Homosexuality in Percpective by Bill Masters & Virginia E. Johnson
Homosexuality in Percpective by Bill Masters & Virginia E. Johnson
Homosexuality in Percpective by Bill Masters & Virginia E. Johnson
in Perspective
WILLIAM H. MASTERS
CO-DIRECTOR
VIRGINIA E. JOHNSON
CO-DIRECTOR
FIRST EDITION
ISBN O-316-54984-3
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FOREWORD
For over a millennium and a half the West has shown a marked
ambivalence regarding sexual relations, including sexual intercourse
within marriage. Pope Gregory the Great, for example, in his Pas
toral Rule, warned that married couples who sought pleasure from
intercourse “transgressed the law of marriage” and as a consequence
“befouled their intercourse with pleasure.” Concerns about sexual
pleasure and excessive sexual activity have remained a preoccupation
of the West and have at times taken special expression in particular
movements such as the Bogomils of the tenth and eleventh cen
turies and the Cathars, who followed them, as well as such recent
groups as Ann Lee’s Shakers. The established cultural attitude re
garding sexual function reflected a sense of shame beyond one of
modesty. One should note that the etymology of the word puden
dum derives from the Latin pudere “to be ashamed.” Such attitudes
have persisted. In the nineteenth centuiy, for example, physicians
concerned with sexual attitudes still announced in medical journals
that “not one bride in a hundred, of delicate, educated, sensitive
women accept matrimony from any desire of sexual gratification;
when she thinks of this at all, it is with shrinking, or even with hor
ror, rather than with desire.” Marriage manuals of this period often
contained seriously inaccurate information, such as that the peak
fertility of women was during menstruation and that in midcycle
women were most infertile. Attempts to do research concerning the
physiology of sexual response were met with condemnation, as a
St. Louis physician discovered, when in the early 1870s he studied
the physiology of orgasm.
Only very slowly, through the work of individuals such as Sig
mund Freud, Alfred Charles Kinsey, William H. Masters, and Vir
ginia E. Johnson, has there been an acceptance in our culture of the
importance of studying sexual function and dsyfunction. The
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W. H. M.
V. E. J.
St. Louis
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ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
W. H.M.
V. E. J.
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CONTENTS
1. Preclinical Investigation 3
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xiv CONTENTS
BIBLIOGRAPHY 413
INDEX 437
PRECLINICAL
STUDY, 1917-1970
I
PRECLINICAL
INVESTIGATION
RECRUITMENT OF HOMOSEXUAL
STUDY GROUP
sentatives were accepted into the program only if they could docu
ment that they were currently living in a homosexual relationship
of at least three months’ duration. This was the only exception
made to the criterion of a minimum of one year’s established rela
tionship before acceptance of a homosexual couple in a committed
status. Thus, the Kinsey 1 volunteers, who reported a minimal
amount of homosexual interaction compared to the predominance
of their heterosexual experience, had concentrated their homo
sexual activities in the immediate past prior to recruitment. Obvi
ously, they also were likely to be in their late thirties or into their
forties and to have been quite active heterosexually in order to have
a history of three months’ experience in a committed homosexual
relationship and still be classified as Kinsey 1 men and women.
There was also concern in arbitrarily selecting the specific clas
sification of Kinsey grades 2 through 4 for any individual who had
had a large number of both homosexual and heterosexual experi
ences. The ratings (described in Chapter 1) were assigned by the
research team after detailed history-taking, but it is difficult for any
individual to be fully objective in assessing the amounts of his or
her heterosexual versus homosexual experience when there has
been a considerable amount of both types of interaction. Some
of these preference ratings might well be subject to different inter
pretation by other health-care professionals. Generally, the Kinsey
2, 3, and 4 individuals had an estimated number of sexual contacts
that impressed the interviewer as far above the typical range of age-
related sexual experience.
The Kinsey 3 classification was the most difficult to assign of the
ratings. Relative equality in any form of diverse physical activity is
hard to establish. Particularly was this so when the interviewer, in
attempting to separate mature sexual experience into its homo
sexual and heterosexual components, was faced with a history of a
multiplicity of partners of either sex. This problem was augmented
by the subjects’ frequently vague recall of the average number of
sexual interactions with each partner. This lack of a clearly defined
sex history is an almost inevitable hazard when conducting retro
spective interviews, particularly with men and women who have
had a large number of sexual partners.
It should be emphasized that just as was true for the Kinsey 1
16 CHAPTER TWO
SCREENING
ELIMINATION OF SUBJECTS
RECRUITMENT OF HETEROSEXUAL
STUDY GROUP A
Twelve of the 114 male (Table 3-11, Chapter 3) and 9 of the 121
female heterosexual volunteers (Table 3-14, Chapter 3) were re
jected because they reported a degree of homosexual experience
either beyond Kinsey 1 or, more frequently, described homosexual
experience within the year prior to organization of the research
group.
Of the total 57 male and 57 female study subjects finally selected
for study group A, 2 men and 1 woman were in the 51-60-year age
group. Actually, 4 men and 4 women in this age range were inter
viewed, but 2 of the men and 3 of the women were rejected. One
man was rejected for medical reasons (diabetes) and 1 because he
had a continuing history of rapid ejaculation. Two of the 3 women
rejected in this age group were simply not free to meet the time
commitments necessary for the laboratory scheduling, and 1 woman
was contemplating a marriage which, if established, would have
terminated her cooperation with the research program.
The age categories of 21 to 30 and 51 to 60 provided the highest
percentage of rejections for men (Table 3-11, Chapter 3), and the
older age groups (41 to 50 and 51 to 60) had the highest rejection
rates for women (Table 3-14, Chapter 3). In the male study group
ages 21 to 30 there was frequent evidence of social instability once
in-depth interviews were initiated during the selection process. The
research team may have been overly cautious, but the same general
criteria were applied to men in this age group as was true for the
selection process involving male volunteers for the homosexual
study group. The medical reasons for the high percentage of rejec
tion in the small number of older men who volunteered as study
subjects have been stated above.
For older heterosexual women, who had the highest rejection
rate, there was a different problem. Social instability was not a
primary concern; the problem was just the opposite. The hetero
sexual women expressed real concern with the possibility of public
identification as study subjects. They frequently described a fear
of general social opprobrium. Once such fears were vocalized, it
was the research team’s position that these women should not be
invited to become study subjects. It was felt that fear of identifica
tion might distract from the effectiveness of sexual interaction in
the laboratory.
20 CHAPTER TWO
Of real interest to the research team was the fact that the older
women in study group A reflected the same high incidence of fears
of identification if they cooperated as study subjects in the labora
tory that were expressed by the same age group of women volun
teers in the original heterosexual study group a decade previously.
Of further import was the fact that such fears of social opprobrium
were rarely expressed by the older female volunteers in the homo
sexual recruitment program. An outstanding exception to this state
ment has been described earlier in this chapter for an older homo
sexual couple.
Medical causes for rejection of volunteers were minimal. As
described earlier, 1 older man was rejected because he had diabetes
and 1 younger woman because she had hypertension. The only
other medical rejection was in a single woman in the 21-30-year
age group who was found to be in early pregnancy during the
routine physical examination.
FORMATION OF HETEROSEXUAL
STUDY GROUP R
(REDUCTION PROCESS)
total of 382 women and 312 men had been active as study subjects
in the research laboratory during this phase of the overall research
program.
Of the 276 married couples who had cooperated with the pro
gram, 19 did not participate in each of the observed techniques of
masturbation, partner manipulation, and coitus. Fellatio and cun
nilingus had not been investigated. There were a number of rea
sons for reluctance to participate in the full range of studies, but if
either partner in a marriage expressed reservation to any form of
sexual activity, no effort had been made to seek compliance. Since
full cooperation had not been obtained, these 19 couples were re
moved from statistical consideration.
There were 6 married couples who had cooperated to record
sexual response patterns during pregnancy. Five of the couples had
participated in research programs before pregnancy, and all con
tinued to cooperate with other research programs after pregnancy.
The statistics returned during the states of pregnancy were removed
from consideration, but material developed before or after preg
nancy was included in the overall statistics.
There remained 257 married couples who had engaged in the
stimulative techniques of masturbation, partner manipulation, and
coital activity in these programs. Most of the married couples, once
committed to the research programs, had continued their participa
tion over periods of one to six years.
Most of the 106 unmarried women who were possible subjects
for selection into study group B had not been asked to respond in
the laboratory to each of the stimulative techniques. There were 7
women with artificially created vaginas who constituted a special
study group in vaginal agenesis that arbitrarily was removed from
statistical consideration (Masters and Johnson, 1961). Forty-eight
single women had cooperated only with the artificial coital experi
ments (Masters and Johnson, 1966; Johnson et al., 1970). Since
male partner interaction was excluded as a part of their laboratory
experience, the orgasmic facility of these women will not be pre
sented for comparative consideration.
Finally, there were 27 single women who had volunteered early
in the female sexual physiology studies to participate only in mas-
turbational activity and who had not wished to accept assigned
male partners in any form of sexual interaction. These women
22 CHAPTER TWO
TABLE 2-1
Study Group B (Reduction Table): Male Study Subjects
Study
Group B
Original No. (Reduction Percent of
Age Population * Reduced Population) Sample
21-30 120 6 114 39.9
31-40 111 2 109 38.1
41-50 42 4 38 13.3
51-60 19 5 14 4.9
61-70 14 3 11 3.8
71-80 4 4 0 0
81-90 2 2 0 0
Total 312 26 286 100
(1957-1965)
* Reported in Masters and Johnson (1966), p. 13.
TABLE 2-2
Study Group B (Reduction Table): Female Study Subjects
Study
Group B
Original No. (Reduction Percent of
Age Population * Reduced Population) Sample
18-20 2 1 1 0.4
21-30 182 41 141 50.2
31-40 137 32 105 37.4
41-50 27 12 15 5.3
51-60 23 8 15 5.3
61-70 8 4 4 1.4
71-80 3 3 0 0
Total 382 101 281 100
(1957-1965)
Reported in Masters and Johnson (1966), p. 13.
CHAPTER TWO
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TABLE 2-3
table 2-4
Study Group B: Formal Education in
Female Study Subjects (N — 281)
SUMMARY
TABLE 3-I
table 3-2
Homosexual Study: Couples Among Male Study Subjects
(N = 94; Male Couples, N = 49)
3-3
TABLE
Kinsey Scale
Age 0 1 2 3 4 5 6 Total
21-30 0 0 6 9 5 5 8 33
31-40 0 2 5 8 8 15 10 48
41-50 0 2 0 3 0 4 3 12
51-60 0 0 0 0 0 0 1 1
Total 0 4 11 20 13 24 22 94
(0%) (11.7%) (13.8%) (23.4% )
(4.3%) (21.3%) (25.5%) (100%)
(1964-1968)
table 3-4
Homosexual Study: Formal Education in
Male Study Subjects (N = 94)
table 3-5
Homosexual Study: Genitourinary Pathology in
Male Study Subjects (N = 94)
Pathology
Benign prostatic hypertrophy 0 0 1 1
Inguinal hernia (symptomatic) 0 1 0 0
History of gonorrhea 7 4 1 0
Additional data
Uncircumcised penis 3 3 1 1
(1964-1968)
TABLE 3-6
Homosexual Study: Selection of
Female Study Subjects (N = 82)
TABLE 3-8
Homosexual Study: Kinsey Classification of Sexual Preference
in Female Study Subjects (N = 82)
Kinsey Scale
Age 0 1 2 3 4 5 6 Total
18-20 0 0 0 0 1 0 0 1
21-30 0 0 5 12 10 4 6 37
31-40 0 2 5 6 6 5 6 30
41-50 0 1 1 2 1 2 4 11
51-60 0 0 0 0 0 1 2 3
Total 0 3 11 20 18 12 18 82
(0%) (13.4%) (22.0%) (22.0%)
(3.6%) (24.4%) (14.6%) (100%)
(1964-1968)
3-9
TABLE
Homosexual Study: Formal Education in
Female Study Subjects (N = 82)
TABLE 3-IO
Homosexual Study: Pelvic Pathology in
Female Study Subjects (N = 82)
3-11
table
Heterosexual Study Group A: Selection of Male Study Subjects
(N = 57-, Married, N = 50; Assigned, N = 7)
21-30 44 29 17 29.8
31-40 49 37 30 52.6
41-50 15 11 8 14.0
51-60 6 4 2 3.5
Total 114 81 57 100
(1967-1968)
TABLE 3-12
TABLE 3-13
Heterosexual Study Group A: Genitourinary Pathology in
Male Study Subjects (N = 57)
TABLE 3-14
TABLE3-1 5
Heterosexual Study Group A: Formal Education in
Female Study Subjects (N = 57)
21-30 27 7 12 8
31-40 23 7 11 5
41-50 6 3 2 1
51-60 1 0 1 0
Total 57 17 (29.8%) 26 (45.6%) 14 (24.6%)
(1967-1968)
* Listing dependent only upon matriculation (highest level).
As was true for their male counterparts, there were very few
instances of pelvic pathology identified at physical examination for
the 57 women in heterosexual study group A (Table 3-16). There
table 3-16
Heterosexual Study Group A: Pelvic Pathology in
Female Study Subjects (N = 57)
TABLE 3-I7
Homosexual Study: Combined Marital and Pregnancy History in
Female Study Subjects (N = 82)
table 3-18
Heterosexual Study Group A: Combined Marital and Pregnancy
History in Female Study Subjects (N = 57)
TABLE 3-19
Homosexual Study: Combined Marital and Presumed Impregnation
History in Male Study Subjects (N = 94)
table 3-20
Heterosexual Study Group A: Combined Marital and Presumed
Impregnation History in Male Study Subjects (N = 57)
The one female study subject in the 18-20-year age group classifi
cation conceived at 17 and voluntarily aborted at approximately three
months’ gestation. Of the 37 study subjects in the 21-30-year age
group category, 11 had been married (see Table 3-17). Nine of the
women in this age category achieved 13 known conceptions that
terminated in eight full-term or premature deliveries, one miscar
riage, and four abortions (three voluntary, one involuntary). No
woman in this age group described more than two conceptions.
The most interesting history was that of a study subject who
reported that she had been married, achieved one full-term preg
nancy, had one miscarriage at five months and yet insisted that she
had had intercourse only five times in her life and, as a result, was
classified as a Kinsey 5. She had the frequently encountered history
of having a husband “not interested in sex” and gravitated to
homosexuality originally as a means of sexual release. In time, she
divorced and established a committed homosexual relationship; the
child, a girl, was welcomed into the lesbian couple’s stable social
community.
There were 31 study subjects in the 31-40-year age group, of
whom 9 had been married. Ten of the women in this group re
ported 14 pregnancy histories, from which there were eight full
term deliveries, two premature deliveries, and four voluntary abor
tions. It is interesting to note that of the 9 married women in this
group, 1 had three children and another had two children and one
abortion; yet both of these women had been so involved in homo
sexual activity before, during, and after their marriages that their
sexual preference was classified as high as Kinsey 2 and Kinsey 3,
respectively. The remaining eight pregnancies were described as sin
gle conceptions. One Kinsey 4 unmarried woman in this 31-40-year
age group conceived, carried to term, delivered, and placed the
baby for adoption.
Of the 10 individuals in the 41-50-year age group, 5 had married
and 3 had conception histories that totaled three full-term deliv
eries and two voluntary abortions. Finally, of the 3 women in the
51-60-year age group, 1 woman (Kinsey 5) had married (the mar
SELECTED STUDY CROUPS
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riage lasted only three days), but there was no history of conception.
It is interesting that following the 21 full-term or premature de
liveries among the 82 women in the homosexual population, there
was only one attempt to breastfeed. This nursing effort was discon
tinued after approximately two weeks because, as the woman re
ported, she “didn’t like it.” Apparently there was no difficulty in
milk production.
Although the number of marriages seems high for subjects of a
homosexual research program, seven of the 26 marital commitments
were brief, lasting six months or less. The longest marriage was re
corded at 13 years (Kinsey 1). Two marriages were common-law
in character (five years in duration) and were listed as marriages
for statistical purposes; 1 of these women was classified as Kinsey 2
and 1 as Kinsey 3 in sexual preference.
In the male homosexual population there were 15 reported mar
riages among the 94 study subjects (Table 3-19). Three subjects
who had been married were rated as Kinsey 1, 6 as Kinsey 2, 4 as
Kinsey 3, and one each as Kinsey 4 and Kinsey 5. The most long-
lived marriage, that of a 46-year-old Kinsey 1, lasted for 17 years,
and the shortest, that of a Kinsey 5, lasted one week.
There were 11 presumed impregnations for the entire male study
subject group. Seven ended as full-term deliveries, and four ended
in abortions. Five of the term pregnancies occurred within mar
riages, as did two involuntary abortions. Two voluntary abortions
and the other two full-term pregnancies were reported by study
subjects who had never married, but who were convinced that they
had been responsible for the pregnancies.
The marriage and reported impregnation statistics of the male
homosexual population may have some interesting implications,
but the material must be evaluated with caution because records of
reported marriages, conceptions, deliveries, and abortions do not pro
vide all the pertinent facts necessary to suggest more than tentative
conclusions. Of particular interest, however, is the strong sugges
tion of lower than normal fertility in the male homosexual study
subject population. As stated above, there were eleven reported
conceptions for the entire homosexual male study-subject group,
seven ending as full-term deliveries and four as abortions. Two of
the marriages, one of a Kinsey 1 subject and the other of a Kinsey 2,
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SUMMARY
became study group B (see Chapter 2), three of the Institute’s four
basic research populations have been described. These study groups
will be used to illustrate homosexual men and women’s facility of
sexual response in a laboratory setting in comparison to that of sta
tistically comparable heterosexual research populations. Further,
these study groups provide a unique opportunity for immediate
comparison of the sexual physiology and sexual behavior of men and
women of homosexual and heterosexual orientations. Finally, from
these homosexual and heterosexual study groups, comparisons can
be drawn to the ambisexual study population—the fourth basic
research population—reported in Chapter 8.
4
STUDY SUBJECTS IN THE
LABORATORY
SCHEDULING
STUDY-SUBJECT POPULATION
STUDY-SUBJECT CONCERNS
TABLE 4- 1
Study Subjects in the Laboratory, îgtf-igyo
Committed
Study Group Male Female Couples
creased, not only for the homosexual and ambisexual study subjects
involved in the research project, but for Institute personnel as well.
As was explained to every potential study subject, there is no such
thing as guaranteed protection from identification. Each individual,
however, was assured that every effort would be made to protect his
or her anonymity not only while they cooperated with the Insti
tute’s research programs, but for the future as well.
As a routine security measure, research records have always been
carefully isolated. Episodes of sexual interaction in the laboratory
usually were reserved for the late evening or early morning hours
or for weekends, and laboratory personnel were severely restricted
in number. In short, many security techniques were utilized, most
of which will not be discussed in order to preserve their effective
ness for the future. To the research team’s knowledge, of the hun
dreds of men and women involved as study subjects in the research
projects, only 6 have been openly identified as having participated
in Institute programs, and in each instance, the decision to be iden
tified as a study subject was made by the individuals themselves.
Of course, many others living at long distances may have discussed
participation in the research programs with friends or relatives with
out the research team being aware of these breaks in security; but it
is also true that persons have claimed participation in Institute pro
grams that never took place, further complicating the issue.
