good relationship is also based on
friendship because it is so much easier to love someone you truly know than someone
you've met 5 minutes ago. -Toni

I think it is where you can trust and respect each other; when you can have
passion and romance whenever and wherever you wish. -Kevin

A good relationship is when the two of you can actually feel better about your
relationship after an argument; it's when you can really respect each other's
differences and openly discuss feelings at all times. -Angie

You have good relationship where there is compromise, honesty, sensitivity, and
a feel for the needs and wants of the other person and yourself. -Adrian

When the couple listens and doesn't interrupt when they're trying to work out a
fight. They care for each other deeply. They share similar interests. -Cassie

A good relationship is when both parties can freely express themselves with one
another and to have that open connection to be able to say anything to each other.
To have trust and faith in one another. Basically a honest, trusting, loving and
open relationship. -Randall

A good relationship is frankness and open-minded communication between friends.

It is a two-way communication without dominance and/or hypocrisy in it. -
FrankAnderson

A good relationship isn't necessarily flawless, because human beings aren't

flawless. It's more important that you can grow with the person you love. If you
can learn and grow each day with your best friend standing by you in body and in
spirit-then you have a good relationship. -nic

When you can feel comfortable about everything together. Always being able to
talk, joke. Taking your commitment seriously with one another and never taking each
other for granted. -Vivian Imrisek

A good relationship must a give and take basis, in order for you to understand
each other. Never fail to listen and understand the situation your in to. Be open
minded and be ready to any obstacle that will come in you're way. -Karen
 A good relationship is when both members fully trust each other and can have a
blast with each other, knowing how to laugh and be there for each other. -
kamainaone

It's something divine. Where the understanding between the two partners is
mutual. No talking required, but it's something you can just feel, something
special. Where you can just believe in each other, really believe. How there is a
difference between saying it and actually feeling it.

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# Dialogue. As soon as it is present, everything is possible." -Paceline Jean

# "I think the most important key to a successful relationship is when you
truly enjoy each other's company." -Anne Engle

# "I think the key to a successful relationship is to love them with all your
heart, and to always show them that you do. And of course to always be honest!" -
Kathy

# "Trust, good communication and a lasting friendship. I have been married to

the same man for 19 years. We have survived infidelity, separation, financial
woes,illnesses, etc. Through it all we managed to trust each other enough to be
honest and truthful about our infidelity by communicating peacefully. When we both
thought that the love was gone, we found a rare and beautiful friendship in each
other, which held the marriage together. Today, we are very happy as a family with
three children." -Jan Vega

# "Commitment is the greatest key to a successful relationship. If you are

committed you will always find a way to work things out." -Anonymous

# "I think it is friendship! You can love someone like that and still be best
friends and it's the best. Plus if they are your best friend, can't best friends
stay best friends forever? If you just love someone for their physical aspects,
there's no friendship or similarities between you except that." -Alane

# "Passion. Without feeling passionately towards your mate the communication,

sex, intimacy, and ultimate closeness will not be there, which in turn leaves each
partner wanting/needing more from the relationship than they are getting. I know
because I've lived it. My husband and I had everything. Money, companionship,
friends, a home,great jobs, but we didn't have passion. We were basically friends.
Friends are just that friends... husbands or wives should be in love and life
partners... that doesn't happen without feeling passion for the other person." -
Laura

# "Communication... talking and open honest communication about how you feel.
What makes you happy and what upsets you. If you don't tell your partner then they
can't do what makes you happy and vice versa." -Greg

# "The way a person treats his/her parents reveals how they WILL treat you! If
it's with love, kindness and respect, then this is what you will receive. But if
it's with criticism, defensiveness and disrespect, then this too you will
receive... EVENTUALLY... it's almost certainly a guarantee! So watch and listen to
the answers you get in their actions and words BEFORE you jump into bed!" -deb

# "Communication. In many instances, 'communication' can be used in place of

'relationship'. If you withhold something from your spouse or lie to them, the
communication (or relationship) has ended. If you chose not to be truthful,
because you're afraid they may leave or be upset, you've got nothing to lose -- the
relationship is already over. You may continue to go through life together, but
you'll never have a 'relationship'." -Eric Hill

# "I feel that a relationship should always be based upon honesty and
acceptance. When you can fully accept yourself, honesty will come naturally. This
in return will leave your partner feeling comfortable with you, knowing there is
nothing to hide. If two people can see each other in full view with complete
acceptance, they can build a successful relationship from this." -Sarah