Fears of performance have been expressed by study subjects in
dozens of different ways during the years of laboratory investigation.
Such anxieties were expressed by both committed and assigned
pairs. One note of interest is that during the late 1950s by far the
largest number of vocalized performance concerns came from the
male study subjects, but during the investigations of the mid-1960s,
the female participants were beginning to become as concerned
about effectiveness of performance as the men. The population
without apparent concern in this area was the ambisexual study
group, none of whom ever verbalized any concern for performance.
This anxiety over study subjects’ sexual performance was shared
by the research team. It was anticipated that there might be prob
lems of satisfactory function in private arising from failure to func
tion effectively in the laboratory, but, in fact, such problems never
materialized. Despite anxieties that may have been initially ex
50 CHAPTER FOUR
pressed, the few men and women who failed to function effectively
on a specific occasion in the laboratory, with one exception (Chap
ters 6 and 11) never evidenced serious concern during or after the
failure episodes, nor did they report any functional repercussions in
their private lives. They simply explained their ineffective perfor
mance by saying, “I was tired,” “I just couldn’t get involved,” or
“It wasn’t my day,” and moved into the next opportunity with con
fidence and success.
Successful sexual experience does breed confidence. It would in
deed be rare for a sexually active man or woman to reach 60 years
of age with a perfect score in sexual performance. The rare episode
of failure to function effectively did not seem to bother sexually ex
perienced individuals significantly. The men and women who coop
erated with the Institute’s research projects had significant sexual
experience and seemed reasonably comfortable with their rare epi
sodes of failure.
Usually it is relatively inexperienced men and women who allow
a single episode of functional failure to build into crippling fears of
sexual performance. If ever there was reason to support the concept
that only sexually experienced men and women should be invited
to participate in evaluation of sexual function in a laboratory set
ting, it is the fact that a depth of experience tends to lend comfort
and objectivity to a failure episode. The functional efficiency of the
study subject is discussed in detail in Chapter 6.
Concern over one’s personal attractiveness as viewed by the part
ner was expressed frequently by male and female study subjects in
both homosexual and heterosexual assigned relationships. These in
dividuals with expressed concern for personal attractiveness fre
quently needed reassurance from their partners. Men and women
in committed relationships rarely expressed such fears.
Occasionally concerns were expressed on the opposite side of the
coin: Would the assigned partner be attractive? Would there be
time to become comfortable personally with the previously un
known partner before sexual interaction? Would the partner be
too demanding or too restrained or not cooperative enough sex
ually? These fears, like those for personal attractiveness, were ver
balized primarily by assigned partners and seemed to be at least
S.TUDY SUBJECTS IN THE LABORATORY
51
THE LABORATORY
ACCLIMATION PROCESS
* The original heterosexual study population was reduced to form study eroun B
(see Chapter 2).
STUDY SUBJECTS IN THE LABORATORY
53
PRIVILEGE OF PRIVACY
Woman Y was a Kinsey 5 in the 41-50-year age group who had been
gang-raped as a virginal woman 20 years old. There had been a good
deal of physical trauma, necessitating some surgical repair of the vaginal
barrel and the perineum. The story of the rape was common knowledge
in the small town in which she lived, and her male contemporaries had
not only been vicious in their comments, but demanding sexually. There
had been no psychotherapeutic support provided by her family, and her
inability to cope with the situation had led to total rejection of the male
sex.
Rejecting all social and sexual experience with males, woman Y as
sumed a male role herself within 18 months after the rape episode. She
moved to a bigger community, began supporting herself, dressed in a
CHAPTER FOUR
5«
SUMMARY
inevitably one must work with men and women who respond
effectively. The carefully selected homosexual and heterosexual
study subjects employed in the Institute’s research programs must
not be considered representative of a cross-section of sexually adult
men and women in our culture.
Fourth, qualified investigators with similar opportunities to
observe and evaluate hundreds of male and female sexual response
cycles might occasionally have presented differing opinions of
behavioral patterning in homosexual or heterosexual response. Re
gardless of the degree of observer experience, the reported opinion
of human sexual interaction is at best suspect, and at worst, may
simply be in error.
These four reservations always should be kept in mind when
evaluating the comparisons that have been drawn by the research
team of sexual behavior patterns created by homosexual and hetero
sexual men and women responding sexually in a laboratory environ
ment.
COMPARATIVE PATTERNS:
MASTURBATION
COMPARATIVE PATTERNS:
quently during breast play for one lesbian partner, both partners in
a committed couple lubricated extensively.
There was another important behavioral difference between com
mitted lesbian partners interacting and husbands approaching their
wives in stimulation of the female breast. The lesbian women were
well aware that at times in the menstrual cycle a woman’s breasts
and/or the nipples may be tender—even painful—to touch. A
number of times early in breast play, lesbian stimulators asked
their partners if their approach to the breasts caused discomfort.
On several occasions the instructions from the stimulatee were to
be gentle, and on two occasions the stimulatee requested that the
breast stimulation be discontinued.
Throughout the years in the laboratory with both heterosexual
research populations, no husband ever raised the question with his
wife as to whether his approach to the breasts distressed her in any
way. On three occasions wives asked for more gentle breast play,
but no heterosexual woman ever requested cessation of play.
Close observation has suggested that there were many times
when women were made physically uncomfortable by their hus
bands’ approaches to the breast. Although frequently admitting
later in private that the observer’s impression of cyclic breast ten
derness had been correct, the women simply did not inform their
husbands at the time. The usual stated reason was because “he
likes to play with my breasts so much I didn’t want to distract
him.” When the husbands were queried separately, they expressed
surprise at their wives’ cyclic distress, and the unanimous reaction
was, “Why didn’t she tell me?”
During the committed lesbian couples’ genital play, the labia,
mons, inner aspects of the thighs, and vaginal outlet were almost
always approached before the clitoris was stimulated directly. When
clitoral contact was initially established, the contact was casual.
After initial contact with the glans, the clitoral shaft usually be
came the primary focus of stimulative activity.
There were two predominant types of genital play evidenced by
committed lesbian couples. First, there was the time-consuming,
nondemanding approach, during which a responding partner was
brought to highly elevated levels of sexual excitation, allowed to
regress, and then returned to her previously elevated tension levels.
COMPARATIVE SEXUAL BEHAVIOR PATTERNS
COMPARATIVE PATTERNS:
COMPARATIVE PATTERNS:
FELLATIO/CUNNILINGUS
FELLATIO
When coitus was the directed sexual behavior, the assigned het
erosexual partners still approached the female breasts and the geni
tals of both sexes directly, with little or no other anatomic pream
ble. The assigned partners tended to initiate the mounting process
as soon as there was obvious lubrication and penile erection. There
was total male dominance, not only of the mounting experience
(timing and penile insertion), but of the thrusting pattern as well.
The assigned female partners adjusted to male domination of the
82 CHAPTER FIVE
the women who after the initial orgasmic experience expressed in
terest in a repeat of such experience in the immediacy of the par
ticular sexual episode. While the usual male postorgasmic pattern
was that of a brief refractory period, during which he was impervi
ous to further sexual stimulation, the experienced female frequently
moved with continuity from one orgasmic experience to the next.
There was no obvious period of time during which she was unre
sponsive to reapplication of the previously successful stimulative
techniques.
Regardless of the gender-linked differences in facility for im
mediate postorgasmic response, the approach to reapplied stimu
lative activity was always the same. Whether male or female, ho-
mosexually or heterosexually oriented, or committed or assigned
partners, there were no nongenital preliminaries when responding to
a multiorgasmic interest. Study subjects always moved immediately
to their partners’ genital organs to restimulate sexual interest. The
obvious goal of end-point attainment was omnipresent, and the di
rect genital approach was usually successful with sexually experi
enced study subjects unless satiation had intervened.
SUMMARY
table 6-2
Homosexual Study: Functional Efficiency in Female Committed
(N = 38) and Assigned Couples (N = 4 * ), yog Observed Cycles
TABLE 6-3
Homosexual Study: Functional Efficiency in
Male Study Subjects (N = 94*), 538 Observed Cycles
table 6-4
Homosexual Study: Functional Efficiency in Male Committed
(N = 4i) and Assigned Couples (N = y *
), 538 Observed Cycles
6-5
table
Homosexual Study: Comparison of Functional Failure Rates by
Gender (Male Study Subjects, N = 94 *;
Female Study Subjects, N = 82 f)
Gender and
Type of Observed Functional Failure Failure
Stimulation Cycles Failures Incidence Percentage
Male
Masturbation 126 1 1 : 126.0 0.79
Partner 195 2 1 :97.5 1.02
manipulation
Fellatio 217 1 1 : 217.0 0.46
Total 538 4 1 : 134.5 0.75
Female
Masturbation 211 2 1 :105.5 0.95
Partner 306 2 1 :153.0 0.65
manipulation
Cunnilingus 192 1 1 : 192.0 0.52
Total 709 5 1 : 141.8 0.71
(1964-1968)
* Two study subjects offered incomplete cooperation with this study,
t Three study subjects offered incomplete cooperation with this study.
TABLE 6-6
Heterosexual Study Group A: Functional Efficiency in
Female Study Subjects = 462 Observed Cycles
6-7
table
Heterosexual Study Group A: Functional Efficiency in Female
Married (N = 50) and Assigned Study Subjects (N — y),
462 Observed Cycles *
much so in fact that the female partner’s failure was not repeated
in further encounters. The remaining three failures, one with cunni
lingus and two during partner manipulation, developed among the
50 married couples.
1OO CHAPTER SIX
table 6-8
Heterosexual Study Group A: Functional Efficiency in
Male Study Subjects (N = 57), 384 Observed Cycles
6-9
TABLE
Heterosexual Study Group At Functional Efficiency Male
Married (N = 57) and Assigned Study Subjects (N = 7),
384 Observed Cycles *
6-10
table
Heterosexual Study Group A: Comparison of Functional Failure
Rates by Gender (Male Study Subjects, N — 57;
Female Study Subjects, N = 57)
Gender and
Type of Observed Functional Failure Failure
Stimulation Cycles Failures Incidence Percentage
Male
Masturbation 115 1 1 : 115.0 0.87
Partner 123 1 1 : 123.0 0.81
manipulation
Fellatio 146 1 1 : 146.0 0.68
Total 384 3 1 : 128.0 0.78
Female
Masturbation 142 0 0 0
Partner 161 2 1 : 80.5 1.24
manipulation
Cunnilingus 159 2 1 : 79.5 1.26
Total 462 4 1 : 115.5 0.87
(1967-1968)
102 CHAPTER SIX
men in study group A was 0.78, and that of the women, 0.87- There
were 78 more observed cycles reported from the female research
population as well as one more functional failure. Again, the 78
additional cycles are evidence of woman’s innate capacity for multi-
orgasmic response. Gender equality in sexual functional efficiency
will be considered in detail in Chapters 10 and 11.
6-11
table
Heterosexual Study Group B: Functional Efficiency in Female
Study Subjects (N = 281), 1513 Observed Cycles
table 6-14
Heterosexual Study Group B: Functional Efficiency in Male
Married (N = 257) and Assigned Study Subjects (N = 2g),
826 Observed Cycles *
TABLE 6-15
Gender and
Type of Observed Functional Failure Failure
Stimulation Cycles Failures Incidence Percentage
Male
Masturbation 387 3 1 : 129.0 0.77
Partner 439 4 1 : 109.8 0.91
manipulation
Fellatio * 0 0 0 0
Total 826 7 1 : 118.0 0.85
Female
Masturbation 670 4 1 : 167.5 0.57
Partner 843 6 1 : 140.5 0.72
manipulation
Cunnilingus * 0 0 0 0
Total 1513 10 1 : 151.3 0.66
(1957-1965)
* Fellatio and cunnilingus were not evaluated in heterosexual study group B.
COMBINED HETEROSEXUAL
Table 6-16 shows the combined total of the response statistics for
heterosexual study groups A and B. For all practical purposes, there
was no significant difference in the functional efficiency of hetero
sexual men and women responding to effective sexual stimuli in a
laboratory environment. Obviously there were many more female
orgasmic cycles (765) developed during masturbation, partner ma-
io6 CHAPTER SIX
TABLE 6-16
Heterosexual Study Groups A and B: Comparison of Failure Rates
by Gender (Male Study Subjects, N = 343; Female
Study Subjects, N = 338)
Gender and
Type of Observed Functional Failure Failure
Stimulation Cycles Failures Incidence Percentage
Male
Masturbation 502 4 1 :125.5 0.80
Partner 562 5 1 :112.4 0.89
manipulation
Fellatio * 146 1 1 : 146.0 0.68
Total 1210 10 1 : 121.0 0.83
Female
Masturbation 812 4 1 : 203.0 0.49
Partner 1004 8 1 : 125.5 0.80
manipulation
Cunnilingus * 159 2 1 : 79.5 1.26
Total 1975 14 1 : 141.1 0.76
(1957-1965, Group B)
(1967-1968, Group A)
* Fellatio and cunnilingus were evaluated with heterosexual study group A only.
COITAL FUNCTION
study groups A and B. These men and women have previously pro
vided material representing response to masturbation, partner ma
nipulation, and fellatio/cunnilingus (study group A) and masturba
tion and partner manipulation (study group B). There remain to
be considered the returns from the same heterosexual study sub
jects responding to coital opportunity.
table 6-17
Heterosexual Study Group A; Functional Efficiency in Coition,
Female Study Subjects (N = 57), 189 Observed Cycles
*
pie group was experienced by a woman who was not feeling well
and had just recovered from an upper respiratory infection.
Male Study Subjects. Among the male members of heterosexual
study group A there were four instances of erective failure and
three of premature ejaculation for a total of seven male functional
failures during 189 attempted coital response cycles. One episode
of erective failure and one of premature ejaculation occurred dur
ing the interaction of the assigned couples. The remaining two epi
sodes of rapid ejaculation and the three instances of erective failure
developed within the married couple group (Table 6-18).
6-18
table
Heterosexual Study Group A: Functional Efficiency in Coition,
Male Study Subjects (N — ^y), 189 Observed Cycles
There was yet another important reason why the female partner’s
orgasmic function was not evaluated objectively during the exten
sive investigation of male sexual physiology. Except for special proj
ects (intravaginal contraceptive physiology, for example) (Johnson
and Masters, 1962 and 1970), the investigation of various aspects
of woman’s sexual physiology had already been essentially con
cluded before specific attention was devoted to the physiology of
the male sexual response cycle.
There still remain for statistical consideration 4,106 coital cycles
during which observation of a complete sexual experience for the
female partner was anticipated at onset of stimulative activity.
Many diverse female response patterns were under inspection dur
ing these thousands of coital opportunities. They included breast
reactions, sex-flush color distribution, labial color changes, waxing
and waning of vaginal lubrication production, orgasmic platform
formation, onset and duration of contractions during orgasmic ex
perience, cardiorespiratory response patterns, and many other physi
ologic reactions. The more effective the female’s response in terms
of sex-tension increment, the more information was obtained.
Therefore, complete records were kept as to the effectiveness of
the woman’s sexual performance during the 4,106 observed response
TABLE 6-19
6-20
table
Heterosexual Study Group B: Functional Efficiency in Coition,
Male Study Subjects (N = 286), 5780 Observed Cycles
*
satisfactory for coital function 156 times, and 18 times men ejacu
lated during or shortly after penetration. Both erective insufficiency
and premature ejaculation were classified as coital failures. The 29
assigned couples interacted coitally 601 times. There were 33 occa
sions of erective failure and six instances of too-rapid ejaculation.
When the functional failure statistics of married men and the men
in assigned couples are combined, the overall incidence of male fail
ure to function effectively was 1 : 27.2 coital episodes and the fail
ure percentage was 3.69.
There were no incidences of ejaculatory incompetence as had
been noticed during both homosexual and heterosexual response to
partner manipulation or to heterosexual masturbation.
The percentage of failure to function effectively during coition
for men in assigned couples was approximately twice that of the
married men. We have no secure information that would explain
this significant statistic. Interestingly, a similar functional failure
discrepancy between married men and men in assigned couples did
not occur when the same men were responding to the stimulative
techniques of masturbation or partner manipulation (see Table
6-14).
Of the 156 failures to attain or sustain erections in the married
couples group, there were 7 men who failed to function effectively
on two occasions and 1 man who could not function during three
different episodes. These failures occurred over several years of
laboratory cooperation, with the shortest time between erective fail
ures being approximately 18 months. The man with three failures
to attain secure erections participated with his wife over a five-year
period in different laboratory programs. There was a minimum of
20 months between erective failures. The remaining failure episodes
developed singly for men cooperating with the various programs.
Almost unanimously the men’s complaint was one of distraction
leading to erective dysfunction. This was true for men in married or
assigned couples. None of the men who failed to achieve or main
tain erections in the laboratory environment reported similar oc
currences in their private lives.
There were 4 men functioning as assigned partners who had two
episodes each of erective failure. Again, the failure episodes were
separated by periods of time. In no instance were they recorded in
116 CHAPTER SIX
EJACULATORY INCOMPETENCE
bers of the male study groups? Once these anxieties were alleviated,
research interest was focused on any information that might lead
to better understanding of and improved treatment for clinically
established states of ejaculatory incompetence. Although inter
viewed independently, the 3 men gave almost identical accounts of
their subjective impressions as the incompetence was experienced.
In each episode there had been initial sexual anticipation, fol
lowed by sensual pleasure occasioned by the physical stimulation
whether by self or partner. Erection developed for the homosexual
man during the anticipation phase and for the 2 heterosexual men
during the early stages of penile manipulation either during mas
turbation or by the female partner. Increasingly elevated stages
of sexual excitation were readily achieved until plateau phase levels
of sexual involvement were experienced. As each man described his
reactions, it was apparent that from a psychophysiologic point of
view he had reached that level of sexual excitation when he sub
jectively felt ejaculation imminent, but had not moved far enough
into the plateau phase to have reached the stage of ejaculatory in
evitability.
The research team had noted that as plateau-phase levels of sexual
involvement continued without ejaculatory release, each man de
veloped a somewhat anxious facial expression and requested or ap
plied increased manual pressure or a more rapid penile stroking
pattern. At this point in time, the 3 men were obviously trying to
force the ejaculatory experience, but despite their every effort, it
simply did not happen.
In describing the failure experience, all 3 men stated that shortly
after they had sensed that ejaculation was imminent, the feeling
developed that they could continue indefinitely at current excitation
levels without ejaculating. They further stated that initially they did
not lose the feeling that ejaculation was imminent, but they had
lost any real sense of ejaculatory demand. The subjective descrip
tion was one of being suspended in sexual pleasure and able to go
on indefinitely. When the sense of lack of interest in ejaculating
turned to that of inability to ejaculate, the men tried to force the
issue, and when unsuccessful, they became anxious and lost most
of their prior sense of sexual pleasure.
When the 3 men verbally expressed the feeling that they did not
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119
COMMITTED VERSUS
ASSIGNED COUPLES
T A BL E 6-21
Homosexual and Heterosexual Study Groups A and B:
Functional Efficiency in Manipulative Stimulation
Female Male
Study Group, Type Ob- Failure Ob- Failure
of Stimulation, and No. of served Percent- No. of served Percent-
Couple Status Couples Cycles age Couples Cycles age
Homosexual study
group: masturba
tion, partner manip
ulation, fellatio/
cunnilingus *
Committed 38 669 0.74 41 471 0.85
Assigned 4 40 0 7 67 0
Heterosexual study
group A: mastur
bation, partner ma
nipulation, fellatio/
cunnilingus t
Committed 50 418 0.72 50 332 0.90
Assigned 7 44 2.27 7 52 0
Heterosexual study
group B : mastur
bation and partner
manipulation 1
Committed 257 1437 0.69 257 739 0.95
Assigned 29 76 0 29 87 0
* Refer to Tables 6-2 and 6-4.
t Refer to Tables 6-7 and 6-9.
t Refer to Tables 6-12 and 6-14.