# "I believe that the most important 'key' to a successful relationship would
have to be 'trust'. I believe that with trust, love will follow. However, what I
have noticed is that many people think trust, or expect that trust is to be earned
by the other person, when in all actuality it is something that comes from within
yourself. All too many times people will say they don't trust due to past
experiences. What they don't realize is that they have built up those proverbial
walls to protect them from the very thing they are searching for... yes, there is a
risk in trusting someone, but when you finally find that 'right' person, it makes
all the past experiences and lessons learned very much worth the risk. All of
life's little lessons do not have to be painful... even when they seem so at the
time. You just have to chalk it up to experience and move on. Nothing is worth
closing your heart. Nothing is worth living in a world of fearing what bad 'may'
come to you. Without trust, you close your heart to the happiness and joy that true
love brings. It's only my experience... and it's what I believe has given me the
wonderful gift of 'true' love. It's a hard thing to do, a scary thing, but very
much worth it. This is not to go without saying that some people may betray your
trust... that's the risk... but why allow past betrayals to prolong the pain by
building a fortress around your heart that not only protects you from
pain/betrayal, but also denies you the ability to experience happiness and joy?
Most have been hurt enough by one person, why allow them and their actions to stop
us from finding what we search for? I say open your hearts to trust and bask in the
beauty, happiness, and joy, of the true love that will follow. For everyone there
IS a someone, you just can't find them if you hide away all your life..." -Adrienne

# "Not expecting your partner to think and react to things the way you do.
Resolving any conflict in your relationship depends on this. It's important to
respect your partner's feelings, even if they are different from your own. If you
and your partner both do this you can usually resolve bad situations, even if you
still don't see eye to eye at the end." -Yolanda Iniguez

# "The most important 'key' to a relationship is not worrying about how long it
will last, when it will or won't end, and enjoying every moment possible together."
-Kathy

# "The key is to be understanding. Nobody can change their personality, so we

simply have to try to understand each other as we become closer." -Lauren

# "Always showing you love each other all the time by celebrating on different
occasions like the first time you met each other." -Darnell James

# "Validating your partner's feelings. It's so important to be heard in a

relationship even if you do not agree with what is being said." -Robin

# "Friendship is most important in any relationship. I feel that if you can't

be friends first what chance do you have at being lovers? With friendship you have
to have trust and respect. You have to like the person you're friends with to get
along together. Once that is accomplished falling in love with them is just an
extension of friendship, only stronger and better. Like the foundation of a brick
house, love must also have a foundation. That foundation is friendship. You must
have a strong foundation (friendship) in order for love to withstand the test of
time." -zanfair

# "The most important key to success is making sure you call the person you
care about or love, and be there whenever he/she needs you. Just care for that
person with all your might." -Eva

# "Quality time spent together, pillow talk, one on one, being open about
everything." -deanna

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Before making a long-term commitment with someone you need to know that you are
compatible. You need to make sure that you can live with their life views. The last
thing you need is to invest years into a relationship, possibly even get married
just to find out you have vastly different views towards educating children, or
whether women should work. I'm not saying there are right and wrong views. The only
wrong views would be ones you would not be able to handle. For each person this is
different. The questions below were devised to help you and your partner find out
how compatible you really are. Is this the one person you can see going through
life's

What are your religious views?

Do you believe in a God?

What are your views about an afterlife?

How should we agree to handle arguments?

If you're mad about something how will you let me know?

If you're having problems would you talk it out or keep it inside?

Do you like sharing your feelings?

What are your views about same sex friends?

How do you feel about ex-lovers being friends?

How important is a girl's or guy's night out?

Who should hold the main financial responsibility in a marriage?

Should a wife stay home with kids?

What are your views about stay-at-home dads?

How would you feel about women who make more money than men?

What are your views towards handling money?

Do you feel you should save everything?

 Do you feel you should splurge a little?

How would you rate your ability to handle money?

How would you handle a debt problem?

What would you do if your partner became disabled and couldn't work?

What would you do if your partner face long-term unemployment?

What would you expect from that partner?

Would you have an abortion?

What are your views on abortion?

Do you want children?

How many children do you think a couple should have?

How would you discipline your children?

Do you think couples should argue in front of their kids?

Do you feel couples should have displays of affection in front of their kids?

What are your views on the educational system?

How would you want your kids taught?

Public school, private school, home schooling, or other?

Who do you expect would be the primary care giver for your children?

What do you feel about interracial couples?

How do you feel about same sex marriages?

What are your views on age gap relationships (more than 10 years apart)?

How would you handle your children if they were involved in one of these types
of relationships?

How would you handle your partner if they developed a problem such as gambling
or alcohol?

What would you do if your partner cheated on you?

At what point would you consider divorcing a life mate?

Where do you want to be in 5 years? 10 years? 20 years?

What are your life goals?

What are your passions?

If you had a million dollars how would you spend it?

Do you believe in marriage?

 Do you believe you should only marry once?

What do you hope to gain from a marriage?

What do you expect from a marriage partner?

What do you feel is the purpose of a couple getting married?

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