TABLE 6-2 2
Female Male
Study Group Ob Failure Ob Failure
and Couple No. of served Percent No. of served Percent
Status Couples Cycles age Couples Cycles age
Heterosexual study
group A *
Committed 50 157 3.18 50 161 3.11
Assigned 7 25 4.00 7 28 7.01
Heterosexual study
group B t
Committed 257 3494 2.69 257 5179 3.36
Assigned 29 479 2.92 29 601 6.49
* Refer to Tables 6-17 and 6-18.
t Refer to Tables 6-19 and 6-20.
SUMMARY
similar sexual stimuli. For the first time, sexual functional efficiency
in terms of failure of orgasmic attainment has been reported so
that comparisons may be made relative to gender, to sexual prefer
ence, and to the roles of committed and assigned partnerships for
the sexually experienced study subjects. Finally, selected individual
failures to function effectively in the laboratory have been discussed
briefly, and the unusual male functional failure of ejaculatory in
competence has been considered in more detail.
The statistics returned from the 14-year laboratory investigation
of alternative styles of human sexual interaction will be considered
in Chapter 10. Implications that may be drawn from these statistics
will be discussed in Chapter 11.
7
HOMOSEXUAL
PHYSIOLOGY
SCHEMATIC DIAGRAMS
FIGURE 7-I
The male sexual response cycle. (From Masters and Johnson, 1966.)
ORGASM
PLATEAU
EXCITEMENT
ABC (C)
FIGURE 7-2
The female sexual response cycle. (From Masters and Johnson, 1966.)
HOMOSEXUAL PHYSIOLOGY:
TOTAL-BODY RESPONSE
the arms; then from the face, neck, chest, and abdomen; and finally
from the diaphragm.
Deep vascular engorgement is usually confined to the primary
and secondary organs of reproduction (target organs) and to other
auxiliary pelvic structures. Some examples of the concentration of
venous blood in the target organs are increase in female breast
size, onset of penile erection, or development of the orgasmic plat
form in the outer third of the vagina. Existing varicosities in the
pelvis and legs may become severely engorged as sexual tensions
elevate. These specific anatomic reactions to elevated sexual ten
sions will be discussed in context.
It may be of psychological as well as physiologic significance that
severe degrees of deep vasocongestion in the target organs were
established by homosexual women far more frequently in com
mitted as opposed to assigned relationships. As described in Chap
ter 5, committed homosexual women usually spent an extraordinary
amount of time in sexual play. On an average, they took far more
time in sexual interaction than homosexual women in assigned rela
tionships, than ambisexual women in their homosexual phases, or
than heterosexual women responding to their husbands’ sexual ap
proaches.
It was apparent that advanced degrees of deep vasocongestion
resulted from more time spent with such teasing techniques as
starting and then slowing or even temporarily suspending sex play,
or varying both the intensity and ingenuity of sexual approaches.
When assigned female homosexual partners moved through sexual
response cycles with relative rapidity, or for that matter, during the
infrequent occasions when committed homosexual women also
moved rapidly through their sexual response cycles, an appreciable
reduction was identified in the venous congestion of the target or
gans. It also should be mentioned that on the few occasions during
heterosexual partner manipulation and cunnilingus when husbands
took long periods of time to stimulate their wives and teasingly
varied the intensity and even the ingenuity of their stimulative ap
proaches, an advanced degree of venous engorgement was present
in the breasts and pelvic organs of these heterosexually oriented
women.
The same increases in vasocongestion of the target organs were
evident during the interaction of committed male homosexual cou-
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REPRODUCTIVE ORGANS
plateau phases. When the breasts have not been nursed, the entire
breast increases in size as sexual excitation progresses. Since only
one homosexual study subject nursed a baby and then only for
two weeks (Chapter 3), breast engorgement was pronounced in all
observed female response cycles when the interaction between
stimulator and stimulatee continued at a leisurely pace. When
there was long-continued breast play, the stimulatee’s breasts usu
ally increased in size from one-quarter to an estimated one-third
over sexually unstimulated baseline measurements.
A pattern of female breast reaction to sexual stimuli unique to
the lesbian study group was identified. The stimulator’s breast size
also was observed to increase measurably during long-continued
periods of sexual interaction. Though lesbian couples were almost
always in a “my tum-your turn’’ interaction pattern, with one giv
ing and one receiving physically stimulative approaches to the
breasts, the woman giving (manipulating or suckling her partner’s
breasts ) frequently reached that level of sexual excitation necessary
to achieve obvious increase in her own breast size. In most instances
there was minimal breast engorgement for the stimulators, but oc
casionally the engorgement was estimated at as much as a one-
quarter increase over the sexually unstimulated baseline size. This
pattern of breast engorgement for the stimulators was particularly
obvious for the two women who insisted on manipulating their
committed partners and did not allow their partners to approach
them physically at any time (Chapter 5).
The stimulator was not only responding to her sexual arousal
that developed from the physical approach to her partner’s breasts,
but she was also subjectively appreciating and being sexually stimu
lated by her partner’s verbally and nonverbally communicated high
levels of sexual excitation. As a matter of sequential timing, it was
noted that once the stimulatee’s breast engorgement was obvious,
the stimulator’s breast distention, if it was to occur, followed within
2 to 5 minutes. Only one stimulator developed breast engorgement
more than 5 minutes after the stimulatee had responded, and there
were no instances when the stimulator evidenced breast engorge
ment before the stimulatee.
There was no obvious breast reaction to orgasmic experience.
During the resolution phase, breasts lost their deep vascular en-
HOMOSEXUAL PHYSIOLOGY
»33
gorgement far more rapidly when the responding lesbian was or
gasmic than in the very few instances when she was unable to
achieve release (Chapter 6).
Deep vasocongestion was also easy to identify in the female geni
tal organs during lesbian interaction. When stimulative approaches
are confined to masturbation, partner manipulation, and cunni
lingus, effective observation of the external genitalia is far simpler
than when intercourse is a factor. Again, obvious physiologic re
sponses to elevating sexual tensions were identified for both the
stimulator and the stimulatee.
When the genitals were approached in partner manipulation or
cunnilingus, almost all committed lesbian partners had moved into
stimulator-stimulatee roles. Both partners usually had experienced
some degree of overt sexual stimulation varying from general body
stroking to breast suckling, and both partners, regardless of their role
of giving or receiving sexual pleasure, usually had developed an ob
vious amount of vaginal lubrication.
Vaginal lubrication appears early in response to any form of ef
fective sexual stimulation experienced by the human female. It is
but a matter of a few seconds from onset of stimulation to obvious
lubrication production. However, once initiated, lubrication is not
produced at a steady pace by either homosexually or heterosexually
oriented women. In general, lubrication flow increases or diminishes
in direct proportion to the elevation or regression of sexual tension.
In other words, the production rate of lubrication is tied to the de
gree of involvement with or distraction from the sexual opportunity
at hand.
Homosexual or heterosexual women rarely respond from the on
set of the excitement phase through plateau to orgasm in a direct,
continuing line of constantly elevating sexual tension. Usually there
are distractions that at least momentarily lower the degree of sexual
involvement. Most distractions, such as reduction in effectiveness
of a particular stimulative technique, sounds or sights foreign to the
specific sexual interchange, or introduction of irritating or unac
ceptable stimulative approaches, slow the production of vaginal
lubrication. Of course, if the distractive element is of sufficient in
fluence, there may be complete cessation in the flow of lubrication.
And responding women, regardless of their sexual preference, are
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134
easily distractable until late in the plateau phase of the sexual re
sponse cycle.
As has been noted, by the time an approach was made to the
genitals of one partner, both lesbians in a committed relationship
were usually well lubricated. Once genital play was instituted, how
ever, the stimulatee usually far outproduced the stimulator. There
were exceptions to this observation. The two women who insisted
on playing only the stimulator role (see Chapter 5) were as well
lubricated while manipulating their partner’s genitals as were the
highly aroused partners themselves. One lesbian member of a com
mitted couple, a very heavy lubricator, did indeed produce more
lubrication than her partner, regardless of whether she was in a
stimulatee or stimulator role.
There was no obvious difference in lubrication production be
tween homosexual or heterosexual women as long as the stimula
tive techniques of masturbation, partner manipulation, or cunni-
lingus were used exclusively throughout the entire sexual response
cycle. When the techniques of partner manipulation or cunnilingus
were employed by husbands as a preamble to anticipated coital con
nection, however, lubrication frequently developed irregularly and
was estimated to be in less copious amounts than that produced by
the same women when they were anticipating end-point release
from a stimulative technique other than intercourse. Women an
ticipating intercourse may involuntarily put a different value on
the stimulative techniques of manipulation and cunnilingus when
considering them as a means to an end rather than an end in them
selves. Certainly women anticipating intercourse were more easily
distracted while responding to precoital manipulative or cunnilingal
stimulation than during episodes employing these standard stimu
lative techniques when coitus was not allowed.
The clitoris responds in identical fashion to effective stimulation
regardless of whether the stimulators are heterosexually or homo-
sexually oriented. The retraction reaction that elevates and flattens
the shaft of the clitoris on the inferior surface of the symphysis
pubis occurs late in the plateau phase, regardless of the source of
stimulation. It has not been established whether there is a pre-
orgasmic expansion of the clitoral glans to parallel the immediate
preejaculatory penile glans expansion described in the section on
HOMOSEXUAL PHYSIOLOGY
135
One other minor variation on the basic theme of the male’s physi
ologic response to effective homosexual stimulation was the im
mediate preejaculatory expansion of the penile glans. This deep
vasocongestive reaction was not identified during the original in
vestigation of the heterosexual male’s physiologic response to sex
tension increment, but probably it was present, for it has occasion
ally been identified in heterosexual study group A males. This
further expansion of the already grossly engorged glans does not
occur with established regularity, but when it does develop, it paral
lels the man’s subjective appreciation of unusually high levels of
sexual excitation.
The terminal glans expansion phenomenon was most in evidence
when committed male homosexual partners interacted in the labora
tory. It also was seen on a few occasions in heterosexual group A
males when married couples spent a good deal of time in partner
manipulation and fellatio before releasing the highly excited male to
his ejaculatory experience. Terminal glans expansion rarely was seen
during masturbational experience. To date, its occurrence as an
immediate preejaculatory reaction during coital connection has not
been determined, but it would be surprising if terminal glans ex
pansion did not occur with some regularity during intercourse. In
essence, terminal glans expansion is physiologic evidence of a high
degree of sexual excitation, and it only develops in the male’s im
mediate preorgasmic phase.
Man’s two-stage orgasmic experience occurs in physiologically
identical fashion, regardless of whether the stimuli are heterosex-
ually or homosexually oriented. Just as is evidenced by the lesbian
study subjects, there are individual variations in intensity and dura
tion of the homosexual male’s orgasmic experience, but these are
variations between individuals or within the same individual from
time to time and not significant physiologic variations that can be
attributed to sexual orientation alone. Additional information to
support this position came from the ambisexual investigation (see
Chapter 8).
Penile erection also occurred regularly for the homosexual stimu
lator while manipulating his partner either manually or orally. Usu
ally the stimulator’s penis achieved reasonably full engorgement
from 5 to 10 minutes after the stimulatee’s erection was fully estab
lished. No stimulator ejaculated while manipulating his partner.
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142
SUMMARY
with equal ease and interest regardless of the sex of the partners,
and who, as a sexually mature individual, has never evidenced in
terest in a continuing relationship.
There is clearly a different (and larger) group of individuals who
are bisexual, in the sense of having significant sexual experience
with partners of both genders, who do not meet the above criteria
that define ambisexuality. It is also fair to say that the term bisexual
has been widely abused and distorted in both public and profes
sional usage. Current public usage of the bisexual label has been so
misused that today any man or woman who previously has lived a
totally committed heterosexual or homosexual lifestyle and experi
ences a single episode of sexual interaction with a partner of the
opposite sexual preference may immediately consider himself or
herself bisexual. As a result of this current pattern of indiscriminate
application, the label of bisexuality often means whatever the user
wishes to imply.
Thus, from early in 1968 through most of 1970, a multidimen
sional investigative program was conducted to recruit and evaluate
a group of study subjects who could be identified by the Institute’s
definition of ambisexuality. The criteria for identification and selec
tion of a subject as ambisexual were (1) that the individual express
no preference in terms of sexual partner selection either through
personal history or by subjective description, (2) that he or she was
currently living an uncommitted ambisexual lifestyle and had never
as an adult evidenced any interest in a continuing relationship, and
(3) that the man or woman could be rated close to Kinsey 3 in
sexual experience. It was decided that fantasy patterns, while they
were expected to have a unique composition, would not be included
as a primary selection criterion.
Fantasy patterns collected from men and women in homosexual
or heterosexual study populations usually reflected evidence of tran
sitory individual or group fixation (see Chapter 9). But any com
position of fantasy patterning that is individual- or group-directed
is not considered as representative of the ambisexual individual, for
such is not his or her orientation. The ambisexual is primarily con
cerned in fantasy with past or anticipated sexual opportunities or
experiences. He or she rarely individualizes a partner in fantasy.
AMBISEXUAL STUDY GROUP
147
RECRUITMENT
It was difficult to find men and women who met the criteria of
ambisexuality not only in their overt sexual behavior but in their
lifestyles as well. Obviously, no study subjects used in previous stud
ies could be included in the ambisexual group.
Although the first tentative recruiting steps were taken on a na
tional level in January, 1968, it was late summer of that year before
a total of 12 men and women could be assembled who were truly
ambisexual both in psychosocial orientation and in overt sexual ex
perience. Admittedly the numbers are small, too small for objective
comparison with the other study groups, but 11 years ago this repre
sented a significant recruiting success. The size of this group should
not be taken as indicative of the prevalence of ambisexuality in the
general population; no such figures are available.
During careful history-taking, no expression of sexual preference,
present or past, could be elicited from these men and women. After
early or midadolescence, they had always thought of themselves as
completely free to express their sexual needs with a partner of
choice, regardless of the sexual orientation of that prospective part
ner. In short, their mature sexual preference was, and apparently
always had been, that of the partner of the moment.
The 6 ambisexual men recruited for this project were primarily
classified as Kinsey 3 in sexual preference rating. The Kinsey 2 and
Kinsey 4 study subjects were close to a Kinsey 3 preference classi
fication when histories of sexual experience were taken. The 6 am
bisexual women also were either Kinsey 3 or near 3 in sexual prefer
ence when recruited. A Kinsey 2 rating was assigned to 1 woman,
and 2 women were determined to be Kinsey 4 when their histories
were taken (Table 8-1).
The male ambisexuals ranged in age from 26 to 41 years and the
females from 27 to 43 years (Table 8-2). A minimum formal edu
cational level of college matriculation was required for each of the
12 ambisexual subjects (Table 8-3).
The marital, pregnancy, and presumed impregnation histories of
148 CHAPTER EIGHT
TABLE 8- 1
TABLE 8-2
the 6 men and 6 women are so brief that charting is not warranted.
One woman (Kinsey 2) had been married for four months and di
vorced at her instigation. According to her history, the marriage was
contracted purely for the convenience of her partner: She had no
investment in the personal relationship. She maintained an open
lesbian relationship during the brief marriage. None of the other
11 ambisexual men or women had ever married. Two women (Kin
sey 3 and Kinsey 4) described conceptions that resulted in one full
term pregnancy and one voluntary abortion. In both cases the preg
nancies were designated by the women as contraception failures.
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149
TABLE 8-3
Ambisexual Study Interchange Experiment: Formal Education ♦
ASSIGNED PARTNERS
SCHEDULING
ORIENTATION PROCEDURES
PROJECT DESIGN
FUNCTIONAL EFFICIENCY
8-4
TABLE
TABLE 8-5
Ambisexual Study Interchange Experiment:
Male Heterosexual Phase
No. of
Hetero _____________ No. of Orgasmic Cycles_____________
No. of sexual
Ambi- Female Partner Fellatio/
sexual Assigned Manipulation Cunnilingus Coition
Males Partners Male Female Male Female Male Female
21-30 3 6 9 12 10 14 9 12
31-40 2 5 7 7 6 9 6 7
41-50 1 3 3 3 4 4 3 2*
Total 6 14 19 22 20 27 18 21
(1968-1970)
* One female assigned partner failed to obtain orgasmic release during one coital
episode.
TABLE8-6
Ambisexual Study Interchange Experiment:
Female Homosexual Phase
TABLE 8-7
No. of
Hetero No. of Orgasmic Cycles
No. of sexual
Partner Fellatio/
Ambi Male Coition
Manipulation Cunnilingus
Age sexual Assigned
Group Females Partners Male Femah3 Male Female Male Female
21-30 3 3 9 12 9 15 9* 11
31-40 2 3 6 8 7t 10 6 7
41-50 1 2 3 4 3 4 3 4
Total 6 8 18 24 19 29 18 22
(1968-1970)
* One male assigned partner had premature ejaculation during one coital episode,
t One male assigned partner failed to maintain an erection or to ejaculate during one
episode of fellatio.
table 8-8
Ambisexual Study Interchange Experiment: Summary of
Orgasmic Cycles in Ambisexuals and Assigned Partners *
Ambisexual 6 13
(self)
Homosexual 36 49 41 56
Heterosexual 37 46 39 56 36 43
Total 6 13 73 95 80 112 36 43
(1968-1970)
8-9
table
Ambisexual Study Interchange Experiment:
Functional Efficiency of Ambisexuals and Assigned
Partners in Manipulative Stimulation
Gender and
Type of Observed Functional Failure Failure
Stimulation Cycles Failures Incidence Percentage
Male *
Masturbation 6 0 0 0
Partner 73 1 1 : 73 1.37
manipulation
Fellatio 80 1 1 : 80 1.25
Total 159 2 1 : 79.5 1.26
Female t
Masturbation 13 0 0 0
Partner 95 0 0 0
manipulation
Cunnilingus 112 1 1 : 112 0.89
Total 220 1 1 : 220 0.45
(1968-1970)
* Male ambisexuals, N = 6; homosexual male assigned partners, N = 11; hetero
sexual female assigned partners, N = 14.
t Female ambisexuals, N = 6; heterosexual male assigned partners, N = 8; homo
sexual female assigned partners, N = 13.
TABLE 8-10
TABLE 8-11
Male
21-30 3 3 19 21 9
31-40 2 2 13 12 6
41-50 1 1 5* 7 3
Total 6 6 37 40 18
Female
21-30 3 7 24 28 11
31-40 2 5 16 20 7
41-50 1 1 7 8t 4
Total 6 13 47 56 22
(1968-1970)
* Male ambisexual partner failed to maintain an erection or ejaculate in homo
sexual phase.
t Female ambisexual partner failed to obtain orgasmic release in homosexual phase.
TABLE 8-12
Gender and
Type of Observed Functional Failure Failure
Stimulation Cycles Failures Incidence Percentage
Male
Masturbation 6 0 0 0
Partner 37 1 1 : 37.0 2.70
manipulation
Fellatio 40 0 0 0
Total 83 1 1 : 83.0 1.20
Female
Masturbation 13 0 0 0
Partner 47 0 0 0
manipulation
Cunnilingus 56 1 1 : 56.0 1.79
Total 116 1 1 : 116.0 0.86
Coition
Male 18 0 0 0
Female 22 0 0 0
(1968-1970)
PSYCHOSEXUAL PATTERNS
COITUS
PHYSIOLOGIC OBSERVATIONS
FANTASY PATTERNS
DISCUSSION
METHODS
COMPARATIVE INCIDENCE
OF REPORTED FANTASIES
TABLE 9-1
Comparative Content of Fantasy Material:
Frequency of Occurrence
HOMOSEXUAL MALES
HETEROSEXUAL MALES
HETEROSEXUAL FEMALES
tryst, but generally faceless men were the sexual partners. Escape to
the perfect lover was usually the content of the married women’s
sexual daydreaming, rarely the assigned partners.
Daydreams of homosexual content were the fifth most frequently
reported fantasy by the female heterosexual study subjects. They
were almost entirely of the free-floating category. As stated above,
when the heterosexual women’s fantasy content involved a male
partner, there was only an occasional instance of personal identifi
cation of a well-known partner. But in more than half of the hetero
sexual women’s homosexual fantasy patterns, specific identification
of the female partner was reported. Usually the identified female
subject was an older woman who by strength of personality, by em
ploying societal blackmail, or by threatening physical punishment
had seduced the fantasizing woman and, after destroying her will
to resist, forced her into sexual participation, either in the role of
stimulatee or as stimulator. There were also a number of instances
in which the seducer role was played in fantasy by the heterosexual
female. Again, the woman to be seduced was usually identified. In
these homosexual fantasies, heterosexual women were most aroused
by thoughts of forced participation, regardless of whether they were
being forced sexually or doing the forcing.
AMBISEXUAL MALES
AMBISEXUAL FEMALES
CONCLUSION
men and women had fantasies of heterosexual activity did not nec
essarily indicate the presence of a latent or unrealized commitment
to heterosexuality, nor did cross-preference fantasies enjoyed by het
erosexual men and women necessarily indicate a latent demand for
overt homosexual experience. Similarly, forced sexual encounter
fantasy was frequently reported by both homosexual and hetero
sexual males and females, but again no desire to act out such fan
tasies was evidenced. Further research is required to distinguish the
occasional individuals who actually have a strong tendency to act
out their fantasy patterns from the vast majority who do not.
If interpreted correctly, fantasy patterns and dream sequences
may be important sources of information for psychotherapists. But
aside from disciplinary influence, interpretative guidelines usually
are based on the therapists’ own concepts of culturally standardized
gender portrayal and sexual behavior. These concepts include pre
sumed specifics of homosexual and heterosexual role-playing. Of
necessity, a gross lack of empirical research data has forced thera
pists into the position of relying heavily on cultural dictum when
dealing with problems of sexual preference.
As an aid to interpretation of fantasy material derived from sex
ually dysfunctional men or women, regardless of preference, psy
chotherapists might profit from familiarity with the categories and
frequencies of fantasy patterns developed by sexually functional
men and women. For example, since cross-preference sexual fan
tasies occurred so frequently among the sexually functional homo
sexual and heterosexual men and women who formed the Institute’s
study-subject groups, currently popular psychotherapeutic interpre
tations of this type of fantasy patterning may profit from some re
thinking.
This chapter reflecting categories and incidence of study-subject
sexual fantasy patterning has been presented in accordance with
the Institute’s overall research concept of learning from those men
and women who function effectively in order to help those with
sexual difficulties. Future publication will include detailed coordina
tion of the bulk of the fantasy material, together with provision of
sufficient background material to orient the reader to the individual
members of the study-subject groups that were the reportive sources
of this material. Such information must be at hand in order to sup
192 CHAPTER NINE
table10-1
Age Distribution of Homosexual Study Group—
Heterosexual Study Groups A and B
TABLE 10-2
Formal Education of Homosexual Study Group—
Heterosexual Study Groups A and B
Homosexual
study group
High school 2 20.00 3 50.00 15 17.86 24 31.58
College 5 50.00 2 33.33 34 40.48 40 52.63
Postgraduate 3 30.00 1 16.67 35 41.66 12 15.79
Total 10 100 6 100 84 100 76 100
(1964-1968)
Heterosexual
study group A
High school 1 14.28 2 28.57 11 22.00 15 30.00
College 3 42.86 3 42.86 17 34.00 23 46.00
Postgraduate 3 42.86 2 28.57 22 44.00 12 24.00
Total 7 100 7 100 50 100 50 100
(1967-1968)
Heterosexual
study group B
High school 5 17.24 9 37.50 42 16.34 98 38.13
College 12 41.38 10 41.67 105 40.86 114 44.36
Postgraduate 12 41.38 5 20.83 110 42.80 45 17.51
Total 29 100 24 100 257 100 257 100
(1957-1965)
TABLE IO-3
Sexual Preference
Homosexual Heterosexual
Func Fail Fail Func Fail Fail
Gender and Ob- tional ure ure Ob tional ure ure
Type of s erved Fail Inci Per served Fail Inci Per
Stimulation (Cycles ures dence centage Cycles ures dence centage
Male t
Masturbation 126 1 1 : 126.0 0.79 502 4 1 : 125.5 0.80
Partner 195 2 1 : 97.5 1.02 562 5 1 : 112.4 0.89
manipulation
Fellatio 217 1 1 : 217.0 0.46 146 t 1 1 : 146.0 0.68
Total 538 4 1 : 134.5 0.75 1210 10 1 : 121.0 0.83
Female J
Masturbation 211 2 1 : 105.5 0.95 812 4 1 : 203.0 0.49
Partner 306 2 1 : 153.0 0.65 1004 8 1 : 125.5 0.80
manipulation
Cunnilingus 192 1 1 : 192.0 0.52 159Í 2 1 : 79.5 1.26
Total 709 5 1 : 141.8 0.71 1975 14 1 : 141.1 0.76
(1957-1968)
* Summary developed from combination of Tables 6-5 and 6-16 (see Chapter 6).
t Homosexual males, N = 94; heterosexual males, N = 343.
Î Heterosexual fellatio and cunnilingus evaluated only with study group A, not
study group B.
J Homosexual females, N = 82; heterosexual females, N = 338.
TABLE IO-4
'Summary combines information from Tables 6-17, 6-18, 6-19, and 6-20 (see Chapter 6).
t Reduction in female numbers explained in Table 6-18 (see Chapter 6).
t Combined study groups A and B.
P.E. = premature ejaculation.
TABLE IO-5
Gender and
Type of Observed Functional Failure Failure
Stimulation Cycles Failures Incidence Percentage
Male
Masturbation 6 0 0 0
Partner 37 1t 1 : 37.0 2.70
manipulation
Fellatio 40 0 0 0
Total 83 1 1 : 83.0 1.20
Female
Masturbation 13 0 0 0
Partner 47 0 0 0
manipulation
Cunnilingus 56 is 1 : 56.0 1.79
Total 116 1 1 : 116.0 0.86
Coition
Male 18 0 0 0
Female 22 0 0 0
(1968-1970)
* Summary is a restatement of Table 8-12 (see Chapter 8), given here for reader
convenience.
t Male ambisexual study subjects, N = 6; female ambisexual study subjects, N = 6.
t One male ambisexual failed to maintain an erection or ejaculate.
J One female ambisexual failed to obtain orgasmic release.
PRECLINICAL STATISTICS 203
SUMMARY
PHYSIOLOGIC CONSIDERATIONS
Table 10-5 (see Chapter 10) is by far the most important table
in the preclinical section of this text. Brief scrutiny of this table
makes if abundantly clear that there is no statistically significant
difference between sexually experienced male homosexual and male
heterosexual study subjects in facility to respond at orgasmic levels
to the stimulative techniques of masturbation, partner manipula
tion, and fellatio. Similarly, it is evident that there is no statistically
significant difference in facility of orgasmic attainment between
sexually experienced female homosexual and female heterosexual
study subjects in response to masturbation, partner manipulation,
205
206 CHAPTER ELEVEN
PSYCHOSEXUAL CONSIDERATIONS
and cultural concepts that coitus is the only acceptable form of end
point release during sexual interaction. For example, as long as ma
nipulation of partner or fellatio/cunnilingus are considered only as
means to an end sexually rather than as potential ends in them
selves, the heterosexual’s inherent advantage in multiplicity of sexu
ally stimulative techniques is severely reduced and the immediate
technical advantage in committed heterosexual interaction as op
posed to committed homosexual activity is neutralized.
Then the long-range disadvantages inherent in intergender inter
action make themselves felt. Committed heterosexual partners in
evitably encounter difficulties when they attempt intergender inter
pretation of sexual expression. There is an immediate sense of
frustration that eventually may turn to trauma when men presume
to understand the subjective aspects of female sexuality or when
women become convinced that they are “experts on men’s sexu
ality.” Men simply have no frame of reference from which to ap
preciate the subjective aspects of women’s orgasmic experience, any
more than women have the slightest concept of what it feels like to
ejaculate.
As previously suggested, this relatively inviolable barrier to sub
jective appreciation of the opposite gender’s sexual feelings should
inspire committed men and women to attempt to educate each
other in the intricacies of intergender interpretation. Obviously, this
process of mutual sex education can best be accomplished by iden
tifying pleasurable or distracting sexual approaches or by occasion
ally discussing at some length after sexual encounters how each
partner feels or has felt during the activity. In short, the abysmal
lack of knowledge of men by women and of women by men should
constantly stimulate communicative interchange, particularly if the
men and women are partners in a committed relationship. Yet, this
pattern of communicative interchange was notably present in com
mitted homosexual, not heterosexual relationships, even though the
homosexual partners already had the immediate advantage of intra
gender empathy.
Free communicative flow was only occasionally evidenced by
committed heterosexual couples, even though these men and
women repeatedly identified the necessity for such communicative
interchange during casual discussions with the research team. For a
PRECLINICAL DISCUSSION
219
CONCLUSIONS TO BE DRAWN
CLINICAL
INVESTIGATION
TABLE 12-1
Dysfunctional Homosexual Male Couples
(N = 56; Dysfunctional Homosexual Males; N = 57)
Couple
Involvement Functional Homosexual
and Type of No. of No. of Partners
Impotence Patients * Couples Committed Casual
One partner
dysfunctional
Primary 3 3 3 0
Secondary 49 49 34 15
Situational 3 3 1 2
Both partners
dysfunctional
Primary 2 1
Total 57 56 38 17
* One primarily impotent, 2 secondarily impotent, and 1 situationally impotent
homosexuals were secondarily diagnosed as sexually aversive.
table 12-2
Couple
Involvement Functional Homosexual
and Type of No. of No. of Partners
Anorgasmia Patients * Couples Committed Casual
One partner
dysfunctional
Primary 7 7 5 2
Situational 13 13 8 5
Random 3 3 3 0
Both partners
dysfunctional
Primary 1 } 1
Situational 21 1}
Random 1
Total 27 25 16 7
* Three primarily anorgasmie, 1 situationally anorgasmie, and 2 randomly anor
gasmie lesbians were secondarily diagnosed as sexually aversive.
TABLE 12-3
Male 54 33 21 0 11 * 8 0
Female 13 7 6 1 9 t 5 2
Total 67 40 27 1 20 13 2
table 12-4
Dissatisfied Homosexual Population
(Partners in Therapy, N = 67)
CLIENT COOPERATION
TABLE 12-5
Dysfunction 57 26 23 11 0 3 3 0
Dissatisfaction 54 36 21 10 1 15 12 3
Total 111 62 44 21 1 18 15 3
fused treatment on more than one occasion. Not a single one of the
23 men refused treatment for sexual dysfunction had been referred
to another treatment source. Three homosexuals had previously been
accepted in therapy when they specifically requested treatment of
sexual dysfunction. They terminated the therapy when it became
apparent that the treatment program was directed toward conver
sion or reversion to heterosexuality rather than amelioration of their
homosexually oriented dysfunction.
Of the 54 homosexual men who sought help in converting or re
verting to heterosexuality, 36 had previously requested treatment
for their sexual dissatisfaction (see Table 12-5). Twenty-one men
stated they had been refused treatment for homosexual dissatisfac
tion by health-care professionals. Ten of these homosexuals re
ported more than one instance of refusal of treatment. Only 1 of
the 21 men refused treatment for the complaint of sexual dissatis-
CLINICAL INVESTIGATION
249
table 12-6
Dysfunction 27 14 11 8 0 3 3 0
Dissatisfaction B 5 2 1 0 3 3 0
Total 40 19 B 9 0 6 6 0
APPLICATION ACCEPTANCE
port; however, not all of the men and women applying for treat
ment took advantage of the referral suggestions.
There was one type of homosexually oriented client who escaped
the Institute’s screening techniques. This was the married man or
woman who was accepted into treatment for some other form of
stated sexual distress (a sexually dysfunctional partner, for exam
ple) and whose covert homosexual interest was not identified until
during the course of therapy. Usually the client’s homosexual orien
tation was either unknown to or was only partially surmised by the
committed partner. When such an individual and his or her spouse
had already been accepted in the therapy program under some other
guise, he or she was treated for sexual reversion only if there was a
specific request for such treatment, and if the partner was fully in
formed of the covert homosexual orientation.
If the individual did not desire reversion therapy, preferring in
stead to keep information relative to his or her covert homosexual
interests from the partner, such a request was honored, and, when
possible, treatment for the previously stated sexual or relationship
distresses continued without interruption. If the covert homosexual
influences precluded a successful treatment program, the therapy
was terminated. This clinical situation occurred twice in the con
comitantly conducted heterosexual dysfunction program during the
io-year clinical control period for treatment of homosexual dysfunc
tion. When it was necessary to terminate treatment for heterosexual
dysfunction because the covert homosexuality prevented successful
treatment of the relationship distresses, the Institute always ac
cepted full responsibility for treatment failure, thereby protecting
the security of the information. When referral to another source of
psychotherapeutic support for the uninformed partner was possible,
such a procedure was followed assiduously.
FINANCIAL CONSIDERATIONS
this five-year period, each couple was fully informed that the treat
ment techniques to be used were in experimental stages and that
the therapists were inexperienced in the treatment of homosexual
men and women for their sexual inadequacies. After the first five
years, the charges for therapy have been exactly those requested for
the heterosexual treatment program. A full fee has been charged
when applicable. Since the Institute was established in 1964, ap
proximately 30 percent of all applicants accepted for treatment of
homosexual or heterosexual inadequacy have been treated on a
sliding-scale basis or without charge.
TREATMENT FORMAT
The basic therapy format was essentially the same as that previ
ously developed for the treatment of heterosexual dysfunctions and
dissatisfactions (see Human Sexual Inadequacy). Until the inves
tigation of the homosexual male and female’s sexual physiology was
established, there had been no effort to conceptualize therapeutic
modalities for the treatment of problems of homosexual inade
quacy. But once it was apparent that there were no basic physi
ologic differences in the sexual functioning of homosexual men
and women when compared to heterosexual men and women, spe
cific attention was devoted to the format of the therapy program.
It was decided to use the same techniques for the treatment of
the sexually dysfunctional homosexual that had been developed 10
years previously to treat the sexually dysfunctional heterosexual.
Since the same problems of impotence and anorgasmic states
existed in both homosexual and heterosexual individuals, it seemed
reasonable to assume that these dysfunctions would respond equally
well to similar therapeutic approaches, regardless of whether the
dysfunctional men or women were of homosexual or heterosexual
orientation.
When first considering treatment for homosexual dissatisfac
tions, it was presumed that a different therapy format might be
indicated, but this presumption soon proved to be without founda
tion. As experience was gained in evaluating homosexuals who ex
pressed the desire to convert or revert to heterosexuality, it was
256 CHAPTER TWELVE
FOLLOW-UP PROCEDURES
percent of the homosexual men and women who applied for treat
ment came from outside the St. Louis area, there were no viable
alternatives to the techniques described above.
A brief statement should be made as to the reliability of informa
tion provided during the follow-up periods. Of course, there can
never be real security in any information of this type. There is no
doubt that some of the clients have purposefully misled the thera
pists with false reports. Others may have inadvertently accomplished
the same result. As long as any clinical program is forced to rely
upon data obtained by any form of verbal or written interrogation,
the investigator can never be fully confident of the security of his
information, regardless of the statistical evaluations made of the
reported material.
PERFORMANCE PRESSURES
Sexual fakery has probably always been a refuge for sexually in
adequate men and women, regardless of sexual preference. Sexual
fakery as practiced in a heterosexual milieu is discussed initially to
provide perspective for the practice of sexual fakery as observed in
the homosexual community.
Wives have fooled husbands for centuries by faking orgasm or
CLINICAL INVESTIGATION 261
FEARS OF PERFORMANCE
SPECTATOR ROLES
PROGRAM CONCEPTS
For the first time, impotent homosexual men have been treated
for sexual dysfunction as an integral part of a io-year controlled
program of clinical evaluation. They have been accompanied in
therapy by their same-sex committed or casual partners. Because
such a long-range treatment program has not been described previ
ously, discussions of investigative background, recruitment proce
dures, therapy principles, clinical syndromes, and presentations of
relevant case reports are in order.
Fifty-seven homosexual men were treated for sexual dysfunction
by the Institute during the io-year clinical control period (1968
through 1977). Five of these men were primarily impotent, 49 sec
ondarily impotent, and 3 sitúationally impotent (see Table 12-1,
Chapter 12). Four of these 57 men were additionally diagnosed as
sexually aversive. Actually, the 57 men constituted 56 couples, since
1 couple was formed by 2 primarily impotent men, 1 of whom was
additionally sexually aversive. All of the committed or casual homo
sexual partners in the remaining 55 couples were sexually func
tional.
The laboratory investigation of homosexual men’s and women’s
sexual physiology (see Chapter 7) was the first step leading toward
a treatment program for dysfunctional homosexual males and fe
males. As knowledge of the physiology of homosexual function ac
cumulated, the concept of treating existent homosexual dysfunction
seemed increasingly plausible, and satisfactory therapeutic results
appeared attainable.
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275
RECRUITMENT
TABLE I3-I
Year Treated
Type of
Impotence One Two Three Four Five Six Seven Eight Nine Ten Total
Primary 1 0 3 0 0 0 1 0 0 0 5
Secondary 0 2 3 4 6 7 8 6 7 6 49
Situational 1 0 0 0 1 0 0 1 0 0 3
Total 2 2 6 4 7 7 9 7 7 6 57
(1968-1977)
276 CHAPTER THIRTEEN
PRIMARY IMPOTENCE
Partner A, 34 years old, and Partner B, 29 years old, had been living
in a committed relationship for approximately three and one-half years
when they sought treatment as a sexually dysfunctional couple. Although
from quite different backgrounds, the men had a unique commonality in
the etiology of their sexual dysfunctions. As individuals, they unknow
ingly moved into what was to become an intensely committed homosex
ual relationship as an involuntary means of escape from years of psycho-
sexual trauma that in both instances had been heterosexual in origin.
For over three years, their relationship had been entirely asexual in
character. It had become a satisfying psychosocial haven before the
two men finally moved into attempted sexual interchange, an attempt
that was completely unsuccessful.
A, a second sibling with a sister eight years older, grew up in an at
mosphere of female dominance. His father left home when A was 4,
and his mother worked to support the family, frequently holding two
jobs. With the exception of weekends, this work schedule usually kept
her out of the home during the majority of the children’s waking hours.
A’s older sister was given the responsibility for her younger brother after
she reached 15 years of age. After that time, there was essentially no
supervision in the home. There also was no importance assigned to edu
cation, nor was there any attempt to establish a religious influence.
When A was 9 years old and his mother was at work, his 17-year-old
sister began a series of attempts to masturbate the boy. When repeatedly
unsuccessful, she frequently shamed him by telling him he would never
grow up to be “a man.” These episodes of attempted sexual interaction
continued approximately twice a month for more than two years. Usu
ally little or no erection occurred. There was no ejaculation. The boy
never made a sexual approach to his sister. His reactions to her sexual
approaches were described as ranging from strong resistance to passive
acceptance. Finally, on one weekend when the mother was out of town,
the sister had two female friends spend the night. The three girls appar
ently spent hours trying to masturbate the boy, now 11, two of them al
ways holding him to keep him from running away. Their repeated as
saults produced recurrent penile engorgement, but no ejaculation. He
recalls crying and begging them to stop, for it was a very painful as well
as frightening experience. The girls were apparently extremely vigorous
in their manipulative attempts, as the penis was rubbed raw in a num
ber of areas. When finally released by the girls, the boy couldn’t void
z8o CHAPTER THIRTEEN
for hours and, when finally successful, noticed gross blood in the urine.
A was both mortified and terrified. The girls had threatened to tell
his friends that “he wasn’t a man” if he told his mother about their
assault. Yet he was fearful of both the bloody urine and the fact that he
had difficulty voiding, both of which lasted several days. In addition, his
penis was very painful for many days after the episode. Even at 11 years
of age, however, his fear of exposure to public ridicule won out over his
concerns for the physical aftermaths of the attack, and he kept his own
counsel. This was the last time his sister approached him sexually.
The symptoms of the physical trauma cleared, but not those of the
psychosexual trauma. Fearful that word would be circulated of his in
adequacy, the boy withdrew from friends at school and had many mis
erable nights as his anxieties and vengeful fantasies reigned unbridled.
As he grew older, he became essentially antisocial. Stimulated by the
onset of nocturnal emissions, his first attempt to masturbate at age 16
was an utter failure when he couldn’t obtain an erection. The failure
only reinforced the image created by his sister and her friends that he
was sexually inadequate. As he grew older, his generalized sexual anxi
eties became specific apprehensions at the thought of “making out” with
a girl, as was frequently discussed by his peers, for he was afraid that
“making out” might be painful and was certain he would be a failure.
At age 23 A gathered his social courage and made his first attempt at
intercourse by soliciting a prostitute. Following the usual pattern of
many men contending with anxieties for sexual performance, A chose
the prostitute knowing that if he failed, his friends wouldn’t know. As
would be expected, he was totally impotent. Again he was told he
“wasn’t much of a man,” and having conclusively proved this fact to
his own grim satisfaction, he never attempted to interact sexually with
a woman until after meeting Partner B.
A sublimated his sexual needs. He lived alone, worked hard, and was
advancing well in his profession. Masturbation was attempted on rare
occasions, usually after he had been drinking, but it was always unsuc
cessful. He could not maintain erections and was never able to ejaculate.
He had no overt homosexual interests, nor were there fantasies of spe
cific homosexual content. His most frequent fantasies were of exacting
revenge upon women in general and his sister in particular to make up
for what had been done to him.
Partner A met Partner B as a staff member of the company for which
he worked. B had been transferred from out of town and was apartment
hunting. A offered B the use of his apartment until B “could find some
thing of his own.” At history-taking, A had no explanation for this quite
uncharacteristic behavior, nor did B have any reason other than con
venience for his acceptance. Yet, in a brief period of time and to the
complete surprise of each, the two very lonely men came to like each
other so much that they decided to continue living together.
B was an only child in a reasonably well-to-do family. The most vivid
MALE HOMOSEXUAL DYSFUNCTION 281
his teens his every sexual thought was routinely repressed and just as
routinely confessed. His psychosexual trauma was reinforced by religious
dogma, and B never attempted to masturbate. His occasional nocturnal
emissions caused him great anxiety, for he did not want to acknowledge
any part of man’s bestial nature. He was so threatened by any thought
of sexual content that he never had a social date with a girl in his life.
The thought of any manner of sexual interaction with a woman made
him quite anxious.
After his mother’s death when he was 20, B lived with an aunt,
finished college, and went to work. At age 24 he was promoted and
transferred to another city by his firm. He met a man (Partner A) who
was also working with the firm and who offered to share his apartment
while B looked for one of his own. As previously described, mutual com
patibility was soon evidenced, and the two men decided jointly to con
tinue living together to share expenses and enjoy each other’s company.
The first six months A and B lived together were spent breaking
down social defenses and establishing the first real friendship either man
had ever known. One weekend and well into the next week they told
each other every detail they could recall of the painful episodes of their
past lives. Social fears and anxieties were first confessed, and finally
sexual fears and anxieties were broached. Eventually, the catharsis of
confession brought such a state of complete vulnerability that both men
were encouraged to give a full exchange of the vividly remembered de
tails of the psychosexual traumas in their lives.
Each man found it almost impossible to believe that the other part
ner had never successfully experienced any form of sexual activity. They
both had thought themselves totally unique as severe sexual cripples. The
relationship was strongly reinforced by the mutual vulnerability derived
from the full confessions of their personal feelings of complete sexual
inadequacy.
Over the following year, each man encouraged his partner to estab
lish social relationships with selected women, but without success. After
two such trials by A and one very abortive, anxiety-ridden attempt by
B to talk with a girl in a bar, the men openly discussed their problems,
realized that their sense of social inadequacy was strongly reinforced by
their complete lack of sexual confidence, and following A’s now some
what time-worn suggestion, they decided to solicit help from a prosti
tute. Obviously neither A nor B had access to any other source of fe
male sexual cooperation. A prostitute was solicited by A and brought to
the apartment to spend the night. As might be expected, the experiment
ended in disaster. The first sexual venture was in A’s bedroom. During
more than an hour’s time with the prostitute, he failed to respond to
any sexual approach. B was initially so anxious, continually so nause
ated, and after an hour so terrified of even touching the woman that he
refused to try when it was his tum.
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During the next two years these two men grew even closer together.
They worked well together professionally and were inseparable socially.
There were no further attempts at heterosexual interaction. Actually,
neither partner expressed interest in female companionship of any kind.
A continued his attempts at masturbation once every month or so, con
sistently without success. Despite occasionally considering the possibil
ity, B made no attempt to masturbate. Until the relationship had lasted
more than three years there were no overt or covert homosexual over
tones, although each man reported that a few times he fantasized some
vague form of physical interaction with his friend. The fantasies were
only of physical warmth or of general body contact. Neither A nor B
reported daydreaming of specific sexual activity.
One night, after both men had spent several hours in a bar, A openly
stated his masturbational need and retired to the privacy of his bed
room, where he again failed to masturbate successfully. B heard A sob
bing and went to comfort him, only to be confronted by his naked
friend with a full and threatening erection. B was immediately nauseated
by seeing the erection, but he still moved to comfort his anguished
and inebriated partner. A begged him to help, saying he would rather
die than live this way. Despite his intense aversion to the erection, B
clumsily attempted to release his partner, only to have the erection dis
appear soon after he approached. For both men the return from the
episode was more in a positive than a negative vein. Despite A’s func
tional failure, the experience broke down any barriers that still may
have remained in the relationship.
Within the week the partners had agreed to try mutual masturbation.
Although neither man ever approached the other physically, A tried to
teach B by demonstration what little he knew about the subject. B still
became quite anxious when observing the comings and goings of his
partner’s erections, but they persisted in their mutual masturbational
attempts. Neither B nor A reported successful termination to their
mutual masturbational experiences. Sometimes fleeting erections were
achieved, sometimes not, but neither man ever ejaculated. Yet, each
man described an increasingly strong sense of personal need to prove
that he could function sexually as a man and the sincere hope that his
partner would also be sexually successful. Careful questioning clearly
established that neither man ever considered himself as being homo
sexual.
parent ever talked to him about sex, but at 14 he was given a book to
read on this subject.
As C moved through his early teens, he became more concerned
about his appearance, lost a large amount of weight, and attempted to
establish male relationships.
A major sexual trauma occurred during C’s fifteenth year. Although
he had tried a number of times, he had never masturbated successfully.
By this time he had acquired his first friend, a boy from his class who
also was struggling with social handicaps. One evening after both boys
had been talking about sex, C showed the boy how he played with his
penis. Although C reportedly only demonstrated penile manipulation
with his own penis and never moved to or even thought of approaching
his friend’s genitals, the boy told his parents about the incident. These
parents in turn not only told C’s parents but many other parents and
the high-school administrators as well. The friend’s parents insisted that
C was an active homosexual who had tried to seduce their son and that
he was a threat to all the boys in his class. Of course, the word immedi
ately spread through his peer group. He was ostracized socially, made
the butt of jokes by both boys and girls, and was frequently attacked
physically by his male peers. C’s family, severely distressed by the trauma
their son was experiencing, sent him away to school. (Whether C’s story
is the true version of the event with his friend is, of course, open to
question. But when interviewed at length, and with nothing to gain or
lose, C held staunchly to the theme.)
C never recovered from his public humiliation. He hated to come
home for vacations, and when home, he rarely left the house. He finally
accepted public opinion that he was homosexual; as a result, he was
certain that he was considered unacceptable socially by his peers. His
fantasies were of both homosexual and heterosexual content but were
primarily focused on the penis. Thus, C was actually socially oriented to
a homosexual preference role well before his first overt homosexual ex
perience.
One night during his second year at boarding school, his roommate
moved into C’s bed. C was not only comfortable with this overt sexual
approach, he welcomed the sexual opportunity. Both boys played freely
with each other’s genitals. When the roommate quickly erected and
ejaculated, C was quite surprised, for he had never had this experience.
He was both intrigued with his friend’s ejaculatory experience and em
barrassed that he could not do the same. He attempted to masturbate
many times privately, always trying to force an erection and an ejacula
tion, but he rarely had a full erection and never an ejaculation. C be
came increasingly anxious about what he presumed was further evidence
of physical weakness comparable to not being well coordinated enough
to excel at competitive games.
The boys continued their sexual encounters, always with the friend
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group while his partner was out of town. The sexual experience fol
lowed an evening spent drinking together, and C failed to achieve
an erection. The casual partner derided him when at the last min
ute C resorted to his sexual-fakery practice by attempting to return
to his service role.
C was devastated by the experience. All of the fears of perfor
mance were reconstituted and were compounded by the return of
fears of public identification. He feared his casual partner would
describe his sexual inadequacy to their mutual friends. C lost all
ability to function sexually with his committed partner, terminated
the relationship, and followed this step by withdrawing from social
interchange with any member of his established homosexual peer
group. He did retain the facility to masturbate and used this tech
nique frequently for sexual tension release. C refused an Institute
offer of a revisit to confront the performance fears and shortly
thereafter refused any further cooperation with follow-up proce
dures.
Although the complaint of primary impotence was reversed dur
ing the acute treatment phase and follow-up procedures revealed
almost complete reversal of the dysfunctional status approximately
one year later, this case is categorized as a treatment failure. Since
C failed to function effectively during the first opportunity he made
to interact sexually with a casual homosexual partner, the therapy
could hardly be termed fully effective.
The depths of C’s fears of performance as evidenced during ther
apy surprised the research team. Every effort was made to neutralize
these anxieties. The committed partner was in large measure re
sponsible for initial treatment progress, but neither partner coopera
tion nor therapeutic direction could counteract effectively the en
gulfing return of C’s performance and public identification fears
after his failure to function under the performance pressures that
are inherent in a homosexual male’s casual sexual encounters. Par
ticularly unfortunate, of course, was the fact that he chose to try
his wings after a long evening of drinking. Under such circum
stances any man, homosexually or heterosexually oriented, regard
less of his level of prior sexual experience, can and frequently does
fail to attain or maintain an erection due to the pharmacologic
properties of alcohol as a central nervous system depressant.
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SECONDARY IMPOTENCE
F was 42 years old when he and his partner of nine years petitioned
the Institute for admission to the therapy program. His had been a
distressed, imbalanced home. When he was 7, his seriously ill mother
was institutionalized, leaving him and his 5-year-old sister; the mother
died a year and a half later. No other woman assumed the maternal
role. His father was a beleaguered, apparently insecure man who was
unable to cope with the exigencies of the family situation. During F’s
teenage years there was essentially a total lack of parental control or
guidance. His memory of home was of a succession of full- or part-time
female help and a father who tried and failed to control his son’s quickly
asserted social freedom. There was no control of the educational process
and no defined religious influence.
At an early age F was involved with drugs, alcohol, and petty crime.
He was introduced to sexual activity by a neighbor’s wife when he
was 13 and thereafter was sexually promiscuous with his peers and with
many older women. When F was 18, he was jailed for robbing a
grocery store. He was sentenced to one to three years in jail. Within
10 days of his incarceration, he was servicing older inmates either
through fellatio or as the penetratee in rectal intercourse. He mastur
bated regularly, but was given no opportunity to interact sexually with
the inmates other than in a service role. Paroled shortly after a year in
prison, he found a job working as a house painter. Within a few years
he had his own contracting service and was doing well financially.
After serving his prison sentence, F had no further contact with his
father or sister.
His sexual cooperation with other inmates had developed at first un
der the threat of physical punishment, but it continued as a source of
pleasure. His sexual activity after release from prison included both in
discriminant homosexual and heterosexual opportunities, always with
casual partners. During his late twenties his interest in heterosexual in
terchange lessened, and he began a series of brief homosexual relation
ships. At 32 he joined his partner in a committed relationship.
After the first year of their relationship but without his partner’s
knowledge, F began having occasional casual sexual experiences, usually
with homosexual and occasionally with heterosexual partners. It was
during one of the casual heterosexual experiences that he first failed to
function sexually. He had picked up a girl in a bar and had gone to her
apartment. When in bed, he found that he had no real interest in
sexual activity and no erection developed. He tried to force the issue,
to will an erection, but he could not respond. F panicked, resorted to
sexual fakery by feigning illness, dressed, and left quickly. Blaming the
girl for his functional failure, it was the last time he ever became in
volved in heterosexual interaction.
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religious background was Catholic, but there was little sustained interest
in religion.
Childhood and adolescence were essentially uneventful. G did not
describe a turbulent household, although he came to expect that an
occasional male visitor would spend the night with his mother. Some
men even stayed for a few weeks.
After the “playing doctor” stage, G’s first overt sexual experience was
with a girl in the neighborhood. She was three years older than the 15-
year-old boy. She freely joined him in sexual play, during which he
learned that if his penis was manipulated effectively, he would ejaculate.
Within a few weeks they were having intercourse regularly.
At sixteen G was an apparently well-adjusted young man with many
male and female friends. His social life revolved around his high-school
peers rather than focusing on family. When he became 16 and obtained
his driver’s license, G no longer was subject to maternal authority.
G was a counselor in a summer camp when he experienced his first
homosexual approach. It was made by a fellow counselor who was the
high-school athletic hero. After a few beers the boys joined in an ex
perience of mutual masturbation that led two nights later to participa
tion in an episode of partner manipulation. Although it was G’s first
homosexual experience, he found himself strongly stimulated both
by the physical activity and by the sense of warmth and strength ema
nating from his partner. He had not had these feelings with his neigh
borhood girlfriend.
His heterosexual and homosexual partnerships continued actively for
another year, and each in turn led to other sexual partners.
G completed two years of college, became interested in the theater,
and began living and training in the theatrical community. Sexual op
portunities apparently were limitless, but G voluntarily confined him
self to homosexual experiences.
There was no background of strong maternal dominance, of social or
sexual trauma, of religious orthodoxy, or even of rejection of hetero
sexuality. G simply found that he preferred the homosexual experience.
He frequented gay bars and sought sexual opportunities with other
young men involved in the theatrical world. There was an occasional het
erosexual episode, but these occurred with progressively less frequency.
Finally, at 27 G openly declared himself homosexual. Moving freely be
tween casual partners, he neither took the opportunity nor expressed
the desire to live in a committed relationship.
Early in his twenty-eighth year, G noticed that he seemed to be forc
ing sexual involvement. His constant array of casual partners became
increasingly unappealing, and he voluntarily slowed the frequency of
new partners from at least twice a week to perhaps once every two
weeks. His erections were progressively slower to develop, did not seem
to be quite full, and occasionally were lost during sexual activity.
G became increasingly concerned about his functional facility. Al
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SITUATIONAL IMPOTENCE
activity. H’s partner had a level of sexual need that was expressed ap
proximately once every ten days or two weeks. This pleased H tremen
dously, for by the time these two men became sexual partners, all H
could accept in the way of sexual interaction were episodes of mutual
masturbation, and he no longer would allow himself to observe his
partner’s ejaculatory experience. Perhaps once a week H masturbated in
private.
For two years this pattern of sexual interchange proved acceptable to
both men. Then the partner began expressing increasing need for the
warmth of personal contact in sexual interchange. When H tried but
could not respond to these requests for partner manipulation or fellatio
without becoming extremely anxious, the partner sought occasional
sexual opportunities outside the relationship. This outside activity was a
source of great concern for H; he agreed to seek professional help
initially for his sexual aversion and subsequently for his situational im
potence.
As an initial step in treatment, desensitization procedures were
instituted that were designed to create a sense of comfort with
seminal fluid. Once this was accomplished, the next step was to
neutralize the crippling levels of anxiety that H associated with any
suggestion of fellatio. When the excessive levels of anxiety were
also neutralized, fellatio was accomplished with a rapidly decreas
ing incidence of nausea. Finally H’s fears of erective failure when
being fellated by his partner were also reasonably neutralized by
following the techniques designed for treatment of fears of per
formance (see Chapter 12).
H responded to treatment and was functioning well in response
to partner manipulation and to fellatio when the acute phase of
treatment was terminated.
Two major sources of support were vital to H’s progress in treat
ment. First, his committed partner was most cooperative through
out the demanding acute phase of the treatment program. Second,,
both men found mutual strength in their active religious commit
*
ments. They felt that their shared religious interests added the im
portant dimensions of stability and security to their troubled rela
tionship.
H and his partner were followed for five years after termination
of the acute phase of treatment. Occasionally H experienced a re
turn of his anxiety state during sexual interaction and had to termi
nate a particular episode. But as time passed and with his partner’s
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DISCUSSION
sent a thriving practice. Yet the fact remains that this small sample
of what must be an incredibly frustrated segment of society has
found the courage to seek professional support. If this totally un
coordinated social movement continues, gathering strength in stead
ily growing numbers and confidence in the health-care professionals’
acceptance of its need, this trend will indeed represent a major
breakthrough in the health-care field. Homosexual women’s frus
trations have come not only from contending with the exigencies
of their sexual inadequacies, but also from a widespread concept
within the homosexual community that there was nowhere sexually
dysfunctional men and women could go or no one they could see
to seek relief from their sexual distresses.
The incidence of anorgasmia in the lesbian population in this
country is a complete mystery, but the numbers are likely to be of
significance. Parenthetically, despite a number of publications on
the subject, there also is no secure knowledge of the actual inci
dence of anorgasmia among heterosexual women. We do know,
however, that heterosexual anorgasmia is sufficiently widespread to
involve millions of women.
Despite lack of research support, it is probably correct to presume
that the incidence of anorgasmic states is lower in the homosexual
than in the heterosexual female community. If such a discrepancy
in the incidence of anorgasmic states exists, and there is in fact
less anorgasmia in the homosexual than the heterosexual female
populations, it probably is due to a combination of two factors.
First, the culture places a markedly increased performance demand
on the heterosexual woman to respond at orgasmic levels during in
tercourse, which, as Chapter 6 has shown, is more difficult to respond
to than manipulative types of stimulation. Second, the Institute
has established divergent definitions of heterosexual and homosex
ual anorgasmia (see p. 312). If a divergence in the incidence of
anorgasmia does exist between the two female sexual preferences,
the research team does not believe that it represents a variation in
woman’s inherent physiologic capacity to respond to effective sexual
stimuli.
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DEFINITIONS
CLINICAL POPULATION
sexual couple the research team treated in the entire year. Actually,
for the next eight years the clinical facilities were certainly not
overrun with applications for treatment. There were only 2 to 4
dysfunctional lesbian couples treated each year (Table 14-1).
TABLE 14-1
Primary 0 1 1 2 0 2 1 0 0 1 8
Situational 2 0 3 1 2 1 2 2 2 0 15
Random 0 0 0 1 0 0 1 1 0 1 4
Total 2 1 4 4 2 3 4 3 2 2 27
1968-1977
combined, the two couples provide insights into the sexual dys
functions of primary, situational, and random anorgasmia.
Before presenting case reports, a comparison should be drawn
between the sexually dysfunctional homosexual male and female
populations. When a dysfunctional lesbian entered therapy, there
was a major difference between her approach to treatment and that
of the dysfunctional homosexual male. Generally, the anorgasmic
lesbian and her partner were significantly more cooperative during
the therapy program than were the impotent homosexual males
and their partners. The lesbian couples not only tended to fol
low therapeutic suggestions more conscientiously, but they com
municated far more openly and probably more honestly with the
therapists.
case report: couple 6
J was a 29-year-old Kinsey 6 when she applied to the Institute for
treatment of primary anorgasmia. Her committed partner K requested
treatment for situational anorgasmia that was further complicated by
the existence of sexual anxiety. K was 31 years old, a Kinsey 4, and had
a daughter 7 years old. When the women were seen in therapy, their re
lationship was of almost three years’ standing.
J described her childhood as an uneventful but happy time. She had
one sibling, a sister two years older. There were no recalled troubles in
school. She had a number of friends, both boys and girls. There was no
preference for one parent over the other, nor did she feel herself to be
the preferred or rejected sibling.
J came from a financially secure background. In retrospect she judged
her parents as well-adjusted, well-educated people who appeared to be
living comfortably together, although she did not think they were un
reservedly committed to each other. She was aware that her father had
enjoyed an occasional relationship outside the marriage, and for a
period of time when she was about 16 had suspected that her mother
was similarly involved. Her background was of Jewish orientation, but
the family held formalized religious commitment to a minimum. J’s for
mal education included graduation from one of the well-known women’s
colleges. She had moved into a banking career after college and was a
junior executive at a large bank in an eastern city when seen in therapy.
By this time both parents were dead and she was financially independent.
J could not recall any sexual orientation other than homosexual. She
had first been taught how to masturbate at age 10 by her sister, and al
though she described a pleasurable response, she knew nothing of
orgasm. After she had started to menstruate at 12, her sister began to
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in these instances with her male peers. With her mother dead, her fa
ther successfully isolated by her stepmother, and the few relatives or
family friends apparently indifferent to her unrestrained promiscuity,
she needed some feeling of belonging and she paid the price willingly.
During her sophomore and junior years in high school she was con
stantly in demand as the boys passed her around. At that time, she
apparently was quite willing to be passed around, since she rarely raised
an objection and sex was a part of almost every date.
During the summer before her senior year at high school, she went
out for the evening with a boy she had never met before, and they were
soon joined by four other boys who also were strangers to her. K spent
the night in a summer cottage with the five boys. At first she was afraid
when the boys insisted that she join them in group sexual activity and
when they did not respond to her tearful request to go home. Then she
was embarrassed in the bedroom, both by her forced nudity and by the
requirement that she perform sexually before an audience. But after of
fering what she stated retrospectively was really only token resistance,
she apparently spent the rest of the night as a cooperative sexual partner.
After participating in repeated coital episodes, she was introduced to
fellatio by the group. When the group changed its sexual approach from
intercourse to fellatio, she was overwhelmed with the sense of being
used. This was a feeling that she had never experienced during her coital
episodes with many different boys in the past two years or, for that
matter, even when intercourse had been required by the group members
earlier in the night. Hearing what the boys had to say as they watched
her fellating their friends had an even greater effect on her sense of
personal debasement. Yet, despite the trauma of the verbal denigration
and the exhaustion of long-continued physical activity, she was very
excited sexually when the boys took her home. The episodes of fellatio
had been more arousing than intercourse had ever been. She remem
bered masturbating several times the next day to relieve her tensions,
but her sexual excitation always seemed to return.
Although she thought of little else for weeks, she had no desire to
seek retribution for the group-sex episode. Instead, K completely changed
her lifestyle after the experience. Still only 17, she was mature enough
to realize that once word spread of her group sex experience, and spread
it would, what little reputation she might have had left would be de
stroyed in her male and female peer groups. She also was fearful that
she might be pregnant, for no contraceptive had been used. There was
an additional six weeks of anxiety before she menstruated. Many boys
called her for dates. K refused them all. She transferred to another school
in the city, lived with her father, tolerated his wife, and finished high
school.
K began living on her own at 19. She went to secretarial school and
then moved to another city and got a job in a typist pool for an in
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surance company. Although she was quite attractive, she refused almost
all social opportunities with men. She confined her social activities to
interacting with the women she met at work.
K’s first homosexual experience was with a woman in her forties who
worked for the same company. After several lunches together and one
dinner during which K told the woman of many of her past experiences
with men, K was invited to spend a weekend with the woman. When
she accepted the invitation, she thought she might be approached sex
ually and was resolved to respond to such an opportunity if it developed.
It did. K, who had felt sexually frustrated for over a year, reacted to the
woman’s manipulative approach with the first orgasmic episode she had
ever experienced other than with masturbation.
For the next two months she was with the woman whenever they
could meet. Their sex play did not move beyond the level of partner
manipulation, to which both women were fully responsive. One night
the woman made a cunnilingal approach, and K became quite anxious,
somewhat nauseated, and could not cooperate. She vividly recalled the
sense of being used during the night when she had fellated boy after
boy. The relationship terminated after another month because K con
sistently refused cunnilingus, but she continued to circulate socially
within the homosexual community to which she had been introduced by
the woman.
When K was 23, she had intercourse with one of the married execu
tives of the company in a car on the way home from the company
Christmas party. It was the first heterosexual activity she had experi
enced since the night of group sex. She became pregnant. When the
pregnancy was confirmed she confronted the man, who agreed to sup
port her through the pregnancy.
She left the company and went to a different part of the country, got
a similar type of job, and had the baby—a girl—after an uneventful
pregnancy and delivery.
K never had another sexual experience with a man. Her social and
sexual activities were completely devoted to lesbian opportunities, which
she quickly developed in her new geographic location. She masturbated
regularly, manipulated her partners, was as frequently manipulated to
orgasm by them, but continued to refuse cunnilingus.
As time passed, she dwelt more frequently in her fantasies on the
pseudorape scene of her group-sex experience. As the episodes of fellatio
were relived in detail, she usually became somewhat anxious but also
found herself so highly excited sexually that she began fantasizing the
scene regularly when she masturbated.
But her feelings of anxiety associated with thoughts of oral sex in
creased and in time were transferred from her heterosexual past and ap
plied to her current homosexual opportunities. She could meet, enjoy,
and in time initiate or cooperate in sexual play with a casual partner,
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but after one or two sexual experiences with a new partner she became
anxious and fearful that cunnilingus would be requested or initiated.
Over a period of time, her anxieties increased to such a level that she
began refusing all physical approaches other than mutual masturbation,
an approach that few of her older lesbian acquaintances would accept as
a satisfactory pattern of sexual interaction. Although her social life was
almost entirely confined to lesbian groups that she helped organize or
run and within which she found vital psychosocial support, there was
little sexual interaction with the individual group members.
J and K met at such a lesbian social gathering. The women were
mutually attracted and immediately began spending a great deal of
time together. In three weeks they had told each other of their back
grounds, of their sexual histories, and of their sexual dysfunctions and
anxieties. Since J thoroughly enjoyed K’s daughter and there seemed no
other potential hindrance, the two women agreed to live together. Neither
woman had participated in such a living arrangement previously. J re
acted to the new relationship by sharing her financial independence with
K and her daughter.
Fully cognizant of K’s negative feelings, J played a totally nonde
manding sexual role, letting K set the pace. On her part, K, although
quite anxious, did enjoy masturbating in J’s presence even though J,
try as she would, could not respond successfully in kind. Within six
months’ time K had achieved sufficient security in their relationship to
allow J to approach her with manipulative techniques, which apparently
J enjoyed thoroughly and K responded to freely, although she still had
anxious moments. They had lived together for approximately three years
in a stable, secure relationship before entering therapy.
The two women entered treatment because they were firmly con
vinced that they wanted to spend the rest of their lives together.
They expressed the hope that J would become fully responsive
sexually and that K would lose her anxiety about cunnilingus and
become responsive to this sexual approach.
Therapy was initially directed toward K’s sexual anxiety. At out
set the anxiety seemed of minor moment, particularly in view of
the progress K had already made with J’s cooperation, but as
therapy progressed it was evident that K was still in real conflict.
K was actually at cross-purposes. She had felt totally devalued as
a woman by her group-sex experience with the boys, yet she was
objective enough to realize that she had practically issued an open
invitation to such an experience by her uninhibited promiscuity.
Since she had not experienced fellatio before her pseudorape epi
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sode, oral sex had come to represent the physical aspect of her com
plete humiliation. However, she also stated that she had been
highly stimulated sexually during and immediately following the
fellatio experience and was easily restimulated by reliving the ex
perience in fantasy while masturbating. She had become extremely
anxious when cunnilingus was requested because she felt that she
might be so sexually aroused by the experience that this might force
a return to unrestricted promiscuity, this time of lesbian origin.
And, of course, she anticipated further humiliation. She knew she
had been used by the teenage boys, and she felt threatened that
responding to or initiating cunnilingus would put her in the same
position of being used by women. She did not want her female
friends to view her as an easy mark, as the boys had done.
K felt no sense of regret in relation to her pregnancy. She had
categorized the sexual experience as one of those things that should
not have happened but did, and other than some modest financial
support for her daughter, had made no demands on the father. She
even stopped asking for child support when J was generous finan
cially. At the time the couple was in therapy, the girl had not been
told who her father was or given any information about him other
than that he and K were permanently separated.
Once the guilt that had resulted from the years of promiscuity
was reasonably neutralized, K was encouraged to use her oral sex
fantasies, first with masturbation, then during manipulation by J,
and finally simultaneously with J’s cunnilingal approach. K’s sexual
anxieties were soon neutralized, and she became freely responsive
to J regardless of the manner of stimulation. She reported during
follow-up that as her freedom to respond sexually increased, she
made less use of her fantasy pattern.
J responded well to the sensate-focus approach, despite her previ
ous lack of involvement in sexual activity. She had usually been
approached in a forceful or demanding manner and consistently
had used the same type of approach herself when she attempted to
masturbate. Little time had been taken in reassurance, and there
also had not been a great deal of identification with her partners
except as sex objects. She was now fully committed to her relation
ship with K and was openly pleased that she could play an active
part in releasing K from the self-imposed restrictions of her anxiey
about oral sex.
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J noted that after the first week in therapy she was becoming in
creasingly excited sexually as she and K became more involved in
resolution of K’s anxiety. One night, immediately after K had first
allowed and then responded orgasmically to cunnilingus, J, highly
excited by observing K’s orgasmic experience, masturbated to orgasm
with little difficulty. It was her first orgasmic experience, and her
concept that she was incapable of orgasmic attainment was shat
tered. She was soon responsive to K’s manipulative approaches.
Finally K began approaching J with cunnilingus just at the end of
the two-week acute phase of treatment, and J was multiorgasmic
during the second such approach.
Both women left treatment confident in their sexual responsivity
and firmly committed to the expanding dimensions of their rela
tionship. They looked forward to a full life together and seemed
equally concerned in giving K’s daughter a secure home and full
social and educational opportunities. They planned to talk freely
with the girl about their own relationship when they considered
her mature enough to understand.
This lesbian couple was followed for five years. Their relationship
continued as a source of mutual security. Their patterns of sexual
interaction continued to be mutually stimulating and completely
satisfying for both women. Each woman denied any further inter
est in sexual experience with other partners. The daughter was
denied access to her father both at his request and with K’s agree
ment. J and K’s relationship was discussed with the daughter in
detail.
After treatment the two women decided to expend their energies
on social welfare projects. They have been regularly employed in
such endeavor and have broadened their social horizons to include
male as well as female friends. They interact socially with a num
ber of married couples, with their own relationship an open book.
This is a study of a firmly committed dyad of two lesbian women,
each of whom brought to their relationship the strengths that
the other partner needed. Both women matured psychosocially
as well as psychosexually within the warmth and security of the
relationship. Theirs was a positive response to the treatment pro
gram.
The second lesbian couple that applied to the Institute for treat
ment of anorgasmia with both partners sexually dysfunctional will
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proaches, she was never orgasmic with any of the men she knew before
her marriage.
She was married for six years and divorced her husband primarily
because she had never been sexually satisfied. Her husband was a pre
mature ejaculator and throughout the marriage never evidenced or ex
pressed concern for his wife’s sexual needs. L did not have time to re
spond during coital connection, which she estimated usually lasted for
a minute or less, and she also never achieved orgasmic release from other
stimulative approaches by her husband. Not until divorce proceedings
had been initiated did the husband learn that his wife had been severely
frustrated sexually. She not only had not communicated her need, she
also had practiced sexual fakery and during many sexual episodes had
pretended orgasmic release.
L had continued her almost daily pattern of masturbational release
throughout her marriage except when she was pregnant. She found the
state of pregnancy to be so sexually stimulating that she usually mas
turbated two or three times a day. She had always masturbated in pri
vate, keeping her husband completely unaware of her level of sexual
need and her means of releasing this need.
After the divorce, L was involved with a series of lovers but was un
successful in responding to them sexually at orgasmic levels. She mar
ried a second time three years after her divorce. With this marriage, L
reversed her previous noncommunicative behavior pattern and, deciding
that honesty was the best policy, told her husband before they were
married that she had what she considered to be a high level of sexual
need. She also told him of her lack of sexual relief during her first mar
riage. Although her honesty was to be commended, the timing of her
disclosure could not have been worse. Perhaps the second husband was
initially made anxious at the concept of marrying a woman with an
overwhelming sexual need that he might not be able to meet. He be
came impotent 10 days after the wedding when, despite his every effort,
L had still not achieved orgasmic release and had begun openly
masturbating in his presence. L divorced him after seven months of
marriage, a decision with which he was apparently in full agreement.
There were two more brief, sexually frustrating affairs for L, who
then deliberately terminated all sexual interaction with men. She con
tinued her daily masturbational pattern, which she now was pleasurably
enhancing by fantasizing herself being manipulated despite her objec
tions by various women of her acquaintance, including, at times, her
mother.
L found that her unresolved sexual frustrations were altering her per
sonality and making her socially restless. It was apparent that her effec
tiveness as a mother was being jeopardized, so she made a deliberate
decision to completely alter her lifestyle.
When she was 32, L quietly decided to involve herself in homosexual
3^6 CHAPTER FOURTEEN
never identified the abortionist or the man responsible for the pregnancy.
As expected, this was an overwhelmingly shocking episode in M’s es
sentially colorless and certainly uneventful life. Word of the cause of
death spread quickly through the family’s social circle, and by asso
ciation, M was made to feel almost as guilty about her mother’s sins as
if she had been the one who had obtained an abortion. She resolved
never to have sexual experience with men because the price that had to
be paid was obviously too high.
This resolve lasted about two weeks. M returned to college severely
depressed, and one night while aimlessly walking the campus and openly
crying, she was stopped by a man who was in a class with her and who
asked if he could help. She was caught completely off guard, told him
her story, and promptly “fell in love” while they had coffee. M pursued
the man constantly until he took notice. She responded to his notice
with rapidly developing sexual interest until, two weeks after they met,
she spent the night in his room. Although she had never had any kind
of sexual experience previously, M was orgasmic with manipulation and
with intercourse the first time she experienced either sexual approach.
She was overwhelmed with the intensity and the pleasure of her feelings
and more than ready for further experimentation when the next night
the man told her that he was engaged and was going to be married in
six weeks.
M immediately reverted to all of the sexual “thou shalt nots” that
her mother had taught her. The single night was all the sexual ex
perience she ever had with any man. The more she involuted socially,
the less she was interested in any form of sexual activity. After college
she worked irregularly, traveled extensively, and lived alone until she
met, quite by accident, a woman she had known in college who had re
cently moved to her geographical area. This woman was also single, and
the two women saw each other a number of times socially.
After a brief period of time M, to combat her loneliness, invited the
woman to share her apartment. Before moving in, the woman told M
that she was a lesbian. It didn’t matter to M, who wasn’t really quite
sure what a lesbian was and anyway had no interest in sex.
After some months together, the woman, again with M’s permission,
began bringing an occasional friend home for the night or the weekend.
Although M clearly heard the bedroom noises, she did not recall either
feeling sexually aroused or even sexually curious. One night, after more
than a year of living together, the woman openly moved into M’s bed
in a direct sexual approach. Despite every effort on the woman’s part
and despite M’s clumsy cooperation, M was not responsive.
In the next few weeks the woman did teach M something of female
anatomy and of how to stimulate another woman. Thereafter, M co
operated to release her partner when the partner expressed her sexual
need by coming to M’s bed. Mutual attempts at releasing each other
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the relationship since she has been able to join L in mutually re
sponsive sexual interchanges.
DISCUSSION
MOTIVATING FACTORS
were judged not so much by what they said when applying for treat
ment, but by how they had handled their culturally induced anxi
eties. For example, individuals in socially vulnerable positions, such
as teachers in secondary schools or image-conscious public figures,
were evaluated far more by their actions in response to the pres
sured situation than by the content of their verbalizations. Accord
ingly, the length of time between the client’s determined need for
change in sex-preference and the first contact with a health-care au
thority became an important criterion in evaluating motivation lev
els. If the psychosocially threatened individual or couple sought pro
fessional support within approximately three months or less of the
first suggestion of public or professional exposure, the motivation
for change was presumed to be at a higher level than that of men
or women who procrastinated for six months or more before seek
ing some type of health-care consultation. Many of those who
procrastinated verbalized their motivation for alteration of sexual
preference in the highest terms, but they had actually given such
alteration a less than immediate priority. In other words, if the
primary motivation for altering a sexual preference was derived di
rectly from a presumed need for social or professional survival, there
seemed to be a better chance of client cooperation if there had been
a relatively immediate request for support. If every other means of
coping with the situation had been employed before facing what
the individual obviously thought of not only as the least attractive
but as a finally forced alternative, the therapists had little confi
dence that attempted conversion or reversion therapy would pro
duce a permanent result.
Of course, a number of other factors were considered in evaluat
ing motivation for alteration in sexual preference. An applicant oc
casionally expressed open dissatisfaction with his or her homosex
uality. Reacting to a significant amount of unfortunate sexual or
social experience or both, a few clients not only expressed the de
sire to alter their sexual orientation but wanted to be relatively cer
tain that the change in role preference would be permanent. These
few men and women (there were 7) usually had at hand a desired
heterosexual partner (there were 6) with whom they anticipated
living in a committed relationship. They had decided that arbi
trarily altering sexual preference on their own, without adequate
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could be more broadly based. With two exceptions, men with this
type of motivation were not accepted in therapy.
The uncommitted male applicants who were selected for therapy
with their casual female partners had one motivating factor in com
mon in addition to their concept of having something definitive to
gain by moving into a full heterosexual commitment. They had the
common factor of anxiety—that of fear of performance in a het
erosexual role. Whether the alteration in preference was requested
by a Kinsey 2 with a large amount of prior heterosexual experience
or a Kinsey 6 with none, there was a universal anxiety among the
males accepted for therapy that after their homosexual experience
they might not be able to function effectively with their selected
female partners. In fact, some of the men had attempted inter
course before applying for treatment and generally had been unsuc
cessful in heterosexual interchange.
It is probably true that fears of performance keep many more
homosexually oriented men from experimenting with heterosexual
interaction than we have realized or than might have been admitted
if the men had been openly interrogated. Quite possibly the reverse
may be equally true. Fears of performance and of social opprobrium
keep many men fully restricted to a heterosexual lifestyle who might
otherwise have experimented with homosexual opportunity.
Of course, there were the occasionally expressed motivating fac
tors for role alteration that by their very uniqueness intrigued the
therapists into acceptance of obligation. For example, a man was
accepted who was primarily impotent as a heterosexual. He had
married but could not consummate the marriage. He had tried to
function with other women and failed and then had turned to
homosexual interaction as an ego-salvaging measure. Identified as
homosexual four years later by his still-committed wife, he re
quested support both in neutralizing his established homosexual
orientation and in gaining a sexually functional status as a het
erosexual.
There was also a Kinsey 6 woman who had been primarily anor-
gasmic as a homosexual and who, after living approximately n years
as a sexually active but completely frustrated homosexual, insisted
that homosexuality had nothing to offer her. She stated that she
wanted to live in a heterosexual relationship with a specifically se
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TABLE 15-1
Reversion Conversion
Candidates Candidates
Kinsey Kinsey Kinsey Kinsey Kinsey Total
Applicants 2 3 4 5 6 No.
No. of applicants * 2 15 40 9 4 70
No. refused t 0 4 8 3 1 16
No. accepted 2 11 32 6 3 54
(1968-1977)
* No Kinsey 1 men applied for treatment,
t Overall refusal rate, 22.8 percent.
TABLE 15-2
Year Treated
Dissatisfaction
Therapy One Two Three Four Five Six Seven Eight Nine Ten Total
Reversion 3 2 6 4 5 7 3 5 6 4 45
Conversion 0 2 1 1 0 1 2 0 1 1 9
Total 3 4 7 5 5 8 5 5 7 5 54
(1968-1977)
R E F U SED A P P L I C A T ION S
statistics for at least two reasons: First, homosexual men who were
successful in obtaining treatment elsewhere were not seen at the
Institute; second, these numbers reflect an historical phenomenon
of rejection by health-care professionals that probably would not be
found to the same extent today.
The prejudice of the health-care professions was not as apparent
when support was requested by the dissatisfied homosexual male as
it was when the dysfunctional homosexual male asked for help.
Since this subject has been discussed in detail (see Chapter 13),
there is no need for further exposition.
THERAPEUTIC PROCEDURE
N was a 37-year-old Kinsey 4 male who had been living for seven
years as an unattached homosexual when seen in therapy. Previously,
he had been married for two years and divorced because of sexual inade
quacy. He was a lawyer whose career was being threatened by rumors
that he “didn’t like girls,” and he sought professional support in reorien
tation to heterosexuality.
N was the youngest of three children in a family with few or no
financial resources. He could only describe his childhood as one of con
stant turmoil. He remembered whippings from his coal miner father,
who was an alcoholic and an uncontrolled tyrant in the home. N de
scribed his mother as a woman who lived only to keep the family clothed,
fed, and passively protected and who didn’t always succeed at these
tasks. Fear of the husband-father pervaded the home.
N’s siblings were a brother six years older and a sister 17 months
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older. He had little direct contact with his brother, who began working
in the mines after two years of high school and married at age 18. His
relationship with his sister was much closer. They shared the insecuri
ties of the home and at times were able to provide each other with some
degree of comfort. He felt deserted when she married at 16 in order to
leave the home.
N could not recall a single religious direction. He had never been in
a church.
N seemed always to be separated from his peer group by necessity.
As he grew up, he worked at odd jobs after school, so his opportunities
for social interchange were markedly limited. Since his mother also
worked, his sister was held responsible for much of the housework. Both
N and his sister were whipped repeatedly for what N described as minor
offenses, and his mother was subjected to a number of physical beatings
that severely traumatized both N and his sister.
After the older brother left home, the father began an open incestu
ous relationship with N’s sister despite both her pleas and those of the
mother. About a year later the sister ran away to marry, leaving N alone
in the home.
N continued part-time work to contribute to the family’s support
throughout high school. His grades were excellent, and with the help
of the school principal he was granted a full scholarship at a state uni
versity. He worked his way through the university and—again with a
full scholarship—through law school. Once he entered the university,
he never again lived at home. His mother died during his first year in
law school.
N’s social life was essentially nonexistent throughout his undergradu
ate years. He worked steadily at part-time jobs to help pay for his room
and board and was seriously involved in his course work. His under
graduate academic achievement was of the highest order, and he gradu
ated near the head of a class of many hundreds of students.
N began masturbating at approximately 13 and continued at a rate
of once or twice a week through his teens. In his last year in the uni
versity, he became involved with a girl who was working with him in a
part-time job. After she took the initiative of expressing interest and
providing the opportunity, they began a sexual relationship. N had not
disliked girls, but he simply had had little time for social interaction as
he grew up. Before he met this girl, he had never had a date, kissed a
girl, or had any other form of sexual experience with either women
or men.
N’s social and sexual behavior with his first girl was understandably
clumsy and awkward, but since he could not bring himself to admit
his virginal status, he was easily misinterpreted by his female partner.
He had no concept of female anatomy or, for that matter, of any man
ner of sexual interaction. Since the girl was quite experienced, at least
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by comparison, it was not long before she was criticizing his sexual ap
proaches. At first she quietly suggested alternatives and then, when her
suggestions apparently fell on deaf ears, she told N specifically that he
“wasn’t any good” sexually. Soon thereafter she terminated the rela
tionship.
N had occasional sexual experiences with other women during law
school and for two years after he graduated, but almost all were of the
one-night-stand variety. When he was 26, N was attracted to a secre
tary in the law firm in which he was a junior member. After a six-month
courtship, they married. The sexual aspects of the first few months of
the marriage were approximately a repeat of those of his first sexual
experience. Again he did not admit his profound ignorance of female
sexual needs. His wife began complaining that he hurt her, didn’t give
her enough time, didn’t know how to please her, was only interested in
self-satisfaction, and so forth. Probably, all complaints were justified.
Finally, there was a very angry scene during which N was told that he
simply didn’t know how to treat a woman. His wife told him she was
“tired of being used like a whore.” This statement immediately evoked
memories of his father’s frequent drunken use and abuse of his mother
and sister.
The next time the couple attempted intercourse, N lost his erection
shortly after penetration as he thought of his wife’s accusation that he
was using her like a whore. Within two months N had lost what little
sexual confidence he had ever attained. There were no further erections
other than when he masturbated. N’s wife divorced him after two
years of marriage because he no longer could function sexually. He in
sisted that the divorce complaint read “incompatibility” and was actu
ally relieved to be free of this anxiety-provoking situation. He never at
tempted further heterosexual interaction until he was in therapy.
Over the next two years N masturbated regularly but had no other
sexual experience and buried himself in his career; he also did not take
advantage of any opportunities to gain social experience.
When he was 30, N met a man eight years older who was quite suc
cessful in business. The man soon became very friendly and saw to it
that N was given an opportunity to do a great deal of legal business
that otherwise might not have come his way. This man was married,
but he was also a very active homosexual. He simply seduced the sex
ually naive N. The process started with lengthy discussions of sexual
problems, proceeded to mutual masturbation, and—in two months—to
partner manipulation and fellatio. N consistently refused anal inter
course.
Homosexuality provided an entirely new sexual vista for N. He was
no longer accused of being an unsatisfactory sexual partner. When the
men were together, usually in N’s apartment, sex was quickly initiated
and as rapidly and effectively terminated. N was completely satisfied
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stated that her marriage was the most important aspect of her life
and that no prior sexual reservations, regardless of how ingrained
they might be, would be allowed to stand in the way of a func
tional relationship.
It was suggested to Q that he really had no prior experience with
the potential depth of sexual pleasure that could be realized from a
committed heterosexual situation. He had only to join his wife
without prejudicing the result by recalling her prior sexual rigidity.
His inexperienced but most receptive wife quickly convinced him
that he wanted his marriage as a way of life. As their mutual sexual
comfort increased, so did the communicative base of the relation
ship. For the first time, Q and his wife found themselves communi
cating freely without inhibition and without reservation.
In follow-up, Q reports that he has kept his commitment to his
wife and family. He consistently works at improving their sexual
and social communication in order to contribute to the strength of
the relationship. His wife apparently works even harder at the same
goals.
This was a relatively easy problem in sorting out sexual prefer
ences. In fact, Q’s homosexual orientation really did not pose much
of a problem. His wife’s personal interpretation of religious ortho
doxy was as much if not more of a problem. Fortunately, it was a
problem easily solved by the wife when she realized that her inter
pretation of orthodoxy as well as her husband’s dual sexual prefer
ence were major obstacles to a functional relationship.
This case was chosen to illustrate the fact that there are instances
when the existence of an active homosexual involvement need not
be of significant concern to therapists, if they will place the problem
in proper perspective. It was not Q’s homosexual orientation that
needed therapeutic confrontation; it was the potential strength of
the relationship that had to be emphasized, and every therapeutic
effort was devoted to expanding this potential. Once Q realized
what he had in his relationship with his wife, his homosexual orien
tation was neutralized by his own choice.
CASE REPORT: COUPLE IO
R’s family background was one of both security and trauma. R was
the third and last child (all boys) in a middle-class family. His brothers
were 11 and 8 years older. As a youngster, he remembers feeling either
left out or in the way. He could not recall any instance of affectionate
interchange between his parents, nor did he feel particularly close to
either mother or father. His much older brothers were no source of
identification or support. R’s was indeed a lonely childhood.
When R was 11, his father died, and when he was 14, his mother re
married. By this time both older brothers had left the home, and R
was truly rather than theoretically an only child. During both marriages,
R’s mother was continuously involved in volunteer work. R recalled that
she was rarely at home during the day and was infrequently there in
the evenings. R’s stepfather accompanied her to the evening meetings
and social activities only part of the time. The remainder of the time he
was home with R.
R had an introvertive personality, limited social interests, and no sense
of social comfort. He had few friends, male or female, while in school.
He read a lot, was very much involved in music as a pianist, and earned
excellent grades.
R’s family was strongly committed to the Jewish religion and were
active members of a conservative synagogue. It was in this environment
that his mother and stepfather had met, courted, and married.
When R was 15, his stepfather showed him how to masturbate, and
shortly thereafter R and his stepfather were actively engaged in mutual
masturbation and then in partner manipulation. Their interaction con
tinued on a once- or twice-a-week basis until R finished high school.
During this time, R had no social activity with nor could he recall any
interest in girls.
When R went to college, his interaction with his stepfather was con
fined to an occasional weekend or vacation, so R sought out other homo
sexual opportunities. He was successful in his search, and, fortified by
his positive experiences, continued as a completely committed homo
sexual after he left college. When in need, he cruised the local bars and
the public toilets wherever he was located. He thoroughly enjoyed fel
latio and on a few occasions was the penetratee in anal intercourse. He
never sought the role of penetrator.
R had several jobs, two of which he lost when his ill-concealed homo
sexual orientation was identified. At 26, he decided to return to aca
demic life for postgraduate work in psychology and was successful in
entering a postgraduate program on a fellowship.
His social exposure to women had been negligible. When he thought
it necessary as a camouflage, he occasionally took women to dinner or
to other social events but never involved himself sexually beyond the
level of a goodnight kiss. To protect himself from any possible sexual
demands, he rarely had more than two dates with the same woman.
When R was 28 he met a young woman (23) who also was a very
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talented pianist. They had so much in common that R broke his two-
date rule gladly. In brief, R and the young woman fell in love. But
whenever she vigorously pushed for sexual involvement, he just as
vigorously retreated. After about three months of steady companionship
and of sexual advance and retreat, the young woman confronted R.
She told him that she loved him but believed him to be homosexual,
and she begged him to seek help, stating that she wanted to marry
him.
Overwhelmed with this burst of warmth and offer of commitment,
something he had never encountered in his life, R told the woman the
details of his sexual orientation. The woman, in turn, reported a mod
erate amount of sexual experience with four different men. After their
mutual confession, the two people decided to try to solve their own
problem.
Despite living together for 10 months and then living as man and wife
for 18 months, and despite every sexual effort on his wife’s part, R could
not achieve or maintain an erection of sufficient quality to consummate
his marriage.
The couple applied to the Institute for support. When accepted into
therapy, R was a sexually functional homosexual and a primarily im
potent heterosexual. His wife described herself sexually as a fully func
tional woman.
From a therapeutic point of view, it was unfortunate that the
couple had tried to resolve their own problem. Not only did they
fail, but after the repeated episodes of failure with his wife trying
time after time to force an erection, R had developed severe fears
of performance and had become a constant spectator at every sex
ual opportunity. His wife had separately developed fears for his
sexual performance and had become a confirmed spectator herself.
R also had begun comparing himself negatively with the men
with whom his wife had been active sexually, even though he had
never met them. Not only was R jealous, but he also developed an
acute sense of inferiority in his masculine role socially. He had
never had such feelings of inadequacy before.
Treatment was initiated by attempting to neutralize the negative
input from the coital failures that had occurred while husband and
wife were trying to treat themselves. Both R and his partner be
came fully involved in sensate-focus experiences. As their nonverbal
communication improved, the concept of using the partner’s body
for one’s own pleasure, not to arouse the partner sexually, got
through to R’s wife. She learned to stop trying to force an erection
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S was 28 years old and a Kinsey 6 when seen in therapy with his
casual female partner. He had been accepted in response to his request
for psychotherapeutic support during an attempt to convert to hetero
sexuality.
S was the middle child in a family of three children. He had two sis
ters, one three years older and another two years younger than himself.
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His mother was in full control of the family. The father was described
by S in retrospect as both passive and ineffectual. He earned an ade
quate living for the family but in return was essentially ignored.
The family’s religious commitment was Catholic. His mother was very
active in her church. His father rarely attended services.
S did not remember his childhood with any sense of pleasure. He was
overweight and uncoordinated, and he intensely disliked any manner of
physical contact. His mother dressed him carefully, constantly demand
ing that he not get his clothes dirty. S was essentially rejected by his
male peers, who called him a sissy. He responded by withdrawing from
male social interchange.
S spent his formative years believing himself to be fully committed to
the priesthood. Once past his first year in high school, however, he gave
up the idea of a life of religious commitment. During this time he be
came increasingly afraid of male companionship, yet he secretly ad
mired the muscles of the football heroes. He was labeled a “fairy” long
before he understood the connotation of the term. His manners were
impeccable, his teachers applauded his academic efforts, and he was
generally miserable in school.
Aside from his sisters’ friends, he knew no girls. When S finished high
school he had had no social or sexual experience. He spent one year in
college at a similar asocial level. Then he decided to work in television,
left college, and was successful in obtaining a job in the production side
of the profession. As the years passed, his career prospered.
S first attempted masturbation at age 16. He was unsuccessful and
despite frequent effort was not able to masturbate successfully until just
after he graduated from high school. He never approached a girl or a boy
sexually while he was in school, nor was he ever approached sexually to
his knowledge.
When S was 22 he became strongly attracted to a young man his age
who also had a history of serious difficulties with social interaction when
he was in school. The two friends filled obvious gaps in each others’
lives. After about a year of close companionship, the friend approached
S sexually one night and manipulated him to ejaculation. S thoroughly
enjoyed the experience, and within a month the two men were living
together. The men continued to be active sexually almost on a daily
basis, and both were most pleased with the companionship and sense of
closeness that neither man had ever experienced previously.
S began interacting with other men sexually about a year and a half
after he and his friend started living together. There were no reported
sexual difficulties, nor did his friend offer any objection, for he was en
joying the same state of sexual freedom. Both men felt that they had
missed a lot socially as they went through school and were determined
to make up for some of their lack of sexual experience.
When S was 27 he approached a younger member of the firm where
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he worked, and this man reported S to the head of the firm. S was ter
rified that he might lose his employment. He denied all homosexual
intent, and to prove his point, he began an active dating pattern with
young women in the office. This change in social behavior marked S’s
first social experiences with women. One night one of the women openly
approached S sexually, and this terrified him. Not only was there no
erection, but S apparently had what can best be described as a severe
anxiety attack.
He realized the need for professional help and applied to the Institute
for support. S stated simply that he would have to learn to function
heterosexually if he was to survive socially and professionally. He also
felt cheated by his lack of prior heterosexual experience. When conver
sion therapy was requested, it was explained that the Institute did not
treat homosexual men without female partners. In addition, it was
pointed out that there must be some opportunity for regular sexual ac
tivity after the acute phase of treatment was terminated; just the co
operation of a female partner during the acute phase of treatment would
be of little value.
S decided to continue an overt heterosexual social life, protecting him
self against sexual approaches if possible, until a cooperative partner
could be found that he felt he could trust. He had a few homosexual ex
periences, but they were conducted far from his place of employment.
This search for a female partner in therapy with whom he could con
tinue sexual activity afterward took almost a year. When S was 28, he
reapplied for therapy with a female partner of choice. His apparent
persistence in searching for an available partner distracted the research
team from the deeper issues in the case, and he was accepted in therapy.
DISCUSSION
PARTNERS IN THERAPY
tralized. These are anxieties that develop when the sexually dis
tressed individual tries to hide his or her performance concerns from
a partner.
Potential difficulties in the use of partners in therapy come from
two major sources: (1) The therapists must retain adequate con
trol of the casual or committed partner to keep the partner from
assuming that he or she is yet another therapist. The distressed
homosexual needs a partner in the bedroom as a source of warmth
and support, but not as a coach. (2) It also must be constantly
borne in mind that a casual partner who is cooperating only for the
two-week period of the acute phase of therapy is of limited value.
Of course, if another partner is immediately available, a satisfactory
transition usually can be accomplished. But once the homosexually
distressed client is functioning effectively in a heterosexual orien
tation, there should be no significant interruption in sexual oppor
tunity for at least a two- or three-month period.
SUMMARY
MOTIVATING FACTORS
REFUSED APPLICATIONS
TABLE 16-1
Reversion Conversion
Candidates Candidates
Kinsey Kinsey KinseyKinsey Kinsey Total
2 3 4 5 6 No.
Total applicants * 1 3 9 1 2 16
Applicants refused t 1 1 1 0 0 3
Applicants accepted 0 2 8 1 2 13
(1968-1977)
* No Kinsey 1 women applied for treatment,
t Overall refusal rate, 18.8 percent.
for her desired marriage to succeed and had been pressured into
requesting treatment by a concerned family that was fully aware
of her previous ambivalence in sexual preference. She was counseled
for her family-engendered anxieties and accepted the therapy team’s
position that further therapy was not really indicated. When the
third woman (Kinsey 4) applied for treatment, she was involved
in a major personality conflict with her committed lesbian partner
of eight years. She had selected a man she scarcely knew as a part
ner and requested support in converting to heterosexuality. During
evaluation it became apparent that she was deeply committed to
both a homosexual orientation and to her lesbian partner. She was
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TABLE 16-2
Year Treated
Dissatisfaction
Therapy One Two Three Four Five Six Seven Eight Nine Ten Total
Reversion 0 2 1 1 2 0 1 2 1 0 10
Conversion 0 0 1 0 1 0 1 0 0 0 3
Total 0 2 2 1 3 0 2 2 1 0 13
(1968-1977)
THERAPEUTIC PROCEDURE
T could not recall any significant amount of sexual interest until she
was about 15 years old. She tried masturbating several times, but al
though it “felt good,” she was not orgasmic. There were occasional dates
with boys during high school, but she allowed no sexual activity beyond
kissing and some breast play, neither of which she found particularly
stimulating. She was a moderately successful student, reasonably popu
lar with her peers, but she was not a "joiner.”
When T graduated from high school, she worked at odd jobs for
more than a year and then decided to enroll in secretarial training. She
lived in a small town, so arrangements were made for T to move to a
city in another state and live with an aunt while in training. The aunt
was in her late thirties, had never married, had a good job, a pleasant
apartment, and a number of friends, almost all female.
T worked hard each day in school and enjoyed her new freedom. Her
aunt was very active socially and either had friends at the apartment or
was out many evenings. T was pleased by the warmth of social accep
tance exhibited by several of her aunt's friends.
When T finished secretarial training, her aunt offered her the use of
the apartment while she was looking for a job or for as long as she
wished to stay if she did not want to move back home. T accepted her
offer, soon found a job, volunteered to share some of the expenses, and
felt completely at home.
Previously, T had not given any thought to the fact that at least once
a week a female friend stayed the night with her aunt. Since it was a two-
bedroom apartment, T assumed that the friend who slept with her aunt
did so because she (T) occupied the other bedroom.
One day T fell and strained her back, and that night her aunt gave
her the first backrub she had ever had. There was welcome relief from
the aches of the fall, but when the massages were repeated the next two
nights T felt increasing sexual pleasure. She began lubricating so heavily
she was afraid her aunt would notice. T offered no protest, so the back-
rubs continued for another week or 10 days before her aunt moved
gently but firmly one night to genital manipulation, despite T’s tentative
objections. T was highly aroused sexually by the experience, but not
orgasmic. In a brief period of time she was returning the backrub favor
and responded to her aunt’s careful coaching by manipulating her to
orgasm. T was pleased when she observed her aunt’s orgasmic responses.
Her aunt assured her that she would reach a similar level of sexual
response shortly, but that never happened.
T lived with her aunt for over two years before feeling the need to
express her independence. She moved to her own apartment with the
aunt’s blessing. Her social life continued to involve the women to whom
she had been introduced by her aunt, most of whom were lesbians. In
the privacy of her own apartment she saw these women socially and
accepted those with whom she wished to interact sexually. During
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sexual activity, she always became highly excited but was never orgasmic,
regardless of the type of or the time spent in stimulative approaches pro
vided by her friends. She repeatedly attempted masturbation but with
out orgasmic response.
T was consistently frustrated sexually. After one woman commented
that she (T) took a long time to “come,” she began to fake orgasm by
behaving as she had seen her aunt and her friends act in response to
her stimulation. As time passed, her pattern became one of applying
sexual fakery quickly. This was done in order to cut down the time her
casual companions had to spend stimulating her, since she knew she
would be unable to respond effectively.
T lived for approximately 11 years as a sexually active lesbian without
ever experiencing orgasmic release. For the last three years of this period,
she became increasingly restless. In addition to her continuing sexual
frustrations, she was also disturbed with what she felt was an entirely
too restricted social life.
During the 11-year period, T’s heterosexual experiences consisted of
a few dates with several different men. When approachd sexually, she
froze and would not cooperate. With her lack of sexual confidence
T did not attract many men, and those that she occasionally did attract
quickly withdrew after being overtly rejected sexually.
Finally, at age 30, T decided to abandon her familiar lesbian social
structure and to move into heterosexual society for as long as it would be
necessary to form some objective evaluation of the heterosexual lifestyle.
It took several months of looking and some very anxious moments
sexually before she met and was immediately attracted to a man in his
late thirties who was recently divorced. He had two children who lived
with their mother.
The couple soon were spending all of their time together. After a
number of sexual approaches were made and parried, the man expressed
concern. T, deciding to take a risk, told the man she was a virgin and
then agreed to spend a weekend with him. She did not tell him of her
lesbian orientation. Over the weekend the man, appreciating her ob
vious anxiety and presuming her fearful of loss of virginity, was as gentle
as possible, but he could not penetrate. T was quite disturbed when the
man finally ejaculated after a long-continued play period.
With the failure of a desired relationship at stake, T took an even
greater risk, told the man her entire story, and begged his cooperation
in helping to change her sexual orientation. The man, who by this time
was fully committed to T, offered help in any way he could. The
couple tried to consummate their relationship sexually on two other
weekends but were unsuccessful. T was increasingly disturbed when
ever the man ejaculated, and on the last occasion she became nauseated.
After their third failure at consummation, T asked the man if he would
join her in treatment at the Institute. He agreed without reservation.
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and her vaginismus took 10 days, during which T and her partner
slowly increased their degree of mutual sexual involvement by
nondemanding approaches to the genital organs. On the afternoon
of the tenth day, after T had finished inserting the vaginal dilators,
she lay on the bed resting. There was no sexual activity at the time,
but she suddenly experienced her first orgasm. She was frightened,
did not know what had happened to her, but fortunately was with
a sexually experienced man who thought he recognized the signs
of orgasm. T was in tears when later reassured by the female thera
pist that she had simply experienced her birthright of sexual ex
pression.
That night T tentatively approached her partner sexually and
had intercourse for the first time without any distress. She was
orgasmic in response to manipulation the next day, and about three
weeks after termination of the acute phase of treatment was or
gasmic during intercourse.
Although by definition the man had to be labeled a casual part
ner, since the couple had no formal commitment, he was far from
casual in his approach to T. He was quiet, confident, and comfort
ing. Without his full cooperation a positive therapeutic result would
have been most unlikely.
Aside from her most cooperative partner, T’s support in her al
tered preference role came from the female therapist. Every step of
the treatment program was explained in detail. Such questions as
what was to be looked for and what was to be gained were answered
in detail. Fears were analyzed, anxieties explained, and female anat
omy and sexual response patterns discussed repeatedly. T’s fears of
performance, both homosexual and heterosexual, were approached
directly. Her problems of vaginismus and dislike of seminal fluid
were also dealt with primarily by the female therapist.
As the treatment program progressed, training in the arts of com
munication posed no problem for the couple, particularly since the
bedroom aspects of the communicative interchange went so well.
The male therapist’s responsibility was to keep the male partner in
formed as to the details of the treatment process, suggest attitudinal
approaches to the complexities of T’s transition process, evaluate
treatment progress, and educate and explain as the therapy program
unfolded. Every effort was expended to maintain the male partner
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men were with homosexual men. She did recall that two different half
hearted attempts at intercourse with one man were unsuccessful; she
could not cooperate for fear she might be hurt and bleed again. The two
fiascos left her with even less interest in sexual interaction with men.
When V was 28 years old, she met a junior executive in the manu
facturing firm where she was working. Their relationship was at first
casual, for a few weeks quietly social, and then, with real apprehension
on V’s part, overtly sexual. The man could not penetrate when attempt
ing intercourse. V told him of her traumatic coital episode as a teenager,
but not of her lesbian orientation. The man suggested a visit to a doctor,
and V complied. She was told that there was no physical reason why
she couldn’t have intercourse. Again, the couple tried intercourse, but
the man still could not penetrate. They attempted to terminate the
relationship but soon found that they were too strongly attracted to
each other to separate, so they decided that things would work out
sexually if they took their time.
They married six weeks later. It took another four weeks to consum
mate the marriage. During the first three months of the marriage V was
extremely anxious every time they had intercourse. There was no real
pain, but since she lubricated poorly, there was a good deal of vaginal
irritation. V found herself hoping each coital episode would terminate
quickly. She felt little sexual stimulation and, in a matter of months,
was regularly using artificial lubrication and had assumed a completely
passive role physically during intercourse. She frequently masturbated
in private, but this didn’t seem to bring sufficient relief to her sexual
tensions.
Her husband, aware that V was experiencing little sexual pleasure
during intercourse, frequently tried to develop sexual release through
manipulation or cunnilingus, but these approaches also failed to provide
sexual satisfaction.
V was severely frustrated sexually, and after six months of marriage
began to visit gay bars occasionally. Whenever she had a cooperative
woman as a partner, sexual release was readily accomplished and V was
fully satiated.
The marriage continued in this manner for about three years. V was
frequently depressed, and there were increasingly longer intervals be
tween the marital unit’s sexual episodes.
Approximately four months before requesting therapy, V was seen
entering the apartment of a known lesbian by a friend of her husband’s
who told him of the occasion. When quietly confronted, V not only
freely admitted the episode but then told her husband that she was
fully committed to a lesbian orientation. They agreed to divorce and
separated.
A month later V asked her husband to accompany her in treatment
so that she could learn to function sexually as a heterosexual woman.
She said that she was fearful of being unable to alter her lesbian status,
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but also felt handicapped in being without freedom of choice, since she
had no history of a satisfactory heterosexual experience.
Reluctant to enter therapy, the husband agreed to accompany V as a
last gesture to a marriage that he understood was to be terminated by
mutual consent. Although the therapists were concerned that the hus
band might not cooperate fully, V’s plea that if hers was to be a
lesbian orientation, she wanted it to be by choice, not by default, was
considered sufficient motivation for the Institute to accept the couple
in treatment.
At first, the treatment program did not progress satisfactorily. As
feared, the husband was not fully cooperative; despite the ther
apists’ suggestions and appeals, he seemed to be just going through
the motions. V, sensing this, was as unresponsive to his styl
ized sexual approaches as ever. Near the end of the first week in
therapy, after preliminary attempts to alter this pattern had proved
unsuccessful, the couple was directly confronted; it was suggested
that they either spend the next week in an all-out attempt to pro
vide V with the freedom of choice she sought or that they with
draw from the treatment program.
Thereafter the husband became far more cooperative, and V,
recognizing the crucial nature of her situation, apparently altered
her psychosexual attitudes almost overnight. The couple spent
hours talking about their past lives—something they had never
done—and V took the initiative of showing her husband what
pleased her. She made a number of suggestions to improve his
sexual techniques, which again was something she had not had the
courage to do previously. She had always been afraid that he would
raise the question of where she had acquired her sexual expertise
if she coached him in his sexual approaches. He proved an apt
pupil, for V was orgasmic with manipulation two days later.
This breakthrough pleased V and delighted her husband. It was
the first time that he had seen his wife obviously sexually involved
and fully sexually responsive. His mental picture of V had been of
an initially somewhat anxious and subsequently completely passive
sexual partner who was intent only on providing sexual service as a
“good” wife should. He told V how personally rejected he had
felt by her sexual behavior patterns. She had no idea that he
had felt denigrated as a person by her “let’s get it over with” atti
tude.
Her feelings of rejection had not been directed to him as an in
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DISCUSSION
The therapeutic process has been one of pointing out the po
tential psychosocial advantages of and the specific psychosexual
opportunities in the relationship brought to treatment. Both men
and women have responded well to the Institute’s controlled edu
cational programs. The men had little frame of reference for ap
preciating woman's psychosexual needs. The women usually were
contending with a background of objectionable heterosexual experi
ence, and they had to have their negative sexual impressions neu
tralized and the usual "men are all alike” concepts dispelled.
Further detailed discussion of the advantage of working with a
couple when one member of the unit seeks treatment for sexual dis
satisfaction is superfluous. Nor is there further need to point out
the distinct advantages of having a dual-sex team in control of the
treatment program in these circumstances. These discussions have
been presented previously to the health-care professions in other
publications and reviewed in previous chapters of this clinical sec
tion. Suffice it to say that from a clinical point of view the use of
the dual-sex team in treating problems of homosexual dissatisfac
tion as well as homosexual dysfunction represents a significant im
provement over other therapeutic approaches.
Most homosexual women who applied for support in attempts
to convert or revert to heterosexuality opted for an ongoing hetero
sexual relationship if within the relationship their status could be
established as that of a partner, not merely a provider of sexual
service. If the women who requested support in attempted reversion
or conversion were satisfied psychosocially as well as psychosexually,
they usually remained committed to a heterosexual lifestyle.
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(DYSFUNCTION)
MALE DYSFUNCTION
4. Ejaculatory Incompetence: N= o.
Although this complaint of sexual inadequacy must exist in the
homosexual community, it was not encountered in the 10-year pe
riod of clinical control. Had the problem been presented, it would
have been approached with the techniques originally described for
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FEMALE DYSFUNCTION
SEXUAL AVERSION
The totals of the initial treatment failures and the failure rates
in the rapid-treatment phase of the therapy programs for homo
sexual dysfunction are listed below. For reference convenience, the
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totals are separated first by sex and then recorded as a total re
search population.
12. Total Male Dysfunction: N — 57; F = 4; IFR = 7.0%.
TABLE 17-1
Male and Female Homosexual Dysfunction:
Treatment Failure Statistics
The overall failure rate (10.7 percent) for the treatment of ho
mosexual male and female sexual dysfunction is perhaps higher
than it should be. Once the dysfunctional homosexual is reasonably
sure that he or she will be openly received by the health-care pro
fessional and has confidence that his or her sexual distress can be
alleviated in a high percentage of cases, there should be a marked
increase in applications for treatment, and far better client coopera
tion in therapy. Consequently, failure rates for treatment of homo
sexual dysfunction should shrink. When sufficient professional
experience has been acquired, an overall failure rate of 5 to 8 per
cent can be safely anticipated for similarly constituted treatment
programs.
(DISSATISFACTION)
The initial failure rate during the 10-year period of clinical con
trol for treatment of homosexual dissatisfaction is at a much higher
level than that found in treating dysfunctional homosexuals. This
higher failure rate had been anticipated for a variety of reasons.
There has been a long-established belief among health-care profes
sionals that attempting to support a homosexual applicant in his
or her stated request to move to heterosexual orientation entails a
frighteningly high level of therapy failure. It has also been openly
stated that among the men and women who have converted or re
verted to heterosexuality in response to various treatment programs,
there has been a high percentage of return to homosexuality. The
homosexual community has also adopted and freely propagandized
these cultural concepts.
Other attitudes or concepts exhibited by both clients and thera
pists have been severe handicaps to any treatment program. Poten
tial homosexual clients have presumed a professional bias on the
part of the therapist and, more often than not, such a bias may
have existed. Therapists exhibiting bias have tried to move their
clients to a “better way of life” (heterosexuality) or have ap
proached clients with preconceived ideas of the origin or develop
ment of homosexuality. Clients have sometimes requested pro
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MALE DISSATISFACTION
SEXUAL AVERSION
Just as was noted previously in the statistics for male and female
homosexual dysfunction, the incidence of sexual aversion as a sec
ondary diagnosis for homosexually dissatisfied men was high and
for homosexually dissatisfied women even higher. The statistics re
corded reflect the incidence of therapy failure in symptom reversal
during the rapid-treatment program.
N represents the number of cases of diagnosed sexual aversion;
F, failure to reverse the symptoms; and FR, the failure rate.
The numbers in parentheses represent the cases of each type of
homosexual dissatisfaction treated over the io-year period of clini
cal control.
22. Male Homosexual Aversion
Dissatisfaction
a. Conversion clients (9): N -- 1; F = 1; FR — 100%
b. Reversion clients (45): N - 7; F = 1; FR = 14.3%
23. Female Homosexual Aversion
Dissatisfaction
a. Conversion clients (3): N= i;F = o; FR = 0%
b. Reversion clients (10): N - - 6; F = o; FR = 0%
There is little to discuss in these statistics. The only clinical fail
ure to reverse a sexual aversion was in the case of primary impotence
that also was a treatment failure in a therapeutic attempt at role
reversal.
The high incidence of the diagnosis of sexual aversion in both
male and female clients undergoing reversion therapy has been com
mented upon previously in the discussion of the results of male re
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version therapy. Since these statistics were not recorded during the
program for heterosexually oriented sexual inadequacy, the failure
rate statistics will not be included with those of the treatment pro
gram for homosexual functional inadequacy.
SUMMATION STATISTICS (DISSATISFACTION)
The initial therapy failures and the initial failure rates in treat
ment of homosexual dissatisfaction are listed below. They have first
been separated by gender, then recorded as a total research popu
lation.
TABLE 17-2
Male and Female Homosexual Dissatisfaction:
Treatment Failure Statistics
FOLLOW-UP (DISSATISFACTION)
TABLE 17-3
Program Failure Statistics
ing both ends of the Kinsey spectrum have based their intractable
belief in the existence of physical differences in sexual interaction
entirely upon culturally engendered impressions, for they have had
no personal experience with which to support or deny their socially
reinforced opinions.
The bioethical problem in evaluating supposed physical differ
ences has centered on the fact that until 15 years ago cultural preju
dices were so powerful that their precepts could not even be
challenged in the research laboratory. Therefore, subjective opin
ions, the basic fodder of cultural dictum, have neither been sup
ported nor denied by objectively developed investigative material.
Fortunately, the culture can no longer dictate this degree of blind
obeisance from investigative science.
When we admit to judging the physical aspects of sexual prefer
ence on the shaky foundation of subjective impression rather than
from relatively secure research objectivity, there is another and far
less appealing pattern of human behavior that has consistently de
veloped as a cultural consequence. In order to lend credence to our
personal preference for a particular sexual orientation, we not only
categorically deny value in “the other way,’’ we insist on attempt
ing to discredit it completely. It frequently follows that those
individuals who adhere to opinions and practices that are contra
dictory to our own in this controversial area are personally rejected.
Meanwhile, the small voice of reason has gone unheeded. For
decades, Kinsey 2, 3, and 4 men and women who have had a sig
nificant amount of both homosexual and heterosexual experience
have consistently contended that there was not any difference in
the functional aspects of the two preference roles. These individ
uals may indicate a personal bias for either homosexual or hetero
sexual encounter, but any cultural concept of physical difference in
sexual interaction has been replaced by the more pragmatic process
of enjoying sensual aspects of the sexual encounter, regardless of
the gender of the partner.
We are genetically determined to be male or female and, in
addition, are given the ability to function sexually as men or women
by the physical capacities of erection and lubrication and the in
herent facility for orgasmic attainment. These capacities function
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